@@ХристоМартунковграфЛозенски The usual thing isn't giving up something bad but a legitimate pleasure, we shouldn't ever do morally bad things anyway. It's even better if it saves money for almsgiving!
Hello Fr.Casey! I'm a Catholic who has strayed away from God, seeing your videos over the last few months have really made me want to come back home. Thank you and sending prayers for your mission!
To be honest, I'm not Christian. But I think your videos have a lot of good advice for everyone, and the enthusiasm you have for your faith is honestly refreshing to see.
Only convert to Christianity if you are drawn to the true teachings of Christ. Talk to an ordained religious person, not a lay person. If you have a faith, talk to your religious people. Seek guidance first.
@@amieguerin4107 I should clarify: I'm not Christian anymore. I was raised around people who used their religion to justify being hateful. Now that I'm older, I understand that most Christians are lovely people, but I still don't know if/when I will return to the church. I appreciate your advice to seek guidance, and I will if I ever start to feel drawn to return to the church. I still have a lot of respect for people who are devoted to their faith and find joy in it, but it isn't for me personally, at least not at this point in my life.
@@Mar-uk2ig I hope you find your way back.I recommend just opening the Bible or going to mass... just once.... it wouldn’t hurt. There is so much love to be shared! But I also understand your comment, these videos are relaxing and refreshing regardless. God bless! ❤️
As I'm a new convert, I still really struggle with my old habits of skepticism instead of faith. So this lent instead of giving up something i will be adding something. I will be focusing on my prayer life, praying the rosary and the liturgy of the hours every day.
That is really nice. I think you have chosen a perfect practice for yourself this Lent. From personal experience, I have found that increasing my prayer life has brought me closer to Out Lord in ways that are so surprising. He is mystery, for sure.
Remember you don't join a church to become a christian. You admit you are indeed a sinner, you tell Jesus you are sorry and that you believe that he died for those sins, then you ask Jesus to come into your life and heart. If you are serious Jesus will give you the Holy Spirit to live in you forever. He will teach you as you read the Bible each day. Nothing and noone can take Jesus away from you. Trust Jesus in all things and you will be shocked at what God will do for you. Your friends will see a change in you before you do,so when they ask you, tell them about your savour Jesus. Whenyou die you go straight to heaven. READ YOUR BIBLE EVERY DAY. God bless you and keep you in his hands.
I went to Catholic School for most of my life and went to Mass at least once a week or more during my childhood. Then I was confirmed and it all stopped. Father Casey you’ve rekindled the Holy Spirit in my heart. Thank you.
You are not alone. I too went to Catholic school, and I loved it. I also was confirmed, and then I entered adulthood and exited the Catholic religion. Today, a complete turn around, and I long for the Traditional Catholic Mass. I want nothing else in my life but an increase in my faith, hope and love.
such things are difficult. For me, structure helps fight laziness and procrastination. starting with something small, and increasing. We often won't notice the mental patterns we get stuck in.
Yes, sounds very familiar. I too am lazy and lack discipline. However, I committed myself to saying the Holy Rosary every day. I noticed now, I enjoy doing the Rosary, and it is no longer a chore. The Holy Rosary on TH-cam helps a lot, many to choose from.
And wouldn't it be great that if we started a better way of living we we would intend to continue living that way after Easter--and living as one of the Easter People (Christians).
The best Ash Wednesday sermon I heard was when the priest said don't give up things for Lent, add something. I'd given up soda or Facebook before, but that year I added extra prayer time regularly. Last year I prayed the rosary daily. Those were much better for my spiritual life than the superficial sacrifices
My lack of discipline & lack of prayer in my life are my 2 biggest downfalls. Which, of course, makes me sin more & more (especially when i forget to pray or go to mass). Lately I've been working on praying more often & trying to keep the same mass schedule, although some days are harder than others.
When I was becoming a Catholic, I remember it was the night before Ash Wednesday and I had RCIA And I told my teacher that I didn’t know what to give up for lent and she said “don’t obsess over it, I don’t give anything up I just do something simple like add more to my prayer time.” I do that I try to see what I can do more and not give something up
My favorite point in the video. “If Jesus were to walk up to you today and invite you to walk with Him, what would you have to let go of?” What a great question to ask!
Many years ago a priest made this statement in his homily: "Lent isn't about giving something up but in giving something better." He then went on to suggest that we find ways to be a more thoughtful neighbor, a more loving spouse or parent, a helping hand to someone who needs it, refreshing one's relationship with God. Those are indeed things Lent "expects"--to in some way advance the Kingdom of God so that the Resurrection at Easter makes sense--and has value for all of us.
I'm quitting smoking. I'm having 4 each day, and cutting to zero on Wednesday and thereafter - yikes. But I'm doing it because God gave me this body and my discipleship depends on my health. Amen.
Good for you! I have been a non-smoker since Jan 31, 1987 and quit cold turkey at that time. I can still feel the withdrawal to this day when I think about it. However, after 3 days the withdrawal was over and I have never looked back. Wanting to quit is the biggest part of it all, so it sounds like you will be very successful. Wishing you well!
The last two years I gave up rice, pasta, bread, sweets, and soda. It gets rough but I use it to help grow my will power and prove I have more in me than I am giving.
With regards to what Fr. Casey said, you might want to think of it another way. Say if we focus on more prayers in your life to be closer to God during Lent then that automatically decreases our time with socmed. In my opinion this is what Fr. Casey meant so that its more than just a checklist for Lent
Yes! When I deleted all my social media (Facebook and Instagram) last September, it was a lifesaver. By looking down at my cellphone constantly, i was never focussing on God. Even if I made time, my mind was always on posts, and likes. This has helped my focus tremendously, and I gained time that I lost.
I’ve never been good at Lenten promises and it comes from a place of bitterness and envy. To explain, ever since I was 5 I have had to be prodded with needles and given injections 3 or 4 times every single day. I was never like everyone else so why should I have to give up anything if I couldn’t live a ‘normal’ life? So for years I assumed, like fasting, I was exempt from lent, it didn’t apply to me because I already had to live with chronic illness, pain and uncertainty. I still have this mindset despite knowing that lent isn’t about punishment or a ‘giving things up’ contest. I know I still harbour a lot of bitterness and grief, I live with that every day too, but it doesn’t mean that I can’t use this lent as a time to pray and hopefully let go of some bitterness. I know I need to try.
