The guy with the dreads was so sweet. I love how he complimented everyone. He has great energy! I felt it through the phone. He got the perfect girl. Their chemistry was amazing!
Dreads was a real genuine person and all the ladies who popped their balloons are superficial! Esther picked the ninja turtle so I can’t take her seriously!
Most people who use it, say it facetiously or apply it to people who don't carry themselves as such. Coming from him, I'd have definitely felt insulted & made him call me by my name!
The last girl in white, now this is a TRUE lady who is headed somewhere in life. Listen to her questions, she is not playing with her choice of a real man. She is beautiful, sweet, polite and she means business.
100% agree. So confused about all of the comments roasting her. She knows what she wants and isn't afraid to have her own boundaries in a respectful way. Good for her!
That one girl calling him "passive" confirmed my suspicion as to why the girls popped their ballon. They thought he was too nice And you know alot of women like the bad boy
But his fit/exterior is what let her know they were compatible in the first place. He was wearing an anime t-shirt. And while that’s a casual way to dress for a date it advertised his interests.
Ngl the match between the man with locs & the girl in the blue sweater literally go together so well. Their personalities are one and the same and honestly out of all the matches I feel that’s the most genuine one! Sister girl got a good man & it’s sad the rest of them couldn’t see past his attire to determine that but not at the same time bc sister girl lucked up!
Those girls are on live right now and Esther just admitted that she not only didn’t leave with that last guy but she gave her number to another guy that was in there filming for the next episode
Okay ive watched about 10 of these today! And i just gotta say the host is amazing! Her personality keeps me wanting to keep watching. She keeps it interesting and moving and not awkward. Her demeanour softens the blows. What a great presenter and host. The concept itself of the show is brilliant but the host definitely keeps me interested in the show!
Chandler is by far the sweetest most genuine guy. When he said I want someone to love me for me was absolutely heartwarming because SAME CHANDLER…SAME!
Chandler is mentally stronger than his emotions. He remained respectful and it didn't take away from beauty he still saw vs others getting defensive. Das a man 🤤
Haha that is one hideous and disrespectful plumper, but I had a good laugh seeing him like arguing like that. Chandler was the best guy hands down!, nice, respectful and pretty face too, but like... I understand the reasons about his fit. The girls went a bit too harsh on that, it's true, but like, I get it, and kinda agree. Though I don't think he should change that about himself anyway.
All the ladies that missed on Chandler will be kicking themselves down the line. Glad he found his match though. The instant bond over a love for anime and just everything. Dude was extremely kind and complimentary to the ladies.
They all regretted rejecting him when they heard his romantic 1st date plans for his match. SMH. They all thought he was handsome but rejected him simply because of how he was dressed.
I have so much respect for Chandler! He's so down to earth and kind hearted. He knew what he wanted he didn't let any of those girls their try to change who he is as a person!
Yes hes cool, however, letting people talk about you in a public setting does not work for me. Where I'm from, you talk about my clothes, I gotta find something to bag on you about..just way I grew up...
It was insane to me because he was smart in not reading any of the women the way that the last guy did. I mean a lot of these women come on this show and claim to be dressed for a first date and understand that clothes can change but a person can't and yet they choose not to give the men a fair chance. Then a lot of these women come on the show dressed like they're going to a night club, or a lounge, or like they're about to walk some type of D-list red carpet. It's just ridiculous. These women don't understand how to dress up without looking like bottle service girls 80% of the time. LIke fishnets with holes in it says 'first date' to you?? A dress that looks like it's made out of fluorescent duct tape or pleather looks like first date material? I Need some more sensible women on this show like YESTERDAYYYYY. It almost feels like Arlette needs to specify the date, like: Come on the show dressed like you're going on a [insert specific type of date] for the guys to even be given a fair chance.
I came back to rewatch Chandler and Mishna’s episode SPECIFICALLY after the reunion and dude….he is definitely a chronic gaslighter. I didn’t get the vibe that he was “settling” or picked her because she was the only one left. He dead seemed like he liked her…like WHAT?!!! Am I being gaslit right now????😂😂😂😂
You’re not crazy. I think he was definitely into getting to know her, then got upset she wasn’t chasing him. I’m so glad sis was smart enough not to! He is psycho
People like you are incredibly dense ffs. It’s been talked about since FOREVER. Women (especially blk women) love masculine energy even if it’s toxic…especially if it’s toxic. Dreadhead dude wasn’t exactly putting out any of that but no disrespect to bro because you can only be true to yourself no matter what people think.
I mean the guy with dreads looked like a kid, plus the way he behaves is more like a cool pal, but not like someone a girl would see as an alfa male or a boyfriend.
Arlett’s version of Pop the Balloon or find love is the best quality on TH-cam. She’s professional, respectable and fair to all the participants. The production quality is the best out of all the others too. All the other versions on YT look like they just grab random people off the street, have the show in a happy hour bar type spot, get some Amazon quality mics and film the show with their iPhone or Galaxy phone. You can tell Arlette and her team take this show seriously.
The young man with the flannel shirt seems like a genuine person. If the young lady that matched with him is genuine, they might be a real couple one day.
The lightskin guy with the dreads that liked anime and that girl felt like the perfect match… he’s easy and carefree and she’s into what he is into.. it was perfect… she constantly looked so out of place dressed so casually and to see her match seem to be the most perfect match out of them all was beautiful! There’s definitely a lesson in there somewhere
I think he was the best male by far! You may disagree because he doesn’t sound, dress or act like the typical black dude but he came across the most confident & laid back. Even stuck to his principles (dress style) which I respect. Also didn’t get offended by the criticism he received which should be a norm but you know how sassy men are these days😂
When two prettiest girl said they impatient and other girls didn’t say about what is worst side about themselves, reminded me again pretty girls are more humble than girls who look regular
Notice how Mishna is also dressed in normal comfortable clothes just as chandler is. Unlike everyone else dressed like they’re going to the club. They seem right for each other. Wish them well
I thought this was a sarcasm comment because I thinks she is an instigater if you ask me. WHY ISNT SHE YOUR TYPE? JUST NOT ATTRACTED? WHAT about her isn't attractive?
