Signs a Girl Can't Believe You Haven't Made a Move Yet (ACT NOW BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE)

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  • Signs a Girl Can't Believe You Haven't Made a Move Yet .
    Hey there, it's Anna. Today, we're delving into a situation many people have found themselves in: those moments when a girl is clearly waiting for you to make a move, but you just haven't caught on yet. I'm going to walk you through the unmistakable signs that she's wondering why you haven't taken the next step. By the end of this video, you'll be able to recognize these signs and have the confidence to act on them. And don't forget, I’ve got a special bonus tip at the end that really ties everything together. It's a crucial piece of advice that complements all these signs. Stick around to ensure you don't miss it! Now Let's get started.
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  • @Joyanima
    @Joyanima  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Today's bonus tip at the end of the video is especially important if you want to make a real difference with this new information 😊

    • @aspenyukon6845
      @aspenyukon6845 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Joyanima can i get your number 👄💋❤️

    • @mcfishyfirst253
      @mcfishyfirst253 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Guys in america are tired of these lies women end up doing it’s not worth it anymore

    • @the_lycan_pitbull
      @the_lycan_pitbull 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What are you supposed to do when someone starts to flirt with you with physical touch sexual banter but when I do it she'll say "you have to be careful" then later on she does it again but more boldy especially when no one is near

    • @sigenalangsige
      @sigenalangsige 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      is new info means new video? if so, you're that gorgeous right now. nice info, though, if it hits the right people then it's smart. whatever, i'll just send my kisses from far away to you, anna. so you know there's another human being from other side of the world who dreams to really kiss you 😅 so... 😘😘😘🥰

    • @MusiCatsKing
      @MusiCatsKing 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I didn't last 2 minutes. I've already heard enough. Quite frankly, you don't know thoroughly enough what you're talking about.

  • @tommurphree5630
    @tommurphree5630 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    They don't make the first move because they want the power over you to accept or reject . That way they can reject but they don't have to worry about a fear of rejection they would possibly have if they made the first move .

    • @kku6857
      @kku6857 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you think that a smaller and weaker girl can be a leader in dating? You are crazy. Every evening she has to wash her make up so she looks normal. Dating is a rejection game

    • @southboundeightyone4958
      @southboundeightyone4958 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      💯

    • @balla4544
      @balla4544 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      yep and as a guy we cant give a fuck about it or it shows weakness.

    • @tomkaufman3914
      @tomkaufman3914 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Walk away fast

    • @dickspits8819
      @dickspits8819 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Couldn't have said it better

  • @stereotypespecialist
    @stereotypespecialist หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I keep getting told that we're all equal so there's no reason that a woman can't go out on a limb and make a move.

  • @jeanrwhite7068
    @jeanrwhite7068 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    It’s probably why iam single for a very long time. Iam tired putting my heart on line and just get torn to shreds by a woman .

    • @rogershore3128
      @rogershore3128 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      They are experts at it...

  • @ccjjpp1966
    @ccjjpp1966 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    If the girl doesn't see the guy making the move, then she should make that move. Why do we always have to be the ones making the move so we get a rejection most of the time? It's tiresome.

    • @fabian7463
      @fabian7463 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Because you need to be the tough guy and make it! Itll make you feel better! I wasnt sure if this girl was interested in me until I made a move...Gotta try!

    • @ccjjpp1966
      @ccjjpp1966 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@fabian7463 Just stop. This isn't about me, it a generalization. Some men are just not aware enough too. Women should be more forthcoming if they see someone they like and want that guy. Some guys are shy, were burned in the past and cautious and some are just not catching the signs.

    • @fabian7463
      @fabian7463 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ccjjpp1966 if you're going to wait for the girl to make a move, then you'll be single forever. Dont expect the universe to change.

    • @LiGHTProductions
      @LiGHTProductions หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      8/10 will be rejections, they want to be "chased", otherwise they think that you don't really like them.
      They also think that a "NO" will make you chase her even more and actually prove her that you want her, not just one time to get laid.

    • @ccjjpp1966
      @ccjjpp1966 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@LiGHTProductions You must be a young guy to say that. Sorry, I don't follow that anymore. If they play hard to get, I'll look for sex only and move on.

  • @cardaddictz2641
    @cardaddictz2641 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    You are Kings bro you have to let them chase you so you are the prize. Dont make them the prize and dont put them on a pedestal. Stay alpha or sigma!

  • @MattCool007
    @MattCool007 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    They should blame the narcissist that f'd me up if they are wondering why I wont make a move.
    Maybe next year some time.