I'm one of the Protestant subscribers to this great channel, and based on the comments, I'm sure I'm not the only one. Although I doubt I'll ever convert to Roman Catholicism, it provides a window on a perspective that has escaped me most of my life. I urge my Protestant friends to learn more about the Catholic faith, if for no other reason than to gain a greater understanding of the underpinnings of their own faith. The fact is, most Protestants are woefully ignorant of their own Church history. Heck, I didn't even know what a Church Father was until about 12 years ago, when I started to do my own internet research. I remember when it fully dawned on me that up until about 500 years ago, if you were a Christian, you WERE a Catholic. The chasm of differences in approach to faith (Justificatio sola fide, for instance) is unnecessarily wide. Not that we have to agree on everything, but a respectful understanding is way overdue. That being said, this channel is different. More than elaborating on history and dogma, it gives me the feel of what it's like to be a practicing Roman Catholic. I appreciate Fr. Casey's calm, straightforward humanizing of a world that has been so far removed from my experience.
When I taught 4th grade eons ago I always encouraged my children to undertake a new activity that would give them and others joy. One example, if you want to learn to juggle, go for it; practice calligraphy or handwriting, yes; develop your talent in drawing, art. Each time they undertook a "hobby" they give up an hour or their time to grow in God's creative life.
I have decided awhile back to surrender more of myself to Jesus and asking Him to show me what is needed to be surrendered ..We all have fallow ground in our hearts !!💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💚💚💚💚💚💚🙏🙏🙏
You are so genuine and authentic. I am trying to be more patient and calm myself down for Lent. I already picked up my daily Rosary, my daily Bible Study and My prayer of the hours I do not do them all but I do as much as I can. As for praying I pray laying in bed, showering, shaving etc. because as someone once said there is no time like the time. I enjoy my conversations (prayers) with God. Isn’t that what its all about conversing with God. Love you Father Casey. Keep up the good work!
7:10 - Man, thank you for your humility and your realness about prayer life, even as a professed Religious. I've got you and Fr. Pat in my prayer intentions list, and your witness is needed and very appreciated. I miss spending time with the friars in college and on my visits to Guatemala but your TH-cam channel helps me stay connected to the spirit of the Order!
You just ruined my lent plan, I wanted to give up chocolate! Now I need a new plan before wednesday 😅 I need more time of prayer. Building a significant relationship with Christ again instead of just asking for things and being vaguely grateful. Then I guess I need giving up something to make time. I have to figure it out.
You could however give up these things knowing that one day you must give up things in this life and it will make you more disciplined and what you save your money on from giving up those things you can give to charity then once Lent is over you should continue some of those practices throughout the year
@@carissahanson9887 Yes, I already do that every year with other kind of food. I simply keep eating chocolate cereals for breakfast every day minus fridays, and fr Casey convinced me renouncing also to that wasn't the best addition to my plan. Don't worry, no one is trying to eliminate fasting ;-)
I think the simple fact of not having couple pleasures in your life is remind you of how great is to have them in the first place. When you miss something, that is when you feel how much a difference is doing. Being more grateful for something you forbid having, seeing it isnt for given makes a good practice still.
A few years ago, I decided that instead of giving up something small for Lent I would read my Bible every day. This began a wonderful morning devotion habit that I have recently let slide. This video has inspired me to pick it up again. Thank you and God Bless!
Perfect timing father! I’ve been praying about what to do this Lent and I decided that I will pray the Liturgy of the Hours every day. As a high school student, this will be very challenging, but I can’t wait to see the fruits that come from it!
I first started the Hours when I was in high school, too. Usually, I was/am only able to get to one of the hours each day to really "pray" the words. :)
A Franciscan friend told me just last year, "If the devil can't make you bad, he will make you busy." I have been a Martha for most of my life so I need to remember that Jesus said that Mary chose the better part that would not be taken from her. It isn't any easier in modern society to spend time at the feet of Jesus. There is never a shortage of Marthas including the one inside of me complaining, but unless I seek Jesus first and spend time at His feet, I and everything else I try to do just falls apart.
This video popped up right when I needed it. I’ve been trying to figure out what to do for Lent, as I wanted to do something to align my life closer to God. This should be a period of transformation in our hearts rather than simply trying to give something up. Wonderful topic and explanations Fr.!
Thank you, Father Casey, not only for this message to all of us, but for sharing some vulnerability and yourself. Not only is Lent about taking things away; I find it is about what GOOD we can ADD. We take away the bad things and replace them with or add good things. I struggle with prayer some myself and need to do more. I'll be sure to add you to my prayer intentions that your prayer life will be rekindled. Please pray for me also. Thank you and God bless.
5:40...last year I gave up giving up on Christ. Back T church for 1 year. Learned a lot and met some great people. Especially getting to know Christ and the beauty of our Church.
1. Prayer: a highest priority, something I desperately need to do! 2. Fasting throughout the week: to develop discipline 3. Tithing: my first fruits belong to God
I’ve already given up bread for my health I was eating it non stop. I also am doing the intermittent fasting. So I figured I’ll add to my life. I have never tried to pray the Rosary on a consistent basis. So that is what I will be doing for lent . your video is very inspiring. Doing something for life and to make my life better is such a great goal. Thank you.
Full disclosure - I'm an Anglican who stumbled onto this channel probably because of the youtube algorithm. But I have to say it was good to be reminded of the point of giving something up for lent. I also want to say thank you for your honesty about your own flaws - it reminded me that we all have things in our spiritual life to work on. I hope and pray your lent journey brings you closer to God.
"You'll end up just making an idol out of a spiritual practice"....🤔 This deserves more discussion, please. can you please expand on this topic? I think it deserves its own video.
Thank you very much. I left the Catholic church a long time ago and joined an Evangelical church since I did not think that decipleship is practiced in the Catholic church. Over the years I have recognized that there was a lot of hubris and judgementalism involved on my side. The theology is so much deeper and more mature in the Catholic church than anywhere I have seen or heared in any other church. I have read the Bible a few times and heard many sermons in different churches. But then I hear your Focus videos and I am just stunned how much you put in each of them. I am as sure as I can be about anything that God is using you as a tool to help me and probably a lot of others to understand His will.
