Sylvia allegations dont really have any concrete evidence. This interview was a good chance to speak out and apologise to people around her but it turns into pulling into the mud. Speaks alot about someone
@@llljjjyyyy he literally admitted to emotional cheating as seen in the screenshots. also she has no reason to lie since Ryan could back himself out if its not true, I doubt he has anything to say
Timestamp: 00:00 - Intro 01:06 - Sylvia comes in + Saga summary 04:30 - How NOC is works and how their marriage affects it 09:28 - Is Ryan drawing a salary? 10:53 - Is Sylvia the big boss and no one can overwrite her? Is she the bully? Is she slave driving the employees? Is Ryan trying to protect his employees? 12:10 - Who is in charge of making talents stay late? 13:48 - Alleged Lawsuit (Is it true? What is it about?) 14:36 - Sylvia complains about Ryan and accuses him of doing things behind her back 16:34 - Sylvia and Ryan both misappropriating funds 17:02 - Sylvia writes lawyer letter to Ryan 17:20 - Sylvia accuses Ryan of doing things that is a serious breach of the company 17:57 - How does she think the saga affects the outcome of the pre lawsuit 18:54 - Sylvia talks about her leaked audio recording 19:41 - Who is behind SGChickenRice account? (Sylvia starts dropping names) 20:03 - Sylvia talks about Isabelle (Bombiibii) + suspecting Ryan of doing things (aka cheating) 21:57 - Who leaked the group chats and private chats? (Sylvia drops names again) 22:49 - Sylvia questions herself why people hate her so much and want to destroy her so much 23:56 - Sylvia believes Ryan is behind it 24:25 - Sylvia name dropping 25:31 - Sylvia talks about Ryan's motive (not confirmed) behind all these and how he cannot fight against her legally 25:59 - Sylvia talks about Ryan appreciation day 26:19 - XiaXue talks about her thoughts on what is happening + suspecting a campaign against Sylvia 27:05 - Sylvia talks about why all these started (millions of dollars $$$) 27:55 - Sylvia talks about Ryan's 'resign' from NOC + accusing him of things 29:16 - XiaXue ask if the smear campaign affects the outcome of the lawsuit (Sylvia dodged the question just now) 30:09 - XiaXue mind blown 30:47 - Sylvia talks about NOC losing a lot of deals ($$$$$$) + blaming 31:51 - Sylvia talks about why no one stands up for her and cancel culture 32:56 - What is the plan for NOC now? Can the talent leave? 34:39 - XiaXue talks about her skeptic POV + Why would Ryan destroy NOC? 34:55 - Sylvia talks about the Ryan that everyone don't know and only she knows (basically saying he is willing to destroy NOC) 36:13 - Workplace Abuse (JianHao, GoodCop BadCop etc) 36:57 - Sylvia admits she is abusive in workplace and why she became like that + smoking addiction + why she never change + why they divorce 41:56 - Ryan suicide attempts (Sylvia starts crying) 44:04 - Sylvia says she felt manipulated 48:16 - Ryan's cheated on Sylvia while they were married with a restaurant waitress 50:58 - Ryan always have something to do with the girls in NOC (dropping bombshells) 52:41 - Ryan sending NOC girls home/favouring the girls 54:07 - Ryan and Aurelia 55:26 - Did Sylvia intend to fire Aurelia 56:24 - Ryan siding the talents instead of Sylvia 57:15 - Ryan coming clean about who he had a crush on in NOC 58:01 - Michelle pushing herself onto Ryan (+XiaXue sexual joke) 1:12:45 - Misappropriation of funds 1:17:54 - Not allowing Ryan to see porky 1:20:40 - The zoom recordings, Sylvia getting blackmailed on them. 1:22:50 - The HR person who packed porky masks 1:24:20 - Sylvia's brother working in NOC 1:28:35 - Alleged sexual barter trade of NOC's talents 1:33:07 - Updates on the overall police investigations 1:36:08 - XiaXue asks how Sylvia is doing 1:40:16 - The screenshot of someone who was called a slut by Sylvia 1:42:00 - Why thirsty sisters content are down 1:43:13 - Sylvia's BJ video? 1:44:35 - The reason Sylvia decided to speak up
@@jinhon121 yes, sylvia might be in a toxic shitty past r/s with a dismissive ryan. It still does not give green light for sylvia to make people terrify until have ptsd
Put aside whether Sylvia is a nasty person because it’s a persona or what, no woman can tolerate their partner spending more time with so many females ( like how she would wait for Ryan to have dinner at home but he has eaten with Aurelia without informing etc) as compared to herself especially since he cheated before ( these are proven with receipts) She must have went through very sad and lonely moments with no one to speak to, because they were known as the “golden couple”. I believe everything takes 2 hands to clap, she may be a nasty person but Ryan is def not an angel.
Agree. Even if the media line/culture its known for partner needs to be ok w their own partner being touchy w opposite gender. If ur partner say they are not ok, U should respect him/her more than following the "culture". isn't this the basis of a marriage? Still. Takes 2 hands to clap. 1 side need to relax A BIT. other needs to don't be so relaxed
I don’t have a problem with Sylvia being called out for her vile actions but Ryan is even more frustrating by acting all high & mighty as if he’s such a nice guy. Does his actions excuse Sylvia’s? No. But is it a reason behind it? absolutely. They both made mistakes and BOTH should be held accountable. As much as i agree Sylvia is in the wrong, I can obviously tell that Ryan has been driving her up the wall for years and from what i can tell he was definitely lacking as a husband and in some aspects as a boss as well. Being a good boss shouldn’t be about being authoritative or abusive and neither should it be being a friend to your employees (or even worse having a crush on them) btw for anyone saying having a crush on someone is normal, NOT ONLY was he married, he some more go and entertain his little feelings for the noc talents
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I mean you can’t control a crush right? But yeah he cheated on sylvia on his own accord. he’s a grown man he knew what shit he was getting himself into yet still did it. And now hes paying for his actions by being exposed now lol
Tbh, both Ryan and Sylvia are toxic. Everyone has certain sides that we are not proud of, and it’s how we portray ourselves to others.. In Ryan’s case, he’s a great boss and friend. But perhaps he was not a good husband. On Sylvia’s end, she’s a good businesswoman and may have tried to be a good wife. But as a boss, probably quite a toxic one. To add on, company was built on a very dangerous foundation (Married couple as business partners, with cheating episodes = distrust, yet still working with many other females). So everyone else who worked/works for them just became tangled in the mess lor. On a side note, I have to agree it’s very emotionally draining to love someone who has suicidal ideation/ tendencies. The constant fear of what he/she’s gonna do next; how you would give everything just so the person would choose life over death; how you constantly feel it’s your fault that they wanna die. It’s really painful.
I am convinced by now that Sylvia is either a psychopath, or one heck of a tough woman, for being able to show up like this unapologetically and openly, all while bearing the pain that came with the downfall of her career and her dignity. Whether or not she is telling the truth, or if there is ever a fair way of saying whether someone is ultimately right or wrong, I respect her. No one deserves to be treated or attacked like that.
Yessssss me too. I don’t uds why is everyone shaming her and all. It’s really tough being the strong woman trying to pull all fronts of the business together. You don’t get to be one of Singapore’s top TH-camr if you’re soft. And just because she’s hard on everyone, it turns out that she’s evil.
Ikr the fact that she already lost her reputation and ppl just kept wanting to cancel her till she is left with nth , yet she still stands up strong and not sure with the truth or not but most ppl prob might commit suicide or flee the country if they can or just stay quiet for 1-2 years .
The sequence and way the allegations were released is orchestrated. Someone or a group has meditated and planned to bring her down. This video is shot continuously, I don’t think she is lying. I’m not siding her but smells like foul play.
this entire hooha seems like is caused by personal issues Ryan and Sylvia faced at home, which in turn is being brought into the business, hence all the havoc. Anger, revenge, mistrust between the two leaders. it’s getting embarrassing tbh
Nope, not fully. Because they have been separated since 2017. All their home issues should have been stopped at them. Its further they want to further it into the business. If you look at other business couples, many have divorced, but they still continue as co-directors in their company, even bringing it bigger.
to everyone saying that sylvia shouldnt bring up ryan’s suicidal tendencies, i feel that there is a need for sylvia to address this bc its really manipulation and i know exactly how it feels to be trapped and not knowing how to go about not hurting your SO more than he already is. its mentally exhausting bc the other person automatically becomes priority bc you’re so afraid that he might just take his life just bc you one day decided to retaliate. also, how else is she going to explain why she acts the way she did to protect ryan? the fact that ryan trusted her to do the scolding bc he refused to be the bad cop, dont tell me ryan didnt know how sylvia would handle the issues? and with sylvia knowing that ryan is depressed and whatever he’s going through, despite all her efforts to protect him, ryan still decides to confide in another prettier girl, what would that make sylvia then? who is sylvia to him anymore? obviously that would completely crush sylvia and her self esteem bc its natural to start to wonder what she’s lacking and why is it that she’s not good enough for ryan to confide in as a wife?
Why not? It was all a bluff that Ryan hatched-up to psycho the one that loves him. A carefully premeditated plan to discredit his lawful wife for young females? 😃😃😃
Right I’ve seen a lot of ppl say that she’s trying to avoid the topic by bringing up Ryan’s suicidal tendencies. But I feel like it was kind of a key part in explaining why she became such an angry person. It gives us an insight into what shaped her this way. Tho idt it’s nice to air his laundry so it probably would’ve been better if she didn’t go into that much detail abt it since it’s still his personal mental health issues
@@rice_wife yeah but if she didnt go into how much his suicidal tendencies affected her, people would just brush it off as an excuse. so like, right and wrong.
Excuses. If 1-2 employees talk back about you, it might be those few. When so many employees all talk about you. It must mean something about how she is treating employees in general. still doesn't give her the right to late all the time, don't let the employees go home even after 7pm. make them work till 4am. and don't pay them on time. can screw them using vulgarities. it's the company management issues. Don't take it out on others. Be respectful to employees even if you don't like them. If we are placed in any of the employees' plight it would really sucked right. plus can't leave because we got a contract with the company. The leaked video on her replying to Ryan on the employees rights really pissed me off. Does she even feel apologetic ? I can't feel a tinge of remorse that she is not paying her employees on time , making them work late, getting her employees to do her personal stuffs . She mocks Ryan and ask him for solution. Seriously? Plus the fact she probably violated the law by getting the HR to pay his brother just he can get his PR? She thinks ICA regulations is a joke? There are people who say all rest of the SMEs are doing it. So it's fine to workaround the rules?
Suicide tendency???? So did she or Ryan was the one going to buangkok chalet for counselling??? Don't start la. If he no money and she knows he got so many xmm to put his key in, she already divorced centuries ago lol. Or you can try tolerate like her I can marry you and have xmm see if you cut my kkj in 2 years time??? Or wait 10 years then go TH-cam say I years ago xmm alot already lol
they even used tried to frame her as a cheater using a chat when she was already divorced with ryan and legally allowed to have other relationships so.. cunning and sly of them. whoever leaked it is a real bitch. a toxic boss you can avoid but friends who leak these kinds texts? who would ever be prepared
Ryan may backfire and end up in JAIL too .. Think about it, him bringing up the problem of Sylvia's brother's payroll arrangments MEANS he's already known and approved of the arrangments from the very beginning. How can he not have approved it since him and Sylvia were still married and the whole company was registered under his sole name then ? That means he had the final approval to include Sylvia's brother in the payroll and he's just flipping the script now to pretend Sylvia was the only one who knows it so that he can bring her down over Renoking ... If Sylvia goes to jail over Sikeen's payroll, Ryan should go to jail too ..
I really feel for Sylvia when hearing about how Ryan treated the NOC girls. I may be old fashioned or whatever but I think it so inappropriate for your partner/ spouse to be sending home girls even if nothing was going on between them. I don’t not how to articulate this thought well personally if my hubby is talking to others girls like this and going overseas with them w/o me it’s already a huge red flag. Sylvia if any chance you’re reading this. Know that your feelings of hurt towards this situation is rightful and extremely valid. As a fellow women I feel so much heart ache listening to how you have to endure being treated like this in your marriage. Stay strong Sylvia !
with the fact u gave an excuse that sending ur wife is a 40mins detour and u freaking hate traffic. matter of priorities bro, whether traffic or not, its ur wife. u gotta prioritise ur wife 1st than some talents u barely knew. thinking of their divorce video where they got no quality time; if taken positively, the trip to send ur wife could be turned into a quality time mah. less is more. it juz takes effort ah. u can fetch here n there like ur the only "family/friend" they have but u couldn't put effort to not be calculative about sending/fetching ur wife to work speaks volume for me. peace.
아륀 Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps). Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction? As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appealing use toxic language about employees. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that. The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines? It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets! The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel. I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.
Even men like me don’t believe married men can have pretty young lasses as best friends, let alone the wife lor. If you are a man and your attractive gf has her boss as BFF, you need to rethink about your relationship. Kena wear green hat also don’t know.
@@darkjediknight2923 Fantastic well written thought. Love your vocabularies and clear statements. Agree with you 100%. Now I'm curious to see if he will come out and tell's his sides of the story. 🤔🤷♀️💥
To be fair, I can understand Slyvia POV of Ryan being overly close with Aurelia, etc. Emotional cheating is no different that psyhical cheating. The internet is potraying Ryan as a saint, which is not good. I feel that it is overly glorifying Ryan and shadowing his own issues. However, that still does not justify Slyvia toxic behavouir in NOC. I am just bothered by the fact that the whole internet is faulting Slyvia (even tho she did make mistakes and it is normal she should be held accountable) but overly glorifying Ryan in the process. Surely he has a part in creating a toxic environment in NOC? Being nice is good and all, but in terms of management of company, I doubt Ryan can be up to task without making hard decisions. It just seems to me that Ryan is playing good cop while Slyvia takes the role of the bad cop
there's definitely 2 sides of the story... but what made me disgusted was the talents speaking up for ryan and act as if sending girls home late at night often is normal. let's see if they will say that if their bf/husband acts the same like ryan
1. View matters impartially based on facts, common sense and how you’d like to be treated. Not trial by mob. 2. Smearing anyone - man or woman - with slander is sickening 3. Sylvia’s toxic language to Samantha is separate issue to other accusations. For that she must apologise. 4. Leaking confidential accounts is a violation of privacy and unethical 5. Much of the slander about Sylvia’s private life has been proven to be untrue. 6. Those who were silent whilst she was being smeared, suddenly don’t like it when people question their own moral fibre. 7. Some claim to be “old enough to know” things. Would they like it if their own partner spends late nights with members of the opposite sex and blurs the lines between work and pleasure? 8. Much of the “Mr. Clean” image of Ryan has been shown to be a myth. Both in terms of private conduct (look at how he speaks which is toxic) and business conduct. 9. Paying employees is a responsibility of BOTH Ryan and Sylvia. Not only one. 10. Backdating resignation - think why Ryan wants to do that. Looks like violating duty as NOC director and means Reno King is NOC property. 11. Matters relating to workplace flaws should be reported to authorities. Allegations should not be hurled like mud to denigrate the image of a company or person. 12. It very much looks like this is nothing more than a coup attempt and/or smear campaign to totally tarnish Sylvia. And frankly it worked - in her own words she became “the shit of Singapore.” Now it’s boomeranging back on the conspirators. 13. Imagine if it was you. Treat others how you would like to be treated. It’s not about being a man/woman/employer/employee. And not about what the internet mob thinks. Think about what is right and wrong, what is legal or illegal and what has now been proven or disproven in her response (which included screenshots). 14. Think about who benefits from each accusation and a smear campaign. 15. I was disappointed in Rachel since I really liked her/respected. “Et tu Rachel?”
Tbh I don’t really side anyone.. but I can feel her pain like from the way she talks… I feel she’s a person that’s hard to express her feelings. I am like that too… where u feel very helpless as u can’t express what u want to say …
I want to address the "Regardless, the employee mistreatment isn't right" comment. Looking at this whole scandal, you guys can at least understand why companies frown upon office couples, especially one where they work closely together in the same department. I am in a relationship with someone who is in the same company and department (this is the heiracy, him, me, followed by other employees). I want to give my insights into how this works. There are times where I see him get along too well with female colleagues (Not at Ryan's level tho lol), cause you see the interactions first hand. I get jealous but I don't act on it, because we are expected to be professional and not mix emotion and work. And fortunately I am good at this. I can have massive argument with him 5 min before office meeting (he is in the meeting as well) and pull my emotion out. But here's the thing, how often are you able to pull your emotion out to remain unaffected to create that so called professionalism when you face those problems every single day and watch your husband out-of-the-norm behaviour with the girls that he isn't even trying to hide? I can tell you, if you are a human with normal emotion, it's almost impossible unless you are a psychopath, because your emotion would need to be dead to remain objective at work and not lash out to anyone which is the cause of all this employee mistreatment. Even for me, its often only possible because I have emotional detachment issue. What about those with normal functioning emotion? The only thing Sylvia did wrong is that she should not have been in the same company as Ryan. There's 101 other things she could have done to prevent the situation from escalating to this point, but none that's actually in Sylvia's favour in the first place. Ryan's protection of the NOC girls that he favoured has caused him to be rude to Sylvia and undermine her authority as acting CEO. Have you ever seen a company's Director scolding his CEO infront of the lower employees because the CEO is trying to ensure the lower employee did her job? What's so hard about putting a towel? Lol. Once or twice is not an issue but over the years? Sylvia lashing out to everyone is because she is at the point of breaking down and it's thanks to her husband. Please don't say she can just leave. Is like asking parent to abandoned the baby she work so hard to raise. Sylvia is as much a victim to work place abuse because Ryan makes her job harder by letting the employees get away with things. If we want to talk about work place mistreatment, Slyvia is abused during her work too then, under Ryan. It's just not recorded for everyone to see. This hasn't even include Ryan's mental stress on her. There is only so much a human can take.. Sorry for the long post, thank you for the time for those who bothered to read.
“by letting employees get away with things” is valid if the employees are lazy and have made mistakes. But if everyone is already burnt out and all traumatised by her “leadership”, I don’t think the hard approach (bad cop) is the right approach. Yes, she have to deal with sales and clients. But if her staff is unable to take up such a high workload then it’s only right to increase manpower, and be understanding towards them, instead of saying that the team is not performing and because ryan is an “incompetent leader”. As an employee myself, working my guts out for the company only for the boss to say “you’re not working hard enough” brings the team morale down and makes me question if my boss even care about my well being. Looking at all the screenshot and recordings, answer is, Sylvia doesn’t care. She only see herself being a victim in her own marriage, and not her staff being victims under her leadership. That’s the worst kind of boss to be under.
@@Swswimmop-7688 Agree. Tbh, Sylvia is not exactly your examplary boss. That's also why she is so rough with language as well. But its tough to pin point each situation as well because every thing is too intermixed and everything linked to everything. But it is also tough managing young employees especially your husband isn't actually on your side supporting you. If he is there, calm her down, show a good example, at least Sylvia doesn't have to act like a monster.
@@Swswimmop-7688 From the screenshots and videos, we can't prove that the employees are not lazy and not making mistakes. We saw some instances of Sylvia stepping in to correct some mistakes repeatedly for her employees. Saying the team is not performing is subjective but it's not fair to *not* publish the other parts of the video where she might have said other teams are doing well. If the whole company's employees are always doing badly, then how did NOC achieve what it has? Like what Sylvia mentioned, there are crunch times and peak periods in a year. If every time an employee claims to be overworked and the company hires someone, does it mean you need to keep employees around throughout the year while they sit idle during non-peak seasons? Or do you fire them as and when you don't need them? Contract staff is an option and I think NOC is already using them. Even though there are laws which protect employees beyond working certain number of hours in a week, there's also many employees in the job market who would want to willingly work more so long they are compensated for the extra hours. Ryan could indeed be an incompetent leader but we would not know for sure in those circumstances. So neither should we defend him by saying it's harsh to call him "an incompetent leader". A boss has a right to call out poor performance and in any case, though her intonation is crass, she's not wrong to give feedback on an employee (since Ryan claims he's not a director).
@@Swswimmop-7688 Yea, Sylvia has a terrible mouth and I'd hate to be working under her. But at least she's acknowledged those as actions in the past and that she is currently taking measures to change that. We do not know of her behaviour now, but she did say it was interlinked with heavy smoking which she has quit, and is now seeing a therapist to manage her mental health, all of which are measures taken to soothe her temper. Though, even at her worse, I don't think she was as bad as Ryan. If I were to pick between the two evils, I'd rather work under a boss that lashes out and overworks me over one who makes suggestive advances towards younger (often teenage) employees. Sylvia's situation is just more relatable to many since instances of a temperamental boss are way more common, but I'd damn well take her temper than disgustingly ruin a marriage in the workplace.
yeah lmao, it could also be why she was so harsh on certain employees because shes def up her own husband is crushing on them and she cant do anything. Sure it might have been dumb to target them instead of ryan but ryan is also the co founder so she cant do anything to.him
Good to hear her side of the story. She is at fault for treating her staff that way, but the other party behind this whole campaign isn’t as innocent too.
I’m not excusing her behaviour towards her employees. But i notice she is very well spoken, intelligent and hard headed. She has potential to go far with her career once she overcomes this.
I don't think so. They are wrong in different ways. Her behaviors towards her employees are so awful and she is emotional, abusive and entitled. Many people can go a long way in their career. She has her own management style but obviously is not a good leader who appreciates her employees. Look at Spanx founder as a good leader
Found it super weird that as business partners he wasn't even attempting to salvage or defend her/their business. Instead he was all planned to distance himself away from the saga. It was too coincidental that every thing is clashing with their divorce meetings. And red flags are so aplenty in their relationship. Ryan telling her he has a crush on Aurelia, Joanna and Michelle making advances on him. Emotional cheating is just so scary, and funny how he would drive Aurelia back home when he couldn't even fetch his own wife. I can relate to how Sylvia must have felt and also when Ryan repeatedly threatened suicide and threatening to record her. It is just sad that a toxic relationship has to be placed out for the world to see and judge and to cancel when we at the start only knew Ryan's side of the story. As for the cheating, how is it valid that Sylvia cheated when they had a separation agreement dated 2017? All these said, Sylvia might not be a good boss since people are coming out against her. However, for those people who fueled the hate with assumptions and lies, how are they any better? IMO, we all rushed to cancel Sylvia. Is it time to cancel Ryan now since he is so toxic as well?
@@sandyeo their separation as seen in ss is 2017. She encouraged them to go with him in 2019. I don't see fault in there and I don't feel like she suggested he cheated on her. The only suggestion he cheated was when she spoke of other noc girls like the ones I had mentioned above.
@@kevintan497 got screenshots eh! I feel like when you piece their stories together is just like 2 toxic people and a failed relationship with many other friends and ppl trying to take part in a toxic game of ruining the other party.
