THE TRUTH BEHIND WHY SO MANY MEN ARE ON THE DL!

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  • @mirandasosa-patterson7322
    @mirandasosa-patterson7322 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +151

    It’s not mysoginy to want a straight man, and it’s not homophobia!

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      This!

    • @alphonsecinammonroll
      @alphonsecinammonroll 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

      Yep. I don't "decided" to not be attracted. I'm just not attracted. Period. It's NOT a choice.

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There's nothing ladylike about being a 🐓 sucker 🤮 there's nothing feminine about that 😂 AND you don't even get off on it

    • @nitrafall9533
      @nitrafall9533 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      yea that girl was tripping

    • @angelamohammed9464
      @angelamohammed9464 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      Thank you, because I was getting ready to go ham on ol gurl @ 3:24 talking nonsense! PH all thrown off! Flora completely disrupted! 😅. No thank you miss mommas!

  • @artqueen5422
    @artqueen5422 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +63

    Me wanting a straight man that only wants women and NOT MEN is NOT homophobic. Smh TF from with people smh

  • @Lorilor343
    @Lorilor343 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +70

    I’m tired of people saying it’s homophobic to not date bi men. You would never say anything if a bi person said “I only date other bi-sexual people”

    • @crystalsagesynergy
      @crystalsagesynergy 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They can call me homophobic all day. I do not want to date bisexual men! They are a extra extra risk to my physical health. Straight men are already at risk, now you want me to mess with a bisexual one? Nah

  • @anka6356
    @anka6356 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Threatening a man with prison is threatening him with a good time. Living their full fantasy unbothered.

  • @kosmicinclinations3333
    @kosmicinclinations3333 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

    It is not misogynistic or homophobic to not be attracted to bi dexual men. And if it is then I will GLADLY be those things

    • @angelamohammed9464
      @angelamohammed9464 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Thank you, because I was getting ready to go ham on ol gurl @ 3:24 talking nonsense! PH all thrown off! Flora completely disrupted! 😅. No thank you miss mommas!

    • @lansvance4870
      @lansvance4870 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I mean… that girl comes from a gay dad and a straight mom, I would take her opinion with a kilo of marine salt 🧂 not to say, we can’t socialize away the most primal aspects of our nature. A dude having sex with you after he was inside the a** of some dude… no thank you. That’s gross and disgust is something that keeps us safe, is like a moral system built inside.

  • @thebirdclan
    @thebirdclan 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +68

    This girl talking about " having gay experiences doesn't make you gay. " GIRL it don't matter what your gay agenda is. If you sleep with men who are " finding themselves" with other men, you are at a higher risk to DIE. I don't play with men who are bi or have been with men. You can live your best life in these streets, hoeing it up with whomever you please, but don't make this normal.

    • @h3tur
      @h3tur 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      it doesn’t tho, women are free to experiment with other women and still be considered straight, some ppl are just curious and sexuality is a spectrum, the only thing i can critique dl men on is being open and honest about them questioning

    • @thebirdclan
      @thebirdclan 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@h3tur sexuality isn't free. There are consequences and you die from that sometimes. I'm sorry that your p*** rotted brain can't see that but don't try to convince women that we don't need to worry about bisexual men

    • @designhub360customapparel
      @designhub360customapparel 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      @@h3turthats gay too

    • @queenajustice542
      @queenajustice542 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Sexuality is on a spectrum? What a shame

  • @Prismatic9008
    @Prismatic9008 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +76

    Ooh chile, no. 4B. Men bring entirely too much and too much worry. I don't think I can do it again

    • @Sanderson5CLC
      @Sanderson5CLC 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @Prismatic9008 I am with you, Sister, Time-stamp 1:30....Not according to the Scriptures regarding homosexuals. That woman is cursed and it will not be a pleasant life.

