Thank you, because I was getting ready to go ham on ol gurl @ 3:24 talking nonsense! PH all thrown off! Flora completely disrupted! 😅. No thank you miss mommas!
@@kevaughncampbell-el1xtwe don’t give af even you pointing that out means you are also part of the problem.I will start calling you people straighphobic so keep it up 🤨
I think it's a sign of the times. That it's time for women to change their perspectives about love, family, and marriage. Change it to single, alone, self-sufficient, and single motherhood if you have children. Prosper on your own. I have nothing against gay, les, or bisexuality per se, but I think that women should reform their minds to singleness and making it on their own. Even same-sex couples are not doing well. Many women are becoming millionaires on their own, and this is how it should continue going.
They can call me homophobic all day. I do not want to date bisexual men! They are a extra extra risk to my physical health. Straight men are already at risk, now you want me to mess with a bisexual one? Nah
@@sweetie_buns i feel you. My reasoning is simply because I want to date someone who is also straight. 🤷🏽♀️ nothing hidden behind it, and lots of people assume their is something behind it
@@sweetie_bunshoney you are not the relationship police nobody owes you a reason why they don’t want to date alphabet people.Go sit down snowflake we are all tired of you people.
@Prismatic9008 I am with you, Sister, Time-stamp 1:30....Not according to the Scriptures regarding homosexuals. That woman is cursed and it will not be a pleasant life.
This is nothing new , back in the early 2000s I talked to Men that was curious being with men. One of them were married with a family. I am not surprised at all, I have taken several seats, I made the decision I will never date or marry again. Too many illnesses and New STDs are being passed around. I am doing just fine staying to myself. There are alot of bitter Men today. Be safe everyone, you will never know someone intentions .
Be carful ladies and gentlemen with raising male and female teenagers. The lady was right men will be attracted to their step children and also I’ve heard of a male friend of the family abusing his friend a teen son. Once you bring a life into this world you should vet every soul that comes near it, even if you knew them well before the children appeared . The prey on those that are vulnerable are at an all time high. Lord pls help us all 🙏🏾
I had a relationship at a YOUNG age with a young man who was DL. He normalized sexual abuse and sexual humiliation. He sexually attacked my FEMININITY and PUNISHED me sexually. I thought this was normal. As an adult and discovering....over the years....his secrets....I understand he HATED my GIRLHOOD. He HATED my BLOSSOMING and ATTACKED it.....I'm grateful for my inner strength and got away.
I used to have a guy friend who was very flirty and touchy with me, but I also suspected could be on the DL and was using me as a cover up. He was single for 7 years and claimed to have been celibate for most of those years, struggled with temptations and inner demons. He had some other female friend overseas he was obsessed with who rejected him, but he was also saying and doing sus things. I later recognized he displayed narcissistic characteristics and was manipulating me, lying and trauma dumping. Im so grateful that he disappeared. I really have trouble trusting since that experience and decided that I actually feel and do better being single.
@ thank you, I’m sorry to hear that. Reflecting back on many of my romantic relationships I now realize that I was the most stressed and depressed when I was in one or looking for one. Now I found much more peace focusing on my business, my fitness and friendships. Sad thing is that guy is out there playing with more ladies emotions.
The lady with the husband that's "POSITIVE " I'm so confused. Love yourself, because no one should be able to pick the decisions in your life. That's SICK🤮
It’s scary and sad how delusional , gullible and desperate some women are. I see it every day where bw are with dudes who are DL and those men deceive them day in day out makin a fool out of the woman they’re with. The irony is the easier/more desperate and more shallow/vain women as a whole have become the more men prefer dudes. The irony of it all
Again the TH-cam employee deleted a factual comment. Imagine someone working for this platform and let his s.preference make him so hypersensitive that he deletes neutral factual comments and opinions. Some people really need some ment.evaluation before getting hired, it’s so unprofessional
@@IntegrityMeansAllmy comment got deleted as well…I just hate that they are pushing this on us and we just want a man that doesn’t want another man….the way a man who likes men doesn’t want a woman, you don’t hear us complaining
Thank you, because I was getting ready to go ham on ol gurl @ 3:24 talking nonsense! PH all thrown off! Flora completely disrupted! 😅. No thank you miss mommas!
I mean… that girl comes from a gay dad and a straight mom, I would take her opinion with a kilo of marine salt 🧂 not to say, we can’t socialize away the most primal aspects of our nature. A dude having sex with you after he was inside the a** of some dude… no thank you. That’s gross and disgust is something that keeps us safe, is like a moral system built inside.
