Parents Arrested for Child Neglect after Children Discovered Living in Deplorable Conditions
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- On April 22, the Flagler County Sheriff’s Office (FCSO) received calls from neighbors reporting that they heard children screaming from inside a residence located on 1745 County Road 75 in Bunnell.
FCSO deputies arrived at the residence and could immediately hear a small child yelling, “Mommy! Mommy!,” as well as a loud banging noises coming from inside the home that were later determined to be from a child banging his juice cup against the wall asking for something to drink. As deputies approached the residence, they observed large piles of trash near the front door as well as a foul smell emitting from inside the residence.
Contact was then made with the mother of the children, Christina Coe (DOB: 11/22/1994), as well as the father, Gilbert Bridewell (DOB: 2/3/1994). Upon entering the house, deputies observed more trash scattered along the floor of all the bedrooms and all the rooms were in total disarray. Numerous cockroaches were observed walking along the floor, walls, inside the refrigerator, crawling in the beds, and also walking near a child’s pacifier. Deputies also noticed feces on the walls and in the children’s beds.
When questioned about the condition of the home, Coe stated that she was ‘trying her best.’ When asked when the last time the children had received a bath, Coe stated the children were bathed at a neighbor’s home earlier that day. However, all of the children were wearing dirty clothing, had dirt covering their legs and feet, and their diapers had not been changed.
When asked if the children ever received baths inside of the home, Coe stated that she had a plastic bath tub for the children that was used regularly inside the master bedroom. Deputies located the tub still in its original packaging, covered and dust, and it did not appear to have been used.
Based on the circumstanced, the FCSO contacted the Department of Children and Families (DCF) and a case worker arrived to assess the situation. Under the recommendation of DCF, all three children were removed from the home and placed into the custody of a family member.
“I am so glad that we were able to get these kids out of this house before someone was injured or became seriously ill as a result of the conditions inside the home,” Sheriff Rick Staly said. “Between the trash, bugs, and the human excrement found inside the home, this situation could have had a tragic ending. Hopefully, DCF and other agencies will help these parents and children get the help they need. It is unfortunate these conditions and the parent’s lack of actions deteriorated to a criminal case.”
Christina Coe and Gilbert Bridewell were arrested and transported to the Sheriff Perry Hall Inmate Detention Facility. They are both charged with three counts of Felony Child Neglect without Great Bodily Harm. The children are ages 2, 1, and 7 days old.
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My grandfather used to say "being poor is not an excuse for living like a pig and neglecting basic human living conditions"
Pigs are actually really clean animals, but I understand the sentiment.
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@@Bbhjdidbsbaut
Your grandpa was a wise man.
My mom used to say the same thing
It really isn’t. And seeing part of your name as guru😍 , these are the only teachers I follow and believe in♥️
Very wise grandfather
“They are just really loud and scream a lot”
“Yeah it’s called a child”
This cop had the perfect comeback and wasn’t playing around props to him
Got to admit, I damn near spit out my milk when my brain processed what he said
Well thats what I first thought when they were concerned about the screaming in the first place? Kids scream..
I mean, if the cops argument is "Yea it's called a child," then why were the cops called?
@@the_jones528 It's because if this is going on for hours and nothing is being done about it something is wrong. And then they were in poor living conditions.
Yep, love cops like this, who don’t talk and try and be polite to the dead beats, who say it like it is and get to business without wasting time. Losers love wasting everyone’s time and being manipulative to anyone who will give attention
Just because you CAN have children, doesn't mean you SHOULD have children.
@Nailea Olivas Ever heard of birth control? That's what the feminists over there fought for and she didn't even used that. I call that idiocy.
@@Langley_Ackerman19 yup right!
Butttt when the government want to get rid of abortions this is what kids will get 🤷🏽♀️
@@Langley_Ackerman19 Lmfao, people don’t even want to take vaccines. Also, The father obviously didn’t use protection either. Then after all of that, you could still get pregnant a lady just had her baby and as her daughter came out, she was was holding her mothers contraceptive. The real problem is that the government wants to stop abortion which puts kids in this environment. Rather it’s through foster care or with the biological parents until they’re 18yrs old. Literally prolly why there’s already so many fucked up adults walking around.
@@whitneymcclendon16 Get rid of abortions? Like it’s that hard to use birth control, or how about.. Just bear with me for a second.. Not having sex with someone you’re not married to? 🤯 I forgot that’s out of the realm to reasoning with you libs. People like this shouldn’t keep their kids if they’re gonna be so neglectful. Your excuses are trash
My grandmother had a dirt poor childhood. Her mother used to say to her, "Just because we are poor, doesn't mean we have to be dirty".
Bless her gentle soul, hope she’s doing better today. 😊
Yup! Same here
My great grandma said the same thing to my grannie!
awe 😭♥️
Exactly! Just picking up the trash would have helped.
She's not upset about her kids. She's upset she is gonna sit and jail without drugs
LOL ..drugs are plentiful in jail, anything you can get on the street you can easily get in jail
The jail I unfortunately was stuck in. Didn’t have any drugs. Or they weren’t offered to me. I would have took a nerve pill to get me through that situation. Very rough.
As someone who wants to be a mother but I can't it makes me disgusted
For real. She had put her dam self in that situation and have her kids in danger suffing
It makes me sick that people like her put drugs over there kids.
You are right! She is scared because she got caught 🤦♀️
She’s not upset about her kids she’s upset that she’s going to jail.
She definitely seems like she’s on drugs, she’s upset she’s about to withdrawal. Also, her saying she didn’t want to go to the hospital because they treat her bad is a big red flag. They probably know what she’s on
100% that’s what my mom was 😂😂 she gave me and my siblings an evil glare as she was put in cuffs by the officer. It makes me mad at her and me that I started crying even harder at 😂😂 memories huh
She needs to go to jail
@@mooseVentura666 thats why she took so long to get to the door. Hiding everything
Typical narcissist witch
The cop was firm, direct and straight to the point.
This is great for parents of teenagers
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And for their performance they get an A+
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That's how it's suppose to be. Just go to the point✌✌✌✌. The woman looks under some type of seditive drug.. this whole scenario is a hot mess.
That's how they're supposed to be
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"I have no family" YOUR CHILDREN ARE YOUR FAMILY. TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN
She is hurting too
@@apurvasurve3294 that’s not a good enough reason to do what she’s done.
@@apurvasurve3294 its not about her tho , it’s about them mf kids. Y’all have kids and be selfish asf when in reality your ass shouldn’t be no ones parent not even of a dog
She does need a support system…maybe this will get her on the right path.
@@tinawindham6958 lol...sure
That cop 100% had those kids welfare as his top priority. He cares. We need more like him.
@G . so?
@@turtlewolf34 he’s a troll ignore him
Thank training and concerns of the neighbors. These kids were victims.
Yes and more loving parents
@G . You are the reason people start arguing
My grandmother always said that being poor is no excuse for being a slob.
My grandmother said, "Poor doesn't mean dirty."! ♡
My mom always told us that. Just because we're poor doesn't mean you should be a slob, be proud of the things you do have and appreciate it for we could have less.
She’s doing it wrong, she should be teaching her kids how to clean the house!
COMING FROM A POOR MEXICAN FAMILY. WE WERE NEVER DIRTY. BEING POOR DOESNT MEAN U HAVE TO BE DIRTY
Facts
She's literally crying for being arrested and not the fact that her children are living in conditions deemed unsafe. I am not the richest or best mom, but a clean diaper, full sippy cup, and a clean home goes a long way.
You sound amazing
good parents are truly appreciated wish you and your family nothing but the best 🖤
So true, I'm raising my grandaughter and she's 2y/o and I'm literally living paycheck to paycheck, but she's healthy, smart, and beautiful, the greatest joy in my day is when she wakes up in the morning and we pick her clothes out together and do her hair up. I beat myself up for a situation my daughter put me in but I'm doing the best with I have and I'm doing a good job where it counts. I see people like this and it makes me sick, bugs everywhere and the little one screaming for mom...so sad.
@@annabanana4699 and your granddaughter will remember the experiences you had with her forever.
You’re doing the best anyone can
Thank you to those neighbors who cared enough to step in and make the calls!! You're heroes!
Thank you so much officers! Take the meal tickets to someone who cares!!!!
THE LADY WHO BLAMES EVERYTHING BAD IN LIFE ON IMMIGRATION AND BLACK PEOPLE.
