#ThatsHarassment
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ม.ค. 2018
- During an interview, a Politician (Harry Lennix) wants to “take a break,” having some other ideas for the time spent with a professional journalist (Emmy Rossum). #ThatsHarassment
One in four women face harassment in the workplace. These PSAs- written and directed by Israeli-American director Sigal Avin and executive produced by David Schwimmer, Mazdack Rassi of MILK Studios and Sigal Avin-are based on real events and depict scenarios of sexual harassment in workplaces.
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this is so well acted i can practically feel how uncomfortable she is. it’s subtle but still really obvious
@Cdawg FahShawg You're not wrong, she definitely should've been more forward, but I think the point in the character acting like this is to show a more realistic portrayal of a woman feeling truly uncomfortable during these sort of situations. A lot of women will not be forward and direct because they don't want to come across as rude or overly dramatic, or they may feel intimidated by the person harassing them, especially if the person is their boss, teacher, or freaking POLITICIAN. They could also feel intimidated if they believe that if they show their discomfort or disgust in an obvious and less subtle way, the man could get pissed off and end up hurting them. You can never be too sure. And then there are some women are are just naturally passive or shy and will refuse to speak up whenever something's bothering them, which is terribly dangerous and they need to fix this issue ASAP.
I'm guessing that this video was focusing more on, "What is sexual harassment?" or "How to tell if you or someone else is being harassed" rather than "What to do when you're being sexually harassed". It's to show how a woman (or man) will typically show that he or she is uncomfortable though their body language and subtle verbal cues. Lets be real, most women will not have the courage to slap a man in the face or scream at him for harassing her, especially if he's a politician. And it's also to tell those who have been harassed, "Hey, has this has ever happened to you? Yes? Well it isn't okay, and no person has any right to treat you this way. Don't let this happen to you again." As well as give others a warning for those who haven't been harassed, in case they do in the future.
Do u realize who she is? She's been acting for along time. She plays one of the main characters in Shameless, Fiona, on Showtime.
I love how she brought up her husband..
and in the same sentence tried to move it to a public place.
That's what you do when you have practice in that kinda situation. And no one should have that.
Guys like this wont care. If anything, it makes him ever more excited. Note, her bringing it up put absolutely no slow to his advances... 🤷♀️
These are so well done. This made my skin crawl.
oracleofdewphi Same here. The worst part is that he completely ignores all her cues that she’s uncomfortable. I’ve been in situations like that before, where you know it’s coming and yet give them the benefit of a doubt with clear cues that they ignore. 🤢 I feel like it must have worked before otherwise they wouldn’t continue.
"Skin crawl." It wasnt even that fucking bad.
1:33 The energy shifted between the 'really?' and the shoulder-touch.
@Jim Seriously -_-
Ok but I'll literally.... I don't know what would I do in that situation Gosh, that's good she mentioned her husband and wanted to go to public. It's so realistic that I've literally shivers
Idk if he'd care about her having a husband, but the suggestion for a public meeting place was great.
yea she loves "to eat out"
If only men realised the trauma sexual harassment puts a woman through. Cause most women smile through the words to evade the discomfort but when it gets to touching someone just goes numb
Yes group all men into one category, cause we're all scum bag piece's of crap right
@@joeyoung4204
No, not all men are scumbags. I would say MOST men are good and decent people. The good ones cringe through watching this video feeling how uncomfortable this REAL situation is right along with us. Men (and some women, of course) are usually the ones who try this kind of thing and women (and some men, of course) are the ones who have to play defense, most of the time.
Part of the problem is that we women just don't know how to handle these situations. We have never been taught how to react when someone in a professional setting tries to hit on us, touches us in ways that only our boyfriends and husbands would (or girlfriends, if it's that kind of relationship, or if the roles are reversed and it's a woman harassing a man, which does happen), when someone makes an inappropriate comment, etc. It's just easier to smile and even laugh through our discomfort instead of addressing someone immediately who is of equal rank, or even worse, when someone is our superior. There are men who suffer through this, too.
