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- Hi there! today I'm sharing the true definition of ikigai and how to find your real ikigai :)
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let me know your ikigai here ✍🏼✨my current ikigai is to eat meiji chocolate 🍫 lol my favorites are dark, matcha, and strawberry 🍓 highly recommend you try them if you visit japan!
My current ikigai is to bake banana bread 😅 I’m experimenting on it and adding different flavors. 😂
My ikigai is thinking of what to eat for lunch/ dinner! lol
Another near-term ikigai of mine is my upcoming trip to Japan in May :D
@@patebm9448I love banana bread! so yummy 😋
@@cherie4665haha literally me everyday 😂 I hope you will have an amazing time in Japan
My Ikigai is saving animals, helping people, and enjoying music. Love your outfits ^^
Your video inadvertently revealed why studio Ghibli is successful. The anime movies easily display the simplicity aspect of ikigai.
that is true, I didn't realize that!
Thanks for this. I used to stress so much about not having a purpose and at the end of the day it's the little things in life.
As a neurodivergent person struggling with daily tasks and procrastination, I’ve been feeling bad about my “ikigai” for an entire existence 😂
And finally today I’ve found your video! 🙏🏻
My ikigai (the actual one, not the diagram one) is eating good and learning Japanese
My kids would probably tell you “playing Fortnite” or “listening to music” or “drinking coconut milk” 😊
They all sound amazing 🍵🍃🫶🏼
I finally found out the name for it! I have definitely found my ikigai and always tell people that’s what they need to do. I always tell them to do something they enjoy doing for a job that contributes to society. Once they become one of the best at it, the money will come. I tell them to disregard all preconceived notions and opinions about that job and just focus on being the best. So cool that there’s a Japanese teaching that describes the formula. If you love what you do, you never work a day in your life. Flow takes over and you become the work. Thank you so much for your video.
i studied this concept for 2+ years and always tried to find ikigai. i found it pointless. i was confused as to why i wasn't getting the point and the hype and really struggled with it....tldr this really helped, thank you!
Thank you, so happy to hear that you found my video helpful :)
It’s funny because as I was watching another video about Ikigai that was the mistaken concept, I thought “But what if my passion in life is hanging out with my pets? And what if I don’t want to make money doing that because turning joy into a business might destroy the joy?” And now I watched your video and I understand that I was correct and you don’t have to turn your joy into money. 😊
I agree! its ok to just enjoy what you enjoy without turning it into a business :)
M ikigai are to just be and enjoy the taste of good food, breathing, taking a walk, conversation with friends, moisturizing my skin, and dressing in a way that I like.
So happy i found this video,i read this beautiful book on Ikigai written by a Japanese neurologist and he was describing it exactly like you,and wben i popped on TH-cam and i saw they were talking instead about this entire bussiness mindset i was like..."oh no here again they have to change something beutiful as a way to make money" LOL GLAD you made this video for all of us❤
Thank you so much ♥️ so happy to hear that :) Is the book by Ken Mogi? :)
@@mylifeasmako yes i saw you also mentioned it while i waa typing the comment! I loved it 🥰
My ikigai is to prepare my matcha in the morning, while the cool air comes through the open window. I love this so much. And also working in the garden
its so relaxing to prepare matcha in the morning 😊🍃
I enjoy knitting/crocheting, painting, drinking coffee, listening to podcast, reading, enjoying tasty treats, moving my body, spending time with a few, close people. I have so many small things to enjoy but despise my working environment. None of the things I enjoy bring income and I don't want to destroy my love of them by trying to make them make me money. It is this dilemma that brought my to Ikigai in the first place. It seems as everything beside work is perfect 🥰 Just wish I could find something that is tolerable to make an income...
I just started crocheting too, its so much fun! I agree, keeping the right balance of joy + what brings you money can be very difficult.
Thank you Mako for simplifying Ikigai! Im having a hard time finding my Ikigai based on the diagram. But my Ikigai is eating eggs and sourdough during dinner. I love eggs, I look forward to eating it every day. :) Also, another Ikigai is me walking my worries away at the gym or at home.