If you can read the situation and you feel something isn't right you need to call for help. Even if you're totally wrong that small act can save lives.
Definitely!!!!
For your neighbor to have to call on something like this,
You know its bad bad....
Those are some exceptionally nice neighbors. My parents were worse than this lady, and they threatened that the neighbours will call the cops on me if I scream in agony back when I was a kid.
"they're very loud and they scream a lot"
officer: "yea it's called a kid"
absolute savage
If she took care of the kids they would scream. Stupid people shouldn't have kids
@@annmarie9470 I’d highly consider correcting “would” lmao
@@Rapscallion227 yeah😂 so funny. Everyone else who gave my comment a 👍 knew what I meant. "Wouldn't " , better?
@@annmarie9470 I’m not being a grammar nazi, I just think it’s funny how much your comments surface level meaning changes because of the error. Why do you have to be defensive about it?
@@annmarie9470 i was very confused by your comment before i saw your correction
"Are you looking for someone"
"YEAH YOU!"
I love how the officer set the tone right off the bat!
So the Mom has 3 very young children all under 3. One child only 7 days old. Do any of you get this situation? For probably the last 3 months this woman was pregnant and caring for two other babies as well. BABIES WHO ARE OF AN AGE TO BOTH BE EITHER TEETHING AND CONSTANTLY CRYING, SOILING A DIAPER EVERY TIME YOU TURN AROUND AND IN THE PROCESS OF POTTY TRAINING AND WEANING FROM A BOTTLE "PLUS" HIGHLY MOBILE!!! GOOD GOD! I HAD ONE KID AND HAD A HARD TIME KEEPING MY HOME PICKED UP AND I AM A VERY METICULOUS HOUSEKEEPER!
Shame Shame Shame on you illiterate and rude people who called in the dogs in on this poor family! You should have been over there offering to care for her older babies while she recovered from her pregnancy and most likely a tubal ligation! Civilized people would have offered assistance WAY before this night! Civilized people know when a woman is in her 3rd trimester her energy is inadequate to care for a home and other children as she would usually do. That is when civilized people offer to step in and actually help their neighbors!!! She had a 7 day old baby and she says towards the end of the video that she has no family to help her with the kids... So not only was she in the recovery process, she also had a newborn, a very mobile 1 year old and a rambunctious 3 year old to feed, cloth, clean, teach, love and nurture, and it sounds like she also had a husband to feed and clean up after who was probably working most of the time to pay for the needs of the family. It makes me sick that an employee of some agency can recommend a parent be denied their inchoate right to raise their own child, and the government enforces the insane removal of the children. Who is that agency to do so without a guilty verdict of your peers? Who are they to circumvent the God given rights that are guaranteed by the Constitution on such evidence as the cleanliness of your home? It is sickening and sad! FKN Cop callers! I hate cop callers! Help someone when they are down! It's the civilized thing to do!
@@TinaShay You shouldn't have a kid if you cant care for them. especially not three. this woman is irresponsible and should not have those kids these officers are heros for saving those children from their mother.
I don’t think so my man, I don’t agree with Tina, but in order to maintain control of the situation the second officer stated the problem in a better way, setting “the tone” like you said can make a whole lotta problems and put the children in danger. In the end of the video the mother started banging her head on the window. As a police officer you don’t know if the parents are intoxicated or not, personally I grew up with addicted parents, crystal and all that shit can make you think your own 2 year old child are the actual danger. Just so u can see how wrong it could had gone just by the tone of the situation my man.
@@axiom385 exactly
@@TinaShay Maybe she shouldn't have had so many kids that she was unable to take care of, then? Or gotten help from the cousin whose home they were taken to after mom was arrested? Or surrendered custody? Etc, etc??
There were choking hazards in the room, a loose window screen for an open window, they were locked in from the outside while screaming for their mom (imagine if there had been a fire and mom slept through it or left in a tired haze while her kids were unable to get out the door?), there's additional info that there was a foul stench coming from the residence, sagging diapers that appeared to have been unchanged for hours, and a woman who looked as if she'd either just been woken up or was drunk or was in the midst of an opiate/opioid nod (none of which is even remotely acceptable when the kids are wide ass awake and surrounded by things that endanger them). On top of all that, this apparently wasn't even the first time she'd been called on.
Fuck that. I'm glad she got arrested. I hope those kids are safe now, from her gross negligence and child endangerment.
“They scream a lot”
“Yeah it’s called a kid”
Absolute *hero*
That was the BEST comeback to the lamest excuse.
@@jqbaker418 no it wasn't cause she was referring to the complaints
@@Relytxz 1:30
What you smoking man, she’s talking about the kids
@@SwiddyDiddy they had just mentioned the complains and she had to come up with something. Are you daft? Don't talk to me lmao
@@Relytxz “we’re getting complaints that they feel like there’s children in distress” *child starts wailing* “they’re very loud”
Bruh you a fucking idiot don’t talk to ME
Edit: “and they scream a lot” rewatch the vid and delete your comment cuz you making no sense
Kids are usually "loud and vocal" when they're screaming desperately to be taken care of. What a horrible mother.
No. Kids can learn to take care of themselves. Yes, obviously, a house shouldn’t have hazards, but still.
My dad was a single dad for years with no government assistance and making less than 20k per year and there was never a day where I didn’t eat, wasn’t bathed, or didn’t have clean clothes. I am forever grateful for him and his example shows that low income is no excuse for child neglect
Because your Dad is one of the greatest dads out there. Show him love and respect always , no matter what. He deserves the best. Both of you ♥️😊
Wow! Amazing dad. It's very rare for a single dad to bring up child/children well/successfully! Other men may look for other women to help them in raising their children. Kudos to your dad! ❤️❤️❤️
Were you raised in the 1960s?
Reminds me of my dad
"Low income is no excuse for child neglect". Absolutely 110% agree with this beautifully said statement.
Cleaning your house doesn't cost money. Loving your children doesn't cost money. Don't use that excuse.
Agreed
Cleaning does cost money. Cleaner and shit isn’t free. But that doesn’t make any excuses. When you have children, you do whatever you have to
Right? Being poor doesnt mean you have to live dirty! My mom had 5 of us kids. We barely made ends meet but you could eat off of her floors! Every other Saturday she would pull all furniture out, clean behind it and rearrange it. 3 of my younger brothers were in diapers at the same time. They never had saggy diapers or even diaper rash. There is no excuse for it. I feel like a lot of this generation of women were born without that natural mothering instinct. Its sad.
I hope those lil ones are taken away from those POS parents and placed with a family that takes care of then instead of locking them in a bedroom in soiled diapers.
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@@aidankhaos7687 Even Dollar General has coupons.
I love the cop for not playing nice. He knew she’d try to lie and he was not up for it. We need more officers like this because a lot of kids go through this EVERYDAY.
In California that cop would’ve received a complaint by a supervisor who reviewed the body worn camera for being ruse, discourteous and insensitive. No joke.
@@standingstrongboyleheights5136 so true. California is full of sensitive leftist liberals
@@Foxy_Playz05 they’re running our police dept and have been for a long time
The vast majority of cops are like this and they deal with things like this EVERY DAY
Shouldn't be the cops business... The kids are in the house, on private property. It's not like they're running in the streets like ALL kids in the ghetto..... Welcome to the military police state
As an adult who was a neglected child, God bless this officer. May those kids be healthy and safe
One unfortunately died later from bug bites 😢
@@jimmyrustles43I wonder if that "mom" (in quotes for a reason) caught another charge from that
Neglected 😢
I hope your doing better now. God bless you.
You raise a family of your own?
It’s so obvious she doesn’t care about the kids, she’s only throwing a fit because she’s in trouble.
Such a ignorant comment. She’s obviously addicted to opioid’s. No other caretaker either. If she didn’t love them she woulda dropped them off at a center and sold her house for some H
I cant tell if you’re defending this woman for her behavior or if you think improper care of children is automatically indicative of substance abuse rather than them just being terrible uncaring people
@@minebraft3035 lol no, did we not watch the same video? She’s obviously a pill head
@@PostMalone-real she is no doubt
@@PostMalone-real or other drugs.
“I have no family”. Obviously, neither do your children
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Omph. That part
She just mentioned family earlier that left lol
Yeah it's pretty messed up how she said that and her kids were literally a few meters from where she was.
Maybe she shouldn't have the kids back in her care for keeping them in that house. I want to see her parental rights terminated.
Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child
Dammmn son
Nailed it! So true!
Wow. This deserves more likes 😅.
Couldn’t have said it better myself!
thats like saying, every rapist deserves a victim, but not every victim deserves a rapist
Please, if you see child abuse, report it. So many children face neglect not only at the hands of their parents but by their community who look the other way. These neighbors are a great example of how everyone should respond to child abuse, making numerous reports until something gets done. I sincerely hope these kids and their mother get the help they so desperately need.
“they’re very loud and they scream a lot.” Just shows how good of a parent she is
just because kids are loud and scream alot doesnt mean the parents are always bad parents. in this situation yes because the living conditions the kids are in are poor.
when i was a kids i had very strong lungs i could scream so loud and for long period of time. my parents would put me in time out for hitting them or my sibling and i would be put into my room until i calm down so i can listen and understand what i did wrong. as a kid i would scream very loud in time out so much so that the neghbours would call the cops because they throught my parents was neglecting me as i was yelling so loud for long period of time multiple times of the week. My parent werent neglectful at all tho and i was just a very naughty kid and my parents were doing the right thing. its not their fault that i just have a loud screaming voice and the neghours would call the police. when the police did arrive they could see that i was just a naughty kid playing up for not like being in time out in my room. so they never accused my parents for any wrong doing and they can see im well looked after in a good living conditions. It still wasnt fair that my parents had to deal with police visiting often just because the neghbours couldnt understand what the situtaion was about.
so i would never just assume every time a kid is loud and screaming next door to me as it being a situation of child neglect. off my personal experience.
@@DezciiXx I agree but to put kids in a room with dangerous things because their going toddler things such as screaming and being loud isn’t right and it’s neglectful. I’m not saying for every child but for this case it is
@@nickmazzie1129 yes he/she said the same
@@DezciiXx the Person never said kids who
Are loud and scream are automatically living in a neglectful household but you could obviously tell that they were and that was the reason they were screaming 🧍♀️
Cops should have kciked in on hearing multiple screams
She didn't cry over being separated from her children. She's upset she won't be able to feed her drug addiction.
Boy are you on your high horse! She'd get out on bail and get clean and a program will help her! Hospitals JUDGE addicts and mentally I'll DEPRESSED people! Shame on you all for judging her! I will PRAY FOR HER!
@@robinberry4957 having poor mental health does not excuse piss poor judgment.
Robin - my horse is about to get higher. Children filthy and feces on the bed and wall? A 7-day old child? Innocent children whose parents placed those innocent children directly into hell every minute of every day.. a bathtub still in the wrapping with dust on it.. I'm judging the hell outta her - AND YOU for your moronic perspective and not thinking ONLY of those poor childrens' welfare and well-being.
@@robinberry4957 whos bailing her out?
@@johna837 Agreed! @Robin Berry is an idiot who, at one point, probably neglected and/or abused her children. 😒
I am a single father. Have had full custody of my daughter since she was two (now 10) because her mother was a drug addict. I found this out when I showed up to her house to pick her up and found my daughter on the couch with a full diaper crying her eyes out while looking through a window. I pounded on the door while calling the cops, and she finally answered after about 5 minutes. Those five minutes seemed like an eternity. I truly believe I saved my daughter's life. Good on these cops.
You are a good man and a good father. Much respect, sir.
Lucky those kids had YOU to go to. I can tell you first hand that kids that go into the system, dont necessiarly get good foster families. A lot goes on in these houses that inspections do not show. Just because a house is not clean does not mean that there is not other abuse going on in my case it was sexual.
So many comments here from these do gooders who get invovled and then the kid gets seperated from the only person they have ever known, and put into a system where they are molested or abused in other ways.
Thank God you were there to get your child.
Respect brotha respect
@@biggirlscandance7499 ma'am he has 1 daughter not kids but we get the point 🤷🏻♀️
I woulda loved to have a father like u. My mother is the only parent i have. Mad respect to u being the loving/responsible one. Respect!
My dad died when I was 4 and my brother was 10. Our mom had never so much as written a check before (it was the 60's and our Dad was possessive). She got TWO jobs, kept a 2 br ranch house clean (no help from us kids) and managed new clothes for school every year and good home cooked food on our plates. Hardly any "welfare" available then either. SHe had $350 a month SS and some money from veterans since my Dad served in WWII. Oh, and EVERY CHristmas we had presents. She did have her parents to watch us while she worked, at least for the first 5 years.
Mom was the BOMB! Lost her at age 90 in 2020.
Your mom sounds like an absolute angel. She obviously loved her children very much. I'm sorry for your loss.
Damn
Yeah, back then you could ACTUALLY do that. You couldn't DREAM of doing that today as a single parent. Ur mom was great but that shit ain't happening these days get real....
@@GOITERBALL AND with help from grandparents the first five years!
@@phyllojoe5346 facts! The good old days literally were the good old days in this case lmao....economically anyways....
When the kid screamed “MOMMY!” my heart broke...this truly disgusting and I’m glad the parents got arrested. No child deserves parents like that.
My paternal hackles went up UwU. I want kids badly but I've been single for like, 10 years.
@@blobbertmcblob4888 I'm sorry. I hope you find that right one for the job. It sucks how the people who don't want kids get blessed and potential good parents don't get them. You got the right attitude and I admire that.
Those poor babies.
All children deserve a parent. Not all parents deserve a child.
He tried both, mommy and daddy and got ignored by both. My heart aches.
That room being pitch black with the repeating rainbow strobe is just terrifying for a kid to be trapped in.
I’m surprised no one spoke of the strobe light in a dark room. It’s psychological torture. It’s heart breaking. The foster system sucks too, but the mom is a disaster. She can’t have those kids, she doesn’t want them enough and she is hurting them. She’s a sick fuck
"They scream a lot" I would too B! You know she's one of those girls that has a screaming match with a 4 year old.
@@imtired2983 yes especially when the light hits UV blue color it does something w your eyes and mind trips
LIKE A HORROR HOUSE 😑
@collars and cuffs yeahh I was thinking the same when I saw this in the morning
Even the roaches wanted to give a statement like " we are the only ones watching these kids . "
I want to thank all of you for the likes and hilarious comments, much love❤️
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Bruh 😂
The desperation in that little voice crying for mummy and daddy got me straight in the heart. Can tell by how raspy baby's voice was, they'd been screaming out for them quite some time. Gut wrenched.
She is more upset about going to jail than her kids! Absolutely, sickening!!
Cant take care of your kids in jail. So yea I’d be worried about going to jail too
Usually how it works
@@megannbell8952 Exactly! People say damn near anything, and you should know that if there’s one thing most people are good at, it’s judging others. Funny thing is, most people who do judge others aren’t the best people/parents themselves.
@@megannbell8952 she wasn't taking care of em in the First place so.
Miss me with that one, Boss.
@@Materialgirl_3 I understand we shouldn't be too judgemental but face it, that house is no place to raise a kid.
She's not upset about her kids. How could she ignore her kids calling for her? She didn't want to go to the hospital because she's on drugs and knows it will show up.
You are right.
Shes a loser.
She was probably nodded out from drugs. Look at slurred her speech and stuff was. I don’t see how else a parent couldn’t hear their kid(s) screaming like that unless they were heavily sedated or something.
Gross...poor babies my heart is Breaking
She honestly doesn't give me the junkie vibe... She gives me the lazy & mentally ill vibe, but I'm not ruling drugs out by any means. Depression is a mother fucker. I struggle everyday with it & I've been her, not the extent they're describing but close to it. And I'll be honest I don't know how I never got the kids removed. Mostly because the case worker knew the situation & that I was moving 1300 miles away from the abusive situation. But my mental illness has been a constant issue much like this. Difference is I will own up to it. When I look back I get mad at myself all over again. But I busted my ass to make changes.
Some people should NOT be parents. This makes me so sad AND mad.
Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
@@borisjohnson9741
I'm sorry but there are to many children that have died due to neglect as well as parents that have killed their children I understand people make mistakes but when it comes to this I do not believe they should get a second chance they should not place those children back in her home..
It makes me upset that people like that are parents.. yet people who try for years and years to get pregnant, and don’t, and would be amazing parents, end up not being able to have children of their own..
Adopting is really expensive and hard to be accepted as adoptive parents from what I heard. I do think everyone deserves to be a parent to their own biological children should be able to.. I do know though if my family ever had kids they couldn’t take care of I would take them in as my own.
