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Sex Before Marriage….What's your opinion? A beautiful explanation | From the KamaSutra to 2020

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  • @prakashtiwari8003
    @prakashtiwari8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It will be hypocrite to a man if he have multiple sexual encounters and still want virgin wife but if a guy is virgin himself, I don't find anything wrong in expecting virgin wife. Same goes with girls.

    • @ahmedzakikhan7639
      @ahmedzakikhan7639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Okay. So to be consistent based on your logic - man and woman must be consistent at every level. If a man earns more than woman wouldn't it be hypocrite for the woman to want a man to be richer - based on your so-called hYPORCRITICAL logic ?
      Your logic is dumb..

    • @karmaisntreal
      @karmaisntreal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ahmedzakikhan7639 Women mostly marry rich guys?? Lol

    • @ahmedzakikhan7639
      @ahmedzakikhan7639 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karmaisntreal Tou hypothetical kaun hain ?

  • @tonmoydeka3983
    @tonmoydeka3983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The problem is not with virginity itself. People think that if she has had sex with someone before ,that someone will again come into their lives and disturb their married life.And it happens many times that ex boyfriends come back even after marriage and women do indulge in extra marital affairs with them.

  • @King36213
    @King36213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    See every person in this world wants to live their life the way they want to. If someone finds it wrong to have sex before marriage whatever the reason, in his opinion pre-marital sex is wrong, now he is looking for a partner with the same mindset. then please tell me what's wrong with that. He is not judging the character of a person based on virginity, he is just looking for a life partner who has the same thought process, and values. You can't force your opinions on others, if they find it wrong, it is wrong for them. Always remember, there are 800cr plus people in this world, they will have different opinions on pre-marital sex. They have every right to have an opinion. Please don't force your concept on others. We respect your choices, you should respect ours.
    You know some people have already started reasoning with polyamory, they have every right to. See how many type of beliefs are their when it comes to sex.

  • @ashishchohan5538
    @ashishchohan5538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This is called a real podcast full of wisdom

  • @MarendraNodi5.6-inch
    @MarendraNodi5.6-inch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Good discussion, but totally one sided. Very disappointing, to say the least.
    Why did they assume that all men have had sex before marriage and are NOT virgins? Can't they acknowledge the fact that some people stay voluntarily celibate till marriage, or till they find the right person? At least in such a scenario, you will not be in a position to call the man a hypocrite. Not all men are sleeping around, for god's sake.🙏
    While I understand that there are many bullshitters around us who themselves have had sexual encounters in the past, but want a virgin girl for themselves. However, what about the men who stay virgin and expect the same from a girl?

    • @sahelee1
      @sahelee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If you listen the podcast carefully you'll get the answer. Please ask the other person if that's your criteria. If you don't ask, then don't expect this thing to be answered. You have complete freedom of your choice, but you can't force others. compatability is the key of a successful marriage.

    • @MarendraNodi5.6-inch
      @MarendraNodi5.6-inch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@sahelee1 Obviously, these things should be discussed before marriage/start of a relationship. It helps you understand what kind of a person you'll be dealing with. The kind of relationships you've been in the past tells a lot about you as a person.
      If you don't ask these things, chances are you'll end up banging your head against the wall, eventually. This is the reason why we see so many relationships/marriages failing around us - PEOPLE DON'T ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS!
      Also, nobody's forcing anything on anyone. Everyone has their freedom of choice. No two people can be same or have same life experiences.
      Regarding compatibility - it comes when two people have same mindset and thought process. You cannot expect a voluntarily virgin guy to be in a successful long-term relationship with a girl of colourful past. They won't last much. They can be great friends, but the romance will fizzle out sooner than they expect.

    • @today7746
      @today7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      With respect to your question, its not wrong if you have are a virgin till marriage or a non virgin. It only isn't correct when you judge someone or feel that your partner's virginity matters. Virginity is a myth. It dosent physically exist. I wouldn't know why even a man who's virgin himself would look for another "virgin" to get married instead of looking for a "good cultured girl" to get married. It becomes a mentality issue when someone thinks that virginity can affect marriage. Ofcourse a person's story of their past relationship can tell about them as a person as to what kind of people they like and how much they have loved someone in the past. With respect to a virgin girl, she may also have been in loved someone ,but may have not been influenced into or got a chance for physical relations. But that dosen't make her any different from a non virgin girl . A girl's character dosent change whether she is a virgin or not .