@@asterechen3048 one question though, I only saw that ryan admitted on love letter, and said some is eye candies (Jo, Aurelia) and openly told sylvia about what michelle did while drunk.... Is there any proof on others (beside love letters)
Totally understand Sylvia’s views on Ryan’s closeness with females. Generally speaking once you’re in a committed relationship, both partners must have boundaries with the opposite gender no matter how dear the friends may be :/
I felt Ryan is too close with all the girls too. Keep heard that he paid for girl A, girl B, etc. but well Sylvia also in wrong side. Both are the same.
yep if slyvia made a fuss n not insist on them being the perfect couple, the boundaries wld hv been clear. but i think at tt point, their marriage is also gone case. it cld also be him wanting to be the nice guy alw.
I feel for Slyvia. Ryan seems to be the kind of Passive Aggressive sort, on the outside pretend to be kind and everything and at the back is putting blame on others. There is no such thing as “kindness” at work. You gotto set clear boundaries that’s fair and clearly understood.
Hahaha no kindness at work? You need to look at where you work or how you run your work. Kindness is inate not something you feel that should or should not be given
Yes totally I think you can have boundaries but still be kind. They're not mutually exclusive unless 1 you are naturally an unkind person or 2 you conciously choose be unkind cos of your job. Neither one is ok
my main takeaways from this video: sylvia was a toxic and rude boss to many of her employees yes, but she never cheated on ryan or did sex bartering as people accused her of. whether or not she “embezzled” money and all well, honestly we can never be sure when SHE herself is locked out of seeing NoC’s financials. ryan is NOT the poor victim or hero in this narrative. he’s not the angel people portray him to be. he was half of the marriage and as big a part of the company as sylvia. he HAD a part in causing all of this bullshit. This whole saga, from the tiktok to sgcicken rice to the blogpost has been planned since long ago, with the recording of sylvia taken last year. and it makes me wonder… all these chat leakers continued to act as friends with sylvia all the way until now. and suddenly when she’s in deep shit, they leave her and backstab her. In my opinion, those people who acted like friends with her but then leaked EXTREMELY private chats of her which exposed her sex life to wrongly accuse her, all these people who planned to strip her off her life’s work and make her penniless friendless and powerless, this behaviour is cancelling, and it’s no better than a toxic boss. a toxic voss you can avoid, but a fake friend who’s nice to you until you’re suddenly unfavourable? you can never prepare yourself for that. i find the people who were cheering and putting ryan on a pedastal making him look like some sad victim bullied by evil sylvia completely cringey.
This is such a good analysis as this shows both sides of the coin, is it ok if I use this and repost on Sylvia’s Instagram post as one of the comments? Thank you
@@soonsoon5539 yea sure, it’s just my random thoughts penned down as i watched this video and looked at others’ responses:) if it helps articulate your thoughts, i don’t mind.
Prolly How Sylvia treated people is to much for these employees can handle. I feel heer employees tho, verbal abuse is horrible, However bacstabbing Sylvia... is horrible, am not choosing sides but I feel sorry for Sylvia and she deserves a second chances. Under pressure, a bad marriage, can lead to what she did
This is such a stupid analysis. Just use your brain for a moment. If you want to claim that Ryan is the one solely responsible for staging this sure. But as you can see, this is obviously not something he can do on his own. So why would so many people hate Sylvia enough to try to bring her down? Obviously she's the one with the major issues. I'm not saying Ryan is exempted from responsibility, but I'm saying Sylvia came on the show to cry wolf. She's a thorough bitch. Go check most of the NOC talents instagram, most of them still follow Ryan but a huge portion of them unfollowed Sylvia. Sylvia is not toxic because she's playing bad cop so Ryan can play good cop. Sylvia is toxic because she is manipulative. When looking at a story like this it's very simple, just look at who is the one creating drama and coming out to call wolf. Do you think it's more likely 1 person is fucked up or everyone in NOC is fucked up and gang up on Sylvia? Use your brains please. You think people like Aiken and Deekosh would gang up on Sylvia if she wasn't fucked up?
Ryan destroyed her. They were husband and wife for many yrs. She may have her short comings but I think the reason why she's like this is because of him. You don't destroy the person that you love!!
She destroyed herself. All the leaks so far seems to be from the employees and chats between her and her friends. Ryan could have contributed, but even if he did, these leaks are allegedly facts of how she treat the others. These leaks are just the tip of the iceberg. Remember that just as Sylvia has dirt on Ryan, Ryan also has dirt of Sylvia. Ryan hasn’t officially come out to say anything, if he does, I think there will be so much fireworks.
@@skhuathuat If Sylvia is really so mean, she would name out who Talent A is. Talent A clearly painted a very different picture of what happened when she leaked out the screenshot in the blogpost expose no? Talent A painted the scenario to be a rape case or a sex barter trade but actually privately she messaged Sylvia that she had a good time. Sylvia is already being the bigger person by not leaking out more screenshots. If Ryan has any further dirt on Sylvia, what could really be worse than now? LOL. On the contrary, Sylvia may have more shit on all those who are jumping on the bandwagon to attack her.
When she said she feels manipulated and trapped when someone keeps playing a suicide card.. is smth so many people dont talk about. I am glad sylvia said it out.
@@crystal2484 okay googled it. Yes it is true. it is so sad that people keep toying with such things when there are others who are genuinely struggling to live another day
@@Guest-gw1vm I put it here so others who read can understand. Narcissistic personality disorder - one of several types of personality disorders - is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.
I have a diff view of Ryan now. Now then I know he’s such a people-pleaser and he has a pair of roving eyes. He can’t deny all that since he’d already cheated on sylvia with a waitress 1 year into the marriage. That’s the thing about husband & wife going into a biz tgt. After a divorce, things may turn ugly. As Taylor Swift said before-- the people who can hurt you the most are the ones who know you the best. It’s quite shady of him to ask his beloved girls to leak out the exposé in the midst of a negotiation of his buyout, knowing that Sylvia has always been protecting his image and reputation & wouldn’t think of exposing him. I’m glad she did. When ppl said there are 2 sides to every story, I didn’t believe it at first. Now I know those exposé are taken out of context, e.g. that they are really outdated-- Sylvia has quit smoking since. NOC has slack days and work-intense days, so it makes sense to have some days where the staff have to rush work in order to deliver it in a timely manner to the clients. In every household and workplace, there’s always a more decisive person who makes sure things get done & Sylvia is that person. I hope the saga will be over soon & ppl get to lead their normal lives.
Ya pretty shady. And Ryan never stand up once for Sylvia. For the girl that had endured ur suicidal tendencies and ur ups and downs, u couldn’t even say “please leave her personal life out”
Not siding anyone but I personally think Ryan is not saint either. If you noticed his ig story, he has been repeatedly reposting stories of how people praising him as the "hero" in this saga. He seems to want the public to paint a good impression of him.
good horse doesnt return to old pastures. they should have split the company after divorce instead of working together. all these excuses from the marriages ended up seeping into workplace. see what happened now
*_When is Sylvia Appreciation Day?_* If a boss and husband like Ryan can be appreciated, Sylvia too deserves much appreciation. After all, she has contributed significantly to NOC, she has given jobs and a livelihood to many unknown talents, she has helped groomed them and provided a platform for their fame, she left her home country for Ryan, she forgave him for cheating and not shame him in public, she tried to keep silent initially using the law until she was stepped on after taking a fall.
You have been too kind in your wordings to her abusers. it isn't just initially, it has been for 10 years or so. And that's not "Stepped", they are basically stomping her.
And yet some people are claiming Sylvia to be fake crying here to gain sympathy. Imagine during the divorce video, Ryan put on a very sad expression with wet eyes saying how he missed Sylvia wishing him good night in bed. While he emotionally (and allegedly physically) cheats on her continuously claiming _"I can't control who I have feelings for"_ and the most manipulative phrase _"Your punishment is self-inflicted if you chose to stick with me."_
Sylvia did the right thing coming out and sharing all these. Otherwise I would have misunderstood her. Xia Xue did the right thing to publish this interview too. I can’t agree more with her summarized comments.
Some ppl are really able to play the good guy so well that its easy to make everyone else the villian. The person who portray themselves as weak gentle and kind are usually the ones we should be most cautious of.
@@sissyfart ya true. I used to be that. Maybe that’s why I dun really like Ryan from the start. I see “my old self” in him. Especially since I always cry when angry. Always look like victim. Opps 😅
All of the talents coming out to defend themselves by saying that Sylvia’s lying are just trying to cover their asses now that they are in relationships of their own. The fact is that all the time and money Ryan spent on them meant that he was spending less on Sylvia. All these girls knew it and the viewers of NOC could see it too. It is widely known that Aurelia is Ryan’s fav NOC girl. All these girls siding Ryan are very young and will never understand how a married woman will feel unless they have been through a r/s that’s 10 years long.
Ya. I think she is a terrible boss but I feel sorry for her on the marriage matters. My hb and I have opposing views on this. I wonder if people who are defending her mostly girls, probably even married?
Yes I mean let’s be honest here, some girls get jealous and throw tantrums when their boyfriends like an influencer’s scantily clad photo. Now put yourself in Sylvia’s shoes, YOUR husband is literally hanging out with these young and pretty girls day and night, prioritising their needs over the family, how would you feel then?
@@flwrsintheattic7655 Yea, its like the sex life is already so bad and disastrous, and your husband in the middle of the night get some call/text and out he went to pick someone home. He failed to keep his boundaries.
I don’t know why, but I can RELATE to the part where she talks about Ryan’s suicide/depression and putting up and look over everything bc he’s the husband and you need to protect them. IT FEELS ALL TOO FAMILIAR with personal experience. It’s easy to be manipulated this way, especially their excuses with women. Talk about a 10yr marriage for her, I’m out of my narcissistic abusive 3yr marriage(Wrong in all aspects covered with GOOD excuses). We weren’t lying to ourselves but we just believe in their excuses so deeply. It’s one of those, idk how you put up with it type of thing, let me tel you don’t know unless you’re in it, the indenial, VERY blinded and just forgiveness and sympathy/empathy on your end. They take you for granted as time progressed, lucky for me I get to see it sooner. The behavior is just a repeating cycle. You’re left with no choice but to leave (I MEAN IT) even though you love that person so much and would give everything(Yes lucky for me there isn’t much financial involved) There’s only so much to still try to stay positive about and defend them until you’ve reached your edge, that edge is LONG overdue. The only diff was that Ryan always has to be nice to people but mine was more extreme and straightforward type of person and he’s a smooth talker. I can’t imagine business and financial involved and everything in 10yrs like her. I’m glad she’s come out ok and not cuckoo.
Thank you so much for coming out with this... I also realised that this was a straight up narcissistic behaviour from Ryan because of my personal experience with a narcissist. I still fear of this narcissist that it still gives me nightmares...
He's real scary right. Probably using his status as a married man in the past to make younger girls trust and spend time with him, while he complained to them about his marriage n sad life. Meanwhile, let the wife handle the sales and be the bad boss. Now that he got a younger girl as gf, it's time to take back everything and kick the ex wife. Why he cry during the divorce video? - probably cos he can't make use of her anymore emotionally. He can't make threats that he's gonna hurt himself to her since she's no longer his wife. He's scared that she might not want to be the bad boss anymore.
@@lavoidjr1026 my soon ex-husband was a straight up narcissist. Narcissistic relationship 101. Stonewall, Guilt-trip, Gaslight, everything you name it he is THAT. Confusion over the years and still try to twist it around you in the end. The most personal things you share with them, they use it against you. The love I had for him and the things he did will leave a scar but it’s to a point where he’s a waste of energy to be sad about….. just worthless, not human, no conscience….. moving on, be stronger and be self aware of this type of person💀
Ard 56 min, just my opinion, don’t bash me. If your husband can scold you in front of everyone, throw that man away. Defend your spouse in public, but educate or explain to them in private
@DrugAddict there’s a different in hierarchy when it comes to parent and children… when it comes to couples and partners aren’t both supposed to be equals? So how can you compare 2 different things together
Agreed. I think not just husband and wife. For business partners as well. Undermining your partner in front of the regular employees will just destroy respect and morale in the team.
Not taking any sides but I personally feel, as a boss. You shouldn't be poaching on young female talents whom you hired for ''work''. Worst, catching feelings for them when you're married and your history of cheating is disgusting. Do you know how manipulative and sick you're to do that to someone by threatening them you're gonna commit suicide each time you lose out? Narcissistic manipulative behaviour is deeply relatable. Especially when Sylvia mentions how fearful she is when Ryan was suicidal. It's true that you will do anything to protect your love ones even if that includes being the bad person. Sylvia might be bad, but Ryan isn't anywhere better. May peace find you.
If your boss offers you this and that... It is an ongoing dilemma on whether you should accept or decline in fear of being in his bad books. And that's how Ryan is. Quite obvious he's been buying them over by offering them free renovation isn't it. But the public has failed to understand this from the very beginning.
Not justifying Sylvia’s abusive actions towards NOC’s employees, just sharing based on my personal experience. Assuming the part where Sylvia says about Ryan’s recurring suicidal actions is true, it is indeed very scary and manipulative. One of my ex is exactly how she has described the situation. When you are in that position, you will not doubt whether the other person is really trying to suicide because they have come so close to succeeding, you dare not take the risk. This is when it becomes manipulative and you (Sylvia’s position) comes under immense pressure. You feel trapped but not wanting to leave because you love this person, hoping that one day both of you will get over this. I’m afraid the employees might have become collateral damage of a very toxic relationship in this case then.
the screenshots in the description of him doing this is so triggering to me. And her talking about "if he does kill himself is it my fault" is SO fucking depressing. Out of everything with this interview, I can say with no doubt that shes at least a victim of gaslighting. Like, hate her or love her, no one deserves that. The fuckin mental gymnastics it puts you through for not only that period of time but for the rest of your life if you don't get treatment is horrible
@@4lmondmilky I think not everyone understands this. Or most of the keyboard warriors who haven't been though this kind of stress or pressure. But it's really scary, and can't imagine how Sylvia is managing that
Yup I agree with the collateral damage. I can imagine how resentful she must have felt towards these talents that Ryan favoured, yet at the back of her mind she has to constantly fear for his life if she lashes out at him. Not saying it’s excusable, but it could be why she took it out on them.
Ryan is not a leader, it’s Slyvia. Has always been from the start till now. Her strong character comes from all these years of leading the company. Sure her attitude is not great, and her mouth is bad and her workaholic attitude scares the normal people. But! She has the capability to lead the talents in her company, she needed to be strict to her talents. Otherwise, how would they listen? And Ryan is just the weak father to the kids. He doesn’t speak up, doesn’t have the capability to lead. Putting up the good guy image to everyone of course everyone in the company sides him. But he’s not innocent. In short, he’s just a weakling.
I deeply relate when Sylvia mentions how fearful she is when Ryan was suicidal. Its true, u will do anything to protect that love one even if that includes being the villain/bad cop. And its probably the "character" which she has to portray which built up to how shitty she is treating her own employees. With that saying, I'm not siding with Sylvia or Ryan, just trying to understand this whole saga with an unbiased point
After watching the entire video, it somehow seems that the entire saga was deliberately orchestrated in the shadows since last year. I believe this is why some talents are keeping quieting and not taking sides cos they are confused af as well.
@@lzy1044 at this point right she alr kena drag until her reputation cannot get lower alr. so i mean the public wanted an honest explanation why she act the way she did she give lorh
Just my personal opinion - Is Ryan genuinely kind or not I'm not sure; but he's definitely a people-pleaser with very low self-esteem and requires the validation of others. I'm guilty of being one myself but it becomes tricky when it comes to a committed relationship/marriage. There's a fine line between doing things to please others and actually developing feelings for them because they have in a way, fulfilled your need for validation. If you're truly kind, you would be kind to everybody, that includes your own wife, whom you actually should be treating better than other girls. If you fetch the girls around and refuse to do the same for your own wife, and treat other girls better than your wife in general, then something is wrong. It means you don't love and respect your wife enough to prioritise her feelings over your need to please others/feel validated/the joy and gratification you get from pleasing other girls. Yes it's arguable that you do the same to guys too but that's not the point. The point is in a marriage, you need to know how to set clear boundaries with the opposite sex as a committed partner. And please always remember that it's not anybody's obligation to forgive you for your infidelity. It's not demanded but earned. If you've betrayed that trust your partner had in you before, you need to put in so much MORE effort to heal those wounds and earn back the trust. Speaking from my own personal experience, it's extremely painful to forgive a partner and try to move on when you can clearly see that he is repeating the same behaviours over and over again. Crushing on others when you've a wife is clearly NOT acceptable. Yes you can be extra kind to other people, but do you see the amount of damage you've done onto a person as well, who've helped you through your low and suicidal episode; clearly loved you so to "tolerate" such infidelity, dismissal and manipulation for years. You're kind to others but you're selfish to the woman you've vowed to love and be committed to when you took her hand in marriage. Also, just want to add that calling your wife's brother "medically retarded" is extremely hurtful and disrespectful. As for Sylvia, I guess she was in immense pain having to see the same girls he had a crush on at work everyday and had to still try to contain her insecurities and pain. Over time, the mental torture probably shaped her into who she is today in order to protect herself. Perhaps, had she been working in another company where she doesn't have to see Ryan/the girls everyday, she wouldn't be treating her employees like that, not sure but who knows. But I truly hope that she can resolve the trauma within her and not project it onto innocent parties. Two wrongs don't make a right. Sam is a totally lovable and genuine person, I believe that remark on her was uncalled for. I hope for Sylvia's healing, and hope that all the people she's hurt will take time to heal too. :)
This.... THIS! A psychological POV of the possibility why Sylvia is what she is today. Perhaps the toxic workplace was the result of her own coping mechanism with the toxic relationship. What is important is that she is aware of her wrongdoings and taking action on it. All the best 💪
I read this over dinner 🤣 but yes i agree with u.. the text msges if its real.. Ryan is in the wrong for calling Sikeen "mentally retarded" ... its like my day care teacher telling my mom I am stupid for being dyslexic no really she did told my mom that
Ryan seems like a manipulative mastermind … got bored of Sylvia after interacting with all the hot girls in NOC.. now he wants to rob her off her assets , drag her to the mud so that she packs her bags and leaves with nothing . Wtf. Not saying she’s the best or most innocent but Ryan is sneaky himself and not such a good person after all hor. Anyone who screams “I’m good , I’m innocent” is the exact opposite of that.
Well Sylvia isn’t a saint or whatever based on the claims on her leadership. But can anyone ever list a boss that has conscience? Lol just sayin. I don’t find anything wrong with Sylvia. She’s just doing her job. She’s bringing money in. Bottom-line. Period. It’s business
I can’t believe Sylvia actually secretly paid for Grace and Isabelle to go on that Taiwan trip with Ryan only to be stabbed in the back by all of them now. She only had good intentions to grant his wish of going overseas with 2 young girls (🙄) and at the same time, she didn’t want these girls to hold back going on that trip because of any possible money issues. Classic case of biting the hand that feeds you. The world is really a scary place.
@@limwowo5902 No la these girls are smart they know how to use a p*ssy like Ryan.Also do not forget his current GF is 11 years younger than him right?? Creepy much. Can't believe how so many ppl did not see the red flags.
Ok let me summarize. Sylvia is definitely strong, tenacious and intelligent. A very successful businesswomen. However, her treatment of workers is frankly disgusting. If you dislike them, send them away or at least address the elephant in the room with them, don't keep them guessing. It can make the employee question their worth and give them emotional trauma. Ryan is definitely no angel as well, spending too much time with other female employees while married to Sylvia. Let's not make a verdict as to whose worse here, everyone has their fair share of flaws and strengths.
And that's why Professional TH-camrs overseas have Managers, not sure about Singapore TH-camrs. If you look at it, TH-camrs who transform their channel into a money-making business that hire Talents always end up having issues while TH-camrs who maintain the integrity of their channel, are less problematic.
I truly understand where Sylvia is coming from , and I feel like its severely important to hear both sides of the story, cancel culture in Singapore is so toxic, lets all please keep an open mind and listen to Sylvia too. :)
This is the needed interview to hear Sylvia side of the story. It's very informative and opened the bigger picture. I won't be siding anyone after this. It's because I've seen the human nature of how one person can be labelled as the bad guy overnight by the whole village.
tbh i don’t really care about how who cheated on who or who was bad to who. Nothing about the embezzlement was brought up in the interview, or the zoom meetings or her brother earning 4.5K. Basically all the things that were about NOC in the first place.
@@poinked did you watch the video because it WAS brought up in the video. and honestly, embezzlement and what not are legal matters and a few screenshots from the blogpost cannot sufficiently prove sylvia guilty of it. sylvia is literally locked out of seeing NOC’s financials and THATS abnormal. the police is investigating this case so, well let’s see if she’s guilty of it.
People who blamed SC for bringing her jealousy into her business, what about RT's PERSONAL pervert crushes on his female BUSINESS colleagues? Is that not bringing personal feelings to business when he put SC down for the girls a huge root cause of all the problems?
@@ZefromXD so those talents openly flirt with her husband in the office in front of her is professional? When RT favours the girls and told her off while she was trying to get things done is favourable? Btw, don't call a female a "bruh", sis.
@@crystal2484 don't call me your sis as I am not your sis Workplace etiquette very simple, you do work well, I happy If the talents do flirt with Ryan and it is affecting the work, Sylvia should employ the necessary action into the company and not delay salary or scold fuck you fuckface If the talents do flirt with the Ryan but it is not affecting the work, she can talk it out with Ryan behind the scenes and get the message across that it is not right to do such a thing There are so many ways that this drama could have not blown out of proportion if she could have handle and communicate better. Instead, it gone down this path The comments you reply to me shows that you are very rude and it is time for you to grow up
@@ZefromXD your rocket science and calling a female bruh is not rude? DO u even read the definition of a bruh? Calling u sis is a return to you for the bruh! Workplace fine, does it justify for them to put all out in the public including sex tape and private sex conversation? That's no longer "work" when they crossed that line.
Sylvia called Samantha names and likewise, Ryan said nasty stuff about Michelle. But why the double standards when the screenshots were leaked? Aside from that, it must have been really hurtful for Sylvia to hear someone insult her own family as such.
Ryan apologised sincerely and gave no excuses. Michelle accepted. Whereas, Sylvia’s “apology letter” was trying to push blames and justify her action. She said she was angry cuz Sam did not inform Sylvia of her government bond which she did. Sylvia lied about this. Why lie in an apology letter? She could have ended the whole saga by apologising sincerely.
What constitutes a sincere apology and what doesn’t? The public opinion is already skewed towards Ryan’s favour and against Sylvia. I don’t think the angry mob would have accepted her apology even if it was in your definition of “sincere” and forgive her like they graciously did the moment Ryan apologised. Btw, just because Ryan apologised doesn’t mean that he’s absolved of all fault. In fact, it showed that he’s more than CAPABLE of spouting such words about his own talents. Who knows of other nasty things he might have said about talents in other personal conversations. When those personal screenshots and audio of Sylvia calling Samantha names came out, Ryan was quick to jump on the bandwagon and acted like he was a saint. Then tables turned, and of course his only way of continuing to be in the public’s favour is to do what the public wants (I.e. a sincere apology). TLDR; he’s only sorry because he got caught.
