Erik Erikson’s Identity Crisis: Who am I?

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  • Matt discusses how we form our identity and what that means for our success as an adult. You don’t want to miss this one!

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  • @billburwood7047
    @billburwood7047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I started this stage of life when I was 23, not 12

  • @DonteRicardo656
    @DonteRicardo656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I also want to apologize for anybody who witnessed or was a victim of my extremist behavior, midlife identity crisis, drug and alcohol abuse over the past several years. Everything I went through mentally, ideologically and physically only shaped me into the young hard working black man that I am today. I still have a lot of growing to do, but am proud of my self for how far I have come as a person. I have finally found myself in this crazy world. One thing I still need to work on is my attitude and anger problems. For anybody that reads this, take my advice and don’t let anybody be a victim of your own problems and just have good intentions and and strive to be a better you each day. Lets all work on ourselves for a better and more global order of things, but first it starts with ourselves.

  • @buddyroach
    @buddyroach 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I'm 35 and I still don't know who the fuck i am. All I know is I constantly self reflect now and look back at how I handled situations like having a conversation and can't help but cringe at how socially awkward i felt and how weird I mustve come off to other people. Or how they may misunderstand my behavior for something negative when really I am just very uncomfortable and don't know what to do. This video helped me understand a little bit on how and why I'm like this today. Still don't know who I am though and I probably never will.

    • @Baddawg_313
      @Baddawg_313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What are you?

    • @buddyroach
      @buddyroach 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Baddawg_313 I honestly don't know. For all I know, I could be an interdimensional higher being under the influence of a drug that alters time and this life I'm currently in here is just a big hallucinogenic trip the higher being is experiencing.

    • @mscutie-rd3vn
      @mscutie-rd3vn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do the same.

    • @DarkWings008
      @DarkWings008 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      we all are Lost, my friend :)

    • @zakarylarochebouthillette2654
      @zakarylarochebouthillette2654 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Something that might help you find yourself is to dive into a new world. Maybe let go of your current job, or lifestyle if that is possible. Just discover without knowing what the f you’re doing. Maybe travel in a country with limited amount of money and just let life lead the way.

  • @youdeservetobehappynow7584
    @youdeservetobehappynow7584 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have an identity crisis. I have trust issues and I don't fit in everywhere I go. But I know what I want to do and what I don't want to do, it just happens that I don't have anyone beside me

  • @alanveiga452
    @alanveiga452 8 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    I didn't belong to any clique. My adolescence started in my 20s lmfao. That's when I started to find out who I truly am.

    • @djordjesm7431
      @djordjesm7431 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this is not posisblle from definition of adolescentia.And what you be in 24.year old period.help me im confused im young but have depresia becouse im not anymore so young.Or im_

    • @alanveiga452
      @alanveiga452 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Djordje SM7 I meant my life really started when I was in my 20s. That's when I moved out of my parent's house and started to live on my own.I began to study philosophy and learned a little bit more about who I really am. My personal identity and convictions were shaped at that crucial period of my life. Your life begins in your 20s and 30s, man. At least what's what it's like for most people. Being young sucks. If I were given a choice I'd never go back to my teenage years. They were the worst period of my life. I believe a good relief for depression is throwing yourself out there. This sounds like a cliché, but we all need a sense of purpose, depression comes when you have lost or you haven't found your purpose in life. You must find what you truly want from life, and from that moment on you should pursuit it.

    • @moglychrisochoa6185
      @moglychrisochoa6185 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      dude u look jz like me..😮

    • @moglychrisochoa6185
      @moglychrisochoa6185 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Ericsson Veiga. u look like me dude check out my video..the one under l1f3

    • @nygeek6471
      @nygeek6471 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      you shouldn't listen to folks like "djordje sm7." he is the epitome of "blurt out psychology terms." adolescence is an ambiguous term used to describe a certain cultural phenomenon in the USA. you can enter adolescence late. puberty is a specific time frame and is biological (therefore more accurately defined.) these 100 year old debunked philosophies shouldn't constrain your thinking: if you know you started this process late then you know it better than some dude on the internet with a bachelors in freudian literature.