Lent has always been one of my favorite seasons. Even though it isn't the start of the liturgical year, it feels like a new beginning. I'm a fan of the intentionality of it, and that it forces my faith to manifest in my life. There is also a degree of commitment that I have during lent that I simply lack when making resolutions at other times. When I say that, the implication isn't that lent is a time for crash diets or self-improvements, but rather when I chose to break a bad habit for God, rather than for my own desires, I was able to do so. I think there is merit in the temperance that comes with choosing something to give up for lent, an act of sacrifice, but also an act of will. I agree with Fr. Casey that what you give up should be about more than just making yourself miserable, and that there is no merit in it if you are not doing it for God. Part of the message of this video is that you shouldn't be giving something up for lent, you should be giving it up for life. And while that's true, in that we are called to always resist temptations and always avoid sin, the temperance gained through committing to a sacrifice through lent does help you to resist other temptations, as also is discussed in the video. But perhaps the most interesting part of this video for me was to hear that a friar could be struggling in his prayer life, for the main thing I hold onto as clear evidence against me being called to religious life is my lack of ability to maintain a good prayer life.
Thank you Fr Casey. I’m struggling with procrastination in my university studies. I will also start having discipline and getting inspiration. I’ve been suffering because I’m not where I wanted to be, but I’m sure I’ll overcome it. Thank you for opening my eyes for this Lent!
"Lent is not about living the Cross, it's about preparing for the Resurrection." Oh, how true those words are, and I can't wait until everyone knows that's what Lent is all about!
Thank you Fr. Casey. I am an Eastern Orthodox preparing for our Lent, and your talk is just the kick in the pants that I needed to reevaluate how I was going to spend it. With your permission, I hope to share your video with others in our Orthodox parish. God bless 🙏
Father Casey, thank you for your channel. I am Protestant, but I often find your videos, including this one, very practical. Just know that you are having an impact beyond Catholics. That doesn't mean that i agree with everything the RCC teaches, but I have a huge respect for persons like yourself and Mike Schmitz. Thank you again for this message.
Instead of giving up something material, I will be giving up my current mindset of procrastination. I wasn't like this until the lockdown and online classes have made me feel disconnected and lazy. I need to get my life back together for my sake, for my studies and for God.
It's my first Lent, almost through my first year as a Catholic (though I still am entering the church). Thank you for this. I barely knew what Lent was last Sunday. I can't say the same anymore.
Forst thought when seeing the title: Father Casey has picked a controversial title again ;-) Well, second thougth actually because I first was confused. Now I'm interested in what is to come.
This is one of your most powerful messages as I have followed your through the Covid crisis. As we prepared for a first ever Ash Wednesday without Ashes due to Texas snow storm I told my husband we didn't need to give up more this Lent. I said I had already given up alot this year in lock down. In years past I have broken my addictions to chocolate and Dr Pepper so those small sacrifices did help me limited if not totally give up some vice for life. Your message challenged to give harder things in my attitudes and disciplines of life. So maybe I will give up some things.
Father, I been with you for several years. You are responsiblefor my returning to the Church affter 62 yers. You also have me regreting not staying in the seminary...But I am happy I met you (via video) and I am getting stronger in my Faith. And have a renewal of Prayer and because of other situations am only able to Attend Mass by television THANK YOU
I've been returning to the church over this year partially thank to finding your videos. I always found the Easter and lent seasons very powerful and am really looking forward to being able to fully experience it this year (I'm 19 and because of the pandemic I couldn't have the 1st proper experience of easter as an adult last year). Thank you for bringing the faith to so many people.
I live in mortal sin of being a sloth for many years. Your message REALLY hit the target. My sin keeps me away from Christ. I pray that I will completely stop living in my current situation and turn to God for total change 🙏
I'm not a Catholic, but exploring its teachings as I am thinking of entering the Church (I was raised Protestant). I will 'participate' in Lent this year, and give up alcohol (I am a big drinker). I also hope to spend more time in prayer and study of the Bible.
Welcome to the Church. I hope that you were able to keep your Lenten fast but don't worry about failing, just take one day at a time. And just remember that you are in good company. Some of the most intelligent men in history have taken the same path, men who studied the Catholic faith trying to prove it wrong, and then they saw the truth and became Catholic. There are many really good sites on youtube where you can learn more about the Catholic faith. I will pray for you.
Thank you, Fr. Casey. This makes sense and helps me understand what Lent is all about. I used to be giving up something (or things) just for the Lenten season. After having watched your video, I am more inspired to become a better follower of Christ. Praying for you and your congregation. God bless you all!
Giving things up for me is a good thing. It helps me to appreciate having more than enough, especially foods that are not necessary to survive. I save the money up and give it away.
Definitely felt like you were talking directly to me. I know what I need to change, but I have been unable (unwilling) to make the change. I think it all needs to start with focusing on prayer.
I love the honesty and authenticity of your messages Father Casey. ♥️ Your explanations are so profound, yet so relatable and can be understood by everyone. Blessings on your Lenten journey this year. Thank you for all you do. 🙏🏼 God bless you always!!
Giving up social media could be good for the soul as it’s so often a realm of harsh words and intolerance. A bit more complicated now that it’s the medium for a lot of online worship.
Your goals sound similar to mine and I have in the past found Lent is a good chance to build better habits, and have used it as a time to focus before some years its very successful, sometimes I slip back into bad habits some time after Easter but I'm more able to discipline myself during Lent than other times of year.
I LOVE THIS! Years, like 30, I had dialog with a Catholic coworker who abstained from meat on Fridays and a pleasure for lent. I will sacrifice what will help me be more disciplined. To obey is better than sacrifice.
As someone who also struggles with prayer, it is very comforting to hear that you have trouble as well, Father! It gives me hope that I will be able to get back on track! Thank you for sharing this with us! :)
Hello Father, I think there is a sense of urgency if we do Lent resolution within the 40 days, and this urgency helps. If we try to do it indifinitely, we may fail several times and then give up on ourselves. (Of course there is nothing impossible in God) I do like it that you emphasized that the goal is to be closer to Christ.