Education FOR BOTH SEXES IN BOTH ROLES continues to be the solution. This video helps recognize the situation, but what should we do about it? How should we handle it? There are huge gaps to fill and we have a long way to go, still.
@@alicesrabbit7126 true
@@joeyoung4204 Yes, all men.
It is my opinion, based on my personal observations, that men who do this are doing it for the same reason that rapists rape. It's about power, and control. Most of them **do** realize the trauma that harassment puts a woman through - and they like it. They *want* to make her uncomfortable. What they also know is they want her to feel subservient to him, and "just comply" because that's the power part. There are men who will try to save their own asses when they're called out, and claim they "didn't know she was uncomfortable," or ,"Had no intention to harm," but it has nothing to do with not knowing what they are doing. It's just that they only act out of self-preservation, and self-pleasure, and nothing else.
Knowing that a person is getting off on discomfort puts a victim in a very strange position. If she shows she's *very* uncomfortable, it only makes the harasser more excited, and push harder. If she shows no response at all, then he gets to pretend, "She wants it." There's no winning in this situation. There is no right response. The only "correct" response is to do your best to keep yourself safe, and extricate yourself from the situation as fast as possible. Anything else is asking too much from a victim.
**Note** This applies to everyone - men harassing women, men harassing men, women harassing men, and on and on. If you're a guy, and you're being pushed this way by a woman, you're just as much a victim. The *HARASSER* is the *ABUSER* and it is never a victim's responsibility to control someone else's shitty behavior.
I started to get creeped out the minute he put his hand on her shoulder. She tries to casually move away, but the creep won't let her.
It's so realistic it made my heart race.
This happens far to much. Thank you for making this short film.
Emmy is a great actress she was amazing in phantom of the opera I love her voice she can really sing I think she should be in more musicals she's definitely got the voice for it
Sooooo off topic
That jaw clench at 2:41 says it all
@@Lizathla shes obviously interviewing him, why would anyone else be there
@@mzm3nd0za84 I know, but her husband should have been there or someone else.
@@Lizathla Why on earth would her husband follow her to work? Women shouldn't need to walk around with body guards to not get harassed. ESPECIALLY not when they are in a place of business.
great job for so visually making people aware what harassment is. women and men might feel reassured in their experiences and find their subjective feeling confirmed. Thank you
Isn’t it sad how these PSA’s seem so familiar? Whether you’re middle aged, or a millennial or 16 like me, most likely you have a story similar to the ones demonstrated in the videos. :(
@Cdawg FahShawg lmao what even are you?
Let me tell you one thing. People who are saying that this is not harrassment. She is doing her job for god's sake. And instead of respecting that you are trying to show her your "likings" towards her?????
The definition of Sexual Harassment:
Harassment in a workplace, or other professional or social situation, involving the making of unwanted sexual advances or obscene remarks. (which is exactly what happened in the video).
"You are such an intelligent, strong woman". Ugh. Would he say to a male journalist, " You are such an intelligent, strong man"? That's were it all started. Smarmy af...
No but he could say "You seem like an intelligent young man" would you say that is sexist??
Clearly lot of en use these fake empty phrases to impress women . Have seen that
If he was the same exact person except homosexual, then yes.
Yeah...compliments are so evil!
That sentence is very condesending and is only told to women. Only those who think that they are superior than the other party, wouldn’t hesitate to tell someone that they are intelligent and strong. As if it is theirs to decide.
They need one for guys too. Countless time older women act inappropriately with younger co-workers
Absolutely. Notice all of the school teachers who are sleeping with kids. What's their excuse?
The thing that bothers me the most is that men like him know exactly what to do to make their victim feel helpless in the easiest way possible. For instance if this victim just told her story online in a post, no one would fucking believe her. Everyone would be sceptical and automatically try to defend that fucking guy simply because they didn't experience it themselves.
Oh my God!