Why did I smile from ear to ear when the anime guy with the dreadlocks got a girl in the end? 😊😊😊 THAT WAS GREAT. All the other girls were like hell no but that one girl held her balloon the whole time cause she likes anime too!! See, if you’re true to yourself it doesn't matter if 1000 girls reject you, you just need that ONE girl that likes you just the way you are.
@@beyondthepalepodcast6293Least attractive cos she didn't dress the way the others were dressed or she wasn't showing skin? That babe was beautiful(especially her face), you probably were just looking at the fitted clothes, trust me if she was to wear clothes that showed her physique... She'd be sexier than a lot of the girls there, notice that none of the guys ever said she wasn't attractive (just the guy who said she was giving "mother") he was probably thinking and judging her like you are
@@beyondthepalepodcast6293she wasn’t “least attractive “ attractive is subjective and opinion based just reminding you she may be unattractive to you😂but she is gorgeous
The way they did Chanler is so messed up. He's definitely in the wrong environment. He seems like such a genuine and good man. This feels like such a high school moment
“I don’t marry people for no reason” but can have 2 KIDS!!! Like how does having kids not be of the most super importance?? Do y’all realize bringing a child into this world is WAYYYY DEEPER than marriage? How do we not realize this???
The anime guy is soooo coool. I wouldn't conventionally go for him, but i think I'd like him. His personality is fire. He was so genuine and honest, he didn't change his mind about a woman just because they didn't like him. Literally zero clap back, just good vibes, he was sure of himself and accepted criticism even if it wasn't the easiest thing to hear
@@michaelconner1771 how was he over the top..? how..? what should he have done instead, when answering a direct question..? this is a genuine question i would love to know why you feel like he is over the top, when he seemed to be very genuine..
@@michaelconner1771 oh, I definitely wasn't questioning the fire comment.. I'm well aware of what the meaning of something being fire is, but when you said "over the top" that usually means excessive so that's why I was just asking for clarification and understanding.. I do appreciate it very much..!
Blue sweater definitely gives Mother Love. I couldn’t believe she was only 23. 😩 Having motherly characteristics & looking motherly are two different things ladies.
First girl took that way to seriously! I wish he didn’t literally say it with ghetto sass like, “It’s Giving”. He should have just said you dress in a way that reminds me of a “family member”.🤷🏽♂️
Brother in the flannel and sis in the blue tee is literally a fairytale match they match perfect you can just tell by their vibes. I love that for them, genuinely 🌥️💫
Yea, but then it's kinda meaningless to say they're all his type. His type was: black. Anybody that's black is his type? They asked him and he said no but didn't validate it at all.
This is my fab episode. I don't understand how that plummer left with that beautiful woman but to each their own. I love this show. it's hilarious and sweet to Black men and women looking for love.❤😂🎉
I didn’t get why it’s so hard for some women to understand a man doesn’t want to date his mothers aesthetic he isn’t saying he doesn’t want a woman to be a good mom he was just saying her AESTHETIC is motherly which it was in this particular moment.
I promise I was thinking the same thing when I saw her. Not only her outfit, but the wig and makeup were all giving auntie vibes. 😂 especially standing next to the women she was up against.
Her aesthetic definitely didn’t match his or the other women. I feel like before the first woman popped her balloon she should have asked follow-up questions. Her attire is giving much older than what she is.
Chandler is the perfect example of find your tribe, it’s crazy because someone is going like you for you and if they’re going judge you to fit their aesthetic then you dodge a bullet.
I know this is wrong, but I found this show from a clip showing the plumber guy through. It was hilarious and I couldn’t stop watching and got me hooked and I don’t usually watch this shit. I know they probably want more mature people out there, but these wild ones are entertaining for sure.
Chandler is such a sweetie pie holy shit 😭 I’d love to be friends w someone like him. he knows who he is, what he likes and wants, he seems honest and open & he seems super deep. Love that for them
Entertainment and/or exposure since they're promoting their instagram accounts. A lot of them might be trying to be influencers or promote their business cause otherwise it makes no sense that they'd expose their socials freely like that.
the girl in the black dress was best in my eyes. the way she was out together, her personality, what she wants in a man. her job too. everything about her is terrific. that’s a girl i would go for.
The anime guy was fresh as hell idgaf. The whole fit is chill and original; something a lot of people don't know how to be nowadays. Keep doing you bro 👍🏾
@MissX33 That guy was dressed normal and they're not on TV. He came as he was instead of putting on a facade like most other people and he had a genuine heart. It really shouldn't matter if someone dresses up or dresses casually considering clothes don't make the person. You look like a slob in your profile pic.
@MissX33 That guy was dressed normal. It shouldn't matter if you dress up or dress casually because they're just clothes. Clothes get changed every day. Practice what you preach, though. Your videos show you have no right to say anybody dresses like a slob.
Flannel was so kind. People may think he's passive, but I found him to be confident and assertive. I love that he found beauty in all of the women. ❤ Glasses guy is soooo handsome. Glad he took them off!
Scrolling through the comments and no one is going to acknowledge how GOOD Arlette looks? She’s always been gorgeous but I see she’s been putting in some work and she looks amazing ❤
Omg where have you been? Go back to any of her videos and you'll see someone litterally complementing her looks. We get it we know she looks good , move on !
He was ready for the action. Honestly, we need more guys like him who are confident and stand on what they say, instead of these weak soft guys scared of women or always lying to them to impress them.
@@blueprincearts5865Black American culture is honestly just too into clothes. How does one remain so polite and respectful in the face of constant baseless rejection while another argumentative but moderately well-dressed guy gets to leave with one of the more attractive ladies there? She didn't see red flags in this behaviour but in an anime shirt of a more casually dressed guy? Priorities, huh.
He's my type ( in terms of hair and personality) and I'm a Black woman, but in my experience guys like him are usually into non Black women so, what can I do....
