Proposed in Car After 10 Yrs - She LEAVES Him

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ต.ค. 2024
  • A woman waited 10 years for a ring and when she got it, there was no thought put into it and it happened while they were driving. Instead of saying yes, she goes home packs her stuck and leaves
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  • @lkpeace911
    @lkpeace911 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +686

    And it’s probably safe to assume that over 10 years she’s expressed to him what kind of proposal she dreams of. He completely ignored it.

    • @mle6501
      @mle6501 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      WHY? Why does it matter?

    • @JaiK64
      @JaiK64 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      ​@@mle6501 it matters because it shows he hasn't been listening to her.

    • @thebarbieinvestor5428
      @thebarbieinvestor5428 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      He been not paying her no mind for a decade. Been playing w her. She accepted it. Why would he do better or give her more than she requires?
      Man logic! Neither party is wrong imo

    • @idaruth6293
      @idaruth6293 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mle6501it matters

    • @user-nn7hw1sr6p
      @user-nn7hw1sr6p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I bet she wanted something to show off to her friends.

  • @kerarants3550
    @kerarants3550 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +783

    The scary part is that she’s so calm. She’s definitely done with him.

    • @raesumm
      @raesumm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @naturallyme6937
      @naturallyme6937 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

      Absolutely! And he already knew it that's why he finally proposed.

    • @maryannashaw5988
      @maryannashaw5988 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Scary ? She shouldn't be with him that long. If they have been together for 10 long years is not marriage material. 🙄🙄

    • @stacieharris
      @stacieharris 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      The fact that he has no problem recording her face, but then when she turns the camera on him, he's covering his face with his hands.
      And also he doesn't respect her boundaries. She asked him to stop recording but he keeps on recording in hopes that the social media audience will shame her and humiliate her. He is not a safe man, he does not like her. I'm glad she is leaving.

    • @Heat_Rush
      @Heat_Rush 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      ​@@maryannashaw5988She probably got in the relationship for love, she waited for marriage, and when that didn't happen she stayed for convenience. She said that she was looking for marriage 5 years ago, so she probably sees him as a roommate who splits the bills that she can sleep with from time to time.

  • @michellepreston9799
    @michellepreston9799 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +620

    The thing is men know what kinda woman they have. They know what makes her happy. They just don't want to make her happy.

    • @nashad9349
      @nashad9349 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Bing Bing binnngg 💯💯💯
      They know what women like. They just her to feel unworthy so that she waits around and doesn't go anywhere.

    • @user-dt2kv1ck3w
      @user-dt2kv1ck3w หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I would not have waited ten freaking years for shit!!! I would have left eight years ago!!!

    • @serenasgardenshares
      @serenasgardenshares หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Until it's too late!

    • @ChrissyReam
      @ChrissyReam หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@user-dt2kv1ck3w
      10 years is better than 10 years and one month. Unfortunately, every woman doesn't know to not wait. I waited an actual 8 years for a guy. I didnt know not to trust his words and trust his actions. I definitely had people around me see it and say nothing. Its a personal journey getting to the point where you learn better and do better.

    • @lisaphillips9991
      @lisaphillips9991 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      After 6 months you don't know what to do with me I'm GONEEEEEEE!...😅 ...Child you had no right to be with this man finna that long with his half ass proposal...like hell nooo!..bye felicia..

  • @earlywilliseekthee8060
    @earlywilliseekthee8060 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    He acted like he was doing her a favor so NO. Good for her.

  • @piafrancisca1644
    @piafrancisca1644 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +568

    just the fact that he's recording this shit with hopes of going viral on tiktok is a HUUUUGE RED FLAG

    • @tammygarrett8427
      @tammygarrett8427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      I agree he know she would be disappointed.

    • @relaxurmind8848
      @relaxurmind8848 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      He sound like a narcissist!

    • @piafrancisca1644
      @piafrancisca1644 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@relaxurmind8848 100% he's recording what happened to get attention and make himself look like the victim.

    • @solaris5922
      @solaris5922 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Cause he knows a lot of men will hype him up for being a horrible person.

    • @MsShay78
      @MsShay78 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Major

  • @helenl7516
    @helenl7516 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +471

    After 10 years and living together, to think he proposed to her AS she is driving shows that he's not into her. That man couldn't even take her to dinner 😢

    • @anyanabanks6276
      @anyanabanks6276 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      She said just this..

    • @Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv
      @Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      If you make me wait 10 years there better be some thought put into it. This is disgraceful🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @CA-zn9bq
      @CA-zn9bq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      He needs her. Sh takes care of everything, I bet.

    • @idaruth6293
      @idaruth6293 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      A beach
      A hotel
      A diner
      At home but decorated with just flowers
      In a park
      In a skycraper
      I mean.....

