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Julia
United States
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 17 ม.ค. 2019
mini vlogs :)
Breakup_week.3
Third week of my first ever heartbreak… it’s literally just me in my room 😭 I swear I get out of the house lol.
Much love!! 💕
Much love!! 💕
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Breakup_week.1
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Week one of the breakup, thoughts, feelings, events, tears, all of the things that come with the end of something meaningful
Thrift_finds.1
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I went thrifting today and wanted to show off and style some of my finds! 🫶🫶
i just got broken up with two days ago, and i feel like such shit. thank you for making me feel not alone
It’s so hard, I wouldn’t wish this kind of hurt on anyone :( It gets easier with time though, I’m glad this video helped some! I’m making videos each week, so you can watch & heal alongside me ❤️🩹
watching this while going through the same thing is really helping me thank you🤍
It makes me so happy to hear that :)
it's been a week since my breakup too and i am going through the same feelings you are going, i never stopped thinking about her and i don't think i ever will but maybe it will get easier to put up with my feelings in the future. i really hope you will be able to move on and i wish you well 🤍
Eventually the memories don’t become constant, but this past week it just felt like everything reminded me of her or a moment she and I shared. It’s extremely hard and I’m so sorry you’re going through the same thing. I hope this video helped some, I’m making them every week to document my journey if you want to follow along!
You seem so cool :) big fan of the red sweatshirt too
Thank you! Wow this video is old, kind of forgot about it lol
I really like what you did here, I am with you❤
Ps i like the haircut
@@berry2nicky3haha thank you! Not the best I’ve had but I appreciate your kindness
hey again! the power of a subscribe button is crazy innit? i watched your first video up here, about the week1, and it resonated with me. once again i hear the almost exact same thoughts i’m dealing with atm, and it’s actually very relieving to see how typical the pipeline is. funny even. i can’t help but admire the way you put your feelings into words. you seem very conscious of your emotions and the world around you. i’m not entirely sure how old you are, yet you seem really mature with the way you *seem* to handle things. big kudos to you for having so much empathy towards others, that you can differentiate between your heartache and actual worry about the person you used to care for. i think you’re doing great, and everything will be just fine in some time. just keep doing your thing! idk i just really like your takes on things…if you ever care, i’d love to chat. totally fine if it’s not something you’re interested in, i just think you’re interesting
Wow thank you, your comment is so kind! I have spent a lot of time over the years processing my emotions and have gotten really good at speaking about them. It’s also nice to know that I’m not alone in the way I’m feeling about it! And yes haha, I liked your “seem to handle things” because true, not everything on the internet is as it seems but these videos are for me to watch and enjoy (and hopefully others like you can find them comforting in some way). I keep them as consistent with how I’m feeling as possible because there’s no point in trying to act differently than how I’m feeling. I’d love to talk, not sure how to do that from here though lol
hey! i’m currently going through a breakup as well, the first real heartbreak. and i just wanted to say that i totally get you, with all that fear of loneliness, with missing the person who doesn’t exist anymore, and with wanting to regain control all over again. it’s been a week or so for me, and i think we’ve had an absolutely identical healing experience /thought process haha life’s full of love, it’s gonna be just fine!
Aw I’m sorry you’re going through this too, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. It’s really comforting to hear that other people are going through something similar though, it definitely helps me feel less alone! Good luck to you and happy healing ❤️🩹
You seem like such a genuinely wonderful person and doing the absolute best you can. I have no doubt in my mind you will feel so much better soon and will feel so much more confident in yourself, your worth and your abilities. You have so much love to give and that is never a bad thing, it just hurts sometimes when it's not appreciated or given to someone who doesn't want it. Keep going, keep doing what you're doing. I have so much faith in you, you are awesome <3
Stop you are so kind, I really appreciate your comment! Staying strong as best I can lol 🙏🙏
Going thru it right now too and apparently youtube knows bc your video was recommended to me. There was a lot I liked about your video - it was nice to hear your thoughts. You’re very introspective! and I relate to what you said about waiting for someone’s attention. And thinking about how much time you spent just watching the phone waiting for them. It’s funny when you were mentioning wanting to go to the Redwood forest because I live in California and was planning to take a trip to your state soon to visit my boyfriend but alas 💔🥲 DONT MEET UP FOR CLOSURE!!!! and keep fighting that urge to check social media!! I hate that feeling!! Breakups suck so much and I feel like it only gets better with time. I hate it at first - and then I feel like you kind of get used to it and get back into a groove with yourself again. Definitely take the time to be a friend with yourself and learn more about yourself. You’re gonna be okay :-) It’s very random for me to actually watch videos recommended to me but I’m grateful to have come across your video - it makes me feel less alone honestly. I hope you feel better soon! Also you have great eyebrows and a cool room. 🩵
Your comment was so kind, I really appreciate it! I’m sorry that you’re also going through a breakup, there’s not a lot of things that feel worse. And wow, crazy coincidence! You should definitely still visit Georgia though, it’s beautiful here! It’s definitely hard to fight that urge but it gets a little easier to not reach out/check in every day. I’m glad you watched, I didn’t really think anybody would find these videos lol, they’re mostly for me to document it so I can go back and watch when I’m feeling weak :) Happy holidays, good luck with your healing!!!
Also thank you about my eyebrows and room, just saw that haha
It sounds like it would be a good time to stay single & really find yourself! Best of luck babe ❤
cant hear u talk in ur videos. thanks for sharing. i sub to help out.
😭 you’re kind lol. I have a very soft voice and I just record on my phone because I’m not a real TH-camr :) thanks for ur sub aw
From what i can tell that person isnt who she used to be, the person you fell in love with. Id say good riddance. Anyways i know how hard it is to be in and out of a relationship with one person, thinking its over, then its not, then it is, and its hard to build the trust back. You might be better off without her, she couldve been holding you back from your true potential as corny as it sounds. I could not imagine my life without my girlfriend, and it seems like you cant either. This sounds romantic but its actually a really unhealthy way of living, because they are supposed to be our partner, not our life. They should coexist with our life and should not be the basis of it, atleast mentally. Im very codependant and Ive been trying to cope with it, the worrying, overthinking, sickness to my stomach, its all so hard and its almost refreshing to know someone is going through what ive gone through and that our life is gonna go on with or without these people we form connections with. Im still coming to terms with life as a whole, and the whole concept i think is really stupid and kind of wish there was no such thing, but here we are. You gonna get through this, the hardest part is the beginning, but as long as you keep waking up in the morning its gonna fade like all things do.
Aw your comment is so kind, thank you. It’s definitely one of the hardest things I’ve gone through (and still am going through), but I know that it was for the best. I could not imagine myself back in that relationship, I was very unhappy. Looking forward to being single for a while and figuring out what I want from someone in the future! Best of luck with your situation <3
pretty girl...not so great clothes........like putting burlap on a goddess