Family Ties: The Story of Adeline Yen Mah

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  • Follows author Adeline Yen Mah, whose recently published autobiogrphy ‘Falling Leaves’ traces her life from the prosperous Shanghai of the 1940s, to the savagery of the Cultural Revolution, through to the commercial boom of Hong Kong and to her life as a doctor in California. Her story is that of an unwanted Chinese daughter who, although born into an affluent family, was rejected when her mother died and her father married a Eurasian woman. Defiant in the face of rejection, Adeline Yen Mah completed her education in the UK and the USA, going on to be a successful doctor, but always caught in the web of family feuds and malice.

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  • @KING-bt1tm
    @KING-bt1tm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Even PLT was brutally abused by her family.

    • @edmoala
      @edmoala 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unsolved Mysteries who is plt?

    • @lilyoregan3892
      @lilyoregan3892 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      edmoala her pet duckling she had

    • @jameslampley1689
      @jameslampley1689 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      They murdered the poor bird.

    • @SUFAN-pt3rs
      @SUFAN-pt3rs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      RIP PLT

    • @nooriman9874
      @nooriman9874 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      :( I love plt

  • @owenlewis9505
    @owenlewis9505 6 ปีที่แล้ว +378

    RIP PLT like if you know what I mean😭😭

    • @solitareangel2684
      @solitareangel2684 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I drowned in my own tears...but came back from the dead...😔

    • @SUFAN-pt3rs
      @SUFAN-pt3rs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I WAS DEVASTATED WHEN I READ THAT SCENE

    • @mini_mofo1320
      @mini_mofo1320 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OL 3D frick you hecker

    • @shardulpatil9885
      @shardulpatil9885 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ikr

    • @gerardgosson7074
      @gerardgosson7074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was nine when I read that bit!😭🐥

  • @cynthiahawkins2389
    @cynthiahawkins2389 6 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    The ill treatment and, emotional abuse of innocent youngsters when a family expands to become... 'step' is, unfortunately, a very common story. The cruelty Adeline suffered, (which in no way do I condone) informed and, shaped her for a lifetime. But, she turned it into a kind of triumph, with understanding and even compassion toward people who clearly did not deserve it...And I must say I admire her enormously. She did indeed reach a kind of closure. She was a wife, a loving mother. She was successful in her career. And now writes and travels widely.

  • @triplea3630
    @triplea3630 7 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I read this book and I cried and CRIED ;0;

  • @lissmc.x
    @lissmc.x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    What I want to know is, does she still know wu chun mei . Wu chun mei was a good friend

    • @Queenofthemall1445
      @Queenofthemall1445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She has said online on her website that she no longer has any contact with wu chun mei and hasnt since she left shanghai when she was 10

  • @curlwhurl8054
    @curlwhurl8054 6 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I read this book and was fascinated with it when I was in highschool. And now at 21 it has pride place in my bookshelf of my own place. I want to read it again soon and see how I process it as an adult. I googled her the other day and was thrilled to find out that she is still alive at the amazing age of 80!!!!! Such an incredible, beautiful woman.💕💖💕

  • @RG-ml8ji
    @RG-ml8ji 6 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    She is such a strong and intelligent person growing up with all the discriminations against girls . Very impressive that she has the tremendous strength to grow up to be so successful and even helping women to gain an equality status in mankind in our modern society .

  • @lunairies
    @lunairies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I read Chinese Cinderella when I was a child and I'll never forget it. Thank you, Adeline Yen Mah for your courage and bravery.

  • @eml1618
    @eml1618 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    She is my absolute inspiration, the fact that she become so successful was really satisfying. I even wonder what Niang would've thought of how beautiful she grew up to be.

  • @KP-zd3hc
    @KP-zd3hc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I also feel bad for Susan. She was disowned by her own parents because of her mother’s irrational hatred.

    • @BookieMonsterr
      @BookieMonsterr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes, and I feel that James was spineless.

    • @johnburkardt3202
      @johnburkardt3202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@BookieMonsterr Like father, like son the father is the most contemptuous person in her book.

    • @EdwardLee-m9z
      @EdwardLee-m9z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BookieMonsterr pity him, don't despise him. he is simply a male version of Adeline without her inner strength

  • @goldreverre
    @goldreverre 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I just read Chinese Cinderella in one sitting today. 5 hours straight with a riveting book... I came in search of further info on how things turned out. It's so satisfying to see Adeline in this doco looking so beautiful and strong. I think I fell in love a little bit with her. I especially appreciated being taken through the house in Shanghai and knowing so freshly the pathos behind her tour there and her reminiscence of Ye ye and Aunt Baba. 加油 五妹

  • @marymaedimakiling5110
    @marymaedimakiling5110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I just accidentally discovered her book online and I got sad and fell in love with it. I am totally inspired Adeline so much!
    After years of rejection and abuse, at least, she has a great and awesome ambition, and most importantly, she has now her own family, her husband and loving children who truly supports and love her much in heart more than her own previous family in the past.