    • @Treasuretheadvisor
      @Treasuretheadvisor 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      He ran out of options and just proposed to her

  • @dchanelb.3289
    @dchanelb.3289 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +484

    He probably felt like she was drifting away and proposed to try to keep her 🤷🏽‍♀️ she’s done

    • @kat420365
      @kat420365 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      yep, been there

    • @CLyno_Tha_Black_Rose
      @CLyno_Tha_Black_Rose 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I agree

    • @sungaze342
      @sungaze342 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      He definitely gonna cry in that empty apartment because he will be more hurt he brought this on himself

    • @saraib3219
      @saraib3219 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Exactly what it was!!

    • @Mrzcakesn6
      @Mrzcakesn6 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      And the other woman left him… 😂😂

  • @Me-vq7sy
    @Me-vq7sy หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    He hides his face but records and posts hers. She definitely made the right choice.

    • @Ourown311
      @Ourown311 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Me-vq7sy yea he doesn't want anyone else to have her, while he thinks he can still get someone else. They don't even realize they make themselves look weak and worse.

  • @rebels42wynn83
    @rebels42wynn83 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +298

    I do not blame her at all. This is just so pathetic.

    • @sungaze342
      @sungaze342 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      PATHETIC

  • @tessy28
    @tessy28 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +525

    Never wait more than 2 years. A man knows within a year if he wants to marry you and believe me he is PERFECTLY capable of planning a proposal!😊

    • @ArA-og1dv
      @ArA-og1dv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      It 1 or 2 seasons to get to Know someone ( Afrikan proverb) Asè
      Diaspora has lost a lot.

    • @yelxebi.392
      @yelxebi.392 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      2 years is too long. In 3 months let them know your plans another 1-3 months to act on it (with a ring, or moving in etc..) depending on your style and how you move; if it's not reciprocated in that time frame, then move on. 6 months minimum, 1 year max, but you have to TALK and let them know what you want and be okay to move on if they don't want the same.

    • @eternalabundance39
      @eternalabundance39 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@yelxebi.392smart will follow this

    • @eternalabundance39
      @eternalabundance39 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@yelxebi.392A former friend had her boyfriend living with her in the house she got. They were together for 3 years already, claimed wanted to be with her forever but would talk down on being married. She kicked him out of her house basically ~then was quick to propose. I think he wanted to just keep living there. I think we get so afraid to lose these guys.

    • @DebraKimmm
      @DebraKimmm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      ​​@@yelxebi.392 i wouldn't marry no man after a year thats way too short unless is like a millionaire are something..

  • @SidneySavaage
    @SidneySavaage 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +319

    She’s been over it. It’s definitely a: here damn!” ring 😂 I don’t blame her

    • @CA-zn9bq
      @CA-zn9bq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Like how Martin did, Gina.

  • @melaniebrown8691
    @melaniebrown8691 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +212

    I hope she's done with him for real.

  • @charnicecharles1080
    @charnicecharles1080 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +666

    She’s entitled to not accept the proposal on whatever grounds. Period!

    • @digimonalvatrax2738
      @digimonalvatrax2738 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      😂I misunderstood the context of this comment my bad

    • @ashleybanksss
      @ashleybanksss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I literally almost misunderstood the context of this comment too😅

    • @anicsim8390
      @anicsim8390 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      But he's not entitled to wait 10 years on his on terms...

    • @B_Me1111
      @B_Me1111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      ​@@anicsim8390He is... And she doesn't have to accept it. Now they'll meet their match

    • @bjackson8101
      @bjackson8101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ashleybanksssI had to re-read it. I almost missed it too lol.

  • @eensanom
    @eensanom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +246

    That doesn’t look like a skit to me. At all.
    There’s actually people like this.

  • @carmelvillard
    @carmelvillard 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +256

    The ring is fake. He's trash for trying to pull her wig off. Run girl.

  • @astrohitter1791
    @astrohitter1791 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +180

    Then he runs to social media to "expose" her. Im speechless
    Hes so gross. What is she supposed to be grateful for? That struggle engagement and fake ring? He hates her. If i was upset the last thing i would expect a loved one to do is shove a camera in my face.

    • @TonyaTkoClips
      @TonyaTkoClips  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Exactly

    • @satoril928
      @satoril928 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TonyaTkoClipshe’s a disgusting loser.

  • @nikkinonames5265
    @nikkinonames5265 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +264

    He's proposing now because he has health issues, about to get fired or got another woman pregnant or all of thee above! After 10 yrs she stayed far too long

    • @ReneaWolfe-i4v
      @ReneaWolfe-i4v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh we're speculating now and acting like it's facts?? I love this game, my turn....
      She has been cheating on him the entire time and gave him an STD. So she started pressing him to propose because the guy that gave her the STD married someone else last week! She's mad because the ring the STD guy gave to his fiance on Facebook is much better than the ring this guy gave.
      It's fun to make up sh*t to make ourselves feel better about our own lives, innit??? 😂😂

    • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
      @PettyIsMyMiddleName 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ReneaWolfe-i4vu sound bitter AF, jobless , miserable who goes around doing what u did ? For what ?
      Get a hobby

    • @taz9234
      @taz9234 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Nope stayed with a man 15 years. Biggest mistake of my life staying with that loser. I even hated being with him.

