3 things to know about dating a SWEDISH man
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2024
- From the liquid courage, to the first date Fika, to the equality in EVERYTHING, this is what you need to know before dating a Swedish man. Stay tuned for the full video out tomorrow - You know you're dating a Swedish man when...
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No thanks. Seems like a german woman and a swedish man are a match made in heaven ;)
Yes , produce Aryan babies.
That would be good but swedish people don't like so much confrontional and honest talking style what Germans has but other part it can be good :).
Im swedish and confused about this video
Yes I think Germans and swedes fit well together, culturally and behaviour wise 👍 Swedes also like honesty, just not out in public in an embarrassing way
@@lmao2351 don't worry dude, these are just stereotypes of Swedish people that aren't applicable to everyone. I'm sure all swedish guys are different in certain aspects
Im swedish and im the literal opposite of this. I talk to you while im sober, I want to be able to take you on a really nice date and i always try to get you gifts. Its not that hard
But Equality!
“You’re a working woman. I think you should get it.” 😂
What a chad
100%
horrible. what kind of provider??
I definitely love big gifts and romantic gestures. Guess south of Europe it is, haha.
More like eastern
Balkans? :D
me too! and i love giving big gifts and romantic gestures as well. i need me an italian or spanish man or something
Gifts don't violate the equality thing if the woman gives gifts too... People yelling about hypocrites don't really get it.
For real. Some men are a little too annoying about this on the internet
@@ariellekwong206 it is not about that. Most men just don't think you are worthy enough to buy you anything. Sorry this my sound rude but this is the fact.
@@mmr1137 do you even know what we're talking about? If not, go away child
@@mmr1137 so, change man then
@@mmr1137 More like they're too broke. Affluent men rarely have a problem being generous, unless cheap or thoughtless. Which is why it's such a good red flag of the future.
Broke men have to decide whether she's worth it. Real providers provide, it's who they are. They'll never argue about because it's not about the money. If he has integrity, and it's not working for him, he's wasting not anybody's time. The men most women aim for don't have to play games, or manipulate, women into bed with presents. There's plenty of easy chicks in the world and y'all know their price and where to find them.
What does equality have to do with getting someone a birthday present? You can do that regardless of gender, it’s not “chivalrous” for a man to give a woman a present for a special occasion. She could do the same thing for him lol
Yeah, I hate when “equality” is twisted into some weapon to distance people. As if humans no matter the gender shouldn’t even help one another cause EqUaLiTy.
Lol at the needing lots of alcohol He's so handsome. Does he have an instagram? I want to follow him haha
Such a lont time ago I realized good-looking people may be so strange ... I go for a polite, generous, hard-working and warm-hearted man.
Nope thanks, doesnt fit my Turkish girl expectations even slightly 😂
Very handsome but not for me
First of all, this channel always continues to propose to us a distorted idea of "gender equality" and displays, as in this case, behaviors that a person with an ounce of politeness and respect would never do.
I find it hard to believe that the vast majority of women in the world (especially Western) would ever allow themselves to insistently suggest to their partner that they would like him to buy something for them ( personally, as a Southern European woman I would never do that!).
In that case, it is logical to respond, " you work, you can buy it for yourself," since it is a legitimate response to an act of RUDENESS, but IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH GENDER EQUALITY!!!
Here you are confusing rudeness (because you don't act like an opportunist with family and friends, why should you do so with your partner?) with the demand for a minimum of gentleness and kindness in a relationship. Offering something to someone is not against gender equality if it is done with selflessness. That doesn't seem hard to understand. Being romantic (whether by men or women) IS NOT FEMINIST HYPOCRISY! The important thing is that demonstrations of affection are reciprocated on both sides. So even the Swedish man can afford to give a gift to the woman he likes ( and vice versa). If you hang out with polite people, you don't have to worry about your wallet, because gestures are ALWAYS reciprocated by those who really care about you!
So they're basically exactly like Finnish men.
except finns are good at warfare whereas swedes are panzies who let the state run the alchohol and feminist industry for them
Sweden and Finland is basically the same country. Same blood.
I agree with this Pippa..
@@samtheman1661 Are you Finnish? 😊
@@pippastin Kyllä sitä ollaan :).. Et ihan hauska näitä on seurata..