MOST people should not be parents.
I agree ... there's those that have babies and shouldn't and then there are people like me who loves children and couldn't have any.
Stuff like this infuriates me. Neglecting your children is one of the most disgusting, deplorable things you can do as a human being. Makes me so mad to think about 🤬🤬
She had them locked in that room and was ignoring them. That's why the child was screaming like that
U have no idea
Seriously... being neglected like those kids were is just unfathomable
How could u do that as a mother. She still not attending to them .
@@janetpattison8474 I hope they both got punched up a bit in jail for that. Inmates hate child abusers. Intense hate. They must harm child abusers bad and asap.
I can't imagine. I try really hard to not judge people but no. Just no.
Alcoholics and drug addicts will do that. They lock the kids in a room for hours while they pass out.
“They’re very *loud* and they scream a lot-“
“Yeah it’s called a kid.”
Her: 👁👄👁
Relax
@@woofy8867 right. Legend? Haha relax buddy.
I know I had to go back and be sure I heard him right! 😯 he’s probably a dad himself
At least he understood that. My son had an ear infection no matter what I did i couldn't make him comfy enough to sleep. The one that came to my house said, " your home is very clean, so whoever called on you had never been in here themselves. "
I automatically knew it was my neighbor, that until she had her own kids honestly thought I was adjusting my child. Lmao
When she had twins at first I honestly thought she needed help. I offered and she scoffed at me. Oh well she learned very quickly.
The ones replying have probably also had their own run ins with the law. Trash.
We didn't grow up with a lot. But my mom always kept us 4 kids fed, dressed and clean. Thank you Momma, I ❤️ you.
@LilHeinz94 Yeah, it really does. My parents are still married as well 🥰🥰. Great role models. Took us to the beach, zoo and parks during the summer. Affordable fun 🤭. I show and tell them how much I love them every day and tell them I'm grateful for all they did for me, at least. Became a nurse so I can care for them as they're getting older. Don't want anyone else taking care of them.
@@prettybrowneyez3338 my respect for you went 📈📈📈 god bless you and your family 💯🙏🏼
@@saeedjaxobs7711 Thank you for that 🥰. I really appreciate it. Same to you and yours 🙏🏼 💕.
I’m the 9th out of 10 . My mom had 2 jobs for 37 years and we were always taken cared of . Never went without a meal , clothes, heat etc
Same ♡♡♡
Broke my heart to hear those kids scream for their mom, man. They sound so young, I don't know how you can ignore that as a parent.. And shout out to who ever called the police, because most pole would turn a blind eye. They probably saved those children's lives.
Easy. You teach the children how to be patient. Today’s children are super spoiled.
We grew up very low income and my mom had 5kids, she would always says just bc we don’t have much doesn’t mean we can’t afford to be clean. I still feel that.
Awww my grandma use to say that ...may she rip
My mother was a single mother of 3, worked a lot, but she always made sure the house was clean.
Absolutely 💯. I grew up in the eighties..oldest girl out of 11 kids. My mom would tell us the same thing. We were always clean, no matter how poor we were.
💯💯
My mom said the same thing
'the children are 2, 1, and 7 days old'
that's heartbreaking
Breeders is all they are, popping out kids. They should be sterilized before they make more kids to neglect to replace these.
Heart shattering tears 😭
They are all babies that need more care than she was willing to give them. :/
Jesus Christ. I was up every two hours for 3 months. No stop. When my baby was born. And I still fretted constantly “am I doing enough? Am I doing things right?” This breaks my heart. I got taken away as a child too but my parents loved me and tried. Addiction is horrific but this is beyond that.
@@annebruecks7381 Hardly any better than the cockroaches that infest their house. Poor kids. I hope they ended up with a decent family in the end.
“Their aunt and uncle just came and trashed the place”
“I have no family” 🤦🏻♀️
You do have family- those kids you are neglecting. 😳
Omfg so true
Lol I heard that just when I saw your comment
The kids are also staying with family. So wtf
Maybe they are the dad's family?
This cop was so disgusted and angry on these children’s behalf. God bless him.
“Are you looking for someone”
“Yeah YOU”
😂😂🤦🏾♀️
💀💀💀💀
🤣🤣🤣🤣had me crackin up
*Sweats profusely*
😩😂😂
Ooo I didn’t know your black
The neighbors who didn’t turn a blind eye to this situation are heroes here as well. Too many times we see people that don’t want to get involved and it results in tragedies.
*edit. Thanks for all of the likes everyone. ♥️
@@NZtrillion They are most definitely not cowards! That is beyond clean up. Those kids were clearly not being taken care of properly for a long time. Most likely their entire lives. The dirty house was not the main factor for the decision of removal. There was also a baby girl that she left unattended in the house while she came to the door and was outside. They don’t not only remove the children but criminally charge BOTH parents from having kids in just a “dirty house”.
@@NZtrillion you're clearly a friend with these .... people. Defending much????
SICK.
My wife works with the courts. She tells me that in cases like these almost all of them have kids living in horrible conditions, no bed sheets, no food etc but there’s ALWAYS a GAMING CONSOLE wtf?!!
@@devaschloe yes I hear that as well !
Agree!
"My aunt and uncle just left and they trashed the place"
"I hAvE nO fAmIlY"
@@iamthechatthugminion8561 Bold of you to assume there is a husband.
I thought she said the kids uncle just left... Not meaning her brother, but maybe their dads brother? And cousin being the dads family. She may not have family around but he did.
She probably means her family wants nothing to do with her which, lets be real, is pretty clear why
Her two babies locked in the room:
Her: I hAvE nO FaMiLy
contradicting herself
This is 100% parental neglect. They failed. And the kids are asking, "Do you see me? Do you hear me? Do I matter?". Well, nobody's listening. Children learn more from WHAT YOU ARE than what you teach. I get the feeling these people will never understand that.
100% agree "do i exist". They are just repeating the old cycle. If you can't raise kids, just admit it, put them in the system, of course this ignorant lady probably likes that tax refund for having kids and the child support check.
As a child, me and my brother endured YEARS of abuse from the hands of my own mother because no officer would help whenever we reached out. One day, an officer did care and I have been happily with my father permanetly since!
That's awesome
Just goes to show that there are men that are better for the kids than the woman in spite of judges that always give the custody to the woman!!!
I'm sorry u had to endure that
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I’m so glad you finally found somebody who would help!!
She had an excuse for literally everything. Watch how she responds to each question
Everything somehow seems to be the kids’ fault. If you’re a shit parent just say that
@@Mygfisawesone some parents either Don’t think they’re shitty parents or they refuse to admit their shitty parents.
She sounds like she's on drugs, possibly heroin or fentanyl, based on her slurred speech. Could also explain how she was sleeping through the screaming.
WOMEN
It was the kids' faults. They can be very conniving at 2 years old and younger.
I love how the cop wasn't nice. He knew very well. He didn't play or anything because he wasn't going to fall for her lies. It is a lot easier to walk away but he stayed.
Right he’s like he needs juice he’s holding his empty cup the cup caught that in seconds smh poor excuse of a mom maaaaaan
❤
I couldn't tell if she was high, or just really immature and not very smart.
Hearing the kids crying for their mom was heartbreaking. I have mental disorders that I struggle with. I can't always clean and be alert. I have panic attacks that make me pass out. And I'm low income bc of my disabilities. My son is ALWAYS taken care of. There is no excuse, this is just a shitty mom. When I knew I was bringing another life into this world, I made sure to have people that can help me so he is never neglected.
Your comment made me joyful. This comment right here is a determined and strong mama. There's a MOM then a real determined mom. I know you can do it. The pain you're feeling right now is NOTHING compared to the blessings you'll have in the future. Your son is lucky. Keep fighting mama. You got this 🤗✨💖
I'm unstable
I want to hire a caregiver when i move out so I can take care of my kuds
@@dancingghostgirl2291you really tjink kids want some caregiver. They want their parents only.
“I have no money, I have no family.” No excuse to harm children.
Exactly. Perhaps she should stop having children if she has no money or support
Exactly!!!
Yeah, “ I have no money” but has a house full of junk🙄
Cleaning doesn’t cost a penny
@@JarrettDaRaiderBoi Did you actually just make an attempt at defending this lady? Lol also, I noticed after she says she has no money, there's a colored tattoo on her arm that probably cost around $300 or so (:
The fact that someone out there is growing up with memories like this screaming for their parents for hours, breaks my heart
First in line to say that me and my brother grew up like this. 😅
My brother and I grew up like this, those hippies were " doing their on thing" and really didn't want children.