    • @today7746
      @today7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MarendraNodi5.6-inch there are many virgin voluntary guys who have got married to girls with colorful pasts. They have been mire successful than married couples with less or no past. So there is no formula like how mentioned. Romance fizzles out if there's no will to take a relationship forward or if two people are not compatible with each other. Not because one of them has a past. It dosen't make any sense, becuase a willpower and compatibility of a person with you will depend on their character and not whether someone had a past relationship. People learn from broken relationships and grown. They don'tleace the basic goodness of their character. It's true for compatibility two people need to have similar values and ideologies. If 2 people definetly feel that a past relationship of their partners can impact their present relationship and support objectification of humans together, then yes, it could count as a common value for a couple to come together. Even if it's not the best value, it's still a common value, so works.

    • @MarendraNodi5.6-inch
      @MarendraNodi5.6-inch 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@today7746 I never used the word 'character' here. In fact, I've said that everyone has the freedom of choice to live their lives the way they want.
      Regarding the 'many virgin guys married to non-virgin girls', that's good for a change. I've also personally seen a few cases like these. However, one of the guys I know is a cuckold. It's a fetish for him to imagine his fiancé (now) being with different guys in bed. Guess, what? He's living his fantasy now. He voluntarily asks her to hookup with random guys via dating apps, and later tell him the details of her romp session with these men. She also makes video tapes of her shenanigans as well for him to watch later. Mind you, they're a very happy couple and soon to be married. She was apprehensive about this lifestyle choice initially, but is now enjoying it more than him. He tells me, this has enhanced their sex life.
      So, make sure the guys you're talking about don't have such weird fetishes. In such a case, they'll definitely fancy a woman who's spend a considerable amount of time in bed with men.

  • @Enlightened_thing_in_town
    @Enlightened_thing_in_town 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "Is it sin to kiss before I married b/c I really love God."
    So cute. 😆💞

    • @abhinavgoyal3507
      @abhinavgoyal3507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What i got to know from SeemaAnand's podcasts is that kissing before marriage is just a choice. You no need to relate it with your religious or spiritualual emotions.
      If you are expressing your feeling truely from your heart then i think its not a sin.

    • @pk417
      @pk417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No don't do that

    • @pk417
      @pk417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well miss you can wait till marriage....if someone really loves u he will definitely marry u...he will not run behind ur body

    • @pk417
      @pk417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@abhinavgoyal3507 kuch bhi mat bolo bhai... at least they should wait till marriage....if that person really loves her he will definitely marry her

    • @templebell7275
      @templebell7275 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stop wanting validation from youtubers , gita prohibits pre marital sex. And kamasutra also . But she is not here to preach knowledge but to earn youtube $

  • @prakashtiwari8003
    @prakashtiwari8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's still Taboo in America to disclose their previous relationship and body counts. And will remain so because it shows the normal human behaviour of fear, insecurity and instability in future relationship.

    • @ahmedzakikhan7639
      @ahmedzakikhan7639 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Insecurity stems of love. Even your parents will feel insecure if you start loving your in-law parents more than your own! Nothing wrong with it !

  • @ANG53066
    @ANG53066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I agree thyself 38 year old virgin and it remains problematic and issue before me

    • @ANG53066
      @ANG53066 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Aakash Yadav No Money for that

    • @ANG53066
      @ANG53066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Aakash Yadav Why should I land somone land into trouble by getting married to someone who is still fighting for survival

    • @one-eyedgaming6767
      @one-eyedgaming6767 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ANG53066 🌸

  • @domingodeanda233
    @domingodeanda233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Live life in present time, make the most of this beautiful life.

  • @teamhi-techaccountsservice946
    @teamhi-techaccountsservice946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Both of u women are really changing my mindset towards sex. Thanks so much

    • @ashokattv
      @ashokattv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Please read Sex to Consciousness.. by Osho. Your perspective towards sex will change a lot. Highly recommended.

    • @alkakumari6645
      @alkakumari6645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ashokattv thanks for suggestion..

    • @pk417
      @pk417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well i think you both r uneducated....do you know sex is extremely emotional...do you know about the hormones released during sex.....when a person engages in sexual activity especially when having sex from first time....his body releases oxytocin,a hormone released during sex and other intimate gestures like hugging or holding hands that's been proven to strengthen social bonds.... Oxytocin gives a person sense of bond and attachment towards that person...it does gives you a feeling of life long relationship with that person and sense of loyalty.Vaspressin is also released during male arousal,Vasopressin is associated with physical and emotional mobilization and helps support vigilance and behaviors needed for guarding a partner...so this is why virginity is important for both male and female... people who say pre marital sex is ok..tell these people that these people r worst than animals.