    • @BigTyronie
      @BigTyronie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do you know they were “a narcissist”? If you knew why were you around them? Or are you post interaction deciding she was a narc because she wasnt attracted to you. Ive never heard someone that was with an actual narcissist use that as the excuse. Rather they give an action narcissists use to abuse people. Otherwise its using a societal get out of jail free card by dropping narc in the punchline. Narc is the new toxic.

    • @BeautekeLoentje2
      @BeautekeLoentje2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Strong answer! I agree.. they like so much to talk everything among them but maybe not how they destroy others already...i was unknown with a narc before, i've been there..

    • @Drew.P.Todger
      @Drew.P.Todger หลายเดือนก่อน

      Careful though, I’ve been saying that for three years. 🤦‍♂️😂

    • @jayday187
      @jayday187 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ooh I like this, possible damage creating caution explainable by trauma, it's perfect.

    • @fledgling5616
      @fledgling5616 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Boohoo, it’s happened to many of us, get rid of your victim mindset.

  • @user-hq6ux8mg6b
    @user-hq6ux8mg6b 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    Why don't they make the first move when they know who you are they tell you you're driving them crazy but yet they won't talk

    • @smoothlyrough512
      @smoothlyrough512 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because women think we still live in the 40's and that its the mans responsibility. I mean, what happened to them wanting to be eqaul? Am i right?

    • @TarePandaHelp
      @TarePandaHelp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      They do. You're either not picking up on the hints or no one is flirting with you.

    • @KH-wy7le
      @KH-wy7le 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      The fact that you don't know that women like and expect men to take the lead in dating - forget about what these feminists or boss bitches say, suggests that you should leave dating to the grown ups.

    • @BigTyronie
      @BigTyronie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@KH-wy7lei was trying to think of how to say it but this is exactly what i was not able to convey with this sense of economy. Very to the point!

    • @debonairdevil1523
      @debonairdevil1523 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Sperm goes after the egg, not the other way around. Get over it.

  • @smoothlyrough512
    @smoothlyrough512 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    I KNOW this girl wants me to make a move at work. I just dont see myself dating in todays climate. Its like a 24 hr plane crash right now.

    • @d3ltaking419
      @d3ltaking419 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m in the same boat this girl in the corporate company that I work for she likes me and has made enough passes and has given me the signs that she wants me and is interested but I don’t really care just because I have other things that I’m working on such as doing taekwondo, Krav, Maga, and working out at the gym. I have very little time now with all of those factors at play. All the other guys drool over her I don’t big difference.

    • @someone7773
      @someone7773 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@d3ltaking419good job keep it up

    • @corey2justified1
      @corey2justified1 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      However, you need to justify the fact that you're a coward, man.

  • @savevsdeath
    @savevsdeath 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The only signs a man should take is her opening her mouth and saying 'I want to take it to the next level'. Nothing else is acceptable. I don't want to have my life ruined.

  • @glenbateman5960
    @glenbateman5960 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    When she says, "I can't believe you haven't made a move yet!"
    Any "sign" short of that is, at best, a crapshoot, and these days, guessing wrong can ruin your life.
    If she isn't into you enough to be direct, she isn't really into you.

  • @dada210
    @dada210 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Young lady, Men and Women are Equals and a Woman has every right to "make the first move" as any Man does. And, many Women; especially younger Woman make the mistake of not understanding the difference between a Man being "being shy" and a Man having and showing respect for a Woman/Women.
    If a Woman always "has to be" and thinks she has to be "submissive" bs and "wait for the man to make the first move"; then I "feel sorry for her" for shes still an immature girl, not a Woman (yet) and is going to wind up in abusive relationship(s) with prideful assholes "Boys" and Not with a good, strong, caring, loving respectful Man. I've seen it happen many times, in my lifetime (I'm a Gen-X'er) with my female friends. I'm a Christian, Educated, Physically Big Man (sports, powerlifting, "the Arts" etc...) and an Alpha and I'll tell you straight up; that :"Men dominant, women submissive" is a Pile of Very Unhealthy, Indoctrinating and Gaslighting Total Friggin BS!! ...
    Men and Women, Women and Men are Equals (period!) and your Man is supposed to be your Man; not your "Daddy/Father figure".