Guys I have a theory, I feel like it’s cultural. Like how people get attracted to what ever the beauty standard that’s promoted. I feel cultures that worship butts and think the butt is the most attractive physical attribute and obsess over butts have more gay men. I feel like cultures who value facial prettiness or breasts as the most sexually important feature have more straight men. Just something I observed.
To challenge your theory, how is it in Ancient Greek society there was a high homosexual rate where they did not glorify the posterior seeing that demographically speaking, the people were not well endowed in their buttocks. The same goes for ancient Japan where they believed intercourse should not be restricted since it is natural. They even categorized same-sex relations based on the different age groups. So if you want to make a base less theory, do some research because it's borderline rac!st.
So maybe it’s time for bw to stop leading with the size of their bums and maybe even get skinny/thin and the culture will slowly start to shift back to normalcy?
@@Blissedx to be honest, some can't help the size of their butt. It's just in their make up but leading with it, is the problem! Like, all of the pics with the side or back view, etc
I don't like oral sex performed on me. It's just a texture thing for me. To each our own, right, lol. BUT my red flag for dudes is when I tell them that, if they make any kind of suggestion about how they might be able to do it on me, like they can change me, I'm done with them. The only correct response is to say okay indicating they will respect my boundary/preference.
@@Gqrican94 oki batty boy, as I said, that tells us all we need to know about you 🙏🏻 Straight men, like women, and like to indulge. Batty boys, think women are yucky 😅🤣🤣
@@FEVERDREAM889 Ofcourse thats your preference do what you want. But the video was talking about men whos secretly gay... Thats why I said, this is a sign that they are 100% without a doubt, secretly gay. 👍🏻
This girl talking about " having gay experiences doesn't make you gay. " GIRL it don't matter what your gay agenda is. If you sleep with men who are " finding themselves" with other men, you are at a higher risk to DIE. I don't play with men who are bi or have been with men. You can live your best life in these streets, hoeing it up with whomever you please, but don't make this normal.
it doesn’t tho, women are free to experiment with other women and still be considered straight, some ppl are just curious and sexuality is a spectrum, the only thing i can critique dl men on is being open and honest about them questioning
@@h3tur sexuality isn't free. There are consequences and you die from that sometimes. I'm sorry that your p*** rotted brain can't see that but don't try to convince women that we don't need to worry about bisexual men
@@KurosakiLuvar01 girl!!! I have an idea! Test: While getting to know him watching this film together and noting down his reactions 😂😂micro expressions, comments, etc. or telling him some story like this is your favorite film because Heath Ledger is your favorite actor and you really loved cowboy stuff when you were 12 and always dressed cowgirl for Halloween, some random sentimental reason he can’t argue against, then making him watch it a bunch of random times and see how it goes 😂 A guy I dated made me watch Sleepless in Seattle 4 or 5 times as a test… and he actually fell asleep midway 4/5. To see if I was patient and to secretly tell me he suffered from insomnia and this made him sleepy 😂 so is fair game! So much can be known about people from the media they consume and love. I also have a theory: men who love ship movies tend to be more traditionally masculine. For real. The most masculine guys I have met had a ship film as his favorite or had some ship hobbies, like building ships inside bottles. Is also a double test… sometimes men don’t love the boat and the adventure, they love that they are trapped in the middle of the sea with other men 😂 so making him watch ship films or see if he is into that can also be a good test. So loving ships is good…. Loving the navy buddies and the isolation from women not so much.
From my observation, it appears 8 out of every 10 Men in North America struggle with Zestyness. It's wild out here, that's why I roll solo dolo. Ladies be safe youheard. Bless up
Yep being absent from the kids, talking up their best guy friends, and openly homophobic SCREAMS “in the closet”. But as women we have to LISTEN to these hints while they are happening. Not complaining about it 10 years later on TikTok. Sometimes we are quick to label everyone as a narcissist and gas lighter but we also need our women’s intuition and wake the heck up!!! 😂
I'm sooo sorry to hear your story!! Men are crazy! Hope you'll be able to get over it 🥰 The number of gay/DL men is super HIGH!! I really think that most of the men out there are hot for each other! It's difficult to be a woman nowadays.
@@BLKfootIndianinstead of pretending to be native american. Why don't you learn how to read. You know I understand the No child Left behind policy did leave you behind. Read the comment again keep reading it until you understand. If you don't understand you can always ask questions.