    • @trumpshairismyspiritanimal9264
      @trumpshairismyspiritanimal9264 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ReneaWolfe-i4vSorry about your situation. Hope it's better now.

    • @msweetness2202
      @msweetness2202 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your version sounds too made up and unrealistic. You reaching too much. 😂😂😂

  • @MarinaM-o6p
    @MarinaM-o6p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +261

    Proposing in the car after 10 years of living together …… she should have left him after 6 Months…..your analyzing skills are great .

    • @Heat_Rush
      @Heat_Rush 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If he's helping her, then maybe she stayed out of convenience.

    • @Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv
      @Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      If you make me wait 10 years there better be some thought put into it. This is disgraceful🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @yelxebi.392
    @yelxebi.392 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +463

    Ring not even in the box....he snatched that.

    • @TonyaTkoClips
      @TonyaTkoClips  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      😭😂😂

    • @tammygarrett8427
      @tammygarrett8427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      I agree He did not even wrap it. Where is the box?

    • @atmodlee
      @atmodlee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Maybe he’s just showing it and the box is in his lap or something

    • @joybrooks564
      @joybrooks564 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Or brought it second hand

    • @jewdy8915
      @jewdy8915 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      It’s dirty. He didn’t even try to clean it.

  • @sampsonlittle7368
    @sampsonlittle7368 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +326

    She’s giving him way too much dialog.

    • @welshlady212000
      @welshlady212000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      This ⬆️ stop giving them your emotions.

    • @shylapollard5165
      @shylapollard5165 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      She's driving. She can't get away from him atm

    • @sampsonlittle7368
      @sampsonlittle7368 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@shylapollard5165 stop the car and get out.

    • @sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS
      @sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      ​@@sampsonlittle7368It's her car I think. He should be getting out.

    • @sampsonlittle7368
      @sampsonlittle7368 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS I’d rather get out of my own car, than to be manipulated with this man’s words any longer.

  • @nibirunemi7406
    @nibirunemi7406 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    Once u see it. U can’t unsee it. so I don’t blame her. I’m actually proud of her. 10 years is a long time. there is absolutely no reason to waste 10 more. I hope she really left.

  • @MusiqallyDivine
    @MusiqallyDivine 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    Run sis run! This is so disrespectful.

  • @ONLYLOVEIZATION
    @ONLYLOVEIZATION 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    This is why it’s better to leave most men in silence. When they aren’t present!

  • @MsDreamofmine
    @MsDreamofmine 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    I agree so much with Tonya. This young lady had a ton of bricks just hit her in the face! Her ego crushed that she wasted so much of her life with a man who has NO-thing! It’s not just about the money; He had No effort, No respect, No love, No kindness, No compassion, No symbolism.. NO-THING! It acted as he was doing her a favor saying, “well you’re the one who keeps saying you want to be married”! Like Dude, that Ring didn’t even have any SHINE to it! The ring was dull just like that dull ASH proposal!
    Yes, she can take part of the responsibility for staying so long but when your ego gets crushed and you finally realize that this is it; it’s Fight or Flight… Run Girl, Run!🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @cassandrabartee4999
    @cassandrabartee4999 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    The age of where melanated women are expected to accept the barest minimum & struggle love being at the pinnacle of it all. Absolutely NOT! There comes a time when you should remove the blinders & truly see what's been in front of you the entire time. Knowing your worth is crucial & priceless.

    • @ONLYLOVEIZATION
      @ONLYLOVEIZATION 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      and that goes for bad friendships too.

    • @RS-xs7vl
      @RS-xs7vl หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And these are the same men complaining when a black woman finds a man of another race who loves her well… can’t be mad if you won’t do better.

  • @geremymason5936
    @geremymason5936 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Dude may as well just threw the ring at her and said “here you go.” Listen to how he even says “you got proposed to” and not “I’m proposing to you.” Can never take accountability or make a commitment.

  • @neakxo
    @neakxo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +219

    She shouldve just moves out while he was asleep.

    • @ceemee6658
      @ceemee6658 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      Absolutely! No need to announce it so he can snap on her! I left for DC when I served my ex with divorce papers.

    • @TonyaTkoClips
      @TonyaTkoClips  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Lololol. Exactly

    • @tammygarrett8427
      @tammygarrett8427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I agree I would have let him go to work and then leave. He can get upset when you try to leave.

    • @Dani-fc1hc
      @Dani-fc1hc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Yes 5 years ago because he was playing.