    • @pragyasingh9240
      @pragyasingh9240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@pk417 thank god you spoke..what you said I agree with you .

    • @pk417
      @pk417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@pragyasingh9240 exactly sister...even in our hindu Shastras....sex before marriage is a sin....and u must be knowing that hinduism is highly scientific.....our religion teaches us commitment towards our partners....sex is extremely emotional.....even in Yajurveda its also written that men and women should remain Bharhmacharyi (virgin) till marriage.....only because of these you tubers people r losing commitment.....if someone really loves u he will help u in progress,he will not run behind your body and he will definitely marry you......my parents also had love marriage my mother was from poor family my father financially helped her in education....now my mother is a gazetted officer....i ll also marry my first lover....ye jo aaj kl ex bf gf hai ye sb galat hai...i think one should marry his/her first lover

  • @alkakumari6645
    @alkakumari6645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You both are doing ...great job .. thanks a lot mam..🙏
    You deal with all Sensitive issue ...that is usually neglected by the Patriarchal thinking ...hope so it will bring a huge change ..in our society ..again thanks..❤️
    One more thing...I used to learn english...from your videos..how to explain little things..in such a familiar way..every word used by you both that is so simple..so that this video can reach..to more people..🙏👍

    • @user-nm8gv4ty5o
      @user-nm8gv4ty5o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely 👍🙏 correct mam

    • @subham1248
      @subham1248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What do u mean by patriarchal thinking ??? Before marriage u all want playboy with deep pocket and at the time of marraige,u want to marry a simple virgin guy,u feminists r such hypocrites

    • @user-tq6pc1jl2c
      @user-tq6pc1jl2c 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally agree with you Alka. Thanks to this video, people will stop objectification of women, atleast the ones watching it with basic commonsense.

  • @rosynishatudu1402
    @rosynishatudu1402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Maam you are so cute..... And I follow all your videos, thanks for providing us knowledge.

  • @satyansharma1166
    @satyansharma1166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is they're Apple podcast channel of yours? Because I love to listen your podcast rather than watching video. If possible do start Ma'm. You are changing the mind set of world through discussion's and knowledge.

  • @user-nm8gv4ty5o
    @user-nm8gv4ty5o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Don't ask these types taboo questions man..Seema mam your story is always informative I learn so many things and also learn English..Great job🙏🙏.. You are really great

  • @debasishsingh1450
    @debasishsingh1450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Glad to see you amrita mam after so many days.thanks for come again

  • @rk.jewels1
    @rk.jewels1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Dr amrita is looking so cute ❤️

  • @shajipavithran6660
    @shajipavithran6660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Always its very interesting to watch your program very informative 🙏

  • @pashupatinathprasad
    @pashupatinathprasad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am not agree with both of you . What my view in this regard -- Sex before marriage is not right in any respect. It creates many difficulties after that. If one does better to marry him/her. If not possible better to disclose your would be before marriage .

  • @darshan3869
    @darshan3869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am 28 and virgin. I saved myself emotionally and physically for one special person in my life that is my wife. So what's wrong in expecting same from girl???? Yes I will ask her for her previous relationships, if she is not virgin then it's definitely Not OK for me..
    And for this vidoe creators one suggestion is that stop showing people who looks for Virgin men or women for marriage in bad way. Don't see all in same manner. It's better we should respect each other's opinions than getting into bad relationships with lies

    • @destroyerprime1822
      @destroyerprime1822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello brother i wish to god u get the girl u want in ur life and i actually liked the point that u have the patience to wait till matriage although i am a supporter of premaritial sex but i see ur wish is not wrong but only one thing i would say that i disliked is if ur partner has had premaritial sex then u shouldn't judge her for that its both of ur choice she might be very caring for u very supportive and all but just because she has had premaritial sex u shouldnt say she would be not OK cause thats wrong but if u want a virgin girl pray to god for the one he will give u tge best girl the girl u want he loves u and knows when is just right i wish u a happy life

    • @darshan3869
      @darshan3869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@destroyerprime1822 I don't marry a girl who had previous relationships. Then what's point of judging her?? I don't want her in my life. Let her do whatever she want do.

