Speaking from a single woman. I don’t never look at anyone relationship as goals but I admire their communication, transparency, and honesty regarding their relationship and it’s truly inspiring. Thank Y’all for this and all the content for the culture.
As a married woman, I commend you on that bc folks always say "marriage goals", but you have NO idea on what happens behind closed doors nor what it took for that couple to reach that point in their relationship.
@@California-king I’m just now seeing this but to answer your question, I’m still working on myself And at my age I’ve come to a decision that when I do start dating it would be with intent because I would like to be married and all that other stuff so not to say that everything goes as planned but that’s how I am working towards that
When Devales said "I got married to serve", I was blown away. I'm a single woman and I have never heard a man had that view about marriage..oh damn man. This is a powerful statement he made. Many people go into marriage with the wrong intentions and then it fails.
yeah but you see he also said that he tends to forget shes his wife cause he talks to her like she's one of the guys. Calling her bro and my dude like you don't call your girl names that you call your homeboys.
@@faithwatkins7811 regardless of how she’s acknowledged/ referred to it’s very evident that they both realize that nothing means more to them then each other. It doesn’t take too long to know them before that’s picked up. I applaud their commitment
You already know what the haters mean. Their mad because they made it Hate their happiness And they want what they have for themselves. That's motivation....😉
@@SGTVbcuzz no you are very ignorant of the word! You can google the role of a woman in the Bible and the husbands role. Basic thinking don’t respond back until you do the research
@@LifeWithYah Are you using a recently redacted version of the Bible??? Because in my 1950 version, it states 'that women must submissive to their husband the same way the church is submissive to God.' But, people pick and choose what they want from the word and ignore the rest. Remember in genesis the wording of Eve as Adam's second wife??? Lilith was his first wife who didn't want to submit to God or Adam. Story goes that questioned God on why she should submit to Adam, and told God that she will never do so. She further stated that she will NEVER submit to any man. Take your time and look it up. Have a good day sister. But I would appreciate it if women would stop injecting feminism/womanism into The Word Of God.
💨💨💨💨It’s up to them to PROTECT their MARRIAGE not anyone else. ’ve watch them from time to time on their TH-cam Channel they BOTH seems like CloutChasers to me and their MARRIAGE seems FAKE like the Rest of the TH-camRS. He act as if he doesn’t want to be around her on some videos. Most of The MARRIAGE couples on YT seems as if their MARRIAGE is so GREAT but later they come on TH-cam announcing their divorce and admit that they have been living a lie by misleading us just for money. ......I am not HATING... Honestly I am not I just listen and see things. I hope they are receiving marriage counseling to better themselves.
I remember how Derrick Jaxn dragged Devale on his platform concerning the Monogamy topic Devale and Khadeen discussed on their podcast not knowing that all along this same Derrick Jaxn was having multiple extra-marital affairs. And, to top it off, the Jaxn character's true self of being a narcissist got revealed. God, indeed doesn't like ugly.
That's how it be cus the Universe will always reveal the truth and bring whatever you do to light especially in matters such as Derrick Jaxn case. Cus he was making all that 💰 pandering to woman about the type of no good man or how a man should value a woman when all alone his ass was the same type of guys he talked about to them.
I feel when they said don’t hold a person to that moment. I personally have never cheated on my wife and I’ve been married 19 years but we’ve had our issues. The beautiful thing is trying your best to making it work. Big shout out to these two.
@@patrickjjames5400 me too bro 11 years married wish we was close it would be nice to chill wit a homeboy who on what you on seem like it’s a rare breed
Agreed. It’s so great that they love and appreciate each other for who they are. People hate on it because they don’t have it themselves or don’t think they are deserving of it. It’s refreshing to see.
I am a London (UK) native and have been following the Ellises since they were in Brooklyn (Roro was a baby) and I have been following the Breakfast Club since 2012... Boi am I so proud to see this??!! My heart is soo full!!!
I remember years ago meeting Devale on this set for a TH-cam series that Khadeen was in and we were just chopping it up about life and finding your purpose. He’s a real down to earth dude and she’s such a sweet person. I’m Glad to see them on here.
I appreciate these two. I've been married 13 years, and some of the things D and K are admitting and taking ownership of, could really help this generation. I love..."not on brand!" Set the standard, and don't let down! God bless!
If you can’t submit to each other, definitely not ready for a marriage, yet alone a relationship. Y’all definitely speak the truth and stand to it, love y’all work.
People want a long lasting healthy relationship, but don’t want to put the work in! Like she said... we are seeing 19 years in the making. That’s what we always say! It takes WORK.