@@A.Light33 I get being young... but being young does not also automatically equate to being shallow necessarily. How do girls, who come unto a dating show, not take the opportunity to really step out of their comfort zone and let go of their biases, as these have clearly not worked in their favour till now, hence a dating show in the first place...? By the way, he did clearly state he was into black women, in fact he specifically insisted those to be his type. Borderline had a touch of rac.ism there with how he went on about keeping the bloodline pure or something of the sort. However, I could see a nuance there, and may come to appreciate it. I just couldn't imagine anybody else from another race in his place saying the exact same things to girls of their race and it not being taken some type of way a little bit by the Black-American community, lol.
Y’all talking about the last dude but the anime dude the real winner. He found somebody that’s genuine and mess with him for him. The guy before him got the most beautiful one
That lady in the black who claimed she wasn’t patient really developed her patience on the show because dealing with that last guy CONFUSED me
She need to be saved.
THAT PART. He was terrible 😭
She’s probably into rude guys. Some girls likes arrogance.
the minute an argument happens someone is getting hurt
Mike Tyson and Robin Givens vibes
The guy with the dreads was so sweet. I love how he complimented everyone. He has great energy! I felt it through the phone. He got the perfect girl. Their chemistry was amazing!
He seemed SO sweet, I was surprised at all the balloons that got popped for him 😔
Dreads was a real genuine person and all the ladies who popped their balloons are superficial! Esther picked the ninja turtle so I can’t take her seriously!
She said "I'm looking for a nice guy"❤❤❤ More women need to be looking for a nice guy.
Same for me. I just hope they do a follow up with the matches so we can know how they're fairing in their relationships.
😂this life no balance . Just live it
nah the last dude got me weak as hell at 2am 😭😭 bro making the word queen sound like a straight insult to women 😭😭😭💀
Most people who use it, say it facetiously or apply it to people who don't carry themselves as such. Coming from him, I'd have definitely felt insulted & made him call me by my name!
well, hey women run around calling men sassy all the time....maybe that should be men's thing.
hahahah crine @ queeen hahahahahhhaha
It is. If you know the history of queens. Queen=diva, hoe, boss, ratchet, uncooperative.
@@TiffTALKS22calm down queeeeeeen
The last girl in white, now this is a TRUE lady who is headed somewhere in life. Listen to her questions, she is not playing with her choice of a real man. She is beautiful, sweet, polite and she means business.
100% agree. So confused about all of the comments roasting her. She knows what she wants and isn't afraid to have her own boundaries in a respectful way. Good for her!
I was so impressed with her the 22yr old in white. No offense she's too intelligent for this show, or that group of ladies!!!
White dress is asking and answering questions like a job interview. She’s giving HR.
I agree, she was so lame.
On me bro these females are so picky about everything😂😂 they have high standards but don’t meet any of them themselves
She give the same vibes as the scammer chick who proclaimed to be a model on one of the other episodes
Omg I got the same vibe! God I hate that, it's not an interview..felt so cold
HATED HER! Too serious and I’m a female 😂
Chandler got EXACTLY what he was looking for. His outfit did it's job!! They seem like a genuine match!!!
Chandler and thanks appreciate the kind words 😊
that was dope
❤
I thought his left arm was fake for a good while 😂🙏🏽
That one girl calling him "passive" confirmed my suspicion as to why the girls popped their ballon. They thought he was too nice And you know alot of women like the bad boy
The anime couple is HIGH KEY goals! Someone who looks past the fit/exterior and both know what they want. ❤
But his fit/exterior is what let her know they were compatible in the first place. He was wearing an anime t-shirt. And while that’s a casual way to dress for a date it advertised his interests.
YESSS
was about to type this, love them! They were both so genuine
Facts
And they’re still together ☺️
The plumber cleaned the room and still left with a baddie 😂😂😂
Everybody shocked
I agree. I’m still shocked. She’s gorgeous and well spoken… 😤
bro got the best one
I cant believe he talked smack but left the girl😂😂
@johannees622 she liked him because he's a masculine man and not a push over (beta male). That's why
I really love the vibe of the guy who complemented all the ladies even though they popped and ended up with the most sweet of them all.
He too good for all of em
She was side eyeing the darkskin girl and rolling her eyes. She was not sweet. She was fake 😂😂 trust me
Nobody wants them beta males
@@zionalexandra715which one?
Complimenters don't seem trustworthy to me.
Ngl the match between the man with locs & the girl in the blue sweater literally go together so well. Their personalities are one and the same and honestly out of all the matches I feel that’s the most genuine one! Sister girl got a good man & it’s sad the rest of them couldn’t see past his attire to determine that but not at the same time bc sister girl lucked up!
Watch the catch up between them, even cuter ❤
Right! Good man with a great job!
Yes, they have great chemistry!
@@thatsnotnice5190omg whereee
I was squealing while watching them ngl. They were just so adorable 🤧
The fact that Ester popped her balloon for the “Motherly” comment guy but chose that last guy with all his mouf is crazy!!🤣🤣
I think she was scared of what he was gonna say to her if she popped her balloon 😂😂😂
It’s something I’m trying to figure out, I need to rewatch this show again
Definitely!!!
Those girls are on live right now and Esther just admitted that she not only didn’t leave with that last guy but she gave her number to another guy that was in there filming for the next episode
@@destinyjones7681my exact thought bc I would of have to cuss him tf out talking bout God saves souls
Okay ive watched about 10 of these today! And i just gotta say the host is amazing! Her personality keeps me wanting to keep watching. She keeps it interesting and moving and not awkward. Her demeanour softens the blows. What a great presenter and host. The concept itself of the show is brilliant but the host definitely keeps me interested in the show!
Chandler is by far the sweetest most genuine guy. When he said I want someone to love me for me was absolutely heartwarming because SAME CHANDLER…SAME!
I agree! He seems very sweet!
he’s cool but he needs to dress to impress. Looking like you just came back from playing 8 hours of super smash bros is not a good first impression
Most genuine because his personality matched yours?
Yeah also look at the way he took rejection like a champ in comparison to the ninja turtle dude
I liked the woman he matched with too. I can't wait to see their update 🙂
Chandler was a true gentleman. I loved his respectful attitude and kindness. Great guy 🥰
Sameeeeeeee
Yes, he was so handsome too.
