I’ve worked with a handful of friends/colleagues who’ve struggled with talking to women, and the one trick that’s always worked for them is exposure therapy. Just get out there and talk to as many women as possible in whatever context. As for asking her out, it’s never that deep. It either works out or it doesn’t, and that’s pretty much it.
You should always go for it if you think she's into you in the slightest. Otherwise you're just falling for the fantasy of her in your head. If she says no, you get rid of the unhealthy fantasy and move on. If she says yes, you take it from there and something beautiful might come from it. Either way, you are winning. You have to reframe the rejection as her saving you a lot of wasted time and effort, which it is you really think about it. I wish I realized this in my early 20s You also can't make an uninterested woman be interested in you. She either is or she isn't. Your job is to weed out the ones that aren't and pursue the ones that are. You're not trying to make someone part of your life "by force". You're looking for someone that would compliment your life and wants to be part of it
I honestly would ask her out if she didn’t know about my depression and suicidal tendencies. I’m afraid she’d say yes just because she’s afraid id kms if she said no. I want her to actually want me. What do you think I should do in this situation?
not a dude but this did in fact spawn in my recommended. now what do you do if the person you want to ask out is someone you've been friends with for 10 years but now they live a plane ride away and you didn't realize you wanted this until reconnecting with them online hahaha fml
You really did just spawn in my TH-cam algorithm.
There isn't anyone I need to ask out right now but I'll save this video for later!.
Cheers!
Dang you actually did just spawn on my youtube algorithm
I’ve worked with a handful of friends/colleagues who’ve struggled with talking to women, and the one trick that’s always worked for them is exposure therapy. Just get out there and talk to as many women as possible in whatever context. As for asking her out, it’s never that deep. It either works out or it doesn’t, and that’s pretty much it.
You should always go for it if you think she's into you in the slightest. Otherwise you're just falling for the fantasy of her in your head. If she says no, you get rid of the unhealthy fantasy and move on. If she says yes, you take it from there and something beautiful might come from it. Either way, you are winning. You have to reframe the rejection as her saving you a lot of wasted time and effort, which it is you really think about it. I wish I realized this in my early 20s
You also can't make an uninterested woman be interested in you. She either is or she isn't. Your job is to weed out the ones that aren't and pursue the ones that are. You're not trying to make someone part of your life "by force". You're looking for someone that would compliment your life and wants to be part of it
just asked him out (im a guy) and he politely declined lol
At least you tried!
I honestly would ask her out if she didn’t know about my depression and suicidal tendencies. I’m afraid she’d say yes just because she’s afraid id kms if she said no. I want her to actually want me. What do you think I should do in this situation?
not a dude but this did in fact spawn in my recommended. now what do you do if the person you want to ask out is someone you've been friends with for 10 years but now they live a plane ride away and you didn't realize you wanted this until reconnecting with them online hahaha fml
Algorithm is finally working for you
How's your day bro?
Ok I will ask her out
But I'm a girl, bro
Just ask him out, bro 😎
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