Bevisode with Mayim’s Mom! Reevaluate & Make Amends

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  • @patti2454
    @patti2454 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bev is amazing. It’s very refreshing to see a parent dig deep and get the help they need to move forward in a positive direction in their life.

  • @astridx7485
    @astridx7485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Everytime Bev talks and acknowledges mental illnesses I almost feel like crying. I have BPD and OCD but my mother doesn't believe in them, I can't talk about it without her getting mad and verbally abusive. She's in her 60s so because of the way she was brought up it's very hard for her, she doesn't even believe in therapy and thinks I'm just wasting money. Thank you Bev for showing that everyone can learn and be respectful about mental illnesses. Much love from Italy.

    • @sicilyny5375
      @sicilyny5375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Sicilian 98%. And my fam had a hard time with me becoming a psych nurse...my uncle was a psychologist and they couldn't understand us. They were born in NY but had old country beliefs and attitudes. When I was diagnosed with Bipolar it took my mother yrs to accept it and never noticed my suffering from age 12...sad

    • @astridx7485
      @astridx7485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sicilyny5375 I'm very sorry for what you went through, I'm 100% Italian, born and raised here so you can imagine how hard it is here, almost everyone is like my mom. Especially the older generation.

  • @kloebl10
    @kloebl10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I was just thinking, we need more Bevisodes and immediately after I watch an episode with a guest, I am so curious on Bev's reaction and response and recap. Thank u for doing these.

    • @carolperry7695
      @carolperry7695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      agreed. love Bevs take on the show.

    • @mollysmith1226
      @mollysmith1226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Love them 💜

    • @maggieh9352
      @maggieh9352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I completely agree . . . Bev is so articulate, empathetic, funny at times and really insightful . . . I love her her take!!!

  • @teresamowat7414
    @teresamowat7414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I love to see Bev, an older woman, giving opinions/ sharing wisdom Mainstream, we don't see enough women being themselves.
    Love your work Mayim.

  • @m_brokenleg
    @m_brokenleg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Everytime I watch a Bevisode I see a magnificent, coherent, intelligent and articulate woman who seems an older sister to me. How I enjoy mom/daughter interact and how I wish I could have had that kind of relationship! 💜

  • @Deb5S5111
    @Deb5S5111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I LOVE the Bev episodes. One day, these will be a treasure for you Mayim and your children. I miss my Mom. 💚 💙 💜

    • @bobbiek1976
      @bobbiek1976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree…. I feel like

  • @debhalbot5978
    @debhalbot5978 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just love your mama and her wisdom. Her genuine interest in and love of people is such a joy! She is a gift! ❤

  • @marisamartinezolivera
    @marisamartinezolivera 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    A Bevisode to enlighten one of the saddest Thursdays of my life when one of my best friends has received a bad diagnose of Small Cells lung Cancer. I can only say a big THANK TOU to you to you three, Bev, Mayim & Jonathan. Watched in between tears…

  • @tamrahostens1009
    @tamrahostens1009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I simply love how much I learn about all three of you during the Bevisodes! ♥️ totally off topic My husband Allan (nickname The Curmudgeon) who passed in March 2020) was so critical of movie’s & judgmental about everything and everyone! My personality is more ultra romantic and optimistic about the world… so we were perfect for one another as the other half that we were missing!
    About a year & a half before he died ( he had not gotten ill yet) I said to him one day “oh my goodness Allan! You do not have to judge everyone and everything!” With a smirk & dripping with sarcasm he says “Oh but Tamra… I DO!” He remains in my head daily! Talking me through things and busting my chops!♥️ I am thankful even when I am sad.

  • @sunshine885
    @sunshine885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    28:16 " There is three sides to every story. There is what you think happened. What the other person thinks happened. And then what actually happened. " Totally, love this!

  • @irelandoreilly1575
    @irelandoreilly1575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Luv luv these bevisodes!! Her comments are so intriguing and insightful!!! that they often have me going back to either re-listen to a podcast or she inspires me to listen to a podcast that I might not have been compelled to put the time into....so thank you Mayim (and... ) ...i can imagine the challenges (and blessings) that you both, but especially Mayim feels/go through for the bevisodes!!!! (I too have a strong-willed Irish Catholic New York mother of similar age... The similarities might or might not be surprising! Lol bless &keep us all! Virtual Hugs!