@@flwrsintheattic7655 agreed, I think the public still wouldn’t have forgiven sylvia even if Samantha accepted her apology. Not to mention, it isn’t even an apology that the public can accept since it was only towards Samantha.
@gremlintae Exactly. By then more and more allegations of Sylvia were made too.. was she just supposed to apologised though she had her own side of the story
This is rather believable. I’m not defending Sylvia’s nasty personality but honestly, I don’t believe that she’s toxic for no reason. I definitely think Ryan has something to do with her.
This is definitely way more credible than the numerous anonymous chat leaks (many of which have been debunked). Sylvia has a really foul mouth, but the online mobs are way too focused on her misdeeds while Ryan walks off as the angel. Both are terrible, but there are way too many double standards in the hatred they're receiving.
And which boss or a normal guy will keep having crush or loves someone working for him or in the same company? 1st is from the restaurant he opens and now in NOC he is doing that. He can love this person and another person and another person. My goodness! He is married back then when he does that! He is just basically seeking attention and wants to be the good guy. All these girls that have a so call affair with him jolly has no rights to even say anything cuz they are no good person to begin with knowing back then Sylvia and Ryan are still legally married on paper! There’s a line to draw when it comes to boss and employee. This videos really shows and proves a lot On why Sylvia is like that. Ryan reminds me of someone whom I know is like that too. He easily falls into depression and wants/need attention from people( GIRLS!) He likes to post on social media and portray himself as a very nice guy but in fact no one actually knows that he is a terrible person. I really hope Sylvia will be even stronger after all these whole saga thing and be even more successful than who she is now. Every one sure have a nasty side in them but it’s only to people who deserves it. We are all not saints.
Nah in the workplace word gets around fast it's just funny how non of the people she worked with in the past and present stood up for her and defended Ryan...the issue is workplace toxicity u have no excuse to be toxic to someone just cause Ur life is toxic Also she's no angel she has a new CEO partner and all her shit is just baseless assumptions
Do you all know this? In the past, when Ryan was a teen and his parents divorced, he began to have ONSs? He used to be a model and was more than average looking. And it wasn't difficult for him to bring home girls every night. But some people, even for after marriage, as they have been used to that ONS lifestyle where girls pay lots of attention to them, they just crave the same amount of attention throughout their lives. Since Ryan never went through therapy on how to seek love properly, he started seeking that love he used to have from his surroundings aka the workplace (restaurant + noc). Sounds pitiful, but he should have sorted out his issues before he even got married. Ryan, am I right? To you, you keep convincing yourself that you are seeking familial love from those girls, but that's not exactly true isn't it? You just enjoy it when girls give you attention.
@@imkidnappedandforcedtobeth7770 no one said that Sylvia wasn't a toxic boss. Neither did Sylvia deny that she was. Get your facts right. She even apologised for that twice by now. As for Ryan, he played the role of a good cop in front of his employees. But they never knew. Do you really think that they know everything about him? They don't even know about his cheating side and tendencies lol. Also, don't you find it interesting how he promised most of them that he'd do free renovation for them? If you use your brain, you'd understand why they are siding him. For the benefits, and it's already obvious how some of these influencers haven't been good people from the evidence we've seen and how some couldn't even deny the allegations. What you need to learn is - don't always believe in the mob that goes against one person.
Ryan’s constant need for validation from pretty young girls is (disgusting aside) actually really telling of how low his self esteem is. Though the low self esteem isn’t necessarily his fault, he’s fully responsible over his infidelity.
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@@idkbro_2126 it isnt really his looks but more of his insecurities and neediness of love. If you see the chat receipts, he likes it and falls in love easily when people (esp his eye candies) treats him nicely.
Now the talents are saying that sylvia is lying in this video. I think ryan's good cop persona really did him well to have so many people support him, but is he really all good? Tbh, from the screenshots there are definitely some kind of truth to it. Ryan not setting clear boundaries with female friends even when the wife voiced out to some extend shaped how sylvia is today, so how can he be 100% guilt free?
Manipulation does wonders. We might be looking at two narcissists go at each other here and it'll get uglier I suppose. Prior to the release of these new receipts, I was on team ryan if i had to choose. But yeah it's pretty glaring now that ryan was just as complicit too. Am on team nobody now
well the video kind of implicate these talents and each has their allies and incentives to protect their images. Don't think anyone is innocent here, even the talents, they are also playing both Ryan and Sylvia for their own benefits. More things will come out and I have to say, the most despicable person is the one who started planning, screenshotting, recording and leaking all these private information. I hope that person (or group of people) will also be exposed.
@@EE-oe8lu agree with you totally, not forgetting the hacker that Sylvia mentioned in the video. How can anyone do all these and not be prosecuted by the law
@s fff e ed drf grfdbh She’s not denying these allegations, she’s already being investigated by the law. So.. if she’s truly a toxic boss, then she will face the repercussions. How to hide? She’s simply telling us her side of the story, because if Ryan and gang can dish out all the negative things, she can too. Afterall, Ryan and gang took things personally first and posted on social media when they could have done it objectively by raising a complain to mom instead. P.S I’m not team anyone, I’m team porky if anything
As it stands, both Ryan and Sylvia claim they’ve NO IDEA who has leaked all these videos/screenshots/documents/ accounts. What baffles and piques my interest is why Ryan’s friends (almost immediately) are so passively aggressively defending the allegations made against Sylvia. If they didn’t leak all that info, why are they up in arms? That, my friends, is where the real tea is at!
sylvia said she had an idea but she couldn't say for sure. it's obvious it's from ryan side because ryan did the recording.. who else could upload the video besides ryan's side?
They obviously know who is leaking it as well as who are the ppl incharge of sg chicken rice. After this video released they tried to seem neutral but can see who. Sg chicken rice is protecting.. Seems like it might be a close friend of one of the talent. That way Ryan and the ppl. Close to him can claim they dunno who it is.
Everyone talking about sylvia but no one is talking about how nina still stood by sylvia's side despite knowing that she will receive a lot of hate and possibly some disagreements from her family since she is ryan's cousin. A true friend indeed
XiaXue's last question at the end for everyone: Sylvia may be a bad guy; she's clearly not nice to ppl and that is why this shit has happened to her, ppl are betraying her. But are the ppl who are behind this (from the context of this 2 hour long video: who may or may not have planned all of it) really any better than her? I think it's a good question.. I'm not saying that ppl cannot express how toxic an environment, people can and should. But after this video, it seems like the receipts were compiled over a number of years and filtered to show the bad side of Sylvia. And all of them coinciding with these legal proceedings that Ryan is caught up in. Idk talent or media industry at all. But I know a little about company law and finance standards. What he did in relation to RenoKing was clearly against company law. He used labour and expenses from the company (NOC) for his personal brand/ company (Renoking). Sylvia is right to demand wtv she is demanding legally from him for NOC's sake. I'm not sure how NOC (Xiao Wen) would have split overhead costs or if she even calculated the cost pools rightly in relation to all the shoots done with Renoking. (How many videos are there again?🤔🤷🏻♀️💸) It would be quite messy UNLESS Renoking is a related-party. Then she could chuck everything under RPT. But even then, it should be a subsidiary as Sylvia mentioned, which Renoking is not since the brand ownership lies with Ryan alone. So now, Ryan will be seen in the eyes of the law to be using company resources for personal gain. (The staff work for him but he alone is receiving the profits since their expenses are booked under NOC. It's not right and not legal. The staff reading this.. did you all know you might just be working for free under Ryan when you do Renoking shoots? Better check with him if your hours are counted under the Renoking company. Y'all should be getting two salaries in that case. You might say you willingly do it since Ryan is such a nice guy but, time is money la. I even charge my friends when they need my experties on stuff.) On the other hand, that means NOC should deduct the number of hours you worked for Renoking from your pay since your working hours are paid for by the NOC company. This is why I said it becomes very messy. Sigh. Anyway, all the best to the accountant. TL;DR I'm gonna rethink the whole "Sylvia is a shitty person conclusion since I only heard from the cickenrice account/zoom videos" Anyway, this is just my analysis from what I understood from Sylvia's interview. No haters please. I even commented against Sylvia on Instagram when the zoom video came out. So sorry about that, Sylvia. Truly, there's always two sides to a story. *I checked Renoking out.. it was registered as a separate company in April this year which matches what Sylvia said in this interview. RenoKing could be a subsidiary under NOC and that would have to be agreed under a Director Resolution signed by both directors. If there is no such document then Sylvia is telling the truth la
My conclusion: No one is a saint lah! Not her, not Ryan, not the people exposing her and definitely not the whole "cancel" culture.... To be honest, nothing she did to them ruined their life but what people are doing to her is ruining her life. These people are even more toxic than her. This is my unpopular opinion
Staff might not be wrong because She might not be suitable to lead NOC to greater heights...work wise. Emotionally I think she have been under so much stress... She isn't wrong, she doesn't feel secure... Or assured by Ryan over relationship....
Personally found it very disturbing how Ryan openly declares how Aurelia is his favourite multiple times while still being in a relationship with Sylvia.. idk how would yall feel if your spouse declared this infront of you? Lol
Yeah. I think no matter what wrongdoings Sylvia has done, honestly no spouse likes to see her husband having dinner and sending girls home late at night on a regular basis. Especially if what she said about his previous cheating was true, he definitely didn’t do anything after to reassure Sylvia and protect their relationship while still trying to be a nice boss. While that doesn’t excuse her behaviour towards her employees, I can understand her grievances towards Ryan to be honest. Actually it makes me wonder if that’s the reason why Nina remained on Sylvia’s side the last few years despite being Ryan’s cousin.
In such a company, talents usually will have their agent escort them home, I see nothing wrong with this. Also You have to see this from a professional stand point. When being married, it is about trust & understanding. My parents married for 35 years & they never have a problem when hanging out with their friends be it male or female. So this point is arguable
@@sakurazakinaoki3056 Ryan is not their agent. He is their boss. This is obviously not right leh. When your SO spends more time and enjoys spending time with their opposite sex friend whom they openly says have a crush on and neglects you. Then you come and tell us how this is okay.
@@sakurazakinaoki3056 fetching is only one thing, showing obvious favouritism and affection to someone else who isn't your spouse is another thing (as mentioned). hanging out with friends/colleagues of the opposite sex isn't the issue im addressing here.
She may not be the smartest boss with high EQ. But for sure Ryan is not any better too. Guys like him who uses his position as boss to be surrounded by girls are very common. If he cheated before is real. His actions clearly shows he is doing it again.
@@Kevin-ol7gj Are you referring to the whatsapp texts in 2020 where she talked about some guy? According to the screenshots linked here, they began divorce proceedings in 2017. It stated that they were free to pursue romantic relationships as long as it didn't become public. So if it's anything after 2017, it would not be considered cheating.
@@Kevin-ol7gj Sylvia didnt cheat. They twisted the narrative and made it seem like she was (eg. Isabelle saying Sylvia cheated when they were at Taiwan), but they were no longer together at that time. NOC people really be manipulative as fuck
I feel for Sylvia so much. She has her faults, emotional abuse in any setting should not be accepted or tolerated. But I feel like her reactions to certain things are quite fitting to the situation. Honestly all I see now is a person who was very hurt and betrayed by her spouse at that time. I would have been a total bitch too to the people who flock to my ex husband who has not only broke my heart but also tore down whatever confidence and self love I have. From those screenshots, Ryan knows what he he was fucking doing. He can't act like he didn't have any intention to make sylvia feel insecure and not good enough in the relationship. I would've been a fucking bitch to the people who support and put my ex husband (who cheated and gaslight me in the entire relationship) on a pedestal like he is some sort of innocent victim. As a CEO she should have conducted herself more professionally and not mix personal matters with work, no doubt about that. But looking at their arrangement, how is that easy? The fact she still managed to prioritise the company first is an amazing feet itself. Sylvia may be at fault in a lot of things but she isn't the villain here. Yea alot of suspicious things she has done but nobody can deny Ryan has done the same thing. But of course Sylvia is painted as the only bad person because she has been honest with what she says and feels. And what's funny is all those girls are coming out to say they are not homewreckers 🤣 no one says you all are homewreckers lah omg. Is your ex boss say you all eye candy and have a crush on you. So calm down. But then again.. I wouldnt constantly get a married man to fetch me home lah. Once or twice is okay.. but making it a frequent habit is kinda weird tbh. I mean.. have you guys every stop and ask him "is your wife okay with this arrangement?". And if he says she is not.. shouldn't you all just.. respect the marriage? Actually shouldn't everyone just respect the marriage without anyone having to say anything? Just don't get a married man to fetch you guys home lah. It's so weird.
Yesssss SPOT ON about the homewreckers part. I was so amused...she didn't even say that he cheated after they talked about it during the divorce proceedings. He just admitted to crushes. No one was labeling them a mistress or the third party??? Also, it's not once or twice but FREQUENTLY sending them home is just odd??? Just give them a company credit for taxi or grab please. Why is a married man indulging in such a problematic behaviour?
@@ebonyloveivory exactly! How can any women be okay with their husband constantly fetching other women home? Whether it was innocent or not it doesn't matter. No matter how much they come out to say Ryan has never made any advances or made them feel uncomfortable. The point is.. why are you asking a married man to shuffle you around? Especially so late. Don't they ever stop and think about the wife? Is like they don't question anything. It's so weird.
@@deadbunny670 It's just plain disrespectful. I am sure some of those girls have boyfriends too? Don't their partners ask, hey why is your boss sending you home all the time? There is being kind vs. Inappropriate...I am not sure if it is the generation or what (I'm 30) but their level of closeness is definitely strange. Not only as a man vs woman but boss vs subordinates. And that coupled with the fact that sylvia has to deal with ryan's suicidal tendencies...she gives in too much. It is too much for a person to take. I cannot imagine being so scared and fretting about his life day in and out...and hence she probably lets him do what he likes as a result.
“I’M NOT A HOMEWRECKER!!!!” They cry on the way to their free trip to taiwan and their daily rides home as their boss clearly admitted to having crushes on them 🤣🤣🤣
Obviously those "eye candies" wana "carrot" the boss n get benefits out of it ma... The boss Ryan is think with his small head, easy to chop carrot loh. So u say those girls will think about whether their bosses married or not? I highly doubt so, after what that SPG Michelle tried to "seduced" Ryan when her bf wasn't in town, n reading what Aurelia texted in the GC, on how she enjoyed her night (XXX), while the rest of them were drinking coconut water while waiting for her getting "the deed" done). Like wtf! Those candies aren't candies, but cheap hoes
“I cannot control who I feel connected to.” - Ryan in whatsapp receipts; in the context of admitting to his wife he has crushes on his employees while in a marriage. THEN PLEASE JUST STAY SINGLE. Also all those young girls standing up for him after these receipts came to light. Perhaps you’d like to have the same words said to you after 10 years of marriage, especially when you’ve kids/ businesses built together and all? You don’t find it stomach churning? Or you’re also just as immoral?
Must stand up for him mah, afterall he is the one buying them gifts, paying for their trips, renovating their houses, driving them home. All paiseh to stand up against him after receiving so many favors. Thats why easy to be 'nice' guy, when in trouble, everyone will stand up for you.
THIS. WELL SAID. Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps). Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction? As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appealing use toxic language about employees. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that. The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines? It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets! The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel. I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.
@@crystal2484 no wonder i always wonder how come the NOC videos all the same kind of little girl being featured one. WHERE ARE MY OVER-35 HOT STRONG WOMEN???
Ryan is extremely manipulative and crafty to play the victim every single time when it should be a shared blame. The stories have been so well crafted to make him look like the "Angel" which I had my doubts all along. Also crossing boundaries despite being a married man in multiple occasions is gross. AND THAT'S WORSE IF YOU ALREADY HAD A CASE OF CHEATING. I would be extremely insecure if my SERIAL CHEATER HUSBAND loves sending pretty girls home. Sylvia had also been silent about the cheating issues to protect the image of THEIR company. Sylvia's actions will always still be wrong, but the way the whole saga had been so well plotted and also leaving out certain important facts is just FISHY.
Yes, finally someone smart who said this out loud. All these dumb casuals just jumping on the bandwagon of "Angel Ryan" and burning the witch (Sylvia). There's always two sides to every story. Ryan isn't some naive, goody two shoes angel who's getting bullied by Sylvia.
I think XiaXue was asking good questions. On Slyvia's part, it's really sad that this is happening to her and NOC. When Slyvia mentioned that Ryan wanted Slyvia to buy his shares from him at an inflated price...wah, everything just clicked to me. She would be on the losing end of all these oddly well-timed revelations. Around 27:50 mins, I'm starting to see the lightbulb XiaXue is talking about. I feel like the best thing Slyvia can do is plot a timeline of what has been happening between her and Ryan regarding to the lawyer things. She doesn't have to give details, but she can probably mention: 1. What type of lawyer meetings: Director rights of NOC/ Dispute over Renoking as a subsidiary channel under NOC/etc. 2. Who will profit the most from these meetings. Because all these would give us, the public, a better idea on what and how much Ryan will benefit from. When she revealed the timeline of all these receipts, I'm just like- DUMBFOUNDED. The zoom recording was August 2020 and the supposed screenshot of her scolding a talent not to be a slut was from 2016?? It's almost like these people think that Slyvia didn't keep any of these chat histories. Sadly for them (or not) she did. Side note: the things happening to Slyvia reminds me of something that happened in the Netflix show: Billions, where a company's shares were actually in the green but hit rock bottom from manipulation, so the main character could buy in at a cheap price. Interesting. Another side note: that accountant fucked up. Seriously, why are you even revealing finance information online?? If a director is not performing fiduciary duty, report to police, not post online. C'mon, you're not supposed to act like a teen who cannot control her emotions. (Because angry teens blast stuff online) You should not be an accountant again. Sure, what you did makes a good story but you had a professional duty.
@@karlgan5247 Tbh. This is my first time watching anything from XiaXue. I don't even follow her on Instagram. I think the focus is not on her so I guess that's your point that's why she didn't talk much? 🤔
@@housheefukahh he's just saying that this interview is just as good as the one Oprah had with Meghan. I dont think it's about xiaxue being actually silent or not haha
@@housheefukahh it was a pretty good interview on Oprah's part, many many memes spawned from that interview too. Although people still had issues with Meghan
Sylvia, you need to love yourself more. Nobody deserves being treated like that by one's partner in life. You should not have tolerated it as long as you have. I hope your current partner treats you better...and I wish you all the best in becoming a better version of yourself.
i’m legit in disbelief at the comments. for those talking about how sylvia basically just wants to drag ryan through mud with her and how it’s not relevant to the whole issue of her mistreating employees - c’mon la stop acting like martyrs la y’all imagine how upsetting it is to see so many people standing up for him when no one knows about the infidelity and hurt she had to go through she’d definitely feel wronged and unjust. plus people also used her ‘cheating’ on him as evidence to go against sylvia and support him what. why does it feel like the internet is just harsher to women in general???? LOL. not siding with anyone, i think both made mistakes but y’all cancellers gotta get off ur high horses and stop acting like moral beacons lol (if u were really one u wouldn’t be throwing so much hatred at someone)
With the screenshots receipts submitted from her side, I think Sylvia is done letting Ryan play the "Angel". I've no doubt that Sylvia isn't the angel but RYAN IS NOTHING BETTER TOO.
Tryna be neutral here but....who the hell got the habit to record someone sia ? Be it video call zoom meeting etc. This is diff ffom whatapp tele chat.. But like video record or zoom meeting?? lol sia. Like planned it out already and ready to use this as a weapon to bring someone down. (Idk? But I go to zoom meeting I will not even thought of recording my boss??) Like for what ? Show her ask her increase my pay if not I expose her bad behavior? Lol
@@kamlisa15 wah but if you follow sgchickenrice, an noc employee say they have the habit to screenshot and record meetings just so when when sylvia ask why is it done like that (when it was clearly smt she mentioned before alrdy) then they will just show her the screenshot. but the fact that so far all the expose only show incriminating details is damn sus tbh. cos why didnt these employee show the part where they use the screenshot to back their story of using it to tell sylvia that they are doing it according to her instructions.
If you think they are unrelated then maybe you are oblivious to these points. 1. Sylvia had been silent about the cheating issues from the start to protect the image of the company. (This would be important for her lawsuit) 2. She definitely wouldn't be comfortable to the girls that her serial cheater husband is closed with. 3. Majority of the NOC girls raising the abusive issues are also the closest ones with Ryan. 4. Ryan have had the power to make decision for the company all these while, he's no angel to many of the decisions made. 5. Please view new screenshots to be more clear about how many of the submitted one's were originally carefully cropped to placed her in the worst light. Never supporting any of the sides because both are equally bad, but what I can't stand is one particular guy has been playing victim all these while.
I am stupefied too. Sylvia looking strong and fierce is her real self trying to stay afloat. When a person keeps threatening to commit suicide and still did not die after 10 years, please....this is a typical guilt trip. Making use of a person who has "bad persona" to tone down one's problem is so weak. Both Sylvia and Ryan saga takes two hands to clap. If Ryan cheat, it really reflect on his character as well.
100% agree with u. After 10yrs still alive, but keep on being suicidal, that itself is an abusive behaviour act against a woman. Smart boy to play this type of trick.
I think I'm beginning to understand Sylvia better after this interview... She married young, now she's much older and it must've been tough to see your husband constantly around young pretty girls, to the extent of even sending them home! I think that is too much. Maybe that's why she has anger issues?
We have been seeing and hearing Ryan’s and other NOC talents side of the story on the internet so it’s only fair we listen to her side of the story objectively too. All it feels like there was a clash of personality and work ethics between the both of them which implicated not only on their personal lives and NOC. Both have their faults and nobody is completely clean in this situation because it always takes two to clap. Alas, I guess it’s always wise to not do business with people you’re close with where lines of friendships/family can be easily blurred where professionalism might get compromised.
@@fez877 I think you shld rematch the whole video because she showed the world who Ryan truly is. Just because a certain number dared to stand by the side of the "winning team" doesn't mean they are the right one. Impo it's just both of them are at fault and Ryan is actually as disgusting if not more disgusting than Sylvia.. sus and a shitty husband to the one and only person who stood by you when he had literally nothing. Not to mention being rude to her family members and ps the bj video is not her. So wtf it's probably he go find some expert to edit until like her and hack her com... siao eh
Ryan outsmarted sylvia. He is a shrewd businessman and he know his partner weaknesses . Exposed all her wrongdoings to remove her from the company legally. Everything happened for a reason.
@@phili34 just temporary. She want the fame and money because there is no other better horse to ride. Jian Hao will prefer hotter girls while in the media industry only left Ryan who is simp. Basically a win win solution for both of them.