  • @TheAwesomeDarkNinja
    @TheAwesomeDarkNinja 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    As a psych major, I gotta say I really dig this channel.

  • @reidsjaaheim8237
    @reidsjaaheim8237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I completely failed this stage. I was outwardly successful in many areas, but I had no real identity that i was able to stand behind.
    I've been dealing with serious mental illness ever since. I'm 37 years old now.

  • @espositolne
    @espositolne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have a hard time grasping who i am because of my learning disabilities. Whenever i start to feel confident in my skills when my impairments slow me down and are pointed out by others that confidence crashes. It's hard to say "i am smart i just need extra help in some things" when adults called you lazy and stupid as a kid for struggling in math even though you got straight As and Bs in other subjects.

    • @drmusicclub1784
      @drmusicclub1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you blind? because same is happening with me

  • @iamdreaway
    @iamdreaway 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    First of all I would like to say that this is the best video on identity crisis out there 😭😂👌🏾. It was enthusiastically well explained! 👏🏾

    • @Halima-jb5xb
      @Halima-jb5xb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Andrea's Hall-Way the crying part killed me!😂😂😭😭

  • @vlz7393
    @vlz7393 8 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    .... why gotta hate on canadians?

  • @darcyflierllcswcap7410
    @darcyflierllcswcap7410 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just watched 10 videos to share with my class this morning on this topic and you did a great job! I found my winner. Thanks!

  • @gailashby
    @gailashby 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your teaching style and these videos!

  • @Wanderer1794
    @Wanderer1794 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Matt, excellent video. Thanks much.

  • @01dixieforever01
    @01dixieforever01 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very good videos Mr. Tolbert. I didn't know you started doing TH-cam videos. I loved your lectures!

  • @xDemonTech
    @xDemonTech 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is good stuff! Clear, direct and funny. Thanks

  • @Nayomi888
    @Nayomi888 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you! Another awesome video!!!

  • @onyechegodfrey3899
    @onyechegodfrey3899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such a wonderful teacher

  • @iwillknifeya
    @iwillknifeya 9 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Hahaha! 5:11 - 6:10 pretty much sums up most psychology undergraduates XD It's always hard to find a decent psychologist (or especially psychiatrist) but when you do it is usually because they are cool and have a great rapport with you :) Nice video - keep up the great work!

  • @tamasue1423
    @tamasue1423 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was very entertaining and I learned a lot. Thank you!

  • @pocachontaspocachontas726
    @pocachontaspocachontas726 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for the excellent tutoring!

  • @RottenDoctorGonzo
    @RottenDoctorGonzo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    35 and still struggling.

    • @moonshadow2724
      @moonshadow2724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      35 here too and still struggling. I wonder how the person is doing now that they are 37 :D

    • @stevenewsom3269
      @stevenewsom3269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Weird. I'm 35 also. I used to know who I was, but I underwent some big realizations about life which coerced some big changes and now I'm starting over. Exciting, but scary.

    • @marwamustafa952
      @marwamustafa952 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      33 and still struggling too

  • @esraatawil3397
    @esraatawil3397 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my God! Thanks for this video ❤❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @richydowner7183
    @richydowner7183 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm studying Erikson, fun vid👍

  • @manyofthemmarjoreesaidso9364
    @manyofthemmarjoreesaidso9364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My son 12:11 is turning 18. I'm a shadow but been constantly reminding 3:33 to look within. I cant wait to reunite. Thank you

  • @onyechegodfrey3899
    @onyechegodfrey3899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your presentation

  • @francescamusngi4397
    @francescamusngi4397 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cant help LOL with this!!!! The sound effects are great ahahaha so cute

  • @georgebaily7934
    @georgebaily7934 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I actually love this

  • @nicoletrasmanasllosis622
    @nicoletrasmanasllosis622 ปีที่แล้ว

    EYYYYY! I LUV THE VIBES! THE SOUNDS ! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @theotherway1639
    @theotherway1639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks. Another good resource is the mindfulness book "30 Days to Discover Who I Am" by Harper Daniels. It's online.

