It took me a long time to realize my worth although he never told me to leave I knew he checked out a long time ago by his actions. now days I will never forget “never let a man tell you twice that he don’t want you” -Judge Lynn Toler
God created each one of us to complement our spouse and vice versa. Complement, not compete. Pray for grace. Invite God into your relationship. God's timing, his will, and plans are always good. Praying God's healing, restoration, and blessings over everyone. ❤🙏
When you guys mentioned about the help from the spouse during pregnancy I agree what you guys said that was one of the factor as to why I was ok divorcing my ex. Going through 2 pregnancy my ex was never really there for me. After birth I still had to cook and looked after myself while he took maternity leave off work just to play video games. My heart 💔 bc I really thought he would be better for our 2nd son but nope. And it didn’t help that my mother in law said it was ok bc she mentioned that she had it worst then I did normalizing that her son not being there for me after giving birth was ok. But In my heart 💔 I knew it was wrong bc I’ve seen how much my brothers loved their wife’s and seeing a lot supporting husbands while I looked at mines and he was not supportive at all. I don’t regret divorcing my ex.
From a men prospective: regarding having children it’s reasonable because of their age. Regarding the budget, it’s not a red flag, instead it’s his vulnerability admission defining roles in the relationship. I’ve been married for 22 years, my wife takes care of all the finances and it works great for us
Nothing wrong with marriage and children? Hmong women just seem to be doing it way too early? I blame the parents and family for allowing it to happen? They need to stop that nonsense!!
@@TheHmongWomenPodcast yeah, he’s to blame as well? But it’s always the girls side who’s pushing it, just because he took her out, come back a little bit late etc… the guys side is gonna lose something, whether they don’t want to, so since they’re gonna lose some money in the process? They’ll just agree with the marriage instead of losing the money and not get anything back?
It took me a long time to realize my worth although he never told me to leave I knew he checked out a long time ago by his actions. now days I will never forget “never let a man tell you twice that he don’t want you” -Judge Lynn Toler
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us! You are so strong, our sister. Sending you so much love!
God created each one of us to complement our spouse and vice versa. Complement, not compete. Pray for grace. Invite God into your relationship. God's timing, his will, and plans are always good. Praying God's healing, restoration, and blessings over everyone. ❤🙏
When you guys mentioned about the help from the spouse during pregnancy I agree what you guys said that was one of the factor as to why I was ok divorcing my ex. Going through 2 pregnancy my ex was never really there for me. After birth I still had to cook and looked after myself while he took maternity leave off work just to play video games. My heart 💔 bc I really thought he would be better for our 2nd son but nope. And it didn’t help that my mother in law said it was ok bc she mentioned that she had it worst then I did normalizing that her son not being there for me after giving birth was ok. But In my heart 💔 I knew it was wrong bc I’ve seen how much my brothers loved their wife’s and seeing a lot supporting husbands while I looked at mines and he was not supportive at all. I don’t regret divorcing my ex.
From a men prospective: regarding having children it’s reasonable because of their age. Regarding the budget, it’s not a red flag, instead it’s his vulnerability admission defining roles in the relationship. I’ve been married for 22 years, my wife takes care of all the finances and it works great for us
Thanks for your perspective!
Nothing wrong with marriage and children? Hmong women just seem to be doing it way too early? I blame the parents and family for allowing it to happen? They need to stop that nonsense!!
Why only blame the women and parents and not also the man entering that marriage?
@@TheHmongWomenPodcast yeah, he’s to blame as well? But it’s always the girls side who’s pushing it, just because he took her out, come back a little bit late etc… the guys side is gonna lose something, whether they don’t want to, so since they’re gonna lose some money in the process? They’ll just agree with the marriage instead of losing the money and not get anything back?