Your absolutely right... From a biblical stand point Colossians 3:18-21 states the order of the home. A marriage is no good if they both first don't submit to God and than to each other. If that is done the children will be cared for properly.
@@vatricegeorge , No, not necessarily. When you compare West Indians to Black Americans, West Indians are on another level. In other words, Oprah Winfrey and other talk shows (the whole talk show culture) would not do well in the Caribbean. We DO NOT chat our business !
She had to act like West Indian people know better than American blacks, that's how bs starts between us smdh. Talk show culture is not black people's thing period but it's a money making business in European culture
@@blazesimpson8830, I didn’t detect any sense superiority based on what she said. However, whatever the motive of the talk show culture is... be it money, fame, attention or simply a culture of ‘sharing’. Her point is as West Indians, we do not partake cause wi nuh chat fi wi business !!
I fell in love with them on IG... i did not know their background..and their background did not matter because they're awesome together. I pray that God continues to show them favor. Black Love Matters
I typically don’t look up to celebrities as “#relationshipgoals” yet, their love, transparency and authenticity is the exception to my rule. It’s the vibe with these two. I love it! 😍💖
😂😂😂😂😂You made me remember the army uniform Mrs. Jaxn had on 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. That's another level of brainwashing that the narcissistic Derrick Jaxn had done on that lady..
@@neit2talktalk120 That part!!!! Baby you don't know WHAT them people was doing back in the day....they just stayed together cause it was cheaper to keep her...half the time you don't find out about any extramarital affairs until folks are on their death bed or at the funeral...
I love hearing Devale say he knows he has to serve his wife!! *You are supposed to serve each other!* I’m 24 and I can tell you right now dating as a young woman is HORRIBLE. These new young men don’t know how to serve women and expect the world without giving anything while lacking everything.
@@jayclearmen411 nall she ain’t lying 🤥 she woke woke, it’s not the company she keeps, it’s a lot of single women due to the lack of fathers teaching their sons It’s a big gap
@@cupcakepatrice8418 nah I can’t agree with that statement... cuz I’ve seen things on the other side it’s way way way too many women running off their man/ trying to trap a guy in a relationship using a baby they getting scorned then using their men’s children to hurt em...on some spiteful petty vengeful shit lets keep it a 💯 that shit is way too common in the states. so forgive me if I don’t just believe u off rip..plus check the divorce stats it’s mainly women leaving 70-80 percent so that part of your statement is 🧢 that being said ppl need to be more accountable an responsible for who they lay with that goes double for women...if you aren’t 1000% sure dude wants to be a father the absolute worst thing you can do is force a baby on duke
tht’s why I love Devale. he accepts accountability and lot of dudes just dont.... My former spouse (rest. his soul) he was great communicator. can’t say with the present spouse...
I love them fir just being themselves and I love that Devale is not afraid to say when he has messed up or is wrong! Very admirable trait in a GROWN MAN and father.
These two are my cousins in my head. I don't put them on a pedestal and realize that no other couple will be #relationshipgoals for me, but I can appreciate their transparency and hustle.
I don’t think I’ve ever watched a full breakfast club episode until now, The Ellises are just great people and I am so proud of all they have accomplished. Just such a dope family and couple 🔥
how is he a simp for loving his wife? How is she too submissive when she's serving her husband? The internet is wild. Lotsa people speaking from no experience at all looking from the outside in. I hope this relationship keeps thriving.
People are used to dysfunction that's why. They're used to women being degraded. They're used to men having multiple baby mamas. They don't understand the science behind the family dynamic.
This interview was so entertaining, refreshing, and true!!! Love the authenticity and transparency of Devale and Khadeen. And they always come with the comedy ❤️❤️❤️
😂😂😂😂😂. Do you remember how Derrick Jaxn dragged Devale for his responses on the Monogamy topic he and Khadeen discussed on their podcast? Now we know for a fact that at the time Jaxn was dragging Devale for his comments (which was based on how unfair Khadeen had been treating him in that week), Derrick himself was having multiple extra-marital affairs. That guy is a two-faced narcissist.
I REALLY like them as a couple so this interview was refreshing and fun to listen to. Thank you TBC and Khadeen and Devale, we support yall!!!👏🏽💪🏽🤴🏽❤👸🏽
Just when I think I've heard all the stories, they hit me with another one! I genuinely love Devale and Khadeen and their family!! Y'all got a lifetime supporter right here... #Deadass
This was so refreshing to see that it brought a joyful tear to my eye. In a world where we spend so much time "reading each other for fifth" and telling all the "tea," this was a beautiful and refreshing sight to see. I loved watching every minute of this. May God continue to bless this beautiful union.