  • @alyssadegala6595
    @alyssadegala6595 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job!

  • @mindfulnessasia1082
    @mindfulnessasia1082 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need to know our true identity. We have an eternal spiritual identity. But we also have temporary and changing material identities and labels. Is that who I am? No, those are passing roles that we play on the stage of life.

  • @pizzapig101
    @pizzapig101 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your shirt! such an interesting informative video

  • @wassavi8405
    @wassavi8405 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    U explained so well

  • @mtsitz9042
    @mtsitz9042 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    i just turn 24 last month and I still have identity crisis I just don't know what i wanna persue.... and find out who i am i'm lost...

    • @lex.cordis
      @lex.cordis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm 25 and in the same boat. I'll spare you the details. If it helps at all, at least you're not alone.

    • @Patara.
      @Patara. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here, 17 lost and confused..

    • @bordz68
      @bordz68 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey somebody help me! i am toooo!

    • @ronnoC918
      @ronnoC918 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i just turn 24 months and I still have a trust identity crisis... I just don't know who to trust....

    • @dillonshaikbzeni9391
      @dillonshaikbzeni9391 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmao i think i just had a click

  • @NieceyWeesey
    @NieceyWeesey ปีที่แล้ว

    Where did you get your t-shirt from????

  • @RawrItsPaula
    @RawrItsPaula 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video!

  • @JoeyFrat
    @JoeyFrat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video Mr. Tolbert

  • @emelynreddy5870
    @emelynreddy5870 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where did you get that t-shirt from?

  • @rachel26ram
    @rachel26ram 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you

  • @Sey77
    @Sey77 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video tnx!

  • @youdeservetobehappynow7584
    @youdeservetobehappynow7584 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    After all these years of searching who I am, I don't like or trust people who once betrayed me, it's hard for me to forgive myself, I have so much desires but doesn't have a chance to let it all out, in the end I am not worth in anyone or anything. And a lot more on my diaries. It's hard and finding myself strikes depression and suicidal thoughts

    • @youdeservetobehappynow7584
      @youdeservetobehappynow7584 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anyone else like that?

    • @orenanoyo5108
      @orenanoyo5108 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      so, how s now? are you getting better? would you mind give your way in fix it? i think i had same problem

    • @youdeservetobehappynow7584
      @youdeservetobehappynow7584 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@orenanoyo5108 I hink I'm not still fully okay but I'm changing myself. I learned that things doesn't get better you just get stronger especially in a situation you cannot truly fix because it already happened. Now I just think of the things that I can control, somehow it makes me feel better. Action is the best solution but I can't fully act unless I have a strong inspiration. Just keep choosing life no matter how sad and chaotic it gets. Hope you have a great day

    • @youdeservetobehappynow7584
      @youdeservetobehappynow7584 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Keith Marshall I wish I can write something beautifully

  • @beverlyramsahai8503
    @beverlyramsahai8503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video 😍💯

  • @Getit_gotit_good
    @Getit_gotit_good 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Was that outro about Erikson supposed to be directed to a photo of Freud?

  • @blacksand8427
    @blacksand8427 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a good video

  • @MrStolenakount
    @MrStolenakount ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm 32 and I've come to realise I have no idea who tf I am. I'm the jock and the nerd and the goth at the same time and can just shift my personality and interests to suit. It's served me well thus far. I run a business and have no issues getting along with the contractor or hanging out with top tier CEO's because I'm relatable and can just pop on another mask and off I go. I can dig into people's psyche's and ask the hard questions but when it reverts back to me, I get uncomfortable and I've always wondered why? Maybe it's because I can be anybody but deep down in my core, I am nobody.