@@terjemarken2411oh yes I got over it. I kept blaming myself but my therapist said that was his true nature. He was never into you you were just a cover for him. Because his family is super religious and being gay will get you kicked out the family. They sent one of his cousins to a conversion camp. He decided to be honest a year later over facebook. He begged me to hear him out and I did. The only reason why he came back into my life was because he and his partner wanted a child. They were willing to pay me to be a surrogate. But they also wanted to use my eggs. That was not happening. I said it was weird enough that you cheated on me. But not only that you want me to birth a baby that will genetically belong to me. And you want me to give up my parental rights so that you and him can raise the child? He also saw that I had another baby. So he's mad that I can't give him that opportunity.
@@ReinaAfricana Thank you so much for telling me all this! 🥰 You're brave and honest! I think you did the right decisions here not to give birth to a child. Life can be very difficult but I do hope you're doing well now!!! ❤
No one wants to admit or talk about it but a lot of this is due to smexual abuse at a young age. Think about it, if your first smexual experience is with a man, it will confuse your smexuality.
My ex was bi, he it or lied about it for like 5 years but when I found out I was so glad he told me, I was incredibly understanding and accept his deception bc I tried to understand all the whys etc. and I loved him, and I wanting him to live an authentic life, I even wanted to join him, or allow him to have a dl time once in a while even tho it gutted me I wanted us to be happy. He always said he wanted me to join but somehow always only did his thing with other people and never me and there was always an excuse. At that point I said it was unacceptable bc he was stringing me along especially when he “turned asexual” to avoid sleeping w me - his girlfriend of seven years at that point… I kicked him out. I tried to be accepting and totally open for years just being such a loser to myself and to my own humility. So humiliating. Why can’t people just be honest w themselves and others .
He played you to preserve the status quo. It wasn't personal - any woman would have done, but why bother finding someone new, after he had you trained well enough and conditioned to accept his BS. Hope you know and do better now!
Seems like you were very calm and understanding with him though, when he finally told you his secret. Very respectful done!! You must be very open minded and understanding! 🥰 Would've been a great solution if you'd let him have some 'man-man time' from now and then, as long as you'd be having control over it. If you could be joining them (him + another man) it'd have been even better!
@@terjemarken2411 Did you even read what she was saying? He didn't want her to join in or experiment with, even when she offered. He used her as a front, to hide as a normal hetero male behind. Total dishonesty + disrespect and a user as well, wasting 5 years of her precious [and presumable fertile] life time with nowhere to go and nothing to show for. For young and middle aged women - these are the limited years they have available of having kids + raising a family, if that is what they desire - not to be a front to hide behind because you are too much of a coward to stand up for your proclivities and preferences.
Girl everybody fighting demons we are all fighting the same thing but some of them are sooo sensitive and selfish that they are calling human issues demons for an excuse to act out. Ain’t no demons that’s what they want to do and they do it. We have all been there where we have had a good excuse to wild out and haven’t.
Most men need religion/philosophy/stoicism to soothe the savage beast! Revelation 13:18: "Here is wisdom: Let him that hath understanding count the number of the beast, for it is the number of a MAN; and his number is six hundred threescore and six."
A lot of women be on the DL too. I know a few women who had extensive “experiences” with other women and are married to men today. There are also women in their 30s who are DL that prey on younger guys who are reckless with their seeds. Gay is on both sides, but you only hear black people obsess over it.
See this is where some queer people act like critical thinking is extreme weight lifting. Just because I’m not attracted to a bisexual man doesn’t make me homophobic. I love queer people, just not to date because I’m strictly straight. I would like my man to be the same. It doesn’t intimidate me, it just makes me feel as though he may ask me to do things that I wouldn’t be comfortable doing and that’s fine. Go ask someone else, I’m not the one for you baby.
What is the first girl talking about smh. Women don’t have to date gay or bisexual men. I also don’t want to date non-monogamous men. Is that wrong too? Bc if I find out you are cheating I’m done lol
I ask men nowadays, I also ask them if they engage in sex with trans women, and/or prefer anal sex giving and receiving. This is how I determine if the man is a good fit for me on an intimate level.
I always look them in the eyes and ask them if they’re gay, if you ask them directly, you can really get a sense of whether or not they’re lying, always follow your intuition
@ way i look at it is the purpose of asking is so later on down the road they cant say you never asked. And a better question is are you bi not gay. A person say they are not gay they go both ways
only thing i can critique dl men on is, don’t bring other ppl into your questioning, im all for exploration and finding your label because sexuality is a spectrum but HONESTY’S THE BEST POLICY, im bi myself so i wouldn’t mind at all dating a bi man, & if he finds himself solely attracted to men i’d expect a sit down talk to be broken up with, not cheated on:(
Confirmation bias, you erase good bi men or the idea of them using bi erasure retorict, then trauma bond over these horror stories. which i deeply feel sorry for.