    • @today7746
      @today7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi brother, agreed you may have saved yourself for marriage but what have yiu exactly saved? You have saved uo emotionally in the sense you have never loved anyone or even had a crush on anyone?Becuase physical virginity dosen't exist and there is nothing to save
      With respect to your second question . Its about why will you have an issue with someone's past ? It's about the mindset. Everyone likes particular kind of people with different characters. You have completely right to choose the man or women you want. But the way choose one tells alot about your own character. So you may want to understand why do you feel a non virgin girl would be any different from a virgin girl? How are they different? Are you objectifying women? Intrispect

    • @today7746
      @today7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@darshan3869 exactly! No women will want guy who will check for her sexual pats before her character or even check for ot at all.

    • @pk417
      @pk417 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@darshan3869 bro never marry a person with past ....there are many research which proves that number of pre Marital partners increase the chances of divorce and people who were single till marriage had most successful marriage....i can see an idiot in ur comment section...and i have already proved him wrong on the same topic in different video comment section with all facts...so please inki baato mai mt aana never marry a person with a past.....past do have a huge impact....all the best bro👍

  • @aritrabanerjee9534
    @aritrabanerjee9534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    @seemaanandstorytelling Want to know more about the Demon Vaskala, you had mentioned of in the Durga Series. Are there any that you can suggest me for that or anything else? Please help.

  • @navkishlay
    @navkishlay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hi Seema, it is wonderful topic you came up with. And I very much agree with the points you highlighted. I personally feel that having sexual experience for both genders before marriage is a personal choice. And there is nothing wrong. And certifying someone's character based on it would be demeaning and unfair. I do feel that it is important for both the partners to know each other's preference and compatibility. Nothing more than that. The matching of frequency is important. As a male gender I feel it is good if my partner has an experience it allows me to connect with the person and experiment. And yes we must break these shackles or prejudices of our society. Allowing every individual have a free will.

    • @pk417
      @pk417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I don't agree with you

    • @saniatamanna7763
      @saniatamanna7763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I too. Because if a person wanted and agrees to have sex before marriage then we surely know the person's inner mind because they are only choosing you for your body and testing you if you are good at bed or not. I have seen some cases where the person don't marry the girl after having such things and sometimes the girl got pregnant. What type of situation the girl will fall. And society will never give the exact and same right to a child born out of wedlock. So they should never think about sex before marriage. But they can talked about birth controls, family planning etc. But choice is theirs to choose what is right or wrong.

    • @NFS691
      @NFS691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@saniatamanna7763well,, atleast found sensible comments

    • @ankitroshan8650
      @ankitroshan8650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't agree.

    • @vishvaraj9728
      @vishvaraj9728 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@saniatamanna7763 choosing you for ur body itseems🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @udaaybagade343
    @udaaybagade343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One man one woman ( wife ) is a law , not nature .

    • @udaaybagade343
      @udaaybagade343 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for the highlightenness

    • @prasannar4827
      @prasannar4827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      then power of sexual pleasure will become weak....,
      have u ever thought about why males in Animals are not aroused when they see naked female ( but in humans it's a big industry like playboy, porn...etc)
      have u ever thought about why Animals are not having oral fetishes to the level humans have...,
      have u ever thought about why Animals are not fantasizing Group orgies more frequent like humans for them it's only seasonal and very less in their life time..., in many cases looking at other animal having sex in not even arousing for another one....but in humans it's a billion dollar industry every day porn..., more categories...., and we humans getting pleasure form looking someone having sex / even half naked images....
      but in animal kingdom porn and playboy magazine has no demand , not because they are having sex/group orgies/ gangbangs daily......in reality they are numbed/ desensitized ...there is no foreplay in animals ...comparing to humans it's only 5% for an assumption.....
      Animals have all the sexual freedom , even rape is legal no one gonna punish animals in their world....but sexual energy is only lacking if we make it normal....
      One man one woman ( wife ) is a law of Sexual Power, if Humans adopt to Animals sexual behaviour because it natural sex won't be satisfying......
      The Argument called Humans are different when it comes to sex , we must enjoy it whenever & where ever we want will turn us into Animals and we adopt to animals sexuality.....is it a pleasure or pain...?

  • @rajeshujjainwal5685
    @rajeshujjainwal5685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Does spirituality kill desire....?