    • @ichabodcrane9479
      @ichabodcrane9479 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      4B forever ❤

    • @IntentlyPurposeful
      @IntentlyPurposeful 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      4B🎉✨️

    • @kscott7657
      @kscott7657 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Sanderson5CLCthank you ❤

    • @roxanneroxanne3232
      @roxanneroxanne3232 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Definitely HEAVY on 4B!!!!

  • @carlahaiduk1878
    @carlahaiduk1878 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    It's not nowadays. It's has always been like this.

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Shocking to learn

  • @tamekadavis6641
    @tamekadavis6641 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    The signs ☢️ are usually right in front of you. Ladies be safe ❤

  • @HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
    @HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    I think it's a sign of the times. That it's time for women to change their perspectives about love, family, and marriage. Change it to single, alone, self-sufficient, and single motherhood if you have children. Prosper on your own. I have nothing against gay, les, or bisexuality per se, but I think that women should reform their minds to singleness and making it on their own. Even same-sex couples are not doing well. Many women are becoming millionaires on their own, and this is how it should continue going.

  • @evedelgado2345
    @evedelgado2345 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I had a relationship at a YOUNG age with a young man who was DL. He normalized sexual abuse and sexual humiliation. He sexually attacked my FEMININITY and PUNISHED me sexually. I thought this was normal. As an adult and discovering....over the years....his secrets....I understand he HATED my GIRLHOOD. He HATED my BLOSSOMING and ATTACKED it.....I'm grateful for my inner strength and got away.

  • @peacefulblessed2114
    @peacefulblessed2114 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    This is nothing new , back in the early 2000s I talked to Men that was curious being with men. One of them were married with a family.
    I am not surprised at all, I have taken several seats, I made the decision I will never date or marry again.
    Too many illnesses and New STDs are being passed around. I am doing just fine staying to myself. There are alot of bitter Men today. Be safe everyone, you will never know someone intentions .

  • @khandi3872
    @khandi3872 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    The lady with the husband that's "POSITIVE " I'm so confused. Love yourself, because no one should be able to pick the decisions in your life. That's SICK🤮

    • @IntegrityMeansAll
      @IntegrityMeansAll 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s scary and sad how delusional , gullible and desperate some women are. I see it every day where bw are with dudes who are DL and those men deceive them day in day out makin a fool out of the woman they’re with. The irony is the easier/more desperate and more shallow/vain women as a whole have become the more men prefer dudes. The irony of it all

    • @IntegrityMeansAll
      @IntegrityMeansAll 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Again the TH-cam employee deleted a factual comment. Imagine someone working for this platform and let his s.preference make him so hypersensitive that he deletes neutral factual comments and opinions. Some people really need some ment.evaluation before getting hired, it’s so unprofessional

    • @Morgansaron
      @Morgansaron 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@IntegrityMeansAllmy comment got deleted as well…I just hate that they are pushing this on us and we just want a man that doesn’t want another man….the way a man who likes men doesn’t want a woman, you don’t hear us complaining

    • @annstewart8506
      @annstewart8506 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Don't ask any of them. Get medical clearance if you want intimacy. Shame on them for not being proud of their sexuality.

  • @veebliss1266
    @veebliss1266 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +88

    In the LAST days , MEN will be lovers of themselves !!! 2nd tim 3:1-9 🎉

    • @thebirdclan
      @thebirdclan 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Girl stop it with that middle ages propaganda. It has no place in a modern society.

    • @KTD888
      @KTD888 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Is happening

    • @FELIZEVEE
      @FELIZEVEE 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Amen, we are living these things out in this very present day 🙏🏻😇🙏🏻💖💖💖💖

    • @Arlene_witha_y
      @Arlene_witha_y 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😮😮😮😮

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@FELIZEVEE Exactly. I believe that most men already do prefer being with other men 😅

  • @KurosakiLuvar01
    @KurosakiLuvar01 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    Not only wary of men you sleep with. The men who try to befriend you and other male friends. Be wary and careful of them THE MOST.