Whomever gave the thumbs down is Whack! I love these two and what they represent as a black, successful couple who have mastered the Unit Grind! Salutations to the Top!
I am proud of this interview as it portrayed our people, our marriage, our love and our men in a positive light. Word of God says a man that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Devale, CTG and Envy admitted that principal is true. God ‘s word will never return back to him void.
I love Khadeen and Devale. The Ellises and the Dead Ass Podcast are all that. I appreciate their honesty. I love their kids. Keep on doing what you are doing and showing us that black love is indeed beautiful.
Me and my husband have real conversations like this and it’s so freeing sometimes it can come off mean and crass but it’s still rooted in love and I wouldn’t trade us for the world
Nope cheating for a man is normal that’s why marriages last for so long sometimes a dog needs a new bone every now and then but will still come back to it’s owner
Facts! My older cousin has been married for 20 years, and he’s highly successful in the military. He’s told me plenty of times that he’s had the opportunity for some side pussy, but the risk of losing his kids wasn’t worth it to him. He didn’t want his kids to look at him crazy either
I can tell who is married and who is not in the comments. I like the fact both have parents and grandparents that are married. Fondation helps with marriage. Congratulations Ellis's.
Right! They have a strong support system, which makes all the difference in the world. A lot of ppl are broken when it comes to relationships (men and women) because they didn’t see this sort of dynamic growing up or saw nothing but dysfunction, so it’s foreign to them. Sad
Their podcast is really the shit I learn so much they just give me fun loving vibes and it’s beautiful to see a union be so positive. They really be teaching a lot thru their experiences and I love itttt . Love them
I truly love them, I love listening to their story and be comfortable, open and so regular with sharing their growth. Come up, and their families and goals. I admire them for helping showing what young marriage can look like.
I love the fact that they have such a great relationship but they don't act like they are perfect within their relationship. ❤♥️♥️ Thank you Khadeen and Devale for being real....
Love them and their children's book is the best! It breaks down systemic issues in a concise clear explanation that every age group can learn something from. The clearest timeline and a great foundational piece to journey into understanding. I look forward to seeing more from them.
I know what a simp is. This man is not a simp. And it's clear he has earned her trust enough for her to submit to him which she doesn't have to. Yall sound crazy.
Love the transparency and honesty between the two.The way they communicate and the Love they have for each other. No relationship is perfect but if you put in the work it will last. Nothing but growth here.
Their marriage relationship position is accurate to the scriptures in the bible. They are doing it the true way that we all should be doing according to The Most High. "Husbands love your wife", "wives submit to your husband". Their marriage is a refreshing ray of light and hope that marriage among our people can succeed in these times. All praises!! May The Most High continue to bless their marriage.
Wow! This was worth the wait. The Ellises never disappoint. Always honest, always sincere, always informative and always rathchet and righteous. Love it! I wish them much love and respect. 🇺🇸🇯🇲🇻🇨
Dear breakfast club..black culture is starving for this kind of content..raw, empowering, practical and relatable.
Agreed
WORD UP!
So true
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I fucking love Devale & Khadeen and this is one of the best breakfast club episode in a long time💯
💯‼️
Have you checked them out on TH-cam ? It’s called “ The Ellises “ I Love it .
@@jaeeluv 💪🏾
Got me in legit tears...it’s so real and restores hope
Yes it is.
Speaking from a single woman. I don’t never look at anyone relationship as goals but I admire their communication, transparency, and honesty regarding their relationship and it’s truly inspiring. Thank Y’all for this and all the content for the culture.
Why you single ?
@@California-king It is best not to ask sir.
As a married woman, I commend you on that bc folks always say "marriage goals", but you have NO idea on what happens behind closed doors nor what it took for that couple to reach that point in their relationship.
Facts!!
@@California-king I’m just now seeing this but to answer your question, I’m still working on myself And at my age I’ve come to a decision that when I do start dating it would be with intent because I would like to be married and all that other stuff so not to say that everything goes as planned but that’s how I am working towards that
When Devales said "I got married to serve", I was blown away. I'm a single woman and I have never heard a man had that view about marriage..oh damn man. This is a powerful statement he made. Many people go into marriage with the wrong intentions and then it fails.
I agree
His Dad serves his family, he was taught by example ❤️
He definitely made the point that his BEST FRIEND IS HIS WIFE! #trueintimacy
Love how he keeps saying my wife. My husband does that. They love saying it, makes them proud.
yeah but you see he also said that he tends to forget shes his wife cause he talks to her like she's one of the guys. Calling her bro and my dude like you don't call your girl names that you call your homeboys.