Yet none of them chose him but they have the gut to call the last guy sassy
Calling them Queen while insulting is insane!😂😂😂😂
Fckn Savage 😂😂😂😂
😂😂 I’m up here crying at that
Bruh kept it real, take the compliment ya get me lol
😭😭😭😭😭😭
So backhanded.
“How do you feel about 50/50” and “Can you adapt” are NOT the same question! 😂
My last man, when ever he heard a ballon pop, he would look at em from head to toe for a proper roast!!!! pure entertainment fr.....🤣🤣🤣🤣
For real 🤣🤣😭😭
Lmao facts 🤣
Facts 😂😅
Facts😂
Lol
Ninja turtle man came with Leonardo’s respectfulness, Raphael’s no filter, Donatello’s brain, and Michelangelo’s impatience. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LOL
Legend
😂😂
Not the Ninja Turtle Jokes 😆😆😆
Yea and one of these ladies master splintered his ass. 😂 got the man fired from his job. Smh
White dress has a very old spirit. She looks her age but acts like a 50 year old woman, I would pay to see her and Dr. Elom have a conversation😂😂
She reminds me of a Pentecostal
He would still over talk her 😂
He would make her so uncomfortable😂😂
😂😂😂😂yesss they need to meet
Nah don't subject her to him but I see what you mean..think Lex might be a good match....she might put him in his place
The fact that girl still went off with sir ninja turtle in the end is INSAAAAANE !! Ha ! Have fun with him ! 😂
“You’re not even qualified” is my new response when someone gets outta pocket with me 😂😂
He’s a goat 🐐
😂😂😂😂
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lol They gonna hit you with that "don't do too much!"
I absolutely lovedddd when he said “yes this is what I’m comfortable with this is what I wear” YES SIR!
Right periodddd he don’t have to go out his comfort zone for nobody!!!!
@@Vonnalovefor nobody and found a woman that accepts him
I mean people who dress like slobs probably say the same thing. Not saying he’s one of them
Chandler is mentally stronger than his emotions. He remained respectful and it didn't take away from beauty he still saw vs others getting defensive. Das a man 🤤
He did almost lose it with one girl. He was like THIS IS WHO IAM!!!
He really need to be with a rock band type white girl tho.
@@phraze410 tf?!?!?.... how closed-minded (why would she have to be white?!?!?)
That's what actual confidence looks like.
Chandler carries himself like a college professor working on his Masters and his dissertation. Hes beyond this group of young women.
The last dude I quote “ I don’t mean to be disrespectful but if I see you in public I won’t reach out “ 😂😂😂😂😂
They went from trashing the nice guy about his clothes to getting dogged out by a plumber 🤣
Life comes at you fast sometimes 😂
Facts
Haha that is one hideous and disrespectful plumper, but I had a good laugh seeing him like arguing like that.
Chandler was the best guy hands down!, nice, respectful and pretty face too, but like... I understand the reasons about his fit. The girls went a bit too harsh on that, it's true, but like, I get it, and kinda agree. Though I don't think he should change that about himself anyway.
And they deserved it 😂😂
Fuck em he gave back what they gave out an outfit can be changed Chandler was a good dude even him saying an outfit is bs they still wanted to argue
This show is a 1 hour psychology class
Learnt a lot from this video it was entertaining tho
You couldn’t have said it any better
Lmaooo dead as a psych major this interests me not the drama
@@theapeofwallstreet7613 I started thinking about all my past research studies and I had to get off youtube lol
True
“you did me a favor” is crazy😭😭😂
Fr😭
That shii had me crying 😂😂😂
Mannn.... this Panel is Dense 😢
What does it mean😭😭😭
Lol 😂
The brother even gets the sweetest of them all . This bro knows how to choose his women i think they’re going to have a good family.
All the ladies that missed on Chandler will be kicking themselves down the line. Glad he found his match though. The instant bond over a love for anime and just everything. Dude was extremely kind and complimentary to the ladies.
Facts and the one short darkskin girl tried to roast him, then they met ninja turtle man and prolly immediately missed Chandler
@jerrrryy4503 right he had heat for everyone
Aaron/ ninja turtle posted later that Chandler asked for Esther’s instagram and contact info after the show.
Chandler was my favorite guy, I love anime!!❤❤😊
He was the best!... Wished the Esther girl wld have been smart enough to take him!
“Well you ain’t qualified baby” 😂😭💀 I am dead the last dude was BOLD
Yea top 1% in physique and money will having walking and talking like that it is what it is.
Bold or straight up classless ,pretentious and rude!! Mr Big stuff
@@jonyvisa7031are you mad?
@@zz_loves_you 🤡ohhh,very🥳
@@jonyvisa7031 🌚👽
How could anyone hate on Chandler .. really respectful and kind in all his responses. He got a good match . Wishing them the best
he is the sweetest
I loved all the matches, but theirs was the cutest, and I would love to watch them grow. ❤
It’s Shandler
Ladies failed on him. Popping a balloon because of a fit is the stupidest thing to do.
They popped him because they are doing faud, and he can have access 😂
Last dude is so funny 😂. I can’t believe he walked out with the finest woman. Fair play to her for not being influenced by the rest of them.
Same thing I said lol 😂. He chose violence and still bagged the baddest one lol 😂
@@khrisbmusic6091
Dude’s a legend. The way he came back at red outfit lady with the hairy arms comment. Classic! 😂
“FIRST OFF QUEEN, YOU’RE NOT EVEN QUALIFIED” - NinjaTurtleMan 2024’
😂and Yo' profile pic!
😂😂😂
Ninja turtle man😭
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Ninja Turtle Man 🐢🐢🐢🤣🤣🤣
Happy for the dread dude. You can just see he is a good person. Never let anyone change who you are fam.
Coolest one for sure!!
They all regretted rejecting him when they heard his romantic 1st date plans for his match.
SMH. They all thought he was handsome but rejected him simply because of how he was dressed.
It gives off a teenage boy vibe. Otherwise, he's very likeable.
He was my favourite and I loved that the girl he got in the end was also in jeans and casual clothes on and simpler makeup, and she loved anime too.