    • @rgmabeo
      @rgmabeo หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are not an Alpha my guy, you reason like a sigma

  • @LowGUkeChannel
    @LowGUkeChannel 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    When i was in my 20's i was a "good catch". I often socialised one on one with female work colleagues and there was mutual attraction. I was on a journey in life, travelling the world, working contracts for 6-12 months at a time. I reàlly enjoyed their company but i was never going to get intimate. "Why doesn't he make a move?". Usually left unsaid my position was...."Sorry, i don't want to get 'hooked'. I have things to do and i have to be able to walk away. We're out socialising, having a great time but that's it, let's keep it that way". I know various women found this frustrating or felt rejection but that's just normal for everyone.

    • @wayneanderson8034
      @wayneanderson8034 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had the same thing for a long time in thought. If I do it one time, I absolutely must have it again. If its a one time fling, I will be going bonkers & in withdrawal for months until the next time.

  • @Micahiel
    @Micahiel 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I want to say thank you for you and your content. Your information has been extremely informative and revealing. Your information has helped in many ways including helping increase my self love and confidence.

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You are so welcome! Glad to hear you're finding it useful

  • @Amir76fresno
    @Amir76fresno 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awesome indeed, thx a lot for sharing your knowledge and thoughts with us. Have an amazing evening and weekend. Cheers 🎉❤

  • @mcmann201
    @mcmann201 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hi Anna, honestly I do care much about her, and have learned so many new ways to make my approach. I'll figure it out. Just learning this new and modern style. I hope she will have patience with me. You're always a big help. Thankfully your the best !

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good luck!

  • @JohnD635
    @JohnD635 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This channel is a school of life. Thanks Anna!

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      aw thank you!

  • @BryJovi17
    @BryJovi17 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You end by saying have 'clear communication' and be clear with your intentions, to close a video about SIGNS women give that they wanted to date you or more... Why don't women be CLEAR with their communication and TELL US STRAIGHT that they would like to spend more time with us or that they could just actually ASK US OUT ON A DATE THEMSELVES, if they really like us 'that much'. If they aren't that into us why would they want to even consider asking us on a date and if that's true, why would they then accept to a date offer from us if they aren't that into us?

    • @curseofsasuke
      @curseofsasuke 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Men represent order, women are representing chaos. Girls like to play games. Bake the cake and eat it.

  • @genecurrens3654
    @genecurrens3654 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Very informative, thank you. I love your videos.

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So nice of you

  • @boristagesson967
    @boristagesson967 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    My move is to never make a move.

    • @fishmongerama
      @fishmongerama 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Why not?.

    • @freshtapcoke
      @freshtapcoke หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      A strange game. The only winning move is not to play.

  • @danielwatkins286
    @danielwatkins286 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    If they aren't my type I'm not making a move..

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's completely understandable

  • @kevinimmers4121
    @kevinimmers4121 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hmmm, whenever a girl wants me to hurry by saying it would be too late otherwise.
    That sounds like they wouldn't have the Patience to wait and rather find somebody else 👀
    When you know the Art of Manifestation you have an abundance mindset.
    With it you know that you would never miss out, only make place for something better that you can't see yet.
    Just think about that 👻
    Besides that in the Other World, I have learned what I Am really wishing for.
    If I would go for less it's like saying that I don't trust them.
    Like being happy with a Lesser Love than they are already giving/showing me.☀🌈

  • @vindex7309
    @vindex7309 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, no one has ever done any of these things to me in my life. Good to know I haven’t missed anything!

  • @frankslade33
    @frankslade33 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This stuff is great. Literally was told last week I was a bit "shy"!

    • @aprox23
      @aprox23 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That doesn't mean anything, other than you're shy.

  • @stvinney
    @stvinney 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Im gonna continue to wait this one out until the moment is right
    1. It actually keeps me from regressing. I take excellent care of myself
    2. If the answer is a negative I'm gonna wind up feeling a lot different about her
    There's one huge POTENTIAL upside to telling her my feelings (key word in caps)
    But MANY potentially devastating downsides
    Fear can work both ways. The fear of not reacting can also do harm imo

    • @magnanimousj
      @magnanimousj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Let me stop you there. I bet lunch that you aren't actually worried about ruining a friendship. You're worried about finding out. If you never ask her, the answer could be yes. If you ask her and she rejects you, you know the truth and that will hurt. The most painful regrets are for the things we DIDN'T do.