Thank you for watching! I love eggs can't live without them!🍳 haha
I'm a Japanese living in Canada, and I was astonished when I saw the Ikigai chart for the first time. As you have mentioned, my Ikigai so far was to have a glass of beer with my colleagues on Friday, and/or going to a park with my little ones. Very nice post!!
Thank you! That's how its supposed to be :)
So simple, yet authentic. I was always told that what I wanted in life was "too small." I never wanted to make tons of money or be really famous or anything. I just wanted a family, have people over for meals and do simple things like art and crafts. Trying to find "my true purpose" is extremely stressful. I just want to be able to enjoy the little things again.
It is always nice to see your videos! I have heard about ikigai before from one american self development channel. He was describing it as these circles. It is great to get the correct meaning of ikigai from a Japanese person! My ikigai is painting, swimming and drinking some good tea!
thank you! your ikigai sounds amazing! i would love to learn how to paint someday :)
thank you alot Mako. very helpful insight. I started seeing Ikigai show up on my feed and I was getting ready to start a 16-question exercise to help decipher and organize my passions. I feel that I am multi-talented and skilled in many fields. Since I am trying to leave my 9-5 career in pharmacy for a more work from home stance, this came up. I knew that I needed to find the source to make sure I was using this method correctly.
Absolutely loved this reality check! Thank you so much. I've only been subscribed to you for about a month but I'm so glad I found you. ❤
thank you so much ❤
Hii, I have been watching your videos just for a few hours this evening. I just wanna say that I admire your positivity and your authenticity. I don’t feel like you’re over exaggerating things and that you’re honest. Your video quality is amazing, and I love your way of telling and the pace. I think I found my new favorite youtuber to watch and one I look up to! Keep it going, you’re doing amazing! Have a nice day!
That is so sweet, thank you so much :) I'm so glad you enjoy my videos✨
This video is soo good in all aspects!! Well done, I love Japan so much
Thank you so much!!
I just read the book from the two authors who went to Okinawa. After watching this video it's actually kind of funny how irrelevant this diagram was in the book as well! Thinking back on it, I liked most of that book because it was celebrating the smaller things in life and put a lot of emphasis on community which I think is a... Not sure what the right word is, but kind of like a dying trend among younger people. Mostly because everyone is busy (most people I know have 2-3 jobs and usually also school). But at the end, the book went back to you needing a second stream of income, to become antifragile, which is, sure, a nice thought, but suddenly, it was so remote to everything else it talked about beforehand! So thank you for this video, I like this idea much better than whatever that diagram would want you to believe.
Thank you for sharing this and teaching us! ❤
It's my pleasure ❤
Hi Mako, :)
Thank you so much for finding me :) that’s amazing that you know your passion already and you’re only 18! ✨
Thank you very much, I was trying to understand the Ikigai concept and it was enlightening 🙏
Glad it was helpful! :) thank you for watching!
This was very interesting to hear Mako! One of the books that I've enjoyed reading the most is Ikigai by Garcia and Miralles. Never knew what it ACTUALLY meant and honestly the reality of the word is truly refreshing and beautiful 🌸✨️ also you look beautiful today, your cardigan is lovely!
awww thank you so much :) 🌸✨
Your voice is so calming when you explain what ikigai truly is. To be honest, I had never heard of the concept of ikigai up until watching this video. My ikigai would probably be eating good food (desserts is a big one for me) and figure skating. I’m an adult figure skater, and I just returned to figure skating at the start of this year after a 4 year hiatus due to the pandemic. I always get excited researching how to do new moves and trying them out at the rink if I’m not in my private lesson. Skating always seems to melt my stress from my day such as work easily.
Thank you so much! You just made me wanna go back on ice! haha
@@mylifeasmako Well, exercise is always good for the mind and body. I’m sure there’s at least one indoor rink that offers open ice times for cheap prices than some of the pro or contract ice that is more expensive.
Wow, I learned so much from this video! Thank you so much for sharing the true meaning of ikigai
Thank you so much! They are both amazing 🥰
Beautiful I love the message
Everyone has a God given purpose and talents we have been given and we must choose how to use them well.
