5 Toxic Beliefs You Must Eliminate If You Want A Happy Life
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- 5 Toxic Beliefs You Must Let Go, If You Want A Happy Life
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"Here are 5 toxic habits and beliefs you should let go of, if you want to live a high quality, happy life.
Number 1. Blaming. Believing that it’s always someone else’s fault.
Number 2. The belief that successful people are greedy/selfish/fill in the blank.
Number 3. Believing everything you hear / not having a mind of your own.
Number 4. The belief that you need other people to complete you.
Number 5. Allowing money to control your decisions."
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5 toxic habits and beliefs you should let go of, if you want to live a high quality, happy life.
Number 1. Blaming. Believing that it’s always someone else’s fault.
Number 2. The belief that successful people are greedy/selfish/fill in the blank.
Number 3. Believing everything you hear / not having a mind of your own.
Number 4. The belief that you need other people to complete you.
Number 5. Allowing money to control your decisions.
Thank You. I Understand the way better now.
At least if I want & have a billion dollars it would be used by my own children and the future generations to come....✔
Nice
I know a man blames others as he is no way a part of guilty just sayin hopefully he needs to realize $$isnt every thing.. ??
Whoever sent this to me??,.. back for you to listen
I’m moving on😘
Fearless Soul NONE of them apply to me!😡 I can blame certain hacking family members Who DESTROYED MY LIFE!😡
He’s right. I was born in 1991 , I’m 27 now. And I’m breaking out of my old condition to have a better future.
I was born in 1951...I finally ended my adolescence at 27!!
Drua Gaming
1991 was a good year
Drua Gaming So, what did you change and what did you change into.
I was 27 in 1991.
Drua Gaming you are lucky you started early. I was born in 1966 and 53 now and struggling to condition my thinking......
"You can only be successful by living the quality of life YOU determine as successful". Words of great wisdom
sadly most of the time you cant afford to live the quality of life you determine successful
I have subscribed to you
Sometimes You Have to Accept the Truth and Stop Wasting Time on the Wrong People. - Unknown
“I don’t want to be a product of my environment. I want my environment to be a product of me.”
Jack Nickelson in The Departed
So True!
Finding hope in Hollywood movie lines...man theyve done good brainwashing the people
*Your life is driven from within. Peace and happiness are inside of you, search your soul and your heart. Be at peace with yourself and let happiness come out from inside of you.*
Yessss
The very beginning of this video needs to acknowledge that A negative mindset can be created by bad circumstances.
Some people grow up in families with narcissistic or worse parents, some are plagued with abuse and neglect. These sityations make the person grow up damaged.
Yes if they snap out of it and become positive thinking adults they will have a better life.
But...
It is very naive to think that this will be easy or in some cases possible.
Yes
I was compared to others alot in my teen years by my father, this results in me still comparing to others and the constant thought of me not being good enough. Ever.
I'm aware of this ofcourse, and I'm trying to combat this problem. Its just soo tiring to do this almost every day.
DSG I agree, this comes from someone who doesn’t really know reality
Hi there! You're absolutely right. ☺
I agree because I went through this and know many who have as well.
A hopefully helpful quotation from the poet and writer Charles Bukowski: "Some people will love what you do - some people will hate what you do - most people won't give a damn about what you do."
“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
-Ralph Waldo Emerson
Beautiful ❤️
Fear, controlled my decisions. And I have never blamed others, I have always blamed myself, as I am hardest on myself. Fear made me "run away". But I was never negative till my late husband died....fear of abandonment, fear of everything caused me to sell everything, even my home....to run away. I was overwhelmed, and ran. I cannot deal with negative people or environments. The energies I feel off of everyone, everywhere, even animals, trees. I finally saw a Parapsychologist. Through massive testing, a NY University doctor diagnosed me as an extreme Empath, a Sensitive. I never knew. I always thought I was different, but that empathy made me a better trauma/ICU/ER Nurse. I am still learning to build a "bubble" around me, to not absorb others energies. I know them before I know them. Historical places & cemeteries are the hardest on me. Heck, I feel trees, plants and talk to them...strange, but it helps. I was diagnosed as an Empath when I was 47 yr old.....and still learning how to deal with this.
The "Real" lesson is. To learn from all negativity and Let it Go and learn from it,you are the head of your own life....
I was unhappy because of being bullied by so many people all of my life. I still have trauma and anger flare ups but that is normal and part of nature. As a victim of people's greed/jealousy/envy and gossip, I have a staunch view that gossip should be punishable by jailtime as it has lead to Salem Witch Trials and MeToo movement.