  • @katelynivens3007
    @katelynivens3007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hearing Bev's point of view is so soothing in a way. like we are all learning new terms together every day as they are introduced in conversations and it's okay to process them in our own way and take our time making our own opinion, before just checking out or diving into a topic in whole.

  • @To.Be.Thomas
    @To.Be.Thomas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the diction of Bev's sign off... "Break Through"

  • @LedaAmorin
    @LedaAmorin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We love Bev! she's one of a kind ❤ a big hug from Argentina!

  • @EL-bz9up
    @EL-bz9up 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She’s your best guest. So thoughtful & open about herself. So proud of you mayim

  • @Quesarahsarah97
    @Quesarahsarah97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This show is consistently my stimulation (like mayim’s dad’s stereo) to help me focus in with my ADHD!!

  • @embracewelleness
    @embracewelleness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm not crying, you're crying!
    Love the Bevisodes!!!!
    Love you all! Thank you!
    🙏💜🧘‍♀️😊💖 xoxo

  • @tiffanyw.8287
    @tiffanyw.8287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love this episode because it touches on a topic I was going to submit for one of your giveaway videos, Mayim. I chose not to submit the video because I felt like I struggled with the words to adequately express what I was trying to say. Anyway, in my video, I talked about my relationship with my mom and how it is similar to your relationship with Bev. I find it interesting that two people who have the same experience look at it through the scope of a different lens. The difference in my relationship my with my mom versus your relationship with Bev is that my mom and I are estranged. Sometimes, two people who have experienced the same things cannot respect each other's viewpoint and it's best that they part ways. I tend to reside in the realm of reality, while my mom tweaks experiences to justify her poor actions. No longer being in contact with my mother has made my life richer and has been vital to my mental recovery. Thank you for touching on the fact no two people are the same.

  • @moonbeanification
    @moonbeanification 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yaaaay Bev ! I was wondering when we'd see her again. I got my cuppa coffee ready and I can't wait to listen. Thank you and love to you all, Mayim, Jonathan and Bev ♥♥♥

  • @Historian212
    @Historian212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love a Bevisode! And Mayim seemed more comfortable with this one, which was nice to see. In re leg shaking: my dad, brother, and I all did it. I don’t as much as an adult as I did as a kid; however, I find that at age 66, diagnosed just 10 yrs ago with ADHD, cPTSD, and NVLD (read about it via articles featuring Chris Rock from when he got diagnosed) that certain objects, mostly hard ones with edges like faceted beads, really help me to hold or fidget with. As a young child I used to fall asleep making a crease in my bedsheet and rolling it between two fingers. And although I stopped doing that sort of thing as an older child - probably suppressed it - now I let myself indulge, when appropriate, because I better understand how it helps me. Glad that in current times there’s more understanding and acceptance.

  • @papondahoops
    @papondahoops 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good Morning Bev! I’m so glad to see you today! ❤️

  • @pmarty4190
    @pmarty4190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    you go Bev.....love all the episodes....thank you both...all three...for all this amazing content....I so enjoy...

  • @Authentistic-ism
    @Authentistic-ism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "People who are homeless, who do they talk to?" Oooooh girl don't get me started! I've been housed, but I spent 2 years on the streets into the beginning of the pandemic. Mental health was my ONLY priority, and it was demanded that I seek mental health treatment as a contingency of my stay at places like shelters and day centers. And yet it was absolutely inaccessible in so many ways. It was a complete joke.

  • @AustinAddie
    @AustinAddie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember visiting Bev and Barry in their very cool King Street apartment in the village before they moved to LA. Bev was absolutely beautiful and admirable. Barry a kind mensch. Thanks for the memory. A longtime life ago.

  • @astridx7485
    @astridx7485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm in class rn but I can't wait to be done to watch this! Ahah Bev is awesome

  • @maggieh9352
    @maggieh9352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a beautiful and powerful Bevisode . . . They are my favorites 😍 . . . I love Bialik Breakdown and have learned so much from every episode and I look forward tovthem every week. Blessings to you 3 . . . I love your dynamics and interactions, it's like we are right there with you hanging out!!!!

  • @suemick8709
    @suemick8709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beverly! Always great to hear her take on things.

