What is Trauma? Episode 9

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ส.ค. 2024
  • Sandeep Maheshwari is a name among millions who struggled, failed and surged ahead in search of success, happiness and contentment. Just like any middle class guy, he too had a bunch of unclear dreams and a blurred vision of his goals in life. All he had was an undying learning attitude to hold on to. Rowing through ups and downs, it was time that taught him the true meaning of his life.
    To know more, log on to www.sandeepmaheshwari.com
    Facebook: / sandeepmaheshwaripage
    Instagram: / sandeep__maheshwari
    Twitter: / sandeepseminars

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  • @the_bhartiya_spirit
    @the_bhartiya_spirit ปีที่แล้ว +222

    Having toxic parent was a disaster for me. Lost self-confidence , Focusing ability, became emotionally weak and lot more..... but i am dealing with it everyday and one day i Will make my life better and best...🙏

    • @JD-je1sw
      @JD-je1sw ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Bro just wanna say that I'm so proud of you for helping yourself to be the best version of you ... I'm glad sending u lot of best wishes and super successful life in the moment itself

    • @the_bhartiya_spirit
      @the_bhartiya_spirit ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JD-je1sw thanks brother 💗

    • @kunalprajapati0007
      @kunalprajapati0007 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      all best to you brother we all are facing this

    • @shreyagoyal6173
      @shreyagoyal6173 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Can we just connect and share and get out of trauma?

    • @the_bhartiya_spirit
      @the_bhartiya_spirit ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shreyagoyal6173 we can..

  • @skillsforself9965
    @skillsforself9965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    All mental suffering is somehow connected to our childhood. You may call childhood trauma as the original wound or cause of other forthcoming traumas later on.
    Learning about the basics of trauma was informative. It would make the video thousand times more beneficial & if childhood trauma was covered here.

    • @skillsforself9965
      @skillsforself9965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @VladtheImpaler Indeed, that's very true. It's a fact & it has well researched evidence. Psychologists like Freud, Erich Fromm & many classic psychoanalysts have also said so.

    • @mysterious9731
      @mysterious9731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @BowingBliss
      @BowingBliss ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I faced trauma or PTSD after my breakup and it's long lasting effects are still present. For example, according to my parents, unlike me, youngsters of my age get a job to settle down with their partners and some even have a kid. Infact sometimes I feel if I start taking fines from people for insulting me/misbehaving with me then I will become the richest person on earth 😂.

  • @mohitbg7
    @mohitbg7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +626

    *SESSION HELPER:*
    00:02 What is Trauma? What are its types?
    _( Acute, Chronic, Complex and Secondary/ Vicarious)_
    03:22 What is *PTSD* (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) ?
    04:15 What is it's root cause? How can some bounce back but some don't?
    05:36 What is *Resilience* ?
    08:13 How can we develop Resilience? _( Find a Support, Face Your Feelings, Self Care)_
    09:37 What is the exact definition of Resilience?
    11:37 What should be it's definition by Sandeep Sir? ( 14:11 Example 1, 15:03 Example 2, 16:49 Example 3)
    _(There is always a way out. Stop Trying, Start Thinking)_
    17:35 Is Hard Work= Resilience? How can I feel happy even when I am stressed up or stuck in problem?
    26:24 Why is *discussion* better than a support or authority ?
    30:00 When Sandeep Sir solved my(your) problem?
    31:00 _Resilience= Adaptability+ Creativity(solution oriented mindset)_ & *Adaptability* v/s *Creativity*
    35:32 Psychologist's take on Sandeep Sir's opinion _( Resilience means Intelligence and Emotional Intelligence)_ _CBT-Stress Inoculation_ _(__39:51__ Einstein's Example)_
    42:12 Topic for Next Session: *Fear*
    Remember: *Solution doesn't mean entire solution but it can also mean a step closer to solution.*
    *AASAN HAI?AASAN HAI!* 😊

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    • @harshvardhan9212
      @harshvardhan9212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hats off to you man...🙌

    • @code720
      @code720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thanks man.

    • @goodmorningstories790
      @goodmorningstories790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@code720 you are good that why you appreciating his, you know the value of work. because good people do best

    • @IshaSharma11
      @IshaSharma11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks

  • @MadhavS9045
    @MadhavS9045 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    To all those who believe sandeep Maheshwari is Motivational speaker.. He is not.. He is Psychology himself. Lots of respect sir.. You have changed my life and my perspective. I am way happier than before.❤❤❤❤

  • @sohamswami7770
    @sohamswami7770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    “We suffer more in imagination than in reality.”
    - Seneca (Roman Statesman & Stoic Philosopher)

    • @mysa4380
      @mysa4380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      True, that's happening to me 😔

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    • @Goal.Setters.Academy..
      @Goal.Setters.Academy.. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @abhishektiwarii2360
      @abhishektiwarii2360 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@mysa4380 me also have any solution bcz I haven't

    • @studyhard6402
      @studyhard6402 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@mysa4380 same as me and i dont know how to get out of it 😭

  • @oumshantyadav3739
    @oumshantyadav3739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    Sandeep Maheshwari Sir is one of the greatest philosophers of this time. He is preparing next generations of India in good direction.

