if grindr conversations happened in real life

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  • @ConorODwyer
    @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    If you liked this video please LIKE and SUBSCRIBE 😎🍆🤍

    • @reuterromain1054
      @reuterromain1054 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Actually i did like your video. All the best for your
      future career.

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@reuterromain1054 thank you!

    • @marcoals4893
      @marcoals4893 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nice😅

    • @michaeljohndennis2231
      @michaeljohndennis2231 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ConorODwyernot only are you so handsome, you are also so talented and creative - from one Irish gay man to another, I’d happily date you in a heartbeat and I don’t need Grindr either 🇮🇪☘️🇮🇪😍❤️

  • @chulee1992
    @chulee1992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3226

    I just love how these types of creeps are all over the world no matter where you open grindr.

  • @tjs-_goated7449
    @tjs-_goated7449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    @0:30 It was so funny how you put the emphasis on “fuck me” sounded freaky and aggressive. I know that’s the point but still funny. Lmaoo. 🤣

  • @garrythesnail1900
    @garrythesnail1900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3267

    The conversations on that app is like “ what’s ur preference “, “ u top or bottom” , “ send your hole”, “ do u have room “ and that’s it. That’s literally it .

  • @cristoferchanimak
    @cristoferchanimak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1313

    I was expecting the last scene to be a ghosting scene lol

    • @myingsama6970
      @myingsama6970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      same

    • @Mr26muel
      @Mr26muel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Same, it was my experience I fell in love with the guy after 4 dates and then nothing.

    • @t_sizzler_2032
      @t_sizzler_2032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Mr26muel SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME OMGGG

    • @Poscarable
      @Poscarable 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I thought he was himself because he stole his pics

    • @darksev.6468
      @darksev.6468 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I got so scared when he mentioned the dog 💀

  • @marcosv.5113
    @marcosv.5113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    The fact that both guys always looks identical just adds a layer more of reality for me

    • @nunyabiznes33
      @nunyabiznes33 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Heard the Mexicans call them "mariclones"

    • @philzmusic8098
      @philzmusic8098 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      They're both played by the same actor.

  • @willoux_
    @willoux_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +977

    dont forget the ones that spill all their life problems after 3 messages and definitely just need to see a therapist

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Hahahaha

    • @Jack-zc9ml
      @Jack-zc9ml 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      I feel so called out lol💀

    • @The_Black_Caps
      @The_Black_Caps 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂​@@Jack-zc9ml

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Honestly as a bisexual woman I prefer that. Like let me know if you got trauma so I can not set it off or if it’s something where I know we won’t work.

    • @mannygecko9596
      @mannygecko9596 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@magnarcreed3801Thnk you for saying that 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I am gay male and in my experience of living on this hellhole we call earth for 44 years I will say it’s a very toxic community whether on an app or in real life. Especially for those with trauma and mental health issues. If I could open my brain and remove my attraction to men I would. Jaded yes, misanthropic yes, untrustworthy yes. I am all those things but not because I woke up one day and said oh I want to be these things. After years and years of the same behaviors the same outcomes the same disappointment, the same mistreatment, who’s to blame. Me? Or the humans who created this way of being? I have given up all hope in finding anyone even just a friend that can hold space for me in any capacity. I’m sure if I were half naked and showing my body and privates off then they’ll be interested. But I’m aware I’m the problem. Hi, it’s me.

  • @crazy_noisy_bizzare_t0wn396
    @crazy_noisy_bizzare_t0wn396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +716

    When he said they both had 2 sisters and 1 brother I was fully expecting him to be like "Aww, I have a dog to-. . . wait BROTHER IS THAT YOU??"

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      Oh god hahaha plot twist

    • @EdneiMonteiroO
      @EdneiMonteiroO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I was expecting a fake person...

    • @Maeniel83
      @Maeniel83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@EdneiMonteiroO me too, was expecting something like: aww... that's actually _my_ dog. :D

  • @robinlagelius
    @robinlagelius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    Sometimes I just scream at the phone: "why aren't you normal!?"