Part of Kundalini is accepting of ome's own shadow. I did this. I know money doesn't itself lead to Happiness but it will lead me to freedom away from my toxic family and to my own happiness. I know not all Rich people are greedy and I know not all adults are giving.
I do believe fighting for one's rights and standing up for oneself. I do forgive the ones that hurt me in the sense they will not envelop my life but they still need to pay me financial restitution which in turn will help me do what I love to do and further my dreams.
Even peaceful monks have had to learn to fight. Even Angels have swords.
Your an angel
I will add - what other people think of me is absolutely none of my concern !
Live your own life, break free of chains and act how you want vs the fears of others.
I had nothing in my life for many years and I blamed everyone around me. It was only after I started looking into myself with intense scrutiny, that I started to move forward
Money isn't evil, but loving it over anything is. It is but a tool to help get things.
Money is completely evil. Anything that has the power to destroy humanity, is evil.
@@nevadataylor , then man is evil.
Good or evil comes from the person's intent. To paraphrase Alexander Dumas: Money is a good servant ,but a poor master.
@@tcroshon70 Yes you are correct, but it is what causes that persons intent, that we must look at. Please read my post to hellavadeal.
Money was created to control
Im going through some shit at the moment, and this really hit something. Has brought tears to my eys and changed my mindset on the spot. Thank you.
i needed to hear this today also brother,i wish you an amazing new year man.
Things always get better. Hold on. I was going through some really bad shit about this time last year, heck I even thought I wasn't going to make it... But now I'm doing pretty good!
You got this brother. Keep moving don't stop
If you're a guy watch fight club. You'll thank me for it but don't mention it seriously.
this is true, when i let go of resistances i feel happier, letting go of the past helped me move forward.
Love is given by a people who deserves for.
This is one of the greatest speech I have heard the year
You are absolutely true, my boss bullied me and I threw resignation on his face and got satisfied.
"Be one of the few to make a change. YOU are THAT Important"...Now THIS is 🔥🔥🔥
This is one of the best video I have ever heard. Be it the clear voice of the speaker, BGM, the content...Man, this really opened my eyes!! Many people focus on outside people and things, but the few who focus on themselves and correct their errors are the ones on the successful path!!!
I was completely aware of these facts all my life, I only have to show this video to people who don't know these things yet in their life and I just needed a confirmation. I wish more of my so called friends should find this and live a happy life and not trying to bring me down and envy on me
Well said! I’ve been going thru the same thought process. Fortunately, I had a lung transplant which has a five year average life span. I’m having to weed them out quickly. If my friends complain, gossip, generally bring me down, I have to back away. I don’t have time to play with their nonsense. None of us do! God Bless you!
I had a heart transplant and was given 5 years. it has now been 21! Keep the faith my friend!
This kind of videos are like the light in the middle of the darkness, thank you so much for this masterpiece.
I TOTALLY AGREE!!!
Whenever I get too much in my head about things that really aren’t as important or worrisome as I believe them to be I just listen to fearless soul and almost immediately I feel free ❤️
Yes Becoz if u hold on for things that seems unlikely to happen or just controlling u,,, u can't go anywhere..Letting go and moving on is vital ..And focus to what's next..
Be fearless in whatever situation you are in your life. Thanks very much.
True but lack of money will make you sad. I want more money so I can drive a better car that don’t break down regularly. Not worry about bills to pay ect.....
Some people worse off need more money to feed family properly.
So no more money is not about wanting more love in many cases.
This video instantly heals my soul. I am down to earth again and i see now how bllessed i am. No more complaining, no more negative research on the internet, no more conspiracy video's research,no more gossip. Just simple things that make me happy and make me feel genuine good. Love and care for the people arround me. I forgive everybody and i hope that everyone does the same regarding me. Our creator was also giving hints in various ways, but i understand it now. Thanks
Thank you God for this Message.
Thank you God Universe Angles
Hallelujah Praise the Lord Amen
I try to see things the way they are. Not the way I want it to be. I also accept everything life has to offer whether it's good or bad. Dwelling on the past was my worst bad habit. I don't do this anymore. Jump in with both feet even if you dont have a plan. If you just stand there and watch you will forever be a spectater. 😁
One doesn't need to be rich to be completely fulfilled or satisfied. If one feels happy or satisfied then one is a successful individual. I like what was said if one takes responsibility for one's actions. Instead of blaming others & that's what some do. When they don't want to deal with certain situations. Or they don't want to be accountable for their own mistakes. Having one's own mind even though there's times one might need to listen to reason.