    • @altruex
      @altruex 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it seems like youre able to adapt very easily because you have a broad range of perspectives but maybe you just need to take more time reflecting on who you are and and what youre looking for in life

    • @emmamindcoach
      @emmamindcoach 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hello - how's it going? 29 and this is me

  • @DonteRicardo656
    @DonteRicardo656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    After I graduated high school, and after my grandmother past away I went through an identity crisis that literally lasted 8 years, up until now.. I’m 25 about to be 26. After high school i went from the Louis Farrakhan, to the orthodox Islam, to the Hebrew Israelites, and then back to being one of those trump supporting dumbasses like the type of people I grew up around in Loudoun county. Now that my identity crisis has ended I actually ended up becoming a young balanced, hardworking, black man. Respect the way you were brought up, your own culture, but respect others at the same time. Learn and grow. Never try and be something you are not. Stay true yo yourself and your intuition.

  • @33Kellymc
    @33Kellymc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omgoodness! This was hilarious! Good content! Lol

  • @senghji2794
    @senghji2794 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i'm surprised not many people know about this.

    • @TheKarankansal
      @TheKarankansal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They aren't intelligent enough to recognise this!

  • @Utkarshkharb
    @Utkarshkharb ปีที่แล้ว

    In my school in India, there were compulsory uniforms and a lot many restrictions on what you could bring in your backpack. I couldn't explore various parts of my personality due to my social anxiety and depression. I wonder if these contributed to me being a 22 year-old who doesn't have an idea of who he is and what he wants to do in his life.

    • @user-oo3cq9yb7i
      @user-oo3cq9yb7i ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i relate! i grew up in a strict religious household where modesty was huge for us girls and we werent allowed to wear makeup or jewelry, cut our hair, watch tv or listen to certain types of music. i always felt like i lost the opportunity for me to explore my personal interests in my childhood. now i'm a young adult and i don't know where to start. i feel like i dont know myself and im always trying to become a new personality every 2 weeks, from the way i speak or the way i dress, to the way i spend my free time. nothing sticks and i feel extremely lost. i have no idea what im supposed to do in life either :/

  • @DonteRicardo656
    @DonteRicardo656 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    now that I’m not a lost soul, vulnerable to any radical teachings, I’m just glad I found myself in this world. I don’t feel the need to please those around me anymore, and I’m not vulnerable to radical extremist teachings anymore. For anyone reading this message stay away from and do not listen to people of the likes of Donald trump, tucker Carlson, or on the other end of the spectrum, the Hebrew Israelites, or radical Muslim groups, or even gangs. Find balance in activist groups, your hobbies, your career, your spirituality, or global organizations and let’s come together for a better world. I truly think this message can help someone with an identity crisis

  • @Malloubyn
    @Malloubyn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yesterday, I wanted to be a rock star. Bought myself a guitar.
    Today I want to be an astronaut. I bought myself 3 books on astrophysics.
    Now I feel like being a psychologist.
    This is a true story. What’s wrong with me?

    • @reimisugimoto5088
      @reimisugimoto5088 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly, I wish I knew who I was too

    • @yolanda6825
      @yolanda6825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What's wrong is your idea of 'trying' to become who you are. From your story, you're just focusing on your 'wants' out of occasional burst of motivation. Focus first on determining your identity; your skills and abilities. Then you must 'embody' of who you want to be, with respect to your personality.
      If your goal is to be good at math; be a mathematician. If your goal is to be good at music; be a musician. If your goal is to be good at sports; be athletic. Choose who you want to be and embrace it like it's a part of your identity.

    • @dixongraves6910
      @dixongraves6910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You remind me of a friend, is name Jhonny sins

  • @yatoyukine7397
    @yatoyukine7397 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finance also plays a major role in finding one's identity or does it?

  • @limonadekweker4636
    @limonadekweker4636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    the problem is my identity are multiple people. there are a few who take control sometimes

    • @lelya730
      @lelya730 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats dissociative identity disorder, i recommend seeking a therapist to help figure that out.