@@faithwatkins7811 regardless of how she’s acknowledged/ referred to it’s very evident that they both realize that nothing means more to them then each other. It doesn’t take too long to know them before that’s picked up. I applaud their commitment
@@ericafielder8134 yep- speaks those things continually and you eventually become them.
“Every time I focus on my business , my goals, and my woman I am successful!” #MESSAGE
Successful from not getting divorced
but women can’t do the same lololol
That needs to be on a shirt🤣
@@dumbeezy5480 yeah agree, if a women focused on her business that’s too unattractive 🤣🤣
That statement will make a good shirt and book.
The beauty in this genuine conversation.
Accountability, honesty, and partnership.
This is life.
I respect their relationship real talk. They're open about who they are, don't hide much and don't apologize about it even though they have haters
You already know what the haters mean.
Their mad because they made it
Hate their happiness
And they want what they have for themselves.
That's motivation....😉
The reciprocity of serving each other is so fruitful in a marriage. That’s what God intended it to be.
Only if u find the one for u
You’re wrong actually 😑 God intended on Woman serving Man...... period. And be fruitful in creation 😑🤷🏽♂️that’s it
@@SGTVbcuzz no you are very ignorant of the word! You can google the role of a woman in the Bible and the husbands role. Basic thinking don’t respond back until you do the research
@@LifeWithYah Are you using a recently redacted version of the Bible??? Because in my 1950 version, it states 'that women must submissive to their husband the same way the church is submissive to God.' But, people pick and choose what they want from the word and ignore the rest. Remember in genesis the wording of Eve as Adam's second wife??? Lilith was his first wife who didn't want to submit to God or Adam. Story goes that questioned God on why she should submit to Adam, and told God that she will never do so. She further stated that she will NEVER submit to any man.
Take your time and look it up.
Have a good day sister. But I would appreciate it if women would stop injecting feminism/womanism into The Word Of God.
@@bigh8121 one verse compared to how many about spousal roles lol
The authenticity of Devale and Khadee is what draws the world the Ellis family! salute
😱 real ppl
What I love about Devale is he funny as hell but he speaks with a message
💯
Protect this Marriage at all cost
Didn’t they just say not to put them on a pedestal??
because all it takes is for one of them to get caught cheating....
💨💨💨💨It’s up to them to PROTECT their MARRIAGE not anyone else. ’ve watch them from time to time on their TH-cam Channel they BOTH seems like CloutChasers to me and their MARRIAGE seems FAKE like the Rest of the TH-camRS.
He act as if he doesn’t want to be around her on some videos. Most of The MARRIAGE couples on YT seems as if their MARRIAGE is so GREAT but later they come on TH-cam announcing their divorce and admit that they have been living a lie by misleading us just for money. ......I am not HATING... Honestly I am not I just listen and see things. I hope they are receiving marriage counseling to better themselves.
@@willquoikapor lmfao I wasn’t talking to y’all🤡
Period!!!!!
Bruuhhh They made it to the Breakfast Club.... I love themmmmm yasssss
Whyyyyyy did I say just that 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🎊🎉🎉🎊✨✨
Exactly 🤍
Made it from where? Never heard of them before, but I like them
Yes!!! Growth...stay the course and it pays off!
SAME THING I SAID ... THEY MADE IT 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🎯
I remember how Derrick Jaxn dragged Devale on his platform concerning the Monogamy topic Devale and Khadeen discussed on their podcast not knowing that all along this same Derrick Jaxn was having multiple extra-marital affairs. And, to top it off, the Jaxn character's true self of being a narcissist got revealed. God, indeed doesn't like ugly.
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿That's A WORD RIGHT THERE!!
That's how it be cus the Universe will always reveal the truth and bring whatever you do to light especially in matters such as Derrick Jaxn case. Cus he was making all that 💰 pandering to woman about the type of no good man or how a man should value a woman when all alone his ass was the same type of guys he talked about to them.
yup 💪🏿
Woooow, that's crazy! We gotta be careful who and what we speak on?
I like how they never acknowledged Jaxn's response to that clip. He is a non factor with his jacked up life.
I feel when they said don’t hold a person to that moment. I personally have never cheated on my wife and I’ve been married 19 years but we’ve had our issues. The beautiful thing is trying your best to making it work. Big shout out to these two.
May God bless your union! 🙏🏼❤️
@@mrsb0215 Thank you 🙏🏽 much appreciated #blackloverocks
Congratulations 🍾🎊🎈🎉 I’m extremely proud of you for not cheating on your wife! It takes a real man to know himself
@@cupcakepatrice8418 thank you I’m just trying to stick to my vows and hold myself to standard.
