THE TRUTH BEHIND WHY SO MANY MEN ARE ON THE DL!

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  • @mirandasosa-patterson7322
    @mirandasosa-patterson7322 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +218

    It’s not mysoginy to want a straight man, and it’s not homophobia!

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      This!

    • @alphonsecinammonroll
      @alphonsecinammonroll 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

      Yep. I don't "decided" to not be attracted. I'm just not attracted. Period. It's NOT a choice.

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There's nothing ladylike about being a 🐓 sucker 🤮 there's nothing feminine about that 😂 AND you don't even get off on it

    • @nitrafall9533
      @nitrafall9533 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      yea that girl was tripping

    • @angelamohammed9464
      @angelamohammed9464 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      Thank you, because I was getting ready to go ham on ol gurl @ 3:24 talking nonsense! PH all thrown off! Flora completely disrupted! 😅. No thank you miss mommas!

  • @artqueen5422
    @artqueen5422 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +115

    Me wanting a straight man that only wants women and NOT MEN is NOT homophobic. Smh TF from with people smh

    • @kevaughncampbell-el1xt
      @kevaughncampbell-el1xt 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's Biphobia but It's your right to be that way

    • @Brenary
      @Brenary 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kevaughncampbell-el1xtwe don’t give af even you pointing that out means you are also part of the problem.I will start calling you people straighphobic so keep it up 🤨

    • @niygnay4438
      @niygnay4438 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kevaughncampbell-el1xtno its not….. Y'all lame asf fr and y'all need to grab some therapy

  • @HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
    @HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    I think it's a sign of the times. That it's time for women to change their perspectives about love, family, and marriage. Change it to single, alone, self-sufficient, and single motherhood if you have children. Prosper on your own. I have nothing against gay, les, or bisexuality per se, but I think that women should reform their minds to singleness and making it on their own. Even same-sex couples are not doing well. Many women are becoming millionaires on their own, and this is how it should continue going.

  • @anka6356
    @anka6356 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    Threatening a man with prison is threatening him with a good time. Living their full fantasy unbothered.

    • @blackwaldorf
      @blackwaldorf 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Fact!!! 100%

  • @Lorilor343
    @Lorilor343 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +113

    I’m tired of people saying it’s homophobic to not date bi men. You would never say anything if a bi person said “I only date other bi-sexual people”

    • @crystalsagesynergy
      @crystalsagesynergy 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They can call me homophobic all day. I do not want to date bisexual men! They are a extra extra risk to my physical health. Straight men are already at risk, now you want me to mess with a bisexual one? Nah

    • @theblackhole05
      @theblackhole05 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      they only date other bis cause its safer, its like saying i wint date a murders, i only date people that care about my safety

    • @sweetie_buns
      @sweetie_buns 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Its the reason why you dont date them,you dont have to date bi men however the reaspn you dont want to date them can be in predujice

    • @Lorilor343
      @Lorilor343 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@sweetie_buns i feel you. My reasoning is simply because I want to date someone who is also straight. 🤷🏽‍♀️ nothing hidden behind it, and lots of people assume their is something behind it

    • @Brenary
      @Brenary 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@sweetie_bunshoney you are not the relationship police nobody owes you a reason why they don’t want to date alphabet people.Go sit down snowflake we are all tired of you people.

  • @nadiaprice8418
    @nadiaprice8418 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    It is so scary out here. They're either down low or low down!

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Sad but true Sis!!

  • @Prismatic9008
    @Prismatic9008 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +95

    Ooh chile, no. 4B. Men bring entirely too much and too much worry. I don't think I can do it again

    • @Sanderson5CLC
      @Sanderson5CLC 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @Prismatic9008 I am with you, Sister, Time-stamp 1:30....Not according to the Scriptures regarding homosexuals. That woman is cursed and it will not be a pleasant life.

    • @ichabodcrane9479
      @ichabodcrane9479 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      4B forever ❤

    • @IntentlyPurposeful
      @IntentlyPurposeful 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      4B🎉✨️

    • @kscott7657
      @kscott7657 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Sanderson5CLCthank you ❤

    • @roxanneroxanne3232
      @roxanneroxanne3232 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Definitely HEAVY on 4B!!!!