  • @karinkuna
    @karinkuna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    thx Bev, for mentioning your experience growing up with "Holocaust in your dna"… (being from Austria it's carrying this heavy guilt from my ancients in my dna). big fan, all the best to you & "the whole family"

  • @clairedouglas1726
    @clairedouglas1726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yay another Bevisode absolutely brilliant Mayim you and your mum are so special together I love the chemistry between you thank you for another awesome episode , love you Mayim always 😘😘❤️xx

  • @ginaholland7978
    @ginaholland7978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love this and your relationship with your mom. Please keep up the amazing work! I have loved you since Blossom. You are one of the genuine ones; a truth teller and a love seeker. Keep being you.

  • @reneepolin6549
    @reneepolin6549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My mother was bi polar and an alcoholic . It was a nightmare cuz her thinking was so self centered and twisted, if you didn't agree with her she would attack visiouslly to get back at people then cut you off . I told her. I forgave her ,that enraged her because she really was clueless

  • @lapiru127
    @lapiru127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great one. Very emotional. Thank you for sharing

  • @rooks9312
    @rooks9312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Bevisodes are my favorite!

  • @GoldDstWmn
    @GoldDstWmn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to the Bevisode's makes me want to go back and relisten to all the prior episodes! Soooo in love with this podcast. I feel like I learn so much with each one! Please keep up the great work!

  • @kristaannis5570
    @kristaannis5570 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favourite podcast and my favourite episodes are with Bev. This one in particular shared so many personal stories regarding their family. Absolutely loved it! Let’s have Coffee Time With Bev!!!!

  • @SL313
    @SL313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I so needed this today! Thank you so much!

  • @reneepolin6549
    @reneepolin6549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've learned walking in forgiveness allows me to detach from the emotional baggage of childhood . As a matter of fact the telling of stories about it doesn't emote the same passion it used to . Many of those incidents don't live anymore . I'm able to relate the lessons I've learned without going back. Forgiving myself liberated me from guilt that wasn't even mine and the guilt that was

  • @SunShine-qk4rb
    @SunShine-qk4rb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love hearing your Mother’s thoughts on these episodes very much

  • @wannabetrucker7475
    @wannabetrucker7475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I ❤️ Bev, i could listen to her every day; wish she had a podcast. I am also a leg shaker 🙄, mostly at work - to me it's maintaining "idle" (like a car), so i can zoom to max effort at a moment's notice; as opposed to starting from total relaxation. I can see the component of anxiety etc. but it is a relatively harmless quirk ( or is it? 😂)

  • @Adriana-jd6ed
    @Adriana-jd6ed 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy all your episodes, but this one especially helped me view better the parent child dynamic when the parents make amends in any way. Keep on keeping it real girl.

  • @annamaxflair
    @annamaxflair 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Having Autism , my son in moments would say why don't you just hit me. My response was always , if I'm going to have your love & respect , it'll be out of love , not fear. I love you, this moment will pass. So enjoy all that yourselves & guest share.

  • @orland0110
    @orland0110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First Comment. It is always such a joy to be here watching these podcast. You do such a great job with these Mayim. There is so much to learn here!!!

  • @keilasoto1222
    @keilasoto1222 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I always tap my foot. People around me always point it out. I don't realize I'm doing it, and I usually fall asleep doing it. It's total comfort for me.

  • @KW-yv3dg
    @KW-yv3dg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I absolutely love the Bevisodes!!! But, I'm worried that Bev doesn't like Jonathan. This worry arose when she said that he's a lot being a single dad and having his kids on weekends. Please tell me that I'm imagining this. I love Jonathan. I love Mayim. I love Jonathan and Mayim together...and I want Bev to love Jonathan too...lol!

  • @sallythompsonsundby3430
    @sallythompsonsundby3430 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being a grandparent is so different from being a parent. It's our turn for just the fun and joy without parenting stress. My sin complains about the same thing. They tell him how much fun we had and he says " she's not that nice". He, of course, feels he was a delight growing up. Your mom is a delight to watch! We went without livinroom furniture for 5 years when we moved to our new house. So we all had issues at home. At leastvyou had the floor in the kitchen.

