Hey guys! Fantastic advice as always! My wife and I are starting a small group Bible study focused on marriage and I just wanted to say your material helps us a ton! Thank you for all you do and God bless you!
Aleksandr Syulyukov can i ask? How does lets say summer look the second time around or falls or even spring, how do they look the second time around if its not too much can you please explain it to me? Thanks.
@@1.40am honestly late summers are a time for Listening and trying hard to understand what she is asking and doing what I can to start changing myself... this brings me deeper into understanding myself and my feelings for her grow .. so a lot of makeup sex. As we open up and grow. I find it important to know that is the summers the heat is always 90% due to us having an expectation of things to be a certain way... but if we don't tell him and expenses why we believe it and then listen to the response of why they don't feel like you do... and finally come to a compromise....
Iim not a licensed marriage counselor, but I have a gift from God in helping relationships and do free counseling a lot .. call me 503-341-9965 if you have any questions
@@1.40am late fall is a lot of crazy.... big fighting and hurt feelings. Crying and being misunderstood. But then we sit down apologizing and forgiving ourselves and each other and deeply agree that we are more important to each other than the problem and start a new. The biggest thing that you must understand is that your happiness doesn't come from his ability to fulfill your needs... no You want him to want to do it. And it goes both ways... he wants you to want to do it to. So how do you win? The answer is you don't... you give, not take, you say not ask. A servant spirit will definitely work miracles
As for winters... it's a time of digging in. Because the feeling of love, closeness, passion and happiness are just not there... after the hard fall season you just don't have anything inside you... it's as empty as a snow covered field. And the only thing that you do is push yourself to do that one thing, to say that one word, to force yourself to do it. Even if you don't have any desire for it. Your only driving force is your desire to stay together and do what is necessary to make it work. And know that this is not the end... it's a new beginning.! For tomorrow or a day after spring will come.... and it does! Yes it does! Just be there for each other and you will grow so deeply back into your relationship that you don't even realize. Ps: don't give up and do 120% not 50/50 because when two people sacrifice themselves for each other God comes in to bless them.
I don't want sex I want to talk to be able to fix things. My next marriage cousiling class Is the 16th at 6:00 if you need more info have your Grandma call me if you want to go. I've already had one session.
It's hard when I can't talk to you. Is there anything you can do about the communication. Between us it sucks cause I don't understand what you are trying to tell me sometimes.
Micque I can't wait to See you again. We will get through this and when we do I will throw you a proper wedding if you want. All I know is I miss you so much. You are my soul mate babe. Give us another chance please. I will promise you that I will try to make you as happy as I can and I promise never to stray away from you again. You don't realize what you had till it is gone. I love you. You are my best friend.
Hey guys! Fantastic advice as always! My wife and I are starting a small group Bible study focused on marriage and I just wanted to say your material helps us a ton! Thank you for all you do and God bless you!
God bless you for your marriage ministry.
In our 17 year's of marriage we have been going through 4 springs 4 summers 4 falls and 5 winters... springs here we come !
Aleksandr Syulyukov can i ask? How does lets say summer look the second time around or falls or even spring, how do they look the second time around if its not too much can you please explain it to me? Thanks.
@@1.40am honestly late summers are a time for Listening and trying hard to understand what she is asking and doing what I can to start changing myself... this brings me deeper into understanding myself and my feelings for her grow .. so a lot of makeup sex. As we open up and grow. I find it important to know that is the summers the heat is always 90% due to us having an expectation of things to be a certain way... but if we don't tell him and expenses why we believe it and then listen to the response of why they don't feel like you do... and finally come to a compromise....
Iim not a licensed marriage counselor, but I have a gift from God in helping relationships and do free counseling a lot .. call me 503-341-9965 if you have any questions
@@1.40am late fall is a lot of crazy.... big fighting and hurt feelings. Crying and being misunderstood. But then we sit down apologizing and forgiving ourselves and each other and deeply agree that we are more important to each other than the problem and start a new.
The biggest thing that you must understand is that your happiness doesn't come from his ability to fulfill your needs... no
You want him to want to do it.
And it goes both ways... he wants you to want to do it to.
So how do you win? The answer is you don't... you give, not take, you say not ask. A servant spirit will definitely work miracles
As for winters... it's a time of digging in. Because the feeling of love, closeness, passion and happiness are just not there... after the hard fall season you just don't have anything inside you... it's as empty as a snow covered field. And the only thing that you do is push yourself to do that one thing, to say that one word, to force yourself to do it. Even if you don't have any desire for it. Your only driving force is your desire to stay together and do what is necessary to make it work. And know that this is not the end... it's a new beginning.! For tomorrow or a day after spring will come.... and it does! Yes it does! Just be there for each other and you will grow so deeply back into your relationship that you don't even realize.
Ps: don't give up and do 120% not 50/50 because when two people sacrifice themselves for each other God comes in to bless them.
I don't want sex I want to talk to be able to fix things. My next marriage cousiling class Is the 16th at 6:00 if you need more info have your Grandma call me if you want to go. I've already had one session.
It's hard when I can't talk to you. Is there anything you can do about the communication. Between us it sucks cause I don't understand what you are trying to tell me sometimes.
Micque I can't wait to See you again. We will get through this and when we do I will throw you a proper wedding if you want. All I know is I miss you so much. You are my soul mate babe. Give us another chance please. I will promise you that I will try to make you as happy as I can and I promise never to stray away from you again. You don't realize what you had till it is gone. I love you. You are my best friend.
Hope Springs movie
Come on spring. I need you to talk to you. Don't pull away.
Everything ok?
Bad Wookie lol.
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