@@patrickjjames5400 me too bro 11 years married wish we was close it would be nice to chill wit a homeboy who on what you on seem like it’s a rare breed
Man I love this couple! Solid, comedic fatherhood and classy modest motherhood! Salute! Thanks for being great examples!
DG!
Khadeen....modest? Nah
Agreed. It’s so great that they love and appreciate each other for who they are. People hate on it because they don’t have it themselves or don’t think they are deserving of it. It’s refreshing to see.
@@kj7682 oh dang fr, did I miss something?
@@jmodadon9981 my boy!!!!
I am a London (UK) native and have been following the Ellises since they were in Brooklyn (Roro was a baby) and I have been following the Breakfast Club since 2012... Boi am I so proud to see this??!! My heart is soo full!!!
I remember years ago meeting Devale on this set for a TH-cam series that Khadeen was in and we were just chopping it up about life and finding your purpose. He’s a real down to earth dude and she’s such a sweet person. I’m Glad to see them on here.
Cool
I appreciate these two. I've been married 13 years, and some of the things D and K are admitting and taking ownership of, could really help this generation. I love..."not on brand!" Set the standard, and don't let down! God bless!
If you can’t submit to each other, definitely not ready for a marriage, yet alone a relationship.
Y’all definitely speak the truth and stand to it, love y’all work.
He said he got married to serve oooo I left that 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍 yesssssss God is good!
Left Or FELT
@@Tno901 to pop and
Ain’t no god
Kevin Samuels laughing at your mindset
@@Katakurienergy Devale is the one that said it. So I guess KS would be laughing at this happily married man 🤔
This might be my favorite breakfast club interview since they came back to the studio.
th-cam.com/video/mlRq1J2iJkU/w-d-xo.html
Yaaasss💯
Definitely 🖤
Facts
OMG! 💯
People want a long lasting healthy relationship, but don’t want to put the work in! Like she said... we are seeing 19 years in the making. That’s what we always say! It takes WORK.
!! Yes!
💯💯💯💯💯 everybody want it already made but don’t wanna put in the work.
I remember in a sociology class I learned the kids shouldn’t be the #1 priority. People were so upset, but I understood it.
Your absolutely right...
From a biblical stand point Colossians 3:18-21 states the order of the home. A marriage is no good if they both first don't submit to God and than to each other. If that is done the children will be cared for properly.
Watching how they interact as a couple genuinely makes me smile.
Yesss you can see the genuine love
Meeeeeeee Too! Just A Beautiful ❤ Love Story!
As soon as she was raised in a West Indian household I already knew what she was going to say. "You don't tell people your business".
That’s like a universal black thing, black American and black African families have the same sentiment.
@@vatricegeorge , No, not necessarily. When you compare West Indians to Black Americans, West Indians are on another level. In other words, Oprah Winfrey and other talk shows (the whole talk show culture) would not do well in the Caribbean. We DO NOT chat our business !
She had to act like West Indian people know better than American blacks, that's how bs starts between us smdh. Talk show culture is not black people's thing period but it's a money making business in European culture
@@blazesimpson8830, I didn’t detect any sense superiority based on what she said. However, whatever the motive of the talk show culture is... be it money, fame, attention or simply a culture of ‘sharing’. Her point is as West Indians, we do not partake cause wi nuh chat fi wi business !!
Ahaha yes! I even said it with her ! Lol.. Jinx!!
Normalize talking about marriage issues..society make you feel like you have to be perfect in marriage or its not going to work
A lot of men don’t qualify for y’all to submit to and that’s an issue that brings a lot of conflict in marriages
@Nurse Mochaaa ur statement begs the question that human quality, and especially the quality of marriage, has dropped?
@Nurse Mochaaa I’m just asking a follow up question why ru getting so defensive? I feel like what u said was kind of broad
Exactly!
I’m not talking about our issues to others though lol not in regards to sex and what not lol
I admire these twos journey. From NFL, social media, TV roles, to The Breakfast Club. Def enjoyed watching their growth. A Brooklyn Love story
The transparency and accountability is everything ! I love the fact that they’re each other’s best friend ... that intimacy is special 💙
I fell in love with them on IG... i did not know their background..and their background did not matter because they're awesome together. I pray that God continues to show them favor. Black Love Matters
I typically don’t look up to celebrities as “#relationshipgoals” yet, their love, transparency and authenticity is the exception to my rule. It’s the vibe with these two. I love it! 😍💖
I hear ya
*relationshipgoals
@@Tess.Mushaka thanks
The energy between this couple vs. Derrick Jaxn n his wife!lol Energy dont lie
You ain’t shit for this comment 😂
😬😬😬
😂😂😂😂😂You made me remember the army uniform Mrs. Jaxn had on 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. That's another level of brainwashing that the narcissistic Derrick Jaxn had done on that lady..