    • @lisa196409
      @lisa196409 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Or he should have moved out

  • @niese8928
    @niese8928 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    It’s a hard NO!!! Bare minimum energy.. The dynamic alone with her driving and him in the passenger seat says alot. I rarely see other races of men in the passenger seat while their girlfriend or wife drives..Leave and never look back

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      You are so spot on sis that is so absolutely true it hit her in the face today that she was dealing with a nothing man

  • @Milyme83
    @Milyme83 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    She was 100% right ! She finally open her eyes. I think she realized what people was telling her yearsss before

  • @ButterflyBree
    @ButterflyBree 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    I'm learning that we as women have to leave all these relationships where Folks show us they don't value or genuinely love us. Staying in unhealthy relationships too long costs us so much time and energy that we can't get back. 😔😔

    • @islandgirl8067
      @islandgirl8067 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      💯💯💯💯

    • @t.c.5456
      @t.c.5456 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Duh😂 it is called self respect

  • @TOFFEETASTICC
    @TOFFEETASTICC 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +175

    He resents his placeholder woman cause he doesn’t have access to the women he really wants. His aggressive and pushy behavior towards her is misplaced. 😕

    • @furrymonkeything
      @furrymonkeything 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Or man , he really wants. He doesn't love her. Hope they don't have kids.

    • @noneno2805
      @noneno2805 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wowwwww 🔥

  • @michelledavidson1781
    @michelledavidson1781 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Narcissists only give when you no longer want something. They hope to "rehook" you.

    • @LgndryBredot
      @LgndryBredot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

    • @marilyngarcia750
      @marilyngarcia750 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @Ourown311
      @Ourown311 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      This comment needs to be pinned. Cuz this is exactly what they do.

    • @khloe-nicolestevenson1851
      @khloe-nicolestevenson1851 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Everyone that has narc tendencies is not a narc

    • @bridgettepalmer860
      @bridgettepalmer860 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He felt she had slipped away and was just biding her time

  • @silknsatin1325
    @silknsatin1325 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    “Let me show yall something world…”
    No, take us out the group chat and grow up!

  • @Momma766
    @Momma766 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    That ring is pitiful

  • @adithalee8660
    @adithalee8660 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Ten years just means he couldn't find any other woman better so he SETTLED FOR HER THE OLD GAL. And you can tell he settled by the way he talks to her and using the mind games. A woman he is head over in love with he'd ask sooner and would talk more softer, like "Babe. I love you. What can I do?" And there would be tears and he'd come up with something more extravagant. Etc.

  • @herscepter5263
    @herscepter5263 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    This reminds me of when Martin first proposed to Gina. She said sarcastically, "This is the proposal she's been wanting for all her life." Afterwards, Gina walked out and left Martin.

    • @TonyaTkoClips
      @TonyaTkoClips  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Really? I guess I didn't watch that long

    • @shiningstar4885
      @shiningstar4885 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Right!! I remember that episode. Gina played her part very well

    • @Heat_Rush
      @Heat_Rush 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Yep, he said, " fine, Gina, I will marry you, are you happy now?

    • @Ourown311
      @Ourown311 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@Heat_Rush wow I guess we should have seen it then, these males don't treat anyone right, including their so called preferences.

  • @alexandria_mckoy
    @alexandria_mckoy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    It’s the fact that he’s arguing with her for saying no. I worked in fine jewelry for 2-3 years, I don’t know his finances, but to propose in a car and with little effort of how the ring looks (unless that’s her style), I agree with her. If you’re proposing in a car after 10 years, that shows how little you care about the moment being special for her.
    As I’m continuing watching, it seems like she made a smart choice. It’s the fact that he’s not understanding where she’s coming from and keeps saying “whatchu mean” and then says “I can’t get my money back”. This is about HIM. That’s why he’s recording. He doesn’t care about her needs or feelings. To care more about the internet rather than the person you are with, is wild. She has a right to say no.

    • @daliciabenton4327
      @daliciabenton4327 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A smart choice would’ve been not waiting 10 years smh he been like that since day 1 . She know what kind of man she had. He ain’t neva been romantic so why she expect a romantic proposal smh

  • @keturaequalizer
    @keturaequalizer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    She was done with him. Men like stringing women along and then when the woman fianlly gets fed up and says enough is enough then men say you are ungrateful. He is a jerk! I think he sensed that she was going to leave him and then he decided to throw the ring in her face to get her to stay. Good job mamma! Walk away and never look back. Its his loss. 😐😑

    • @t.c.5456
      @t.c.5456 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No, women like playing themselves out for 🤡s - 😂😂😂😂😂😂 - “stringing her along” NOPE she strung herself after 5