    • @Ju-cg6ie
      @Ju-cg6ie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sex before marriage is wrong according to the Bible, believe it or not your choice. You will always have desires because of our human nature. The love of God and wanting to do his will and remain abstinent is the only thing that will help you. But if you do have sex before marriage will forgive you.

    • @sahelee1
      @sahelee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sakshi Sharma could you explain why?

    • @udaaybagade343
      @udaaybagade343 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ju-cg6ie Bible is a gospel of salvation so if do anything against the Bible means you will be hold back by Saturn and Saturn is nothing but a programme which has the information regarding the thinking and feeling of an individual so if you have many acts which which are to be matched and zeroed upon to do before salvation.

    • @Ju-cg6ie
      @Ju-cg6ie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@udaaybagade343 Don't think I understand what Saturn is, but what the Bible teaches is about salvation and holy living they go together,band it's a journey, no one is expected to be perfect.

  • @souravmisra4080
    @souravmisra4080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think considering sex before marriage a sin, is a Christian and Islamic phenomenon.

  • @2024comingforyou
    @2024comingforyou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For once I thought this would be an intellectual debate

  • @bhupendersinghshekhawat9866
    @bhupendersinghshekhawat9866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Some people say women can't forget whom they have had sexual encounters with, is that so?

    • @ashokattv
      @ashokattv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Learn to love ur partner sir. And learn how to have sex not by practicing but by reading. And ultimately its all improvement everyday with your partner. There are certain secrets where you both can become intimate. And never ever think about the past. You'll enjoy ur partner.

    • @spotrex3323
      @spotrex3323 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its only true if you are their first

    • @makeneeteasy7956
      @makeneeteasy7956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Men too
      Remember everything 😜
      Memory every body has I think

    • @pk417
      @pk417 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashokattv bhai tu kyu logo se jhooth bol rha hai

    • @ashokattv
      @ashokattv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pk417 lie in the sense of ?

  • @prakashtiwari8003
    @prakashtiwari8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Following western culture blindly is not only insane but disastrous. I don't care about morality and religious bullshit yet it's so wrong to be in multiple relationship. It's seriously damage the emotional and psychological health of a person irrespective of gender. Those who are saying sex as something less significant factor in marriage is clearly wrong. Sex is the very important factor in any healthy relationship. And sexual intercourse signify the peak behaviour when you are in love with you significant others. This same casual relationship have destroyed the western society. Now divorce rate in USA is 54% which is bigger than ever. Average Americans have atleast 10 to 15 body counts which is biggest reason behind failure of institutions like marriage. But definitely everyone have their own preference.

  • @therisingstar1728
    @therisingstar1728 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    After Nafisa ali dr.seema is the only other woman I have huge crush on..
    Well I like older women..
    Don't know why but I do..
    Is there anything wrong..❤️

  • @udaaybagade343
    @udaaybagade343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Only human marry
    There are property issues so marriage made compulsory plus who will cook the food and look after the children.

  • @prakashtiwari8003
    @prakashtiwari8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will recommend all, specially men to follow Jordan Peterson. He is pshycological scientists in university of Toronto.

  • @jobwaalaengineer
    @jobwaalaengineer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Informative talk but one sided as well. Didn't deal properly from the male angle. Was expecting more insight into it with all round coverage but it wasn't. Bit dissappointed. My question still remains the same "what if the man is virgin and the female isn't? And what if he finds about it only after the marriage?"

  • @jojoexperience
    @jojoexperience 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Oyo rooms should be easier to book

    • @vishaln1903
      @vishaln1903 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 i second that

  • @dhanyapappu5601
    @dhanyapappu5601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    both of you are very beautiful....loved the video

  • @Arav0ab
    @Arav0ab 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Make video on
    * Orgasm without ejaculation (not million dollar point) techniques . * Also, is any harmful effects , if semen get into prostate gland while controlling ejaculation.

  • @rp8028
    @rp8028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seema had a good youtube channel where she narrated erotic and non erotic mythological stories that could captivate the audience and convey a deeper message or a moral . But sadly this channel has degenerated in to a channel where porn and several porn categories is mainstreamized and normalized. What a pity that it has come to this. I deleted the post where I shared this channel with others on facebook and have unsubscribed to it on you tube.

  • @sudeepKumariit
    @sudeepKumariit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    No no no.. I am 27 still virgin.. I want virgin wife..
    Wife should admit her past relationship..