Chandler was so wholesome, I hope they end up having that picnic date watching the sunset 🥺
Imma try haha 😜
They were too cute ! I loveed them ! TWO SWEET SOULS
They have the same upbeat energy! I’m rooting for them ❤
Momma and Son date
@@reallyhimongoddo you bro, and don't even trip cause my cousins are 50 plus and they love anime
The white dress lady asked all those questions only to pop the ballon for that guy at the end! That’s wild lmao
She just didnt get the answers she was looking for
I don’t know where the last guy got his confidence from 😂😂😂 he doesn’t give a sh**t , and left with the most beautiful lady in the show.
Idk either he literally was the worst! I’d choose the doctor over him!!!
right...i'm so confused lol
Damn look at those bitches face with Lil bit of jealous when they going together 😂😂
He's real, I like that.
right! someone please help me understand ....
I have so much respect for Chandler! He's so down to earth and kind hearted. He knew what he wanted he didn't let any of those girls their try to change who he is as a person!
Yes hes cool, however, letting people talk about you in a public setting does not work for me. Where I'm from, you talk about my clothes, I gotta find something to bag on you about..just way I grew up...
I loved Chandler. He was my type. Love the geeky ones! And he was good looking.
It was insane to me because he was smart in not reading any of the women the way that the last guy did. I mean a lot of these women come on this show and claim to be dressed for a first date and understand that clothes can change but a person can't and yet they choose not to give the men a fair chance. Then a lot of these women come on the show dressed like they're going to a night club, or a lounge, or like they're about to walk some type of D-list red carpet. It's just ridiculous. These women don't understand how to dress up without looking like bottle service girls 80% of the time. LIke fishnets with holes in it says 'first date' to you?? A dress that looks like it's made out of fluorescent duct tape or pleather looks like first date material? I Need some more sensible women on this show like YESTERDAYYYYY. It almost feels like Arlette needs to specify the date, like: Come on the show dressed like you're going on a [insert specific type of date] for the guys to even be given a fair chance.
@@crystalbutler659sameeeee and i liked his fit i woulda wore something cozy too 😂
Confidence is always key!
The two nerdy people were so good together! I loved watching their interaction 🥰
Same, loved that! It wasn’t over vanity either
i was scared for her. And then got super excited. Im glad she found someone lol
same here!! they were so cute
What was nerdy about the woman?
@@bigbenninvesting3681 she called herself an anime nerd lol.
I came back to rewatch Chandler and Mishna’s episode SPECIFICALLY after the reunion and dude….he is definitely a chronic gaslighter. I didn’t get the vibe that he was “settling” or picked her because she was the only one left. He dead seemed like he liked her…like WHAT?!!! Am I being gaslit right now????😂😂😂😂
Same! lol but he did look like he was holding back a lot of his crazy.
You’re not crazy. I think he was definitely into getting to know her, then got upset she wasn’t chasing him. I’m so glad sis was smart enough not to! He is psycho
he appears to have unresolved issues that have nothing to do with mishna or any of the other ladies
the fact that the women popped their balloons for the guy with dreads whos so nice almost immediately but kept for the last guy for so long is crazy 😭
I WAS GAGGGEDDD LIKE LITERALLY GIVE ME A CHAANCE THEN??? 😭
It being the last guy, I think they were getting desperate
@@LyrixNChill thats way too desperate 😭
People like you are incredibly dense ffs. It’s been talked about since FOREVER. Women (especially blk women) love masculine energy even if it’s toxic…especially if it’s toxic. Dreadhead dude wasn’t exactly putting out any of that but no disrespect to bro because you can only be true to yourself no matter what people think.
I mean the guy with dreads looked like a kid, plus the way he behaves is more like a cool pal, but not like someone a girl would see as an alfa male or a boyfriend.
Arlett’s version of Pop the Balloon or find love is the best quality on TH-cam. She’s professional, respectable and fair to all the participants. The production quality is the best out of all the others too. All the other versions on YT look like they just grab random people off the street, have the show in a happy hour bar type spot, get some Amazon quality mics and film the show with their iPhone or Galaxy phone. You can tell Arlette and her team take this show seriously.
Have you seen the Nigerian version? You fall down of laughter 😅
Indeed! I agree 100 percent!
I made a post on FB saying the same thing. Hers is the best out of all of them.
100% agree. The gay version are so extra
Agreed!!
The young man with the flannel shirt seems like a genuine person. If the young lady that matched with him is genuine, they might be a real couple one day.
Thanks & ditto 🙏🏽
You're right!
Seriously
Yeah that was a real match.
Said the same thing! I think they have a chance!
You see how many follow-up questions Chandler had for Esther? Lol. Very telling.
The feeling was definitely mutual 💀💀💀💀💀 you did me a favor, thank you queen
😂🤣😂😂
😂😂
😂😂😂
I can't stand him oml 😭
@@Jazminnextdoor he wild ☠️
Im happy Chandler got a match because he’s been the most genuine dude I’ve seen on here
Turns out she didn't even leave with him and got someone else's number 😂
Facts 💯💯💯
@@NeshaBoo21 that’s horrible
@@NeshaBoo21😂😂😂 that's crazy.
Yea he’s so cool and you can tell he’s a genuine stand up guy
Literally just came here for chandler part. He seemed so intelligent and kind. Beautiful aura 😍
Same. I came here for Chandler. I hope more men grew into men like him.
real i wanted to see his whole section
You can tell he’s extra respectful, kind and gentle. He’s a sweetheart ❤❤❤
Women don't go for the good guys. Be an asshole like me and you'll never have a shortage of women.
if him and kayla dont get it going after the show ill be pissed lmao
“He looks like he’s got his stuff together, and he’s light skin”. No wonder she still single
The lightskin guy with the dreads that liked anime and that girl felt like the perfect match… he’s easy and carefree and she’s into what he is into.. it was perfect… she constantly looked so out of place dressed so casually and to see her match seem to be the most perfect match out of them all was beautiful! There’s definitely a lesson in there somewhere
I agree! Lesson: Just be yourself, like he said...
I agree!