  • @peacefulblessed2114
    @peacefulblessed2114 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    This is nothing new , back in the early 2000s I talked to Men that was curious being with men. One of them were married with a family.
    I am not surprised at all, I have taken several seats, I made the decision I will never date or marry again.
    Too many illnesses and New STDs are being passed around. I am doing just fine staying to myself. There are alot of bitter Men today. Be safe everyone, you will never know someone intentions .

  • @Crystal4ya
    @Crystal4ya 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    When this man from 15:05 was explaining signs of DL men, I just remembered Myron’s behavior from “fresh n fit”🧐😂😂

    • @TheLilly
      @TheLilly 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Him and the other dude gotta be hunching on the low💯

    • @studiomixmovielover1612
      @studiomixmovielover1612 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Myron .... most definitely

  • @tamekadavis6641
    @tamekadavis6641 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    The signs ☢️ are usually right in front of you. Ladies be safe ❤

  • @ashmba4906
    @ashmba4906 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Be carful ladies and gentlemen with raising male and female teenagers. The lady was right men will be attracted to their step children and also I’ve heard of a male friend of the family abusing his friend a teen son.
    Once you bring a life into this world you should vet every soul that comes near it, even if you knew them well before the children appeared . The prey on those that are vulnerable are at an all time high. Lord pls help us all 🙏🏾

    • @BLKfootIndian
      @BLKfootIndian 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The Lord makes all

  • @evedelgado2345
    @evedelgado2345 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    I had a relationship at a YOUNG age with a young man who was DL. He normalized sexual abuse and sexual humiliation. He sexually attacked my FEMININITY and PUNISHED me sexually. I thought this was normal. As an adult and discovering....over the years....his secrets....I understand he HATED my GIRLHOOD. He HATED my BLOSSOMING and ATTACKED it.....I'm grateful for my inner strength and got away.

    • @blackwaldorf
      @blackwaldorf 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He did this because he envied you. DL men date women they would like to be. He 100 per cent was envious of your beauty. Most of them are.

  • @Highpoweredwig
    @Highpoweredwig 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    They need a woman to continue to make more men

  • @KurosakiLuvar01
    @KurosakiLuvar01 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    Not only wary of men you sleep with. The men who try to befriend you and other male friends. Be wary and careful of them THE MOST.

    • @likemycommentifyouwantareply
      @likemycommentifyouwantareply 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why do you say that? What do they do as friends?

    • @artbygilik
      @artbygilik 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I used to have a guy friend who was very flirty and touchy with me, but I also suspected could be on the DL and was using me as a cover up. He was single for 7 years and claimed to have been celibate for most of those years, struggled with temptations and inner demons. He had some other female friend overseas he was obsessed with who rejected him, but he was also saying and doing sus things. I later recognized he displayed narcissistic characteristics and was manipulating me, lying and trauma dumping. Im so grateful that he disappeared. I really have trouble trusting since that experience and decided that I actually feel and do better being single.

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@artbygilik yes!! I have trust issues for very similar reason and situations. I’m glad you are okay and doing much better!! 💖💖💖

    • @artbygilik
      @artbygilik 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ thank you, I’m sorry to hear that. Reflecting back on many of my romantic relationships I now realize that I was the most stressed and depressed when I was in one or looking for one. Now I found much more peace focusing on my business, my fitness and friendships. Sad thing is that guy is out there playing with more ladies emotions.

  • @khandi3872
    @khandi3872 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    The lady with the husband that's "POSITIVE " I'm so confused. Love yourself, because no one should be able to pick the decisions in your life. That's SICK🤮

    • @IntegrityMeansAll
      @IntegrityMeansAll 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s scary and sad how delusional , gullible and desperate some women are. I see it every day where bw are with dudes who are DL and those men deceive them day in day out makin a fool out of the woman they’re with. The irony is the easier/more desperate and more shallow/vain women as a whole have become the more men prefer dudes. The irony of it all

    • @IntegrityMeansAll
      @IntegrityMeansAll 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Again the TH-cam employee deleted a factual comment. Imagine someone working for this platform and let his s.preference make him so hypersensitive that he deletes neutral factual comments and opinions. Some people really need some ment.evaluation before getting hired, it’s so unprofessional

    • @Morgansaron
      @Morgansaron 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@IntegrityMeansAllmy comment got deleted as well…I just hate that they are pushing this on us and we just want a man that doesn’t want another man….the way a man who likes men doesn’t want a woman, you don’t hear us complaining

    • @annstewart8506
      @annstewart8506 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Don't ask any of them. Get medical clearance if you want intimacy. Shame on them for not being proud of their sexuality.