    • @its_alveera_naaz
      @its_alveera_naaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@truePac47 no let me see

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      @financialliteracy8729 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @ccccxxxx2504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @ritiksinghteam
      @ritiksinghteam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You must listen to Sadhguru ji

    • @oumshantyadav3739
      @oumshantyadav3739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ritiksinghteam I have listened Sadguru. Sadguru has no clarity whatever he speaks about. Sadguru talks what he has readen from many books.

  • @technicalaakash1689
    @technicalaakash1689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Log paise leker wo education dete hai jo ki useless hai (exception is always their )yaha per wo knowledge milti hai jiski value hi nahi lagai ja sakti wo bhi free me
    Thank you so much sir ❤❤

  • @importantstuff3370
    @importantstuff3370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    This session is so so helpful I can't really explain. I am suffering from depression, anxiety and chronic PTSD this session gave me a ray of hope

    • @ankush9056
      @ankush9056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same bro get well soon

    • @SageWhisperz
      @SageWhisperz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ankush9056 i have suicidal thoughts

    • @importantstuff3370
      @importantstuff3370 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ankush9056 thank you so much dear 😊

    • @Whoami-kn4lk
      @Whoami-kn4lk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      are you guys okay now??

    • @importantstuff3370
      @importantstuff3370 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Who am i? not exactly bro but better

  • @digitalvidya3636
    @digitalvidya3636 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sandeep Ji, I am suffering with Trauma for last few months and it really made my life terrible. I am searching for the solution for a long time but could not find the right place. But today you explained everything in a very easy way how one can come out this trauma. Thank you sandeep ji once again. God bless you always.

  • @bhawanatyagi4940
    @bhawanatyagi4940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Have seen so many videos of motivational speakers/ life coaches
    But there is actually no one like him..
    Blessed to have Sandeep Maheshwari in this generation 🙌🙌

  • @jahnavirai9443
    @jahnavirai9443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I have watched all the episodes and believe me I just impressed by that girls patience and understanding while listening to everything...... like wow

    • @Seeker369_
      @Seeker369_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Un logo ne itna kuch discuss kiya usse bhi kuch sikh leti, sirf lady ko he observe kar rhi thi🤧😂

    • @dolly12128
      @dolly12128 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Mai bhi kuch past ki cheeze hai jinko lekar pareshan rehti hu...

  • @Moumita2003
    @Moumita2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    ☘️ understand the problem
    ☘️ Discuss the problem with someone
    ☘️ Don't be compromise
    ☘️ To be intelligent
    ☘️ You are the best person understand,
    how to handle your situation.
    ☘️ Relax and peace of mind..
    ☘️ Work on your stress
    ☘️ Find out and research your actual problems

  • @easyrecipes4295
    @easyrecipes4295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I love the fact how Sandeep Sir is not satisfied until the solution becomes simple 😅

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  • @SujalJani_IIT_Goa
    @SujalJani_IIT_Goa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Summary of today's session is :
    1) Understand what the problem actually is
    2) Keep in mind that every problem has many solution's, so find easiest solution.
    3) Adapt(compromise) that problem for sometime untill you find that easiest solution.
    4) When you wil adapt or say will make a compromise to that proplem untill you find thatbeasiest solution, you will be in stress and to be stress free, do meditaion i.e listen to sound of silence and surrender yourself to it.

  • @priyaldwivedi1701
    @priyaldwivedi1701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dear Sir, Aapka yeh Quote baar baar mujhe Trauma se bahar nikaal laata hai.."Jab log Aapko Daud karke hara nahi paate toh Tod karke harane ki koshish karte hain "Thankyou Very much Sir.. Dil se.. Bhaut saaraa Pyar .. :)

  • @dharma524
    @dharma524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Biggest Take way from session, let Sandeep sir to plant a seed in your mind deeply that “Every kind of problem has MULTIPLE SOLUTIONS” when this thought will grow, you will rise up again and again, whenever life falls you you fight back every single time. cheers🙏

  • @maybeabhiknows750
    @maybeabhiknows750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you Sandeep Maheshwari for doing this session. I even consulted a psychologist. But didn't find anything helpful. This conversation was really helpful. It's a guide for me. Thanks a lot!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kajalyadav9794
    @kajalyadav9794 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Jo Insaan sabse ladne ka dam rakhta hai vahi aksar apno se haar jata hai 💔🙌