    • @martine.l.9415
      @martine.l.9415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Haha exactly

    • @badgermcbadgerson3230
      @badgermcbadgerson3230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was speaking to one guy a few months back and we were both keen. But this was during UK lockdown and we had no idea when that would end, so it fizzled out.
      Shame because I had really good vibes about him.

    • @robinlagelius
      @robinlagelius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@badgermcbadgerson3230 at least we're starting to open up again, hang in there! ♥️

    • @moamoaoz
      @moamoaoz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are using Grindr.
      A gay hook up app. What would you expect?

  • @CT7845
    @CT7845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +718

    The fact that you changed outfits, appeared naked, changed scenery, all for this skit. I appreciate that you took the time for the production of it all. 😊 On a different note, I guess I will be definitely staying away from Grindr. 😌

    • @augustking9007
      @augustking9007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's the same person through out the video?

  • @marcososa1986
    @marcososa1986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1340

    don’t lie, you don’t block them 😂

    • @rickyc.7695
      @rickyc.7695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      LMFAOOO😭💀🤚🏽

    • @shawsays3258
      @shawsays3258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Height of accuracy lol

    • @crispri3919
      @crispri3919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Hey sometimes even you got to give it up and drop it down for a creep

    • @BaNNDoG25
      @BaNNDoG25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I actually do 😝

    • @beyond12021
      @beyond12021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bwahaha XD

  • @Muv54
    @Muv54 3 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    Playing these characters a little too well😉

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Far too many experiences to draw from 😜

  • @bazzkrycek7982
    @bazzkrycek7982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    I honestly thought i was the only one who enjoyed an actual conversation on grdr lol, thank you :)

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Hahaha I know! It's always such a pleasant shock when it happens

    • @Dan-gi6tf
      @Dan-gi6tf 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well you're using the wrong app. Grindr is a hookup app

  • @keithrogers4170
    @keithrogers4170 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    The worst thing about Grindr is that there is rarely much conversation with the guy when he comes around, and often won’t kiss…..extremely cold and unsatisfying ….

    • @divinesoul1987
      @divinesoul1987 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You do understand this app main goal is for discreet and quick sex without having to socialize much?
      It is a hooking up app, not a dating app

    • @magnarcreed3801
      @magnarcreed3801 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Sounds horrible.
      I’m a bi woman and don’t have that issue with other women so I feel bad for you.
      Hope ya find better fish!

    • @keithrogers4170
      @keithrogers4170 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@magnarcreed3801 Thanks

    • @JonEvans-st9kt
      @JonEvans-st9kt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      No matter where you are I bet grindr is like that. That's why getting rid best thing ever to many toxic people on there

    • @blucolife
      @blucolife 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Really? Kissing is the best part.

  • @kitcobb6046
    @kitcobb6046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    You missed the “Sugar Daddy looking” one, but overall pretty accurate from what I’ve seen XD

    • @mooniemuk
      @mooniemuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There’s more looking for sugar daddy tbh

    • @zombies4evadude24
      @zombies4evadude24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mooniemuk but all you get is scammed out of your time or wallet lmao

    • @WilliamHaist
      @WilliamHaist 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I've been approached by like 6 "sugar daddies" but when I reply they all try to get me to go off app and then I know its just a scam.

    • @LuciferSam2024
      @LuciferSam2024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Sugar Daddy"?! No such thing anymore. It's all greedy kids- expecting to be paid- before they even know your name.
      Since Covid and the lockdown and people NEEDING money for bills, et cetera. Prostitution is the new norm for anyone under 40.
      What I find even sadder, are those guys over 40 who pretend they are still, in their "20s".

  • @HyperWubTV
    @HyperWubTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    3:50 haha I thought he was going to disappear

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Hahaha ooft that can be even more traumatising!

    • @m4al
      @m4al 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I kept waiting for exactly that to happen, lol, nice conversation, loads of things in comm... pfff! Gone

    • @OjaZackaris
      @OjaZackaris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah I was expecting that too!