    • @likemycommentifyouwantareply
      @likemycommentifyouwantareply 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why do you say that? What do they do as friends?

    • @artbygilik
      @artbygilik 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I used to have a guy friend who was very flirty and touchy with me, but I also suspected could be on the DL and was using me as a cover up. He was single for 7 years and claimed to have been celibate for most of those years, struggled with temptations and inner demons. He had some other female friend overseas he was obsessed with who rejected him, but he was also saying and doing sus things. I later recognized he displayed narcissistic characteristics and was manipulating me, lying and trauma dumping. Im so grateful that he disappeared. I really have trouble trusting since that experience and decided that I actually feel and do better being single.

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@artbygilik yes!! I have trust issues for very similar reason and situations. I’m glad you are okay and doing much better!! 💖💖💖

    • @artbygilik
      @artbygilik 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ thank you, I’m sorry to hear that. Reflecting back on many of my romantic relationships I now realize that I was the most stressed and depressed when I was in one or looking for one. Now I found much more peace focusing on my business, my fitness and friendships. Sad thing is that guy is out there playing with more ladies emotions.

  • @audhumbla6927
    @audhumbla6927 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    The only sign I need: *Does not wanna eat 🐱*. Thats aaaaall I need to know, say no more, byeee 😂😂😂

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂😂🤚🏽

    • @FEVERDREAM889
      @FEVERDREAM889 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      I don't like oral sex performed on me. It's just a texture thing for me. To each our own, right, lol.
      BUT my red flag for dudes is when I tell them that, if they make any kind of suggestion about how they might be able to do it on me, like they can change me, I'm done with them. The only correct response is to say okay indicating they will respect my boundary/preference.

  • @MasalachaiPJ
    @MasalachaiPJ 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    Guys I have a theory, I feel like it’s cultural. Like how people get attracted to what ever the beauty standard that’s promoted. I feel cultures that worship butts and think the butt is the most attractive physical attribute and obsess over butts have more gay men. I feel like cultures who value facial prettiness or breasts as the most sexually important feature have more straight men. Just something I observed.

    • @aygyal
      @aygyal 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      To challenge your theory, how is it in Ancient Greek society there was a high homosexual rate where they did not glorify the posterior seeing that demographically speaking, the people were not well endowed in their buttocks. The same goes for ancient Japan where they believed intercourse should not be restricted since it is natural. They even categorized same-sex relations based on the different age groups. So if you want to make a base less theory, do some research because it's borderline rac!st.

    • @Blissedx
      @Blissedx 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So maybe it’s time for bw to stop leading with the size of their bums and maybe even get skinny/thin and the culture will slowly start to shift back to normalcy?

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Blissedx to be honest, some can't help the size of their butt. It's just in their make up but leading with it, is the problem! Like, all of the pics with the side or back view, etc

    • @WitchNamedShay
      @WitchNamedShay 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      Interesting observation !!!! I agree ❤

    • @cynthiakila1161
      @cynthiakila1161 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right pansexuality

  • @Highpoweredwig
    @Highpoweredwig 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    They need a woman to continue to make more men

  • @Crystal4ya
    @Crystal4ya 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    When this man from 15:05 was explaining signs of DL men, I just remembered Myron’s behavior from “fresh n fit”🧐😂😂

  • @ashmba4906
    @ashmba4906 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Be carful ladies and gentlemen with raising male and female teenagers. The lady was right men will be attracted to their step children and also I’ve heard of a male friend of the family abusing his friend a teen son.
    Once you bring a life into this world you should vet every soul that comes near it, even if you knew them well before the children appeared . The prey on those that are vulnerable are at an all time high. Lord pls help us all 🙏🏾

  • @lansvance4870
    @lansvance4870 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    So many men out here seem to be into the Brokeback Mountain lifestyle.