  • @sofie_77
    @sofie_77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Thank you so much for this. I am going through trauma and exactly what you guys said I am waiting to become financially independent and just rush out of this toxic houses as soon as possible 🙏

    • @gunguntiwari1607
      @gunguntiwari1607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here🙌& I really wish you become free n independent ASAP !!☺️✨

    • @10xsuccess20
      @10xsuccess20 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

    • @10xsuccess20
      @10xsuccess20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kya aap sach me Ghar diye the aur ab tak Kitna badlav aapko life me

    • @10xsuccess20
      @10xsuccess20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Main same chij se gujar RHA hu lekin Ghar chhode dar lag RHA hai

    • @tanishkagupta6864
      @tanishkagupta6864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm also suffering through this . Can we talk about this exactly what you feel ? Please

  • @saleemtobe-fit1533
    @saleemtobe-fit1533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm a yoga instructor 🇵🇰🧘✅
    Very very important topic
    I appreciate you and your Team Sir
    Keep it up 🌹🧘🧘🌹

  • @Antisocialbeing
    @Antisocialbeing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The way they both explain the things just make me so calm and relaxed. This was something I was looking for so many days . I am so grateful to both of them to clear up my mind ❤️

  • @pankajkaushik4699
    @pankajkaushik4699 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I am 24 year old , maine itna toxic environment dekha h apni life mein ki ab bahr aane ki hr kosis kr rha hun

  • @SubhadaSadangi
    @SubhadaSadangi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When mam gave that girl's exemple i felt that😔. Thank you so much to Sandeep sir for being a light for me in the darkness.🙏♥️

  • @asrafulmolla2449
    @asrafulmolla2449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "What Ever Doesn't Kill Me,
    Make Me Stronger"
    -Neitzsche Frederick.

  • @pratiknikam2543
    @pratiknikam2543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sandeep sir knowledge is base on practical experience and psychiatrists knowledge base on book..

  • @nujidmalik6012
    @nujidmalik6012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Exactly the as sir said we can't bounce back instantly
    I am also suffering from trauma alone litrely alone no family members arre supporting me and what no one
    There is an family pressure
    N I think what about my dream I think what about my studies I feel what about the responsibility on me
    Litrely alot of things
    Iam breakdown now at this moment in my life 💔
    Inshallah my best days will come soon
    Aameen ❤️

    • @iqrahassan3955
      @iqrahassan3955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hello ...are you oky ?

    • @nujidmalik6012
      @nujidmalik6012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iqrahassan3955 hey dud thanks for asking alhamdulillah ism good ❣️

    • @iqrahassan3955
      @iqrahassan3955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nujidmalik6012 actually I am feeling the same way you felt at some point....hope so I also recover soon

    • @Selfcare_uns
      @Selfcare_uns 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same, just be ur own doctor who treat well

  • @payelsaha6259
    @payelsaha6259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hv watched almost all of your video.but this one is the deepest and most important and needed topic u hv touched, discussed and brought out the one and only effective approach to deal with the life's most deadliest problem.everybody says we need a god to save ourselves to give us strength moreover right direction,I basically don't believe in existence of God but we hv u sir.that could be the most perfect example of God.thank you sir for guiding us with ur knowledge without any selfish motives.nd thats the perfect definition of God to me.thank you again.

  • @unknown-tk7lf
    @unknown-tk7lf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Sir bohot baar apne boundaries ko maintain karne k liye stand lene se fayada nahi hota balki log aur zyada impose kar dete hain...iss haal mein kuch innovative sochna bhi mushkil ho jata hai magar innovation hi nikale ga..

  • @ZzzZzz-ke5nd
    @ZzzZzz-ke5nd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    What I felt or learnt from this episode is " when you are announcing at the end that next session will be about this or that topic. I feel that in subconscious mind I am alert to know something exciting and I feel happy inside. May be this is because a loop of learning or happiness is created in our mind which then eventually becomes our habit. "😀

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    • @priyakaramchandani1415
      @priyakaramchandani1415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thats called your own 'curiosity' to learn about new topics,its not a loop.

    • @darshankawalkar9072
      @darshankawalkar9072 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@priyakaramchandani1415 ye bhi ek taraha ka addiction hai :)

    • @priyakaramchandani1415
      @priyakaramchandani1415 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@darshankawalkar9072 OK

    • @lucky4uthevlog239
      @lucky4uthevlog239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aise guru sb ko mile zindagi zannat ban jayengi☺❤❤

  • @hlsh-j8e
    @hlsh-j8e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    " मुस्कुराते " रहा करो ... " उदास " रहने से कौन सा .. " जिंदगी " कि " परेशानीयाँ " सही हो जाएगी .. !! 😇😊

    • @mahiya_ff
      @mahiya_ff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😊😇

    • @ashishrajput5215
      @ashishrajput5215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agar pareshani mai muskurayenge toh dard zyada badh jaata hai

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    • @divyarajwanshi2031
      @divyarajwanshi2031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ashishrajput5215 agreed

    • @ashishrajput5215
      @ashishrajput5215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@divyarajwanshi2031 hope so.