    • @DVZM.
      @DVZM. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thats pretty much what happened to me. Really nice and good conversations with one guy for several month! Suddenly he just disappeared. Still wonder to this day what happened. Deleted the app about two years ago.

    • @pasii4real
      @pasii4real 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here omg... The nice ones always just block you all of a sudden 😂😂

  • @majot511
    @majot511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    The old man one is so true!! They don’t leave you alone and then they make alt accounts when you block them so you have to report! Saying things like “you’re cute, don’t be shy”
    Creepy people

    • @jasonbolding3481
      @jasonbolding3481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Maybe 25th time is the charm

    • @extravaganza1000
      @extravaganza1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am an old man! I never do that. Anyway I got off grindr really fast

    • @badgermcbadgerson3230
      @badgermcbadgerson3230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don't know what it is with gays and huge age gaps. I've never understood it and still prefer to stick to guys sort of my age (within a few years give or take).
      Stephen Fry is 30 years older than his husband. They look like father and son.

    • @DeoxysDNA
      @DeoxysDNA 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      When I ignored 2 older guys they found my facebook and tried to add me lol

    • @majot511
      @majot511 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DeoxysDNA I had that too 😅

  • @RayRayOfficial_
    @RayRayOfficial_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    The amount of commitment and honesty in this video😂😂👏👏

  • @Phoenixesper1
    @Phoenixesper1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    0:46 "Hey there son..." You look like christian bale in American Psycho.... terrifying and totally relatable to what hits me up from time to time. LOL

    • @Phoenixesper1
      @Phoenixesper1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      On the other hand...you look like christian bale.... hit me up from time to time. ;)

  • @dwellyn
    @dwellyn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    There are worse things than being alone. And this is one of them.

  • @rickfromhell
    @rickfromhell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    The faceless guy was way too real, and I lost it. Every anonymous dude on Grindr should watch this and see how they actually come across.

  • @Ken15643
    @Ken15643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    Well, I mean it's Grindr. What did you expect, romance?

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +366

      A boy can dream! x)

    • @iuriena
      @iuriena 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      yes

    • @guntherstewart8941
      @guntherstewart8941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly

    • @SaiIorman
      @SaiIorman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Well, the problem is ... it's not only on grindr... but on every gay meeting app actually ^^°
      Same for Romeo
      The video miss one case... the one who has so many thing in common, like and enjoy you and next day disappear cause he found a better guy lol... Or they blocked you without any reasons...
      Oh and the fake profile too...

    • @rickfromhell
      @rickfromhell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Have you heard most girl’s complaints about Tinder? It’s on every dating app regardless of the sexual preference they cater to. It shouldn’t be unreasonable to expect that people play by normal societal rules, even when looking for casual sex. The problem with Grindr is the assumption that everyone is looking for sex, and with the only requirement being willing participation. It also normalizes literal harassment when we learn to simply expect and accept this behavior.

  • @erisjusteris
    @erisjusteris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I was really rooting for him at the end there

  • @laoisewalsh7336
    @laoisewalsh7336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Wow! Such a multifaceted actor and so handsome 😍

  • @BrandonNaatz
    @BrandonNaatz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This was the truest, funniest, and most accurate representation of Grindr! Thank you for this 🤣🤣🤣

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much!! How lovely 😊

  • @karabogafane4402
    @karabogafane4402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    So this is a problem all over the world🤣🤣🤣🤣 love this from 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @dragonmage7980
    @dragonmage7980 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What I really appreciate about this is the validation that the creepiness of these messages really does carry over into real life

  • @gamaliel5584
    @gamaliel5584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    that "up for fun?" was unprovoked as fuck. so accurate

  • @garysimkins2179
    @garysimkins2179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what I love the most is that you play all of the characters. It's fuckin' brilliant man.

  • @jesgrecor
    @jesgrecor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Sad thing is that we can say "thanks but I'm not interested" but instead we keep silent or we block, which doesn't help anyone.