  • @taramcdonaldortiz4810
    @taramcdonaldortiz4810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love Bev
    Amazing woman
    So courageous and brave ❤❤❤

  • @anthonywapow3144
    @anthonywapow3144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Much love ! Big fan. Have a good Thursday

  • @ragingangel3302
    @ragingangel3302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WHAT AN ABSOLUTELY AWESOME MOM U HAVE!!

  • @jamiersher5131
    @jamiersher5131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "It seems like a big movie." It's moments like that when I think "Bev and my mother would get along great. Lol

  • @jamiersher5131
    @jamiersher5131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love me some Beviodes!..

  • @robynfromcanada
    @robynfromcanada 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Welcome back, Bev!💜

  • @rebeccamaxwell3342
    @rebeccamaxwell3342 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mom looks like a chef..lol. loved this episode. Love learning about our families past history. I wish my family had shared our's with me.
    I do the shaking leg thing too. My mom has a video of me at 9 months shaking my leg. It is a totally ingrained habit I have stopped noticing until someone points it out. In grade 6 my teacher suddenly said, "woah! The floor is shaking! Is there an earthquake?" I suddenly notice my right leg shaking away under my desk. I stop it. And she says," never mind it stopped." I was mortified. Lol

  • @cathywilson8768
    @cathywilson8768 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mayims face when her mom said she was uncomplicated....priceless

  • @kayedwards8464
    @kayedwards8464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the Bevisodes! 😀

  • @monettelee5138
    @monettelee5138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When Ms. Bev said, "Simple, Uncomplicated life," watch Mayim reaction 😭🤣😭🤣😭 there was alot of questions in that moment. They were not in agreement of her statements.

  • @Authentistic-ism
    @Authentistic-ism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We need an animated gif of Verklempt-ness spreading over Mayim's face. Beautiful :)

  • @arir8655
    @arir8655 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just adore Bev ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dianamcmahon51510
    @dianamcmahon51510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love that you and your dad would watch movies and tear them up Mystery Science Theater style. My brother and I do that. 😛

  • @hettiegrubbs
    @hettiegrubbs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    “That’s a lot of judgement, I don’t have that.” -Beverly is my hero 🦸‍♀️

  • @karhu357
    @karhu357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mayim.. as grandparents, we live by different rules, ask my children... we are old people trying to get into heaven now

  • @coolmotion7340
    @coolmotion7340 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bev i totally agree of practicality.

  • @nataliesirota2611
    @nataliesirota2611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the Bevisodes! We learn so much about Mayim too! Mayim you and Jonathan have such a wonderful relationship. I can totally see it made into a RomCom. ;) Maybe even a Musical RomCom? Ha!

  • @emilyyrcha1484
    @emilyyrcha1484 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Bev🙏🏻💟

  • @MrCoconutcat
    @MrCoconutcat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got schooled by bev also this episodes making me laugh and I'm happy now

  • @joannaurban2418
    @joannaurban2418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My Spanish in-laws represent the same shtetl mentality and tbey are in their 60s! No eating out, cinema, hairdresser... They are bored to death most of the time and love criticising me for my "lavish lifestyle" because I buy books or have a coffee with friends. It's like living with Puritans.

  • @juliemolthop8980
    @juliemolthop8980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. I am now in LOVE with your mother!!

  • @moonbeanification
    @moonbeanification 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "We have a *pickle* legacy?!" 🤣

  • @mirfir
    @mirfir 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very true!

  • @ayagaytacos1867
    @ayagaytacos1867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos mayim

  • @kloebl10
    @kloebl10 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Restless leg syndrome. I have it. It also increases with my ADD and/or anxiety.

  • @gardengirl4409
    @gardengirl4409 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your mom💚

  • @medicinaemdia4895
    @medicinaemdia4895 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The first one reminded me of Randall Pierson from This is us !!!!

  • @poolhall9632
    @poolhall9632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bev-isode on my day off?!
    MOZEL TOV!

  • @ragingangel3302
    @ragingangel3302 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mystery Science Theater IS THE BEST!!

  • @kloebl10
    @kloebl10 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mayim have u done one with Melissa Joan Hart? If not, it's a suggestion because she was fired from Sabrina when she was in her early 20's living the party life in L.A. I'd like to hear her talk about that and how she got through that, what she learned from that time, working for a family friendly brand and living your own life while growing up with choices that clashed.