Your words are so comforting & truthful knowledge. People don't seem to understand that patience is an acquiring quality , that is determined by your discipline & strength in willpower in our faith for God & humanity. Everybody , has their time & way of quitting a habit , sin or inequity , but at the same time people expect for rapid results , without taking the consequences in accordance like stress , losing faith , side effects , etc....The best solution for me is to pray & ask forgiveness every night & read the holy scriptures of the bible , and keep loving thy neighbor . Thanx & God bless .
I appreciate the insight! I am in fact a Protestant that enjoys your videos. I agree whole heartedly! A few years ago, I added a specific time of prayer during Lent....and allowed it to become a habit that I keep to this day. I will definitely be sharing this with a friend who was just asking about Lent.
@@riley.p.p I have to admit that my response was somewhat ... well ... actually quite insensitive. So sorry for that. But "radical repentance" ... that does not sound like a source of happiness either.
@@philipm7783 While I imagine your comment is coming from a genuine hope to help someone, even licensed psychologists recognize the importance of religion in the lives of religious people. If someone is truly believing of any particular faith and struggling with guilt for “sins” either real or imagined can be successfully addressed through council with their religious leadership. Not at all discounting professional psychologists and psychiatrists but it is not for nothing that the majority of priests heading parishes have degrees in theology and counciling. Disregarding person views and beliefs is a common and painful mistake many of us make in trying to help people with personal pain, and telling people their beliefs are wrong more than likely just pushes them farther from help.
This is an amazing explanation that puts into perspective the intentions that we should center our Lent around. This recalibrates all that I offer. Thank you Fr. Casey.
Am definitely giving something up for life. Your videos keep getting better the more I watch, the better they get. Thanks for your teaching and may God continue to guide and lead you in his spirit through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Well said, I thought about the giving up thing many years. To me I thought we should do something. What you are saying now is not what we as children in the catholic church. I have learned this in another church. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, they are worth spreading all around the catholic churches.
I stopped "giving up" years ago. I chose instead to "take on"... I take on more prayer time, more daily mass, more adoration, etc, with the hope of maintaining the practice beyond the 40 days. I felt that whenever I "gave up" something, I felt the need to then over-indulge in it as soon as Easter hit, which completely erased the whole point of lent. Not to mention, Easter became the day where I get to eat fast food again, and I was distracted from the true purpose. Every year on Ash Wednesday people ask me what I gave up, and do not understand when I say nothing. Thank you for this video.
I'm not a Christian but I was raised one so I celebrate all their holidays. And i take part in lent. This year I'm giving up processed / junk foods. It's boost my body for the good.
Everybody's gotta start somewhere. A good habit starts with something good. If it creates a lasting relationship with God. I like your message, very much, Father.
I remembered that my mother used to tell me that God would love my small sacrifice of giving up something during lent but it never felt that way to me because I couldn’t wait for lent to be over. I felt like a was only putting things on hold, I was not doing any good or ever lasting changes to be closer to my Lord. This video has help me see what I must truly give up this year, so thank you.
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“Don’t give up anything for Lent, give something up for life.” That’s pure gold!
Truth!!
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Truth!
And I hear what you say about discipline in little things. I may need to join you on your second task as I have the same failings there.
Perfectly said! Giving up something bad for 40 days then resuming that same habit is but a useless and pointless thing.
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The usual thing isn't giving up something bad but a legitimate pleasure, we shouldn't ever do morally bad things anyway. It's even better if it saves money for almsgiving!
Hello Fr.Casey! I'm a Catholic who has strayed away from God, seeing your videos over the last few months have really made me want to come back home. Thank you and sending prayers for your mission!
Welcome back Melissa - Jesus has been searching for you, like the shepherd looking for a lost sheep
Come back home! You are always welcome and always loved :-)
That is wonderful!!! Congratulations ♥️
Welcome back! I'm so happy for you!
Come home! Come home, Melissa. I'm praying for you.
To be honest, I'm not Christian. But I think your videos have a lot of good advice for everyone, and the enthusiasm you have for your faith is honestly refreshing to see.
You should join ❤️🤍
We want you, my friend!
Only convert to Christianity if you are drawn to the true teachings of Christ. Talk to an ordained religious person, not a lay person. If you have a faith, talk to your religious people. Seek guidance first.
@@amieguerin4107 I should clarify: I'm not Christian anymore. I was raised around people who used their religion to justify being hateful. Now that I'm older, I understand that most Christians are lovely people, but I still don't know if/when I will return to the church. I appreciate your advice to seek guidance, and I will if I ever start to feel drawn to return to the church. I still have a lot of respect for people who are devoted to their faith and find joy in it, but it isn't for me personally, at least not at this point in my life.
@@Mar-uk2ig I hope you find your way back.I recommend just opening the Bible or going to mass... just once.... it wouldn’t hurt. There is so much love to be shared! But I also understand your comment, these videos are relaxing and refreshing regardless. God bless! ❤️
As I'm a new convert, I still really struggle with my old habits of skepticism instead of faith. So this lent instead of giving up something i will be adding something. I will be focusing on my prayer life, praying the rosary and the liturgy of the hours every day.
Love this approach. Giving sth up has no point if it doesnt bring us closer to God in prayer
That is really nice. I think you have chosen a perfect practice for yourself this Lent.
From personal experience, I have found that increasing my prayer life has brought me closer to Out Lord in ways that are so surprising.
He is mystery, for sure.
That's so beautiful. I particularly love The Liturgy of the Hours.
May God be with you throughout this journey you are about to make Amen
Remember you don't join a church to become a christian. You admit you are indeed a sinner, you tell Jesus you are sorry and that you believe that he died for those sins, then you ask Jesus to come into your life and heart. If you are serious Jesus will give you the Holy Spirit to live in you forever. He will teach you as you read the Bible each day. Nothing and noone can take Jesus away from you. Trust Jesus in all things and you will be shocked at what God will do for you. Your friends will see a change in you before you do,so when they ask you, tell them about your savour Jesus. Whenyou die you go straight to heaven. READ YOUR BIBLE EVERY DAY. God bless you and keep you in his hands.
I went to Catholic School for most of my life and went to Mass at least once a week or more during my childhood. Then I was confirmed and it all stopped. Father Casey you’ve rekindled the Holy Spirit in my heart. Thank you.