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      And they always talk crap about that movie because it’s what they are LIVING. Without the cowboy hats and horses 😂😂😂

    • @lansvance4870
      @lansvance4870 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@KurosakiLuvar01 girl!!! I have an idea! Test: While getting to know him watching this film together and noting down his reactions 😂😂micro expressions, comments, etc. or telling him some story like this is your favorite film because Heath Ledger is your favorite actor and you really loved cowboy stuff when you were 12 and always dressed cowgirl for Halloween, some random sentimental reason he can’t argue against, then making him watch it a bunch of random times and see how it goes 😂
      A guy I dated made me watch Sleepless in Seattle 4 or 5 times as a test… and he actually fell asleep midway 4/5. To see if I was patient and to secretly tell me he suffered from insomnia and this made him sleepy 😂 so is fair game! So much can be known about people from the media they consume and love.
      I also have a theory: men who love ship movies tend to be more traditionally masculine. For real. The most masculine guys I have met had a ship film as his favorite or had some ship hobbies, like building ships inside bottles. Is also a double test… sometimes men don’t love the boat and the adventure, they love that they are trapped in the middle of the sea with other men 😂 so making him watch ship films or see if he is into that can also be a good test. So loving ships is good…. Loving the navy buddies and the isolation from women not so much.

    • @Highpoweredwig
      @Highpoweredwig 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Bareback mountain

    • @Sanderson5CLC
      @Sanderson5CLC 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @lansvance4870 It's horrible what men has become. They are not to be trusted--EVER!!!!!!!

  • @angelawilliams9088
    @angelawilliams9088 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I'm sorrow I'm not share my MAN with nobody!

  • @Essetheartist
    @Essetheartist 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    When African ppl say the word 'gay" I buss out laughing. They make it sound like its not a real word😂

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wait😂😂how does it sound?

  • @Hannah_Rachel_and_Kotik
    @Hannah_Rachel_and_Kotik 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Men enjoy each other's company but turn out 2b wanting a rich daddy treatment themselves

  • @BandemicLootFinch
    @BandemicLootFinch 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    From my observation, it appears 8 out of every 10 Men in North America struggle with Zestyness. It's wild out here, that's why I roll solo dolo. Ladies be safe youheard. Bless up

  • @icyglam1895
    @icyglam1895 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Yep being absent from the kids, talking up their best guy friends, and openly homophobic SCREAMS “in the closet”. But as women we have to LISTEN to these hints while they are happening. Not complaining about it 10 years later on TikTok. Sometimes we are quick to label everyone as a narcissist and gas lighter but we also need our women’s intuition and wake the heck up!!! 😂

  • @Essetheartist
    @Essetheartist 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Being ioen to bi men opens more issues with your biological health. Id rather be called misogynistic on that issue alone

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too 🤚🏽

  • @AramintaRossPistol
    @AramintaRossPistol 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Everything the Sovereign Woman listed was facts.

  • @Shelby-s2w
    @Shelby-s2w 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    No one wants to admit or talk about it but a lot of this is due to smexual abuse at a young age. Think about it, if your first smexual experience is with a man, it will confuse your smexuality.

  • @jodiburnett6211
    @jodiburnett6211 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So much this.

  • @am-harris7458
    @am-harris7458 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Most men need religion/philosophy/stoicism to soothe the savage beast! Revelation 13:18: "Here is wisdom: Let him that hath understanding count the number of the beast, for it is the number of a MAN; and his number is six hundred threescore and six."

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Iron Maiden!

    • @angelamohammed9464
      @angelamohammed9464 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Gurl. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @angelamohammed9464
      @angelamohammed9464 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Gurl. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @am-harris7458
      @am-harris7458 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@angelamohammed9464 Most of these men are devils!😏😒

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Damn you just schooled me 😂🤚🏽🤚🏽

  • @MysticGoddessNubie
    @MysticGoddessNubie 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The teacher one my gawd!

  • @23MzSmith
    @23MzSmith 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thanks for sharing.