  • @yvesgysel9834
    @yvesgysel9834 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    😂 Funny. That sums up my years during university. I was just too focused on my studies, sports, friends, side work... I would ìnteract with women and even go for drinks and yoga classes with them. However, since I was not looking for any relationship, I could openly connect with them without any alternative motivations. Later on, I found out that 2 of them (that I know of) had a deep crush on me.😂 Younger men are so bad at reading body signs. They are just horrible at it!!! Now that I am older and much more experienced, I have gotten much better at it. 😂 So, I would advise women in the same situation to be very direct with the guy about her feelings towards him. No guy is going to spend time with a woman if he does not like her. He might not be ready for a relationship, but at least you know where you stand. Why would you be afraid of rejection? That's life, and you learn from it. The same is true with business. Any challenge, actually. I DO NOT WANT TO LIVE WITH ANY REGRET.😂

  • @xo_ectophylla_alba_xo
    @xo_ectophylla_alba_xo หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    When I make a move, I go straight to jail without collecting $200

    • @akrambaig2689
      @akrambaig2689 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol😂😂😂

  • @MichaelGolpe
    @MichaelGolpe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    8:11 Thanks, Anna!

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Interesting information thank you!

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Any time!

  • @matthalo89
    @matthalo89 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The girl Ive been into for awhile has established she doesn’t want to date because she doesn’t want to ruin our friendship ( I say fuck the friendship) but yet she flirts all the time and has been touching my shoulder during flirting and laughing at my stupid stuff I say frequently. Sometimes when we walk together somewhere she casually walks into me bumping our arms. She also stands really close to me when we’re doing something and faces me when we’re in this close proximity situation. One time we were pulling a heavy box down from a shelf and since I’m taller assisted her. Once I figured out how to get the box down she stood next to me as I eased it off the shelf but the box was unbalanced. It quickly dropped and then shifted towards us. She reached up to help me and it pulled both of us down together (unharmed thankfully) in this entanglement. I looked over and my arms were laying across her boobs and I stood up and asked her if she was ok. She was perfectly fine. Helped her again the other day with a big box she was pulling down. She stood up on a ladder and her butt was right in my face and it was hard not to take little peeks as she was working the box down. It’s like she does stuff like that to torture me. I looked enough but not enough for her to notice. Had I been caught she probably would’ve teased about being caught staring at her. And then playful banter, teasing, and touching alot lately. You wonder why I don’t grab and her and kiss that beautiful face is because she established her boundary but yet steps over it all the time to a point people see us and think we’re dating. We go so good together, at least I think so. I’m tempted to distance myself and not come around as much because I want to do just that, kiss that face after all this time of building up to where we are and reveal what’s inside of me like buried treasure. But I’m not sure how to go about it. They say watch what she does, not what she says. I have to say her actions point towards a greater interest than just friends. And it’s been going on like this for quite sometime. I figure the ball is in her court after I made the first move and went on some dates, stuff happened, and it changed a little but we still have been in touch all this time, and IM positive she has felt something at some point to some degree. Otherwise she wouldn’t make points to come around, get my attention, flirt, laugh at my stupid jokes, make strong eye contact but then sometimes she gets shy and looks away, playfully touch me, and stand so close to me I can feel her without actually feeling her. It’s difficult to ignore a woman of this beauty completely. I’ve tried and I can get about 2 days in but she’s so damn gorgeous it’s a sin not to engage with her. I’m conflicted.

    • @Chyronn
      @Chyronn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You've been friendzoned and she considers you one of the girls

    • @matthalo89
      @matthalo89 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Chyronn no shit sherlock.

    • @HANZELVANDERLAAY
      @HANZELVANDERLAAY หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tell her your engaged....you'll get the booty then....and when you commit to her...and leave the imaginary woman..she will dump you....enjoy🎉😂

    • @Future-Classic-Comics
      @Future-Classic-Comics 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I've got the same damn thing as you bro, my one says we're just friends isn't interested I dating, but always bumps into me, pushes her tits into my arms, laughs at all my jokes, I said to her do you fancy me or not?! She gave me a round about excuse about not looking to date, then on the phone talks about dating events, she's a prick tease mate, when in doubt chuck em out! You may even warrant her attention by going in for the kiss or whatever but do you really want someone who's prepared to fuck with your head because it boosts her ego, she don't fancy you as the other person said you're a friend and she wants to play you with you like a doll, she's immature.

  • @standstill0641
    @standstill0641 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A complete wast of time and effort. If she can't tell you straight off how she feels.. when something big in the relationship happens she won't be able to face you at all.