    • @pk417
      @pk417 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @subham1248
      @subham1248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      True,u have right to ask for it,first these playboys rake up 20 girlfriends n leave them,and virgin guys comes under pressure and feminist pass judgement on us as narrow-minded

    • @today7746
      @today7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey you have full right to get married to whomever you want. But om whay basis you choose a person says alot about you. So you can think over as to why you feel a non virgin is any different from a virgin girl? Do you feel girls are objects who get damaged or something? Or do you feel they become characterless after someome broke their heart in the past . Like what makes you feel a virgin girl is better ? A virgin girl cannot do extra marital affair ?

    • @my_pride_bharat
      @my_pride_bharat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@today7746 chances of extra marital affair of virgin is less as compared to non virgin. think a girl who can control till marriage will go for extra marital affair ? what logic you are giving ? looks like advocate of non virgins. Its higher chances that non virgin can go with ex bf. Can you please tell me whether non virgin will forget her ex bf after marriage ? don't you read in news papers " प्रेमी के साथ मिलकर की पति की हत्या" ?

    • @today7746
      @today7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@my_pride_bharat hey who said virgin women don't have bfs? they also run away with ex bfs even after having sex with present bfs. They were just virgins by chance . And there are many who do extra marital after having sex with their husbands with new people even if they didn't have past boyfriends.And also there are many people who have had sex before marriage and still faithful to their partners.
      Whether someone stays with you or not dosen't depend on whether they are virgin or not, but depends on their character and whether they want to live with you forever and their will ti make it work.
      Also there is no urge or anything , usually people are just virgin by chance. I am also a virgin. I don't have any urge or anything. Its pretty normal. There is self control involved of any kind.
      And yes I am very clearly stating that people forget their past partner once they are in faithful marriage.
      Also I am not advocating virginity or non virginity, I am advocating that there is no difference between bot the people, accept that one has knowledge about s a few things. Its a social construct created by the Britishers and we haven't unlearnt it yet. There is no concept of virginity in indian concept.
      And if someome is choosing partners based on virginity, they are only at loss as they will loose meeting many good people, but that's their choice .

  • @devankurmitra4118
    @devankurmitra4118 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the solution is to get more men laid too, teach them to get laid more. its usually the feeling of inadequacy that triggers this response. Men usually sacrifice a lot of these experiences in order to have good careers to eventually support a family of their own, women are more relaxed in general. so either starts putting the same burden on women or less burden on men (which means for women to be less hypergamous as well).

  • @udaaybagade343
    @udaaybagade343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    An experienced employee does a job in a better way than a newbee .

  • @aksharadinesh5720
    @aksharadinesh5720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think the mindset of most men are conditioned like this because of strong religious beliefs.

  • @azharali6577
    @azharali6577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great

  • @spotrex3323
    @spotrex3323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    If you are virgin women not matter how much bad your sex is,man will not breakup with you just because of bad sex,but if you are not virgin he will surely breakup with you so do not get misguided by these women they just knows women perspective not man's most of their advise will lead to your break up if you are women and follow these women's advise

    • @today7746
      @today7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi
      A man or a women will breakup if you both don't have compatibility and the will to make.the relationship work. Please don't get mislead by the above comment. If someone is breaking up with becuase of your part , that means they are objevtifying their partners and they are characterless. So before the man leave you , the women can leave thme and get married sto a better person.

  • @udaaybagade343
    @udaaybagade343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Few days are remaining about the understanding about pre- marital sex , with in few years from now nobody is going to bother so much about their partner having sex before they met each other .

  • @9414350148
    @9414350148 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    seema mam you arethe reflection of a women should be

  • @overdmeawic6435
    @overdmeawic6435 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maam what if i m virgin and didn't looked at a relationship for sex anytime in life , can i expect virgin wife?

    • @karmaisntreal
      @karmaisntreal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, what's the proof? Even I can say I am Virgin my entire life and you will believe it?

    • @overdmeawic6435
      @overdmeawic6435 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karmaisntreal I know i m virgin why should I convince you that yes i am.