Thank you!! great to finally learn about the real meaning of this often used word
Glad it was helpful!
Wow , Mako ! Arigató for THAT video ! It is very deep and substancial. You know what ? I indeed have no ikigai but to be on my way to find it was kind of my ikigai if that makes sense to you. lately I am deep in my own process to discover myself. I see a lot of pros like coachesses, health experts, sports instructors, relaxation- trainers and so one. I don´t wanna die without having found my ikigai ( oh-that rhymed lol ) but it´s true. My healing and health journey is such a good thing... So thank you for your inspiring vid. I will read a book about ikigai...
wishing you the best of luck with your journey to heal and rediscover yourself! It might take time but I’m sure it will be worth it 😌 arigato for watching :)
That was a helpful clarification. And frankly, is easier, lol! It's really more about finding the joy of living...any small joy or pleasure...in any given moment. Much different than the pressure to find one's life purpose! Thank you.
exactly! :) thank you for watching!
Thank you!! Finally!! LOL!!!! I learnt about the Western version of Ikigai 3 years ago, My brains were BOMBED after I decided to purchase the TRUE IKIGAI Book a year later after trying to figure out so hard (or too hard) following the over-hyped IKIGAI we knew LOL.. and thought "Holy! It has NOTHING TO DO with whatever I have learnt.. and who will share this REAL IKIGAI?" LOL!!! GREAT JOB, MAKO!!!!! Thank you for sharing your valuable insights! ♥
thank you
Love your outfit!
thank you :)
Thank you for giving us the "more Japanese perspective" of ikigai. It's really hard to know your purpose with too many overwhelming categories from the Western version but with the 5 Pillars, it is easy to understand. And I think finding your purpose should not be hard, it should always be simple always. :)
thank you for watching! exactly :)
Thank you for clearing this up. For longest time I never find the answers for that diagram. I know something was amiss but couldn' t point up.
It seems like a really nice concept to consider. This diagram and pilars explained definitely give to think about.
Thank you for another one 😊
Thank you for watching and for your comment 😊
Thank you for all that valuable information you provide. It's so useful to apply in life.
I realized that I'm waiting for your new videos 🙌
Thank you for your video. With your definition of Ikigai, I feel that it possible to find it.
so happy to hear that :)
Love your content, would you do a makeup tutorial (share your makeup tips) someday? Like your makeup
thank you so much! I would say knowing my personal color really helped me! I'm summer (blue based) so I tend to go to light purple eye shadow which goes really well with my skin :)
Thank you for this.
thank you for watching!
first comment 🎉i’m currently reading the book “ikigai” thank you for your well explained based on a real Japanese person ❤
yay thank you for the first comment 🎉❤
I'm so glad this video came out...I'm also stressed thinking of the western diagram....thank you Mako..
I'm glad you enjoyed it :)
Well I loved this video and watched till the end. You being able to quit a 9-5 and be able to dress up to take videos is the ultimate cuteness and power of divine feminine energy Asé🤍
thank you so much 🤍
Thank you for the video! Mine is a fresh hot cup of coffee in the morning 🌸
Thank you for watching! It's amazing nice to have a hot cup of coffee in the morning ☕✨
I recently completed 2 business courses - they both had a section on Ikigai with the diagram to fill out. I felt a bit of pressure to try and find out what my Ikigai is. It wasn't really that helpful. I think my answer on the diagram is actually different from what I plan to do as a business. I have so many interests which change often.
Some of my family members live in Japan and as a westerner I sometimes cringe when I see our culture take concepts from other countries and turn them into a wellness or business trend.
I wonder if Danish people cringe at Hygge being trendy and fashionable?
This is such an important video. Really well made.
I feel like in western culture people are very out of touch with themselves and it becomes very easy to exploit that, and that is definitely what happened with Ikigai philosophy.
When what people actually need is less pressure and to do what makes them feel fulfilled, which is perfectly described in the 5 pillars you presented in the end of the video.
thank you so much!
Thanks for your video. I didn't know ikigai after i saw ikigai diagram when i remembered it.
I heard about ikigai before, and i cannot understand deeply about it, but i learned simple way from this video. It was interesting topics.