Sis, the woman with the HIV + husband is a very complicated case. I know its shocking to see her still supporting him but sometimes as women we give so much of ourselves and get trapped by love for another human that we sacrifice all for them. Understand that this can also include our parents/children and other family members. We can't assume that she is still sleeping with him but she shows her love by being supportive to him, maybe she has small children with him...very complicated case. I'm not making excuses for her or him but life is not always black and white so many gray areas. Lets also add that religious beliefs convolute our thought process too...prayers to her prayers to all women in this universe who battle day by day to make it and stand strong, for ourselves our children and grandchildren too....peace/health/blessings to you all 🙏🏻😇🙏🏻💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Especially if she has children in the house - he needs to go! Whether they are his/theirs or hers from previous relationships. He looks F'd up in the last clip - high or tired + ill, but still flirts for the camera and makes googoo eyes - because he knows some gay guys will watch her videos too. If I'm an adult - I can evaluate the risk I am taking by living with someone that is HIV positive, kids cannot and do not - and clearly that man doesn't give a flip to keep her [or anybody else] safe, else he would not have exposed her and continues to do so. With all due respect - she's either being stupid or stupid in love - or she has a nice life insurance policy on him and she's playing the long game... I'd put his a$$ in jail - he can have all the D he craves for there, and then some!
I am always stunned by the way people talking about homosexuality as if it was a good thing knowing the story of sodome and Gomorrah. Don't they know how much God is disgusted by that, and how he destroyed an entire kingdom because of that. Are they forgetting or this story never got to their ears or they don't just fear God at all ? That's crazy
It’s not mysoginy to want a straight man, and it’s not homophobia!
This!
Yep. I don't "decided" to not be attracted. I'm just not attracted. Period. It's NOT a choice.
There's nothing ladylike about being a 🐓 sucker 🤮 there's nothing feminine about that 😂 AND you don't even get off on it
yea that girl was tripping
Thank you, because I was getting ready to go ham on ol gurl @ 3:24 talking nonsense! PH all thrown off! Flora completely disrupted! 😅. No thank you miss mommas!
Me wanting a straight man that only wants women and NOT MEN is NOT homophobic. Smh TF from with people smh
It's Biphobia but It's your right to be that way
@@kevaughncampbell-el1xtwe don’t give af even you pointing that out means you are also part of the problem.I will start calling you people straighphobic so keep it up 🤨
@@kevaughncampbell-el1xtno its not….. Y'all lame asf fr and y'all need to grab some therapy
I think it's a sign of the times. That it's time for women to change their perspectives about love, family, and marriage. Change it to single, alone, self-sufficient, and single motherhood if you have children. Prosper on your own. I have nothing against gay, les, or bisexuality per se, but I think that women should reform their minds to singleness and making it on their own. Even same-sex couples are not doing well. Many women are becoming millionaires on their own, and this is how it should continue going.
Threatening a man with prison is threatening him with a good time. Living their full fantasy unbothered.
Fact!!! 100%
I’m tired of people saying it’s homophobic to not date bi men. You would never say anything if a bi person said “I only date other bi-sexual people”
They can call me homophobic all day. I do not want to date bisexual men! They are a extra extra risk to my physical health. Straight men are already at risk, now you want me to mess with a bisexual one? Nah
they only date other bis cause its safer, its like saying i wint date a murders, i only date people that care about my safety
Its the reason why you dont date them,you dont have to date bi men however the reaspn you dont want to date them can be in predujice
@@sweetie_buns i feel you. My reasoning is simply because I want to date someone who is also straight. 🤷🏽♀️ nothing hidden behind it, and lots of people assume their is something behind it
@@sweetie_bunshoney you are not the relationship police nobody owes you a reason why they don’t want to date alphabet people.Go sit down snowflake we are all tired of you people.
It is so scary out here. They're either down low or low down!
Sad but true Sis!!
Ooh chile, no. 4B. Men bring entirely too much and too much worry. I don't think I can do it again
@Prismatic9008 I am with you, Sister, Time-stamp 1:30....Not according to the Scriptures regarding homosexuals. That woman is cursed and it will not be a pleasant life.
4B forever ❤
4B🎉✨️
@@Sanderson5CLCthank you ❤
Definitely HEAVY on 4B!!!!
This is nothing new , back in the early 2000s I talked to Men that was curious being with men. One of them were married with a family.
I am not surprised at all, I have taken several seats, I made the decision I will never date or marry again.
Too many illnesses and New STDs are being passed around. I am doing just fine staying to myself. There are alot of bitter Men today. Be safe everyone, you will never know someone intentions .