    • @sungaze342
      @sungaze342 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And someone said he snatched that 🤣🤣🤣 because where is the box 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jollygirl94
      @jollygirl94 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yea, I’m in my 5 years coming and he said he love me everyday, but I don’t see the action, I don’t see the ring, I don’t see the initiative more, like I even envy his friends hanging out with him because they get so close to him(even though I know him earlier). He dosent satisfy me in bed, we only do once in 2 years, and I’m a s3xually active person. He n I we have similar hobbies n interests. But topics wise, he used to be more listening, now he sometimes gets annoyed. Like I can’t even be judgemental on the Olympic last supper, or say something incorrect about microwave and radiation because he thinks he’s right(well he is but he looks offended when I say sth wrong, it can be quite hard to adapt to that)

    • @keturaequalizer
      @keturaequalizer 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jollygirl94 You are in an abusive relationship. It will only get worse. Start stratigically making your exit move. Don`t tell him you are leaving. Let him come home one day and find you gone. You deserve better. Get out! 💯

  • @LilithSpeaks.88
    @LilithSpeaks.88 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    That's a Walmart ring purchase. He can exchange it & get his little $200 back somehow 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @kriss8880
      @kriss8880 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That’s what I was thinking lol

  • @mizm01
    @mizm01 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    This looks like a "Shut Up" proposal. He's gaslighting and manipulating her by trying to use fear "Where you gonna go?" and guilt "You know how much money I paid for this? I can't get all my money back" , into forcing her to accept his BS proposal. This is how he proposed after 10 YEARS together?!? Nah 🙅🏿‍♀️

  • @TOFFEETASTICC
    @TOFFEETASTICC 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    That superbowl shut up ring is a reflection of their relationship. 😕

  • @Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv
    @Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    If you make me wait 10 years there better be some thought put into it. This is disgraceful🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @conniemcmillian7010
    @conniemcmillian7010 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Men know within 6 months to a year if you're the one. She is a Place Holder. 😢

    • @Ourown311
      @Ourown311 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And he had the audacity to get mad that she didn't want to remain so. What an a$#h0l3.

  • @cassandraabston8311
    @cassandraabston8311 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    I think he proposed to someone else first that's why the ring is not in a box. They said no and dude don't want to be alone

    • @Momma766
      @Momma766 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He got those nasty little brown diamonds second hand for sure. Then took her weave and kicked her out. Talk about true colors.

    • @niygnay4438
      @niygnay4438 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Facts it’s somebody else ring I don’t want it

    • @tamz-b1h
      @tamz-b1h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Trying to make the other woman jealous

    • @enjolique367
      @enjolique367 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It's from the pawn shop

    • @asajohanna7895
      @asajohanna7895 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's his karma he played himself trying to be a player

  • @aprilwashington96
    @aprilwashington96 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Why does he get to put her face on blast but covers his face when she tries to show his face?????
    #ABUSIVE

  • @egypts.8072
    @egypts.8072 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    He couldn't even get on one knee and he calling her ungrateful. Not worthy of carrying a seed.

  • @ursulatroxler7428
    @ursulatroxler7428 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Gentlemen when a woman doesn’t argue or yell she is done . She doesn’t want to be with him anymore. It’s over this guy is useless . This is just his desperate attempt to keep her in his life.

  • @Oracledeborah
    @Oracledeborah 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    He’s combative and bitter that she pressed him for something that he didn’t want to do. He proposed begrudgingly. They would never be happy.

  • @ineedhoez
    @ineedhoez 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    I don't understand this. I'm not letting a man waste years of my life. If you ain't putting a ring on it on my timeline, I'm going on to the next one.
    She should have been done walked.

    • @Heat_Rush
      @Heat_Rush 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Maybe he's paying half the rent. People stay out of convenience.

    • @tjmccray6287
      @tjmccray6287 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is exactly why most women arent and wont be married

  • @kimberlyplatt2382
    @kimberlyplatt2382 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    We would have done at year 2. Ten years my ass. Notice he was eager to record her and show her face. But was quick to hide his face. When it was his turn?

    • @magmminaj6320
      @magmminaj6320 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      You snatched the thought right out my mind....red flags abound!!

  • @rb5959
    @rb5959 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    😂😂😂 He really thought a raggedy ass proposal would be impressive after 10 years. He probably needs something she has, so he's trying to lock her down. She can do better.

  • @e.williams13
    @e.williams13 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Then he tries to embarrass her by recording her because he feels just that justified...... Any man that tries to shove a camera in my face when him and I are having a conversation..will he left

  • @susanmarks416
    @susanmarks416 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    You see how he covers his face, after recording her face against her will, then is determined to record her again afterwards. Him calling her unappreciative and ungrateful is projection at it's finest.
    It's on her for staying 5 years after not getting propose to when she wanted it.
    Worse of all she lived w/him, so ofc he took her for granted.
    She should've moved out at least 5.5 to 6 years ago when the proposal didn't happen.
    Him and his superbowl ring.

