Move My Child To Uni With Me 😭 Make Dinner With Me + Student Room Tour Weekly Vlog / AD
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ส.ค. 2024
- Welcome back to a super emotional weekly vlog 😭 Join me as I make dinner for my children the night before my first baby moves to university 😭 Then see if I can actually hold it together as I drive my teenager to university and move him into his uni dorm.
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Time stamps;
00:00 Coming up
00:16 Intro
01:26 Make dinner with me
12:20 Clean up time
14:42 The big day
16:40 Nervous
17:50 First impressions
19:10 Kitchen
20:09 Wobbly moment
20:43 Unboxing student stuff
25:01 Tour
25:20 Chill Mum
26:47 This is hard
27:24 The next day
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He's still your baby but you must all be so so proud of him and that's a major credit to you and dad for bringing him up .
One thing that will never be taken from you with him moving out is your love and his love for you ❤️
Thanks lovely. I am super proud, it's just so hard letting go isn't it 😭
@@MummyofFourUK it is but he's creating his future and to see him grow and find his own path shows what a brilliant job you and your husband have done ❤
You son is in the most important part of his life. University is a time of great change and turning into an independent man of means. The hardest part of being a mom is the tug on the heart when they leave home. I took me a couple years to move past the emotions. As I only had one child a son. He traveled the world for over 25 years until pandemic. Now he is 45. Your son is full of fun and confidence. I would eat that salad and pasta any day. Tell him I wish him success in this University adventure. He will be able to cope and fend well for himself. Love requires faith in what have instilled in your child. You will miss him. So will his brothers and sisters. Tell him you love him and that you believe he will do well. Beautiful kitchen and refrigerator. Great opportunity to make lifelong friends you meet at University. You are creating a bigger circle of protection and support for him. Good parenting.
Oh my gosh this video made me cry, I completely understand how you feel. I remember when my son went to uni last yr, his dad and I cried so much. It definitely feels like a grieving process but honestly give it a month or so and you will be ok. Make sure he rings you every week with progress reports on his course and life. Sending you a huge massive warm wrap around hug xxx❤️
Rhi no wonder you’re proud! Congratulations Dylan on starting your uni journey! So lovely to see what a lovely relationship you both have ❤ he’ll always be your baby, well done mummy ❤
Awh this was so sweet Rhi, all is well❤ glad he has settled in such a lovely watch xx
Aww Rhi, cried with you. Hope your feeling better this week.
Dylan is a lovely boy and such a credit to you. He's so like daddy of 4 with his banter and witty ways! Haha! Sending hugs. Xxx
What a lovely vlog Dylan is such a lovely young man he will do you 100% proud at uni hope he enjoys xxx
Bless you Rhi I can see the pain in your eyes and the emotions you are going through,it’s going to be fine my children are 22 and 24 I still class them as my babies I know what you are going through take good care of yourself and your beautiful wonderful loving family X
Hi Rhi, wowzers this got me really emotional, made me cry watching! 😢Love the relationship you have with Dylan, you must be so proud! He'll absolutely smash uni, he will be fine & so mature too! It doesn't matter how old they are, they will always be yr babies, our mum always called us her babies right up to when we were in our mid 40s, hope the little ones are ok now xx 😘❣
Goodness. Cried along with you there. Glad he's settled in ok x
Rhi x I’ve sat and cried with you xxx motherhood is so hard x try if you can to hold on to the good times you are going to have with him when you visit xxxsending you lots of love x I know completely how you feel xxx
He will be fine, he has a wonderful family supporting him, you must be super proud x my ‘ baby’ is 27 and I still worry for him, but watching them blossom into wonderful human beings is the greatest gift x big hugs x
🥺🥺 I had my daughter when I was 18, she went to uni 4 years ago, she moved 5 times in those 4 years, I helped her every single time! 🙄😂 I felt like my heart had been ripped out, I was so upset. She's just returned home and is taking a year out before doing her teaching, we're back to cups in her room, clothes all over and towels stained with hair dye!! I wouldn't have it any other way. You've done an amazing job Rhi, he's so lovely! Big hug to you xx
You are a great mother. Beautiful video x
My eldest is 40 at Xmas and she's still my baby . She taught me how to be a mummy for which I'm grateful. I was so happy that when people asked if I'd have anymore I said yes she's that good I'd have 6 more like her 😊 I did have 6 more and not one of them were like her 🤪 because they all had different personalities 😊
How funny. We have 3. 30, 27 and 23 and are all so different. My daughter very independent whereas my boys txt and phone and see us all the time. X.