  • @randomtube8226
    @randomtube8226 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    To move is to know how to move. I always seem to mess everything up lol

  • @oliverpetroski4205
    @oliverpetroski4205 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice🥰👌😘

  • @MindBuddies
    @MindBuddies 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Fantastic insights on interpreting subtle social cues, very helpful for those struggling to take the next step! However, does placing such emphasis on non-verbal hints contribute to misunderstandings in romantic pursuits?

  • @JayS.-mm3qr
    @JayS.-mm3qr 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    One of the signs I got was disappointment when I leave. But, unfortunately, it may have been more disappointment that we "can't" do anything with each other, due to the nature of our relationship, not that she was expecting me to do anything.

  • @tomh1593
    @tomh1593 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Anna, this is just too many games by women. If they refuse to say they are interested then it's just not worth being with her

  • @Z07437
    @Z07437 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sign #1, they go after your friends to get your attention, try and give you fear of missing out, but it works as repellent instead.

  • @MusiCatsKing
    @MusiCatsKing 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If i'm shy, i'm not making the first move anyway. Teasing me about it is more likely to make me clam up even more.
    Please get this through your head: If a guy is shy, SHE needs to be making the moves on him!!

  • @wizardofahhhs759
    @wizardofahhhs759 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    If you're not interested then just say "I'm not interested" and watch the disappointment in her eyes.

    • @smoothlyrough512
      @smoothlyrough512 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nah, keep leading her on. That will be a bigger disappointment in them eyes.

  • @turtlebuttmudd
    @turtlebuttmudd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had a coworker tease me about not making eye contact and sort of forced me to look her deep in the eyes while I spoke to her (this was actuwlly transformative for me in overcoming that boundary). She would always squeeze my arms, touch my back, give me hugs, and offer me her food to me.
    We also talked about all of our woes in life which brought us even closer.
    She was VERY flirtatious with everyone by nature (we were servers), but I always felt it was slightly different with me.
    This was months before either of us were available, and the moment we were both single things escalated immediately.

    • @bensherman8976
      @bensherman8976 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And that's how I met your mother..

  • @sullivan2339
    @sullivan2339 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I appreciate that you clearly make an effort to address 21st century protocol. I was disappointed at the end- or :651 forward. You made it clear the man needs to remain 'respectful- consider etc- of course. A simple honest expression of feeling- of course. But you did not delve into the complicated part- I appreciate the difficulty-as every woman is different. You left it up to Us- the males- to figure out how to try moving the interaction to 'the next level'. That's where the problem can quickly arise. Perhaps less so with the younger generation.

  • @jayday187
    @jayday187 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ironically I use videos like this as a guide. She is wondering why I haven't made a move, in fact several women are, but I just go with the flow and scroll to the next video, if something happens it will.

  • @closethockeyfan5284
    @closethockeyfan5284 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Very timely. I had a two-week vacation planned and met a woman who seems interesting and might be interested ... less than a week before my trip. Definitely did not want to rush in, just hoping potential momentum isn't lost. I likely see her tomorrow for the first time in about three weeks.
    Tough to know whether she's interested, as she definitely is a quieter type, so the shy girl series gave me things to ponder, thank you. In line with prior videos on texts, I sent only two during the trip, both natural reasons from things relevant to her; first got a growing heart emoji while the other got no reply.

    • @Joyanima
      @Joyanima  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sounds positive on the whole. Hope it goes well for you

    • @jakezywek6852
      @jakezywek6852 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Why bother? You're probably thousands of miles into the friendzone without realizing and she's already made plans with chad. Can't believe how someone could be so uncynical.

  • @zellhaufen8583
    @zellhaufen8583 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    There are also other reasons why men don't make a move. I often see women who are superficially attractive to me but from past experience there is so much that puts me off. Like tattoos, overdone makeup, playing with her smartphone or excessive chatter over bullshit. I would say that less than 1% of women are really worth putting in all the effort and emotions unless you just want sex but in reality not many people are sex addicts. We want someone we can give love to and trust but immature women who are never told the truth by society aren't worth it.

  • @TheDustyShed
    @TheDustyShed หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The extreme incompetence of being unable to communicate interest. Women apparently can do anything a man can do, except say hello.

  • @paulsz6194
    @paulsz6194 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Anna, great video. You also look really good in that black turtleneck 😎

  • @Dyerking1
    @Dyerking1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😶‍🌫️ thank you I find your videos very interesting and educational starting to notice thongs I was oblivious to. I can tell when someone likes someone else but when I comes to me I can't tell when a girl likes me maybe now I will be able to so thank you. Much appreciate

  • @douglaidlaw740
    @douglaidlaw740 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    And how long will the relationship last? The usual indicator is that she talks about feelings. If she is making sexy comments, she may want no more than a one-night stand. But I live in Australia, where long marriages are the norm. We have been married for 52 years, and ill-health is starting to take its toll, but we will still be together years from now. I used to index death notices, and found that marriages for 70+ years, although not common, were not unusual, either.