  • @kosmicinclinations3333
    @kosmicinclinations3333 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +87

    It is not misogynistic or homophobic to not be attracted to bi dexual men. And if it is then I will GLADLY be those things

    • @angelamohammed9464
      @angelamohammed9464 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Thank you, because I was getting ready to go ham on ol gurl @ 3:24 talking nonsense! PH all thrown off! Flora completely disrupted! 😅. No thank you miss mommas!

    • @lansvance4870
      @lansvance4870 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I mean… that girl comes from a gay dad and a straight mom, I would take her opinion with a kilo of marine salt 🧂 not to say, we can’t socialize away the most primal aspects of our nature. A dude having sex with you after he was inside the a** of some dude… no thank you. That’s gross and disgust is something that keeps us safe, is like a moral system built inside.

  • @MasalachaiPJ
    @MasalachaiPJ 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +69

    Guys I have a theory, I feel like it’s cultural. Like how people get attracted to what ever the beauty standard that’s promoted. I feel cultures that worship butts and think the butt is the most attractive physical attribute and obsess over butts have more gay men. I feel like cultures who value facial prettiness or breasts as the most sexually important feature have more straight men. Just something I observed.

    • @aygyal
      @aygyal 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      To challenge your theory, how is it in Ancient Greek society there was a high homosexual rate where they did not glorify the posterior seeing that demographically speaking, the people were not well endowed in their buttocks. The same goes for ancient Japan where they believed intercourse should not be restricted since it is natural. They even categorized same-sex relations based on the different age groups. So if you want to make a base less theory, do some research because it's borderline rac!st.

    • @Blissedx
      @Blissedx 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So maybe it’s time for bw to stop leading with the size of their bums and maybe even get skinny/thin and the culture will slowly start to shift back to normalcy?

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Blissedx to be honest, some can't help the size of their butt. It's just in their make up but leading with it, is the problem! Like, all of the pics with the side or back view, etc

    • @WitchNamedShay
      @WitchNamedShay 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      Interesting observation !!!! I agree ❤

    • @cynthiakila1161
      @cynthiakila1161 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right pansexuality

  • @carlahaiduk1878
    @carlahaiduk1878 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    It's not nowadays. It's has always been like this.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Shocking to learn

  • @audhumbla6927
    @audhumbla6927 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    The only sign I need: *Does not wanna eat 🐱*. Thats aaaaall I need to know, say no more, byeee 😂😂😂

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      😂😂🤚🏽

    • @FEVERDREAM889
      @FEVERDREAM889 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I don't like oral sex performed on me. It's just a texture thing for me. To each our own, right, lol.
      BUT my red flag for dudes is when I tell them that, if they make any kind of suggestion about how they might be able to do it on me, like they can change me, I'm done with them. The only correct response is to say okay indicating they will respect my boundary/preference.

    • @Gqrican94
      @Gqrican94 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I don’t eat cat I’m not gay

    • @audhumbla6927
      @audhumbla6927 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Gqrican94 oki batty boy, as I said, that tells us all we need to know about you 🙏🏻 Straight men, like women, and like to indulge. Batty boys, think women are yucky 😅🤣🤣

    • @audhumbla6927
      @audhumbla6927 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@FEVERDREAM889 Ofcourse thats your preference do what you want. But the video was talking about men whos secretly gay... Thats why I said, this is a sign that they are 100% without a doubt, secretly gay. 👍🏻

  • @A1SoniaM
    @A1SoniaM 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I love my single life. 🥰💯

  • @thebirdclan
    @thebirdclan 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +96

    This girl talking about " having gay experiences doesn't make you gay. " GIRL it don't matter what your gay agenda is. If you sleep with men who are " finding themselves" with other men, you are at a higher risk to DIE. I don't play with men who are bi or have been with men. You can live your best life in these streets, hoeing it up with whomever you please, but don't make this normal.