@@sunuman4454 my son is the same. Xxxx
Now I know what my parents went through when I went off to uni! Being a mum of two little ones I know this is in the future and it brings me to tears already having to let them fly the nest.
Oh Rhi, I cried with you! My two are seven and four so no where near the uni stage but I know I’ll be exactly the same. Hope he has a great time!
All the best Dylan 🙂 aww bless you Rhi it’s not easy letting go but it’ll get easier xx
I'm glad his move went well hope u guys are OK xxx
Brilliant add for the pasta sauce.
We took our daughter over 20 years ago, to the big city to go to college. Graduated, got married, and stayed in the big city suburbs. I can remember this like it was yesterday. Sending love to you. Dylan will be fine. :)
Hi Rhi! You and your Husband should be so proud, you have 4 gorgeous children. Your elder son and you Rhi have a wonderful relationship.❤️🍀
Aw man ! This hurt ! My daughter has just started college and knowing how quick it goes I know this will be me soon ☹️😭 you did really well! He is a lovely boy,wish him all the luck on his new journey xx
Good luck at Uni Dylan ❤️
Been through it twice with my sons so totally relate. My first went to uni 200 miles from home which was hard, 2nd was 50 miles which was easier to visit. It’s hard to let go but Dylan seems like my son telling you to chill etc. it’s a growing experience. Dylan’s uni room especially the kitchen looked very modern compared to what mine had and a decent en-suite which is great. Hugs to you. Xx
I really felt 4 u watching that. It even made me well up xx
You handled Dylan moving so well x I would have been in bit 😂 I can’t even make it through a primary school play with out emotional tears 😂 well done getting into uni Dylan enjoy it and work hard!
My son is in his early thirties now, I can feel your anxiousness, went through the same with him. However I’m pleased to say he is now a very successful film maker. Not many students manage to get work related to the degree they achieve. However I do not see as much of him as I would like. Be brave and he will do the rest. Xxx
Good luck to Dylan :) I hope he has a nice time in Uni and fingers crossed loves his course . Hugs to you as it must feel like your arm is missing or a piece of your heart ❤️ as that how I feel now my older ones have became young adults . Two in college and one in Uni but all are doing very well :) just two babies left in high school now 😢 all growing up too fast . I had my kids young so I’m only 37 . Feels like yesterday they was babies and I blinked and they grown up . xx
What a beautiful mum, my baby’s name is Dylan to…your video will prepare for a few years from now. He will do amazing because you’ve taught him how. Motherhood is the best experience !!
Oh bless you. My youngest has just graduated and I promise you it does get easier . X
My oldest boy started secondary school three weeks ago I am heart broken and now his brother is looking around them for September coming I’m even more devastated 😢
I must be so savage because I dropped my youngest of 4 for her first year at Uni and didn’t shed a tear! None of the others went and I thought it would be awful but I was fine. Hope you have recovered from the trauma now.
2nd week in for our daughter!! Missing her loads she’s 5 hours away too!! Although the build up was worse it’s all exciting to see them put all their stuff away in their new flat/ accommodation. Leaving was very hard!! 😢 Good luck for your son 😊
He will be always your baby not matter how old he gets. I was the same when my youngest went to school I know the age difference but I still felt it
Hi hope you and the family are all well it's so hard when they go remember when my daughter left seeing you upset made me cry as you have such a lovely family with manners and kindness you soon is a credit to you and your husband and he's got his head screwed on lol and he knows what he is doing thinking of you all xx
My baby has just turned 7 months old and I'm already crying and the thought of her moving out 😂🥲
Good luck dlylan,what uni have you gone to hope you hada good freshers week,enjoy your time there
Hi Rhi hope Dylan is enjoying uni so far my sister has just gone off to uni it is a bit different without her living in the house now but I have got used to it love watching your vlogs
Hi Rhi, congrats on your son going to uni and wish him all the best.