Plot Twist I knew it , Sylvia is evil towards workers but Ryan is the real PURE EVIL 😈 All those planning and manipulating . 10 years of marriage , and just because you want full ownership of the company and you went all out to destroy Sylvia's life . Omg I am literally having goose bumps. Salute to most evil planning 2021
I don’t really watch noc but I have been watching this saga unfolds. Not siding with anyone but I think most people here watch this interview with a prejudice in mind already and not with a neutral open mind. Both ex husband and wife are definitely not innocent in some ways. R has a nice and friendly personality in general but can be nice and doing wrong things at the same time. S has a mean personality but doesn’t mean that everything she says are lies. Hmm…
I didn't and don't have much interest in NOC but its so relieving to see XX doing something to provide sylvia a platform to voice out when she didn't have any other way out. XX is the best!!
Happy for Sylvia to be able to give an insight into her side of the story. It doesn't excuse her behaviour but I can only imagine the position she found herself in over the years; being trapped in an unhappy marriage with a suicidal womaniser (to put it simply). I'm guessing this might have led to her taking it out on the NOC talents, especially when their work life is so closely intertwined with their very messy relationship. To everyone here that has been so quick to judge - you may think Sylvia is a shit person, but do you really think everything came only from her & Ryan's actions (or lack of) had no part to play at all? Is it fair to take Sylvia as the ONLY bad person? Is Ryan not also 1/2 of the marriage & 1/2 of the company? I'm just a bystander viewer in all this & I'm on neither side. But while I think that no doubt Sylvia exhibited lots of toxic behaviour, the public humiliation & hate she has been put through by all these internet armchair critics is really another level.
There are always two sides of the story. Shoutout to XiaXue for doing this and possibly 'getting into sh*t' after this. Of course I am as shook as a lot of people. I've found out just now (I'm from Europe) and it's a lot to take in. My opinion on this whole matter: - Ryan, being the 'sweetheart', asking for money to buy him out is the same as not giving a f*ck about NOC and all the employees. If he is THAT human and friendly, he wouldn't do this right. So that's sus. I want to see how the NOC staff thinks about this point. I also feel like it's a d*ck move about Reno King, but I genuinely think we need more of his side of the story and his intentions. I hope he is not trying to screw up his ex-wife and trying to take all of NOC to himself because of their personal issues. - Sylvia, being the boss. As a boss you can't be sweet. You are a boss, you need to be hard to your employees. Even though she admitted to not being a good leader, she does not gang up with people, but owns up to her mistakes. I think the divorce made her even more harsh as a boss. I mean it's also her ex-husbands company, the chances of lashing out are high. She's human after all. Happy she spoke up about the possible cheating thing. I really do hope it is all a misunderstanding. Sylvia gets all the hate due to the snippets of the recordings and has been portrayed as the worst boss ever. I genuinely hope this will clear up soon without more damage to every single one of them. Again, happy that XiaXue gave a chance to Sylvia! Maybe also an exclusive interview with Ryan?
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U dont have to be mean n gas lighting ppl who work for her ( if she really does that). Im just coming from a place where shouting and blaming is ok just cos ure stressed up as a boss.
Does anyone find it incredibly suspicious that the video has been out for more than a day, and there’s been zero public statements from Ryan plus his loyal crew now all limiting their comments section as well? They had no problems speaking up against Sylvia the last few weeks, but now that she’s given her story plus receipts they’ve all gone silent. What’s clear to me now is that the person/people running the IG account are the same group behind the blog. And if somehow the IG admin was privy to the fact Sylvia had filed a police report within half hour, this person is definitely not a neutral party or netizen but an insider close to this entire situation. If what Sylvia claims is true, then this is a concerted effort to drag her name through the mud - and we should be asking ourselves what their intentions are, and why does this person/group see the need to drag the whole of Singapore into this drama.
We must wait... cos Saboking n his eye candies/gang are prolly thinking how to twist what SC have exposed. They'll need some time to discuss n attack SC back swee swee n make it sound convincing to the public. I'm sure they will do that.. We just wait n see what's their comeback.
@@pwen3220 yah if it’s not true, u will shoot back immediately with evidence. That’s how we all are when we are faced with ridiculous allegations. We will explode back!
EXACTLY! Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps). Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction? As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appealing use toxic language about employees. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that. The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines? It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets! The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel. I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.
@@darkjediknight2923 actually don’t you think that Ryan is using the exact manipulation tactics he used on Sylvia with the NOC staff/talents now? He hid behind Sylvia by portraying himself as a bullied, depressed person and forced Sylvia be a bad cop to stand up for him. It’s obvious now that the screenshots were collated by a select group of NOC staff close to Ryan, and honestly, why would they organically do that unless someone was pushing them to do so? Some of these correspondence have dated back years. Why come out now? And because these girls have helped front this smear campaign, Ryan is now hiding behind them and letting them take the fall while he portrays himself as a victim of this entire saga. It’s fucking disgusting.
Sylvia is wrong to talk harshly to her employees but I do believe Ryan is not innocent too. So many things that happened are too much of a coincidence. Sylvia has her own fair shares of being nice to her employee. Often she would say "don't need to let the staffs know" (referring to text evidence) On another note, the act from a man cheating is absolutely inappropriate.. from his textes, its totally unacceptable. we shouldn't let him and his female talents thinks it's ok to do that. Like.. wth? Just because your boss is good to u? Hello, where are your boundaries too. Is it a influencer things, for fame? As a wife, this cannot be tolerated. And I don't think she is not addressing the questions. It's so obvious that Ryan actions has caused her to have many insecurities that leads her to where she is today. Perhaps she is jealous because of Ryan's crushes, hence her being harsh with words are being sabotage this time round. I mean, come on, put yourself in her shoe... would u not have reacted this way? She has also say nice things about other talents too. Like she likes isa, she is ok with so and so. Look at bigger picture. She definitely deserves a chance. Don't be an ass. Ryan is definitely not 100% angel. The textes weren't as nice too, manipulative.
Exactly my same sentiments! I think SC was under alot of stressed from his cheatings... Deep down without her husband's assurance + he continued to get closed with his female employees caused SC to mentally break down. How I know? Cos the same shit I endured with my previous ex! But thank god mine lasted less than 5 mths, n not 10 yrs...
Yes I agree with you. Besides, the way he used suicide as a leverage to achieve his motive is very scary, very manipulative. It keeps people on tenterhooks and fear of when he would kill himself over something they did.
Oh yes.. to the talents that sided Ryan and now with evidence that Ryan said he has interest with or what you did.. eh, pls... sylvia also have evidence. Don't try to deny. Go side Ryan again lo. Your fav boss ownself admit one ah. No one say de.
If what sylvia said come true to be the reality, ryan is a very scary manipulative individual. Im trying to be neutral in understanding this whole saga but i felt so much in sylvia in this interview. Not try to side with her but it does make sense on what she pinpoint. Sylvia pls stay strong for god sake.
He illegally recorded Sylvia in the zoom meeting probably to be saved and used in this current situation in case he wanted to damage Sylvia for good and initiate his escape plan without raising suspicion on himself. Looks like it backfired.
I can totally see the side of Sylvia where her life was constantly dragged down by Ryan - It's really tough for a person who love and live with someone suicidal as you've to constantly think of what you do or say that may not cause them to trigger to kill themselves. The thought of having to live the rest of your life thinking you are the reason they kill themselves. No one wants that kinda responsibility. I can see how it can manipulate someone's life and make them feel trapped. You love them, you've to protect them but you feel suffocated. I saw the pain myself as sadly I've hurt people in my life due to my depression. Also, in this video I've have finally sealed and confirm that people never change when it comes to bad behaviours or cheating. Bad management aside.. This video shows us that both of them are toxic af they've their own bad and we are all humans. End of story.
I really like Sylvia a lot, still do. I trust her and believe her. And likewise with Xiaxue. The relationship with Ryan sounds to me like classic man seeks a "mother" in his wife as opposed to a "woman"
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I think that people were really quick to jump the gun in the comments section. The video was literally posted around 10pm and there were already “Summary comments” about how she is giving excuses flooding the comment section at 10:05. Cmon give her some air time and let her speak her peace. It’s really easy to pick on the “common enemy”, but at least hear her out and not cling onto your prejudices. With that being said, I think that it is true that she has dodged certain questions and she could have done a better job in apologising and owning up for her mistakes. But there are always two sides to every story and if you were to take a look at the google drive, Ryan is seen using the “R” word on Sylvia’s brother as well. And isn’t the entire saga initiated by this alleged misuse of the word? Is Ryan simply “let off” cause he is the nice guy??? It’s pretty double standard to me.
But one is with all co worker, one is private though Seeing this interview, make me understand what pushed sylvia - the insecurity , stress ... I never hated sylvia, I now feel and pity her.... But objectively, she wasnt doing her role as boss that well seeing the staff and zoom meeting
@@ChangeWorld4Better I think it was mentioned in the video that her brother worked for them and was either (a) a talent or (b) a runner. Therefore it makes him an employee as well. But even if he wasn’t, if we’re using your argument about private v. corporate settings; many of the allegations and pieces of evidence brought up against Sylvia were private conversations. Ones that she had in confidence with whoever she was speaking with. Would you then say that they should not have been surfaced? Even then, Ryan’s use of the word cannot be justified with “it was in private though” cause it won’t be a reasonable way to weigh out the conversations that Sylvia had with the said girl who was called a “s**t” by Sylvia.
@@ChangeWorld4Better Yea I agree that she has definitely not been the most effective boss, or one that is appropriate in any sense of the word. However, I just believe that a fair process should still be the way we approach this matter. If things have been surfaced against Sylvia, especially ones which were said in confidence. I don’t see what’s wrong with digging some up in her defence, or in retaliation for the sake of her reputation. It is sad that it would be almost impossible to “save her face”. But I think that she should not go down without a fight.
@@tanleree7873 I think mainly too much hate being given to sylvia over the net. Sending hate to either parties is a issue by itself, ryan is sus to suicide... and sylvia been under attack while bearing the stress of broken marriage for 4-5 years People tend to forget other allegions up, regarding backtracing pay for her brother for inappropiate amount of work done though... overpaying, the rent of apartment under NOC funds... The chili + porky mask *not under NOC too* In general I think Ryan seem to be a good/better boss in terms of work, but bad husband or boyfriend -> possibility manipulative and a bit of an scumbag. Sylvia seem bad boss (staff siding w ryan) work wise, probably with the stress over the years of untrusty in marriage. Better wife, girlfriend but slightly better than Ryan after hearing her side for this interview.
@@ChangeWorld4Better yea for sure. there are always two sides of the story and both have their faults and their fair points as well. Ultimately, we’ll just have to see how this all pans out and I believe that it would not end in the best way for both.
I can understand why Sylvia is treating NOC girls badly, because it is mixed in with some jealously (as a wife). It is just unfortunate that she is also their boss, and it is very difficult to separate her personal hatred. But no excuses to treat other employees so badly though.
@@happyleaf9635 oh sorry about that. But I thought it started with Samantha Tan and Ryan favourite girl is actually Aurelia and Joanna? And the delayed payment is also because of jealousy? Anyway I think Sylvia is just making excuses coz not only the girls who were treated badly, some of the guys were treated badly too
@@Frooooooo Sylvia mentioned in the video that Ryan is the company director. He has the authority to sign cheque, Sylvia doesn't have. The accountant also does payroll and works closely with Ryan. If this is true, then Ryan should also have the authority to pay the employees. Does he still has to go through Sylvia's approval to issue payment despite the authority he has and that caused the delay? I don't know if this even makes sense..
ryan is still the co-owner and director of NOC (49 percent shareholders). if he wanted to pay the staff on time, or do things for the company, he can. In fact, before the divorce, Ryan WAS the one having the majority share. But the problem is: he doesn't want to do that for u. He only wants to gain ur trust I know he looks like this nice guy who always apologize.. but that's the signs of manipulative NPD. They buy u with his words and pretentive actions. NPD rarely looks evil, they always make others look evil. They create divisoon. That's why i didn't believe when people suspected Sylvia as NPD because NPD always lives in a 'nice guy/girl' facade.
I was very surprised by Xia Xue’s line of questioning, how she floated gracefully across the topics and remained largely objective and neutral. Truly no offense intended but I’ve always brushed her off as bimbotic. This video showed me I was wrong and that she has real depth as a person. More power to you. Cancel culture is really a symbol of our society in a state of decay. It’s a terrible thing to do to anyone regardless of what they’ve done. Social media is truly a double edged sword.
Lol. She acted like she is a bimbo. She is def not. Whenever she put forth an argument, most of the time it make sense although sometimes it's not a popular one
thats her social media persona. Do u really think "bimbo" influencers like the kardashians or paris hilton are dumbasses? No way. No one truly dumb can succeed
Honestly I feel that if it wasn’t for the strong character from Sylvia in managing NOC, the company would not have some this far, would not be able to pay crew salary with just fun content. And as Ryan wife I totally understand that when ur partner comes to you telling you that people are upsetting him, u would def do everything to protect him even if it means to have people turn around saying you’re the bitch while the Ryan stay behind her and be the nice guy everyone deem he is. Now listening from Sylvia, I understand why she has become a character she don’t recognise anymore cause for the past few years she has been manipulated by Ryan every time he tries to commit suicide she has to be the bad cop n more n more people hating on her character that she has become that was manipulated so that she can protect someone she loves. This whole cheating story disgust me the most, n def make sense cause with an introverted character that Ryan has, being expose to so many girls that will never associate with him if it wasn’t NOC It makes sense that temptations will happen. It’s not easy for this woman here to solely managing the company making sure that money comes in, managing his ‘kid’ who only wants to do videos he wants/interested in, dealing with her own relationship in & outside work n still needing to be professional when facing people her husband fancy (knn) Not to say that these r all valid for her to behave that way but pls try being that person nobody will be able to maintain her sanity, really not easy.
I agree with u its really sad that she stayed with him and helped him build a company despite all the nonsense she had to deal with. Its disgusting that he cheat on her especially while she was helping him wash the plate at the restaurant for free. Ryan is fucking disgusting i swear.
f. agree with you 100%. What they went through is actually very normal in Singapore context. I've seen dunno how many such similar situation already. U can spare out dont type everything in one chunk
What I can say is people can really manipulate other when the person still care for them and mostly won’t noticed that they are being manipulated. In the case of Sylvia, she is trying her best in her marriage and the business, but unfortunately it didn’t work out, turning her into this person she didn’t want to be. My wish for her is to continue to be strong and take care of her emotion. Don’t let these people bring you down. Everything will come to light. God praise.
Just saying we cannot believe in what she said,sure u can but it is important to know AND understand both sides but it is good that u assured her but u forgot abt others who were affected
@@RC-pf7wt so did everyone else who got mistreatment by her. this whole video is about ryan ryan ryan, nothing about sylvia addressing her mistreatment or is sorry about it. she shares about ryan's mental health and episodes when that is something personal for everyone. xiaxue's questions were very well crafted, but did any of them really got addressed? it always goes back to ryan and their love life.
@@sabz4364 but if you’re talking about personal, isnt the conversation about her and another guy also personal? I think the reason why she keeps going back to Ryan and their love life is because it is one of the major reason which caused her to be so terrible to her employees, not justifying her actions whatsoever but in a way I can see why she became who she is currently but yes, I do agree that she hasn’t been apologetic and has not directly answered the questions with a yes or no
I could feel her pain as a wife to always being told by her husband that he has crushes on other girls...it really killed her self confidence. And she became a strong and mean person just to protect him which is the only way she could look good as his wife... Poor lady..I hope you move on and find true love 1 day....
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Ryan shouldn't get a car. He should buy a bus. Easier to fetch everyone home.
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Summary of saga : Sylvia is a bad boss, Ryan is a bad husband.
That is a weirdly accurate summary.
Thanks saving my time
Sylvia allegations dont really have any concrete evidence. This interview was a good chance to speak out and apologise to people around her but it turns into pulling into the mud. Speaks alot about someone
@@llljjjyyyy she don't have to prove ryan's cheating to anyone. it already hurts if it's true but if you were in her position what would you do?
@@llljjjyyyy he literally admitted to emotional cheating as seen in the screenshots. also she has no reason to lie since Ryan could back himself out if its not true, I doubt he has anything to say
Timestamp:
00:00 - Intro
01:06 - Sylvia comes in + Saga summary
04:30 - How NOC is works and how their marriage affects it
09:28 - Is Ryan drawing a salary?
10:53 - Is Sylvia the big boss and no one can overwrite her? Is she the bully? Is she slave driving the employees? Is Ryan trying to protect his employees?
12:10 - Who is in charge of making talents stay late?
13:48 - Alleged Lawsuit (Is it true? What is it about?)
14:36 - Sylvia complains about Ryan and accuses him of doing things behind her back
16:34 - Sylvia and Ryan both misappropriating funds
17:02 - Sylvia writes lawyer letter to Ryan
17:20 - Sylvia accuses Ryan of doing things that is a serious breach of the company
17:57 - How does she think the saga affects the outcome of the pre lawsuit
18:54 - Sylvia talks about her leaked audio recording
19:41 - Who is behind SGChickenRice account? (Sylvia starts dropping names)
20:03 - Sylvia talks about Isabelle (Bombiibii) + suspecting Ryan of doing things (aka cheating)
21:57 - Who leaked the group chats and private chats? (Sylvia drops names again)
22:49 - Sylvia questions herself why people hate her so much and want to destroy her so much
23:56 - Sylvia believes Ryan is behind it
24:25 - Sylvia name dropping
25:31 - Sylvia talks about Ryan's motive (not confirmed) behind all these and how he cannot fight against her legally
25:59 - Sylvia talks about Ryan appreciation day
26:19 - XiaXue talks about her thoughts on what is happening + suspecting a campaign against Sylvia
27:05 - Sylvia talks about why all these started (millions of dollars $$$)
27:55 - Sylvia talks about Ryan's 'resign' from NOC + accusing him of things
29:16 - XiaXue ask if the smear campaign affects the outcome of the lawsuit (Sylvia dodged the question just now)
30:09 - XiaXue mind blown
30:47 - Sylvia talks about NOC losing a lot of deals ($$$$$$) + blaming
31:51 - Sylvia talks about why no one stands up for her and cancel culture
32:56 - What is the plan for NOC now? Can the talent leave?
34:39 - XiaXue talks about her skeptic POV + Why would Ryan destroy NOC?
34:55 - Sylvia talks about the Ryan that everyone don't know and only she knows (basically saying he is willing to destroy NOC)
36:13 - Workplace Abuse (JianHao, GoodCop BadCop etc)
36:57 - Sylvia admits she is abusive in workplace and why she became like that + smoking addiction + why she never change + why they divorce
41:56 - Ryan suicide attempts (Sylvia starts crying)
44:04 - Sylvia says she felt manipulated
48:16 - Ryan's cheated on Sylvia while they were married with a restaurant waitress
50:58 - Ryan always have something to do with the girls in NOC (dropping bombshells)
52:41 - Ryan sending NOC girls home/favouring the girls
54:07 - Ryan and Aurelia
55:26 - Did Sylvia intend to fire Aurelia
56:24 - Ryan siding the talents instead of Sylvia
57:15 - Ryan coming clean about who he had a crush on in NOC
58:01 - Michelle pushing herself onto Ryan (+XiaXue sexual joke)
1:12:45 - Misappropriation of funds
1:17:54 - Not allowing Ryan to see porky
1:20:40 - The zoom recordings, Sylvia getting blackmailed on them.
1:22:50 - The HR person who packed porky masks
1:24:20 - Sylvia's brother working in NOC
1:28:35 - Alleged sexual barter trade of NOC's talents
1:33:07 - Updates on the overall police investigations
1:36:08 - XiaXue asks how Sylvia is doing
1:40:16 - The screenshot of someone who was called a slut by Sylvia
1:42:00 - Why thirsty sisters content are down
1:43:13 - Sylvia's BJ video?
1:44:35 - The reason Sylvia decided to speak up
Watching el clasico and this and updating at the same time
HAHAH
Bless you!
48:16 Ryan's cheating with his first restaurant waitress
Fucking legend
Anyone back here after seeing Sylvia latest podcast to see the transformation
sylvia story has been consistent with no changes. Comparing this to her podcast, it doesnt even vary. She is indeed telling the truth.
all these do not justify sylvia's behaviours BUT they do explain why she acted the ways she did.
Yess people that are commenting does not even understand the whole pov
oh wow this actually really is such a great outlook, i agree completely
Ryan not as innocent as he seem. Horny fellow
@@jinhon121 yes, sylvia might be in a toxic shitty past r/s with a dismissive ryan. It still does not give green light for sylvia to make people terrify until have ptsd
She did ah. She paranoid about the women around Ryan that's why she herself also allegedly cheat ma.
Oh... Wait.
Put aside whether Sylvia is a nasty person because it’s a persona or what, no woman can tolerate their partner spending more time with so many females ( like how she would wait for Ryan to have dinner at home but he has eaten with Aurelia without informing etc) as compared to herself especially since he cheated before ( these are proven with receipts) She must have went through very sad and lonely moments with no one to speak to, because they were known as the “golden couple”. I believe everything takes 2 hands to clap, she may be a nasty person but Ryan is def not an angel.
Hi Sylvia
yes 100%
I feel it's another case of emotional manipulation in marriage (By Ryan)
agree
Agree. Even if the media line/culture its known for partner needs to be ok w their own partner being touchy w opposite gender. If ur partner say they are not ok, U should respect him/her more than following the "culture". isn't this the basis of a marriage?
Still. Takes 2 hands to clap. 1 side need to relax A BIT. other needs to don't be so relaxed
Singapore finally produces a good drama after so many years.
Funniest comment ever HAHAHA
Next MediaCorp drama.
hahahah
Netlix worthy
This needs a star award on channel 8
I don’t have a problem with Sylvia being called out for her vile actions but Ryan is even more frustrating by acting all high & mighty as if he’s such a nice guy. Does his actions excuse Sylvia’s? No. But is it a reason behind it? absolutely. They both made mistakes and BOTH should be held accountable. As much as i agree Sylvia is in the wrong, I can obviously tell that Ryan has been driving her up the wall for years and from what i can tell he was definitely lacking as a husband and in some aspects as a boss as well. Being a good boss shouldn’t be about being authoritative or abusive and neither should it be being a friend to your employees (or even worse having a crush on them)
btw for anyone saying having a crush on someone is normal, NOT ONLY was he married, he some more go and entertain his little feelings for the noc talents
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I mean you can’t control a crush right? But yeah he cheated on sylvia on his own accord. he’s a grown man he knew what shit he was getting himself into yet still did it. And now hes paying for his actions by being exposed now lol
@@liuyahong didn’t I already say that?
I agree
Tbh, both Ryan and Sylvia are toxic. Everyone has certain sides that we are not proud of, and it’s how we portray ourselves to others.. In Ryan’s case, he’s a great boss and friend. But perhaps he was not a good husband. On Sylvia’s end, she’s a good businesswoman and may have tried to be a good wife. But as a boss, probably quite a toxic one.