  • @dchanelb.3289
    @dchanelb.3289 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    One of the comments said “did he kill her because that’s their normal reaction when rejected” omg 😭😭😭 I definitely have that fear for her and it’s an internalized fear of mine too.

    • @tammygarrett8427
      @tammygarrett8427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      she should have waited to pack and leave when he was out of the house

    • @dchanelb.3289
      @dchanelb.3289 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@tammygarrett8427 so true, you can’t ever be too safe these days

    • @lilibby1844
      @lilibby1844 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      No because I dead was sitting here like I hope he didn’t jump on her once the recording ended and you know it’s bad when that’s the first thought smh

    • @dchanelb.3289
      @dchanelb.3289 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@lilibby1844 it’s the norm these days sadly, she’s brave because I would never.

  • @TheOriginalScorpioBelle
    @TheOriginalScorpioBelle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    1:22 🤣🤣🤣Did she actually dump him? Because bravo 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 that is one of the best breakups I’ve seen. 💀🤣🤣🤣

  • @tammygarrett8427
    @tammygarrett8427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    She gave him 10 years and he could not take the time to make it special for her. she is driving and had to pull over to even see the ring. WTF He thinks she is ungrateful.
    Leave him you have gave too much and he feels he got you and dose not need to do much to keep her.

  • @pettc6757
    @pettc6757 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    He's recording that and seems proud? He's an abuser.

  • @peachesjeter5480
    @peachesjeter5480 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    He don’t care nothing about that girl.

  • @Reikiht56
    @Reikiht56 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    10 years you accepted him! The thought of being married to him for life. This was your out! Tell the truth. Whatever you've been saying or showing him recently tells me he's actually scared to lose you, which is why he's proposing now! Don't make the same mistake again babygirl.

  • @EmpoweredAmbitions
    @EmpoweredAmbitions 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He gave her the bare minimum and she gave him his single life back 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @TheNdygo
    @TheNdygo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    She did right. Her eyes where finally open and she is DONE! Good for her.

  • @geraldinerivera8628
    @geraldinerivera8628 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    That ain't diamonds. That ain't even cubic zirconia

  • @Gari-ov9pp
    @Gari-ov9pp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Mr. Petty! He grabbing at the wigs😂

    • @Ourown311
      @Ourown311 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He's sassy as hell and jealous. It's digusting.

  • @nixeradicatus
    @nixeradicatus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    He didn't want anybody to see him propose so he could keep it quiet and pulled out the camera when she flipped the script. Sounds like he hit the wall and is ready to lock her down.

    • @ItsMissLalaToYou7
      @ItsMissLalaToYou7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly. I thought the same thing. The ring was to silence her.

  • @Jaimejaime888
    @Jaimejaime888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    10 years means, "I looked at my roster and I don't like none of them no more. My ideal girl,(who wasn't her but he was seeing her while with this girl) I can't attain her bc she's out of my league and don't want me so I might as well settle for you who I didn't really want but you cook, clean, got a house and car, independent and got money and you up my value by just standing next to you." Don't ever let a man go beyond a year. It doesn't take men long to know where you stand with him and usually it's 3 months they decide.

  • @patriciasamanthaifill1715
    @patriciasamanthaifill1715 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "I don't want that ish now"❤❤❤ Amen!!! That's right crystal!! You get yours.... She finally has been prioritizing herself because he obviously stopped. God bless you sis 🙏🏽🫶🏽👏🏽💯

  • @realestatedeals1864
    @realestatedeals1864 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    A man, seeing the end near, decided to keep her under his thumb by buying a fake ring bought at the Walmart store. The thing is, she already had decided to leave you and was waiting for the right moment to call it quit...today isn't when that decision was made, you only enabled it #thelaststraw

  • @nanciatnyte
    @nanciatnyte 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    10 long years - ‘if you don’t know me by now…’🎶🎶🎶

    • @Taj-Mahal
      @Taj-Mahal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@nanciatnyte 😂😂😂

    • @mrenae6798
      @mrenae6798 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lolol

    • @Cynophileandavianenthusiast
      @Cynophileandavianenthusiast 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      " You will never, never never, know me."🎶

  • @maryjane2965
    @maryjane2965 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    I want to know whether that damn ring is even real lol.Take it to a jeweler and then still say NO😂

    • @TheBestinMe143
      @TheBestinMe143 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😂it’s not real and y’all know it.he just did for him not to be alone cause he knows she done done

    • @sungaze342
      @sungaze342 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@TheBestinMe143men actually don’t like being alone or lonely I’m noticing it’s self projection they fear is put on women . Women technically aren't that lonely as these make it seem its actually them

    • @ariah457
      @ariah457 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@sungaze342Right stats show this as well.