@@KharisB.A I know Derrick wish Iyanla was still around to fix his life and get a check.lol ha
@@KharisB.A that poor girl 😬😂😂
I'm ready for them to win! This is black excellence for real 👏🏾🙌🏾
@VCres1000 I wasn't talking specifically about the cheating. But the partnership, legacy building, is def respected.
@VCres1000 TF??
@VCres1000 you THINK they haven't cheated 🤣🙃
@@neit2talktalk120 That part!!!! Baby you don't know WHAT them people was doing back in the day....they just stayed together cause it was cheaper to keep her...half the time you don't find out about any extramarital affairs until folks are on their death bed or at the funeral...
I learn SOOO much from them, it’s crazy! Not just in relationships: in business, in friendships, in purpose, in LIFE.
THANK YOU, ELLISES! ❤️
Omg how can you not love these two, they are truly authentic, so real and loving....they aren't perfect but they make it work for their family!!!
I love their family dynamic, love the way their raising their boys!
I peeped that too, I like they move too I respect that to the fullest.. fr
I love Khadeen and Devale... Dead Ass! 😁🙂
I love hearing Devale say he knows he has to serve his wife!! *You are supposed to serve each other!* I’m 24 and I can tell you right now dating as a young woman is HORRIBLE. These new young men don’t know how to serve women and expect the world without giving anything while lacking everything.
I guess..👀u need to check yourself or the company you keep cuz that is crazy
I’m old but I’m so glad me and my husband schooled our daughters
@@jayclearmen411 nall she ain’t lying 🤥 she woke woke, it’s not the company she keeps, it’s a lot of single women due to the lack of fathers teaching their sons
It’s a big gap
@@cupcakepatrice8418 nah I can’t agree with that statement... cuz I’ve seen things on the other side it’s way way way too many women running off their man/ trying to trap a guy in a relationship using a baby they getting scorned then using their men’s children to hurt em...on some spiteful petty vengeful shit lets keep it a 💯 that shit is way too common in the states.
so forgive me if I don’t just believe u off rip..plus check the divorce stats it’s mainly women leaving 70-80 percent so that part of your statement is 🧢
that being said ppl need to be more accountable an responsible for who they lay with that goes double for women...if you aren’t 1000% sure dude wants to be a father the absolute worst thing you can do is force a baby on duke
Kevin Samuels needed.
I feel like this is one of the only interviews where the interviewees actually just talked... not a lot of questions were needed 🤞🏽 BLOOM Ellises 🦋
I dont look up to couples but this is my favorite REAL couple right here! Respect
tht’s why I love Devale. he accepts accountability and lot of dudes just dont.... My former spouse (rest. his soul) he was great communicator. can’t say with the present spouse...
Smh
humility and compassion is rare in a man. I'm one of them lol. Happily married 24 years.
Girlll
Why are you still married to the current spouse?
These two are my faves. It’s the honesty and the mutual respect that I simply appreciate.
Fr
I love them fir just being themselves and I love that Devale is not afraid to say when he has messed up or is wrong! Very admirable trait in a GROWN MAN and father.
These two are my cousins in my head. I don't put them on a pedestal and realize that no other couple will be #relationshipgoals for me, but I can appreciate their transparency and hustle.
Same here I told them their my new adopted family.
I don’t think I’ve ever watched a full breakfast club episode until now, The Ellises are just great people and I am so proud of all they have accomplished. Just such a dope family and couple 🔥
how is he a simp for loving his wife? How is she too submissive when she's serving her husband? The internet is wild. Lotsa people speaking from no experience at all looking from the outside in. I hope this relationship keeps thriving.
People are used to dysfunction that's why. They're used to women being degraded. They're used to men having multiple baby mamas. They don't understand the science behind the family dynamic.
Because most women think men are disposable and just use them as foolish simps, especially in marriage.
And these people ain’t got NO marriage or proposal in NOBODY future. And they wonder why.
@@kkgreen7946 Your comment cracked me up 😂😂😂😂. It's true though
@@thagrandpubah but this isn’t the case and it’s hard to do that in a marriage unless the man just doesn’t care anymore
I appreciate the honesty of the monogamy clip. It was so honest. They both were.