  • @WasimFazal07
    @WasimFazal07 6 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    The stepmother niang is vile

  • @thatsnotmyname4238
    @thatsnotmyname4238 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When her dad didn't know her name. That got me.

  • @lucycairney9456
    @lucycairney9456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’m currently reading this book and when I found out it was real I couldn’t believe it people were treated like this

  • @lilyoregan3892
    @lilyoregan3892 6 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I think she's a reallt pretty woman! Her Niang used call her ugly ! She's far from it

    • @Yourdawnreader
      @Yourdawnreader 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      niang's the ugly one

    • @veeinconfusion
      @veeinconfusion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Yourdawnreader Yes!

    • @theuniqueperson2227
      @theuniqueperson2227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Yourdawnreader nope
      to be honest niang is beautiful

    • @Yourdawnreader
      @Yourdawnreader 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@theuniqueperson2227 personality wise is a major no

    • @theuniqueperson2227
      @theuniqueperson2227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Yourdawnreader yea ur right
      sory @saph

  • @eml1618
    @eml1618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Adeline remained a level headed, a dignified and notable women, above her resentful family. I hope she knows she is a strong women and her past relationship with her despicable Niang and sister will not define her and weigh her down. Adeline, I hope you now live a wonderful life you always deserved!

  • @yongong683
    @yongong683 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Many thanks for posting this. Had read Dr. Adeline Yen Mah's book "Falling Leaves" when it came out in 1997. Saw the above clip when it was first shown on BBC Two in August 2000,

  • @julianawinter3423
    @julianawinter3423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I cannot tell you how many times I cried while reading this book 😭. I read Frank McCourts and Malachy McCourt’s memoir about death but she made me cry more then anything. She was amazing and so strong 🥺

  • @opinionatedwhitegirl8111
    @opinionatedwhitegirl8111 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    thanks for making this, read this when I was 16; 33 now and still think about it

  • @gabriellagonzalez9311
    @gabriellagonzalez9311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't know how I came upon this book in middle school, but it was the most intense book I'd ever read in my life. There was an older lady who actually took my book and never gave it back. I appreciated this book and all this woman went through. After everything she went through, she stood tall and showed her life. This is the meaning of showing others that we are not alone.

  • @lfork
    @lfork 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So happy to see her friends in this video. I’ve always wondered whether she has kept in touch with the girls in sacred heart, especially her best friend Mary

  • @venx5804
    @venx5804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m a chaotic person;^;
    But I cried while reading the book:”)
    It was also the longest book I read:)
    And I swear this is such an inspirational book

  • @LovingCharice
    @LovingCharice 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for posting this video. I really love her story

  • @dreamyx01
    @dreamyx01 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I recently found this book on a free book table. I’m almost finished the book. I can’t believe what a horrible person Niang and the father was. Really the whole bunch was poison. It was totally the father’s fault not obeying the Dr’s orders to have Adeline’s mother admitted to the hospital after her birth complications.

  • @changbinsbowlcut8250
    @changbinsbowlcut8250 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Anyone wonder where are her siblings??

    • @lilyoregan3892
      @lilyoregan3892 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Cutie they don't speak to her she mentioned in another book. Since she wrote the book

    • @pabitrabaral6940
      @pabitrabaral6940 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      england

    • @tifftiff1230
      @tifftiff1230 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      l r I think I remember in one interview she mentions that her older brother read her book and felt bad for her and apologized.

    • @SUFAN-pt3rs
      @SUFAN-pt3rs 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Tiffany12 that’s good

    • @tifftiff1230
      @tifftiff1230 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      SUFAN7152 yea, he told her he loved her too! :) he was the oldest out of the 3 brothers.

  • @gracecannell9226
    @gracecannell9226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What an amazing woman. I've reread her book as an adult, I don't think I appreciated it as much as a child reading it at school. Her words brought me to tears, for her sad upbringing and for her strength throughout and after to speak up.

  • @James_Bowie
    @James_Bowie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    At 27:01 "nothing was left to me". That is completely at odds with what she wrote in Falling Leaves. In Chapter 30 she wrote, quoting the contents of her father's will which her husband Bob found: "Father had divided his estate into seven shares. He left one share to me ... no share was left to Susan .. no share is to go to my daughter Lydia ... He at least did not exclude me." The fact that the evil Niang rewrote that will to exclude Adeline is beside the point. Her father did not exclude her from his own will.

    • @changeintheair9648
      @changeintheair9648 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No, it is not at odds. Because in Chinese Cinderella - she only knew she was left with nothing. Later as she got older in Falling Leaves - she found out (quoting father's will content) BUT she was not privy to that when her father died. Niang was the one who said what was written in will (lied).

  • @cm4191
    @cm4191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I know people are super against her stepmother but if u read carefully, she said ‘
    "My siblings, and maybe my father, blamed me for my mother's death," she explains. "My siblings said, you're bad luck, you brought death to our family. But my stepmother never said that to me; she told me I had bad blood from my mother, you're no good," she said.’ Her step mom treated her like shit bcs she was the only one that was disobedient and went up against her, her siblings were young but they’ve done the worst things I’ve ever seen being done by children. His father allowed the cruel bullies to happen and only sent her alone to orphanage.