  • @johnross2924
    @johnross2924 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why should the guy make the move?
    A lot of guys are fed up with rejection!
    And the possibility of being accused of something!

    • @supers0nic77
      @supers0nic77 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I've seen it many times, some women do make moves but only if they really really like the guy. Usually a gigachad or whatever. The rest of us they aren't into enough to do that jmo

  • @multiwebinc
    @multiwebinc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You missed: She gets bored with you and moves on

  • @ernestvasko2472
    @ernestvasko2472 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The European Court of Human Rights already maliciously discriminated me...

  • @Idiotwriter711
    @Idiotwriter711 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Its always games

  • @joemacch6284
    @joemacch6284 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m at the gym after taking a boxing class. I’ve made some nice acquaintances and friends. Two women in particular refuse to speak with me. They will make eye contact and occasionally mumble something. Example class is over, as per usual I’m sitting with my buddy just in general, they come up to my friend address him by name rambling about nothing and leave. They look at me but say nothing. At first it seemed rude but I began to think there’s got to be something more to it. I’ve been in the class for over a year and will talk friendly with other women. One of them months ago complimented my shoes in the middle of class knowing I couldn’t respond so I smiled said thank you and continued to box. End of class gone like a ghost. Very strange. What do you think. Literally consciously or unconsciously going out of their way to ignore me which does not feel like being ignored since it’s so obvious. Hmmm

  • @juniortorres3967
    @juniortorres3967 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Afraid if rejection

  • @justinbarhorst5531
    @justinbarhorst5531 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes she might really like you and she might be disappointed that you might have to leave but there's many reasons why one you don't live very close. Now she wish you could stay a little bit longer or she might wish you where just a little bit romantic with her.

  • @stevecook5842
    @stevecook5842 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If women are so "intuitive" why don't they pick up on the signs men project 🙄 and engage in casual conversations? 🤔

  • @sigenalangsige
    @sigenalangsige 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    girls, quit playing games with my heart.

    • @rudra3354
      @rudra3354 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Stop singing songs here

    • @sigenalangsige
      @sigenalangsige 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      stop yourself then 🤣@@rudra3354

  • @zerolbcool
    @zerolbcool 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Some say, why don't the female make the first move. It's cool if they do, however we can't change general physiology, biology, and programming of both the male and female roles. So typically females and males will do what they're wired to do.
    If the guy hasn't made a move for a long time for whatever reason, it's sometimes the universe way of using a slow burn time method to TEST whether the relationship will be a true and resilient one.
    So the universe will put the both of you through the worst spin cycle before sealing and confirming a lasting relationship.
    As Shakespeare probably said 'the course of true love never did run smooth' End :)

    • @BigTyronie
      @BigTyronie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As cheesy as it seems i tend to agree. Whatever the force may be. Perhaps consiousness itself. I feel like theres a layer of gnosis or collective conscious that runs things through a series of filters to decide as you described. When we run into bed too fast without considering the personality thats our one chance at overriding the natural system. If you blow that it creates the confusion you see which is growing, collectively, ie collective conscious, and just really makes a fuggin mess of the order of things. Which ironically is how ancient secret societies see things and operate. People think that those societies or collectives control knowledge and information to usurp mankind but as you see humanity reaching dangerous levels of degeneracy thru social media especially i think it’s imperative the people who understand attraction, infatuation, bonding, becoming one etc keep that info close and pass it down to our children. My son is 13 and very much handles interactions with girls or women as a man would and often times better than most men know how to. Its all relative and you pretty much nailed it in my mind. I just wanted to add to as what im saying is not contrary to but rather in support of.

    • @zerolbcool
      @zerolbcool 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes we were all born into different situations for a specific reason, some are poor some, some are princes. Each to its own, to carry out their role in our matrix hologram. Within THIS universe and dimension/reality consciousness experiences itself from infinite lenses. So we are just separate lenses for the construct. So our actions are generally pre destined by karma but free choice also exist if it contributes to the purpose of higher beings, the universe and source consciousness. I cannot tell you how I know this so it's JUST MY OPINION. Agree to disagree.