Thank you! glad to hear that!
I admire your video and the honesty with which you present your ideas.
Ikigai, as you say, is a very simple and sometimes small appreciation of life, that is naturally experienced by the Japanese people.
People in the west and Americans especially have a difficult time experiencing these things because our culture does not support those types of ideals.
Instead, because we are programmed to having everything in life marketed to us, we miss these opportunities for quiet and peaceful reflections, because there is no money in that.
mako., your observation that this is a co-opting of Japanese culture simply to make money is accurate and I am quite ashamed that I live in a culture that behaves so.
I appreciate your sharing of ideas that are natural and so well thought out.
thank you so much for watching :)
Interesting! I think there are things we can learn from both versions of Ikigai to be honest: both to really think about the big picture, and to enjoy the small things that make our world go round :)
Btw, it's spelled beginners! Thought I'd let you know 😊
thank you for watching :)
My ikigai is watching smart Japanese women talking on the internet x) Kinda similar to your mother's, I guess. (Hi, Mako's mom)
ahaha 😂
This was so interesting. The book "Ikigai" by Héctor Garcia is actually a bestseller, but now I'd rather read "Ikigai" by Ken Mogi. I feel like the Western world misinterprets lots of Japanese concepts. And it's really fascinating to find those. Like the whole Western obsession with Marie Kondō, who has never been that popular in Japan... The language barrier is something huge and there are not many foreigners living in Japan. I'm currently trying to learn Japanese and it's such a difficult language. I'm already fluent in English and French, plus my native Polish. Even French wasn't as difficult as Japanese... It's interesting you mentioned that young Japanese people actually struggle to find a sense of meaning in life. Work is certainly one of the most important things. But if one is not doing the work one loves, it's just the means to earn money. And it's so often the case, actually. People use the money they earn to buy "the meaning" their work doesn't give them. But material things cannot give life meaning, even if they are indispensable for a good life. Living in the moment is also part of mindfulness practice and it definitely can be a part of Ikigai. Enjoying little things... and being humble. I think most Westerners have a huge problem with being humble. The Western culture is def a culture of MORE, and it applies chiefly to material objects. I feel like the Japanese are more focused on collecting the moments, even in the means of pictures, vlogs etc. Yes, I think the spiritual and philosophical differences are so worth pointing out. My Ikigai is just a peaceful and secure life with my Kitty, as I have no kids and lost my husband. I wish I could be living close to Nature, like you do. I think this could be a part of my Ikigai. I miss the Baltic sea, it gave me such a peace of mind. Keep going Mako-san, I love your vids❤
Thank you so much for your beautiful video ✨ Spending time with your kitty sounds great and it’s a perfect example of ikigai 💕
You're growing like a snowdrop in the spring. Next week I'll be posting my first vid too!
wow thats so exciting!! :) congratulations!
My IKIGAI at the moment is to make new friends and travel with family more...
I read book about Ikigai it's interesting. My Ikigai is editing videos, recently i found job on TV. Mako, thanks for your inspiration video i like it! Make video about your favourite books and movie)
Thank you so much 🥰
Thank you for this enlightenment. 😊
Thank you for watching 😊
My ikigai today is gonna be picking the raspberries off of my fruit bush outside. I've been so excited for them to ripen~
Sounds beautiful 🌸
Interesting video ! My ikigai is cooking and sharing 😊.. Thanks for the info 👏
Thank you! Cooking brings so much joy in your life 💫
I experienced this when "hygge" became trendy. Americans seemed to think it meant "All year Christmas". Which wouldn't even be hygge...
Thanks for trying to explain what it actually means. I felt so dumb picking up this book...
I already guessed that maybe it isn't like what the book is preaching. Like yoga, it's been westernised & packaged as a product.
Good vlog 😊 I learned 🎉
thank you 😊
Interesting.
Greetings from Brasil!
Thks.
thank you for watching :)
i love your pearl necklace! where did you get it from?
It was originally my mom's so I'm not sure but I think there are designs like this if you go to a shop in japan!