This inspirational video came just in time when all I need is someone to remind me to let go of the past and focus on what I am having and strive for what I define a successful life.
Thank you for making this video! Greatly appreciate it!
Agreed!!!!
I’m HAPPY!...moving forward as someone still in my heart, but life still goes forward 😊😘
Be a proton and stay positive
Nah be neutron
Don't trust "Atoms"
....
They make up everything.
@@danyadler9177 life will not spend as neutral like neutron
@@Buki_sandwich it should be don't deny atoms they make everything 😀
*beta dacay*: I'm about to end this man's whole career.
No one will get the joke :(
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For me it is important all words that you talk about daily conversation. Thanks for teaching us.
The man who has no imagination has no wings ❤
Love this! I'm a new motivational TH-camr and I love finding positive videos on this platform! Keep spreading positivity!! Love it!
Poverty is much more of a mindset that it is a condition.
yep your poor if you dont have enough money you need to specifiy what kind of being poor
Poverty can be a machine that consumes one's soul. It can blind you to hope and possible escape routes.
I doubt a negative blamer of others would ever listen to this.
I agree that gossip is toxic and unbecoming, but I do know some extremely rich people, even millionaires, who do nothing for anyone but themselves, and lower income people who live to help others. To believe someone's worth or thoughts or habits are healthier simply because they are financially successful, is simply a very toxic thought in itself.
This video carries lot of meanings. Thanks
Yes. So right. Tell this to an ex friend of mine who did exactly what this video said as a toxic person. Amen. Feel so powerful right now!
I want money so I can do what I want, help who want, go where I want. I'm not a burden to others.
6. Believing that one can not live alone. Anybody can live without friends and without a mate. It is no longer a necessity to have people in your life in the 21st century.
I’m thankful this video was in my suggestions right now. The thought of needing someone to complete me was keeping me up all night last night.
Live...laugh...love and enjoy life to the fullest with contentment....Happiness & Greatness in feeling😘💕
With God in your 💖
He got a happy mind set and calm at peace with self
Many of us here prob grew up under these very false and harmful beliefs. Bravo for all of you who found your OWN path through truth and pursuit of happiness!
Feel less than. Only you can make yourself whole. Putting your quality of life in someone else’s hands who’s feelings are out of your control is insanity
Always get motivated by watching your videos..this one is also superb.😙😍
With going to God you 🙏 🙌 can complete 🙌 🙏 everything!!!
Money means freedom not happiness! Freedom of choice! Freedom to be and do whatever you choose, whenever you want! It also means security! At basic levels food, shelter and safty! Great mental attitude is essential but it wouldn't pay for my house where my children live! I don't need billions! Millions will be nice though 😉 Just enough not to struggle until the next pay cheque! I guess good health is essential for happiness! At least in my case! I can live with being penniless and working to improve it! But can't imagine being ill! I make for lack of money by enjoying being healthy!
Nora A Money = Freedom = Pursuit of Mental Health Recovery
If you need millions to get by comfortably then you are living beyond your means and conflating material wealth and extravagence with need. If you earn say 150k per year and live in a 4000 square foot house that cost 750k then you are doing it all wrong. It is crazy to me how so many people live wrecklessly, thinking because now they make more money that means they should live above their means. Always live below your means, so you can get out of debt quicker and having something to show for it when you retire. Just because everybody you know lives beyond their means and is stifled by exorbitant debt they may never escape, doesn't mean you need to be a good little mindless Lemming and follow them off a cliff.
Definition of freedom from Google -> "the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint." Money can never be freedom, as it is the restraint from doing something. How many times have you heard it said, "I cant afford (X)". Not to mention, real freedom is uncountable! This is why I continually point out, that capitalist minions have no idea what the word freedom even means.
I need billions if I want to buy a fast car and travel all over the world
@@rolfb6352 She's talking about basic human needs and freedom from oppression, you're talking about maintaining your delusional capitalist religion. Huge difference dumbass!
So true so real so love this all respect thanks for sharing.💯💞💯💞💯💞💯
"Believing everything you hear. Not having a mind of your own". Very inportant. My mom's though like this in contrast to keeping me back per my love for her. Choosing my relationships based on. Don't want a relationship with someone like this
All of these points are correct. When you get to the point where you realise this, you become a person who needs no one to validate them. You validate yourself.
Money is not important, yet we need it to pay our bill's, and it's very stressful if you can't pay your bill's.