To add on, company was built on a very dangerous foundation (Married couple as business partners, with cheating episodes = distrust, yet still working with many other females).
So everyone else who worked/works for them just became tangled in the mess lor.
On a side note, I have to agree it’s very emotionally draining to love someone who has suicidal ideation/ tendencies. The constant fear of what he/she’s gonna do next; how you would give everything just so the person would choose life over death; how you constantly feel it’s your fault that they wanna die. It’s really painful.
yes omg, the fear of your SO committing suicide is so much. Idt ppl really understand the amount of stress and trauma that puts you under.
Yes, getting sick of Ryan reposting all the compliment IG stories
Ryan is also not a gd boss given he hits on his young employees. A boss shouldn't be blurring the professional with the private. Yeah both are toxic.
If he gives me free renovation and send me home everyday, I also will side him 😬
Well said. One of the more well thought out comments in this comment section.
I am convinced by now that Sylvia is either a psychopath, or one heck of a tough woman, for being able to show up like this unapologetically and openly, all while bearing the pain that came with the downfall of her career and her dignity. Whether or not she is telling the truth, or if there is ever a fair way of saying whether someone is ultimately right or wrong, I respect her. No one deserves to be treated or attacked like that.
Yessssss me too. I don’t uds why is everyone shaming her and all. It’s really tough being the strong woman trying to pull all fronts of the business together. You don’t get to be one of Singapore’s top TH-camr if you’re soft. And just because she’s hard on everyone, it turns out that she’s evil.
Ikr the fact that she already lost her reputation and ppl just kept wanting to cancel her till she is left with nth , yet she still stands up strong and not sure with the truth or not but most ppl prob might commit suicide or flee the country if they can or just stay quiet for 1-2 years .
Up this
Say it louder for the people at the back
The sequence and way the allegations were released is orchestrated. Someone or a group has meditated and planned to bring her down. This video is shot continuously, I don’t think she is lying. I’m not siding her but smells like foul play.
this entire hooha seems like is caused by personal issues Ryan and Sylvia faced at home, which in turn is being brought into the business, hence all the havoc. Anger, revenge, mistrust between the two leaders. it’s getting embarrassing tbh
Yes
hence never eat where you shit
true
Nope, not fully. Because they have been separated since 2017. All their home issues should have been stopped at them. Its further they want to further it into the business.
If you look at other business couples, many have divorced, but they still continue as co-directors in their company, even bringing it bigger.
Wouldnt say workplace abuse is related to this but I agree
to everyone saying that sylvia shouldnt bring up ryan’s suicidal tendencies, i feel that there is a need for sylvia to address this bc its really manipulation and i know exactly how it feels to be trapped and not knowing how to go about not hurting your SO more than he already is. its mentally exhausting bc the other person automatically becomes priority bc you’re so afraid that he might just take his life just bc you one day decided to retaliate. also, how else is she going to explain why she acts the way she did to protect ryan? the fact that ryan trusted her to do the scolding bc he refused to be the bad cop, dont tell me ryan didnt know how sylvia would handle the issues? and with sylvia knowing that ryan is depressed and whatever he’s going through, despite all her efforts to protect him, ryan still decides to confide in another prettier girl, what would that make sylvia then? who is sylvia to him anymore? obviously that would completely crush sylvia and her self esteem bc its natural to start to wonder what she’s lacking and why is it that she’s not good enough for ryan to confide in as a wife?
Why not? It was all a bluff that Ryan hatched-up to psycho the one that loves him. A carefully premeditated plan to discredit his lawful wife for young females? 😃😃😃
Right I’ve seen a lot of ppl say that she’s trying to avoid the topic by bringing up Ryan’s suicidal tendencies. But I feel like it was kind of a key part in explaining why she became such an angry person. It gives us an insight into what shaped her this way. Tho idt it’s nice to air his laundry so it probably would’ve been better if she didn’t go into that much detail abt it since it’s still his personal mental health issues
@@rice_wife yeah but if she didnt go into how much his suicidal tendencies affected her, people would just brush it off as an excuse. so like, right and wrong.
Excuses. If 1-2 employees talk back about you, it might be those few. When so many employees all talk about you. It must mean something about how she is treating employees in general.
still doesn't give her the right to late all the time, don't let the employees go home even after 7pm. make them work till 4am. and don't pay them on time. can screw them using vulgarities. it's the company management issues. Don't take it out on others. Be respectful to employees even if you don't like them.
If we are placed in any of the employees' plight it would really sucked right. plus can't leave because we got a contract with the company.
The leaked video on her replying to Ryan on the employees rights really pissed me off. Does she even feel apologetic ? I can't feel a tinge of remorse that she is not paying her employees on time , making them work late, getting her employees to do her personal stuffs . She mocks Ryan and ask him for solution. Seriously?
Plus the fact she probably violated the law by getting the HR to pay his brother just he can get his PR? She thinks ICA regulations is a joke? There are people who say all rest of the SMEs are doing it. So it's fine to workaround the rules?
Suicide tendency???? So did she or Ryan was the one going to buangkok chalet for counselling??? Don't start la. If he no money and she knows he got so many xmm to put his key in, she already divorced centuries ago lol. Or you can try tolerate like her I can marry you and have xmm see if you cut my kkj in 2 years time??? Or wait 10 years then go TH-cam say I years ago xmm alot already lol
if Sylvia’s claim is true, it would be very sneaky and Low of Ryan and his team to bring forth personal allegations against Sylvia. No one is perfect.
think abt this. ryan kept the video recording who else spilled the video besides ryan and his gang lol?
they even used tried to frame her as a cheater using a chat when she was already divorced with ryan and legally allowed to have other relationships so.. cunning and sly of them. whoever leaked it is a real bitch. a toxic boss you can avoid but friends who leak these kinds texts? who would ever be prepared
heard that sgchickenrice admin was ryan
Ryan may backfire and end up in JAIL too ..
Think about it, him bringing up the problem of Sylvia's brother's payroll arrangments MEANS he's already known and approved of the arrangments from the very beginning. How can he not have approved it since him and Sylvia were still married and the whole company was registered under his sole name then ?
That means he had the final approval to include Sylvia's brother in the payroll and he's just flipping the script now to pretend Sylvia was the only one who knows it so that he can bring her down over Renoking ...
If Sylvia goes to jail over Sikeen's payroll, Ryan should go to jail too ..
It’s a very elaborate campaign.. I was just telling my friend where got such an all rounded villian that even Taiwanese drama don’t dare to depict 😹
I really feel for Sylvia when hearing about how Ryan treated the NOC girls. I may be old fashioned or whatever but I think it so inappropriate for your partner/ spouse to be sending home girls even if nothing was going on between them. I don’t not how to articulate this thought well personally if my hubby is talking to others girls like this and going overseas with them w/o me it’s already a huge red flag. Sylvia if any chance you’re reading this. Know that your feelings of hurt towards this situation is rightful and extremely valid. As a fellow women I feel so much heart ache listening to how you have to endure being treated like this in your marriage. Stay strong Sylvia !
Imagine she needs to see and work with all her husband 小三s everyday in office.... mindblown
Ya wtf ! And have to internalise all that for all these years.
it's not old fashioned
Its reallg a Big NO NO. for a married guy to do that. Like the girl is so flirty ugch
with the fact u gave an excuse that sending ur wife is a 40mins detour and u freaking hate traffic. matter of priorities bro, whether traffic or not, its ur wife. u gotta prioritise ur wife 1st than some talents u barely knew. thinking of their divorce video where they got no quality time; if taken positively, the trip to send ur wife could be turned into a quality time mah. less is more. it juz takes effort ah. u can fetch here n there like ur the only "family/friend" they have but u couldn't put effort to not be calculative about sending/fetching ur wife to work speaks volume for me. peace.
And there are still ppl standing out (guy somemore) saying Ryan also send them home what! Childish Bullies!
No such thing as “BEST FRIEND” if she is more important than your wife and you favor her over your wife😌
Preach it!! I can never accept my husband leaving me to fetch someone else all the time. Leave, and never come back.
아륀 Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps).
Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction?
As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appealing use toxic language about employees. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that.
The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines?
It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets!
The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel.
I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.
Even men like me don’t believe married men can have pretty young lasses as best friends, let alone the wife lor.
If you are a man and your attractive gf has her boss as BFF, you need to rethink about your relationship. Kena wear green hat also don’t know.
Yeap true if u wanna side ur bestfriend so much then don’t get married. Give and take.
@@darkjediknight2923 Fantastic well written thought. Love your vocabularies and clear statements. Agree with you 100%. Now I'm curious to see if he will come out and tell's his sides of the story. 🤔🤷♀️💥
To be fair, I can understand Slyvia POV of Ryan being overly close with Aurelia, etc. Emotional cheating is no different that psyhical cheating. The internet is potraying Ryan as a saint, which is not good. I feel that it is overly glorifying Ryan and shadowing his own issues. However, that still does not justify Slyvia toxic behavouir in NOC. I am just bothered by the fact that the whole internet is faulting Slyvia (even tho she did make mistakes and it is normal she should be held accountable) but overly glorifying Ryan in the process. Surely he has a part in creating a toxic environment in NOC? Being nice is good and all, but in terms of management of company, I doubt Ryan can be up to task without making hard decisions. It just seems to me that Ryan is playing good cop while Slyvia takes the role of the bad cop
Don't trust a 30+ guy who is in a relationship with a very young gal in early 20's.
Also, I think it’s fair to only do an interview with Ryan also so we get two sides.
Agreed!
YES! Xiaxue needs to do an interview with Ryan as well
Big Facts
all three (ryan, sylvia, xiaxue) tgt in a panel best
Do it together!
there's definitely 2 sides of the story... but what made me disgusted was the talents speaking up for ryan and act as if sending girls home late at night often is normal. let's see if they will say that if their bf/husband acts the same like ryan
yea lah wait till karma bites them hard LOL. we shall see
Don't be jealous when nobody offers to send you home.
1. View matters impartially based on facts, common sense and how you’d like to be treated. Not trial by mob.
2. Smearing anyone - man or woman - with slander is sickening
3. Sylvia’s toxic language to Samantha is separate issue to other accusations. For that she must apologise.
4. Leaking confidential accounts is a violation of privacy and unethical
5. Much of the slander about Sylvia’s private life has been proven to be untrue.
6. Those who were silent whilst she was being smeared, suddenly don’t like it when people question their own moral fibre.
7. Some claim to be “old enough to know” things. Would they like it if their own partner spends late nights with members of the opposite sex and blurs the lines between work and pleasure?
8. Much of the “Mr. Clean” image of Ryan has been shown to be a myth. Both in terms of private conduct (look at how he speaks which is toxic) and business conduct.
9. Paying employees is a responsibility of BOTH Ryan and Sylvia. Not only one.
10. Backdating resignation - think why Ryan wants to do that. Looks like violating duty as NOC director and means Reno King is NOC property.
11. Matters relating to workplace flaws should be reported to authorities. Allegations should not be hurled like mud to denigrate the image of a company or person.
12. It very much looks like this is nothing more than a coup attempt and/or smear campaign to totally tarnish Sylvia. And frankly it worked - in her own words she became “the shit of Singapore.” Now it’s boomeranging back on the conspirators.
13. Imagine if it was you. Treat others how you would like to be treated. It’s not about being a man/woman/employer/employee. And not about what the internet mob thinks. Think about what is right and wrong, what is legal or illegal and what has now been proven or disproven in her response (which included screenshots).
14. Think about who benefits from each accusation and a smear campaign.
15. I was disappointed in Rachel since I really liked her/respected. “Et tu Rachel?”
Exactly I wonder if:
1. Will talents like if their partner does that with other women?
2. Will talents’ boyfriend like that Ryan does this?
not just bf or husband.. brother and father can't fetch you from work is it?
Tbh I don’t really side anyone.. but I can feel her pain like from the way she talks… I feel she’s a person that’s hard to express her feelings. I am like that too… where u feel very helpless as u can’t express what u want to say …
I want to address the "Regardless, the employee mistreatment isn't right" comment.
Looking at this whole scandal, you guys can at least understand why companies frown upon office couples, especially one where they work closely together in the same department.
I am in a relationship with someone who is in the same company and department (this is the heiracy, him, me, followed by other employees). I want to give my insights into how this works. There are times where I see him get along too well with female colleagues (Not at Ryan's level tho lol), cause you see the interactions first hand. I get jealous but I don't act on it, because we are expected to be professional and not mix emotion and work. And fortunately I am good at this. I can have massive argument with him 5 min before office meeting (he is in the meeting as well) and pull my emotion out. But here's the thing, how often are you able to pull your emotion out to remain unaffected to create that so called professionalism when you face those problems every single day and watch your husband out-of-the-norm behaviour with the girls that he isn't even trying to hide? I can tell you, if you are a human with normal emotion, it's almost impossible unless you are a psychopath, because your emotion would need to be dead to remain objective at work and not lash out to anyone which is the cause of all this employee mistreatment. Even for me, its often only possible because I have emotional detachment issue. What about those with normal functioning emotion?
The only thing Sylvia did wrong is that she should not have been in the same company as Ryan. There's 101 other things she could have done to prevent the situation from escalating to this point, but none that's actually in Sylvia's favour in the first place. Ryan's protection of the NOC girls that he favoured has caused him to be rude to Sylvia and undermine her authority as acting CEO. Have you ever seen a company's Director scolding his CEO infront of the lower employees because the CEO is trying to ensure the lower employee did her job? What's so hard about putting a towel? Lol. Once or twice is not an issue but over the years? Sylvia lashing out to everyone is because she is at the point of breaking down and it's thanks to her husband. Please don't say she can just leave. Is like asking parent to abandoned the baby she work so hard to raise.
Sylvia is as much a victim to work place abuse because Ryan makes her job harder by letting the employees get away with things. If we want to talk about work place mistreatment, Slyvia is abused during her work too then, under Ryan. It's just not recorded for everyone to see. This hasn't even include Ryan's mental stress on her. There is only so much a human can take.. Sorry for the long post, thank you for the time for those who bothered to read.
“by letting employees get away with things” is valid if the employees are lazy and have made mistakes.
But if everyone is already burnt out and all traumatised by her “leadership”, I don’t think the hard approach (bad cop) is the right approach.
Yes, she have to deal with sales and clients. But if her staff is unable to take up such a high workload then it’s only right to increase manpower, and be understanding towards them, instead of saying that the team is not performing and because ryan is an “incompetent leader”.
As an employee myself, working my guts out for the company only for the boss to say “you’re not working hard enough” brings the team morale down and makes me question if my boss even care about my well being.
Looking at all the screenshot and recordings, answer is, Sylvia doesn’t care. She only see herself being a victim in her own marriage, and not her staff being victims under her leadership. That’s the worst kind of boss to be under.
@@Swswimmop-7688 Agree. Tbh, Sylvia is not exactly your examplary boss. That's also why she is so rough with language as well. But its tough to pin point each situation as well because every thing is too intermixed and everything linked to everything. But it is also tough managing young employees especially your husband isn't actually on your side supporting you. If he is there, calm her down, show a good example, at least Sylvia doesn't have to act like a monster.
@@Swswimmop-7688 From the screenshots and videos, we can't prove that the employees are not lazy and not making mistakes. We saw some instances of Sylvia stepping in to correct some mistakes repeatedly for her employees. Saying the team is not performing is subjective but it's not fair to *not* publish the other parts of the video where she might have said other teams are doing well. If the whole company's employees are always doing badly, then how did NOC achieve what it has?
Like what Sylvia mentioned, there are crunch times and peak periods in a year. If every time an employee claims to be overworked and the company hires someone, does it mean you need to keep employees around throughout the year while they sit idle during non-peak seasons? Or do you fire them as and when you don't need them? Contract staff is an option and I think NOC is already using them. Even though there are laws which protect employees beyond working certain number of hours in a week, there's also many employees in the job market who would want to willingly work more so long they are compensated for the extra hours.
Ryan could indeed be an incompetent leader but we would not know for sure in those circumstances. So neither should we defend him by saying it's harsh to call him "an incompetent leader". A boss has a right to call out poor performance and in any case, though her intonation is crass, she's not wrong to give feedback on an employee (since Ryan claims he's not a director).
@@Swswimmop-7688 Yea, Sylvia has a terrible mouth and I'd hate to be working under her. But at least she's acknowledged those as actions in the past and that she is currently taking measures to change that. We do not know of her behaviour now, but she did say it was interlinked with heavy smoking which she has quit, and is now seeing a therapist to manage her mental health, all of which are measures taken to soothe her temper.
Though, even at her worse, I don't think she was as bad as Ryan. If I were to pick between the two evils, I'd rather work under a boss that lashes out and overworks me over one who makes suggestive advances towards younger (often teenage) employees. Sylvia's situation is just more relatable to many since instances of a temperamental boss are way more common, but I'd damn well take her temper than disgustingly ruin a marriage in the workplace.
yeah lmao, it could also be why she was so harsh on certain employees because shes def up her own husband is crushing on them and she cant do anything. Sure it might have been dumb to target them instead of ryan but ryan is also the co founder so she cant do anything to.him
Good to hear her side of the story. She is at fault for treating her staff that way, but the other party behind this whole campaign isn’t as innocent too.
Yes I agree. Seems like both parties aren’t innocent
I agree but she didn't even apologize for anything at all
the amount of fuck's that was said in the video 💀
Sgchickenrice gives evidence with no allegations, Sylvia gives us allegations with no evidence. Very big difference.
@@kevintan497 The screenshots are literally in the description.
I’m not excusing her behaviour towards her employees. But i notice she is very well spoken, intelligent and hard headed. She has potential to go far with her career once she overcomes this.
Agreed !
I don't think so. They are wrong in different ways. Her behaviors towards her employees are so awful and she is emotional, abusive and entitled. Many people can go a long way in their career. She has her own management style but obviously is not a good leader who appreciates her employees. Look at Spanx founder as a good leader
Yeah.. fast forward to today, she really did overcome.
Found it super weird that as business partners he wasn't even attempting to salvage or defend her/their business. Instead he was all planned to distance himself away from the saga. It was too coincidental that every thing is clashing with their divorce meetings. And red flags are so aplenty in their relationship. Ryan telling her he has a crush on Aurelia, Joanna and Michelle making advances on him. Emotional cheating is just so scary, and funny how he would drive Aurelia back home when he couldn't even fetch his own wife. I can relate to how Sylvia must have felt and also when Ryan repeatedly threatened suicide and threatening to record her. It is just sad that a toxic relationship has to be placed out for the world to see and judge and to cancel when we at the start only knew Ryan's side of the story. As for the cheating, how is it valid that Sylvia cheated when they had a separation agreement dated 2017? All these said, Sylvia might not be a good boss since people are coming out against her. However, for those people who fueled the hate with assumptions and lies, how are they any better? IMO, we all rushed to cancel Sylvia. Is it time to cancel Ryan now since he is so toxic as well?
well said
@@sandyeo their separation as seen in ss is 2017. She encouraged them to go with him in 2019. I don't see fault in there and I don't feel like she suggested he cheated on her. The only suggestion he cheated was when she spoke of other noc girls like the ones I had mentioned above.
@@kevintan497 got screenshots eh! I feel like when you piece their stories together is just like 2 toxic people and a failed relationship with many other friends and ppl trying to take part in a toxic game of ruining the other party.
@@asterechen3048 one question though, I only saw that ryan admitted on love letter, and said some is eye candies (Jo, Aurelia) and openly told sylvia about what michelle did while drunk....
Is there any proof on others (beside love letters)
and the bimbos are still denying these in their latest IG stories.. lol
Totally understand Sylvia’s views on Ryan’s closeness with females. Generally speaking once you’re in a committed relationship, both partners must have boundaries with the opposite gender no matter how dear the friends may be :/
I felt Ryan is too close with all the girls too. Keep heard that he paid for girl A, girl B, etc. but well Sylvia also in wrong side. Both are the same.
And does that justify her action for mistreating her workers? :)
@@WeeHooTM technique to distract the public XD
@@WeeHooTM it is a totally different issue ?
yep if slyvia made a fuss n not insist on them being the perfect couple, the boundaries wld hv been clear. but i think at tt point, their marriage is also gone case. it cld also be him wanting to be the nice guy alw.
I feel for Slyvia. Ryan seems to be the kind of Passive Aggressive sort, on the outside pretend to be kind and everything and at the back is putting blame on others. There is no such thing as “kindness” at work. You gotto set clear boundaries that’s fair and clearly understood.
Why are these faces so scary bro?
@ソフィア Momo amen, ppl do try to take advantage of kindness
Hahaha no kindness at work? You need to look at where you work or how you run your work. Kindness is inate not something you feel that should or should not be given
S M yes kindness and also clear guidance and boundaries. Otherwise it is just a chaos
Yes totally I think you can have boundaries but still be kind. They're not mutually exclusive unless 1 you are naturally an unkind person or 2 you conciously choose be unkind cos of your job. Neither one is ok
my main takeaways from this video:
sylvia was a toxic and rude boss to many of her employees yes, but she never cheated on ryan or did sex bartering as people accused her of. whether or not she “embezzled” money and all well, honestly we can never be sure when SHE herself is locked out of seeing NoC’s financials.
ryan is NOT the poor victim or hero in this narrative. he’s not the angel people portray him to be. he was half of the marriage and as big a part of the company as sylvia. he HAD a part in causing all of this bullshit.
This whole saga, from the tiktok to sgcicken rice to the blogpost has been planned since long ago, with the recording of sylvia taken last year. and it makes me wonder… all these chat leakers continued to act as friends with sylvia all the way until now. and suddenly when she’s in deep shit, they leave her and backstab her.
In my opinion, those people who acted like friends with her but then leaked EXTREMELY private chats of her which exposed her sex life to wrongly accuse her, all these people who planned to strip her off her life’s work and make her penniless friendless and powerless, this behaviour is cancelling, and it’s no better than a toxic boss. a toxic voss you can avoid, but a fake friend who’s nice to you until you’re suddenly unfavourable? you can never prepare yourself for that.
i find the people who were cheering and putting ryan on a pedastal making him look like some sad victim bullied by evil sylvia completely cringey.
This is such a good analysis as this shows both sides of the coin, is it ok if I use this and repost on Sylvia’s Instagram post as one of the comments? Thank you
@@soonsoon5539 yea sure, it’s just my random thoughts penned down as i watched this video and looked at others’ responses:) if it helps articulate your thoughts, i don’t mind.