Please where did you get your coloured knives?
Been through this twice nightmare at the time but brilliant after no time x
This made me cry. I have felt like that after every one of my children left home! I've had 6 children and the last one is preparing to leave. She is my best friend too so this is going to be the worst! Hold on though!.. the sadness goes away when you know they can fly. : )
Oh Rhi... I cried with you 😢
Aw Rhi, this made me so sad. Mine are 9, 6 and 4 and I'm already dreading them moving out etc. I said to my hubby we'll get them sheds in the garden with heaters and camping toilets so they can all stay with mummy forever 🤣
I feel for you rhi. My children live in Canada And we are in texas and there are 41 and 36 when the pandemic was on we never seen them for 2 years. We the borders was closed we see them now about 3 times a year each time for 10 days so my heart goes out toy you built there is FaceTime text and phoning but im lkie you i cry when we are together and cry when we have to say goodbye. No matter how old there are they will always be our babies. And i have a wonderful daughter in law Hopefully Dillion isn’t to far away and he can come home some weekends that what we miss sending love hugs from Dallas texas xxx
Oh bless. I literally dread this day so you handles it amazingly. He will thrive I’m sure.
I have four and my oldest is 15 so creeping ever closer to the first flight from the nest potentially.
He has an ASD diagnosis which makes me worry more.
Would you do a video on preparing teens for life away from home and how you have handled that side of parenting?
I can certainly discuss this in a vlog or even dedicated video if people are interested x
This made me emotional
He seems to be ready for uni sure he's gonna do fantastic bless him God rhia you made me flipin cry as well I got 4 kids youngest 9 oldest 17 change is so hard to deal with but gets easier but yes the heart strings get tugged all the time
I agree I sobbed when my daughter left high school she's just gone to college no more school runs, you get into a routine and then they get more independent x
Hi rhi.....dylan is a lovely lad.its hard to let go.its how they learn life..my son is 43 he's a only child but he's my baby..rhi thinking of you and your family xx👍💕🌞🌞💙
My daughter just went off to Cardiff. I understand how you feel!
You have brought your boy ( and will do all of them ) to be independent .You have done a sterling job Rhi ❤…now after saying that it’d be exactly the same 😂. Take care ❤️ x
Good luck Dylan! He will have a great time at uni. He seems like he has his head screwed on and mature for his age. So he will do well. Of course he is sorted with all the pasta 😂
If you cut the bottom off the pepper then turn it upside down to cut around; is easier. Xxxx.
I was emotional when I moved my daughter to uni last year. I went alone with her and it was so heartbreaking leaving her behind. They will always be our babies!
Emotional! It’ll be Christmas break before you know it! I know everyone is different but I actually left university because my Mum told me everyday how much my young siblings missed me. Maybe I was just weak but something I wanted to say. I know the children will miss Dylan but I hope he knows it’s okay x
Heartbreaking Rhi, he seems so ready for it
Dylan may have been messing about with the pasta, but he seems a LOT more mature than most of the 18yr olds I went to school with if the state of our common room was anything to go by; you needed a hazmat suit to go in there! My mum is a community careworker and she's found that many of her 18yr old colleagues tend to leave client's kitchens a mess, not do dishes, make beds etc so the fact that he's doing those things without being nagged is better than many others his age. Whatever skills he's picked up from his old job and from you will serve him well.
Isn’t it interesting how at home they need several feet of closet space and at school they only need 2 feet or so? And a couple of cupboards?
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Awe I wouldn’t be holding it together either!! I sobbed when my daughter started kindergarten at 6 she’s now in 7th grade and will be 13 in January! It will fly by and it will be her turn! Haha I would have wanted to wash all the bedding and towels too! How far away is the university from your house? How many roommates does he have? Looks like a very nice place! I lived in a dorm with a floor bathroom and small kitchen for the whole dorm so did not cook in it!