I KNEW AS SOON AS HE WALKED OUT THEY WERE A MATCH🎉🎉🎉🎉
I think he was the best male by far! You may disagree because he doesn’t sound, dress or act like the typical black dude but he came across the most confident & laid back. Even stuck to his principles (dress style) which I respect. Also didn’t get offended by the criticism he received which should be a norm but you know how sassy men are these days😂
@@lookaway375 Facts he came as himself!
To the anime guy, NEVER change who you are for anyone but YOURSELF. Glad he found someone regardless of their future.
💯
They have an update, go watch it
Where is the update?
Right. It's crazy because I know exactly the type of man these wolen are looking. If I speak...
He was so sweet! If I were single I totally would've given him a chance. Him and the braided guy. Very cute
last dude: "FIRST OFF QUEEN U NOT EVEN QUALIFIED" 😂😂. got me in tears
Savage 😭🤣
😂😂😂😂
Lmao as if he was qualified …bro that’s why she popped. 😂😂😂
Single mother raised dudes with zero emotional control. This is why the black community is at the bottom of society
Lmaooo right!! 😂
When two prettiest girl said they impatient and other girls didn’t say about what is worst side about themselves, reminded me again pretty girls are more humble than girls who look regular
Notice how Mishna is also dressed in normal comfortable clothes just as chandler is. Unlike everyone else dressed like they’re going to the club. They seem right for each other. Wish them well
They're wearing date clothes.
The last girl wasn’t even dressed like she was going to the club…
Mishna never said anything about Ryan’s tattoos but said something about the 3rd guys tattoos 🤔
@@simie659 She would be my pick. Before she even opened her mouth she just had the wife material vibe.
Same!!
The level of professionalism that Arlette keeps when you know she wants to laugh😂🤣😂
yeah she is professional, she walk backwards to her starting point to not show her bums. i really do like that
I thought this was a sarcasm comment because I thinks she is an instigater if you ask me. WHY ISNT SHE YOUR TYPE? JUST NOT ATTRACTED? WHAT about her isn't attractive?
@@melitamayfield3879it’s the point of the show. To hear what people really think
She's got a gift. I would be rolling. Wouldn't make it this far at all.😂😂😂
@@Loyiso-eg2wyi didnt even notice that was the reason why
The guy with the locs, anime shirt and his match were SO cute!! I hope they go far! ❤️❤️❤️ love that he presented exactly as who he was.
Yh
Same ❤️❤️
I’m so proud of these well spoken young ladies and well dressed. Most of the older women I’ve seen can learn from this younger generation.
The anime couple made me smile so much! ❤ They really seemed like they were into each other!
I’m happy for both of them you don’t find men like him easily ❤
Frrr I'm so happy for them!!❤
Yes they were my favorite match!
Why did I smile from ear to ear when the anime guy with the dreadlocks got a girl in the end? 😊😊😊 THAT WAS GREAT. All the other girls were like hell no but that one girl held her balloon the whole time cause she likes anime too!! See, if you’re true to yourself it doesn't matter if 1000 girls reject you, you just need that ONE girl that likes you just the way you are.
they matched eachothers energy so well
and he came away with the least attractive one... but at least she was humble
@@beyondthepalepodcast6293Least attractive cos she didn't dress the way the others were dressed or she wasn't showing skin?
That babe was beautiful(especially her face), you probably were just looking at the fitted clothes, trust me if she was to wear clothes that showed her physique... She'd be sexier than a lot of the girls there, notice that none of the guys ever said she wasn't attractive (just the guy who said she was giving "mother") he was probably thinking and judging her like you are
@@tochiobi7466 yeah it was really the hairstyle and outfit that threw others off, but that’s just who she is so
@@beyondthepalepodcast6293she wasn’t “least attractive “ attractive is subjective and opinion based just reminding you she may be unattractive to you😂but she is gorgeous
The way they did Chanler is so messed up. He's definitely in the wrong environment. He seems like such a genuine and good man. This feels like such a high school moment
Nah. he got a match.
That's why these chick's up here , they don't have a man because they don't deserve one
He seemed like a cool dude and i wish more girls gave him a chance, but I'm glad he matched with the girl in blue, they had complimentary energy.
That's why they got the last dude to put them in check.. haha
hes handsome and intelligent, way above their leagues
Not the blue dress exposed that man 😂😂😂😂😂 “I don’t know if y’all know, but he’s actually the security at the club” she wild !! 😂😂 28:38
“I don’t marry people for no reason” but can have 2 KIDS!!! Like how does having kids not be of the most super importance?? Do y’all realize bringing a child into this world is WAYYYY DEEPER than marriage? How do we not realize this???
I thought the exact same thing.
And someone matched with him.
I was going to say this😩
I think he had those kids at 17 and 19…that’s extremely young
Creating broken homes and out looking for another home to make 😂😂😂😂 this is the earth we live in
lady in the white dress is phenomenal, those are the questions you want to ask! and she looks and carries herself sooooo well. love it
Facts
shes my new role model and im def older than her 😂😂
White dress is a little anxious, but self aware. Self awareness goes a long way for me as a guy
Yes she was beautiful and carried herself pretty well.
Noticed that too ,,she also exhibited maturity
The anime guy is soooo coool. I wouldn't conventionally go for him, but i think I'd like him. His personality is fire. He was so genuine and honest, he didn't change his mind about a woman just because they didn't like him. Literally zero clap back, just good vibes, he was sure of himself and accepted criticism even if it wasn't the easiest thing to hear
Dude is over the top. Good match-up.
And he really looked like the kind of guy who would fall over personality rather than great looks, everyday of the year
@@michaelconner1771 how was he over the top..? how..? what should he have done instead, when answering a direct question..?
this is a genuine question i would love to know why you feel like he is over the top, when he seemed to be very genuine..
@@TheMindfulOpinion In the same way the original poster states his personality is fire. In this instance, fire is not a bad thing.
@@michaelconner1771 oh, I definitely wasn't questioning the fire comment.. I'm well aware of what the meaning of something being fire is, but when you said "over the top" that usually means excessive so that's why I was just asking for clarification and understanding..
I do appreciate it very much..!