This interview was so entertaining, refreshing, and true!!! Love the authenticity and transparency of Devale and Khadeen. And they always come with the comedy ❤️❤️❤️
Khadeen and devale need their own show ASAP!
LOVE THEM!
Such a natural conversation. They were so excited to be back in NYC.
I love their energy. The family, business and team structure is amazing.
I love how he says, "he is here to serve his wife" This right here.... Is the game changer for relationships!!!
I got mad respect for Khadeen and Devale. Love them!
I love their balance. They're both very attractive and could do whatever they want but they choose each other. Dope stuff.
Derrick Jaxn is watching and taking notes so he can do a rebrand.
😂😂😂😂😂. Do you remember how Derrick Jaxn dragged Devale for his responses on the Monogamy topic he and Khadeen discussed on their podcast? Now we know for a fact that at the time Jaxn was dragging Devale for his comments (which was based on how unfair Khadeen had been treating him in that week), Derrick himself was having multiple extra-marital affairs. That guy is a two-faced narcissist.
@@KharisB.A Exactly!!!!
@@bigh8121 bro you ruthless for it lol but i respect it because he had no place to judge with every skeleton homie had in his closet lol
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I REALLY like them as a couple so this interview was refreshing and fun to listen to. Thank you TBC and Khadeen and Devale, we support yall!!!👏🏽💪🏽🤴🏽❤👸🏽
Ni**a WE made it!! Ayyeeee my favorite couple the Ellises 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 So excited for what’s to come for y’all, super proud ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
Just when I think I've heard all the stories, they hit me with another one! I genuinely love Devale and Khadeen and their family!! Y'all got a lifetime supporter right here... #Deadass
Great example of breaking generational curses in a black marriage I love these two will be tuning in to their podcast regularly
This was so refreshing to see that it brought a joyful tear to my eye. In a world where we spend so much time "reading each other for fifth" and telling all the "tea," this was a beautiful and refreshing sight to see. I loved watching every minute of this. May God continue to bless this beautiful union.
Whomever gave the thumbs down is Whack! I love these two and what they represent as a black, successful couple who have mastered the Unit Grind! Salutations to the Top!
Just love them - First interview I've watched without skipping around. So happy for their prosperity. Everyone has a story tell....make yours amazing!
MY FAVORITE FAMILY, I have been waiting for them to be on the show for years.
Lets us all be that fave family. We need to take accountability and be better
Just love their energy sooo much. The awareness they discovered within themselves and each other is profound! So important and worthy 🙌
not one down point in the interview....#golden#
I am proud of this interview as it portrayed our people, our marriage, our love and our men in a positive light. Word of God says a man that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Devale, CTG and Envy admitted that principal is true. God ‘s word will never return back to him void.
Amen
I love Khadeen and Devale. The Ellises and the Dead Ass Podcast are all that. I appreciate their honesty. I love their kids. Keep on doing what you are doing and showing us that black love is indeed beautiful.
That birth control libido thing is real, kudos to him for being an understanding husband
Omg
Me and my husband have real conversations like this and it’s so freeing sometimes it can come off mean and crass but it’s still rooted in love and I wouldn’t trade us for the world
Awww continued blessings to y’all!
I like their transparency BUT You can be with someone for long and NOT cheat on them. Cheating on your spouse is NOT normal!!
Cheating is the norm. But it's still wrong. Cheating is wrong.
Nope cheating for a man is normal that’s why marriages last for so long sometimes a dog needs a new bone every now and then but will still come back to it’s owner
@@danieltatum4220 men and dogs are different things buddy. we are humans, dogs are animals lol
Facts! My older cousin has been married for 20 years, and he’s highly successful in the military. He’s told me plenty of times that he’s had the opportunity for some side pussy, but the risk of losing his kids wasn’t worth it to him. He didn’t want his kids to look at him crazy either
@@SkywalkerGhost Exactly and Its way easier to do if you are a christian. Glad to hear he didnt
I can tell who is married and who is not in the comments. I like the fact both have parents and grandparents that are married. Fondation helps with marriage. Congratulations Ellis's.
Right! They have a strong support system, which makes all the difference in the world. A lot of ppl are broken when it comes to relationships (men and women) because they didn’t see this sort of dynamic growing up or saw nothing but dysfunction, so it’s foreign to them. Sad
Wow! I didn't know he was Omari's stunt double.
Yup
Neither did I
I'm in
me neither, that is so interesting
I’m so proud and happy for them. Couldn’t stop smiling during this interview. Congratulations Khadeen and Devale
They like the real life Derwin and Melanie
YES!!