This is so well done
thanks for making this series, it's amazing, I gotta say it turned my workplace's sexual harassment training course into a nightmare-fuel psychological drama
this is the REALITY behind closed doors 1:1
Modern PSAs are long overdue
Breaks my heart
The last time I was harrassed at work and I reported it no body did anything about it good thing I'm transferring
Probably because it WASN'T harassment. You just make it out to be.
Sorry, but i can't help but respond to this that way.
@@seculair2996 why would you assume this? harassment isn't exactly uncommon. why don't you ask for details if you're going to jump in to belittle someone ..
one question: can most men not read body language? is this a foreign concept to them?
Can most women not understand men are not mind readers? Is this a foreign concept to them?
This is a politician drunk on power. This isn't most men. For fuck's sake. Not all of us are meaty horn dogs. End of story.
chardonnay fucking feminist
Hunter Williams-Foust sorry but body language is really important and most decent humans can fucking read body language
@@mkc6262 hey u idiot dont u understand the bloody meaning of NO. Stop calling women feminist.
great homage to the orginal adding in the line "youre really going places"
When they grab you by the wrist or the shoulder.... Happened to me. Beside, butt grabbing, breast grabbing..... Chills up and down my spine.
Perfectly cast.
😀😀😀😀😀..the first words of him were suggestive of what his intentions were..
This is second to the photography one. Good lord
Ok it's SO uncomfortable to even watch
Dear lord this got my heart racing and my blood boiling. #MeToo. Thank you for making this, no matter how painful to watch. Excellent job.
Just let men harass you
my blood boil when these brainwashing feminist will starting crying when they heard men harassment by women..
@@SHAURYA181 "crying when they heard men harassment by women" well being upset over a man being harassed isn't necessarily a weird thing. Whenever anyone gets harassed, it's not okay, regardless of the gender.
I could feel what I have felt before
To Men and Women: If you wouldn't say it to or try it on someone you are *_not_* attracted to sexually, DON'T SAY IT TO ANYONE, PERIOD. If you wouldn't say it to the type of person you are insulting, such as someone of a different race or sexual orientation, DON'T SAY IT TO ANYONE, PERIOD.
OMG SHAMELESSS
It's far from over.
"Sure, let's keep going," LOL. . . It would NEVER happen like this in the #club. . . #settings!
Apparently men don't get harassed too.
I was creaped out
FIONA!
youre real smooth, so are you. ha ha
Anything to get out of actually talking about his stance on the Dakota pipeline.
Pretty good acting.
Ugh this has happened to me
Can you tell your story please?
Damn Barrack, you better chill!
Wow I can’t look at him the same way on blacklist omg I’m done 😌😡
I’m just noticing that’s Fiona from Shameless
Fiona Gallagher???
Nice acting
What if girl harassed boy we need Justice tooo
Peenee kit if a girl harrassed a boy she should get the same punishment as the guy would no one deserves to be harrassed at work then have the harasser get away it
Peenee kit men deserve to be taken seriously just as much as women do if
A man gets harrassed then they need to report it and put a stop too it
black sparrow no I'm transferring to another store
@black sparrow thats not nice, he doesn't seem like nicest person but if what this young man says is true then you shouldn't make fun. It doesn't make you look any better than him.
Clark Superman Krypton I'm sorry you that happened to you did you report it?
Intense
Harry did a great job acting in mo money
Can we see a man being harrassed by a wonan. I here that alot.
without spectacles ,,,,,good
Cdawg FahShawg 🤔
I would like to see a more forceful message to shake men the eff up. MEN--YOU CANNOT DO WHATEVER YOU WANT!!
Pita M Men are also sexually harassed you sexist hypocrite.
So... who is harry lennix supposed to be exactly?
i guess we all know
Do we ...?👀🕵🏻♂️
Fiona gallagher turning down sex?
Did the actors do this one for free?
these films are good. except one point. only women victims. in the reality both sides are. at my last work wie had a woman nearly 50 who harass us permanently. in a very digusting wise. so when you make movies like this. please make also real harassment against men.