    • @rickfromhell
      @rickfromhell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It doesn't really matter how you let a stranger down, it's the same baseline reality they'll need to come to terms with, that the stranger is not an opportunity for a connection, and obviously not the person you were looking for. If a stranger doesn't respond to your random message, or they block you, they're clearly not interested, and there's just no mystery there to unravel. And no matter what, you never had anything to lose anyways. People don't owe each other an explanation for everything, and some things are self explanatory.

    • @_ch1pset
      @_ch1pset 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Saying anything back validates that person's advances. It tells them that it's okay to send unsolicited dic pics and whatnot. It really is best to block them or just not respond so as to not encourage them to keep on with the same behavior. Negative feedback doesn't work the way you think it does. It's still feedback, and it means that regardless of what was said, that person has your attention and they have your permission to continue with the questions, pics, etc.
      IMO, it's better when people ask, "looking?" rather than assuming you want to see their poorly lit genitals in a dark motel room. If they ask "looking?", that's a courtesy to you in case you are not interested in sex. Just my take though. I'm sure some people don't even want to be asked "looking?" at all, but I'm trying to meet in the middle here.

    • @technikkeks4932
      @technikkeks4932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I tried this a couple of times but it was exhausting. They usually want to know why, try to argue, defend themselves or get rude. Went back to not answering, if not interested.

    • @matiasalejandroortiz1112
      @matiasalejandroortiz1112 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      When you say "thanks but im not interested" they end up calling you fat and ugly

    • @premium6225
      @premium6225 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@technikkeks4932same

  • @robertbeining141
    @robertbeining141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Brilliant! So glad you gave us the opportunity to see the massive humor in what is the app Grindr. Explains why I deleted that waste of time app a long time ago. Stay Strong, Be Well, Keep The Humor Rolling! Great work!

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is such a lovely comment to read, thank you! :)

    • @siddharthsid1540
      @siddharthsid1540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am gay too and I wanna know do you have a partner ?
      If not then how do you meet people then ???

  • @caterinadelgalles8783
    @caterinadelgalles8783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    MY GAY HUSBAND SENT ME THIS. This bloke is a nutter, and I mean that in the nicest Welsh way :)

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      hahaha that's sweet! Thank you!

    • @thereality3398
      @thereality3398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What u mean gay husband ? U a woman or a man coz your name seems alarming

  • @aciec777
    @aciec777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Them:
    “Hey”
    “Hi”
    “Hello???”
    “It looks small anyways, blocked”
    *3 minutes later* “what’s up”

  • @fulanitx
    @fulanitx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    OMG the last one is the best of them all LOL! The grinding is REAL.

  • @gotzsiedler4217
    @gotzsiedler4217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The second guy seems nice

  • @johnnystephens259
    @johnnystephens259 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I was expecting the last guy to be secretly married. Every time I hit it off so well with someone, they are either married or already dating someone.

  • @colinriddell3776
    @colinriddell3776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Laughing at how true this actually is... and not just on grindr... generally the whole gay dating scene 😜

  • @andrewlittle4488
    @andrewlittle4488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    On point, so on point......🙈.....I can’t even.. would not think to....just pissing myself laughing at how ‘on point’ this is! The Internet murdered romance, and from this GRNDR was born 😅😅😅

  • @stevaranda2195
    @stevaranda2195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You're so funny and described almost all about Grindr.

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed!

  • @Summ0ningm4st3r
    @Summ0ningm4st3r 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I can understand blocking a repeated messager when youre busy, but if you're not, dont just leave them on delivered/read, block them or tell them not interested.

  • @Su_Myth01
    @Su_Myth01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I like how we gay people, especially mens doesn't even hesitate to tell others how they feel about them.

  • @seanluzdeluna8153
    @seanluzdeluna8153 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The one at the end, lmfao!😂🤣🤣🤣Of course it's too good to be true, of course!