  • @rooma25
    @rooma25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sandeep Sir explained the true meaning of resilience 👏👏🙏🙏

  • @sumit12349
    @sumit12349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    No Words to express feelings i had after watching this video, open my eyes and now am able to see that I am fighting with me only so called never give up approach,
    In true now I realised there is no problem only thing it is how I seen and interprete all situation,
    Now automatically answers coming from my mind.
    I feel that we First really want is clarity.
    I finding solutions for problems ,which are not actually a problem😧

  • @bablusuneja6811
    @bablusuneja6811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    ...The best and positive thing about 🙏Sandeep sir🙏 is that many do not promote any wrong things...
    ...In today's time, these things are found in very few people...

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  • @soulfulmusic7194
    @soulfulmusic7194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I can't express that this video is sooo soo helpful for me because unknowingly I always live in mentally, socially,and relationship trauma

  • @litzz9773
    @litzz9773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I m very blessed to learn from these Videos in my teens
    Thanks you Sandeep Sir❤️

  • @SupriyaPoddar
    @SupriyaPoddar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You can not change your Future
    But you can change your habits
    And your habit will definitely
    Change your Future ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @ayushrawat3431
    @ayushrawat3431 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    SM : *invites a counselor* then continues the counseling himself.
    Girl : Ach toh Mai chalti hoon. 😂

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    • @VijayNK999
      @VijayNK999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      #hawkmotivation

    • @universe2600
      @universe2600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha

    • @monicatalks78
      @monicatalks78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True Ayush 😂 but believe you me, uptil now, I did not like his videos much but this one, is bang on right interpretation to PTSD, that is developing solution oriented mindset.

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  • @hlsh-j8e
    @hlsh-j8e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    आपके ही जैसा सच्चा ईमानदार हमारे देश के सभी नेता होते तो आज हमारा भी देश 🇮🇳अमेरिका , जापान और चीन से बहुत आगे होता,,,, 💪💪🙏🙏🙏

    • @bangtanbullets_7368
      @bangtanbullets_7368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      South Korea also bro

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    • @letstalktoyou7975
      @letstalktoyou7975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We always said about gov but we don't recognise our own dust for nation not for nation even for us .. if we do real n right way than our nation also be as lik other .. bcoz main things of their ppl are active n responsable ...but here anything happen all r watching to gov only ..

    • @goodmorningstories790
      @goodmorningstories790 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      यह वो institution hai yaha sab पड़ने आते,
      संदीप जी वो दरिया है यहां से सब अपनी प्यास बुझाने आते है,
      जहा पर स्टूडेंट तो क्या टीचर भी पढ़ने आते है।
      संदीप जी को भारत रत्न पुरस्कार मिले या न मिले,
      लेकिन ये भारत के रत्न कहलाते है।
      और एक बात कड़वी but सच्ची,
      ऐसे लोग सदियों बाद धरती पर आते है
      After Viveka nand, welcome to world sir,
      भारत की तरफ से: आप अनमोल हो I
      I love you,
      This video for you, आपको ये वीडियो define karti hai.
      मैं अच्छे लोगों का सम्मान करता हूं और करता रहूंगा।
      अगर मैं दरिया न बन पाया तो
      मैं वो किनारे जरूर बनूंगा
      जिस में आप जैसे दरिया बहते हैं,
      अगर किनारे भी ना बना तो
      वह पेड़ जरूर बनूंगा जो
      इन किनारों को बांध के रखे
      क्योंकि आप जैसे दरिया बहते रहने चाहिए
      चाहे मैं और कुछ ना करूं लेकिन ऐसी वीडियो तो बना सकता हु जो आपको define करती है। I am not best but I tried. आप जैसे लोग इसके लिए deserve karte ho। यह वीडियो अच्छे लोगो का मतलब समझाती है। अच्छे लोग हमेशा अच्छा करते हैं और सबी के लिए अच्छे हैं।
      th-cam.com/video/mVg8PlsN8lA/w-d-xo.html Good people do best for the welfare of yourself and others also.