Prolly How Sylvia treated people is to much for these employees can handle. I feel heer employees tho, verbal abuse is horrible, However bacstabbing Sylvia... is horrible, am not choosing sides but I feel sorry for Sylvia and she deserves a second chances. Under pressure, a bad marriage, can lead to what she did
This is such a stupid analysis. Just use your brain for a moment. If you want to claim that Ryan is the one solely responsible for staging this sure. But as you can see, this is obviously not something he can do on his own. So why would so many people hate Sylvia enough to try to bring her down? Obviously she's the one with the major issues. I'm not saying Ryan is exempted from responsibility, but I'm saying Sylvia came on the show to cry wolf. She's a thorough bitch. Go check most of the NOC talents instagram, most of them still follow Ryan but a huge portion of them unfollowed Sylvia. Sylvia is not toxic because she's playing bad cop so Ryan can play good cop. Sylvia is toxic because she is manipulative. When looking at a story like this it's very simple, just look at who is the one creating drama and coming out to call wolf. Do you think it's more likely 1 person is fucked up or everyone in NOC is fucked up and gang up on Sylvia? Use your brains please. You think people like Aiken and Deekosh would gang up on Sylvia if she wasn't fucked up?
This is so well rounded off
Ryan destroyed her. They were husband and wife for many yrs. She may have her short comings but I think the reason why she's like this is because of him.
You don't destroy the person that you love!!
Yes! Really sad to see Sylvia getting the brunt of everything when Ryan isn't the angel he's portrayed to be.
She is just trying to protect their marriage and not to destroy their company where they create together
She destroyed herself. All the leaks so far seems to be from the employees and chats between her and her friends. Ryan could have contributed, but even if he did, these leaks are allegedly facts of how she treat the others.
These leaks are just the tip of the iceberg. Remember that just as Sylvia has dirt on Ryan, Ryan also has dirt of Sylvia. Ryan hasn’t officially come out to say anything, if he does, I think there will be so much fireworks.
@@skhuathuat If Sylvia is really so mean, she would name out who Talent A is. Talent A clearly painted a very different picture of what happened when she leaked out the screenshot in the blogpost expose no? Talent A painted the scenario to be a rape case or a sex barter trade but actually privately she messaged Sylvia that she had a good time. Sylvia is already being the bigger person by not leaking out more screenshots. If Ryan has any further dirt on Sylvia, what could really be worse than now? LOL. On the contrary, Sylvia may have more shit on all those who are jumping on the bandwagon to attack her.
When she said she feels manipulated and trapped when someone keeps playing a suicide card.. is smth so many people dont talk about. I am glad sylvia said it out.
A victim of someone with NPD normally do not realise they are in such a situation until it is too late.
@@crystal2484 what is npd
@@crystal2484 okay googled it. Yes it is true. it is so sad that people keep toying with such things when there are others who are genuinely struggling to live another day
@@Guest-gw1vm I put it here so others who read can understand. Narcissistic personality disorder - one of several types of personality disorders - is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.
I have a diff view of Ryan now. Now then I know he’s such a people-pleaser and he has a pair of roving eyes. He can’t deny all that since he’d already cheated on sylvia with a waitress 1 year into the marriage.
That’s the thing about husband & wife going into a biz tgt. After a divorce, things may turn ugly. As Taylor Swift said before-- the people who can hurt you the most are the ones who know you the best.
It’s quite shady of him to ask his beloved girls to leak out the exposé in the midst of a negotiation of his buyout, knowing that Sylvia has always been protecting his image and reputation & wouldn’t think of exposing him. I’m glad she did.
When ppl said there are 2 sides to every story, I didn’t believe it at first.
Now I know those exposé are taken out of context, e.g. that they are really outdated-- Sylvia has quit smoking since. NOC has slack days and work-intense days, so it makes sense to have some days where the staff have to rush work in order to deliver it in a timely manner to the clients.
In every household and workplace, there’s always a more decisive person who makes sure things get done & Sylvia is that person. I hope the saga will be over soon & ppl get to lead their normal lives.
Ya pretty shady. And Ryan never stand up once for Sylvia.
For the girl that had endured ur suicidal tendencies and ur ups and downs, u couldn’t even say “please leave her personal life out”
Not siding anyone but I personally think Ryan is not saint either. If you noticed his ig story, he has been repeatedly reposting stories of how people praising him as the "hero" in this saga. He seems to want the public to paint a good impression of him.
@@Mrshauny yup! I thought I was the only one who noticed and felt that
This is so well-written cause it captures everything to a tee! 😍🥲
good horse doesnt return to old pastures. they should have split the company after divorce instead of working together. all these excuses from the marriages ended up seeping into workplace. see what happened now
*_When is Sylvia Appreciation Day?_*
If a boss and husband like Ryan can be appreciated, Sylvia too deserves much appreciation. After all, she has contributed significantly to NOC, she has given jobs and a livelihood to many unknown talents, she has helped groomed them and provided a platform for their fame, she left her home country for Ryan, she forgave him for cheating and not shame him in public, she tried to keep silent initially using the law until she was stepped on after taking a fall.
You have been too kind in your wordings to her abusers. it isn't just initially, it has been for 10 years or so. And that's not "Stepped", they are basically stomping her.
OMG THIS. I was just thinking where daheck is Sylvia Appreciation Day?
bruh this one not like some planned campaign lah how can suddenly everyone in sync come out with a xxx appreciation day one 🙃🙃🙃
“Et tu Rachel? Et tu?”
Tf-??
I’m glad Sylvia told her side. An explosive revelation and an education on life.
I seriously doubt people who always act like an angel. 🤷 I'd rather hang out with a straightforward "I'm not a saint" person.
And yet some people are claiming Sylvia to be fake crying here to gain sympathy. Imagine during the divorce video, Ryan put on a very sad expression with wet eyes saying how he missed Sylvia wishing him good night in bed. While he emotionally (and allegedly physically) cheats on her continuously claiming _"I can't control who I have feelings for"_ and the most manipulative phrase _"Your punishment is self-inflicted if you chose to stick with me."_
This saga has the potential to be made into a whole Netflix documentary with the amount of CONTENT 🎥
ikr
I cant believe that this is free
Nah. They're not worth the netflix fees wkkwkwk
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Sylvia did the right thing coming out and sharing all these. Otherwise I would have misunderstood her. Xia Xue did the right thing to publish this interview too. I can’t agree more with her summarized comments.
Whatever she's said about Ryan, it's quite believable lol. To some degree he's also manipulating her
@@kevintan497 huh? the screenshots are literally in the bio. dude
@@kevintan497 stop being so close minded 🙄
@@kevintan497 clearly didnt watch the video
Some ppl are really able to play the good guy so well that its easy to make everyone else the villian. The person who portray themselves as weak gentle and kind are usually the ones we should be most cautious of.
@@sissyfart ya true. I used to be that.
Maybe that’s why I dun really like Ryan from the start. I see “my old self” in him.
Especially since I always cry when angry. Always look like victim. Opps 😅
I agree if u use NOC’s resources, reno king should be belong to NOC. This is normal thing in company.
@@shiio6577 U meant OFFICE that she stayed in
@@shiio6577 watch the video, and think before comment
@@KeanLeo ok
exactly
correct. in a professional setting, it should be done this way. especially for managing manpower and resources.
All of the talents coming out to defend themselves by saying that Sylvia’s lying are just trying to cover their asses now that they are in relationships of their own. The fact is that all the time and money Ryan spent on them meant that he was spending less on Sylvia. All these girls knew it and the viewers of NOC could see it too. It is widely known that Aurelia is Ryan’s fav NOC girl.
All these girls siding Ryan are very young and will never understand how a married woman will feel unless they have been through a r/s that’s 10 years long.
Ya. I think she is a terrible boss but I feel sorry for her on the marriage matters.
My hb and I have opposing views on this.
I wonder if people who are defending her mostly girls, probably even married?
Yes I mean let’s be honest here, some girls get jealous and throw tantrums when their boyfriends like an influencer’s scantily clad photo. Now put yourself in Sylvia’s shoes, YOUR husband is literally hanging out with these young and pretty girls day and night, prioritising their needs over the family, how would you feel then?
@@flwrsintheattic7655 Yea, its like the sex life is already so bad and disastrous, and your husband in the middle of the night get some call/text and out he went to pick someone home. He failed to keep his boundaries.
ya ok understandable but must mistreat staff meh? lol
@@sabz4364 we are talking about 2 separate matters girl
I don’t know why, but I can RELATE to the part where she talks about Ryan’s suicide/depression and putting up and look over everything bc he’s the husband and you need to protect them. IT FEELS ALL TOO FAMILIAR with personal experience. It’s easy to be manipulated this way, especially their excuses with women. Talk about a 10yr marriage for her, I’m out of my narcissistic abusive 3yr marriage(Wrong in all aspects covered with GOOD excuses). We weren’t lying to ourselves but we just believe in their excuses so deeply. It’s one of those, idk how you put up with it type of thing, let me tel you don’t know unless you’re in it, the indenial, VERY blinded and just forgiveness and sympathy/empathy on your end. They take you for granted as time progressed, lucky for me I get to see it sooner. The behavior is just a repeating cycle. You’re left with no choice but to leave (I MEAN IT) even though you love that person so much and would give everything(Yes lucky for me there isn’t much financial involved) There’s only so much to still try to stay positive about and defend them until you’ve reached your edge, that edge is LONG overdue. The only diff was that Ryan always has to be nice to people but mine was more extreme and straightforward type of person and he’s a smooth talker. I can’t imagine business and financial involved and everything in 10yrs like her. I’m glad she’s come out ok and not cuckoo.
I feel you.. the same exact sentiment.. at least she came out ok with all the mambo jumbo she is in with that guy..
Thank you so much for coming out with this... I also realised that this was a straight up narcissistic behaviour from Ryan because of my personal experience with a narcissist.
I still fear of this narcissist that it still gives me nightmares...
He's real scary right. Probably using his status as a married man in the past to make younger girls trust and spend time with him, while he complained to them about his marriage n sad life. Meanwhile, let the wife handle the sales and be the bad boss.
Now that he got a younger girl as gf, it's time to take back everything and kick the ex wife.
Why he cry during the divorce video? - probably cos he can't make use of her anymore emotionally. He can't make threats that he's gonna hurt himself to her since she's no longer his wife. He's scared that she might not want to be the bad boss anymore.
@@lavoidjr1026 my soon ex-husband was a straight up narcissist. Narcissistic relationship 101. Stonewall, Guilt-trip, Gaslight, everything you name it he is THAT. Confusion over the years and still try to twist it around you in the end. The most personal things you share with them, they use it against you. The love I had for him and the things he did will leave a scar but it’s to a point where he’s a waste of energy to be sad about….. just worthless, not human, no conscience….. moving on, be stronger and be self aware of this type of person💀
Ard 56 min, just my opinion, don’t bash me. If your husband can scold you in front of everyone, throw that man away. Defend your spouse in public, but educate or explain to them in private
If a parent does this to their kid will it be the same treatment then?
@DrugAddict there’s a different in hierarchy when it comes to parent and children… when it comes to couples and partners aren’t both supposed to be equals? So how can you compare 2 different things together
@@drugaddict931 Please... not to young and innocent children
@@drugaddict931 even to children, it’s not even good to openly scold them infront of other people. and not to mention your WIFE
Agreed. I think not just husband and wife. For business partners as well. Undermining your partner in front of the regular employees will just destroy respect and morale in the team.
Not taking any sides but I personally feel, as a boss. You shouldn't be poaching on young female talents whom you hired for ''work''. Worst, catching feelings for them when you're married and your history of cheating is disgusting.
Do you know how manipulative and sick you're to do that to someone by threatening them you're gonna commit suicide each time you lose out? Narcissistic manipulative behaviour is deeply relatable. Especially when Sylvia mentions how fearful she is when Ryan was suicidal. It's true that you will do anything to protect your love ones even if that includes being the bad person.
Sylvia might be bad, but Ryan isn't anywhere better. May peace find you.
If your boss offers you this and that... It is an ongoing dilemma on whether you should accept or decline in fear of being in his bad books. And that's how Ryan is. Quite obvious he's been buying them over by offering them free renovation isn't it. But the public has failed to understand this from the very beginning.
agree. the narc tendencies are strong in both (as far as we publicly know at this point lah, not diagnosing!)
yes....Ryan is simp asf! Come on....luckily he is not those handsome guy. He is trying to eat swam meat.
ryan's action is just like my ex
@@vunnox Exactly like mine too!
Not justifying Sylvia’s abusive actions towards NOC’s employees, just sharing based on my personal experience.
Assuming the part where Sylvia says about Ryan’s recurring suicidal actions is true, it is indeed very scary and manipulative. One of my ex is exactly how she has described the situation. When you are in that position, you will not doubt whether the other person is really trying to suicide because they have come so close to succeeding, you dare not take the risk. This is when it becomes manipulative and you (Sylvia’s position) comes under immense pressure. You feel trapped but not wanting to leave because you love this person, hoping that one day both of you will get over this.
I’m afraid the employees might have become collateral damage of a very toxic relationship in this case then.
I used to date such a person who always used suicide to get what he wanted until I was near mental breakdown. It is scary.
This is so true.
the screenshots in the description of him doing this is so triggering to me. And her talking about "if he does kill himself is it my fault" is SO fucking depressing. Out of everything with this interview, I can say with no doubt that shes at least a victim of gaslighting.
Like, hate her or love her, no one deserves that. The fuckin mental gymnastics it puts you through for not only that period of time but for the rest of your life if you don't get treatment is horrible
@@4lmondmilky I think not everyone understands this. Or most of the keyboard warriors who haven't been though this kind of stress or pressure. But it's really scary, and can't imagine how Sylvia is managing that
Yup I agree with the collateral damage. I can imagine how resentful she must have felt towards these talents that Ryan favoured, yet at the back of her mind she has to constantly fear for his life if she lashes out at him. Not saying it’s excusable, but it could be why she took it out on them.
Ryan is not a leader, it’s Slyvia. Has always been from the start till now. Her strong character comes from all these years of leading the company. Sure her attitude is not great, and her mouth is bad and her workaholic attitude scares the normal people. But! She has the capability to lead the talents in her company, she needed to be strict to her talents. Otherwise, how would they listen? And Ryan is just the weak father to the kids. He doesn’t speak up, doesn’t have the capability to lead. Putting up the good guy image to everyone of course everyone in the company sides him. But he’s not innocent. In short, he’s just a weakling.
not to mention, fetching kids back from school. What a good daddy
More like ryan want to be the fun cool parent . After watching this interview i finally understand why slyvia said ryan a bad leader
I deeply relate when Sylvia mentions how fearful she is when Ryan was suicidal. Its true, u will do anything to protect that love one even if that includes being the villain/bad cop. And its probably the "character" which she has to portray which built up to how shitty she is treating her own employees. With that saying, I'm not siding with Sylvia or Ryan, just trying to understand this whole saga with an unbiased point
yes, and when that happens you send the both of you to a psych. not tanking, nor exposing others mental health issues here. its very jian.
But to be fair, people were being Jian to her too. By exposing stuff that is not supposed to be exposed. It’s not their story to tell too
After watching the entire video, it somehow seems that the entire saga was deliberately orchestrated in the shadows since last year. I believe this is why some talents are keeping quieting and not taking sides cos they are confused af as well.
@@lzy1044 The same could be said for the fact that this whole saga bashing Sylvia (including her private sex life) went online before it went to MOM
@@lzy1044 at this point right she alr kena drag until her reputation cannot get lower alr. so i mean the public wanted an honest explanation why she act the way she did she give lorh
Just my personal opinion -
Is Ryan genuinely kind or not I'm not sure; but he's definitely a people-pleaser with very low self-esteem and requires the validation of others. I'm guilty of being one myself but it becomes tricky when it comes to a committed relationship/marriage. There's a fine line between doing things to please others and actually developing feelings for them because they have in a way, fulfilled your need for validation. If you're truly kind, you would be kind to everybody, that includes your own wife, whom you actually should be treating better than other girls. If you fetch the girls around and refuse to do the same for your own wife, and treat other girls better than your wife in general, then something is wrong. It means you don't love and respect your wife enough to prioritise her feelings over your need to please others/feel validated/the joy and gratification you get from pleasing other girls. Yes it's arguable that you do the same to guys too but that's not the point. The point is in a marriage, you need to know how to set clear boundaries with the opposite sex as a committed partner.
And please always remember that it's not anybody's obligation to forgive you for your infidelity. It's not demanded but earned. If you've betrayed that trust your partner had in you before, you need to put in so much MORE effort to heal those wounds and earn back the trust. Speaking from my own personal experience, it's extremely painful to forgive a partner and try to move on when you can clearly see that he is repeating the same behaviours over and over again. Crushing on others when you've a wife is clearly NOT acceptable. Yes you can be extra kind to other people, but do you see the amount of damage you've done onto a person as well, who've helped you through your low and suicidal episode; clearly loved you so to "tolerate" such infidelity, dismissal and manipulation for years. You're kind to others but you're selfish to the woman you've vowed to love and be committed to when you took her hand in marriage.
Also, just want to add that calling your wife's brother "medically retarded" is extremely hurtful and disrespectful.
As for Sylvia, I guess she was in immense pain having to see the same girls he had a crush on at work everyday and had to still try to contain her insecurities and pain. Over time, the mental torture probably shaped her into who she is today in order to protect herself. Perhaps, had she been working in another company where she doesn't have to see Ryan/the girls everyday, she wouldn't be treating her employees like that, not sure but who knows. But I truly hope that she can resolve the trauma within her and not project it onto innocent parties. Two wrongs don't make a right. Sam is a totally lovable and genuine person, I believe that remark on her was uncalled for. I hope for Sylvia's healing, and hope that all the people she's hurt will take time to heal too. :)
Well said!
Will give a thumbs up for an actual, effortful, coherent and insightful comment. Rare these days
This.... THIS! A psychological POV of the possibility why Sylvia is what she is today. Perhaps the toxic workplace was the result of her own coping mechanism with the toxic relationship. What is important is that she is aware of her wrongdoings and taking action on it. All the best 💪
I read this over dinner 🤣 but yes i agree with u.. the text msges if its real.. Ryan is in the wrong for calling Sikeen "mentally retarded" ... its like my day care teacher telling my mom I am stupid for being dyslexic no really she did told my mom that
Well said
Ryan seems like a manipulative mastermind … got bored of Sylvia after interacting with all the hot girls in NOC.. now he wants to rob her off her assets , drag her to the mud so that she packs her bags and leaves with nothing . Wtf. Not saying she’s the best or most innocent but Ryan is sneaky himself and not such a good person after all hor. Anyone who screams “I’m good , I’m innocent” is the exact opposite of that.
That’s exactly what this sounds like.
Well Sylvia isn’t a saint or whatever based on the claims on her leadership. But can anyone ever list a boss that has conscience? Lol just sayin. I don’t find anything wrong with Sylvia. She’s just doing her job. She’s bringing money in. Bottom-line. Period. It’s business
exactly.....Ryan is simp asf.
@@chauntelleong7402 exactly
I can’t believe Sylvia actually secretly paid for Grace and Isabelle to go on that Taiwan trip with Ryan only to be stabbed in the back by all of them now. She only had good intentions to grant his wish of going overseas with 2 young girls (🙄) and at the same time, she didn’t want these girls to hold back going on that trip because of any possible money issues.
Classic case of biting the hand that feeds you. The world is really a scary place.
Did they have 3****?
@@limwowo5902 u mean threesome? was thinking the same lol
@@JasonChowTV yep did they?
@@limwowo5902 No la these girls are smart they know how to use a p*ssy like Ryan.Also do not forget his current GF is 11 years younger than him right?? Creepy much. Can't believe how so many ppl did not see the red flags.
Hmmm but Sylvia also says Ryan control the bank, so which is it... But 1 thing for sure, Xia Xue is the 🆕 Oprah ;)
Ok let me summarize.
Sylvia is definitely strong, tenacious and intelligent. A very successful businesswomen. However, her treatment of workers is frankly disgusting. If you dislike them, send them away or at least address the elephant in the room with them, don't keep them guessing. It can make the employee question their worth and give them emotional trauma.
Ryan is definitely no angel as well, spending too much time with other female employees while married to Sylvia.
Let's not make a verdict as to whose worse here, everyone has their fair share of flaws and strengths.
as there are alleged criminal actions, just have to wait for the outcomes from MOM investigation
Her sex tape was wholly disgusting to watch as well
Lol self contracting statement. How can an abusive boss be successful? her people are quitting!!!
And that's why Professional TH-camrs overseas have Managers, not sure about Singapore TH-camrs. If you look at it, TH-camrs who transform their channel into a money-making business that hire Talents always end up having issues while TH-camrs who maintain the integrity of their channel, are less problematic.
Didnt ryan hurry and get a young 21 year old straight after divorce lol
I truly understand where Sylvia is coming from , and I feel like its severely important to hear both sides of the story, cancel culture in Singapore is so toxic, lets all please keep an open mind and listen to Sylvia too. :)
Exactly, we understand much more when we learn more, seeing things in black and white and being fearful and judgemental because of that helps no one.
This is the needed interview to hear Sylvia side of the story. It's very informative and opened the bigger picture. I won't be siding anyone after this. It's because I've seen the human nature of how one person can be labelled as the bad guy overnight by the whole village.
tbh i don’t really care about how who cheated on who or who was bad to who. Nothing about the embezzlement was brought up in the interview, or the zoom meetings or her brother earning 4.5K. Basically all the things that were about NOC in the first place.
@@poinked did you watch the video because it WAS brought up in the video. and honestly, embezzlement and what not are legal matters and a few screenshots from the blogpost cannot sufficiently prove sylvia guilty of it. sylvia is literally locked out of seeing NOC’s financials and THATS abnormal. the police is investigating this case so, well let’s see if she’s guilty of it.
@@poinked watch the video the sections are labelled for you
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People who blamed SC for bringing her jealousy into her business, what about RT's PERSONAL pervert crushes on his female BUSINESS colleagues? Is that not bringing personal feelings to business when he put SC down for the girls a huge root cause of all the problems?
Bruh, bringing jealously into her business is unprofessional of her. Work is work and personal is personal. It's not rocket science
@@ZefromXD so those talents openly flirt with her husband in the office in front of her is professional? When RT favours the girls and told her off while she was trying to get things done is favourable? Btw, don't call a female a "bruh", sis.
@@crystal2484 don't call me your sis as I am not your sis
Workplace etiquette very simple, you do work well, I happy
If the talents do flirt with Ryan and it is affecting the work, Sylvia should employ the necessary action into the company and not delay salary or scold fuck you fuckface
If the talents do flirt with the Ryan but it is not affecting the work, she can talk it out with Ryan behind the scenes and get the message across that it is not right to do such a thing
There are so many ways that this drama could have not blown out of proportion if she could have handle and communicate better. Instead, it gone down this path
The comments you reply to me shows that you are very rude and it is time for you to grow up
@@ZefromXD your rocket science and calling a female bruh is not rude? DO u even read the definition of a bruh? Calling u sis is a return to you for the bruh!
Workplace fine, does it justify for them to put all out in the public including sex tape and private sex conversation? That's no longer "work" when they crossed that line.
Behind every mean woman, there is a weak man.