Thank you so much for this vidéo!
thank you for watching ♡
Why i thank you is for many reasons. One of them is that the ikigai diagram is overrepresented in europa and US to sale a kind of false Japanese cultural appropriation to make coachings and stages for enterprises and totally change the sense that you really good explain. I understand what is it in my own culture. I didn't know it's a buddhist philosophy.
I'm learning history of Japan and theology, religions science and philosophy like Shinto. The lastest form of primar animism you can find in the world anymore!
And animism was before the most ancestral philosophy and spirituality you can find all around the world. It's so fascinating for me because Japan is the only one country in the world they can't preserve that. It's evolved in religion but the based is there.
Thank you love your vidéos so kindness and good mind.
Sorry for my level in English I'm French.
You so gorgeous in that outfit Mako.
Thank you so much 🥹💕
My ikaigi is looking At flowers and seeing into the eyes of my grandchildren
OH, the truth hurts! I've been lied to. haha! Thanks for sharing this!
haha thank you for watching :)
It reminds me of how english people use french words. I am a French canadian and it always kind of makes me roll my eyes when I hear Americans misuse and mispronounce "Rendez-vous, soirée, Ombré, Coup-de-grace, Atelier, Omelette DU Fromage, etc." Now japanese is the new "cool and trendy" foreign language to use. Don't get me wrong I love using words that come from other languages when a word dosen't exist in English or French for it but there is definitely a trendification of using Japanese words like Kawaii, Umami, isekai, Kaiju, edamame, ikigai, etc. I get why people like borrowing words, cuz it sounds cool and worldly, but I also understand native speakers who kind of don't like it cuz its cringe lol
Also fun fact the french expression "Raison d'être" is basically the equivalent of "Ikigai" in meaning and use but it's more a strict then the diagram used for Ikigai
My ikigai
Coffee in the morning and nature
i love the smell of coffee in the morning ☕✨
@@mylifeasmako I was thinking deeply about this and I realised that my ikigai now is kissing the neck of my 5 years old son
He is the sweetest being I have ever met
If you think the only pay is monetary, you need to look deeper into yourself.
Ya now that I think about it, the diagram looks like straight from the HR's desk
My Ikigai is working out 🏋️
My ikigai is find the truth, learning, food, women and sex
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My Ikigai is correct or not ??
It’s hard to find your ikigai, but easy to find an icky guy 😄
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Your voice is so asmr ish ... why you ruin my mith on such beautiful tone?😁😁
hahaha I’m sorry 😂😭 lol
@@mylifeasmako i forgive u this time:))
Ikigai is just the simple pleasures in life... Or ask the French, they will have something similar
Have I been under a rock??🤯 I had NO idea this became the western bandwagon philosophy of the week after people got bored of milking stoicism for views. It sounds like this has been going on for a while! Wow. The first person I heard talk about it was someone who was definitely not even Asian, certainly not Japanese or versed in your culture, and seemed like a bit of hippy-dippy "guru" type of person so I assumed they misunderstood something or were dramatizing/exaggerating to sell a book (which they were promoting lol) 😅People are sooo good at making a Hollywood productions out of concepts they don't understand.
In regards to the correct ikigai... I don't have one, either, I suppose. Anything that could be an ikigai in any form seems too far away or uncertain to be of serious value. I dread every single day. Maybe my ikigai is just... surviving the day long enough until it's reasonable to go back to bed?
I have never really been introduced to ikigai before thank you for this beautiful explanation! definitely will come back to share once i think it over what is my ikigai.
Thank you :)
It's another example of foreigners taking simple Japanese words and making them "mystical". As a foreigner in Japan I laugh when I see someone try to explain "ikigai" or "ganbaru" as if they're some deep concepts and not just daily life words.
thank you for watching! 🤗
Six sigma comes to mind…but the Toyota company invented it 😅
Well people are worried about to many things because the rent must be paid lol. Abundant people know they can get paid to do the things they love because then they will have more time and money to do more things they love. Working hard in a rat race till 65 does not sound fun. #MyronGolden
OMG that is how I felt when Billy Carsons wife had box braids lol. It's like people just take culture and it's so rude.
Dog watches are so precise! 🕰️