    • @h3tur
      @h3tur 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      it doesn’t tho, women are free to experiment with other women and still be considered straight, some ppl are just curious and sexuality is a spectrum, the only thing i can critique dl men on is being open and honest about them questioning

    • @thebirdclan
      @thebirdclan 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@h3tur sexuality isn't free. There are consequences and you die from that sometimes. I'm sorry that your p*** rotted brain can't see that but don't try to convince women that we don't need to worry about bisexual men

    • @designhub360customapparel
      @designhub360customapparel 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

      @@h3turthats gay too

    • @queenajustice542
      @queenajustice542 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Sexuality is on a spectrum? What a shame

    • @TheLilly
      @TheLilly 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She's crazy😂

  • @lansvance4870
    @lansvance4870 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +64

    So many men out here seem to be into the Brokeback Mountain lifestyle.

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      And they always talk crap about that movie because it’s what they are LIVING. Without the cowboy hats and horses 😂😂😂

    • @lansvance4870
      @lansvance4870 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@KurosakiLuvar01 girl!!! I have an idea! Test: While getting to know him watching this film together and noting down his reactions 😂😂micro expressions, comments, etc. or telling him some story like this is your favorite film because Heath Ledger is your favorite actor and you really loved cowboy stuff when you were 12 and always dressed cowgirl for Halloween, some random sentimental reason he can’t argue against, then making him watch it a bunch of random times and see how it goes 😂
      A guy I dated made me watch Sleepless in Seattle 4 or 5 times as a test… and he actually fell asleep midway 4/5. To see if I was patient and to secretly tell me he suffered from insomnia and this made him sleepy 😂 so is fair game! So much can be known about people from the media they consume and love.
      I also have a theory: men who love ship movies tend to be more traditionally masculine. For real. The most masculine guys I have met had a ship film as his favorite or had some ship hobbies, like building ships inside bottles. Is also a double test… sometimes men don’t love the boat and the adventure, they love that they are trapped in the middle of the sea with other men 😂 so making him watch ship films or see if he is into that can also be a good test. So loving ships is good…. Loving the navy buddies and the isolation from women not so much.

    • @Highpoweredwig
      @Highpoweredwig 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Bareback mountain

    • @Sanderson5CLC
      @Sanderson5CLC 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @lansvance4870 It's horrible what men has become. They are not to be trusted--EVER!!!!!!!

  • @BandemicLootFinch
    @BandemicLootFinch 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    From my observation, it appears 8 out of every 10 Men in North America struggle with Zestyness. It's wild out here, that's why I roll solo dolo. Ladies be safe youheard. Bless up

  • @angelawilliams9088
    @angelawilliams9088 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I'm sorrow I'm not share my MAN with nobody!

  • @icyglam1895
    @icyglam1895 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Yep being absent from the kids, talking up their best guy friends, and openly homophobic SCREAMS “in the closet”. But as women we have to LISTEN to these hints while they are happening. Not complaining about it 10 years later on TikTok. Sometimes we are quick to label everyone as a narcissist and gas lighter but we also need our women’s intuition and wake the heck up!!! 😂

  • @ReinaAfricana
    @ReinaAfricana 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    My ex cheated on me with his "home boy". I always worried about the women at his job. Only to catch him and his boyfriend in my bed😩.

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I'm sooo sorry to hear your story!! Men are crazy! Hope you'll be able to get over it 🥰 The number of gay/DL men is super HIGH!! I really think that most of the men out there are hot for each other! It's difficult to be a woman nowadays.

    • @BLKfootIndian
      @BLKfootIndian 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Well u can either stay or go ask the Creator how to operate

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@BLKfootIndianinstead of pretending to be native american. Why don't you learn how to read. You know I understand the No child Left behind policy did leave you behind. Read the comment again keep reading it until you understand. If you don't understand you can always ask questions.