You are not alone. I too went to Catholic school, and I loved it. I also was confirmed, and then I entered adulthood and exited the Catholic religion. Today, a complete turn around, and I long for the Traditional Catholic Mass. I want nothing else in my life but an increase in my faith, hope and love.
@@iesusegoconfidoinvobis4309 Visit your local orthodox church you'll find traditional unchanged catholicism there.
To the question: what is preventing me from following Jesus as I would like? Laziness and lack of constancy. I would like to work on this this Lent.
Procrastinating is my vice too.
@@IONov990 It might be one of mine, too. I am not sure. I will think about that, tomorrow.
Yes, Slothfulnicess is bad, we may cause the sin of omission due to our lazy and slothful nature.
such things are difficult. For me, structure helps fight laziness and procrastination.
starting with something small, and increasing. We often won't notice the mental patterns we get stuck in.
Yes, sounds very familiar. I too am lazy and lack discipline. However, I committed myself to saying the Holy Rosary every day. I noticed now, I enjoy doing the Rosary, and it is no longer a chore. The Holy Rosary on TH-cam helps a lot, many to choose from.
A priest told me once "don't give up something for Lent, instead, DO something for Lent." I've tried taking that advice every year.
And wouldn't it be great that if we started a better way of living we we would intend to continue living that way after Easter--and living as one of the Easter People (Christians).
Yes I I heard a priest say that n makes a lot of sense to me now.
We were taught that in Catholic high school. I decided to say the rosary every single day, and I never stopped.
I'm giving up Protestantism.
Now you won't be longer protesting all day!
Ok, I'm sorry, I had to say it.
But, I am thankful what you learned there (good or "bad") that has brought you to a new expression of faith.
Welcome Home
This is an underrated comment.
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"Giving something up isn't the goal, it's the guide." That is also gold that I don't see a lot of people pointing out.
The best Ash Wednesday sermon I heard was when the priest said don't give up things for Lent, add something. I'd given up soda or Facebook before, but that year I added extra prayer time regularly. Last year I prayed the rosary daily. Those were much better for my spiritual life than the superficial sacrifices
Amen to that!
I pray for those who give up drugs and alcohol addictions.
My lack of discipline & lack of prayer in my life are my 2 biggest downfalls. Which, of course, makes me sin more & more (especially when i forget to pray or go to mass). Lately I've been working on praying more often & trying to keep the same mass schedule, although some days are harder than others.
'Don't give up something for Lent... Give up something for life.' Excellently well put. Well done Casey and thank you. Best wishes for Lent.
When I was becoming a Catholic, I remember it was the night before Ash Wednesday and I had RCIA And I told my teacher that I didn’t know what to give up for lent and she said “don’t obsess over it, I don’t give anything up I just do something simple like add more to my prayer time.” I do that I try to see what I can do more and not give something up
My favorite point in the video. “If Jesus were to walk up to you today and invite you to walk with Him, what would you have to let go of?” What a great question to ask!
Amen!
My phone
Anxiety, how do I get rid if that?
Many years ago a priest made this statement in his homily: "Lent isn't about giving something up but in giving something better." He then went on to suggest that we find ways to be a more thoughtful neighbor, a more loving spouse or parent, a helping hand to someone who needs it, refreshing one's relationship with God. Those are indeed things Lent "expects"--to in some way advance the Kingdom of God so that the Resurrection at Easter makes sense--and has value for all of us.
I'm offering up my sacrifice this Lent for my sons to grow in faith and repent go to confession and come back to the Sacrifice of the Mass.
When he starts talking about being a gluttonous person who needs to be a better steward of the body God gave us....🙋🏻♀️😳😔
ditto girlfriend!
Me too!
Yesss!!
I'm quitting smoking. I'm having 4 each day, and cutting to zero on Wednesday and thereafter - yikes. But I'm doing it because God gave me this body and my discipleship depends on my health. Amen.
God bless you! This is hard but with His help you can do it!
Good for you! I have been a non-smoker since Jan 31, 1987 and quit cold turkey at that time. I can still feel the withdrawal to this day when I think about it. However, after 3 days the withdrawal was over and I have never looked back. Wanting to quit is the biggest part of it all, so it sounds like you will be very successful. Wishing you well!
The last two years I gave up rice, pasta, bread, sweets, and soda. It gets rough but I use it to help grow my will power and prove I have more in me than I am giving.
I think giving up social media for most people would be a good thing Lent or not.
I’m thinking to do this exact same thing however my side hustle is on creating TH-cam videos so I’ll have to pre plan How I would do it
With regards to what Fr. Casey said, you might want to think of it another way. Say if we focus on more prayers in your life to be closer to God during Lent then that automatically decreases our time with socmed. In my opinion this is what Fr. Casey meant so that its more than just a checklist for Lent
Yes! When I deleted all my social media (Facebook and Instagram) last September, it was a lifesaver. By looking down at my cellphone constantly, i was never focussing on God. Even if I made time, my mind was always on posts, and likes. This has helped my focus tremendously, and I gained time that I lost.
@@ReaganVFilms maybe make TH-cam videos bring others to Jesus. Share God with others...
Honestly I wish the majority of the human race gave up social media.
Do You know how great that would be for the world?
I’ve never been good at Lenten promises and it comes from a place of bitterness and envy. To explain, ever since I was 5 I have had to be prodded with needles and given injections 3 or 4 times every single day. I was never like everyone else so why should I have to give up anything if I couldn’t live a ‘normal’ life? So for years I assumed, like fasting, I was exempt from lent, it didn’t apply to me because I already had to live with chronic illness, pain and uncertainty. I still have this mindset despite knowing that lent isn’t about punishment or a ‘giving things up’ contest. I know I still harbour a lot of bitterness and grief, I live with that every day too, but it doesn’t mean that I can’t use this lent as a time to pray and hopefully let go of some bitterness. I know I need to try.
Bless you 🙏🏴
It kind of makes me feel good to know that even a friar struggles with prayer
I'm one of the Protestant subscribers to this great channel, and based on the comments, I'm sure I'm not the only one. Although I doubt I'll ever convert to Roman Catholicism, it provides a window on a perspective that has escaped me most of my life.