Fiona 🥺💞
Is this about Joe Biden?
Him or about several thousand other male politicians throughout the decades.
@@Superstarseven yeah mainly him tho.
fiona???
She left Shameless to do commercials? Wtf!!!!
Dyon LeBlanc She was still in shameless when this came out.
Why men do that, GOD I HATE LIKE THAT!
Syeda Hoque because they're men and they don't know how to get dates
does anyone else think it's not harassment until 2:03 after she mentioned her husband, because that's a clear signal she's not interested. anything before that is just a man trying to get a girls number.
when he sat next to her she shifted away
clearly she is not interested, but she has not sent any strong signals until she mentioned her husband. anything before that could be misreading, and a guy shouldn't be blamed for harrassment giving compliments and trying..... after 2:03 he clearly knows she is not interested, keeps going, and even grabs her knee. that is harrassment
She seems uncomfortable as soon as it moves out of the purely professional sphere. She tries to keep it friendly, giving him the benefit of the doubt for that dinner invitation but is clearly not interested. As others have mentioned before, she moves away as he sits next to her and avoids physical contact politely. Maybe too politely for some people here, but it's actually really obvious.
I will note she made snide sarcastic comments when she should have been telling him flat out she was uncomfortable with his advances. Or perhaps move to the other chair. I’m not sure if this is a realistic response or if that was just how the script was written.
The male character was being a dick. guys like this cant take the “hint” and her Sarcasm is only leading him on further.
The problem with guys like this is they simply don’t get it. They are idiots. Leaving the room and reporting it rather than trying to push on with the work will only exacerbate his behavior thinking she wants to be there next to him like that.
None of this is her fault. But I hope other women watching will learn from this and understand what not to do if faced with a similar situation. See him for the animal he is and react accordingly.
Chance is big he get away with it. Just because people like you don't understand when a behavior is constitute as wrong.
Where are the videos about women harassing men. That happens way more often.
For this one, I actually think the only egregious part is when he touches her thigh after she mentions her husband. Aside from that you could chalk it up to a politician hitting on a reporter during an interview. He also may have actually misinterpreted her statement, "I'm easy..." (regarding food), thinking it was innuendo (because he wanted it to be innuendo). Once her stance becomes unmistakable he agrees to simply continue the interview. However, he should have quit at "husband."
Genarii it’s unacceptable for him to be hitting on her in a professional setting, period.
He should of never started in the first place.
She was already visibly uncomfortable when he moved to sit next to her, but gave him the benefit of the doubt. When he wouldn't stop, she deliberately mentioned her husband and tried to get out into public where the perceived chances of misbehaving might have been lower. Also she was visibly irritated by that hand that lingered too long on her shoulder and signalled this with her hand and body moving away.
Exactly. And she put a blunt stop to it, when she said stop, he did
Only after mentioning her husband?
Actual footage of Joe Biden
Would we feel different if the politician was a lesbian?
What kind of question even is that?
Cdawg FahShawg lol it’d be really creepy, not all women like other women and it wouldn’t be cool for anyone to make any advances that the other side wasn’t returning. You’re trying so hard-so hard-to make men turn out to be the victim. There ARE some male sexual harassment victims, especially in the little boys [ :( ]and we should acknowledge them more. But do you honestly think tearing down sexually harassed women while simultaneously tearing down the argument that men aren’t noticed more will support your point? Sad.
black sparrow Society decides that it’s not the same thing you look at Lennar done him who sexually assaulted the black dude from lost daughter The media gave her a personal acquittal
No. Harassment is harrasment. There's no difference if a straight or gay person does it or is a victim of it
I would rather be harrased by a woman than by a man. Different feelings
He is 100% wrong and totally creepy. But something as a "strong independent woman" that doesn't make sense is why she didn't handle it better. When he touched her the 2nd time she should have stated something to the effect of "We are both professional adults so I hope you can respect that I don't appreciate your hands on me. Now if you don't mind lets finish this interview so we can get this over. Thank you." Why become a victim? Just stand up. You always have a choice, its not an easy one, but that's life. If you don't stand up for yourself no one else will. Look at every major Hollywood actress or business woman who has fell "victim" but NO ONE, especially themselves took control of the situation at the time it happened. There are evil people out there, protect yourself.