@@misha2197 Hope your life has gotten better.
@@joetaco1386 yeah same ;-;
I can't imagine this, i just did sleep training with my one year old and had enough problems waiting the suggested 5 mins before you go in to pat his bum and say its ok its just bedtime.
She's describing her kids like they are just dogs, "they are just loud and scream". Excuse me? They're babies, they want their mother!!
KJV John 3:16-17 " 16. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved."
"Yeah it's called a kid" good on these officers for laying down the law and not tolerating this bullshit
@@rezwittkerchester2055
"Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell."
Proverbs 23:13-14, KJV
ya I think ill keep your religion out of my parenting
@@HaLfCrAzEdCaNuCk That Verse is simply saying that disciplining your children prevents them from living a life of sin. What is wrong with that statement?
@@jennifer-dk2nq beating a child with a rod is not discipline...its child abuse
Would this be another case of "disciplining" your child ?
Deuteronomy 21:18 - 21:21
18 If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them:
19 Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place;
20 And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard.
21 And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die: so shalt thou put evil away from among you; and all Israel shall hear, and fear.
I’m not even a father yet and I already know that being a parent takes a LOT of work. But there is NO EXCUSE for abusing your child or neglecting them for hours at a time.
Spoken like someone who's never had to deal with a lazy (step)kid. 32 and living in his mother's attic screaming his lungs out at strangers on the Internet. Worthless !
@@jimmyrustles43 it sounds like the child is at the age where he can actually do things for himself critical for his survival. The kids in this video were toddlers, which are more at-risk; toddlers need constant supervision and guidance in order to survive as they are not at a sustainable stage. They need help eating (as they could easily choke if not supervised), going to the bathroom, and cleaning themselves so they don’t get infections from bacteria buildup. Your kid sounds older, at a stage where he can clean himself, eat without supervision, and can ultimately keep up on his essentials for living (obviously not financially, unless said kid is 18+ where it is no longer the legal responsibility of the parent; maybe morally, but not legally). I’m trying to say this in the nicest way possible 😁
@@kmk5239You said this too nicely! Wth is his stupid comment even supposed to mean?🤦🏻♀️
"They're not screaming or crying, they're just playing"
That statement tells me everything I need to know about her parenting skills.
No joke some people think no matter what they are doing they are playing.
Once had it out with my daughter’s principal because she came home from school crying and went on about a boy who restrained her and tried to bury her in the snow. She told me she couldn’t breathe and was scared and oh boy I lost my sh!t…. Her principal claimed “they weren’t playing together that recess” yea no that’s assault not playing. Boy I was pissed
@@meganritchie2635
That's BS
If they were playing she wouldn't be so panicked
I love the officer’s no nonsense rebuttal, “They’re not playing.” It’s like, just stop lying immediately, it’s not going to work.
And at 3 am too.
therapy
You know your screwed when a police officer says “I’m not enthused ”
You know your screwed when someone knows more words than you
Or when the police show up at your door
This is great for parents of teenagers
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I hate cops like these who act ignorant with sarcasm
@@flixs1353 they were right to get the children out of a unsafe dirty possible secret addicts house
She really crying about being treated like crap at the hospital but treats her kids like this?!?!
She's probably been to the Hospital as a drug seeker....they know her...
Excellent point!!!
She’s definitely on drugs and crying because she’s going to go through withdrawal. Heroin or pills but I think heroin more likely because of the bruises on her arms
It amazes me how I'm still able to be shocked by humanity
Sad when human trash are allowed to have kids.
The screaming for the parents has absolutely brought me to tears. I could never imagine that fear or desperation in my own child’s voice. Those poor babies
The fact that she JUST spit out a 3rd child is disturbing. If they have no money, how the blood hell was she going to take care of that one? I’d be seriously worried about the potential she would sell her kids for a fix.
not enough braincells to consider protection
My mother did 😒😔
Or god forbid, have a mental break or withdrawals from drugs and harm the kids. It is happening more and more frequently.
@@cruisecontrol7911 My heart goes out to you and I'm sorry that happened to you. No one should ever experience such a thing from the one they call mom or dad. ❤️
People like that are people that live off the state will continuously have children until they physically cannot have them anymore. I knew a lady that had 9 kids and she admitted to me that's why she had so many kids cuz she was too lazy to work and she was getting $3,000 in cash and $3,000 in EBT every month. So people like that that's their job is to have as many kids as possible and live off the state as long as they possibly can.
As a heroin addict (clean for 3.5 years) it’s pretty easy to see that that mom is nodding out. That would also be why she’s so upset about going somewhere that “treats her like shit”, translation: I’ve been there too many times and they know I’m a junkie. God, I hope those kids get re-homed.
Yup same for me. And I 💯 agree. I don't think she was taking so long to answer the door cos she was gouching out on the couch the whole time. I think your right she had been. Looks like she was using when police got there, (& even when after taking a shit load, I'd notice the blue lights of Cops flashing through the window). I'd bet she was brought out of being out of it on the couch with the police turning up, & took so long to answer the door cos she's been like shit I need to hide foil or needles ect. And stash her drugs. To me she's not crying a single tear from being taken from her kids, but cos she's goin to jail & her drugs are in the house. But wtf she seemed surprised 1, they were there for her & 2, she was gonna get arrested. So to me the extra tears were going to jail, realising she'd stashed her drugs sum where inside, not in a "way" she could take them with her, so straight away she knows she's gonna be rattling soon. And congrats on that long clean. I've been clean of stimulants (what were legal highs, ones meant to mimic coke or meth (which is rarely seen over here). They were the strongest drug I've ever took & psychologically more addictive than heroin. I got so bad my already m / h cond was out of control. They were real hard to stop even after the UK ban on all RCs, could still get them. I'll have had 4 yrs off them this month. And know how hard it is esp the beginning. So 3 plus yrs clean off heroin is great. Unfortunately I went back to heroin after stopping that. But apart from if I get into withdrawal, which I rarely do, it doesn't cause me anywhere near as many problems as stims & alcohol. Know this is way off topic now lol. But I also know for all I got into more trouble, except shoplifting with alcohol & stims. I also know that stopping completely is hard af. I've only managed 13 wks. So yeah was way off topic, but just wanted to say from someone who knows all to well how it goes. That having 3.5 yrs clean is a huge achievement.
Grats 4 getting clean. You should be proud.
“Re-homed?l They’re children not fu$king animals. 🤦🏼♀️🙄
@@cherielindemann9655 you dont understand sometimes a parent is not fit to be a parent and its better their kids go to somewhere where they can be loved taken care of and raised how a child should be raised yes they need to be rehomed
I hope the parents are able to pick themselves back up and prioritize their kids over drugs. The system is such a terrible thing to experience.
As a parent and Firefighter (15+ years) this boils my blood! I've reported so many dirtbags knowing the state never does shit about it. Good on these officers!
@Get on the cross and don’t look back you on something my friend?
@Get on the cross and don’t look back you good?
Coming from a kid in a similar situation, the state of California didn’t do shit, even my school reported it and still nothing cps is a joke.
how would u feel if u had a child removed from a dirty home that had parents that loved it, and then put into a home with biological strangers that 50/50 chance will molest it. how would u feel knowing u got a kid removed from a stinking house to a house of molestors? or would u say its not ur fault u didnt chose the house sorta logic even though u got the ball rolling
@@soulsreaper7145 In my own personal opinion, parents don't love their children if they don't take care of them.
My best friend is adopted and experienced the foster system, he was there because of parents like these. Unfortunately it took the death of his little sister (due to malnutrition and other less pleasant things) before he and his two older siblings were removed from a situation very much like that.
By your standards then, they weren't "abused" sure, but understand... neglect IS abuse. And its not ok to tolerate or defend that because of "potential threats" elsewhere.
Your views on this make very little sense, because those children are actively in a bad situation. What if they were moved to a kind and loving family?
And assuming biological family doesn't molest children is really naive. In fact, in many if not most cases, children are molested by biological family members or close family friends.
So while I can somewhat understand where your coming from, and I do see it comes from a place of care and concern for the children, I think you're worried about the wrong things.
While it would be fantastic if the parents decided to turn their lives around for their children and stopped using drugs, and taking advantage of the money they receive from the government for having children; it seems unlikely in this situation.