When this man from 15:05 was explaining signs of DL men, I just remembered Myron’s behavior from “fresh n fit”🧐😂😂
Him and the other dude gotta be hunching on the low💯
Myron .... most definitely
The signs ☢️ are usually right in front of you. Ladies be safe ❤
Be carful ladies and gentlemen with raising male and female teenagers. The lady was right men will be attracted to their step children and also I’ve heard of a male friend of the family abusing his friend a teen son.
Once you bring a life into this world you should vet every soul that comes near it, even if you knew them well before the children appeared . The prey on those that are vulnerable are at an all time high. Lord pls help us all 🙏🏾
The Lord makes all
I had a relationship at a YOUNG age with a young man who was DL. He normalized sexual abuse and sexual humiliation. He sexually attacked my FEMININITY and PUNISHED me sexually. I thought this was normal. As an adult and discovering....over the years....his secrets....I understand he HATED my GIRLHOOD. He HATED my BLOSSOMING and ATTACKED it.....I'm grateful for my inner strength and got away.
He did this because he envied you. DL men date women they would like to be. He 100 per cent was envious of your beauty. Most of them are.
They need a woman to continue to make more men
Not only wary of men you sleep with. The men who try to befriend you and other male friends. Be wary and careful of them THE MOST.
Why do you say that? What do they do as friends?
I used to have a guy friend who was very flirty and touchy with me, but I also suspected could be on the DL and was using me as a cover up. He was single for 7 years and claimed to have been celibate for most of those years, struggled with temptations and inner demons. He had some other female friend overseas he was obsessed with who rejected him, but he was also saying and doing sus things. I later recognized he displayed narcissistic characteristics and was manipulating me, lying and trauma dumping. Im so grateful that he disappeared. I really have trouble trusting since that experience and decided that I actually feel and do better being single.
@@artbygilik yes!! I have trust issues for very similar reason and situations. I’m glad you are okay and doing much better!! 💖💖💖
@ thank you, I’m sorry to hear that. Reflecting back on many of my romantic relationships I now realize that I was the most stressed and depressed when I was in one or looking for one. Now I found much more peace focusing on my business, my fitness and friendships. Sad thing is that guy is out there playing with more ladies emotions.
The lady with the husband that's "POSITIVE " I'm so confused. Love yourself, because no one should be able to pick the decisions in your life. That's SICK🤮
It’s scary and sad how delusional , gullible and desperate some women are. I see it every day where bw are with dudes who are DL and those men deceive them day in day out makin a fool out of the woman they’re with. The irony is the easier/more desperate and more shallow/vain women as a whole have become the more men prefer dudes. The irony of it all
Again the TH-cam employee deleted a factual comment. Imagine someone working for this platform and let his s.preference make him so hypersensitive that he deletes neutral factual comments and opinions. Some people really need some ment.evaluation before getting hired, it’s so unprofessional
@@IntegrityMeansAllmy comment got deleted as well…I just hate that they are pushing this on us and we just want a man that doesn’t want another man….the way a man who likes men doesn’t want a woman, you don’t hear us complaining
Don't ask any of them. Get medical clearance if you want intimacy. Shame on them for not being proud of their sexuality.
It is not misogynistic or homophobic to not be attracted to bi dexual men. And if it is then I will GLADLY be those things
Thank you, because I was getting ready to go ham on ol gurl @ 3:24 talking nonsense! PH all thrown off! Flora completely disrupted! 😅. No thank you miss mommas!
I mean… that girl comes from a gay dad and a straight mom, I would take her opinion with a kilo of marine salt 🧂 not to say, we can’t socialize away the most primal aspects of our nature. A dude having sex with you after he was inside the a** of some dude… no thank you. That’s gross and disgust is something that keeps us safe, is like a moral system built inside.
Guys I have a theory, I feel like it’s cultural. Like how people get attracted to what ever the beauty standard that’s promoted. I feel cultures that worship butts and think the butt is the most attractive physical attribute and obsess over butts have more gay men. I feel like cultures who value facial prettiness or breasts as the most sexually important feature have more straight men. Just something I observed.
To challenge your theory, how is it in Ancient Greek society there was a high homosexual rate where they did not glorify the posterior seeing that demographically speaking, the people were not well endowed in their buttocks. The same goes for ancient Japan where they believed intercourse should not be restricted since it is natural. They even categorized same-sex relations based on the different age groups. So if you want to make a base less theory, do some research because it's borderline rac!st.
So maybe it’s time for bw to stop leading with the size of their bums and maybe even get skinny/thin and the culture will slowly start to shift back to normalcy?