  • @jonathandominico7420
    @jonathandominico7420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If your looking for a serious long term relationship, don't trust people in grindr. I should know. I have been ghosted so many times here.

  • @robot3507
    @robot3507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Underrated. Can't wait for you to blowup. I was here. ❤️

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so sweet, thank you :)

  • @Paul2377
    @Paul2377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Haha. And the scary thing is this is the 'nicer' variety of messages you get on there. I deleted it ages ago.

    • @akinyiomer4589
      @akinyiomer4589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's ... the NICER variety?!
      I just. Wow. I'm female so I get some stunners but to all my non-straight men & NBs ... wow. I'll pray for you.

    • @rickdilf1335
      @rickdilf1335 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @paul2377 I agree, but then what you use instead? 😊

  • @ThatJay283
    @ThatJay283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    3:14 I thought he would go "wait that's my dog..."

  • @christopherpericolosi-king4979
    @christopherpericolosi-king4979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Well done lad! This is why I refuse to do grindr! I can pick up perfectly good creeps at the bar! 😂😂

  • @erniec4960
    @erniec4960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You’re keeping it real! Thanks for the video. I needed a good laugh today❤️

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw thank you! Happy to make you smile! ☺️

  • @toner37
    @toner37 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    OMG this is so true and what's with the crazy increase of profiles offering massages? And profiles with really bad or blurry pictures? And the seemingly good conversation that goes south eventually. And lately the lack of consistent conversation. They end up falling asleep or head out for a bit or grab a shower. 20 mins later they return like nothing happened.

    • @guntherstewart8941
      @guntherstewart8941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Honestly, the app` doesn't do enough to prevent catfishing, or bots. The app also isn't decent enough to just let people have the "online now" or "Has a face picture" filters. Those shouldn't be extra money. Frankly with conversation I think people need to stop complaining. If they're not replying consistently to you, you're probably boring them or they really didn't want a long conversation to begin with. Also, people get busy, so le't snot act like the world revovles around us.

    • @Dakarai_Knight
      @Dakarai_Knight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think the massage thing is because more people are lonely these days...

    • @davrd92
      @davrd92 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol yeah the masseurs are everywhere 🤣

    • @brado1912
      @brado1912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You get mad at someone if they take 20 mins to reply?!

    • @jasonbolding3481
      @jasonbolding3481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They massage people are bots in my area

  • @kevinnguyen5042
    @kevinnguyen5042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg so true! Lol the awkward of those conversations 😂😂😂 exactly what I got and how I felt on Grindr

  • @unigenius
    @unigenius 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    THE OLDER GUY!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAAH

  • @peter_bazinet
    @peter_bazinet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    So THAT'S what Grindr is all about?

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You learn something new! 😜

    • @peter_bazinet
      @peter_bazinet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ConorODwyer Makes me happy I never tried Christian Mingle.

    • @face-diaper
      @face-diaper 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peter_bazinet Christian Mingle makes Grindr look good.

    • @badgermcbadgerson3230
      @badgermcbadgerson3230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Grindr is marketed as an LGBT social, dating and lifestyle app. That is quality banter and a real case of "there was an attempt".
      Before you get into the really seedy stuff, the L part is non-existent because there are no girls on there.

  • @bluestrife28
    @bluestrife28 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is so chillingly disturbingly accurate, wow 😂❤

  • @BlueLu18
    @BlueLu18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is hilariously accurate!

  • @TatewakiKuno85
    @TatewakiKuno85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is the sad world we all create when using Grindr

  • @stevenclark1234
    @stevenclark1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was painfully relatable

  • @jordans.v.5850
    @jordans.v.5850 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Missed the “masc x masc” and turns out the zestiest person you’ve ever seen

  • @Jadewizard
    @Jadewizard 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yeeeeep 💯. Which is why I flushed Grindr down the toilet ages ago. 😂

  • @AngloAm
    @AngloAm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wet meself at the end. :) You're a master!

  • @philzmusic8098
    @philzmusic8098 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ghosting after long chats is the new "Sorry, I don't think this is going to work out."