  • @monah203
    @monah203 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    What is the first girl talking about smh. Women don’t have to date gay or bisexual men. I also don’t want to date non-monogamous men. Is that wrong too? Bc if I find out you are cheating I’m done lol

  • @CAMICAZE007
    @CAMICAZE007 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Because its not considered Immoral..duh Sodom and Gommorah. For centuries eventually it becomes common..

  • @FEVERDREAM889
    @FEVERDREAM889 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    I guess I'm good with being homophobic then........?
    Just wow, lady. No it's not homophobic to decide you don't want a certain type of man period.

  • @ichabodcrane9479
    @ichabodcrane9479 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Lady at 33:46 always keeps it 💯

  • @severalpiece7105
    @severalpiece7105 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    33:36 Chile who gonna tell her

    • @kayjeffs3741
      @kayjeffs3741 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I believe I saw a video of her talking about how her husband gave her that pack...

    • @likemycommentifyouwantareply
      @likemycommentifyouwantareply 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She already knows 😬

  • @Key-Key444
    @Key-Key444 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    27:36 😂😂😂 she’s funny 😆

    • @mskabue
      @mskabue  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I also didn't expect that😂😂

    • @luckyNkentucky
      @luckyNkentucky 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I have a coworker that has us rolling with her story telling. Something about that sweet country accent. 😂

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yess😂😂😂

  • @zero1188
    @zero1188 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Question are women asking men are they gay or just assuming they are straight?

    • @bsandy_00
      @bsandy_00 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      Like they will tell the truth 😂

    • @NeferAset
      @NeferAset 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I ask men nowadays, I also ask them if they engage in sex with trans women, and/or prefer anal sex giving and receiving. This is how I determine if the man is a good fit for me on an intimate level.

    • @Jenjenn1111
      @Jenjenn1111 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Why should we have to ask? If they are gay, why would they be up in our face? This is why being DL is a betrayal. Go be gay!!!

    • @Peacepeacelovelove
      @Peacepeacelovelove 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I always look them in the eyes and ask them if they’re gay, if you ask them directly, you can really get a sense of whether or not they’re lying, always follow your intuition

    • @zero1188
      @zero1188 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @ way i look at it is the purpose of asking is so later on down the road they cant say you never asked. And a better question is are you bi not gay. A person say they are not gay they go both ways

  • @h3tur
    @h3tur 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    only thing i can critique dl men on is, don’t bring other ppl into your questioning, im all for exploration and finding your label because sexuality is a spectrum but HONESTY’S THE BEST POLICY, im bi myself so i wouldn’t mind at all dating a bi man, & if he finds himself solely attracted to men i’d expect a sit down talk to be broken up with, not cheated on:(

  • @FELIZEVEE
    @FELIZEVEE 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Sis, the woman with the HIV + husband is a very complicated case. I know its shocking to see her still supporting him but sometimes as women we give so much of ourselves and get trapped by love for another human that we sacrifice all for them. Understand that this can also include our parents/children and other family members. We can't assume that she is still sleeping with him but she shows her love by being supportive to him, maybe she has small children with him...very complicated case. I'm not making excuses for her or him but life is not always black and white so many gray areas. Lets also add that religious beliefs convolute our thought process too...prayers to her prayers to all women in this universe who battle day by day to make it and stand strong, for ourselves our children and grandchildren too....peace/health/blessings to you all 🙏🏻😇🙏🏻💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @christelle7484
    @christelle7484 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I am always stunned by the way people talking about homosexuality as if it was a good thing knowing the story of sodome and Gomorrah. Don't they know how much God is disgusted by that, and how he destroyed an entire kingdom because of that.
    Are they forgetting or this story never got to their ears or they don't just fear God at all ?
    That's crazy

  • @kaybee1025
    @kaybee1025 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    @all

  • @dustrepellent8986
    @dustrepellent8986 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    3:47 She look like she like bi men.