  • @katelynivens3007
    @katelynivens3007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have extreme anxiety and irritability but its typically like the week after I bleed, sometimes even for 2 weeks After I bleed each month. which makes me not think it's cycle related for me😔

  • @richardthessen9790
    @richardthessen9790 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Bev👍👍

  • @bluebutterflywellness2273
    @bluebutterflywellness2273 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    BEVISODE!!! 😍💃🏽🤸🏽‍♀️💃🏽🎊

  • @theonlymeaning
    @theonlymeaning 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dear Mayim,
    You are one of my favorite human beings on the planet.That comment sounds trite and I apologize for the triteness.
    I can not think of anyone else, with the exception of my daughter, whom I would trust with a life and death decision and that includes psychic life or death..

  • @blazsnoj4370
    @blazsnoj4370 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    that's how you're gonna end up watching it! omg, i'm crying. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @docbrown6550
    @docbrown6550 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mayim, just a note to let you know the Movie "The Flight Before Christmas" I believe is going to be a classic, it is a refreshing movie for the Holidays and much better than Holiday movies that have come out before and since your movie was made, Thank you for making this awesome Holiday SPECIAL movie. Thank you, Stay Safe 🍀💖🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @kathythomas4839
    @kathythomas4839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with Jonathon. It drives me crazy when someone is tapping their foot, etc.

  • @PixelTheExtraTerrestrial
    @PixelTheExtraTerrestrial 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As somone with adhd i need 2 different audio inputs and meds to focus on cousework

  • @katemill3632
    @katemill3632 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mayim, you should eat Grillo's pickles on the podcast maybe they would sponsor you. I think Bev, and Jonathan are wonderful...

  • @bheehive4497
    @bheehive4497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why do I laugh at nothingness at times on this podcast. I am not saying you are talking "nothing". It's the funny corkiness personalities that make your show! Thank you! LOL... Mom if you are reading this , that's lots of love. Everyone else keep laughing.

  • @noneofurbusiness5223
    @noneofurbusiness5223 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ~5:30 OMG. You get punished (un/subconsciously) for being too happy.
    One more generation removed & Irish Gaelic was spoken.
    *Thank you* so, so much for this insight.

  • @karenterrell8843
    @karenterrell8843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I watch these I always feel that Jonathan is being unjustifiably dissed. He does not deserve it. He is great.

  • @themcgeefamily7514
    @themcgeefamily7514 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are the little fidget toys they are playing with?

  • @mirfir
    @mirfir 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    India is awesome! Was this in Cochin?

  • @Authentistic-ism
    @Authentistic-ism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I used to straight up steal flowers out of elderly townspeople's gardens to bring home to my mother. She didn't ask, I didn't tell.

  • @sicilyny5375
    @sicilyny5375 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Comment...my ex was black n native...he went to a black male therapist and still couldn't open up...about his childhood that was awful and caused him to be awful. Us being a mixed race couple was hard for him, his family and all of CA. This was 1992...my family were fine with him until he became horrible to me and our kids. It's called "Slave Mentality" that gets passed on thru generations. I know ALOT about this. Studied it as Pan African minor and lived through it.

  • @reneepolin6549
    @reneepolin6549 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I take a magnesium supplement at night to calm my restlessness, cuts down on giggly legs.

  • @catherinebond7666
    @catherinebond7666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The captions were on when I first started watching you and it said your name was "mine be alex". I thought you would find that funny.

  • @destinyberry3518
    @destinyberry3518 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you still do the voice from the big bang theory or not

  • @mandeepsaini3312
    @mandeepsaini3312 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Knock knock Amy Knock knock Amy knock knock Amy . 🖖 . Namaste.

  • @squishysirenita
    @squishysirenita 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Add me to the "I wanna marry Timber!!" list😂😂

  • @missfreitas7973
    @missfreitas7973 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mayim's videos could have portuguese subtitles.there are many brazilians watching.

  • @CarolynMatyjanka
    @CarolynMatyjanka 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mayim (and I!!!) have resting Walter (Jeff Dunham!!??) face!!! 😁😄🤣😂

  • @lynnj9721
    @lynnj9721 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cannot tell if Mayim's pouty face while talking about Timber is because she is now second in line to marry him or she is in her head going "but moooommmm..."

  • @gordonedwards4592
    @gordonedwards4592 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mayim at 17.34 😂