    • @Gay-yi6yt
      @Gay-yi6yt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lelya730 that’s not what he meant I think

  • @chrisjohnhilis2264
    @chrisjohnhilis2264 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    please upload more

  • @saharamcnamara
    @saharamcnamara ปีที่แล้ว

    Since I was 6 years old (I'm 17 now), I wanted to become an author and write fantasy books. Every family member, every friend, every teacher knows this about me. They always ask me how my book is coming along and I always tell them it's slowly coming together. But the truth is, I don't know if I want to become an author anymore. It's hard because I always had the mindset that I was gonna be an author, no matter what. So now I feel lost and don't know what to do. Creative writing was my identity. I always referred to myself as an "aspiring author" and I don't know how to let go of all that. It's like everything I did, everything I said up to this point, means nothing. It feels like I'm throwing away my identity and I'm afraid of disappointing the people close to me.
    I had 2 mental breakdowns last month, where I couldn't stop crying for hours because I didn't know what to do with myself. Now I'm trying to find myself a new identity or reconnect with the part of myself that wanted to be an author.
    Listing my goals really helps. If you feel lost, list all the things you want to be or have somewhere in the future and then make little steps on how to achieve those things. Then improvise. I believe that it will get better and that I'll be someone I can be proud of in the future.
    Good luck to all of you.

    • @Ojee07
      @Ojee07 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wrote one fourth of a fantasy book, but I just wonder if I could ever get myself to start working on it again. That spirit just kinda dissapeared, I think that I get what you mean.

    • @ember24k80
      @ember24k80 ปีที่แล้ว

      you started with a big project too early imo, not every author wrote a best seller as their first book, i would suggest you tackle your writing in a diferrent manner

  • @rambodjoon
    @rambodjoon 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That's a really cool tshirt

  • @LolaValiant
    @LolaValiant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That pink Freud shit is awesome!!!

  • @MaurSouls
    @MaurSouls ปีที่แล้ว

    Im 25 and having a big identity crisis

  • @trolltrollman4729
    @trolltrollman4729 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Second year psych class brings me here 🤧 interesting stuff

  • @inusannon23
    @inusannon23 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    But look at it this way: what choice do you truly have in what company you keep?

  • @prastutidebi8034
    @prastutidebi8034 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn't expect his high school to be like that😆

  • @ggates5371
    @ggates5371 ปีที่แล้ว

    After getting a BA in Psychology and studying multiple religions, I'm convinced that much of what we call "me" is the invention of advertising and doesn't really exist.

  • @WRist1027
    @WRist1027 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My grandma married some dude along time ago then devorced him but when i was born they game me his last name. To this day i still have that last name and i swear it has something to do with my weird behavoior. Bc that last name doesnt line up with my ethnicity, my culture or anything. One day i hope to change it legally but im in a weird part of my life rn. So yeah

  • @DonteRicardo656
    @DonteRicardo656 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also anyone going through an identity crisis, don’t because you will come out of it a better more humble person.

  • @sunset33533
    @sunset33533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The mindfulness book "30 Days to Discover Who I Am" by Harper Daniels has good exercises and lessons.

  • @kimt8162
    @kimt8162 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not sure I fell this is soooo importnat. If you were in Band, many people move past that as they get older and get into college. So I don't see high school as important as people might think. At 30, band is a different outlook than when you were 16. I think it's more important when you start dating and finding a significant other. The meshing of two identites that start to merge closer to one.

  • @jaspermartin7444
    @jaspermartin7444 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For three cliques he used males as the default but for one clique, a female was used. For the first three male default groups, it is plausible that women can also be nerds, goths and athletes -- but it isn't plausible in our sexist society that males could be categorized in his fourth group. I wish he had used a "group of humans who are interested in art" in place of... "females who excite and support others".
    Other than that minor quibble, this guy looks like a lot of fun (and competent and confident) and I bet he's a lot of fun to work with!

    • @lordfabfurs8927
      @lordfabfurs8927 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't be so pedantic and PC. Everyone understands that either gender can be part of any group.

    • @dalirkosimov2576
      @dalirkosimov2576 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      relax fam its not that deep

    • @Adrian_1114
      @Adrian_1114 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dalirkosimov2576 stress enemy it's monumentally shallow

  • @175cool
    @175cool 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    so funny!