@@Blissedx to be honest, some can't help the size of their butt. It's just in their make up but leading with it, is the problem! Like, all of the pics with the side or back view, etc
Interesting observation !!!! I agree ❤
Right pansexuality
It's not nowadays. It's has always been like this.
Shocking to learn
The only sign I need: *Does not wanna eat 🐱*. Thats aaaaall I need to know, say no more, byeee 😂😂😂
😂😂🤚🏽
I don't like oral sex performed on me. It's just a texture thing for me. To each our own, right, lol.
BUT my red flag for dudes is when I tell them that, if they make any kind of suggestion about how they might be able to do it on me, like they can change me, I'm done with them. The only correct response is to say okay indicating they will respect my boundary/preference.
I don’t eat cat I’m not gay
@@Gqrican94 oki batty boy, as I said, that tells us all we need to know about you 🙏🏻 Straight men, like women, and like to indulge. Batty boys, think women are yucky 😅🤣🤣
@@FEVERDREAM889 Ofcourse thats your preference do what you want. But the video was talking about men whos secretly gay... Thats why I said, this is a sign that they are 100% without a doubt, secretly gay. 👍🏻
I love my single life. 🥰💯
This girl talking about " having gay experiences doesn't make you gay. " GIRL it don't matter what your gay agenda is. If you sleep with men who are " finding themselves" with other men, you are at a higher risk to DIE. I don't play with men who are bi or have been with men. You can live your best life in these streets, hoeing it up with whomever you please, but don't make this normal.
it doesn’t tho, women are free to experiment with other women and still be considered straight, some ppl are just curious and sexuality is a spectrum, the only thing i can critique dl men on is being open and honest about them questioning
@@h3tur sexuality isn't free. There are consequences and you die from that sometimes. I'm sorry that your p*** rotted brain can't see that but don't try to convince women that we don't need to worry about bisexual men
@@h3turthats gay too
Sexuality is on a spectrum? What a shame
She's crazy😂
So many men out here seem to be into the Brokeback Mountain lifestyle.
And they always talk crap about that movie because it’s what they are LIVING. Without the cowboy hats and horses 😂😂😂
@@KurosakiLuvar01 girl!!! I have an idea! Test: While getting to know him watching this film together and noting down his reactions 😂😂micro expressions, comments, etc. or telling him some story like this is your favorite film because Heath Ledger is your favorite actor and you really loved cowboy stuff when you were 12 and always dressed cowgirl for Halloween, some random sentimental reason he can’t argue against, then making him watch it a bunch of random times and see how it goes 😂
A guy I dated made me watch Sleepless in Seattle 4 or 5 times as a test… and he actually fell asleep midway 4/5. To see if I was patient and to secretly tell me he suffered from insomnia and this made him sleepy 😂 so is fair game! So much can be known about people from the media they consume and love.
I also have a theory: men who love ship movies tend to be more traditionally masculine. For real. The most masculine guys I have met had a ship film as his favorite or had some ship hobbies, like building ships inside bottles. Is also a double test… sometimes men don’t love the boat and the adventure, they love that they are trapped in the middle of the sea with other men 😂 so making him watch ship films or see if he is into that can also be a good test. So loving ships is good…. Loving the navy buddies and the isolation from women not so much.
Bareback mountain
@lansvance4870 It's horrible what men has become. They are not to be trusted--EVER!!!!!!!
From my observation, it appears 8 out of every 10 Men in North America struggle with Zestyness. It's wild out here, that's why I roll solo dolo. Ladies be safe youheard. Bless up
I'm sorrow I'm not share my MAN with nobody!
Yep being absent from the kids, talking up their best guy friends, and openly homophobic SCREAMS “in the closet”. But as women we have to LISTEN to these hints while they are happening. Not complaining about it 10 years later on TikTok. Sometimes we are quick to label everyone as a narcissist and gas lighter but we also need our women’s intuition and wake the heck up!!! 😂
My ex cheated on me with his "home boy". I always worried about the women at his job. Only to catch him and his boyfriend in my bed😩.
I'm sooo sorry to hear your story!! Men are crazy! Hope you'll be able to get over it 🥰 The number of gay/DL men is super HIGH!! I really think that most of the men out there are hot for each other! It's difficult to be a woman nowadays.
Well u can either stay or go ask the Creator how to operate
@@BLKfootIndianinstead of pretending to be native american. Why don't you learn how to read. You know I understand the No child Left behind policy did leave you behind. Read the comment again keep reading it until you understand. If you don't understand you can always ask questions.