    • @goodmorningstories790
      @goodmorningstories790 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@letstalktoyou7975 यह वो institution hai yaha sab पड़ने आते,
      संदीप जी वो दरिया है यहां से सब अपनी प्यास बुझाने आते है,
      जहा पर स्टूडेंट तो क्या टीचर भी पढ़ने आते है।
      संदीप जी को भारत रत्न पुरस्कार मिले या न मिले,
      लेकिन ये भारत के रत्न कहलाते है।
      और एक बात कड़वी but सच्ची,
      ऐसे लोग सदियों बाद धरती पर आते है
      After Viveka nand, welcome to world sir,
      भारत की तरफ से: आप अनमोल हो I
      I love you,
      This video for you, आपको ये वीडियो define karti hai.
      मैं अच्छे लोगों का सम्मान करता हूं और करता रहूंगा।
      अगर मैं दरिया न बन पाया तो
      मैं वो किनारे जरूर बनूंगा
      जिस में आप जैसे दरिया बहते हैं,
      अगर किनारे भी ना बना तो
      वह पेड़ जरूर बनूंगा जो
      इन किनारों को बांध के रखे
      क्योंकि आप जैसे दरिया बहते रहने चाहिए
      चाहे मैं और कुछ ना करूं लेकिन ऐसी वीडियो तो बना सकता हु जो आपको define करती है। I am not best but I tried. आप जैसे लोग इसके लिए deserve karte ho। यह वीडियो अच्छे लोगो का मतलब समझाती है। अच्छे लोग हमेशा अच्छा करते हैं और सबी के लिए अच्छे हैं।
      th-cam.com/video/mVg8PlsN8lA/w-d-xo.html Good people do best for the welfare of yourself and others also.

  • @PremPrakash-yd6bv
    @PremPrakash-yd6bv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow this lady has 3 episode with sandeep maheshwari sir so this lady is very very knowledgeable intelligent and think out of the box..

  • @priyaldesaiii
    @priyaldesaiii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Sir these episodes of yours and ma'am is extremely good and understandable. Thank you for initiating this.

    • @hgstudypoint1896
      @hgstudypoint1896 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @Goal.Setters.Academy..
      @Goal.Setters.Academy.. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sakshi Singh bewafa... Hgf
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  • @Ujjwaljain9667
    @Ujjwaljain9667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It's very important video for all types of relationship, very nicely explained. thank you sir

  • @AjaySirChemistry
    @AjaySirChemistry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Those who have toxic environment in their life.. And they are in school or college.try to study hard or join library for study near by your locality. You will find peace in library and also find new people same as your age. You will learn new experiences.
    Faith in urself and patience.. Results takes time.

  • @shanajkhan3392
    @shanajkhan3392 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I m going exactly this situation in my life N i have got all my practical ANSWERS THIS SESSION THAT U DISSUESS WITH MAM IT WORKS LIKE THERAPY FOR ME... Thank u sooo MUCH SIR... ALL PRAYERS TO U EMENESE RESPECT. WAITING FOR UR NEXT DISCUSSION . ♥ ♥ ♥

  • @pavankumarkategar
    @pavankumarkategar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Summary of this session : There is solution every problem we just need to find it

    • @anantsharma5330
      @anantsharma5330 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      As he said, we don't need to run behind solution. Call it another way to see the problem. Or every problem has different ways to tackle it. There will be other way always, but is it working or not, let's just try to find that. We stop after finding the solution. Which is not true, solution at a stage could be working, while on another not much. So, just call it way.

    • @Goal.Setters.Academy..
      @Goal.Setters.Academy.. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sakshi Singh bewafa... Hgf
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  • @lyricsblackstatus7567
    @lyricsblackstatus7567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This type of psychology is a conglomeration of many different psychological strategies. Essentially, it is referring to the use of psychology to yield a practical result. For example, if somebody is experiencing awkward mental state such as that which is caused by ADHD, or if they are bipolar, many different psychological strategies can be applied at the same time to create the desired result. These are administered by trained psychologists that have years, if not decades, of experience in this industry. Their goal is to always create a practical outcome for those that are suffering from different mental or emotional problems.

    • @goodmorningstories790
      @goodmorningstories790 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      मैं अच्छे लोगों का सम्मान करता हूं और करता रहूंगा। अगर मैं दरिया न बन पाया लेकिन मैं वो किनारे जरूर बनूंगा जिस में आप जैसे दरिया बहते हैं, अगर किनारे भी ना बना तो वह पेड़ जरूर बनूंगा जो इन किनारों को बांध के रखे। क्योंकि आप जैसे दरिया बहते रहने चाहिए। क्योंकि अच्छे लोग हमेशा अच्छा करते हैं और सबी के लिए अच्छे हैं
      This is dedicated to Sandeep sir
      th-cam.com/video/mVg8PlsN8lA/w-d-xo.html Good people do best for the welfare of yourself and others also.