  • @vexintersect1312
    @vexintersect1312 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have that shirt! 6 dollar tees!

  • @akrasia1969
    @akrasia1969 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    So does the individual decide his identity or does society? Is identity subjectively or objectively determined?

    • @toolwatchbldm7461
      @toolwatchbldm7461 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isn't a decision, is more a understanding or discovery of the individual. After that he live his life with that knowledge and purpose.

  • @ravivaradhan4956
    @ravivaradhan4956 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am not what I take myself to be. I am not an engineer. I am not a father/son/brother/husband. I am not an American. I am not a democrat. I am not a Hindu. I am not short, nor heavy. I am not bald nor old. Who am I?

  • @alchemist786
    @alchemist786 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What happened?

  • @Italianbabymakingpasta
    @Italianbabymakingpasta ปีที่แล้ว

    All I know about myself is my taste in music.

  • @wendymeng5013
    @wendymeng5013 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But..I don't think cliques exist in my high school =o= p.s. I studied in China

  • @lilym9475
    @lilym9475 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    interesting. :)

  • @yellowdankdimond3195
    @yellowdankdimond3195 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i was depressed for 2 months straight because i couldnt form a click

  • @definitelynottigerwhitten5865
    @definitelynottigerwhitten5865 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Band and wrestling. Almost

  • @Yuno-TJ
    @Yuno-TJ ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy radiats Vsauce energy.

  • @sunshine8338
    @sunshine8338 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are you still here my man? Reply if you are :)

  • @MsInvisiblelight
    @MsInvisiblelight 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Introduction: "Married a Canadian (unfortunately)" ...??
    OOPS!! There goes your credibility, Matt Tolbert!! MEDICE CURA TEIPSUM!!!

    • @Mona-td6nw
      @Mona-td6nw 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      MsInvisiblelight I was thinking the same thing

    • @Chiquepeace
      @Chiquepeace 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      um yah, lost all us Canadian viewers

  • @jestinadavies9998
    @jestinadavies9998 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    guys I'm 15 my grandma and mom force me to be super duper girly so embraced it.
    All my friends know me as a classic girly girl but I am now realizes I don't think that's really me!
    but I like mini skirts, pink, and all that. soooooo now I'm just confused ughhh

  • @cherryblossom2178
    @cherryblossom2178 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    whose here because of your lecturer?

  • @TerrelleCheers1
    @TerrelleCheers1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Personality = Self Identification*

    • @TerrelleCheers1
      @TerrelleCheers1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Obviousness must be apparent by default.

  • @valannemacgyvers1582
    @valannemacgyvers1582 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He confuses cliques and crowds. Poor understanding of the research base. Also has a poor understanding of the cyclic nature of the theory.

    • @Carol-rd9dx
      @Carol-rd9dx 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Valanne MacGyvers that's not the point of video 😑

  • @stephenprice3357
    @stephenprice3357 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    woah! it's peter griffin!

  • @nygeek6471
    @nygeek6471 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    interesting voodoo..

    • @lex.cordis
      @lex.cordis 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's just superstition.

  • @ArthurSmallidge
    @ArthurSmallidge ปีที่แล้ว

    He made that poor man cry!

  • @Mr.Redacto
    @Mr.Redacto ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm going to get a lot of hate for this but I think this can be applied to trans people to some extent.

  • @dorisw2507
    @dorisw2507 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol, I thought maybe you were Erik Erikson

  • @memnoch9418
    @memnoch9418 ปีที่แล้ว

    This dude is wak

  • @gingerreilly7196
    @gingerreilly7196 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Terrible video, but interesting stuff

  • @christianabellar1498
    @christianabellar1498 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So identity crisis is like weebs?

  • @michaelehjr.
    @michaelehjr. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude, as an American. The Canadian joke was tasteless and unnecessary. The Canadians are our neighbors and they’re great folks. Unlike you

  • @attheranch4876
    @attheranch4876 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was lame.