“Women I deal with don’t have hair on their arms and you ain’t qualified” 💀💀😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chandler stole my heart, so respectful & sweet!!
Right?!
Blue sweater definitely gives Mother Love. I couldn’t believe she was only 23. 😩 Having motherly characteristics & looking motherly are two different things ladies.
😂😂
Okay I kind of get what he was saying now I guess. She’s beautiful. I loved the way she dressed, personally!
First girl took that way to seriously! I wish he didn’t literally say it with ghetto sass like, “It’s Giving”.
He should have just said you dress in a way that reminds me of a “family member”.🤷🏽♂️
23 going on 40. Lol
Yes I don’t think he was tryna disrespect her it was just his honest perspective but most women under 30 wouldn’t like that description!
He assessing like they his employees - YOU NOT QUALIFIED 😭😭😭😭
Grind my gears like whatttt😭😭😭
He got the best one thou
@Doo22783 Nah, the one in pink and the one in the black with the long sleeve.
@@Doo22783absolutely. And then this seems like this guy knows what he’s doing.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The girl in the blue dress had me weak when she popped her balloon twice😂
Brother in the flannel and sis in the blue tee is literally a fairytale match they match perfect you can just tell by their vibes. I love that for them, genuinely 🌥️💫
both seem like really kind and genuine spirits
I was expecting them to match the minute he walked out.
Yesss i wanna see their follow up interviews
best pair on the ep
Until the update when we find out they didn't work cause he brought stale bread to the picnic lmaoo jk
I Come Back Here And Watch Aaron The Plumber Once A Week 😂😂
Me too 😂😂😂😂
You mean Aaron the licensed Plumber 😂😂
Aaron, the licensed plumber, I thought he was great! Confident, honest, and strong!
Me too. He is brilliant
He was laying pipe😂😂😂😂
Last dude was looking for a fight not a wife 😂
bro just came to straight cook them girls 😭😭😭😭 bro made the word queen sound like a insult shit had me weak
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@sagafileshow tf did bro make that shi derogatory i’m crying bru😂
im telling you, bro came prepared 😆😆😆😆
😂😂😂😂
I looove how HAPPY Arlette gets when a couple matches!!
Chandler answer to his "type" was 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽. He has seen beautiful black love and that's what he wants and I pray he gets that. ❤
Yup agreed
Yea, but then it's kinda meaningless to say they're all his type. His type was: black. Anybody that's black is his type? They asked him and he said no but didn't validate it at all.
I love that Chandler, the Fraud analyst found his anime queen!!! He’s also so handsome and he got moneyyyyyy lol good for him ❤
He was the best of all the men. Was hoping the Esther girl wld go for him for peace...🫶... she missed it...
@@estherduah1983 her loss lol. He’s a good catch. The right woman scooped him up in the end and hope they live happily ever after 💕
@@estherduah1983 She was cappin
It’s shandler listen to it 😂 but he is a white man trapped in that body lol
Whats capping meaning? @@LordZevv
“The feeling is definitely mutual” that’s such a perfect response
Yeah if youre an insecure loser
AM BACK FOR SOMEMORE LOL
But she was instantly pissed
And that's all he should have left it as. Saying they did him a favor was passive aggressive and unnecessary.
Nah it wasn't 😂
He just came off as a crybaby
This is my fab episode. I don't understand how that plummer left with that beautiful woman but to each their own. I love this show. it's hilarious and sweet to Black men and women looking for love.❤😂🎉
I didn’t get why it’s so hard for some women to understand a man doesn’t want to date his mothers aesthetic he isn’t saying he doesn’t want a woman to be a good mom he was just saying her AESTHETIC is motherly which it was in this particular moment.
FACTS, how did they not understand what he meant
I promise I was thinking the same thing when I saw her. Not only her outfit, but the wig and makeup were all giving auntie vibes. 😂 especially standing next to the women she was up against.
I get what he meant, the outfit…but he said he likes women who cover more…and this girl is the most modest one there imo
Her aesthetic definitely didn’t match his or the other women. I feel like before the first woman popped her balloon she should have asked follow-up questions. Her attire is giving much older than what she is.
I don't know of any serious heterosexual man..in search of his mother as a companion..None.
licensed plumber just came in, answered questions and got his match and called it a day 🤣🤣 hairy arms had me 💀
Man it’s bloody crazy yeah !
And got the hottest girl
Lolol😂😂
LMFAOOO
"Be yourself.. it's the only self you can be" Peace 🙏✌️
Chandler is the perfect example of find your tribe, it’s crazy because someone is going like you for you and if they’re going judge you to fit their aesthetic then you dodge a bullet.
Bruh I felt for him I was hurting for him thats a dude who would be a friend of mine
I know this is wrong, but I found this show from a clip showing the plumber guy through. It was hilarious and I couldn’t stop watching and got me hooked and I don’t usually watch this shit. I know they probably want more mature people out there, but these wild ones are entertaining for sure.
Then 1 of em told em they need somebody to be dominant & passive then when 1 dude comes w that energy yall wasn’t feeling it either🤣
Love Chandler, he definitely my type.. and he love anime
@@warpony123same here! I actually like this show and surprisingly learning a lot from watching these episodes
That last guy was awesome and funny as hell i liked him they need have him on again.🤣🤣🤣
Chandler is such a sweetie pie holy shit 😭 I’d love to be friends w someone like him. he knows who he is, what he likes and wants, he seems honest and open & he seems super deep. Love that for them
Lmaoooo she said physically your energy is not my type 😂😂😂 …… ayooo stop bringing these kids up here
Yeahh that was weird😂
I think she thought he was ugly but just didn’t want to be mean lmao
And she thought she made sense 😂😂😂😂
@@JustObserving313 why you watching other women find love ? It’s a show which is entertaining. 🤦🏽♂️
Lmao factory bruh
I don’t think no one is truly here to find love. It’s just pure entertainment.
Lol, you should see the Nigerian version of this show. Might make you appreciate this one more. 😂
@@simaessien1958Lol. True.
@@simaessien1958what is it called?!?!?!