  • @cessy514
    @cessy514 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The coughing and "too much dust in this recording" made me pause 'cause I had to LOL 😂

  • @Susansmith2121
    @Susansmith2121 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    They just need to move on an find someone else because clearly they're not compatible

    • @Heat_Rush
      @Heat_Rush 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sometimes it isn't that simple. My friend cried to me the other day because her boyfriend cheated for the third time and she's ready to leave but all of the apartments in the good area cost 2x - 3x what she can afford,plus they have a 2 year old. They live in a nice area and he pays half the rent, so she feels trapped.

    • @Ourown311
      @Ourown311 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@Heat_Rush I'm sorry she's going through that, but this is why you don't play.house with boyfriends. Or go half on bills with them. Men work, to spend money on women. If he not spending it on her, he spending it on someone else.

  • @JehchroniumTheAlien
    @JehchroniumTheAlien หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    10 years?? bruh that girl was mentally done since year 5, she isn't unappreciative , If the proposal is done in a car believe me motherhood is going to be worst.

  • @thesecretshade
    @thesecretshade 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The fact he does this while she's driving and also records it on top of it.... She wants no part of it because she already knows she has done it all this time with no ring and she's not even into him like this anymore. Good for her.
    She's not ungrateful, HE IS.
    If he had appreciated her, he would not have waited this long. This is why we don't give them kids until that ring is on our finger. (I don't date but just in general)

  • @UniquelyVickie
    @UniquelyVickie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Those mush mouths are always trying to get a woman to except crumbs, and saying you should be grateful. That's code for you should be desperate. And that ring was nothing but diamond chips. Looks like he got it from the pawn shop!

    • @kimcham9949
      @kimcham9949 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      👍🏾 "That's code for, 'You should be desperate'."

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I said the same thing this joker got it from the pawn shop dust ball 😀

  • @mensesmimi
    @mensesmimi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    And he thinks she's going to be humiliated and worn down because he shows the world she's "ungrateful". Him saying she should be "grateful" like he did her a favor by proposing instead of being heartbroken that she said no. A man in love with her would have been heartbroken and embarrassed because he messed it up by not putting more effort into it (he would take her at her word as to why she said no) and begging her not to leave. Not trying to humble her and saying "ANY woman" blah blah and trying to force her to place as much value on merely being proposed to as he thought she would because he thought her self esteem was so low that she would think being proposed to in itself was the best she could want and not a romantic proposal which is what she actually wanted. She did not settle and realized he would always be beneath her and treat her like shit so she left. He immediately revealed his true colors by being abusive and aggressive trying to tear her down when she said it wasn't romantic and she didn't want it. That's not how a heartbroken man behaves.

  • @patty-pat-pat
    @patty-pat-pat 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    what is she supposed to be grateful for?

  • @Dragonjuicefly
    @Dragonjuicefly 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    And the rocks in the ring 💍 are cubic zirconia! So disrespectful…

    • @jollygirl94
      @jollygirl94 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If a man buys me fake diamond, the relationship is no more.

  • @royaldainties7
    @royaldainties7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    First of all, I wouldn’t even waste my time with him for 10 years, people saying she wrong, but she ain’t wrong, 10 years no sir?? Yeah would’ve been done. He wouldn’t even been in my car anyway. He would’ve been gone long time ago.

    • @gapeach14
      @gapeach14 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      After 2 years you should get the packing. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @royaldainties7
      @royaldainties7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@gapeach14 agreed!

    • @MsSweeterthanhoney1
      @MsSweeterthanhoney1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen 🙏🏾

  • @JojosOasis
    @JojosOasis หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He disrespected her with this. Safe to say he knew she was done and decided to propose to try his best at keeping her sound.

  • @nbl5516
    @nbl5516 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am glad she took a stand for herself and didn't play along because he was recording her!

  • @relaxurmind8848
    @relaxurmind8848 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    She realize the ring was a shut up ring but instead he got the shut down instead! 😂

  • @soleilwhitton6397
    @soleilwhitton6397 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Our men don't know how to express themselves or how to care for and nurture a woman. He doesn't get it. He thoroughly insulted her.

    • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
      @PettyIsMyMiddleName 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      LIES!
      They know exactly what they’re doing .
      I have met so many people in life where guy will stay 10 years and kids , just living together and not married.
      They break up and find a woman that he truly wants , he’s married within a year .

    • @residentidiot9694
      @residentidiot9694 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are not our men. Men an entirely separate and dangerous species. Allow them to approach you at your own risk. It is better to remain single, don't entertain this species, they have no empathy and don't really like women, they pretend to like you so they can use you. Remain far away from them and you'll see how your life finally has peace and progress.