Hi Rhi, I know how you feel I was like that when my daughter went to ballet school after she left full time school for 3 years. I drove 2 hrs every Friday to pick her up and then back again Sunday. How far away will Dylan be x. Lol what did you say when he was going to put the sauce in the water and pasta go on get off now 🤣🤣. Don't cry I'm crying now. He's only a phone call away and Hel be ringing you they always do. Hun you'll be fine x
Hope you are ok and you are doing ok
I am in the same boat ! My son join Southampton University-Winchester School of Art .
It all happens too fast. My oldest 2 went into the military. The oldest left for training 2 weeks after finishing school. Now I just have 1 left at home. Yeah it just go too fast.
Hey Rhi, hope you’re well. I’m happy, good and well thank you good evening love this He’s moving out emotional weekly day in the life video. So glad I enjoyed this Emotional weekly day in the life. The tomato pasta sounds good and tasty! I love pasta too. The song is called Let me love you by Loving Caliber. Ahh congratulations to Dylan on starting his university journey. Are you doing more groceries hauls videos soon? Can I also have a reply from you telling me what’s the name of the new video which is coming up on Thursday evening at 7pm from you? Can we see more what I eat in a day groceries hauls day in the life morning and evening night routines cleaning motivation clean with me extreme house clean with me all day clean with me get it all done with me clean and decorate with me clothing hauls homeware hauls Poundland b and m tkmaxx home sense home bargains the range wilko hauls come shop with me autumn summer spring winter home organisation mum fall Halloween Christmas tips and ideas amazon best buys monthly favourites family dinner ideas plus Disneyland Paris videos coming from you soon. Take care stay safe and well. Have a wonderful week. See you on Thursday evening at 7pm with a new video too.😊🎈🦋🎉🇹🇷🌻☀️🎂🎄🌸🌷❤️🌺☃️😍🌈🍂❄️🌹🦓🥀🐦🐧⭐️🌼💐🦢
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about it you have to let them fly they can always come back. My child moved to the other side of the world and went to university there I went to see him three times I don’t speak to him every week. Since Covid it’s been very difficult. It will come back home to see you he knows you love him and that you always will no matter how old he gets really wish you well try not to lose it when you drop him off at uni I wish you well over the next three or four years you will always see him X
U don't speak every week?? Was that just verbal or texting too?
Anyone got any tissues 😢 omg sobbing as much as it's a super amazing thing it's hard for mamma good luck in your studies
Are dyln glasses red lense he looks so cool
Dillon looks just like you, Rhi. I wish that electric kettles were more of a thing in the US, but not a huge percentage of American households have them. The fact that it's a lot warmer most of the year in the US and that the electricity is such that electric kettles aren't really fast at boiling water compared to the microwave, for small amounts, or the stove top, for larger amounts, makes them kind of a counter space hog more than a convenience. If Dillon reads this, the reason you don't boil the pasta for 12 minutes at a "rolling" boil where the water looks partially white is that the pasta will turn into mush. Now that I have heard more of Dillon's voice, he reminds me of someone, but I can't think of the name. Think about it this way, Rhi. Dillon is not all that far away at his university. He's not hundreds, or over a thousand, of miles away like a lot of American university students are from their parents and you've raised a good young man. He isn't recklessly irresponsible. I expected the room to be larger that Dillon will be staying in there. It's going to be a pain to have to move the mattress every time he wants to get something out of the storage. He will be ok. Once he has graduated from his university, you'll likely see him every week at least, as well. :)
Feel free to message me I know how it feels and feel your sadness! It slowly but surely gets a bit easier I’m regretting my daughter in a main city though the night life is a big adjustment 😅 xx
Hi 👋 Rhi daddy Bella Zara William Dylan too awesome 🤩 video as always Dylan’s going to university 👩🎓 dinner 🍽 is
No shame in being upset at your Boy moving out but I pity any girl he gets involved with. She will never be good enough for him in your eyes. 😢
My eldest has just returned after 3 years at Loughborough. It was extremely difficult for a few weeks and I thought I’d never get used to him being gone. But we did adjust. FaceTimed once a week and I checked in everyday via text. It’s the best thing he’s done and he learnt so much about life and taking care of himself.
He’s now the proud owner of a 2:1 in chemistry 🧪 we couldn’t be prouder.
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