If a woman tells me she has a man...I just reply with " wow,we barely know each other and you are already telling me about the terrible decisions you've made in life" ... Some women laugh....others get pissed ....oh well...
I went in for a kiss on the 2nd date (we kissed at the end of the first) and she gave me the cheek. My response was on the order of "oh you're just being ridiculous." and she admitted she was playing with me. We later fooled around in my car that same night.
Most women have what is called a Psychological Burden of Debt when a person brings them gifts. Most women would prefer not to have a gift because then they won't feel obligated to repay that debt back( usually meaning sex or a kiss) corey is right about not bringing gifts on a date . that means flowers too.
10 calls and 50 minutes of voicemail? DAMMNNN that some creepy obsessive stalker shit man, I sweat over a text that might have been a bit too long. Kinda sad that this military guy acts like this, I really hope this dude learns from his mistakes cause he made almost every one in the book. This guy has obviously not read your book 10-15 times let alone once lol.
I’m hoping that by now he’s read it 30 times since it’s been 6 years since this was posted. Everyone makes mistakes but calling that many times would turn anyone away.
6:40 *Expensive dates* = women don’t want your stuff, they want YOU. Stop trying to impress women with going out and being concerned about how much you’re spending on her or a steak dinner. The key is to focus on taking her someplace that’s quite, that you can have fun, joke around, be playful, enjoy each other’s company and get to know each other. That’s the whole focus. 7:25 If you go out on the 1st date and make a big time date, you’re setting yourself up for failure in the future - because every date after that is a letdown. 7:50 Less really is more with women. Especially in the beginning. Big dates are the type of thing you enjoy your girlfriend or your wife if she’s earned it. *She’s there because she wants to have fun with YOU. She doesn’t give a shit about the play or the dinner, or any of that stuff - she wants to be with you, that’s why she’s there.* 11:20 Focus on HHH. The more a guy talks about his future with a girl, the more he’s going to lower his chances of actually being in his future.
I find it difficult to believe that a military guy would be such an emotional beta....I guess the skills that make someone an effective warrior don't translate well into social skills...
I don't buy the "they just want to enjoy your company" BS because if that was true you could spend a nice quiet evening at home with them and they'd be happy to have your company there. But we all know if you do that they will leave you in no time. At the same time I wouldn't buy them stuff either because they'd have to earn it and even when they did it would be on a very infrequent basis and only if I think the girl is really worth it.
Sorry, I will sound arrogant. But our military has conveyed that being a gentlemen means to be a doormat and to put woman on a pedestal. This military guy spends all of his free time on the base writing "different version" of love letters to a woman who he just wanted to be "friend" with. Not only that, but to spend so much money on a first "grand date". Does he do that for his guy friends? No obviously. Does he know he is being a cuckold while another alpha guy probably just take her to an inexpensive dinner then then had his way with her. No. Does U.S. military excels because of the technology but not because military men are men? In this case Yes. At the end of the day, this woman sympathize with this man because the military has castrated his pairs. She will not want to nurture/baby him because that is his mother's job.
How does one craft a situation that can lead to physical escalation? I’m young and haven’t been on too many dates over the last year and a half but I’ve got something I don’t want to blow now. I need to figure out how to make a situation where it’s easy to kiss her
@@Abrieb On my 7th read now. Quarantine restrictions were harsh af where I live so I wasn't able to practice much since March last year, gone on only 3 dates since then as restrictions allowed. It's not like I've never kissed before, I'm just out of practice with setting up a smooth vibe where it's not forced
What if you asked her out already she turned you down. You played friend for a year but decide your done with it all. Tell her why your walking away or just do it. She has a bf now. He’s a crazy person
Read the book, but also tell her that you’re not interested in a plutonic relationship and that she should contact you if she changes her mind, and then walk and never look back. If she does contact you again at any point, assume she wants to see you and a make a definite date. Read the book, investing in yourself is the best investment you can make
If a woman s they have a boyfriend or are married say,"I'm sorry, I didn't know that prevented you from making friends". Then say,"So what is it like being in the perfect relationship?".
If a woman tells me she has a man...I just reply with " wow,we barely know each other and you are already telling me about the terrible decisions you've made in life" ... Some women laugh....others get pissed ....oh well...
I was in the military for 16 years....pretty much had a girlfriend in every port.
I'm not sure the one in the Philippines was a girlfriend per se. Are you sure?
@@YourRealityCheck651 ahahah
I went in for a kiss on the 2nd date (we kissed at the end of the first) and she gave me the cheek. My response was on the order of "oh you're just being ridiculous." and she admitted she was playing with me. We later fooled around in my car that same night.
Most women have what is called a Psychological Burden of Debt when a person brings them gifts. Most women would prefer not to have a gift because then they won't feel obligated to repay that debt back( usually meaning sex or a kiss) corey is right about not bringing gifts on a date . that means flowers too.
This is so true!
Well, spoken, Sir.
So don’t give them gifts?