  • @Sesso20
    @Sesso20 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man I love these impersonifications, there are some more archetypes missing, but I saw that thats your trope so Ill just watch more of your vids in the future for some more laughs 😀

  • @Skaphegor
    @Skaphegor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is actually so funny :DDDD

  • @OsamaMoloy
    @OsamaMoloy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The last date got to me 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mostlyharuno9923
    @mostlyharuno9923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And also "wanna be my sugarbaby??" And "wanna do high fun?" 😂😂😂 I m really tired of blocking every single one

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Let’s just say this was accurate yet traumatising for those who were at the receiving end of this conversation.

  • @randomliamsquares765
    @randomliamsquares765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Hey man, you take a nice picture”

  • @legaymer2760
    @legaymer2760 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The last one killed me 😂😂

  • @turbobrain1342
    @turbobrain1342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah, I went to tiktok, grindr, Instagram and could not get any conversation on anything.

  • @SGH28N
    @SGH28N 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OMG, this so funny. And so true !!! Well done.

  • @dgchvz
    @dgchvz 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wait I literally thought you with your hair pushed back was a whole different man I had to go back

  • @Jonathan-br2th
    @Jonathan-br2th 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The truth in this video is incredible!

  • @roninsans2436
    @roninsans2436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't have any conversations on that app it feels illegal to even do so

  • @Destroyer_of_Worlds
    @Destroyer_of_Worlds 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    3 years later, and the app seems to have even gotten worse.

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      fake profiles EVERYWHERE

  • @mikaelporter8663
    @mikaelporter8663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that last scene
    i knew something was up
    people that like these normal conversations tend to have the creepiest/ most disgusting (for me) kinks, and they always manage to reveal those kinks the worst way possible

  • @andrewmark2783
    @andrewmark2783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is way too accurate 😂

  • @billd3356
    @billd3356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The 0:38 mark. And I thought you looked good WITH a shirt! It's no different here in the US, or any other country. I have an online friend in Turkey who goes through the same thing as this video. I dropped Grindr a long time ago. This sad, but REALLY funny and well done. Cheers mate!

  • @samjpatterson8445
    @samjpatterson8445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh god, even when the last one seemed to be going well I was nervous because something. always. happens. xD

  • @123youbia
    @123youbia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was NOT expecting that much skin! Lmfao

  • @StephenTurnerVlogs
    @StephenTurnerVlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    WOW!
    Spot on for all of them!

  • @jasona8608
    @jasona8608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is spot on !

  • @jasperquinnzelblack3488
    @jasperquinnzelblack3488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As someone who just reinstalled grinder this speaks to my soul

  • @michaeljohndennis2231
    @michaeljohndennis2231 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Grindr and other gay “dating” (hookup) app conversations are so creepy - and what makes some of these apps even creepier is the location feature where you can see other users in the same area, while giving your own location - that’s what totally freaks me out against using them at all - even post-Covid, as an older Irish gay man, I’d rather go to a gay venue to meet someone and if I was after sex, I’d rather go to a gay sauna (although the latter is not relevant to me at my age) - one summer a few years before Covid, coming home to Ireland from Manchester on the ferry from Holyhead while waiting to board the ferry, a group of English gay guys in from the London train had their phones on and all you could hear was the Grindr tone at full volume, it was so annoying

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for the lil story Michael, it's great to hear your perspective! I must say I much prefer meeting people in real life, and it's a lot easier now in fairness than it probably was in your time, with more gay spaces and open culture. It's almost gone in the extreme opposite where there're so many choices it embeds in the psyche that 'there's always something better out there', so stickability is hard to come by! Generalising of course