Yes an ex henpecked husband. Only showing his power when he rose in power using despicable means. Shame on Ryan
Sylvia called Samantha names and likewise, Ryan said nasty stuff about Michelle. But why the double standards when the screenshots were leaked? Aside from that, it must have been really hurtful for Sylvia to hear someone insult her own family as such.
Because Michelle publicly forgave him. Samantha publicly rejected Sylvia's apology.
Ryan apologised sincerely and gave no excuses. Michelle accepted. Whereas, Sylvia’s “apology letter” was trying to push blames and justify her action. She said she was angry cuz Sam did not inform Sylvia of her government bond which she did. Sylvia lied about this. Why lie in an apology letter? She could have ended the whole saga by apologising sincerely.
What constitutes a sincere apology and what doesn’t? The public opinion is already skewed towards Ryan’s favour and against Sylvia. I don’t think the angry mob would have accepted her apology even if it was in your definition of “sincere” and forgive her like they graciously did the moment Ryan apologised. Btw, just because Ryan apologised doesn’t mean that he’s absolved of all fault. In fact, it showed that he’s more than CAPABLE of spouting such words about his own talents. Who knows of other nasty things he might have said about talents in other personal conversations.
When those personal screenshots and audio of Sylvia calling Samantha names came out, Ryan was quick to jump on the bandwagon and acted like he was a saint. Then tables turned, and of course his only way of continuing to be in the public’s favour is to do what the public wants (I.e. a sincere apology). TLDR; he’s only sorry because he got caught.
@@flwrsintheattic7655 agreed, I think the public still wouldn’t have forgiven sylvia even if Samantha accepted her apology. Not to mention, it isn’t even an apology that the public can accept since it was only towards Samantha.
@gremlintae Exactly. By then more and more allegations of Sylvia were made too.. was she just supposed to apologised though she had her own side of the story
This is rather believable. I’m not defending Sylvia’s nasty personality but honestly, I don’t believe that she’s toxic for no reason.
I definitely think Ryan has something to do with her.
This is definitely way more credible than the numerous anonymous chat leaks (many of which have been debunked). Sylvia has a really foul mouth, but the online mobs are way too focused on her misdeeds while Ryan walks off as the angel. Both are terrible, but there are way too many double standards in the hatred they're receiving.
And which boss or a normal guy will keep having crush or loves someone working for him or in the same company? 1st is from the restaurant he opens and now in NOC he is doing that. He can love this person and another person and another person. My goodness! He is married back then when he does that! He is just basically seeking attention and wants to be the good guy. All these girls that have a so call affair with him jolly has no rights to even say anything cuz they are no good person to begin with knowing back then Sylvia and Ryan are still legally married on paper! There’s a line to draw when it comes to boss and employee. This videos really shows and proves a lot On why Sylvia is like that.
Ryan reminds me of someone whom I know is like that too. He easily falls into depression and wants/need attention from people( GIRLS!) He likes to post on social media and portray himself as a very nice guy but in fact no one actually knows that he is a terrible person.
I really hope Sylvia will be even stronger after all these whole saga thing and be even more successful than who she is now. Every one sure have a nasty side in them but it’s only to people who deserves it. We are all not saints.
Nah in the workplace word gets around fast it's just funny how non of the people she worked with in the past and present stood up for her and defended Ryan...the issue is workplace toxicity u have no excuse to be toxic to someone just cause Ur life is toxic
Also she's no angel she has a new CEO partner and all her shit is just baseless assumptions
Do you all know this? In the past, when Ryan was a teen and his parents divorced, he began to have ONSs? He used to be a model and was more than average looking. And it wasn't difficult for him to bring home girls every night. But some people, even for after marriage, as they have been used to that ONS lifestyle where girls pay lots of attention to them, they just crave the same amount of attention throughout their lives. Since Ryan never went through therapy on how to seek love properly, he started seeking that love he used to have from his surroundings aka the workplace (restaurant + noc). Sounds pitiful, but he should have sorted out his issues before he even got married. Ryan, am I right? To you, you keep convincing yourself that you are seeking familial love from those girls, but that's not exactly true isn't it? You just enjoy it when girls give you attention.
@@imkidnappedandforcedtobeth7770 no one said that Sylvia wasn't a toxic boss. Neither did Sylvia deny that she was. Get your facts right. She even apologised for that twice by now. As for Ryan, he played the role of a good cop in front of his employees. But they never knew. Do you really think that they know everything about him? They don't even know about his cheating side and tendencies lol. Also, don't you find it interesting how he promised most of them that he'd do free renovation for them? If you use your brain, you'd understand why they are siding him. For the benefits, and it's already obvious how some of these influencers haven't been good people from the evidence we've seen and how some couldn't even deny the allegations. What you need to learn is - don't always believe in the mob that goes against one person.
Ryan’s constant need for validation from pretty young girls is (disgusting aside) actually really telling of how low his self esteem is. Though the low self esteem isn’t necessarily his fault, he’s fully responsible over his infidelity.
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This is kinda unrelated but I feel that need for validation is bc of his looks, like genuinely speaking, that's how it seems
babe side not but i really love your pfp
@@idkbro_2126 it isnt really his looks but more of his insecurities and neediness of love. If you see the chat receipts, he likes it and falls in love easily when people (esp his eye candies) treats him nicely.
Now the talents are saying that sylvia is lying in this video. I think ryan's good cop persona really did him well to have so many people support him, but is he really all good? Tbh, from the screenshots there are definitely some kind of truth to it. Ryan not setting clear boundaries with female friends even when the wife voiced out to some extend shaped how sylvia is today, so how can he be 100% guilt free?
He loved Berlin too lol but then he hated her for supposedly betraying him
Manipulation does wonders. We might be looking at two narcissists go at each other here and it'll get uglier I suppose. Prior to the release of these new receipts, I was on team ryan if i had to choose. But yeah it's pretty glaring now that ryan was just as complicit too. Am on team nobody now
well the video kind of implicate these talents and each has their allies and incentives to protect their images. Don't think anyone is innocent here, even the talents, they are also playing both Ryan and Sylvia for their own benefits. More things will come out and I have to say, the most despicable person is the one who started planning, screenshotting, recording and leaking all these private information. I hope that person (or group of people) will also be exposed.
@@EE-oe8lu agree with you totally, not forgetting the hacker that Sylvia mentioned in the video. How can anyone do all these and not be prosecuted by the law
@s fff e ed drf grfdbh She’s not denying these allegations, she’s already being investigated by the law. So.. if she’s truly a toxic boss, then she will face the repercussions. How to hide?
She’s simply telling us her side of the story, because if Ryan and gang can dish out all the negative things, she can too. Afterall, Ryan and gang took things personally first and posted on social media when they could have done it objectively by raising a complain to mom instead.
P.S I’m not team anyone, I’m team porky if anything
As it stands, both Ryan and Sylvia claim they’ve NO IDEA who has leaked all these videos/screenshots/documents/ accounts. What baffles and piques my interest is why Ryan’s friends (almost immediately) are so passively aggressively defending the allegations made against Sylvia. If they didn’t leak all that info, why are they up in arms? That, my friends, is where the real tea is at!
yep they are the manipulators behind the scene, I hope they got exposed.
sylvia said she had an idea but she couldn't say for sure. it's obvious it's from ryan side because ryan did the recording.. who else could upload the video besides ryan's side?
@@kepo364 ding ding dinggg
@@kepo364 obviously, then sylvia will leak info that makes everyone hates her meh?
They obviously know who is leaking it as well as who are the ppl incharge of sg chicken rice. After this video released they tried to seem neutral but can see who. Sg chicken rice is protecting.. Seems like it might be a close friend of one of the talent. That way Ryan and the ppl. Close to him can claim they dunno who it is.
Sylvia just makes the whole things clearer. Thank you Xiaxue for giving Sylvia chances to voice out ! It’s helps her a lot.
Sheep. You listen to her one sided story and suddenly 'makes the whole thing clearer'. Can you actually think for yourself?
Everyone talking about sylvia but no one is talking about how nina still stood by sylvia's side despite knowing that she will receive a lot of hate and possibly some disagreements from her family since she is ryan's cousin. A true friend indeed
yes, I was thinking abt her pov haha
She’s not in the picture anymore sia. Where is she now? She’s not with Sylvia
@@ediyuwono5601 Idk... maybe she wants to stay out of the drama? maybe she is supporting her behind the scenes? We'll never know
a true friend with a blind eye
XiaXue's last question at the end for everyone: Sylvia may be a bad guy; she's clearly not nice to ppl and that is why this shit has happened to her, ppl are betraying her. But are the ppl who are behind this (from the context of this 2 hour long video: who may or may not have planned all of it) really any better than her?
I think it's a good question.. I'm not saying that ppl cannot express how toxic an environment, people can and should. But after this video, it seems like the receipts were compiled over a number of years and filtered to show the bad side of Sylvia. And all of them coinciding with these legal proceedings that Ryan is caught up in. Idk talent or media industry at all. But I know a little about company law and finance standards. What he did in relation to RenoKing was clearly against company law. He used labour and expenses from the company (NOC) for his personal brand/ company (Renoking). Sylvia is right to demand wtv she is demanding legally from him for NOC's sake. I'm not sure how NOC (Xiao Wen) would have split overhead costs or if she even calculated the cost pools rightly in relation to all the shoots done with Renoking. (How many videos are there again?🤔🤷🏻♀️💸) It would be quite messy UNLESS Renoking is a related-party. Then she could chuck everything under RPT. But even then, it should be a subsidiary as Sylvia mentioned, which Renoking is not since the brand ownership lies with Ryan alone. So now, Ryan will be seen in the eyes of the law to be using company resources for personal gain. (The staff work for him but he alone is receiving the profits since their expenses are booked under NOC. It's not right and not legal. The staff reading this.. did you all know you might just be working for free under Ryan when you do Renoking shoots? Better check with him if your hours are counted under the Renoking company. Y'all should be getting two salaries in that case. You might say you willingly do it since Ryan is such a nice guy but, time is money la. I even charge my friends when they need my experties on stuff.) On the other hand, that means NOC should deduct the number of hours you worked for Renoking from your pay since your working hours are paid for by the NOC company. This is why I said it becomes very messy. Sigh. Anyway, all the best to the accountant. TL;DR I'm gonna rethink the whole "Sylvia is a shitty person conclusion since I only heard from the cickenrice account/zoom videos"
Anyway, this is just my analysis from what I understood from Sylvia's interview. No haters please. I even commented against Sylvia on Instagram when the zoom video came out. So sorry about that, Sylvia. Truly, there's always two sides to a story.
*I checked Renoking out.. it was registered as a separate company in April this year which matches what Sylvia said in this interview. RenoKing could be a subsidiary under NOC and that would have to be agreed under a Director Resolution signed by both directors. If there is no such document then Sylvia is telling the truth la
Already explained, they have seasonality . They have alot of down time but also very busy work seasons, so working hours are as such
shit thanks for this extreme summary
@@chickenwingwong7655 oh ya, true that. Thanks for pointing it out. I'll edit.
My conclusion: No one is a saint lah!
Not her, not Ryan, not the people exposing her and definitely not the whole "cancel" culture....
To be honest, nothing she did to them ruined their life but what people are doing to her is ruining her life. These people are even more toxic than her.
This is my unpopular opinion
Hmmm yes.. You're right.. This is an unpopular opinion lol
I agree! #sendsylviasupport
You are unpopular
Staff might not be wrong because She might not be suitable to lead NOC to greater heights...work wise.
Emotionally I think she have been under so much stress... She isn't wrong, she doesn't feel secure... Or assured by Ryan over relationship....
i agree
Personally found it very disturbing how Ryan openly declares how Aurelia is his favourite multiple times while still being in a relationship with Sylvia.. idk how would yall feel if your spouse declared this infront of you? Lol
Yeah. I think no matter what wrongdoings Sylvia has done, honestly no spouse likes to see her husband having dinner and sending girls home late at night on a regular basis. Especially if what she said about his previous cheating was true, he definitely didn’t do anything after to reassure Sylvia and protect their relationship while still trying to be a nice boss. While that doesn’t excuse her behaviour towards her employees, I can understand her grievances towards Ryan to be honest. Actually it makes me wonder if that’s the reason why Nina remained on Sylvia’s side the last few years despite being Ryan’s cousin.
In such a company, talents usually will have their agent escort them home, I see nothing wrong with this. Also You have to see this from a professional stand point. When being married, it is about trust & understanding. My parents married for 35 years & they never have a problem when hanging out with their friends be it male or female. So this point is arguable
@@sakurazakinaoki3056 Ryan is not their agent. He is their boss. This is obviously not right leh. When your SO spends more time and enjoys spending time with their opposite sex friend whom they openly says have a crush on and neglects you. Then you come and tell us how this is okay.
@@sakurazakinaoki3056 fetching is only one thing, showing obvious favouritism and affection to someone else who isn't your spouse is another thing (as mentioned). hanging out with friends/colleagues of the opposite sex isn't the issue im addressing here.
Ryan is soo fake....then will use suicide and depression as excuses to simp. Luckily he is not handsome. He is just trying to eat swam meat.
he stayed in a 4 bedder penthouse and she stayed in the office after divorce, people with eyes can see who is the one who is shortchanged..
She may not be the smartest boss with high EQ. But for sure Ryan is not any better too. Guys like him who uses his position as boss to be surrounded by girls are very common. If he cheated before is real. His actions clearly shows he is doing it again.
Sylvia cheated too, so it's not just about eq
@@Kevin-ol7gj Are you referring to the whatsapp texts in 2020 where she talked about some guy? According to the screenshots linked here, they began divorce proceedings in 2017. It stated that they were free to pursue romantic relationships as long as it didn't become public. So if it's anything after 2017, it would not be considered cheating.
@@Kevin-ol7gj Sylvia didnt cheat. They twisted the narrative and made it seem like she was (eg. Isabelle saying Sylvia cheated when they were at Taiwan), but they were no longer together at that time. NOC people really be manipulative as fuck
@@Lee-wr9ic Isabelle manipulative sia
@@Kevin-ol7gj she literally debunked that in this video if you even cared to listen.
im glad im not the only one grossed out by Ryan Appreciation Day LOL. fuck we don't even have a lee kwan yew appreciation day
HAHAHAHHAAH U DAMN FUNNY
That was just a PR campaign by his sidekicks. Yawns
I didn't even know that exists
@@carissachng2825 same - didnt know about it...
Come to think about it........ lol maybe this appreciation day also staged one to protray he's v kind. JK HAHAH.
I feel for Sylvia so much. She has her faults, emotional abuse in any setting should not be accepted or tolerated. But I feel like her reactions to certain things are quite fitting to the situation. Honestly all I see now is a person who was very hurt and betrayed by her spouse at that time. I would have been a total bitch too to the people who flock to my ex husband who has not only broke my heart but also tore down whatever confidence and self love I have. From those screenshots, Ryan knows what he he was fucking doing. He can't act like he didn't have any intention to make sylvia feel insecure and not good enough in the relationship. I would've been a fucking bitch to the people who support and put my ex husband (who cheated and gaslight me in the entire relationship) on a pedestal like he is some sort of innocent victim. As a CEO she should have conducted herself more professionally and not mix personal matters with work, no doubt about that. But looking at their arrangement, how is that easy? The fact she still managed to prioritise the company first is an amazing feet itself. Sylvia may be at fault in a lot of things but she isn't the villain here. Yea alot of suspicious things she has done but nobody can deny Ryan has done the same thing. But of course Sylvia is painted as the only bad person because she has been honest with what she says and feels.
And what's funny is all those girls are coming out to say they are not homewreckers 🤣 no one says you all are homewreckers lah omg. Is your ex boss say you all eye candy and have a crush on you. So calm down. But then again.. I wouldnt constantly get a married man to fetch me home lah. Once or twice is okay.. but making it a frequent habit is kinda weird tbh. I mean.. have you guys every stop and ask him "is your wife okay with this arrangement?". And if he says she is not.. shouldn't you all just.. respect the marriage? Actually shouldn't everyone just respect the marriage without anyone having to say anything? Just don't get a married man to fetch you guys home lah. It's so weird.
Yesssss SPOT ON about the homewreckers part. I was so amused...she didn't even say that he cheated after they talked about it during the divorce proceedings. He just admitted to crushes. No one was labeling them a mistress or the third party??? Also, it's not once or twice but FREQUENTLY sending them home is just odd??? Just give them a company credit for taxi or grab please. Why is a married man indulging in such a problematic behaviour?
@@ebonyloveivory exactly! How can any women be okay with their husband constantly fetching other women home? Whether it was innocent or not it doesn't matter. No matter how much they come out to say Ryan has never made any advances or made them feel uncomfortable. The point is.. why are you asking a married man to shuffle you around? Especially so late. Don't they ever stop and think about the wife? Is like they don't question anything. It's so weird.
@@deadbunny670 It's just plain disrespectful. I am sure some of those girls have boyfriends too? Don't their partners ask, hey why is your boss sending you home all the time? There is being kind vs. Inappropriate...I am not sure if it is the generation or what (I'm 30) but their level of closeness is definitely strange.
Not only as a man vs woman but boss vs subordinates.
And that coupled with the fact that sylvia has to deal with ryan's suicidal tendencies...she gives in too much. It is too much for a person to take. I cannot imagine being so scared and fretting about his life day in and out...and hence she probably lets him do what he likes as a result.
“I’M NOT A HOMEWRECKER!!!!” They cry on the way to their free trip to taiwan and their daily rides home as their boss clearly admitted to having crushes on them 🤣🤣🤣
Obviously those "eye candies" wana "carrot" the boss n get benefits out of it ma... The boss Ryan is think with his small head, easy to chop carrot loh. So u say those girls will think about whether their bosses married or not? I highly doubt so, after what that SPG Michelle tried to "seduced" Ryan when her bf wasn't in town, n reading what Aurelia texted in the GC, on how she enjoyed her night (XXX), while the rest of them were drinking coconut water while waiting for her getting "the deed" done). Like wtf! Those candies aren't candies, but cheap hoes
“I cannot control who I feel connected to.”
- Ryan in whatsapp receipts; in the context of admitting to his wife he has crushes on his employees while in a marriage.
THEN PLEASE JUST STAY SINGLE.
Also all those young girls standing up for him after these receipts came to light. Perhaps you’d like to have the same words said to you after 10 years of marriage, especially when you’ve kids/ businesses built together and all?
You don’t find it stomach churning? Or you’re also just as immoral?
Must stand up for him mah, afterall he is the one buying them gifts, paying for their trips, renovating their houses, driving them home. All paiseh to stand up against him after receiving so many favors. Thats why easy to be 'nice' guy, when in trouble, everyone will stand up for you.
@@ralphterry3863 u forgot when all else failed, just threaten everyone with suicide lor. Only Xmm and Xdd will be taken in by him now.
THIS. WELL SAID.
Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps).
Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction?
As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appealing use toxic language about employees. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that.
The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines?
It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets!
The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel.
I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.
@@crystal2484 no wonder i always wonder how come the NOC videos all the same kind of little girl being featured one. WHERE ARE MY OVER-35 HOT STRONG WOMEN???
ryan insist it is not a crush but sibling relationship.
Ryan is extremely manipulative and crafty to play the victim every single time when it should be a shared blame.
The stories have been so well crafted to make him look like the "Angel" which I had my doubts all along.
Also crossing boundaries despite being a married man in multiple occasions is gross.
AND THAT'S WORSE IF YOU ALREADY HAD A CASE OF CHEATING.
I would be extremely insecure if my SERIAL CHEATER HUSBAND loves sending pretty girls home.
Sylvia had also been silent about the cheating issues to protect the image of THEIR company.
Sylvia's actions will always still be wrong,
but the way the whole saga had been so well plotted and also leaving out certain important facts is just FISHY.
Yes, finally someone smart who said this out loud. All these dumb casuals just jumping on the bandwagon of "Angel Ryan" and burning the witch (Sylvia). There's always two sides to every story. Ryan isn't some naive, goody two shoes angel who's getting bullied by Sylvia.
I think XiaXue was asking good questions. On Slyvia's part, it's really sad that this is happening to her and NOC. When Slyvia mentioned that Ryan wanted Slyvia to buy his shares from him at an inflated price...wah, everything just clicked to me. She would be on the losing end of all these oddly well-timed revelations.
Around 27:50 mins, I'm starting to see the lightbulb XiaXue is talking about. I feel like the best thing Slyvia can do is plot a timeline of what has been happening between her and Ryan regarding to the lawyer things. She doesn't have to give details, but she can probably mention: 1. What type of lawyer meetings: Director rights of NOC/ Dispute over Renoking as a subsidiary channel under NOC/etc. 2. Who will profit the most from these meetings. Because all these would give us, the public, a better idea on what and how much Ryan will benefit from.
When she revealed the timeline of all these receipts, I'm just like- DUMBFOUNDED. The zoom recording was August 2020 and the supposed screenshot of her scolding a talent not to be a slut was from 2016?? It's almost like these people think that Slyvia didn't keep any of these chat histories. Sadly for them (or not) she did.
Side note: the things happening to Slyvia reminds me of something that happened in the Netflix show: Billions, where a company's shares were actually in the green but hit rock bottom from manipulation, so the main character could buy in at a cheap price. Interesting.
Another side note: that accountant fucked up. Seriously, why are you even revealing finance information online?? If a director is not performing fiduciary duty, report to police, not post online. C'mon, you're not supposed to act like a teen who cannot control her emotions. (Because angry teens blast stuff online) You should not be an accountant again. Sure, what you did makes a good story but you had a professional duty.
I’m really quite impressed with xiaxue’s interview skills here. Very “were you SILENT or were you SILENCED.”
@@karlgan5247 Tbh. This is my first time watching anything from XiaXue. I don't even follow her on Instagram. I think the focus is not on her so I guess that's your point that's why she didn't talk much? 🤔
@@housheefukahh he's just saying that this interview is just as good as the one Oprah had with Meghan. I dont think it's about xiaxue being actually silent or not haha
@@PhangYasir Thanks for clarifying :)) Wait.. sorry I don't follow. :3 I didn't watch that interview :/ was it good or bad though?
@@housheefukahh it was a pretty good interview on Oprah's part, many many memes spawned from that interview too. Although people still had issues with Meghan
This has a longer runtime than venom
LOL ACTUALLY TRUE
she keep sticking her tongue out like venom also
Bro ur right HAHAH
@@bingus9963 why you disrespect venom like that
YES
Sylvia, you need to love yourself more. Nobody deserves being treated like that by one's partner in life. You should not have tolerated it as long as you have. I hope your current partner treats you better...and I wish you all the best in becoming a better version of yourself.