10 calls and 50 minutes of voicemail? DAMMNNN that some creepy obsessive stalker shit man, I sweat over a text that might have been a bit too long. Kinda sad that this military guy acts like this, I really hope this dude learns from his mistakes cause he made almost every one in the book. This guy has obviously not read your book 10-15 times let alone once lol.
I’m hoping that by now he’s read it 30 times since it’s been 6 years since this was posted. Everyone makes mistakes but calling that many times would turn anyone away.
I look at military men as guys who are mentally tough and rarely get of their center. But.......never mind. Smh
Whoa a limo is too much, it def makes us uncomfortable. Too much pressure, we want to enjoy your company!
Jen Spisak im going to just enjoy woman for there awesome company
Still feeling that way ? Serious question
6:40 *Expensive dates* = women don’t want your stuff, they want YOU. Stop trying to impress women with going out and being concerned about how much you’re spending on her or a steak dinner. The key is to focus on taking her someplace that’s quite, that you can have fun, joke around, be playful, enjoy each other’s company and get to know each other. That’s the whole focus.
7:25 If you go out on the 1st date and make a big time date, you’re setting yourself up for failure in the future - because every date after that is a letdown.
7:50 Less really is more with women. Especially in the beginning. Big dates are the type of thing you enjoy your girlfriend or your wife if she’s earned it. *She’s there because she wants to have fun with YOU. She doesn’t give a shit about the play or the dinner, or any of that stuff - she wants to be with you, that’s why she’s there.*
11:20 Focus on HHH. The more a guy talks about his future with a girl, the more he’s going to lower his chances of actually being in his future.
lol I love when you yell "So ya learned something!" XD The point of the whole thing
Dude read the book again 10-15 times!!!
I find it difficult to believe that a military guy would be such an emotional beta....I guess the skills that make someone an effective warrior don't translate well into social skills...
You'd be surprised...
Just like being a successful business man doesn’t make you good with women 👍🏾
A video that needs to be gone over more than one time 😮😳.
I've been into this "Illusion of Action" and I'm glad that I'm out of it. Thanks to Coach Corey's book.
You mean “illusion of action.”
Illustration of action loll
That's right. My bad.
After watching some Corey’s videos I realize I’m doing pretty damn good 🤦♂️
That’s hard to listen to lol
I don't buy the "they just want to enjoy your company" BS because if that was true you could spend a nice quiet evening at home with them and they'd be happy to have your company there. But we all know if you do that they will leave you in no time. At the same time I wouldn't buy them stuff either because they'd have to earn it and even when they did it would be on a very infrequent basis and only if I think the girl is really worth it.
You must combine them dude, 5-6 nights on the couch and 1-2 out
Thanks. I needed to hear this particular video
Geezzz and I thought I had problems lol. The letter was cringing to hear.
Right lmao, was thinking to myself "holyyy shit this guy has a ton of work to do"
Sorry, I will sound arrogant. But our military has conveyed that being a gentlemen means to be a doormat and to put woman on a pedestal. This military guy spends all of his free time on the base writing "different version" of love letters to a woman who he just wanted to be "friend" with. Not only that, but to spend so much money on a first "grand date". Does he do that for his guy friends? No obviously. Does he know he is being a cuckold while another alpha guy probably just take her to an inexpensive dinner then then had his way with her. No. Does U.S. military excels because of the technology but not because military men are men? In this case Yes. At the end of the day, this woman sympathize with this man because the military has castrated his pairs. She will not want to nurture/baby him because that is his mother's job.
11:17 The idea is to create a romantic, fun-filled situation for sex to happen. *That’s what we call a date.* Brilliant
How does one craft a situation that can lead to physical escalation? I’m young and haven’t been on too many dates over the last year and a half but I’ve got something I don’t want to blow now. I need to figure out how to make a situation where it’s easy to kiss her
@@BanesBasement Read the book dude
@@Abrieb On my 7th read now. Quarantine restrictions were harsh af where I live so I wasn't able to practice much since March last year, gone on only 3 dates since then as restrictions allowed. It's not like I've never kissed before, I'm just out of practice with setting up a smooth vibe where it's not forced
What if you asked her out already she turned you down. You played friend for a year but decide your done with it all. Tell her why your walking away or just do it. She has a bf now. He’s a crazy person
The big Crush read the book bro
Read the book, but also tell her that you’re not interested in a plutonic relationship and that she should contact you if she changes her mind, and then walk and never look back. If she does contact you again at any point, assume she wants to see you and a make a definite date. Read the book, investing in yourself is the best investment you can make
Cringetown
So Lame!
If a woman s they have a boyfriend or are married say,"I'm sorry, I didn't know that prevented you from making friends". Then say,"So what is it like being in the perfect relationship?".
Are you trying to be her friend or are you trying to be her lover?
Because it seems like you're saying to intentionally friendzone yourself.
That’s the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard.
You’re the one.
sooooooooo fucking on point dude fuuuck