    • @ReinaAfricana
      @ReinaAfricana 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@terjemarken2411oh yes I got over it. I kept blaming myself but my therapist said that was his true nature. He was never into you you were just a cover for him. Because his family is super religious and being gay will get you kicked out the family. They sent one of his cousins to a conversion camp. He decided to be honest a year later over facebook. He begged me to hear him out and I did. The only reason why he came back into my life was because he and his partner wanted a child. They were willing to pay me to be a surrogate. But they also wanted to use my eggs. That was not happening. I said it was weird enough that you cheated on me. But not only that you want me to birth a baby that will genetically belong to me. And you want me to give up my parental rights so that you and him can raise the child? He also saw that I had another baby. So he's mad that I can't give him that opportunity.

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ReinaAfricana Thank you so much for telling me all this! 🥰 You're brave and honest! I think you did the right decisions here not to give birth to a child. Life can be very difficult but I do hope you're doing well now!!! ❤

  • @Essetheartist
    @Essetheartist 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    When African ppl say the word 'gay" I buss out laughing. They make it sound like its not a real word😂

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wait😂😂how does it sound?

    • @MillenZaLPhA
      @MillenZaLPhA 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@mskabueGaihh

    • @thesovereignwoman
      @thesovereignwoman 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@mskabue like: Geh!! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Shelby-s2w
    @Shelby-s2w 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    No one wants to admit or talk about it but a lot of this is due to smexual abuse at a young age. Think about it, if your first smexual experience is with a man, it will confuse your smexuality.

    • @laurenkoronczok
      @laurenkoronczok 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The effects of porn.

    • @Iamtkln
      @Iamtkln 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some*

  • @A1SoniaM
    @A1SoniaM 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    25:55 She needs her own TV show.🤣She's so animated and dramatic.🤣 If anyone knows an Agent, reach out! 😂😂 Her...FK NO!..had me rollin! 😂

  • @Hannah_Rachel_and_Kotik
    @Hannah_Rachel_and_Kotik 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Men enjoy each other's company but turn out 2b wanting a rich daddy treatment themselves

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes girl, men like men!

  • @RootinTootinShootinGeechie
    @RootinTootinShootinGeechie 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Everything the Sovereign Woman listed was facts.

  • @evilstereofairy
    @evilstereofairy 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My ex was bi, he it or lied about it for like 5 years but when I found out I was so glad he told me, I was incredibly understanding and accept his deception bc I tried to understand all the whys etc. and I loved him, and I wanting him to live an authentic life, I even wanted to join him, or allow him to have a dl time once in a while even tho it gutted me I wanted us to be happy. He always said he wanted me to join but somehow always only did his thing with other people and never me and there was always an excuse. At that point I said it was unacceptable bc he was stringing me along especially when he “turned asexual” to avoid sleeping w me - his girlfriend of seven years at that point… I kicked him out. I tried to be accepting and totally open for years just being such a loser to myself and to my own humility. So humiliating. Why can’t people just be honest w themselves and others .

    • @ssiegreen5292
      @ssiegreen5292 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He played you to preserve the status quo. It wasn't personal - any woman would have done, but why bother finding someone new, after he had you trained well enough and conditioned to accept his BS. Hope you know and do better now!

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Seems like you were very calm and understanding with him though, when he finally told you his secret. Very respectful done!! You must be very open minded and understanding! 🥰 Would've been a great solution if you'd let him have some 'man-man time' from now and then, as long as you'd be having control over it. If you could be joining them (him + another man) it'd have been even better!

    • @ssiegreen5292
      @ssiegreen5292 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@terjemarken2411 Did you even read what she was saying? He didn't want her to join in or experiment with, even when she offered. He used her as a front, to hide as a normal hetero male behind. Total dishonesty + disrespect and a user as well, wasting 5 years of her precious [and presumable fertile] life time with nowhere to go and nothing to show for. For young and middle aged women - these are the limited years they have available of having kids + raising a family, if that is what they desire - not to be a front to hide behind because you are too much of a coward to stand up for your proclivities and preferences.

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ssiegreen5292 You're 100% right here!! Her text was cut off (didn't show full text) when I read her comment. I thought I'd read it all. My fault.

  • @FEVERDREAM889
    @FEVERDREAM889 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I guess I'm good with being homophobic then........?
    Just wow, lady. No it's not homophobic to decide you don't want a certain type of man period.