Can we please give an applause to the editor for basically editing a full length film 😂
Bro coz it’s not from noc editing team hahaha
Dun like that NOC editing team might also have some really good peeps la
Huh got edited ah? You mean this interview could be 3-4 freaking hours?! Geez
to be fair it's just, punch in, punch out, trim minimal dialogue, simple transition. that's it
@@elliotw.888 for 2 hrs, then have to rewatch for errors
i’m legit in disbelief at the comments. for those talking about how sylvia basically just wants to drag ryan through mud with her and how it’s not relevant to the whole issue of her mistreating employees - c’mon la stop acting like martyrs la y’all imagine how upsetting it is to see so many people standing up for him when no one knows about the infidelity and hurt she had to go through she’d definitely feel wronged and unjust. plus people also used her ‘cheating’ on him as evidence to go against sylvia and support him what. why does it feel like the internet is just harsher to women in general???? LOL. not siding with anyone, i think both made mistakes but y’all cancellers gotta get off ur high horses and stop acting like moral beacons lol (if u were really one u wouldn’t be throwing so much hatred at someone)
With the screenshots receipts submitted from her side, I think Sylvia is done letting Ryan play the "Angel".
I've no doubt that Sylvia isn't the angel but RYAN IS NOTHING BETTER TOO.
Tryna be neutral here but....who the hell got the habit to record someone sia ? Be it video call zoom meeting etc. This is diff ffom whatapp tele chat.. But like video record or zoom meeting?? lol sia. Like planned it out already and ready to use this as a weapon to bring someone down. (Idk? But I go to zoom meeting I will not even thought of recording my boss??) Like for what ? Show her ask her increase my pay if not I expose her bad behavior? Lol
Yea honestly its kinda sus how this happened when they were going through a legal dispute
@@kamlisa15 wah but if you follow sgchickenrice, an noc employee say they have the habit to screenshot and record meetings just so when when sylvia ask why is it done like that (when it was clearly smt she mentioned before alrdy) then they will just show her the screenshot. but the fact that so far all the expose only show incriminating details is damn sus tbh.
cos why didnt these employee show the part where they use the screenshot to back their story of using it to tell sylvia that they are doing it according to her instructions.
If you think they are unrelated then maybe you are oblivious to these points.
1. Sylvia had been silent about the cheating issues from the start to protect the image of the company.
(This would be important for her lawsuit)
2. She definitely wouldn't be comfortable to the girls that her serial cheater husband is closed with.
3. Majority of the NOC girls raising the abusive issues are also the closest ones with Ryan.
4. Ryan have had the power to make decision for the company all these while, he's no angel to many of the decisions made.
5. Please view new screenshots to be more clear about how many of the submitted one's were originally carefully cropped to placed her in the worst light.
Never supporting any of the sides because both are equally bad, but what I can't stand is one particular guy has been playing victim all these while.
I am stupefied too. Sylvia looking strong and fierce is her real self trying to stay afloat. When a person keeps threatening to commit suicide and still did not die after 10 years, please....this is a typical guilt trip. Making use of a person who has "bad persona" to tone down one's problem is so weak. Both Sylvia and Ryan saga takes two hands to clap. If Ryan cheat, it really reflect on his character as well.
100% agree with u. After 10yrs still alive, but keep on being suicidal, that itself is an abusive behaviour act against a woman. Smart boy to play this type of trick.
Ryan is not mature but he getting childish. He has a golden spoon in his mouth
I think I'm beginning to understand Sylvia better after this interview... She married young, now she's much older and it must've been tough to see your husband constantly around young pretty girls, to the extent of even sending them home! I think that is too much. Maybe that's why she has anger issues?
We have been seeing and hearing Ryan’s and other NOC talents side of the story on the internet so it’s only fair we listen to her side of the story objectively too. All it feels like there was a clash of personality and work ethics between the both of them which implicated not only on their personal lives and NOC. Both have their faults and nobody is completely clean in this situation because it always takes two to clap. Alas, I guess it’s always wise to not do business with people you’re close with where lines of friendships/family can be easily blurred where professionalism might get compromised.
Tbh, it’s a lot of people speaking against her. I don’t think she have much to defend. If Only 1 or 2, fine. But that’s not the case.
Except ryan has kept quiet throughout the whole drama. It's the rest of their employees who keep bringing up ryan 🥴
@@fez877 I think you shld rematch the whole video because she showed the world who Ryan truly is. Just because a certain number dared to stand by the side of the "winning team" doesn't mean they are the right one. Impo it's just both of them are at fault and Ryan is actually as disgusting if not more disgusting than Sylvia.. sus and a shitty husband to the one and only person who stood by you when he had literally nothing. Not to mention being rude to her family members and ps the bj video is not her. So wtf it's probably he go find some expert to edit until like her and hack her com... siao eh
@@bellekwx hi Sylvia
@@JG-gf5vj hi Ryan and your fake identity HAHAHAHAHAHAA
Ryan outsmarted sylvia. He is a shrewd businessman and he know his partner weaknesses . Exposed all her wrongdoings to remove her from the company legally. Everything happened for a reason.
nah. its called evil, not smart.
What goes around comes around for saboking.
You mean devious strategist and shameless user.
Snakes
Money is the root of all evil
There is no such thing of a married man having other women as best friends regardless whether the marriage is happy or not. No woman can tolerate.
Cherylene meimei gold digger seems to be ok tho. :)
@@phili34 just temporary. She want the fame and money because there is no other better horse to ride. Jian Hao will prefer hotter girls while in the media industry only left Ryan who is simp. Basically a win win solution for both of them.
@@tadaa984 Jian Hao is married and has a literal child lol
Yes, just a lame excuse to continue to play while having a partner.
Much respect to you Xiaxue. You did a wonderful job interviewing Sylvia
Thank u for being so respectful , xiaxue.
Plot Twist
I knew it , Sylvia is evil towards workers but Ryan is the real PURE EVIL 😈
All those planning and manipulating . 10 years of marriage , and just because you want full ownership of the company and you went all out to destroy Sylvia's life . Omg I am literally having goose bumps. Salute to most evil planning 2021
CONGRATS DID U WIN A PRIZE LOL
yeah I did
I don’t really watch noc but I have been watching this saga unfolds. Not siding with anyone but I think most people here watch this interview with a prejudice in mind already and not with a neutral open mind.
Both ex husband and wife are definitely not innocent in some ways. R has a nice and friendly personality in general but can be nice and doing wrong things at the same time. S has a mean personality but doesn’t mean that everything she says are lies. Hmm…
ikr
Yes I agree with you Jema! 💯
Finally someone who doesnt jump to conclusions 👍
Agreeeee
this 👏🏻
I didn't and don't have much interest in NOC but its so relieving to see XX doing something to provide sylvia a platform to voice out when she didn't have any other way out. XX is the best!!
Agree. Xiaxue looks so awesome in this video. Great questions.
@@joyslin512 m
Not forgetting her hair n makeup on this video is way on point! 😍
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i agree with Xiaxue's closing comments that those who are doing this to her are bad too. Very disturbing if the motive is what Sylvia said.
Maybe they are jealous of slyvia that's why want her down
I shall wait for mothership to summarise tomorrow
you sir. are a champion.
SMORT
Mothership's staff need to OT now LOL
Give Mothership writer OT pay for this, need to write down notes to summarize for tmr’s post.
@Mothership intern: if this is your task for tomorrow, I salute you having to sit through the gruesome interview.
Happy for Sylvia to be able to give an insight into her side of the story. It doesn't excuse her behaviour but I can only imagine the position she found herself in over the years; being trapped in an unhappy marriage with a suicidal womaniser (to put it simply). I'm guessing this might have led to her taking it out on the NOC talents, especially when their work life is so closely intertwined with their very messy relationship.
To everyone here that has been so quick to judge - you may think Sylvia is a shit person, but do you really think everything came only from her & Ryan's actions (or lack of) had no part to play at all? Is it fair to take Sylvia as the ONLY bad person? Is Ryan not also 1/2 of the marriage & 1/2 of the company?
I'm just a bystander viewer in all this & I'm on neither side. But while I think that no doubt Sylvia exhibited lots of toxic behaviour, the public humiliation & hate she has been put through by all these internet armchair critics is really another level.
Haha "suicidal womaniser"....so apt.
There are always two sides of the story. Shoutout to XiaXue for doing this and possibly 'getting into sh*t' after this.
Of course I am as shook as a lot of people. I've found out just now (I'm from Europe) and it's a lot to take in.
My opinion on this whole matter:
- Ryan, being the 'sweetheart', asking for money to buy him out is the same as not giving a f*ck about NOC and all the employees. If he is THAT human and friendly, he wouldn't do this right. So that's sus. I want to see how the NOC staff thinks about this point. I also feel like it's a d*ck move about Reno King, but I genuinely think we need more of his side of the story and his intentions. I hope he is not trying to screw up his ex-wife and trying to take all of NOC to himself because of their personal issues.
- Sylvia, being the boss. As a boss you can't be sweet. You are a boss, you need to be hard to your employees. Even though she admitted to not being a good leader, she does not gang up with people, but owns up to her mistakes. I think the divorce made her even more harsh as a boss. I mean it's also her ex-husbands company, the chances of lashing out are high. She's human after all. Happy she spoke up about the possible cheating thing.
I really do hope it is all a misunderstanding. Sylvia gets all the hate due to the snippets of the recordings and has been portrayed as the worst boss ever. I genuinely hope this will clear up soon without more damage to every single one of them. Again, happy that XiaXue gave a chance to Sylvia! Maybe also an exclusive interview with Ryan?
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Thank you so much for this comment, I get to understand my thoughts better, I agree with you
U dont have to be mean n gas lighting ppl who work for her ( if she really does that). Im just coming from a place where shouting and blaming is ok just cos ure stressed up as a boss.
@lol then don't reply? Nobody asked for your reply either
Does anyone find it incredibly suspicious that the video has been out for more than a day, and there’s been zero public statements from Ryan plus his loyal crew now all limiting their comments section as well?
They had no problems speaking up against Sylvia the last few weeks, but now that she’s given her story plus receipts they’ve all gone silent.
What’s clear to me now is that the person/people running the IG account are the same group behind the blog. And if somehow the IG admin was privy to the fact Sylvia had filed a police report within half hour, this person is definitely not a neutral party or netizen but an insider close to this entire situation.
If what Sylvia claims is true, then this is a concerted effort to drag her name through the mud - and we should be asking ourselves what their intentions are, and why does this person/group see the need to drag the whole of Singapore into this drama.
We must wait... cos Saboking n his eye candies/gang are prolly thinking how to twist what SC have exposed. They'll need some time to discuss n attack SC back swee swee n make it sound convincing to the public. I'm sure they will do that.. We just wait n see what's their comeback.
@@honeydhydra3925 exactly. If she’s telling the truth, twisting her evidence and claims is gonna take some time.
@@pwen3220 yah if it’s not true, u will shoot back immediately with evidence. That’s how we all are when we are faced with ridiculous allegations. We will explode back!
EXACTLY! Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps).
Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction?
As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appealing use toxic language about employees. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that.
The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines?
It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets!
The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel.
I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.
@@darkjediknight2923 actually don’t you think that Ryan is using the exact manipulation tactics he used on Sylvia with the NOC staff/talents now?
He hid behind Sylvia by portraying himself as a bullied, depressed person and forced Sylvia be a bad cop to stand up for him. It’s obvious now that the screenshots were collated by a select group of NOC staff close to Ryan, and honestly, why would they organically do that unless someone was pushing them to do so? Some of these correspondence have dated back years. Why come out now? And because these girls have helped front this smear campaign, Ryan is now hiding behind them and letting them take the fall while he portrays himself as a victim of this entire saga. It’s fucking disgusting.
Sylvia is wrong to talk harshly to her employees but I do believe Ryan is not innocent too. So many things that happened are too much of a coincidence. Sylvia has her own fair shares of being nice to her employee. Often she would say "don't need to let the staffs know" (referring to text evidence)
On another note, the act from a man cheating is absolutely inappropriate.. from his textes, its totally unacceptable. we shouldn't let him and his female talents thinks it's ok to do that. Like.. wth? Just because your boss is good to u? Hello, where are your boundaries too. Is it a influencer things, for fame? As a wife, this cannot be tolerated.
And I don't think she is not addressing the questions. It's so obvious that Ryan actions has caused her to have many insecurities that leads her to where she is today. Perhaps she is jealous because of Ryan's crushes, hence her being harsh with words are being sabotage this time round. I mean, come on, put yourself in her shoe... would u not have reacted this way?
She has also say nice things about other talents too. Like she likes isa, she is ok with so and so.
Look at bigger picture. She definitely deserves a chance. Don't be an ass. Ryan is definitely not 100% angel. The textes weren't as nice too, manipulative.
Exactly my same sentiments! I think SC was under alot of stressed from his cheatings... Deep down without her husband's assurance + he continued to get closed with his female employees caused SC to mentally break down. How I know? Cos the same shit I endured with my previous ex! But thank god mine lasted less than 5 mths, n not 10 yrs...
Yes I agree with you.
Besides, the way he used suicide as a leverage to achieve his motive is very scary, very manipulative. It keeps people on tenterhooks and fear of when he would kill himself over something they did.
Oh yes.. to the talents that sided Ryan and now with evidence that Ryan said he has interest with or what you did.. eh, pls... sylvia also have evidence. Don't try to deny.
Go side Ryan again lo. Your fav boss ownself admit one ah. No one say de.
If what sylvia said come true to be the reality, ryan is a very scary manipulative individual. Im trying to be neutral in understanding this whole saga but i felt so much in sylvia in this interview. Not try to side with her but it does make sense on what she pinpoint. Sylvia pls stay strong for god sake.
He illegally recorded Sylvia in the zoom meeting probably to be saved and used in this current situation in case he wanted to damage Sylvia for good and initiate his escape plan without raising suspicion on himself. Looks like it backfired.
I can totally see the side of Sylvia where her life was constantly dragged down by Ryan -
It's really tough for a person who love and live with someone suicidal as you've to constantly think of what you do or say that may not cause them to trigger to kill themselves. The thought of having to live the rest of your life thinking you are the reason they kill themselves. No one wants that kinda responsibility. I can see how it can manipulate someone's life and make them feel trapped. You love them, you've to protect them but you feel suffocated. I saw the pain myself as sadly I've hurt people in my life due to my depression.
Also, in this video I've have finally sealed and confirm that people never change when it comes to bad behaviours or cheating.
Bad management aside..
This video shows us that both of them are toxic af they've their own bad and we are all humans.
End of story.
Well said
I really like Sylvia a lot, still do. I trust her and believe her. And likewise with Xiaxue. The relationship with Ryan sounds to me like classic man seeks a "mother" in his wife as opposed to a "woman"
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the funny part is Sylvia being forced to eat with Samantha (Ryan's new favourite). she probably knew what Ryan was up to...
Prince Charles also made Diana do that with Camilla
@@KQ0909 the true definition of gaslighting
@@andrikusuma8211 I just meant that what Ryan did is wrong, like what Prince Charles did was also wrong
I think that people were really quick to jump the gun in the comments section. The video was literally posted around 10pm and there were already “Summary comments” about how she is giving excuses flooding the comment section at 10:05. Cmon give her some air time and let her speak her peace. It’s really easy to pick on the “common enemy”, but at least hear her out and not cling onto your prejudices.
With that being said, I think that it is true that she has dodged certain questions and she could have done a better job in apologising and owning up for her mistakes. But there are always two sides to every story and if you were to take a look at the google drive, Ryan is seen using the “R” word on Sylvia’s brother as well. And isn’t the entire saga initiated by this alleged misuse of the word? Is Ryan simply “let off” cause he is the nice guy??? It’s pretty double standard to me.
But one is with all co worker, one is private though
Seeing this interview, make me understand what pushed sylvia - the insecurity , stress ...
I never hated sylvia, I now feel and pity her....
But objectively, she wasnt doing her role as boss that well seeing the staff and zoom meeting
@@ChangeWorld4Better I think it was mentioned in the video that her brother worked for them and was either (a) a talent or (b) a runner. Therefore it makes him an employee as well.
But even if he wasn’t, if we’re using your argument about private v. corporate settings; many of the allegations and pieces of evidence brought up against Sylvia were private conversations. Ones that she had in confidence with whoever she was speaking with. Would you then say that they should not have been surfaced?
Even then, Ryan’s use of the word cannot be justified with “it was in private though” cause it won’t be a reasonable way to weigh out the conversations that Sylvia had with the said girl who was called a “s**t” by Sylvia.
@@ChangeWorld4Better Yea I agree that she has definitely not been the most effective boss, or one that is appropriate in any sense of the word. However, I just believe that a fair process should still be the way we approach this matter. If things have been surfaced against Sylvia, especially ones which were said in confidence. I don’t see what’s wrong with digging some up in her defence, or in retaliation for the sake of her reputation. It is sad that it would be almost impossible to “save her face”. But I think that she should not go down without a fight.
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I think mainly too much hate being given to sylvia over the net. Sending hate to either parties is a issue by itself, ryan is sus to suicide... and sylvia been under attack while bearing the stress of broken marriage for 4-5 years
People tend to forget other allegions up, regarding backtracing pay for her brother for inappropiate amount of work done though... overpaying, the rent of apartment under NOC funds... The chili + porky mask *not under NOC too*
In general I think Ryan seem to be a good/better boss in terms of work, but bad husband or boyfriend -> possibility manipulative and a bit of an scumbag.
Sylvia seem bad boss (staff siding w ryan) work wise, probably with the stress over the years of untrusty in marriage.
Better wife, girlfriend but slightly better than Ryan after hearing her side for this interview.
@@ChangeWorld4Better yea for sure. there are always two sides of the story and both have their faults and their fair points as well. Ultimately, we’ll just have to see how this all pans out and I believe that it would not end in the best way for both.
I can understand why Sylvia is treating NOC girls badly, because it is mixed in with some jealously (as a wife). It is just unfortunate that she is also their boss, and it is very difficult to separate her personal hatred. But no excuses to treat other employees so badly though.
But she treated some of the male employee, especially the video editors, badly as well. Ryan also emotionally cheating with the male employees?
@@Frooooooo I said “no excuses to treat other employees badly”
@@happyleaf9635 oh sorry about that. But I thought it started with Samantha Tan and Ryan favourite girl is actually Aurelia and Joanna? And the delayed payment is also because of jealousy? Anyway I think Sylvia is just making excuses coz not only the girls who were treated badly, some of the guys were treated badly too
@@Frooooooo Sylvia mentioned in the video that Ryan is the company director. He has the authority to sign cheque, Sylvia doesn't have. The accountant also does payroll and works closely with Ryan. If this is true, then Ryan should also have the authority to pay the employees. Does he still has to go through Sylvia's approval to issue payment despite the authority he has and that caused the delay? I don't know if this even makes sense..
ryan is still the co-owner and director of NOC (49 percent shareholders). if he wanted to pay the staff on time, or do things for the company, he can. In fact, before the divorce, Ryan WAS the one having the majority share. But the problem is: he doesn't want to do that for u. He only wants to gain ur trust I know he looks like this nice guy who always apologize.. but that's the signs of manipulative NPD. They buy u with his words and pretentive actions. NPD rarely looks evil, they always make others look evil. They create divisoon. That's why i didn't believe when people suspected Sylvia as NPD because NPD always lives in a 'nice guy/girl' facade.
exactly what i wanted to say!
I was very surprised by Xia Xue’s line of questioning, how she floated gracefully across the topics and remained largely objective and neutral. Truly no offense intended but I’ve always brushed her off as bimbotic. This video showed me I was wrong and that she has real depth as a person. More power to you. Cancel culture is really a symbol of our society in a state of decay. It’s a terrible thing to do to anyone regardless of what they’ve done.
Social media is truly a double edged sword.
Lol. She acted like she is a bimbo. She is def not. Whenever she put forth an argument, most of the time it make sense although sometimes it's not a popular one
Double edged sword is being edgy to everyone. To be afraid is a yes to it
thats her social media persona. Do u really think "bimbo" influencers like the kardashians or paris hilton are dumbasses? No way. No one truly dumb can succeed
@@ohsehun6470 lmao this is the funniest comment
You should definitely watch her other videos. She really has a lot of great insights on things. :)
Honestly I feel that if it wasn’t for the strong character from Sylvia in managing NOC, the company would not have some this far, would not be able to pay crew salary with just fun content. And as Ryan wife I totally understand that when ur partner comes to you telling you that people are upsetting him, u would def do everything to protect him even if it means to have people turn around saying you’re the bitch while the Ryan stay behind her and be the nice guy everyone deem he is. Now listening from Sylvia, I understand why she has become a character she don’t recognise anymore cause for the past few years she has been manipulated by Ryan every time he tries to commit suicide she has to be the bad cop n more n more people hating on her character that she has become that was manipulated so that she can protect someone she loves. This whole cheating story disgust me the most, n def make sense cause with an introverted character that Ryan has, being expose to so many girls that will never associate with him if it wasn’t NOC It makes sense that temptations will happen. It’s not easy for this woman here to solely managing the company making sure that money comes in, managing his ‘kid’ who only wants to do videos he wants/interested in, dealing with her own relationship in & outside work n still needing to be professional when facing people her husband fancy (knn)
Not to say that these r all valid for her to behave that way but pls try being that person nobody will be able to maintain her sanity, really not easy.
yea let's hope she gets through this safely
I agree with u its really sad that she stayed with him and helped him build a company despite all the nonsense she had to deal with. Its disgusting that he cheat on her especially while she was helping him wash the plate at the restaurant for free. Ryan is fucking disgusting i swear.
f. agree with you 100%. What they went through is actually very normal in Singapore context.
I've seen dunno how many such similar situation already.
U can spare out dont type everything in one chunk
What I can say is people can really manipulate other when the person still care for them and mostly won’t noticed that they are being manipulated. In the case of Sylvia, she is trying her best in her marriage and the business, but unfortunately it didn’t work out, turning her into this person she didn’t want to be. My wish for her is to continue to be strong and take care of her emotion. Don’t let these people bring you down. Everything will come to light. God praise.
Just saying we cannot believe in what she said,sure u can but it is important to know AND understand both sides but it is good that u assured her but u forgot abt others who were affected
@@kevintan497 She had receipts. Check the description
@@RC-pf7wt so did everyone else who got mistreatment by her. this whole video is about ryan ryan ryan, nothing about sylvia addressing her mistreatment or is sorry about it. she shares about ryan's mental health and episodes when that is something personal for everyone. xiaxue's questions were very well crafted, but did any of them really got addressed? it always goes back to ryan and their love life.
@@RC-pf7wt still doesn't solve the more damming allegations against her which are criminal in nature
@@sabz4364 but if you’re talking about personal, isnt the conversation about her and another guy also personal? I think the reason why she keeps going back to Ryan and their love life is because it is one of the major reason which caused her to be so terrible to her employees, not justifying her actions whatsoever but in a way I can see why she became who she is currently but yes, I do agree that she hasn’t been apologetic and has not directly answered the questions with a yes or no
I could feel her pain as a wife to always being told by her husband that he has crushes on other girls...it really killed her self confidence. And she became a strong and mean person just to protect him which is the only way she could look good as his wife... Poor lady..I hope you move on and find true love 1 day....
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