I urge my Protestant friends to learn more about the Catholic faith, if for no other reason than to gain a greater understanding of the underpinnings of their own faith. The fact is, most Protestants are woefully ignorant of their own Church history. Heck, I didn't even know what a Church Father was until about 12 years ago, when I started to do my own internet research. I remember when it fully dawned on me that up until about 500 years ago, if you were a Christian, you WERE a Catholic. The chasm of differences in approach to faith (Justificatio sola fide, for instance) is unnecessarily wide. Not that we have to agree on everything, but a respectful understanding is way overdue.
That being said, this channel is different. More than elaborating on history and dogma, it gives me the feel of what it's like to be a practicing Roman Catholic. I appreciate Fr. Casey's calm, straightforward humanizing of a world that has been so far removed from my experience.
When I taught 4th grade eons ago I always encouraged my children to undertake a new activity that would give them and others joy. One example, if you want to learn to juggle, go for it; practice calligraphy or handwriting, yes; develop your talent in drawing, art. Each time they undertook a "hobby" they give up an hour or their time to grow in God's creative life.
I have decided awhile back to surrender more of myself to Jesus and asking Him to show me what is needed to be surrendered ..We all have fallow ground in our hearts !!💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💫💦💚💚💚💚💚💚🙏🙏🙏
"Lent is not about living the cross, it's about preparing for the resurrection."
BA-DA-BING BA-DA-BOOM!!!!!
YES
*laughs in catholic*
This is great! I’m 31 years old and this is the first time I’m hearing explicitly how lent is supposed to be used. Thank you father!
You are so genuine and authentic. I am trying to be more patient and calm myself down for Lent. I already picked up my daily Rosary, my daily Bible Study and My prayer of the hours I do not do them all but I do as much as I can. As for praying I pray laying in bed, showering, shaving etc. because as someone once said there is no time like the time. I enjoy my conversations (prayers) with God. Isn’t that what its all about conversing with God. Love you Father Casey. Keep up the good work!
It is possible to pray while exercising. I find that I have some great conversations with God while I run.
7:10 - Man, thank you for your humility and your realness about prayer life, even as a professed Religious. I've got you and Fr. Pat in my prayer intentions list, and your witness is needed and very appreciated. I miss spending time with the friars in college and on my visits to Guatemala but your TH-cam channel helps me stay connected to the spirit of the Order!
You just ruined my lent plan, I wanted to give up chocolate! Now I need a new plan before wednesday 😅
I need more time of prayer. Building a significant relationship with Christ again instead of just asking for things and being vaguely grateful. Then I guess I need giving up something to make time. I have to figure it out.
But on the plus side, now you don't have to give up chocolate.
Oh me too. It took me long enough to think what to give up this year.
You could however give up these things knowing that one day you must give up things in this life and it will make you more disciplined and what you save your money on from giving up those things you can give to charity then once Lent is over you should continue some of those practices throughout the year
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@@carissahanson9887 Yes, I already do that every year with other kind of food. I simply keep eating chocolate cereals for breakfast every day minus fridays, and fr Casey convinced me renouncing also to that wasn't the best addition to my plan. Don't worry, no one is trying to eliminate fasting ;-)
I think the simple fact of not having couple pleasures in your life is remind you of how great is to have them in the first place. When you miss something, that is when you feel how much a difference is doing. Being more grateful for something you forbid having, seeing it isnt for given makes a good practice still.
I wish to become a monk someday, I like watching all your videos, thank you very much father.... I pray Christ strengthen you each day to do more
bless you brother!
A few years ago, I decided that instead of giving up something small for Lent I would read my Bible every day. This began a wonderful morning devotion habit that I have recently let slide. This video has inspired me to pick it up again. Thank you and God Bless!
This is a simple and great idea
PLEASE PRAY for me guys to have a chance to go to Confession, I just have some sins I need to confess.
Prayers ascending
You got it. If you can, please include me in your prayers as well.
Praying for your needs.
Prayers for your strength to attend confession. Many of us have been there and Really felt so much better for confessing our sins.
@@brunoav6999 While I feel that I haven't committed any Mortal Sins I still need to confess my sins, to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Perfect timing father! I’ve been praying about what to do this Lent and I decided that I will pray the Liturgy of the Hours every day. As a high school student, this will be very challenging, but I can’t wait to see the fruits that come from it!
I first started the Hours when I was in high school, too. Usually, I was/am only able to get to one of the hours each day to really "pray" the words. :)
A Franciscan friend told me just last year, "If the devil can't make you bad, he will make you busy." I have been a Martha for most of my life so I need to remember that Jesus said that Mary chose the better part that would not be taken from her. It isn't any easier in modern society to spend time at the feet of Jesus. There is never a shortage of Marthas including the one inside of me complaining, but unless I seek Jesus first and spend time at His feet, I and everything else I try to do just falls apart.
More like "it's not what enters your mouth that makes you impure, moreover it is what leaves your mouth that makes either pure, or impure"
Father I am thinking about being a priest and your videos are really helping me in my decerment so thank you and God bless you.
God bless you in your decision making . We need more Priests ♥️
@@fld9266 thanks
@@lukacacic7830 God bless you from 🏴
This video popped up right when I needed it. I’ve been trying to figure out what to do for Lent, as I wanted to do something to align my life closer to God. This should be a period of transformation in our hearts rather than simply trying to give something up. Wonderful topic and explanations Fr.!
Thank you, Father Casey, not only for this message to all of us, but for sharing some vulnerability and yourself. Not only is Lent about taking things away; I find it is about what GOOD we can ADD. We take away the bad things and replace them with or add good things. I struggle with prayer some myself and need to do more. I'll be sure to add you to my prayer intentions that your prayer life will be rekindled. Please pray for me also. Thank you and God bless.
5:40...last year I gave up giving up on Christ. Back T church for 1 year. Learned a lot and met some great people. Especially getting to know Christ and the beauty of our Church.
Father you have in years and you bring me closer to Christ..The Holy Spirit speaks through you..thanks.. this talk was so powerful
1. Prayer: a highest priority, something I desperately need to do!
2. Fasting throughout the week: to develop discipline
3. Tithing: my first fruits belong to God
I wasnt sure what to give up for lent and now I know. Thank you
I’ve already given up bread for my health I was eating it non stop. I also am doing the intermittent fasting. So I figured I’ll add to my life. I have never tried to pray the Rosary on a consistent basis. So that is what I will be doing for lent . your video is very inspiring. Doing something for life and to make my life better is such a great goal. Thank you.