@@terjemarken2411oh yes I got over it. I kept blaming myself but my therapist said that was his true nature. He was never into you you were just a cover for him. Because his family is super religious and being gay will get you kicked out the family. They sent one of his cousins to a conversion camp. He decided to be honest a year later over facebook. He begged me to hear him out and I did. The only reason why he came back into my life was because he and his partner wanted a child. They were willing to pay me to be a surrogate. But they also wanted to use my eggs. That was not happening. I said it was weird enough that you cheated on me. But not only that you want me to birth a baby that will genetically belong to me. And you want me to give up my parental rights so that you and him can raise the child? He also saw that I had another baby. So he's mad that I can't give him that opportunity.
@@ReinaAfricana Thank you so much for telling me all this! 🥰 You're brave and honest! I think you did the right decisions here not to give birth to a child. Life can be very difficult but I do hope you're doing well now!!! ❤
When African ppl say the word 'gay" I buss out laughing. They make it sound like its not a real word😂
Wait😂😂how does it sound?
@@mskabueGaihh
@@mskabue like: Geh!! 😂😂😂😂😂
No one wants to admit or talk about it but a lot of this is due to smexual abuse at a young age. Think about it, if your first smexual experience is with a man, it will confuse your smexuality.
The effects of porn.
Some*
25:55 She needs her own TV show.🤣She's so animated and dramatic.🤣 If anyone knows an Agent, reach out! 😂😂 Her...FK NO!..had me rollin! 😂
Men enjoy each other's company but turn out 2b wanting a rich daddy treatment themselves
Yes girl, men like men!
Everything the Sovereign Woman listed was facts.
My ex was bi, he it or lied about it for like 5 years but when I found out I was so glad he told me, I was incredibly understanding and accept his deception bc I tried to understand all the whys etc. and I loved him, and I wanting him to live an authentic life, I even wanted to join him, or allow him to have a dl time once in a while even tho it gutted me I wanted us to be happy. He always said he wanted me to join but somehow always only did his thing with other people and never me and there was always an excuse. At that point I said it was unacceptable bc he was stringing me along especially when he “turned asexual” to avoid sleeping w me - his girlfriend of seven years at that point… I kicked him out. I tried to be accepting and totally open for years just being such a loser to myself and to my own humility. So humiliating. Why can’t people just be honest w themselves and others .
He played you to preserve the status quo. It wasn't personal - any woman would have done, but why bother finding someone new, after he had you trained well enough and conditioned to accept his BS. Hope you know and do better now!
Seems like you were very calm and understanding with him though, when he finally told you his secret. Very respectful done!! You must be very open minded and understanding! 🥰 Would've been a great solution if you'd let him have some 'man-man time' from now and then, as long as you'd be having control over it. If you could be joining them (him + another man) it'd have been even better!
@@terjemarken2411 Did you even read what she was saying? He didn't want her to join in or experiment with, even when she offered. He used her as a front, to hide as a normal hetero male behind. Total dishonesty + disrespect and a user as well, wasting 5 years of her precious [and presumable fertile] life time with nowhere to go and nothing to show for. For young and middle aged women - these are the limited years they have available of having kids + raising a family, if that is what they desire - not to be a front to hide behind because you are too much of a coward to stand up for your proclivities and preferences.
@@ssiegreen5292 You're 100% right here!! Her text was cut off (didn't show full text) when I read her comment. I thought I'd read it all. My fault.
I guess I'm good with being homophobic then........?
Just wow, lady. No it's not homophobic to decide you don't want a certain type of man period.
Girl everybody fighting demons we are all fighting the same thing but some of them are sooo sensitive and selfish that they are calling human issues demons for an excuse to act out. Ain’t no demons that’s what they want to do and they do it. We have all been there where we have had a good excuse to wild out and haven’t.
Thanks for sharing.
Most men need religion/philosophy/stoicism to soothe the savage beast! Revelation 13:18: "Here is wisdom: Let him that hath understanding count the number of the beast, for it is the number of a MAN; and his number is six hundred threescore and six."
Iron Maiden!
Gurl. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Gurl. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@angelamohammed9464 Most of these men are devils!😏😒
Damn you just schooled me 😂🤚🏽🤚🏽
A lot of women be on the DL too. I know a few women who had extensive “experiences” with other women and are married to men today. There are also women in their 30s who are DL that prey on younger guys who are reckless with their seeds. Gay is on both sides, but you only hear black people obsess over it.
Right women be on downlow but we only speak about men on the downlow
I think black people only obsess with men being gay.
So much this.
The teacher one my gawd!
In the LAST days , MEN will be lovers of themselves !!! 2nd tim 3:1-9 🎉
Girl stop it with that middle ages propaganda. It has no place in a modern society.