  • @justinbarhorst5531
    @justinbarhorst5531 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    If she brushes your shirt she is being polite and kind.

    • @smoothlyrough512
      @smoothlyrough512 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Or you had a fly on your collar

  • @nicholasblakiston6297
    @nicholasblakiston6297 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes I'm certain she's into me and wants me to make a move but then every time I do I never hear from her again. It's gotten to the point that I'm confident that whatever women are looking for, it ain't me, and I'm not much into reproving the point.

  • @gilbert632
    @gilbert632 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a man , i move when i want. Im not a dog to be trained.

    • @dbmorton1114
      @dbmorton1114 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well then what are you doing here, Fido? 🤣

  • @user-sr6bg4ip6e
    @user-sr6bg4ip6e 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had a girl tell me we went to a party together but there was no party and we were not seeing each other and said we will go to another party soon does this mean as my friend said and she was dreaming about me ??

  • @StevenshanpruSteven-zg7of
    @StevenshanpruSteven-zg7of 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don't known she love me or not,when I look at her she always don't look back at me😥😥

  • @memocardenas9535
    @memocardenas9535 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to see more joyanima

  • @brabbit53
    @brabbit53 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I never notice any of the hints you mention. I guess she doesn't feel the same way. 😕

  • @jerrelldyoung
    @jerrelldyoung 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Reason why is ME TOO

    • @BigTyronie
      @BigTyronie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats a but dramatic. The onus to prove that is not as easy as you say. If a friend of a friend says bla bla bla you need to consider they may in fact be a fuggin creep. Despite this accepted truth on social media first a detective, not a cop, had to investigate that stuff. If you think police havent been dealing with this forever youre not as enlightened as you think. Every Saturday and Sunday most municipalities detectives are working because they get an influx of calls by people who had lessened inhibitions only 6-10 hours earlier regretting their choice to sleep with someone. Secondly a states attorney has to review the findings and they may indeed squash many of them as theyre not prosecutable. But to not get too far as this is silly, the vast majority of those get deemed bs by detectives. And the me too thing if more people are getting in trouble its because more women with legitimate sexl assault cases are coming forward. But LE is aware of that too and investigates thoroughly. If theres any doubt they reinterview both people. If you were to be interviewed and it happens again, youre doing something youre unaware of or arent being honest with yourself bc that pattern is how serial grapists are caught. Fyi….

  • @asta1011
    @asta1011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So I got no options!

  • @isaiahlucas25
    @isaiahlucas25 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your hair is has gotten longer and freshly trimmed, good look

  • @PoncePappas-zo1ot
    @PoncePappas-zo1ot หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ill do it comeer

  • @geo_neo9
    @geo_neo9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want her to choose me. All my past have been good doing this ancient way. In truth the lady always chooses but to make the move omg she really likes me I'm giving her a chance.

  • @Morgyborgyblob
    @Morgyborgyblob หลายเดือนก่อน

    "when a girl is clearly waiting for you to make a move, but you haven't caught on"
    Then she is not being clear.

  • @Try-THX1138
    @Try-THX1138 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think you should include a video example of how the girl looks when you state how she looks when…
    In other words instead of only giving verbal advice with verbal examples, you should give the advice with video examples…
    Thanks in advance!

  • @deanwelch9055
    @deanwelch9055 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What if her guys that she like most sees her with another guy what's gonna happen?...
    Is they is it gonna be problem or is they gonna get along...
    A girl with options gets slayed daily by guys is toxic and drama...some people get hurt or dead over a girl or guy...
    For what they should just move on...
    She must be not single if she still seeing guys to have fun with that means she seeing someone...taking turns is not being single...single means no fun with a human being at all...

  • @kebman
    @kebman หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah I get this a lot... From women I'm not into.

  • @djsmith2871
    @djsmith2871 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Maybe he's already "clued in" and just isn't interested

  • @SelbyHlayi-ws5pk
    @SelbyHlayi-ws5pk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Proverbs 30:5-6

  • @dri6225
    @dri6225 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'd rather love my little lovebird

  • @GregoryTheGr8ster
    @GregoryTheGr8ster 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am a high value man, and this happens to me ALL THE TIME!

  • @christtking894
    @christtking894 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And when you make your move she acts all surprised or bothered and turns me down, for me that is a rejection and a sign that she is seeing someone else and that she is just playing childish games which makes me draw the line, are you interested or not, stop playing games, I am not the one losing here, you are not the only game in town, seems like you like those octogenarians promising you everything but not keeping any of their promises, you get what you ask for

  • @joshmart9931
    @joshmart9931 หลายเดือนก่อน

    we make the first move because we have the masculine urge too

  • @mafp22w
    @mafp22w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We live in a very strange age. I feel sorry for the youth. How is it that someone like this gal isn’t married? Maybe she doesn’t want to be?