    • @taz9234
      @taz9234 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nope dated a white man that did this 😂

    • @mensesmimi
      @mensesmimi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      These men don't belong to me. I don't know who you mean when you're talking about some OUR. Also this has nothing to do with not knowing how to express himself, he just didn't care and thought she had low self esteem based on how she stayed for 10 years without a proposal so he could do the bare minimum and expect her to be grateful. Listen to how aggressive and abusive he was, that's not someone in love who didn't know how to express it and bungled it (he would have apologized and begged her to understand) that's a man that couldn't believe that she wouldn't settle and his ploy to hold onto her backfired.

    • @Ourown311
      @Ourown311 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stop calling them "our men" they aren't men and they are strays. They don't get that valuable claim of ownership once they betray their own people. The covenant is broken. They are on their own.

  • @rwilliams7621
    @rwilliams7621 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The wake up call for me to walk away from a relationship. Was understanding that the guy I was with was not going to grow up.
    Especially when he told me that he once proposed to a woman at the dinner table by just giving her an engagement ring at the table with no proposal at all!
    He honestly thought she would be okay with that. As I listened, that was my cue to not to argue, just leave and not look back.

    • @TonyaTkoClips
      @TonyaTkoClips  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Chillllleeeee good for you!!! 👏🏾

  • @oizaahmed8972
    @oizaahmed8972 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am completely shocked that this man thinks it is okay to propose in the car. Absolutely no effort or thought was out into this..

  • @carolallison9685
    @carolallison9685 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Haha, my proposal was my husband drunkenly blurting out out "hey, we should get married" after i made a joke about taxes. To be fair, it was after a year and a half, not 10, and he had already been ring shopping for months and had already told his friends and family he wanted to propose. Nope, my husband just couldnt contain himself and the secret slipped. So, no, not all proposals have to be some huge romantic thing, but they do have to be sincere and come from a genuine place.

    • @jollygirl94
      @jollygirl94 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ring shopping for months?? Your man is so romantic, that’s a genuine man who wants u to like the ring and given a lot of thoughts about it.

  • @silenceoftheseventh
    @silenceoftheseventh หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Good for her!! Proposing to her while she is driving!! Smh!! Then emotionally abusing her. Who the hell wants that?

  • @barysaysriptoriyama
    @barysaysriptoriyama 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Honestly I think she felt embarrassed and hurt.

  • @_DearDarling_
    @_DearDarling_ หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A lot of people say “why does it matter”, I’mma be point blank. Whether you are a MAN or WOMAN, if you love your partner you will do anything to make them happy. If your wife/husband is stressed you wanna talk to them and be happy together. If your partner doesn’t WANT to make you happy, they don’t love you.

  • @SpaghettiEtti
    @SpaghettiEtti 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It’s been 10, TEN years and you could spend like another week getting a reservation. Hell a picnic at the beach/ or a park is damn near free.

  • @YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BOND
    @YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BOND หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Only she knows what she has been through with him... Evidently, he didn't treat her well!

  • @DeniseWelsh-m5p
    @DeniseWelsh-m5p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He acts like he is doing her a huge favor.

  • @earthgoddessforever8731
    @earthgoddessforever8731 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Please stop believing in fairytales ladies...

  • @peachycalmable
    @peachycalmable 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’m too impatient I can’t wait 10 years

  • @digimonalvatrax2738
    @digimonalvatrax2738 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    He wasn't even driving.....smh

    • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
      @PettyIsMyMiddleName 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      First thing I noticed , that alone told me all I needed to know about him overall . Point , blank period.
      I gave him the benefit of the doubt for 2.5 seconds to hear in his voice that he may be under the influence, but nope he sounds normal.
      Back to my regularly scheduled judgement lol

    • @t.c.5456
      @t.c.5456 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yoooooo - 😂😂😂😂

  • @denise1468
    @denise1468 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The calmness in her voice tells me that she was already checked out of the relationship emotionally. He knew this and pulled the, "If I propose she'll say yes" card. Well she didn't.

  • @StopPlayingAtLife
    @StopPlayingAtLife 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    He wouldn’t even be in my damn car or life.

  • @There87Akin
    @There87Akin หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Me and my husband met young and it took him 10 years it was a custom ring he took the day off work wen to the venue set up invited pur families...had me turn up in a white dressa and a photographer capturing the moment. I was blown away! We just celebrated 5 years of marriage ❤🎉

  • @CrystalPhoenix1979
    @CrystalPhoenix1979 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She was gone a long time ago and it hit him at that moment. She literally had to tell him she didn’t want to be married to him. His ego was bruised in the worse way. It’s a hard lesson for him, but if she truly left, I believe it was for the best.

  • @DetoxMyLifeWithTNichol
    @DetoxMyLifeWithTNichol หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    There is no way I’m going to be with someone for 10 years and just now getting the ring. Men just want live in girlfriends.

  • @DREAMSSRREAL
    @DREAMSSRREAL หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The way he proposed is like a reflection of what he feels she deserves fr... the crazy thing is some of us have experienced more for basic holidays like valentines... ijs ...