  • @Kenyacannn
    @Kenyacannn 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Girl everybody fighting demons we are all fighting the same thing but some of them are sooo sensitive and selfish that they are calling human issues demons for an excuse to act out. Ain’t no demons that’s what they want to do and they do it. We have all been there where we have had a good excuse to wild out and haven’t.

  • @23MzSmith
    @23MzSmith 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thanks for sharing.

  • @am-harris7458
    @am-harris7458 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Most men need religion/philosophy/stoicism to soothe the savage beast! Revelation 13:18: "Here is wisdom: Let him that hath understanding count the number of the beast, for it is the number of a MAN; and his number is six hundred threescore and six."

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Iron Maiden!

    • @angelamohammed9464
      @angelamohammed9464 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Gurl. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @angelamohammed9464
      @angelamohammed9464 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Gurl. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @am-harris7458
      @am-harris7458 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@angelamohammed9464 Most of these men are devils!😏😒

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Damn you just schooled me 😂🤚🏽🤚🏽

  • @Makingitwork2024
    @Makingitwork2024 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    A lot of women be on the DL too. I know a few women who had extensive “experiences” with other women and are married to men today. There are also women in their 30s who are DL that prey on younger guys who are reckless with their seeds. Gay is on both sides, but you only hear black people obsess over it.

    • @kevaughncampbell-el1xt
      @kevaughncampbell-el1xt 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right women be on downlow but we only speak about men on the downlow

    • @robertjohnson2916
      @robertjohnson2916 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I think black people only obsess with men being gay.

  • @jodiburnett6211
    @jodiburnett6211 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So much this.

  • @MysticGoddessNubie
    @MysticGoddessNubie 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The teacher one my gawd!

  • @veebliss1266
    @veebliss1266 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +103

    In the LAST days , MEN will be lovers of themselves !!! 2nd tim 3:1-9 🎉

    • @thebirdclan
      @thebirdclan 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Girl stop it with that middle ages propaganda. It has no place in a modern society.

    • @KTD888
      @KTD888 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Is happening

    • @FELIZEVEE
      @FELIZEVEE 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Amen, we are living these things out in this very present day 🙏🏻😇🙏🏻💖💖💖💖

    • @Arlene_witha_y
      @Arlene_witha_y 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😮😮😮😮

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      @@FELIZEVEE Exactly. I believe that most men already do prefer being with other men 😅

  • @MsChellaJay
    @MsChellaJay 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    See this is where some queer people act like critical thinking is extreme weight lifting. Just because I’m not attracted to a bisexual man doesn’t make me homophobic. I love queer people, just not to date because I’m strictly straight. I would like my man to be the same. It doesn’t intimidate me, it just makes me feel as though he may ask me to do things that I wouldn’t be comfortable doing and that’s fine. Go ask someone else, I’m not the one for you baby.

  • @michelledertinger
    @michelledertinger 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    my literal biggest fear.

  • @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx
    @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    To many DL bc they marry women and we have DL kids that Y.

  • @monah203
    @monah203 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    What is the first girl talking about smh. Women don’t have to date gay or bisexual men. I also don’t want to date non-monogamous men. Is that wrong too? Bc if I find out you are cheating I’m done lol

  • @theblackhole05
    @theblackhole05 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    if a bi man isnt cheating on his girl, they will call him str8, thats bierasure

  • @ichabodcrane9479
    @ichabodcrane9479 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Lady at 33:46 always keeps it 💯

  • @severalpiece7105
    @severalpiece7105 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    33:36 Chile who gonna tell her

    • @kayjeffs3741
      @kayjeffs3741 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I believe I saw a video of her talking about how her husband gave her that pack...

    • @likemycommentifyouwantareply
      @likemycommentifyouwantareply 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She already knows 😬

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Guh😫🥴

  • @zero1188
    @zero1188 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Question are women asking men are they gay or just assuming they are straight?

    • @bsandy_00
      @bsandy_00 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

      Like they will tell the truth 😂

    • @NeferAset
      @NeferAset 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I ask men nowadays, I also ask them if they engage in sex with trans women, and/or prefer anal sex giving and receiving. This is how I determine if the man is a good fit for me on an intimate level.