I believe its an unfortunate necessary "evil", in cases like this. Those children are not cared for or safe, and its really something that should be addressed. And I absolutely can say 100% that our adoption and foster care systems are nowhere near as good as they should be. But its there. And thats important.
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"they scream a lot"
"yeah that's called a kid"
GG.
Yeah, dude I dont get it. When these people have kids and keep the kid knowing they wont provide for it.
@@nathanlong624 $.
Exactly. So stop calling the cops for a screaming kid.
@@im4g0d_1 When it's night after night like in the video? Fuck that I'll call and make sure those kids are safe
Please tell me she's on drugs I know that doesn't make the situation excusable but her flippancy with the issues that her children are going through is truly generationally concerning. Who taught her that living this way is okay.
Stop telling people they should have kids so they won't miss out on life...
This is the sort of person you might be saying that to.
no that is fine just realise not everyone DESERVES to be allowed to become a parent
U miss out in life when u don't have children ?? 😆 That's a first. I've never heard that malarkey before 🤪
Every time someone says some version of this shit to me it makes me just look at them like... do you want to see neglected and abused children, is that why you go around telling people to have kids when they’ve already decided not to?? Because some of us ARE NOT MEANT TO BE PARENTS. For good reason.
Pretty sure it doesn't work like that. you must be very young or extremely naive
As you people really think people plan to have a child... Like unwanted pregnancy does happen. Then you got this thing called a conscious. Which some women just cannot go and kill there unborn child. For all sorts of reasons which is each to there own. smh at the small brain. Life is so much more complex and unpredictable for easy answers.
Finally a video of Police officers sternly observing the whole exterior of the home / affect of children’s behavior and easily knowing what child neglect looks like in 2 minutes. Took action without sympathy and certainly felt the children’s pain. Best arrest with integrity and authority and no physical altercation needed: they knew as clear as day what the reality was for the kids : Excellent work for a very disturbing situation on the job.
The screams and cries of a child are heartbreaking. I can only imagine the cries that go unheard. May the Angels comfort them.
That night, the police officers were those poor kids guardian angels!
Children scream and plead for their lives while they are being abused, tortured and murdered. Where are your angels little flower??? Only people can help them, if you hope a God or angels will help, thats the signal for YOU to stand up and make a difference.
They were screaming for juice. That doesn't say neglect. My kids at one point or another probably screamed for juice, and they weren't neglected. They just weren't allowed to have juice when ever they wanted. Lol
@@Essouza81 did you even watch the fucking video. Sounds like you’re condoning child neglect
@@Essouza81 Maybe they were screaming for juice bc they’re hungry and thirsty? Who knows how long they were locked in that room for. You can’t compare their awful situation to your situation with your kids. That’s really shitty.
I love that the cops weren’t especially nice to her. They called her out on her obvious b.s. Children don’t deserve this.
It takes 2 to make babies .....2
The Cops needed to put it to her.Maybe she"ll wake up and do better.
@@sashewagiguere8827 men have literally no say if a woman decides to keep a child or get rid of it... it takes one today....
I agree that this shouldn't be treated lightly but at the end of the day using shame rarely if ever changes bad behavior. We need positive, sustainable solutions. Because sadly the alternative is foster care which has a severe shortage in available homes and where children likely face abuse and neglect there too.
@@derpy4335 Men can be single parents as well- they deserve more credit.
"their uncle just left and he trashed the place"
"they drank a lot of juice tonight that's why their diapers are sagging"
"i was just in there trying to calm them down"
"they're really loud this is why my house is a mess"
excuses excuses
Yeah always it's everyone elses fault but hers. If she was "just" in there attending to them why were they screaming? Broke my heart. So glad the neighbor was persistent.
It's what our schools and politicians are teaching people.
I'm a victim not a bad person
I can't see how people can live in trash piles, let alone have children around it.
I can't believe she was sleeping through that... That was so loud!
My kids are loud I can't sleep when they are awake. She must be on something? Poor baby was thirsty for who knows how long.
@@redskittle9985 After watching it, I realized both parents are heroin addicts, they more than likely shot up and dozed off, thats why they didn't hear them cry. The kids were nothing more than a way to help themselves. 😥
I love that the deputy doesn’t put up with her whatsoever. The kids have been crying for their entire lives with nothing and she didn’t cry herself until she was caught neglecting. This deputy had those kids in mind more than the parents.
Yes, I love that he wasn't playing around with her. He slammed that squad car door on her crying act.
Yea, what is she crying about? All that's gonna happen is she will be locked in a room, just like her kids were. She said it was completely fine, so she should have nothing to worry about.
"yeah they are looooud and they scream alot"
"yeah its called a kid"
this officer is a boss
every kid deserves parents
but not all parents deserve kids
FR
Yea... but isn't he there because the kids were yelling and screaming?? Like if his mind set is "it's called being a kid" then why is he there in the first place? I get once he got there he seen a bigger issue buuut still does change the fact.
He’s power tripping is all, no boss to be found here at all.
You guys need a reality check
No it is called neglect. People really need to understand that kids are NOT burdens nor stupid.
They scream because you FAIULED to fulfill their needs.
If you can’t handle being a parent don’t take it out on the children. This was actual justice being served all around. Great job officers.
That’s why I encourage abortions. If you can’t handle raising a child or if you don’t want a child then don’t birth one. Pregnancy is too dangerous to the body for women like her to not properly care for her children
Fr also ik this is a change of topic but this is one of the reasons why abortion should be legal everywhere because honestly some people shouldn't have kids and they probably know they shouldn't but still do and fortunately in this case many neighbors called the police to check on the kids but most of the time this isn't the case because many just don't care and those children grow up to have mental and physical issues in life
@@snatuiolvi abortion isn’t necessarily the answer. The only reason I say this is because , abortion would be a choice , not something to “force”. Most often, people who shouldn’t be parents, are actually choosing to just keep their child, or they are choosing to plan for a baby in the first place. Trust me, I’ve seen certain people who are not prepared for it choose to have a baby. Some of them actually wanted to believe that they can have a family but are un aware they wouldn’t be ready for such a thing. So although yes abortion would make it easier for the people who CHOOSE to not want a child. It still won’t do anything about those situations where the mother doesn’t go with it. For all we know. This mom probably chose to have those kids, and to make it clear there is nothing saying you will be forced to keep you kid either. If you truly didn’t want a kid or knew you weren’t ready , adoption would always be an option. So I’m my eyes, there is no excuse for child negligence whatsoever.
@@nikkiladouceur1910 same with me even though adoption is a shitty place but in some cases those people should never be allowed to have children and if they ever got to their senses I hope they wouldn't bring a child to life
@@snatuiolvi agreed
My son and daughter in law are desperately trying to have a child. They would be wonderful parents. Then I see disgusting things like this
Hopefully the All get the help they need and those babies won't remember being neglected
And something like this is getting child after child after child
God I know
Right there with you.
I pray God blesses them with an angel of their own. People like this couple does not deserve to be called parents.
The Fact That the Mother is Crying while Defending herself going to jail and not caring for her Kids is just a Absolutely Disgusting excuse for a Parent… 😡
Thank God Those poor Kids are Okay and we’re Rescued by the Police !!! 🥺
She has no family and treats the only family she has like this?! I literally can not believe there’s people like this in the world, how disgusting.
This is what addicts do, ostracize themselves, treat people who care about them so bad they stop trying. Then they blame everyone else… viscous cycle
Given she couldn't even get their ages right, I don't think she sees them as family
I actually envy your innocence. Ive seen way worst. Like mothers pimping their 13yr old daughter for 20bucks worth of meth.. it really scars you when you deal with it personally.
I’m sure she has family, they just don’t want anything to do with her
My dog's my only family and as a result the only neglect he suffers is too much of my leftovers. If her kids are her only family, not only should they be extra important to her but she also doesn't have the distraction of drama coming from relatives. That means more time and energy for her kids, not less.
I stan to officer that just wasnt taking their bullshit and was deadass telling them off no sympathy. 👏👏👏
Thank you all
Neighbors and police
He was having NONE of it
Huh?
@@terryristt9674 LOL, something about Stan and Deadass. 🤷♂️
@@StreetsOfRage2 thanks haha dude cool name! Big trouble in little china? Just call me jack Burton on the pork chop express!
She is not upset that she failed as a parent she is upset she got in trouble.
