From what i can tell that person isnt who she used to be, the person you fell in love with. Id say good riddance. Anyways i know how hard it is to be in and out of a relationship with one person, thinking its over, then its not, then it is, and its hard to build the trust back. You might be better off without her, she couldve been holding you back from your true potential as corny as it sounds. I could not imagine my life without my girlfriend, and it seems like you cant either. This sounds romantic but its actually a really unhealthy way of living, because they are supposed to be our partner, not our life. They should coexist with our life and should not be the basis of it, atleast mentally. Im very codependant and Ive been trying to cope with it, the worrying, overthinking, sickness to my stomach, its all so hard and its almost refreshing to know someone is going through what ive gone through and that our life is gonna go on with or without these people we form connections with. Im still coming to terms with life as a whole, and the whole concept i think is really stupid and kind of wish there was no such thing, but here we are. You gonna get through this, the hardest part is the beginning, but as long as you keep waking up in the morning its gonna fade like all things do.
Aw your comment is so kind, thank you. It’s definitely one of the hardest things I’ve gone through (and still am going through), but I know that it was for the best. I could not imagine myself back in that relationship, I was very unhappy. Looking forward to being single for a while and figuring out what I want from someone in the future! Best of luck with your situation
From what i can tell that person isnt who she used to be, the person you fell in love with. Id say good riddance. Anyways i know how hard it is to be in and out of a relationship with one person, thinking its over, then its not, then it is, and its hard to build the trust back. You might be better off without her, she couldve been holding you back from your true potential as corny as it sounds. I could not imagine my life without my girlfriend, and it seems like you cant either. This sounds romantic but its actually a really unhealthy way of living, because they are supposed to be our partner, not our life. They should coexist with our life and should not be the basis of it, atleast mentally. Im very codependant and Ive been trying to cope with it, the worrying, overthinking, sickness to my stomach, its all so hard and its almost refreshing to know someone is going through what ive gone through and that our life is gonna go on with or without these people we form connections with. Im still coming to terms with life as a whole, and the whole concept i think is really stupid and kind of wish there was no such thing, but here we are. You gonna get through this, the hardest part is the beginning, but as long as you keep waking up in the morning its gonna fade like all things do.
Aw your comment is so kind, thank you. It’s definitely one of the hardest things I’ve gone through (and still am going through), but I know that it was for the best. I could not imagine myself back in that relationship, I was very unhappy. Looking forward to being single for a while and figuring out what I want from someone in the future! Best of luck with your situation