Money is important
Money is important but it isn’t everything, remember in the end it means nothing
I tend to agree. The video missed an important point: many people seek money because they seek SECURITY, not necessarily love; for better or for worse.
You can be rich- rich in money 💰 rich in health- rich in love - rich in happiness - rich I friendship etc etc. you can be rich in life in so many different ways
AMERICA HAS TO RECEIVE THIS AS A PEOPLE IN ORDER FOR HUMANITY & EARTH TO MOVE FORWARD!
I think I needed to hear this. I've been questioning how to move on from a terrible situation however I'm perceiving whatever love I think is buried in those grains. I'm a valuable person. I'm actually writing these words in total tears because I realize I really have to own the responsibility of moving on. to where? to a more valuable me and that's only possible by leaving two toxic situations. one instance, two people really suffer in my wake. other, working under someone who has his own deeper things going on that manifest in the form of delusional lack.
I appreciate your help. I have no idea how TH-cam manages to drop these things so perfectly when I'm really in these states but I appreciate that as well. thank you.
I let go of these toxic beliefs years ago, and I'm a much happier person because of that.This is a great message in a simple video that everyone should be able to understand. I like the part about taking responsibility for yourself and your actions, it's a message you don't hear enough in today's world. Please, keep up the great work.
thank you
Happy thoughts and positive thoughts
I got to maintain a positive frame of mind and continue to work on myself.
Wow this targeted every aspect of my life .... life if you agree
wow , Great video, God bless you
"People that say money doesn't buy happiness don't know where to shop." - Jackie Gleason
@C R I guess they didn't know where to shop.
Money never buy happiness, life of purpose do.
@@fredmathey8689 money buys the opportunity for happiness.
Show me a guy who met the woman of his dreams living in a cardboard box and I'll show you a Hollywood fairytale.
@@easterbeast843 matt7:6 i am about to do that: give you diamond that you will reject and then attack me because you roots are not deep enougth to understand where i am caming from.
Listen i am that man that was living in a cartebord box with zero financial wealth then meet my dream girl!! So yes you have your answer. My sucess do not only depend on money, i was living a life of purpose and she came chasing me baby....i was living all the way in Africa villages helping the pooress as a missionary. She came all the way from europe n fall in love with the whole living with God purpose. No social media, no millions of friends.
Guess what? i am living the dream now doing the same thing around europe. Yes now i am on the medical field, the monetary sucess is growing but that has never been my focus and will never be. A life of purpose is. We been maried for 5 years, zero problem. Instand of caming after me pls brother humble yourself and learn something. Wonder why your type can not find a good women to marie because you believe in money which only attract the women that also think like you, law of attraction baby.
With love and respect, happy new year! Pls try something this year and you will be surprised to see how powerful you are with or without money.
Fred
@@fredmathey8689 wow, good for you and thanks for the reply.
It would be hard for me to change my thinking right or wrong, I avoid conversations that put myself out there when it comes to status. (And trust me it sucks, but by no means the worse in the grand scheme of things) I've become quite the master at it. Maybe I came off as too general.
Being successful start with in our heart
I really needed this video at this point in my life. I am about to make a huge transition and I am terrified. I need to let go and not gossip.
WOW I FEEL CLEANSED 🧜🏼♀️
Brilliant. Grateful. We're not immune from any of these. Daily practice and gratitude ....
Bitter truth....love it... keep it up man...
Traits of a Loser: "It wasn't my fault. I didn't do it." "I'll pay you next week."
The first part of my daily affirmation:
"I AM all and complete. I AM enlightened. I AM love. I AM wisdom. I AM understanding. I am an Immortal Spiritual Being having experiences in a physical world. I am grateful to the Universe for the love and wisdom that is already in my life. I attract the love and wisdom of the Universe so that I may better serve others and serve the Universe".
1. A little saying first that I have come up with... a motto if you will, then I'll open up about myself a little. (Fair warning I tend to be long winded)
"When backed into a corner, do not swing at those who put you there, reflect on how you got there, and then swing around." - Essentially let them become a figment of your past, make them wish they had seen what you are truly capable of, in a way yes this places a little bit of blame on them, but overall if you can reflect and swing around them you will be better off then you were when they put you in the corner so too speak. - Note how I said AROUND, not on them, proving them wrong is enough comeuppance for a lifetime. xP
As for that promised story: I was a loser after high school I didn't care about my life, I was in a figurative hole... a hell of my own making, and after 10 years of not having a job/life outside of my parents/me doing everything they wished of me, I finally landed a job that I absolutely loved, but sadly something happened that caused us both to part ways mutually/on somewhat good terms. I have fought depression pretty endlessly since leaving high school. Even though I wasn't chosen to be allowed to move on with the company I still thank them for the time/training they gave me. - I could have easily blamed them for this proverbial corner I am in at the moment, but instead of blaming them I have chosen to just use this time to better myself/push for a dream I forgot I had, I was far too lost in my own head/depression to snap out of it alone, sure I might not have threatened suicide during those times, but I would also be lying if I said I have never had those thoughts, albeit I always managed to stave them off, and fought that lie.