  • @hindusuresh6480
    @hindusuresh6480 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i have read her books at school and i was like oml how have i not read this before!

  • @qiqiandtoan
    @qiqiandtoan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In Hong Kong she is part of the A league based on where the people lived... we can all learn that even if you're at that "status" it doesn't drive happiness.

  • @sydthonyc4939
    @sydthonyc4939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Chinese Cinderella was my favorite book and has gotten me through some tough times

  • @tanishkasingh4353
    @tanishkasingh4353 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Just read the book! Its beautiful 💖

  • @ellieodonovan8916
    @ellieodonovan8916 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Do you still know wu chun mei

  • @danceoflotus3679
    @danceoflotus3679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    proud to say i finished reading the book📚

  • @jandl9417
    @jandl9417 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I so respect and admire the inner strength and courage of Adeline. I admire her but have also a tender love for such a beautiful soul.

  • @jdmom29
    @jdmom29 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. I've searching for this.

  • @theoneudontknow4606
    @theoneudontknow4606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is an amazing book❤️❤️

  • @chanmanna7358
    @chanmanna7358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    beautiful and tough Lady!

  • @zocchang
    @zocchang ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i’m reading chinese cinderella for a nonfic unit in my la class and the plot has been making me so upset 😞

  • @user-ez5xv9dn9c
    @user-ez5xv9dn9c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m currently reading the book Chinese Cinderella Niang is quite cruel!

  • @dazaisbandages75
    @dazaisbandages75 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was in class when I found this while the teacher read Chinese Cinderella (a book about adeline life)

  • @princessalexandra1613
    @princessalexandra1613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Does anyone know what happened to Aunt Baba?

    • @fmh654
      @fmh654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      If you read falling leaves you'll find out that aunt baba died in the shanghai house of adelines childhood that adeline bought for her. Adeline visited her before she died.

    • @datminiplayzbloxfruits
      @datminiplayzbloxfruits 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fmh654 OMG WHY DID YOU SPOIL ITTTT

    • @datminiplayzbloxfruits
      @datminiplayzbloxfruits 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fmh654 ahhh now my life is ruined thank you. But its okay, just please put a *spoiler alert* warning next time please

    • @fmh654
      @fmh654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@datminiplayzbloxfruits Why did you view the replies

  • @user-ez5xv9dn9c
    @user-ez5xv9dn9c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    RIP Plt he was the best pet Adeline could have :(

  • @sngamergirl321
    @sngamergirl321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I watched this in school I feel bad for her I've also read the book

  • @peachrocker9716
    @peachrocker9716 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I loved her book as a kid, but after reading WIld Swans by Jung CHang, I see Yen mah barely touched on the horrors of MAoist china. adeline never mentioned him as a bad person. But he created the bloody purge called the great leap forward, not to mention witch hunts and violence against dissidents

    • @diane-blairgoodpasture8804
      @diane-blairgoodpasture8804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She left China long before Mao came to power. Also, the story is about Adeline's relationship with her family. Mao is irrelevant in this case.

  • @elipeeli
    @elipeeli 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Queen Adeline

  • @Swaberrylemon
    @Swaberrylemon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    im cying i want to know more about her😭

  • @mochitrash8743
    @mochitrash8743 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im reading the book right now and its amazing!

  • @agatham.c.l.w330
    @agatham.c.l.w330 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    acabei de ler coração em cinzas(folhas caídas) e cinderela chinesa ... fico realmente triste por tudo que aconteceu com ela, porém super feliz também com o destino e a prosperidade dela ❤

  • @mrsjunggukie4923
    @mrsjunggukie4923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We had to do this for our assignment

    • @regenapi
      @regenapi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m doing it right now too lol

  • @digimonalvatrax2738
    @digimonalvatrax2738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    feel sorry

  • @NatashaSingh988
    @NatashaSingh988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    " Uneducated women are virtuous being" How utterly pathetic and misleading can an outdated teaching sound.

  • @jennymcdonald855
    @jennymcdonald855 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did she find an chen mai in the end

  • @haych_219
    @haych_219 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We read the book of Chinese Cinderella
    teacher told me to watch this

  • @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
    @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this is basically r/nuclearRevenge during the start of the 21st century. And she earns money as well.

  • @clivechiam
    @clivechiam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I see she still takes number 11 rickshaw everywhere 😏

  • @xlZer0n
    @xlZer0n 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The beginning looks like an Analog horror picture

  • @garlic4202
    @garlic4202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    niang is rolling in her grave rn

  • @artistemily6658
    @artistemily6658 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I read the book

  • @NOTLIZ
    @NOTLIZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    does anyone have a cheesburger
    edit: 100th comment

  • @tareqgfdf7901
    @tareqgfdf7901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    من مدرسه العهد ...يلي شافه 👍

  • @sativa455
    @sativa455 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2024

  • @gabdbueno
    @gabdbueno 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    GRADE 8 BOOK LOLL

    • @ifrog751
      @ifrog751 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gabriel Dwayne Corpuz bruh same