    • @michaeljohndennis2231
      @michaeljohndennis2231 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ConorODwyer I had made the commitment to (not) use these apps and websites here in Manchester after getting so many hookup requests on Gaydar Messages, despite clearly stating on my Gaydar profile at the time, that I was only looking for platonic friendship (which some guys see and interpret as code for “hookup” invitations) then the terrifying news of the Stephen Port Grindr Murders in London broke, involving the use of GHB and the initial indifference of the police at the time, particularly over Gabriel Kovari’s murder was even more terrifying - now we see apps and websites for gay cruising, cottaging and dogging - once you are above a certain age, it’s almost impossible to find love and with the rampant discrimination and prejudice within the gay community, these are issues that the LGBT elites have never even bothered to address, even in the post-Covid era - male rape in gay saunas and the incidence of high levels of STI’s amongst younger gay men are issues that are direct consequences of such failures and refusals to properly address such issues

    • @michaeljohndennis2231
      @michaeljohndennis2231 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ConorODwyer on balance, I really believe that as part of the cleanup of the gay community, Grindr and all other gay “dating” (hookup) apps and websites should be banned and access to them blocked by governments around the world, of which the Stephen Port Murders were just a small part - there was all manner of anecdotal stories going around when during Covid lockdowns, gay men were secretly meeting each other for sex via Grindr and other such apps under the noses of police, especially here in the U.K., even allowing for the fact that the U.K. Covid restrictions were very lax in comparison to other countries around the world, even in Europe and were not properly enforced by many U.K. police forces, which contributed to the spread of Covid and additional Covid strains which were vaccine-resistant, such as “Long Covid” - as a result of such behaviours, I sometimes (reluctantly) wonder if a version of the Chinese Social Credit System is needed in order to control certain behaviours

  • @karsonbollinger8412
    @karsonbollinger8412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It would’ve been more accurate if the last one that was going really well they blocked you out of no where

  • @JacobsCoffee28
    @JacobsCoffee28 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so happy not being on ANY dating plattforms😂

  • @pavelserdyuk
    @pavelserdyuk 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Its even flattering. In reality conversation is replaced with graphic images

  • @EdneiMonteiroO
    @EdneiMonteiroO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really need to know how a guy with no name, no face, no adress no phone can find a date, he must be a genious...

  • @eyeofthasky
    @eyeofthasky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    if you go cruising, these ARE the conversations u get _if_ you converse at all orally :'D

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahaha that's a big if!

  • @annafilou
    @annafilou 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was all so uncomfortable haha

  • @christiantrujillo8867
    @christiantrujillo8867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So very true, and frustrating to say the least. Just deleted Grindr for the exact reasons. Although one I had was acting as though he was really interested and then asking if I could send money for his ill mother (blocked that one real fast).

  • @herezmikey
    @herezmikey 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The last one was so sweet...until the end where I lost it. I was going to write "Aww that is the kind of Grindr experience I want" but then the whole smell your socks and piss and shit thing happened. LOL

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Never trust a sweet Grindr conversation 😭😂

    • @herezmikey
      @herezmikey 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ConorODwyer I know now 😂

  • @aintyours7470
    @aintyours7470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    00:38 Hope this is your Grindr profile picture! 😂

  • @petbird19
    @petbird19 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The acting is genius 😂👍

  • @clementdupuigrenet9390
    @clementdupuigrenet9390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Two words : PAINFULLY ACCURATE 😩

  • @stejan2915
    @stejan2915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is so true every single occasion presented here in the video. Sad truth. 😂

  • @brother1370
    @brother1370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This... Is so accurate im crying 😭

  • @funckydb6065
    @funckydb6065 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nailed it 😂

  • @janaltus
    @janaltus 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Drinking tea, keyboard and watching this video do not make for a good combination! Connor, you owe me a new keyboard! You are funny! Keep it up!

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha thank you so much!

  • @pablovaldivia6378
    @pablovaldivia6378 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is tooooooo accurate 😂😂

  • @Arosci
    @Arosci 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's f*cking hilarious 😂😂😂❤❤

  • @limbdarkening
    @limbdarkening 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So gay men go through a very similar dating app experience to straight women. Not surprised really. 😂

    • @ConorODwyer
      @ConorODwyer  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are one in the same ;')