Facts
Derwin was the greatest simp of all time , how is tht a good thing and Melanie was uppity feminist trash?
You Dig
Swear to god
This couple is the truth. Such a great example for black families/marriage!!!
They dropped some Gems!! She is his wingman, FOR REAL. Every time he had a "crazy" idea she supported and pushed him. Love this.❤
Right, I noticed that. He’s a great leader and she’s a great supporter.
Their podcast is really the shit I learn so much they just give me fun loving vibes and it’s beautiful to see a union be so positive. They really be teaching a lot thru their experiences and I love itttt . Love them
I truly love them, I love listening to their story and be comfortable, open and so regular with sharing their growth. Come up, and their families and goals. I admire them for helping showing what young marriage can look like.
I love the fact that they have such a great relationship but they don't act like they are perfect within their relationship. ❤♥️♥️ Thank you Khadeen and Devale for being real....
Love khadeen and devale they teaching the younger population so much! Hope their family keeps striving and WINNING!
Devale is IT ! The accountability and whew lawd 😭❤️ she is lucky!
Love them and their children's book is the best! It breaks down systemic issues in a concise clear explanation that every age group can learn something from. The clearest timeline and a great foundational piece to journey into understanding. I look forward to seeing more from them.
I know what a simp is. This man is not a simp. And it's clear he has earned her trust enough for her to submit to him which she doesn't have to. Yall sound crazy.
Love the transparency and honesty between the two.The way they communicate and the Love they have for each other. No relationship is perfect but if you put in the work it will last. Nothing but growth here.
I would love to see Khadeen and Devale, and Envy and Gia on a POSITIVE reality show.
Yassssss!!!🙌🏾
Can we throw remy and pap in?
@@Justme12369 YESS!!!!
@@Justme12369 yes and I’ll even say Yandy & Mendeecees!!!!!!
@@mzflygalrose0228 Let's trade them for Denzel & his wife. We need a old school couple
Breakfeast club need to invite them on the show more often❤🔥🔥
This the most perfect interview!
It touches every single area of life !
Their marriage relationship position is accurate to the scriptures in the bible. They are doing it the true way that we all should be doing according to The Most High. "Husbands love your wife", "wives submit to your husband". Their marriage is a refreshing ray of light and hope that marriage among our people can succeed in these times. All praises!! May The Most High continue to bless their marriage.
Stop making me want a relationship, I am over here trying to enjoy my hermit ass life. lol
😩😩😩frfr
You are too beautiful for that life !!! Lol
This is my life as a Virgo 🤣
I'm a Virgo too lol. Not about that alone life ha ha
Right. I’m a cancer . Too crabby for a relationship
I’m so proud to see how much they have accomplished together...I love them but who are the 21 dislikes 🤦🏽♀️
People that are haters and hate black love families and success. It’s more than 21 losers out there trust! Sad but true.
Haters smh! Good ALWAYS outweighs the bad!
Haters hate.....
Haters
People That Hate! On Love!❤ but, Enjoy Negativity!
Omg I knew they would be here someday this is crazy! I LOVE THEM
Wow! This was worth the wait. The Ellises never disappoint. Always honest, always sincere, always informative and always rathchet and righteous. Love it! I wish them much love and respect. 🇺🇸🇯🇲🇻🇨
"life is so much more peaceful when you choose to be monogamous"... So true
Love their transparency. People only see the success, but don't understand the journey that led to successful relationships.
Seeing Devale got me hoping Zac gets his act together with Fatima! #SistasOnBET
I was thinking the same exact thing #SistasOnBET
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Fatima not Karen, Leave Karen alone
Chillllleeeeee ......
I scrolled past this twice then something brought me back to it. I'm glad I listened. Good topics...Good couple.
They made it to TBC! This is lit. Bring them back DEAD ASS ❤️😂
They do the pod as a couple?
@@DannyPrinceBluu yes
@@DannyPrinceBluu Yes, it's really insightful, too.
@@siewitnessnews I’d try that with my shorty but.... let’s just say it’s safer when me and the guys POD😂
This is such an adult conversation. I love it!
Being open honest and transparent I freaking love it
Get u a Devale!!! Not Devale but “A Devale”!!!!💯
Emphasis on “NOT Devale” because some people need the reminder 😂😂
Lol....🎯🎯👍🏽
He is not the standard, be quiet.
@@Garnetg777 you read way too much into that. I said nothing abt being the standard... I said what I said!!
I love them,! The purity and the honesty of their relationship is a good representation for our black families 🖤
These 2 were put together by God... thank you for your beautiful ministry! love from #SouthAfrica