Full disclosure - I'm an Anglican who stumbled onto this channel probably because of the youtube algorithm. But I have to say it was good to be reminded of the point of giving something up for lent. I also want to say thank you for your honesty about your own flaws - it reminded me that we all have things in our spiritual life to work on. I hope and pray your lent journey brings you closer to God.
Hello fellow Anglican.
Hello and welcome
"You'll end up just making an idol out of a spiritual practice"....🤔 This deserves more discussion, please. can you please expand on this topic? I think it deserves its own video.
Thank you very much. I left the Catholic church a long time ago and joined an Evangelical church since I did not think that decipleship is practiced in the Catholic church. Over the years I have recognized that there was a lot of hubris and judgementalism involved on my side.
The theology is so much deeper and more mature in the Catholic church than anywhere I have seen or heared in any other church. I have read the Bible a few times and heard many sermons in different churches. But then I hear your Focus videos and I am just stunned how much you put in each of them. I am as sure as I can be about anything that God is using you as a tool to help me and probably a lot of others to understand His will.
Lent has always been one of my favorite seasons. Even though it isn't the start of the liturgical year, it feels like a new beginning. I'm a fan of the intentionality of it, and that it forces my faith to manifest in my life. There is also a degree of commitment that I have during lent that I simply lack when making resolutions at other times. When I say that, the implication isn't that lent is a time for crash diets or self-improvements, but rather when I chose to break a bad habit for God, rather than for my own desires, I was able to do so.
I think there is merit in the temperance that comes with choosing something to give up for lent, an act of sacrifice, but also an act of will. I agree with Fr. Casey that what you give up should be about more than just making yourself miserable, and that there is no merit in it if you are not doing it for God. Part of the message of this video is that you shouldn't be giving something up for lent, you should be giving it up for life. And while that's true, in that we are called to always resist temptations and always avoid sin, the temperance gained through committing to a sacrifice through lent does help you to resist other temptations, as also is discussed in the video.
But perhaps the most interesting part of this video for me was to hear that a friar could be struggling in his prayer life, for the main thing I hold onto as clear evidence against me being called to religious life is my lack of ability to maintain a good prayer life.
This actually shows your spiritual growth and maturity. I'm impressed. You actually make me want to change a lot of my habits.
Thank you Fr Casey. I’m struggling with procrastination in my university studies. I will also start having discipline and getting inspiration. I’ve been suffering because I’m not where I wanted to be, but I’m sure I’ll overcome it.
Thank you for opening my eyes for this Lent!
"Lent is not about living the Cross, it's about preparing for the Resurrection."
Oh, how true those words are, and I can't wait until everyone knows that's what Lent is all about!
Giving something up for Lent may be a stepping stone to giving something up for life. Starting small is a successful strategy. ✝️
Thank you Fr. Casey. I am an Eastern Orthodox preparing for our Lent, and your talk is just the kick in the pants that I needed to reevaluate how I was going to spend it. With your permission, I hope to share your video with others in our Orthodox parish. God bless 🙏
Hello Fr. Casey! Im one of your newest viewer on youtube. Thanks to someone who recommend me about you. Im a religious Catholic myself.
Father Casey, thank you for your channel. I am Protestant, but I often find your videos, including this one, very practical. Just know that you are having an impact beyond Catholics. That doesn't mean that i agree with everything the RCC teaches, but I have a huge respect for persons like yourself and Mike Schmitz. Thank you again for this message.
Instead of giving up something material, I will be giving up my current mindset of procrastination. I wasn't like this until the lockdown and online classes have made me feel disconnected and lazy. I need to get my life back together for my sake, for my studies and for God.
I think i wanna do this, i keep watching anime, making me inspired to study lol, so that i could be like the MC
It's my first Lent, almost through my first year as a Catholic (though I still am entering the church). Thank you for this. I barely knew what Lent was last Sunday. I can't say the same anymore.
Forst thought when seeing the title: Father Casey has picked a controversial title again ;-) Well, second thougth actually because I first was confused. Now I'm interested in what is to come.
This is one of your most powerful messages as I have followed your through the Covid crisis.
As we prepared for a first ever Ash Wednesday without Ashes due to Texas snow storm I told my husband we didn't need to give up more this Lent. I said I had already given up alot this year in lock down.
In years past I have broken my addictions to chocolate and Dr Pepper so those small sacrifices did help me limited if not totally give up some vice for life. Your message challenged to give harder things in my attitudes and disciplines of life. So maybe I will give up some things.
Father, I been with you for several years. You are responsiblefor my returning to the Church affter 62 yers. You also have me regreting not staying in the seminary...But I am happy I met you (via video) and I am getting stronger in my Faith. And have a renewal of Prayer and because of other situations am only able to Attend Mass by television THANK YOU
I've been returning to the church over this year partially thank to finding your videos. I always found the Easter and lent seasons very powerful and am really looking forward to being able to fully experience it this year (I'm 19 and because of the pandemic I couldn't have the 1st proper experience of easter as an adult last year). Thank you for bringing the faith to so many people.
Hello Fr. Casey. I am back again. Tqvm for your messages. God bless you. Keeping you in my prayers.
I stopped eating snacks this Lent and I haven't missed them at all. I'm going to extend this Lenten sacrifice for a lot longer.
I live in mortal sin of being a sloth for many years. Your message REALLY hit the target. My sin keeps me away from Christ. I pray that I will completely stop living in my current situation and turn to God for total change 🙏
I'm not a Catholic, but exploring its teachings as I am thinking of entering the Church (I was raised Protestant). I will 'participate' in Lent this year, and give up alcohol (I am a big drinker). I also hope to spend more time in prayer and study of the Bible.
Welcome to the Church.
I hope that you were able to keep your Lenten fast but don't worry about failing, just take one day at a time.
And just remember that you are in good company. Some of the most intelligent men in history have taken the same path, men who studied the Catholic faith trying to prove it wrong, and then they saw the truth and became Catholic.
There are many really good sites on youtube where you can learn more about the Catholic faith.
I will pray for you.
Thank you, Fr. Casey. This makes sense and helps me understand what Lent is all about. I used to be giving up something (or things) just for the Lenten season. After having watched your video, I am more inspired to become a better follower of Christ. Praying for you and your congregation. God bless you all!