Is happening
Amen, we are living these things out in this very present day 🙏🏻😇🙏🏻💖💖💖💖
😮😮😮😮
@@FELIZEVEE Exactly. I believe that most men already do prefer being with other men 😅
See this is where some queer people act like critical thinking is extreme weight lifting. Just because I’m not attracted to a bisexual man doesn’t make me homophobic. I love queer people, just not to date because I’m strictly straight. I would like my man to be the same. It doesn’t intimidate me, it just makes me feel as though he may ask me to do things that I wouldn’t be comfortable doing and that’s fine. Go ask someone else, I’m not the one for you baby.
my literal biggest fear.
To many DL bc they marry women and we have DL kids that Y.
What is the first girl talking about smh. Women don’t have to date gay or bisexual men. I also don’t want to date non-monogamous men. Is that wrong too? Bc if I find out you are cheating I’m done lol
if a bi man isnt cheating on his girl, they will call him str8, thats bierasure
Lady at 33:46 always keeps it 💯
33:36 Chile who gonna tell her
I believe I saw a video of her talking about how her husband gave her that pack...
She already knows 😬
Guh😫🥴
Question are women asking men are they gay or just assuming they are straight?
Like they will tell the truth 😂
I ask men nowadays, I also ask them if they engage in sex with trans women, and/or prefer anal sex giving and receiving. This is how I determine if the man is a good fit for me on an intimate level.
Why should we have to ask? If they are gay, why would they be up in our face? This is why being DL is a betrayal. Go be gay!!!
I always look them in the eyes and ask them if they’re gay, if you ask them directly, you can really get a sense of whether or not they’re lying, always follow your intuition
@ way i look at it is the purpose of asking is so later on down the road they cant say you never asked. And a better question is are you bi not gay. A person say they are not gay they go both ways
27:36 😂😂😂 she’s funny 😆
I also didn't expect that😂😂
I have a coworker that has us rolling with her story telling. Something about that sweet country accent. 😂
Yess😂😂😂
Because its not considered Immoral..duh Sodom and Gommorah. For centuries eventually it becomes common..
Sodom and Gommorah also teaches inc*stry is okay..🤢🤮
only thing i can critique dl men on is, don’t bring other ppl into your questioning, im all for exploration and finding your label because sexuality is a spectrum but HONESTY’S THE BEST POLICY, im bi myself so i wouldn’t mind at all dating a bi man, & if he finds himself solely attracted to men i’d expect a sit down talk to be broken up with, not cheated on:(
Being ioen to bi men opens more issues with your biological health. Id rather be called misogynistic on that issue alone
Me too 🤚🏽
Confirmation bias, you erase good bi men or the idea of them using bi erasure retorict, then trauma bond over these horror stories. which i deeply feel sorry for.
Sis, the woman with the HIV + husband is a very complicated case. I know its shocking to see her still supporting him but sometimes as women we give so much of ourselves and get trapped by love for another human that we sacrifice all for them. Understand that this can also include our parents/children and other family members. We can't assume that she is still sleeping with him but she shows her love by being supportive to him, maybe she has small children with him...very complicated case. I'm not making excuses for her or him but life is not always black and white so many gray areas. Lets also add that religious beliefs convolute our thought process too...prayers to her prayers to all women in this universe who battle day by day to make it and stand strong, for ourselves our children and grandchildren too....peace/health/blessings to you all 🙏🏻😇🙏🏻💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Especially if she has children in the house - he needs to go! Whether they are his/theirs or hers from previous relationships. He looks F'd up in the last clip - high or tired + ill, but still flirts for the camera and makes googoo eyes - because he knows some gay guys will watch her videos too.
If I'm an adult - I can evaluate the risk I am taking by living with someone that is HIV positive, kids cannot and do not - and clearly that man doesn't give a flip to keep her [or anybody else] safe, else he would not have exposed her and continues to do so. With all due respect - she's either being stupid or stupid in love - or she has a nice life insurance policy on him and she's playing the long game... I'd put his a$$ in jail - he can have all the D he craves for there, and then some!
I am always stunned by the way people talking about homosexuality as if it was a good thing knowing the story of sodome and Gomorrah. Don't they know how much God is disgusted by that, and how he destroyed an entire kingdom because of that.
Are they forgetting or this story never got to their ears or they don't just fear God at all ?
That's crazy
So your god is cool with family members having s*x with each other?🧐
Some folks dont know the story everybody does not read the Bible nor believe in the story.
@all
3:47 She look like she like bi men.
Women who like bi men..... what do they look like??
@ 😅bi themselves