To that community and those officers great work people keep it up. It takes a team to do a job!
So the Mom has 3 very young children all under 3. One child only 7 days old. Do any of you get this situation? For probably the last 3 months this woman was pregnant and caring for two other babies as well. BABIES WHO ARE OF AN AGE TO BOTH BE EITHER TEETHING AND CONSTANTLY CRYING, SOILING A DIAPER EVERY TIME YOU TURN AROUND AND IN THE PROCESS OF POTTY TRAINING AND WEANING FROM A BOTTLE "PLUS" HIGHLY MOBILE!!! GOOD GOD! I HAD ONE KID AND HAD A HARD TIME KEEPING MY HOME PICKED UP AND I AM A VERY METICULOUS HOUSEKEEPER!
Shame Shame Shame on you illiterate and rude people who called in the dogs in on this poor family! You should have been over there offering to care for her older babies while she recovered from her pregnancy and most likely a tubal ligation! Civilized people would have offered assistance WAY before this night! Civilized people know when a woman is in her 3rd trimester her energy is inadequate to care for a home and other children as she would usually do. That is when civilized people offer to step in and actually help their neighbors!!! She had a 7 day old baby and she says towards the end of the video that she has no family to help her with the kids... So not only was she in the recovery process, she also had a newborn, a very mobile 1 year old and a rambunctious 3 year old to feed, cloth, clean, teach, love and nurture, and it sounds like she also had a husband to feed and clean up after who was probably working most of the time to pay for the needs of the family. It makes me sick that an employee of some agency can recommend a parent be denied their inchoate right to raise their own child, and the government enforces the insane removal of the children. Who is that agency to do so without a guilty verdict of your peers? Who are they to circumvent the God given rights that are guaranteed by the Constitution on such evidence as the cleanliness of your home? It is sickening and sad! FKN Cop callers! I hate cop callers! Help someone when they are down! It's the civilized thing to do!
@@TinaShay here’s a pro life tip. Instead of having so many children to the point you cannot physically or financially take care of them don’t have them. Idk what inconsiderate rock you crawled out from under but take your selfish and clearly uneducated self out of this conversation. You clearly have no idea how to care for a child as if you did you wouldn’t be defending this women’s shameful actions. Your cooperation is truthfully and very helpful to the rest of our functioning brains.
Sides not our responsibility to care for someone else’s children.
@@tevlargaming5440 Well said 👏
@@tevlargaming5440 exactly, if you can’t handle having more than one child at a time then don’t have more than one child at a time
@@TinaShay No one owes her anything, they were just looking out for the kids
Absolutely broke my heart when the child was calling out for their parents. These people need to be thrown in prison with the key thrown away.
I was in this same situation until I was 8. My mom never made a meal. Never cleaned. I went to school with unclean and knotted hair. Even very young, you can feel the overwhelming sadness of the situation. I went to live with my aunt at 8 and she taught me how to take a bath for the first time. She changed my life. Alway grateful for her.
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God bless her for stepping up and changing the trajectory of your life.
You are AMAZING for surviving such trauma. Many blessings to you and your aunt. Where you ever able to forgive the woman who birthed you (a mother she wasn't)??
AWE how blessed you were...she was your angel on earth. YOU are a survivor. Wonderful!!!!! it made me smile today.
This “mother” is a piece of work…the only tears she shed came after she found out she was going to jail.
This just proves that statement that every child deserves parents, but not all parents deserve a child 😢
The mom seems like she's drunk or high...very slow responses.
She's going to get her ass kicked in jail big time. Prisoners don't take too kindly to those who are serving time for child abuse at all.
Take her babies away.
Change "work" to "shit". She doesn't deserve to be called a woman, let alone a mother
Stop judging, you don't know the whole story... being mean is not the answer!
I grew up poor as hell, but NEVER would my mom allow anything like this. She worked and went to school while rasing my brother and I on her own and our place was always spotless.
Well your mother obviously didn't suffer from severe depression. Good for you maybe she had OCD instead
@@robinberry4957 you’re trying so hard to defend this woman. is this what your house looks like too?
@@robinberry4957 She’s not depressed she’s a drug addict who literally has no regard for her own children gtfo lmao
I did grow up in an environment like this. It took me well into my adulthood to realize that the best thing that ever happened to me was the state to take me away, and send me to an all boys agricultural school.
I had some what of the same childhood but my parents always did what they could. (my dad worked and my mom worked and went to school). I’m glad i grew up with a family that’s hard working because, although we may not have everything we want/need, we’re definitely in a better place. And i’m glad your mother was doing the best she could as well
Once again, I say how lucky any of us are that we weren’t born to parents like this. Be great full for what you have:
“We don’t tolerate this” Glad he stepped in and said that.
The sound of children crying out in pain esp when you know that they’re being abused is so haunting
Agreed. I have a child, and those first screams, as they are walking up, are NOT happy screams/cries. And I don't think you even need the be a parent to hear the pain/emotion in those cries.
Not every woman has the right to sit on that mommy's throne!😔
Well said. Damn! 💯👍
Ohh no they dont, that's earned
It's hard to be a mother but she's making dumb excuses
Aye yo shut the fuck up..... You ain't shit and I know you don't know a damn thing about anything that going on here, you sound like a real idiot
If you would like to describe your point in a civil way and have a civil conversation I would be glad but you sound ridiculous right now cmon man.@Aaron Williams
I’m the same age as the parents and I couldn’t imagine treating kids like this. So selfish and cruel💔
Yeah, you have so much more IQ points than them. Their iQ is 0
Is she seriously trying to be a victim “we have no money!” It costs zero dollars to clean shit off the wall
I sure as hell am not defending the disgusting girl in the video but it actually cost around $3 to clean shit off the wall. $1 for cleaner, $1 for the rag, and $1 for the bleach. Gotta be sanitary. Just sayin. Everything costs something. I do agree she is definitely tryin to play the "Victim" though her kids are the real victims. So sad.
not to mention they must be buying drugs/alcohol
@Margaret Bush what kind of camping do you do
@@hans4379 😂😂😂😂
I really hate that excuse like dollar tree has good cleaning products really lady
Can we all just show respect to the multiple neighbors who were cognitive enough to see something was wrong and take the correct action of reporting this.
Took them long enough
@@tessabiggs2917honestly just be grateful they called at all. there are way more kids out there who go through the same if not worse but are not even helped at all. whether people dont care, assume its fine, or genuinely dont notice, its all too common for kids to grow up in these awful conditions unnoticed.
@@tessabiggs2917 they were probably calling consistently & the police FINALLY came to check after multiple reports. Typically how stuff like this goes down.
They saved those children
I would just like to say that noticing this would not take someone observant. Any rational person hearing the kids scream like that would know that’s not a play cry. I’m glad the neighbors called but I’m not glad it took a couple of incidents like this for the police to actually take the kids. It’s not necessarily their fault, they need a good amount evidence. And maybe they were trying to give her a chance like “wake up and fix this” and she didn’t.
She doesn’t want to go to the hospital because they treat her like “shit?”..... yet those poor children are being treated like shit. I’ll never understand
This comment is so underrated 🗣
it’s because it’s more convenient for her :/ it’s really sad
You have to wonder what all those hospital visits were for.
She doesn't want to go to the hospital because they'll do a urine drug test on her as standard policy and it will show she's using drugs.
Ok well I have to make a point ....they treat my husband and me like shit just due to our names. We took our son to the hospital 1 time but bc the nurse didmt like the way my husband spoke to her bc she was asking stupid questions trying to get our story to switch up and my husband simply defended himself bc he knew our son had a 24 hour bug and was throwing up. He wasn't under weight and the doctor he said our son was one of the cleanest children he's ever seen.
He also apologized to us for how we was treated and the nurse was put on leave bc they had several complaints against her bc she was having what she called a bad month. She could have fuckes our lifes up for no reason.
And bc my husband has a voluntary manslaughter charge which he did 15 years for and he had gotten out in Nov of 2017 ...he had a hard time talking to be bc he says that out here everyone is fake and when they try and play games like ask a million questions about our son instead of just coming out and saying she thought that we made our son sick some how it pissed him the fuck off and he was insulted bc we love our son and there's no way on earth we would ever hurt him.
Then about 4 days later both my husband and I had gotten sick....well it turned out that our son had something that was called fifth disease.
But see bc or that 1 nurse assuming shit and treating us like shit all the other nurse believed what she had said and didn't talk to us.