@@KAye633 The Hunt Game Show with Nons_Miraj
Entertainment and/or exposure since they're promoting their instagram accounts. A lot of them might be trying to be influencers or promote their business cause otherwise it makes no sense that they'd expose their socials freely like that.
the girl in the black dress was best in my eyes. the way she was out together, her personality, what she wants in a man. her job too. everything about her is terrific. that’s a girl i would go for.
The men she went for didn't make no sense. Makes me question her aswel.
The anime guy was fresh as hell idgaf. The whole fit is chill and original; something a lot of people don't know how to be nowadays. Keep doing you bro 👍🏾
100! Co-ordinated from his headband to his kicks
im really happy he got the blue girl as a match, she was one of the most down to earth women on this show
@MissX33 That guy was dressed normal and they're not on TV. He came as he was instead of putting on a facade like most other people and he had a genuine heart. It really shouldn't matter if someone dresses up or dresses casually considering clothes don't make the person. You look like a slob in your profile pic.
Liked him a lot too ❤
@MissX33 That guy was dressed normal. It shouldn't matter if you dress up or dress casually because they're just clothes. Clothes get changed every day. Practice what you preach, though. Your videos show you have no right to say anybody dresses like a slob.
Flannel was so kind. People may think he's passive, but I found him to be confident and assertive. I love that he found beauty in all of the women. ❤
Glasses guy is soooo handsome. Glad he took them off!
Honestly they all just to young minded for him. The only reason they passed was his outfit which is wild.
@@DaygoKid94 Agreed!
who is glasses guy
@@BintonBthe one before Ninja Turtle who had the sunglasses on.
@@RebeccaL4I’m sorry 😂😆 “the one before the ninja turtle” you funny asl
Scrolling through the comments and no one is going to acknowledge how GOOD Arlette looks? She’s always been gorgeous but I see she’s been putting in some work and she looks amazing ❤
Wouldn't this mean more coming from a man?
She’s been putting on along with her growth. Love to see it.
@@thehardtruth3027 no. And since she’s already married, comments from other men mean even less to her.
Omg where have you been? Go back to any of her videos and you'll see someone litterally complementing her looks. We get it we know she looks good , move on !
@@baldcheddar did I mention those videos or THIS one? Your comment was unnecessary.
By FAR my fave episode! 😂 the last guy just casually made everything better 😂
The Anime guy is absolutely a class act !!!! Do NOT ever change Dude !!!!
Facts.
💯💯💯
Anime characters don’t fuck around 😂
last guy he avenged our anime guy🔥😂
I am also an anime nerd and he did not deserve that hate I'm glad he was able to walk away with someone
“Are you looking at the tattoos”
“Naw I’m lookin at the hair on ya arms”😂😂😂😂
I thought he was gone comment on them long ass titties 🤣
Nah am looking at the fallen economy 😂😂😂
he was looking at her boobs lol
@@bigmoney7332 omg ☠️☠️☠️
The host tryna hold back her laugh killed me
The last man got me weak, the way he kept turning around everytime somebody popped a balloon 😂😂
He was ready for the action. Honestly, we need more guys like him who are confident and stand on what they say, instead of these weak soft guys scared of women or always lying to them to impress them.
@@CB12345facts
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@CB12345he’s not strong his ex exposed him for being emotional and physically abusive
He was making sure the 2 ladies up there weren't the ones that popped their balloons 😂😂😂
My dude wasn’t taking the crap!! Respect!
Chandler seems like a great person, definitely very down to earth. I’m glad someone was there who matched his vibe, nonjudgmental and open!
Yesss!!! Definitely looking forward to their follow up 😊.
He's the type women would complain about if he got with a white woman
I'm happy he found a bw who liked him for him
Aww thanks 🙏🏽
@@BooksandLooksTVno one would care
That's a lie lol. Someone out there would care. @@Pinkypie2003
he’s saying “queen” like it’s a slur 😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao came back just to see his part again 😂😂
😂😂
56:55 Black is black 😭😂😂😂💀
The ladies were being so mean to the guy in dreads just for him to turn around and still compliment them and they smiled. I like his confidence.
@@EmilyFamosa2808what I’m saying
They weren't mean at all. they complimented him as well. they just didn't like his style.
They were not mean..they said he was handsome...
The girl in the long blue dress is absolutely Stunning and I Love hearing her talk 😭💙💙💙💙
Chandler is a kind soul, I like his personality ❤
girls wasted that great guy, just being honest of who he is.
@@blueprincearts5865Black American culture is honestly just too into clothes.
How does one remain so polite and respectful in the face of constant baseless rejection while another argumentative but moderately well-dressed guy gets to leave with one of the more attractive ladies there?
She didn't see red flags in this behaviour but in an anime shirt of a more casually dressed guy?
Priorities, huh.
He's my type ( in terms of hair and personality) and I'm a Black woman, but in my experience guys like him are usually into non Black women so, what can I do....
@@de.shade101 all these women are very young also.
@@A.Light33 I get being young... but being young does not also automatically equate to being shallow necessarily.
How do girls, who come unto a dating show, not take the opportunity to really step out of their comfort zone and let go of their biases, as these have clearly not worked in their favour till now, hence a dating show in the first place...?
By the way, he did clearly state he was into black women, in fact he specifically insisted those to be his type. Borderline had a touch of rac.ism there with how he went on about keeping the bloodline pure or something of the sort. However, I could see a nuance there, and may come to appreciate it.
I just couldn't imagine anybody else from another race in his place saying the exact same things to girls of their race and it not being taken some type of way a little bit by the Black-American community, lol.
Y’all talking about the last dude but the anime dude the real winner. He found somebody that’s genuine and mess with him for him. The guy before him got the most beautiful one
I love the anime couple
Agreed on all accounts!
What the big girl
That Chandler guy is how I expect every friend to be, that dude seems to be really kind
Fr bro nice guys finish last
@@nathanielb534 yeah bro
@@nathanielb534he didn’t even finish last. He matched with a beautiful woman with similar interest 😂
The plumber stood on principles all men aspire to follow! ✊🏽✊🏽💪🏽...he had me dying laughing 😭😭😭my man!✊🏽