Giving things up for me is a good thing. It helps me to appreciate having more than enough, especially foods that are not necessary to survive. I save the money up and give it away.
Definitely felt like you were talking directly to me. I know what I need to change, but I have been unable (unwilling) to make the change. I think it all needs to start with focusing on prayer.
I love the honesty and authenticity of your messages Father Casey. ♥️ Your explanations are so profound, yet so relatable and can be understood by everyone. Blessings on your Lenten journey this year. Thank you for all you do. 🙏🏼 God bless you always!!
This is so important to understand, especially for people like me who struggle with scrupulosity.
Ah, a friend in scrupulosity.... greetings
@@Simply_Sadie Hello, friend 🙂
You are already living into your authenticity. Thank you for sharing your struggles and hopes. May God bless you on your journey.
"Lent is not about living the cross; it's about preparing for the resurrection." Wow, that was so good.
Your vulnerability is refreshing. It speaks volumes.
Giving up social media could be good for the soul as it’s so often a realm of harsh words and intolerance. A bit more complicated now that it’s the medium for a lot of online worship.
I gave up Facebook a few years back for Lent and recently deleted it entirely. I am now think it should be TH-cam but I use it for work too.
Your goals sound similar to mine and I have in the past found Lent is a good chance to build better habits, and have used it as a time to focus before some years its very successful, sometimes I slip back into bad habits some time after Easter but I'm more able to discipline myself during Lent than other times of year.
I LOVE THIS! Years, like 30, I had dialog with a Catholic coworker who abstained from meat on Fridays and a pleasure for lent. I will sacrifice what will help me be more disciplined. To obey is better than sacrifice.
As someone who also struggles with prayer, it is very comforting to hear that you have trouble as well, Father! It gives me hope that I will be able to get back on track! Thank you for sharing this with us! :)
Hello Father, I think there is a sense of urgency if we do Lent resolution within the 40 days, and this urgency helps. If we try to do it indifinitely, we may fail several times and then give up on ourselves. (Of course there is nothing impossible in God) I do like it that you emphasized that the goal is to be closer to Christ.
Your words are so comforting & truthful knowledge. People don't seem to understand that patience is an acquiring quality , that is determined by your discipline & strength in willpower in our faith for God & humanity. Everybody , has their time & way of quitting a habit , sin or inequity , but at the same time people expect for rapid results , without taking the consequences in accordance like stress , losing faith , side effects , etc....The best solution for me is to pray & ask forgiveness every night & read the holy scriptures of the bible , and keep loving thy neighbor . Thanx & God bless .
I appreciate the insight! I am in fact a Protestant that enjoys your videos.
I agree whole heartedly! A few years ago, I added a specific time of prayer during Lent....and allowed it to become a habit that I keep to this day. I will definitely be sharing this with a friend who was just asking about Lent.
Father, pray for me. I struggle with sloth and lust and am in desperate need of radical repentance.
You lucky bastard. I would love to struggle with lust and sloth.
@@philipm7783 it's not anything to be lucky about
@@riley.p.p I have to admit that my response was somewhat ... well ... actually quite insensitive. So sorry for that. But "radical repentance" ... that does not sound like a source of happiness either.
@@riley.p.p if u r unhappy try therapy. Professor Freud and his disciples made more ppl whole, than any god or goddess.
@@philipm7783 While I imagine your comment is coming from a genuine hope to help someone, even licensed psychologists recognize the importance of religion in the lives of religious people. If someone is truly believing of any particular faith and struggling with guilt for “sins” either real or imagined can be successfully addressed through council with their religious leadership. Not at all discounting professional psychologists and psychiatrists but it is not for nothing that the majority of priests heading parishes have degrees in theology and counciling. Disregarding person views and beliefs is a common and painful mistake many of us make in trying to help people with personal pain, and telling people their beliefs are wrong more than likely just pushes them farther from help.
I really appreciate the truth Fr. Casey. There’s many misconceptions and I am so happy to hear this!! 🙏
Thank you Fray Casey! What a totally different perspective as we move on to the Lenten Season.
You are in inspiration Father; thank you!
Very helpful! This is the second time I've watched it. One of the more memorable on your channel.
This is an amazing explanation that puts into perspective the intentions that we should center our Lent around. This recalibrates all that I offer. Thank you Fr. Casey.
Am definitely giving something up for life. Your videos keep getting better the more I watch, the better they get. Thanks for your teaching and may God continue to guide and lead you in his spirit through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Well said, I thought about the giving up thing many years. To me I thought we should do something. What you are saying now is not what we as children in the catholic church. I have learned this in another church. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, they are worth spreading all around the catholic churches.
Thank you Father Casey. I really needed to hear this. Prayers we all have a successful lent season. 🙏🏻
I stopped "giving up" years ago. I chose instead to "take on"... I take on more prayer time, more daily mass, more adoration, etc, with the hope of maintaining the practice beyond the 40 days. I felt that whenever I "gave up" something, I felt the need to then over-indulge in it as soon as Easter hit, which completely erased the whole point of lent. Not to mention, Easter became the day where I get to eat fast food again, and I was distracted from the true purpose. Every year on Ash Wednesday people ask me what I gave up, and do not understand when I say nothing. Thank you for this video.
Great message! I’m not RC but I will definitely share this with friends and family. Thank you.
I'm not a Christian but I was raised one so I celebrate all their holidays. And i take part in lent. This year I'm giving up processed / junk foods. It's boost my body for the good.
Everybody's gotta start somewhere. A good habit starts with something good. If it creates a lasting relationship with God. I like your message, very much, Father.
The 5 min journal is super great for prayer. Doing it first thing in the morning and at night before bed really makes you think about your day.
Just what I needed to hear. Thank you Fr Casey! Viva Cristo Rey!!! ✝️🙏♥️🕯️🕊️🔥📿🇬🇧
I remembered that my mother used to tell me that God would love my small sacrifice of giving up something during lent but it never felt that way to me because I couldn’t wait for lent to be over. I felt like a was only putting things on hold, I was not doing any good or ever lasting changes to be closer to my Lord. This video has help me see what I must truly give up this year, so thank you.
Fr. Casey, Thank you for your honesty and sharing your struggles with your prayer life. I really appreciate your authenticity.