You can tell these are not real most people would've went off on that guy
That's totally supposed to be Obama
EL PASTY GUERO hfa totally agree. Which makes the question, are they against Obama? Like, to put it in people’s head that HE’S the politician who did this. Or it could be that he’s played presidents in things, and is friends with David Schwimmer and David produced it so just got his friend to do it. Either way, it’s type-casting.
@@Amberburry I don't believe it's that type of casting because bother Harry and his wife are Obama supporters ...I know this for a fact....it just so happens that he dose resemble Obama....
Oh please. He was flirting with her, and badly might I add. The minute she verbalized she wanted to stop and just finish the interview, he said sure and they continued.
Women aren't these defenseless creatures that can't stand up for themselves - it's not their responsibility to make ladies feel safe, everyone is responsible for their own safety.
Seriously? This is flirting to you? She is trying to move away so he should pretty well get the hint that he is making her uncomfortable especially since he's like 20 years older than her.
He is trying to use her for sex. He is not taking "No." for an answer. He is showing manipulative behavior and moves to the other side of the couch guarding her from the door. PAY ATTENTION. Don't make excuses.
That is not sexual harassment. He made a suggestive hand on the thigh. She rebuffed it. He then respected the boundaries.
Edith Strouse however, in work environment one may argue that a hand anywhere below someone’s waist line without permission is inappropriate regardless.
Jennifer Meadows don't bother explaining anything to Edith she doesn't seem very intelligent just another boring blob
@@irenecvietkovich6574 No, it must be explained! Judging from his comment he thinks that this is okay and might try to attempt this on a woman at a workplace in the future.
Question, why is it always the man's fault in theses PSAs? The door swings both ways, but your message has the stereotype man on woman message.
DisneyTimeLord because men are a mistake
Omg. If as a woman you cant handle some intense flirtation then maybe you should check out permanently. You aren't cut out for life.
The man doesn't understand that he needs to keep his hands to himself and do what he is supposed to do, going over an interview with her. Him touching her is not part of his job and he could have easily flirted with her without laying his hands on her but once the lady mentions that she is married he should stop trying to flirt with her and continue on with his work like he is supposed to.
If the roles were reversed the hashtag would be that's empowerment.
Blah blah blah
Women are too easily triggered. I've met quite a few people, men and women who are naturally very friendly. Don't mistaken friendliness for flirting.
He kept touching her. There’s no way that THIS can be interpreted any other way.
@black sparrow
What about men being harrassed by women and gay men ?
Not an excuse lol, you can't just act inappropriate around other people just because, "Oh that's just the way I am." it's like chewing with your mouth open, and then saying it's okay because, "Oh that's just how I eat, deal with it." If you're a normal functioning adult, you are responsible for your own actions. Other people aren't in the fault all because they interpret you differently.
@Cdawg FahShawg You're actually right, I love it when men touch me when I don't want them to. That's actually some great advice that everyone should follow.
@Cdawg FahShawg lmao jesus
Punch him in the face. Tell him off. Something. These are two adults. What you don’t do is wait 20 years when he’s up for some nomination and then speak out.
Google Name right but punch him in the face 20 times I agree I don't understand y people wait years to come forward about the situation
Don't punch him in the face.
There is nothing wrong with what the politician did in this scene.
Theman yes there is
pony pops what did he do wrong?
I'm a woman and dealt with REAL harrassment, this is not harrassment. He's just being friendly. Just because someone of the opposite sex takes a liking to you doesn't mean they're into you.
Di Anna just because they take a liking to you doesn't mean they can touch all over you, not to mention the work related environment
Di Anna and REAL harassment is a broad topic that what I believe a MAJORITY of individuals experience.