    • @financialliteracy8729
      @financialliteracy8729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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      @ccccxxxx2504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    • @pushparahi5681
      @pushparahi5681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice information

    • @lucky4uthevlog239
      @lucky4uthevlog239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aise guru sb ko mile zindagi zannat ban jayengi☺❤❤

  • @ArbazKhan-ly9bw
    @ArbazKhan-ly9bw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sandeep Maheshwari sir- Each problem have multiple solutions you just have to identify the best with a calm mind and avoiding the unnecessary efforts.

  • @monalisapandit
    @monalisapandit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Why Sandeep sir is Sandeep sir" is clear now ❤️

  • @indepthwithbhowmik3185
    @indepthwithbhowmik3185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I used to get bullied a lot in my childhood days. The trauma still does not get over me although I am an adult now

  • @shankarprasad1977
    @shankarprasad1977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Brilliant series. Need to question everything. Thank you so much Sandeep Ji 🙏🥰🙌

  • @technicalsohan2098
    @technicalsohan2098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Resilience mean to be flexible in terms of understanding then there are always multiple solutions to any given problem!
    The real truth 🔥

    • @hgstudypoint1896
      @hgstudypoint1896 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @anantsharma5330
      @anantsharma5330 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Being positive and think what better can be done at this moment, mat help to come out of the stage.

  • @abhimanyuroy5083
    @abhimanyuroy5083 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir I am overwhelmed watching this video.
    I suffered miserably from chronical trauma.Sir you don't know how you help people like us

  • @moodysoulishan
    @moodysoulishan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Will you please prepare a video on CBT, OCD & PTSD therapy 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 nice video, you are helping me a lot, with your noble try, 🙏🏻

    • @piku8700
      @piku8700 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you want to know more about these topics then you can go to medcircle and Dr ramani TH-cam channel

  • @anjouniverse
    @anjouniverse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir,I got it now! Learn lot of greatest things in discussion and In my stand point of view,"luckiest lady" looks like 'Monalisa'. Sir,Thank you both for guiding all of us in right direction.

  • @lalit9226
    @lalit9226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    After this second wave of covid 19, third wave is of trauma, PTSD and depression followed by suicide. Which no one talking about these at all.
    Many small children, teenagers, young adults have lost their mom or dad and in worst case have lost both their parents.
    The person who is suffered will find extremely hard to talk about, may because of trust issues and other reasons, and mostly the who have not suffered, will don't give a shit. It is very sad and insensitive of those people throw statistics, data, mortality rate. Each and every person who have suffered have their own individual stories.
    Its been one year since i lost my mom, and the trauma and ptsd still haunts gives me panic , i feel afraid of thinking all those traumatic events happened to me but it is inevitable.

    • @ankanabanu2457
      @ankanabanu2457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here 🙂 i lost my mom since 1 year....

  • @coming_out_97
    @coming_out_97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I loved to hear " manshik shanti " word from Ma'am. Hindi yr😍

  • @Canada_Chronicles
    @Canada_Chronicles ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For all those asking what they can do if someone is toxic
    Based on Sandeep sir’s sessions -
    1. If someone is talking badly with you, you can tell them that it is not making the situation better in any way
    2. Until you’re not able to be financially independent and get your own home, you can keep your distance from people who you think are toxic. And in case physically it’s not possible for now, then you can stay away mentally by reading and watching videos like it’s good that you’re watching this video. And side by side, keep working to make yourself financially independent so that you can get your own home.

  • @sandeepKumar-pi1dv
    @sandeepKumar-pi1dv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Trauma is nothing but a feeling which was suppresed by u, feared by , u kept running and it caused a huge damage to u, u never realized what it was, why it happens . My dear friend if u want get well, understand ur trauma forget ur past memories or experiences

  • @MohitK96
    @MohitK96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Those who are ongoing through such thing or their near & dear ones have such thing would understand this session differently than those who are not undergoing through such issue.

  • @firstprinciples6414
    @firstprinciples6414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was brutally traumatized Psychologically by my father and family. Prey for me. I'm resilient though.

  • @iamrasika
    @iamrasika 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This channel is blessing for many 💞

  • @coachformind
    @coachformind ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, have to be a life sentence.”
    This quote by Peter A. Levine who is the author of many best-selling books on trauma highlights the fact that about seventy percent of people around the world experiences at least one traumatic event in their lifetime.
    Trauma can be due to:
    a) Depression.
    b) Substance Abuse.
    c) Physical Abuse.
    d) Verbal Abuse.
    e) Painful Childhood.
    f) Death of a loved one.
    g) Natural catastrophe.