  • @youv6589
    @youv6589 หลายเดือนก่อน

    '"How clear communication of your feelings is essential.." Don't fall for this trap.
    You never tell a woman how you feel. Trying to frame us lol.

  • @vtmacguru
    @vtmacguru หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do these even apply when you are in your 50's

  • @playstationplusfilm316
    @playstationplusfilm316 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me the girl only comes when i ignroe her she follow me where i go she is watching me but shy. She smiles a little. I dont know if its a sign of her love or hate😅

  • @gilbertmurdoch3552
    @gilbertmurdoch3552 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    HeY British girl! 😜 sorry busy...

  • @user-xt7zv3xk7q
    @user-xt7zv3xk7q 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Have you been through all this or you just read some books about it?

  • @kevonjohnson745
    @kevonjohnson745 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can you cover why most women like to make financial issues a topic. Your points are okay but it's not worth it more while to allow a lady to get close.

  • @Jmc349
    @Jmc349 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me too = not happening.

  • @justinbarhorst5531
    @justinbarhorst5531 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Now if she's telling you how she sees you and her doing things together ect she is just being creepy. Walk away from her.

  • @b.lloydreese2030
    @b.lloydreese2030 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why make a move? They all have boyfriends or just got out of a bad relationship and arent dating right now

  • @gilbertmurdoch3552
    @gilbertmurdoch3552 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What?!? Umm No YOU make the move 😜 sorry busy n that...

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sorry, I just could not spend the time to wend my way through this entire video. I stopped after the first part "she mentions my shyness". This happened back in college, a comment late one evening in the college workshop. She was absolutely, without question, the most beautiful girl to ever enter the hallowed grounds of this particular college, in fact, a well-known art school. She was never in any of my classes, but came around from time to time, worked a little some evenings, and briefly just sat there looking unthinkably gorgeous. We all knew she "had a boyfriend", who presumably had money and treated her to some finer things like dinners and trips into Manhattan for this and that outing. It was clear she was unapproachable. I was simply a hard working (probably the best) student in the department, and kept my mouth shut. She never spoke to me. But one evening there she must have noticed my "quietude" as I worked alone. I overheard her say, "why are guys from the South so shy?" She certainly was not talking to me, only ABOUT me! That revelation carried no impetus to do anything. We knew she wasn't "available". Little did she realize that I was one of, who knows how many guys, who viewed her as unattainably attractive. So did I dare do anything or say anything? No way! It was crystal clear that wasn't any sort of invitation, just an observation. As for the rest of the "clues" mentioned in this video ---no, they may make for a video reaching a number of clicks, but no, I did not observe these things happen in real life.

  • @djacobmadrigal
    @djacobmadrigal หลายเดือนก่อน

    In some cases men don’t make the first move bc they are already spoken for. Women just love to assume the guy they have their eye on is single.

    • @HANZELVANDERLAAY
      @HANZELVANDERLAAY หลายเดือนก่อน

      Check out hypergamy...99 percent of woman are always single.... .by nature they are always looking to upgrade...used to think it was narcissistic...but it's natures way of progress I guess...look it up...sad but true.....there is the 1 percent..that can commit tho

  • @Angry_Bob
    @Angry_Bob 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This lady reminds me of Vanessa Angel

  • @John.Doe-OG
    @John.Doe-OG 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That black shirt looks good on you. It may look good on me, I'll have to find one in Men's. Have a source?

  • @gavinrussell3489
    @gavinrussell3489 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    what do you with a girl gives you mixed signals I ask her out

  • @kurt120032002
    @kurt120032002 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Real question: is touching really a comon in western social behaviour? Here it always means "I like you" even in a non romantic way. Obviously it is most seen in parents to kids, but aside that is seen when old people talk to you. Aside those situations nobody touches anyone because it means "I like you" .

  • @Dyerking1
    @Dyerking1 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😶‍🌫️whats the best first move to make?

  • @IgorMironov-rq4ye
    @IgorMironov-rq4ye หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Joyanima, why dont you ever say anything concrete. All you do is go on and on in circles and never say anything that would work with a female?

  • @KitaRisti
    @KitaRisti 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What would happen to a girl, if she would ask directly?