  • @kumarvasu4375
    @kumarvasu4375 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What can I do she & he lie
    That time

  • @spotrex3323
    @spotrex3323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It is totally sinful for women to have sex before marriage in worlds every religion,do not believe these women they are misleading you,these women's advise will lead to your divorce,these marriage are not broken yet only because their husband are totally compromising a lot ,and have in lot of psychological pain

  • @amarendrasinghrathore586
    @amarendrasinghrathore586 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma'am I'm a virgin and I just want to stay that way for my special one, but if I'm staying vergin for her can't I expect her to be virgin too? I believe sex is a type of love and if you give your virginity other than your husband/wife isint it wrong?

    • @karmaisntreal
      @karmaisntreal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How will you prove you are virgin? She should just believe your words but you can't believe hers.

  • @priyanshuranjansahu6057
    @priyanshuranjansahu6057 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bhamacharya , ghrusta ,banprast and syanshi

  • @9414350148
    @9414350148 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    please make a video on a man should be like ??

  • @dhruvchopra3085
    @dhruvchopra3085 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why u can't conversate in hindi

  • @yuvraj2177
    @yuvraj2177 ปีที่แล้ว

    Virgin want virgin
    Seedhi baat no bkwass
    Do kodi k feminist door rhe

  • @ishaangogna6884
    @ishaangogna6884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why not you upload video in HINDI??

  • @jassidhunne6192
    @jassidhunne6192 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😊

  • @today7746
    @today7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Many people say they are virgin so they deserve a virgin
    Be a virgin or not, you cannot objectify anyone. If you do I sympathize with you
    I would like to know how is you being a virgin make you any better than another person. Does someone's character change after someone broke their heart?
    Believing in the concept of virginity which is already proved to be a myth a itself shows the lack of sexual education and good values

    • @inspectornarayana5447
      @inspectornarayana5447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nobody said that is a better character, i wouldnt date a girl who smokes or consumes alcohol . I dont think alcohol consumption is a character flaw . I am a person who waits till marriage and i will be compatible with some one of similar view

    • @today7746
      @today7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@inspectornarayana5447yes,, if you have a strict if you have a frame of illogical view, of whose stooping you?

    • @inspectornarayana5447
      @inspectornarayana5447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@today7746 then why are you bullshitying allover about people having preferences

    • @inspectornarayana5447
      @inspectornarayana5447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@today7746 you are the kind of person who says not dating a transperson is homophobic

    • @today7746
      @today7746 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@inspectornarayana5447 firstly you are the one who is now starting a bullshit conversation. If you don't want to understand what I said and why I said, then mind your own business. I will continue to raise my voice agai st objectification of women which is unscientific while you can choose to do your nonsense

  • @KumaunExplorer
    @KumaunExplorer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One suggestion please don't mind can we expect black hair

    • @prernadutta2595
      @prernadutta2595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's her wish, she can keep the way she wants it to be... Why should you even "expect" her to act as per your whims or wishes?

  • @jyotindramody9591
    @jyotindramody9591 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dr Anvita new hairstyle. You look charming.👍😎

  • @priyanshuranjansahu6057
    @priyanshuranjansahu6057 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maharshi vatsyayan is a akhand bhamachari

  • @spotrex3323
    @spotrex3323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If you are virgin women not matter how much bad your sex is,man will not breakup with you just because of bad sex,but if you are not virgin he will surely breakup with you so do not get misguided by these women they just knows women perspective not man's most of their advise will lead to your break up if you are women and follow these women's advise

    • @sahelee1
      @sahelee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly the point. Why men are such hypocrite? You should change your mentality and don't judge women by their virginity dtatus. How do you like it if woman does the same? Be educated and stop posting bullshits..

    • @swapnilrevankar6368
      @swapnilrevankar6368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sahelee1 its not bullshit. What he is saying is fact. Why does everybody wants to force others to have same mindset as them... Marry someone who have same lifestyle as you is the best solution here. Don't care about whole society as u can't control it anyway

    • @sahelee1
      @sahelee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @V G not Men, it's Indian men. So please upgrade your thoughts the way you've upgraded your mobile.

    • @sahelee1
      @sahelee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @V G why does that bother you? My alma matter and career are more important than anything else and I would look for someone who has those elements..and these things are beyond your understanding. Show some dignity to ask question.you are a perv. And I hope you get a proper lesson someday..

    • @sahelee1
      @sahelee1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @V G OMG!! I don't waste time on some trivial thing..what matters to me is how well behaved a person is. Virginity is not even there on my list.if you want a virgin wife, make sure you're also virgin..don't be hypocrite just because you've got an organ by birth..use your brain also.. and you also stop playing the morality card..