2. We shouldn't judge ANYONE by what they do for a living, their character/how they treat others is all I need to see about someone, there are some genuinely awesome people out there regardless of what they do for a living/where they are at in life.
3. *Cough* media - Too much energy wasted in believing everything you hear or read. We often have different experience/vantage points that if we observe can allow us to see, or react in a different way then the person who is blinded by the thick of it so too speak. - They have blinders on and only see how they might have been slighted/offended by a situation... it is a form of confirmation bias, and those on the outside can see often see how both parties reacted poorly, albeit yes sometimes 1 party is almost always more at fault than the other.
4. Before a recent relationship, I was feeling extremely lonely, and yea I thought I was better off with her in my life, but with everything that happened in the relationship, especially the waning "hours" of the relationship, and the recent sad attempt at reconnection, but the most transformative part was what happened in the days after the "break up." - I realized I really didn't need her in my life, sure it is nice to have someone to speak too, but if they aren't willing to listen to your troubles/things aren't mutual then yea... we really do not need a relationship. xD
5. Money? Hah... I am not allowing that to have a decision in what I am pursuing, I am pursuing my career choice because I WANT too, not because of money, I often wont apply to just any job, because I don't just want any job, I want to have a job I care about, I am not asking to make a difference in the world, but I know the importance of making a difference in a person's life/a company's life, and that is usually helped by someone who cares about what they are doing, and are sometimes willing to do the job for MUCH less. (NO I am not suggesting we ignore what others are making in our chosen profession, and we should NOT sell ourselves short, but when we are willing to take a job for much less and do the job at a fraction of the cost, it can show a significant willingness to remain/be the best you can be.)
Thank you....this video just came out when I need an answer, just in time
YES
5 Toxic Beliefs:
1. Blaming
2. Belief that successful people are greedy.
3. Believing everything you hear and gossiping.
4. You need other people to complete you.
5. It's all about money.
Truth about mind...and quality life ...just letting go negativity.
Sometimes action speak louder than word
Being satisfied and content is matter
It is this one Video I have been looking for... Ages. To tell me what it is holding my happiness. Thanks 🙏🏼🙏🏼 for uploading this highly insightful video which has the Power to change ones life better!!
Thanks for your video. This is extremely important. More important than anything else we hear. God bless you.
“He’s correct, you don’t need to make a bunch of money for your family. If you can afford help them going thru college and THAT IS IT! Let them make their life on their own.
Absolutely so very true in my opinion!
Always following to keep myself motivated!
Thanks Dr..Good lecture..
Good night
Expecting your great victory .
Happy to say I don't hold these beliefs as far as I'm aware
Every word. Is. a gem. Capable to. Change. Negativity. to. Positivity. OR. Failures. to. Success. In every. Field 💓Anugriheetosmi💓
You are that important o my fearless soul.... And deserve it all.... 🙏💕
It is like a godly behaviour...money without sacrifice, love & respect without any pecuniary part in return......it seems, in the social order, toxicity imbalance would remain and with the time toxicity may reduce, not evaporated....The next cycle is not too far to arrive
These are best ways to having a peaceful and happy life!
Is true thank you for sharing this video 🌹🌹
Thank God for this channel!
No.1 hit me hard, I make the same mistakes in relationships time and time again. Time for me to own up to it and make a change and take time out and change my ways so I'm better for the next lady who I meet. I had to have the best one I ever met walk away from me to finally admit I have been wrong this whole time.
I live this moment to the fullest
This is just so true that's why I was so unhappy with having so much money but I have all this love around me now and that's far better, thankyou
yes, don't blame anybody or anything or any circumstance blame yourself for anything and everything until you explode and die of guilt.
Voice and music pictures r extraordinary. ...tq t fearless team
Let the negative people and toxic people out of my life
This video really opened my eyes and mind to see new things. Great job sir, may God bless you
Every action had a reason and purpose