  • @yashmaheshwari6849
    @yashmaheshwari6849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Sir I understand this seminar..Also I learn from mam, how to be a good listenar and stay patience. Fear is right choice for next seminar.👍

  • @yashjain4618
    @yashjain4618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Envy and jeleaosy - would be great to learn about these from psychology

  • @worldsknowledgepoint
    @worldsknowledgepoint 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    sir i am wordless to praise your magnificient intellegence. what have happened in my life because of you is just incredible. thank you so much all of your efforts to make all this possible. May God bless you & your family. You are gonna life forever in lots of hearts 💓💓💓

  • @skkaur3543
    @skkaur3543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have had trauma. September to dec 4 years ago. I feel same symptoms
    Every year in these months. I don’t know how to come out from this circle. Now this situation is over but my feelings r still stucked and repeat every year. It was trauma for a mother. I could take my life in this situation. But I won’t. I am
    Thankfully healthy and out of trauma. Living normal life. Only this scary symptoms same months every year, weather all that reminds me this trauma

  • @TheVLoggerSahil
    @TheVLoggerSahil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    DISCLAIMER: THIS CHANNEL IS HIGHLY ADDICTIVE ✅

    • @vlogz9732
      @vlogz9732 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @darshankawalkar9072
      @darshankawalkar9072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vlogz9732 ganje se jyda sandip sir ke videos ka nasha jyda huaa hai...kuch karu na karu lekin harek video jarur dekhne ki itchya hoti hai, sandeep sir ne ispe ek video nikalna chahiye

    • @goodmorningstories790
      @goodmorningstories790 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Darshan Kawalkar you view are right for other motivational speakers but sir videos are like water which we should drink daily it is not addiction, if we still feel we are adicted to Sandeep sir video, sorry my friend sandeep sir videos are for learning and we never stop learning that why we wait for next video, same like we do daily exercise we are not addicted to exercise, Sorry but what I felt I told you.

    • @goodmorningstories790
      @goodmorningstories790 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This define sandeep sir character, th-cam.com/video/mVg8PlsN8lA/w-d-xo.html Good people do best for the welfare of yourself and others also.

    • @Goal.Setters.Academy..
      @Goal.Setters.Academy.. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sakshi Singh bewafa... Hgf
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  • @neerajsmartgyan
    @neerajsmartgyan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    यहां जो मिलता है पूरे अपने जीवन काल इस तरह की सोच नही देखी great learning

  • @leelas25
    @leelas25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful, संदीप की सभी बातें बहुत आसानी से समझ आने वाली और उसके अनुभव से निकली होती है।
    सरल और effective

  • @authentic_101
    @authentic_101 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm surprised that modern methods like Somatic Experiencing, EMDR etc. haven't been discussed in this video. Trauma, Depression etc. need to be addressed in a different way than the usual methods like CBT (talk therapy), because they get stored in our bodies / nervous systems and can't be healed just on the surface level of thought/emotion. Tweaking the nervous system is the key!

  • @mr.shaikh7719
    @mr.shaikh7719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Best podcasts going on this year 👍

  • @shamshadkhanom5656
    @shamshadkhanom5656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou thankyou thankyou......first thanks to Allah for reaching me out here...second thanks to that di and obviously Sandeep sir...sir you are amazing and you know that. Aapki tarifein kabhi aur karenge. Next topic ke lye waiting.

  • @anujlakhera1109
    @anujlakhera1109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my learning - identify your problem then relax and calm the mind so that multiple ideas and thoughts come .
    have a belief that there are multiple solutions for any kind of problem

  • @aniketbahirat3684
    @aniketbahirat3684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    " Luckiest Women " in the world , who got chance to spend more time with Sandeep sir ....

  • @diwakarmishra9840
    @diwakarmishra9840 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sandeep sir actually catches the point😎

  • @shoaibkahut
    @shoaibkahut 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Greetings from China 🇨🇳 ✓
    Thank you very much Sandeep bhai and anonymous psych ! You guys are doing amazing work .
    So helpful, specially in COVID days .

  • @shakeelahmed8902
    @shakeelahmed8902 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wonderful session.... I think this is going to be life changing for me.

  • @anmolsingh9694
    @anmolsingh9694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This session is sooo deep it needs someone to stay calm and then listen to it

  • @SakshiK09
    @SakshiK09 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Don't know how to react... But having toxic family environment and parents are like having tears every day.... Every day I want to study but there is problem on every morning... Therefore whole day is a losss... I am on bed since last 6 months just all I want is sleep to avoid all disturbance

    • @Boss_in_Night
      @Boss_in_Night ปีที่แล้ว +1

      move to hostel ,if poor move to govt hostel and leave ur all thought related ur parent ....