We had the police called on us and the doctor didn't even tell us sorry untill sometime later when he was put on the spot bc other parents who had actually lost their child and other things in their lifes like their jobs bc bosses told a few of the parents who was accused of hurting their child that he couldn't have them working their.
It was a lie. It was a lie against my husband and I. And listen that hospital treated us like complete shit.
Also they had ran a background on my husband and I and found that we had several felonies....
But see what they didn't know bc they didn't ask was that I have been sober now for over 3 years...I have not failed a damm drug screen in over 3 years my husband passed one on the spot bc he's just not into drugs. He's the one who saved me.
Also the nurse who did our drug screens had actually talked loudly about giving us one...she said out in the open in the waiting room that we just better hope we pass our drug screens. Which we knew we would.
Bc we didn't do drugs and we were actually good parents. Probably not the best bc there's always something new for me to learn as a mother. But we were very good parents.
We got into trouble simply doing what parents are suppose to do when their child gets sick...and that's take him to the doctor.
See when they asked how did he get sick we told them that we didn't know bc when he went to bed he was his normal self but then he woke up throwing up amd not knowing that children hold their breath when the throw up it scared the shit out of us. We thought he was having a hard time breathing.
But doing what we was supposed to do. Like take him to the doctor and was truthful and honest got us in a ton of shit for no reason.
So I'm sorry but I do understand why some parents get scared to take their children to the hospital..bc it don't matter who you are or how you dress or how polite and forthcoming you are bc they don't give a shit. They will call dss amd report the smallest like bruise or bumb and it's bullshit.
I understand completely that they have to be cautious bc parents wo do beat their children lie ....and they see it everyday.
But they should use some common sense at some point.
This lady and her team was the reasoning for 22 parents losing their children over stupid shit like a 1 year who got onto a skate while mom was making a bottle for him. And he got on and when he did it flipped him off and he hit his heat on the floor and she had to fight 8 months for her son.
So see they call dss on any thing and everything and if you get excited trying to tell the dss lady what is going on she will jump up amd say....well you acting erratically so we believe you must be high when that's not the case.
Lucky for us we did just take it and we are a scene bc we knew for a 100 percent fact we did t hurt our son.
So yeah I for real understand why. How can you take your child somewhere you can tell the truth at. You can't trust the hospital.
Thats like walking into a police department and reporting a rape and then the police telling you that your lying and so they going to lock you up bc it must have been you.
So yall..try to understand shit before you judge it.
Now no , I am not saying this chick wasn't in the wrong bc clearly she was.
I was just saying for future reference
I love that one cop who said “we don’t tolerate this”! Good for him!
I'm low income raising two kids. I was lucky to get us into subsidized housing. I always make sure our house is tidy, my kids will always have clean clothes, roof over their heads, food in their bellies, warm clean beds, etc. Most importantly they'll ALWAYS be loved. Being low income is NO excuse for not having your priorities taken care of especially when it comes to kids. My kids are my TOP priority. Some people should not be allowed to have kids.
Good job Rose. Keep it up
My mother was the same exact way and raised my sister and I very well. A lot of people don't understand that not all low income are scum.
Good job. I’m glad you’re doing well with your circumstances. Seems like she doesn’t know how money works because there was so many toys in that room :/
Preach.
Also. Ik this is dumb but I’ve been thinking about this.
You only need one kidney to survive. So if you sold a kidney to science, you could get quite a bit of money from selling it.
The drugs take everything away, motherly instincts, shame, drive, everything.
I feel like psychology and basic intelligent tests need to be mandatory for having a kid.
Edit: After about 100+ replies I've learned that this can be referred to as Eugenics. Thanks for the lesson internet strangers.
I met a young couple with a baby, they said they weren’t going to teach child to talk but to make different noises based on its needs. 🤦♀️
This is great for parents of teenagers
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@@shockawha9 wtf 😂💀
and if they fail the test they should all be sterilized!
It begs the question. Is it better to just get abortions in this case or do they deserve the right to life.
This often one of the arguments for abortion is that you'd be "protecting" them from a life like this.
“ they’re just playing “
* children crying *
“ they’re not playing ma’am “
“ they’re just very loud “
“ that’s called kids “
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If they were just being kids, why were the cops there.
Lol these comments are flucking gold
Playing at 3am? She is disgusting
This is great for parents of teenagers
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My mom was disabled and poor and a single mom, and I am so THANKFUL to her that she did the best she could! Seeing videos like this reminds me that so many little babies are not so lucky. I hope they are with their grandparents now or something.
I grew up with a single mom who was a class 5 hoarder. Neglected and all. Cops were out several times and nothing was ever done for me. I cant stand people who neglect their kids. Kudos to the cops here.
Glad you turned out ok.
I'm so sorry ❤️
@@redjupiter2236 Thanks. But honestly Im not 100% ok. My kids grew up not being able to be in their grandmas life because of it. I have severe anxiety and ptsd from it. Low self worth too. Was an alcoholic by 15. But she passed this last summer and I thought the feeling would go away. They didnt. No closure, but I had to forgive her to move on.
@@Stonecon Your children will have a great childhood bc of it. You won’t put them through the same torment you went through.
@@redjupiter2236 yeah I know. My wifes family is real tight knit so they have grandparets they see and 1 great grandparent. The key was being honest with them as soon as they can understand it. And not hiding the fact its not "her" its the mental illness that keeps them away. Anyway, thanks for the comments and the compassion/understanding they provided. 👍
I am a single mom and I have no family to help me in my state. My house is clean my kids are well taken care of and never once would I lock my child in a room that looked like that. Thank God the cops came and saved those babies from that house
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You are an awesome mom happy Mother's Day 🌺
Happy mother's day.
Good job, lady. Take care of yourself, too.
@IM REALLY SORRY Exactly! Being poor doesn't stop you from keeping your house clean & safe, it doesn't cost a dime, just time.
Listening to the police talk to the “mother” was like listening to a parent explain actions & consequences to a toddler. Prayers up for the health and safety of these innocent children.
God, I could never be a law enforcement officer, I'd probably beat the sh**t outta the first indignant fk I saw, like this!!
@@rn4l62 Same
Florida has a great DCF.
You’d actually fit right in
Yeah I agree with that part. When she said her kids were vocal that is just complete b*******
It hurts hearing them cry :(
My daughter is 16 months and yes kids do yell. Especially at that age, they are finding their voice but those kids were yelling in distress and in need.
Yes! Parents can tell the difference between kids just being loud and a pain scream or scared scream.
I agree. Do you think she is struggling from post partum?
Especially showing them the cup through the window basically saying I'm thirsty as hell. She don't deserve those kids. Me and my wife were opiate addicts over ten years(pills not heroin) and still kept our house spotless and kept the kids clean and fed and spent plenty of real time with them unlike alot of these other parents do these days so if we were addicts and did all that there ain't no excuse for this. It's called being lazy, careless and selfish.
@@blancowhite6306 no excuse. Seek help or accept the consequences of your actions. Its not the kids fault you can’t get yourself help
When children scream, there is a reason. Neglect, hurt, hungry or abused. Neighbors did a great service to those children. God Bless them.
My daughter screams for fun. She’s 15 months old. But you can tell the difference between a happy scream and a not happy scream.
I got an autistic kid my 3 kids scream constantly for the hell of it if my neighbors called everytime my kids were screaming and being loud cops and srs would have a tent outside 😂 people's version of neglect is oooohhh the kid don't have juice for real who bought them juice cups second they have diapers which are full so therefore they must be getting some sort of liquid they know what juice is parenting classes tell you lock them in their rooms at night so you can sleep without them running out the door parents need sleep thank you very much
@@EL-vr9ip are you ok
Why did they wait 2 years though?
@@EL-vr9ip I get where you're coming from to a certain extent, some people are just busy body's who report things that don't need reporting, but, these officers have been called multiple times and they have witnessed cockroaches crawling all over the walls, rubbish everywhere, dangerous and unhyginic conditions. The parents shouldn't BOTH be sleeping if both their very young children are awake and unsupervised. Yes wet diapers indicate liquids are being consumed, however, diapers need to be changed asap, there's bacteria that can be harmful and they develop rashes which if not treated, can become infected! Toddlers scream, yes, of course they do, I have children, one of them is still just a toddler and she can have some major tantrums, but I wouldn't ignore her, like these parents were. There's no excuse for parents like these 🤷♀️