    • @Jenjenn1111
      @Jenjenn1111 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Why should we have to ask? If they are gay, why would they be up in our face? This is why being DL is a betrayal. Go be gay!!!

    • @Peacepeacelovelove
      @Peacepeacelovelove 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I always look them in the eyes and ask them if they’re gay, if you ask them directly, you can really get a sense of whether or not they’re lying, always follow your intuition

    • @zero1188
      @zero1188 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @ way i look at it is the purpose of asking is so later on down the road they cant say you never asked. And a better question is are you bi not gay. A person say they are not gay they go both ways

  • @Key-Key444
    @Key-Key444 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    27:36 😂😂😂 she’s funny 😆

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I also didn't expect that😂😂

    • @luckyNkentucky
      @luckyNkentucky 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I have a coworker that has us rolling with her story telling. Something about that sweet country accent. 😂

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yess😂😂😂

  • @CAMICAZE007
    @CAMICAZE007 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Because its not considered Immoral..duh Sodom and Gommorah. For centuries eventually it becomes common..

    • @AsrielAsitgets
      @AsrielAsitgets 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sodom and Gommorah also teaches inc*stry is okay..🤢🤮

  • @h3tur
    @h3tur 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    only thing i can critique dl men on is, don’t bring other ppl into your questioning, im all for exploration and finding your label because sexuality is a spectrum but HONESTY’S THE BEST POLICY, im bi myself so i wouldn’t mind at all dating a bi man, & if he finds himself solely attracted to men i’d expect a sit down talk to be broken up with, not cheated on:(

  • @Essetheartist
    @Essetheartist 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Being ioen to bi men opens more issues with your biological health. Id rather be called misogynistic on that issue alone

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too 🤚🏽

  • @theblackhole05
    @theblackhole05 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Confirmation bias, you erase good bi men or the idea of them using bi erasure retorict, then trauma bond over these horror stories. which i deeply feel sorry for.

  • @FELIZEVEE
    @FELIZEVEE 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Sis, the woman with the HIV + husband is a very complicated case. I know its shocking to see her still supporting him but sometimes as women we give so much of ourselves and get trapped by love for another human that we sacrifice all for them. Understand that this can also include our parents/children and other family members. We can't assume that she is still sleeping with him but she shows her love by being supportive to him, maybe she has small children with him...very complicated case. I'm not making excuses for her or him but life is not always black and white so many gray areas. Lets also add that religious beliefs convolute our thought process too...prayers to her prayers to all women in this universe who battle day by day to make it and stand strong, for ourselves our children and grandchildren too....peace/health/blessings to you all 🙏🏻😇🙏🏻💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

    • @ssiegreen5292
      @ssiegreen5292 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Especially if she has children in the house - he needs to go! Whether they are his/theirs or hers from previous relationships. He looks F'd up in the last clip - high or tired + ill, but still flirts for the camera and makes googoo eyes - because he knows some gay guys will watch her videos too.
      If I'm an adult - I can evaluate the risk I am taking by living with someone that is HIV positive, kids cannot and do not - and clearly that man doesn't give a flip to keep her [or anybody else] safe, else he would not have exposed her and continues to do so. With all due respect - she's either being stupid or stupid in love - or she has a nice life insurance policy on him and she's playing the long game... I'd put his a$$ in jail - he can have all the D he craves for there, and then some!

  • @christelle7484
    @christelle7484 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I am always stunned by the way people talking about homosexuality as if it was a good thing knowing the story of sodome and Gomorrah. Don't they know how much God is disgusted by that, and how he destroyed an entire kingdom because of that.
    Are they forgetting or this story never got to their ears or they don't just fear God at all ?
    That's crazy

    • @AsrielAsitgets
      @AsrielAsitgets 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So your god is cool with family members having s*x with each other?🧐

    • @Ytorisv
      @Ytorisv 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some folks dont know the story everybody does not read the Bible nor believe in the story.

  • @kaybee1025
    @kaybee1025 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    @all

  • @dustrepellent8986
    @dustrepellent8986 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    3:47 She look like she like bi men.

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Women who like bi men..... what do they look like??

    • @dustrepellent8986
      @dustrepellent8986 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ 😅bi themselves