  • @somashreesingharoy777
    @somashreesingharoy777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How relatable Sir . I really want to solve from my thought process I was facing domestic violence, I leave my husband's house but I cannot leave him from my mind. Thank you Sir

    • @Boss_in_Night
      @Boss_in_Night ปีที่แล้ว

      did u taken divorce ,if not take it and start ur life with new good routine and new life ..... past is past ...

  • @archanakumaridasgupta5536
    @archanakumaridasgupta5536 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mera general approach ye raha hai ki jab aas paas bahut kuch chal raha ho toh shaant ho jao kuch waqt.
    Also, kai baar problems ke solutions hote hain. But uske consequences dire ho skte hain so I try to understand perspectives in that situation.
    Im glad I found this video along with a few more channels. Im someone who loves psychology + have faced myself, so its great ki mujhe ek din me kaafi aesi channels mil gyi. Maybe its a direction in many aspects. ❤️

  • @TheVLoggerSahil
    @TheVLoggerSahil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    HARD WORK AND PATIENCE ALWAYS EARNS YOU SUCCESS ✅

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      @rockyhandsome9207 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @blockmaster7210
      @blockmaster7210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ab kitne quote likhega ? Bas kar bhai

    • @financialliteracy8729
      @financialliteracy8729 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @komalpreetkaur2551
      @komalpreetkaur2551 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Smart work is more important than hard work

    • @lucky4uthevlog239
      @lucky4uthevlog239 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aise guru sb ko mile zindagi zannat ban jayengi☺❤❤

  • @rheasingh6370
    @rheasingh6370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We truly love listening you sir ❤

  • @UniqueOne-wc4kz
    @UniqueOne-wc4kz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Simple way to come out from complex trauma is stop caring & expecting from those who don't respect you & who don't care about you 😊

  • @vishaldesai2786
    @vishaldesai2786 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Resilience means:- back of the mind one thing that's there is a solution

  • @nileshjaiswal490
    @nileshjaiswal490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you sir and mam for explaining this type of topics 😊🙏

  • @Whoami-kn4lk
    @Whoami-kn4lk ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you are the only one who saved my life ❤️❤️❤️ sir i can't thank you enough.

  • @ankitdubey6505
    @ankitdubey6505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sandeep Sir is one among Billions

  • @jayveersingh095
    @jayveersingh095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Happines in all situation, self belief and hard work will always earn you success

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  • @shivamlalchandani5474
    @shivamlalchandani5474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much Sandeep sir.
    Lot's of love
    Shivam
    ❤️😀🙏

  • @rhambosnax864
    @rhambosnax864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sir please " how to find your target audience for new startup? " or ek video bana dijiye please

  • @arambhhaiprachand
    @arambhhaiprachand 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Resilience is mental strength, in adverse situation. It’s not waiting in a dal dal or jumping out of pot. It’s about not falling apart quickly. Keep pushing or holding your ground.

  • @erannathemotivationalspeaker
    @erannathemotivationalspeaker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    " Don't Compromise with any problem " ❤

  • @Gauravkivideo
    @Gauravkivideo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We should recover mental Trauma . Love you Sir 💞

  • @parminderbajwa9239
    @parminderbajwa9239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Continuous highly energetic efforts towards upwards direction at the scale of self level or with the assistance of a person on whom you can have full trust and he/she should be as trust worthy as the Almighty , who will stand by you in every type of circumstances untill the complete victory, definitely produce marvellous results. And the beautiful thing is that such divine persons exist on this planet also.

  • @okr80
    @okr80 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sab phychologist ek taraf Sandeep sir ek taraf

  • @malapradnya
    @malapradnya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In this episode sandeep sir is giving more easier solutions than the lady. Regards to you sir

  • @montydas8601
    @montydas8601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Once again thankyou very much sir for the learning attitude you teached me. I changed myself. You're important person of my life.

  • @MrRowheet
    @MrRowheet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sandeep sir , I appreciate your all perspectives on this topic
    But I was expecting all artifacts about this topic by Ma'am point of view . i was waiting to see till end of the video

  • @RRadhaKJaiswal
    @RRadhaKJaiswal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @Sandeep Maheshwari, Sir You are absolutely correct, however I got the privilege to understand self love and now I'm trying to become friend of my inner child which has been traumatized and abandoned by family, I never had any friend and Now I'm 30. Later on I realised, that I consider telling truth because of the rebeleous personality. I never judge anyone instead I prefer to Observe, I'm writing this comment to spread this Helpful Thing to all those who need it. Which is :- Instead of discussing with anyone I prefer to discuss it with myself as Now I'm kind of re-parenting myself which helped me understand that I've an inner child inside me who needs that care which I deserved since always, But why to expect from others BEFRIEND YOURSELF is really helpful.

  • @legendryhero5511
    @legendryhero5511 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Solution orientated mind always find a way to solve a problem then tangled minded person this the main soul of this video