Swedish men are direct and no nonsense people
As an Egyptian woman I will never have this problem of ever thinking about dating a Swedish dude, but man these dating tips I feel for the Swedish women
Yeah it sucks lol. I’m from Finland and guys are the same here. I never date Nordic guys for this reason 😂
@@marias6583 what reason? Gender equality?
@@nadaahmed3439 Some people prefer gender norms. Gender norms doesn't mean respect for one another can't exist.
@@nadaahmed3439gifts are not a gender thing. If someone doesnt buy you a birthday gift its because they are cheap. Its not about respecting you, they just use equality as an excuse when equality would be:he buys a gift, you buy a gift.
ohhh interesting
Well if you want to treat yourself I won't stand in the way of it but I think it's a little pricey honestly. If you get that for yourself I'm going to buy myself a nice new car, a safe reliable one like a Volvo though. My mother says you've put weight on so make sure the watch is water proof because she said we should start ice swimming and doing sauna again.
More about Sweden
W Swedish man!👊
What? -a swede.
Yeah, I have no idea what some of these things are either.I allways get gifts on my birthdays
Who's this lovely lady? Anyone has her insta?
"Women should be paid equally"
"Okay, but then any form of chivalry, dating from an era where women didn't work should disappear too, right ?"
"How misogynistic and rude !"
Essere pagati la stessa cifra per svolgere lo STESSO LAVORO (bada bene, non mansioni oltre la portata fisica di una donna) non ha nulla a che fare con il mostrare una minima forma di corteggiamento. La parità dei sessi in determinati ambiti non ha nulla a che fare con il corteggiamento! Con la scusa del femminismo e di alcune invasate vi siete chiusi a riccio nella vostra zona di confort, tanto che non riuscite più ad alzare il culo ed invitare una donna ad uscire. Da quando il rispetto sul luogo di lavoro implica l'annullamento di qualsiasi forma sdolcinatezza e gentilezza? Certi richiami sono dettati dalla natura ed è impossibile ignorarli. Non importa che lavoro svolgano: un uomo è un uomo ed una donna è una donna e per tanto hanno predisposizioni biologiche a determinate forme di corteggiamento. Non è possibile che ci si senta autorizzati ad offrire un caffè a qualcuna o a comprare un misero regalino (non si parla di cifre astronomiche o chissà quale diamante costoso!) solo ad una donna che sta a casa a badare ai figli. Se lavora no, non le è concessa alcuna forma di corteggiamento. È il gesto che conta per dio! Qui gli uomini si lamentano, però io vedo fidanzate che li riempiono di regali, di feste a sorpresa per i compleanni e che spendono cifre per i weekend assieme. Questa storia dei soldi ha ucciso il romanticismo e l'amore.
@@ginger942 And in english ?
@@Leebpascal1 Google translate
@@ginger942 no copy paste of comments available on phone app. Try another pretext...
@@Leebpascal1 I don't care. Do that with PC. Genio.
I am a man. But nice three things to date a Swedish man, DBB! : )
RIGHT!!!!! LMAO the last one is the important 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just different cultures misunderstanding each other. No right or wrong.
They need to be drunk before approaching women
Talk a little louder, I can't hear you
How come there's no dating swedish girl video?
Is that really how we do? Mmmm yes. Hahah
Oh... goodnesss .... 😂
seriously?????
Wow
I never wanted to be equal, but here I am. Need to be.
Protest against ur crazy sisters
Not that accurate
@Mabus Nero Why would every Swede me awkward? And why would every Swede be close-fisted?
:3
Emasculated man
Paying stuff for women in 21st century is as emasculated as it gets. I agree regarding the need for alcohold tho. I say that fearlessness, height and assertiveness make a man. But buying things to women because you can't make them like you otherwise just makes you lame
@@temporelucemtenebris5313
Assertiveness has noting to do with your gender
@@temporelucemtenebris5313gifting your loved ones for a special occasion isnt emasculation. you sound miserable X)
The ending was hilarious..🤣😂
Not true
Feminist yelling in 3... 2... 1...
GOOOO
I never heard a feminist say that
@@baobabbaobab6487 you are lucky
@@TheAdamjh you could tell them they aren't feminist then, since feminism is about fighting for equality for both men and women
@@baobabbaobab6487 where are you from?
@@TheAdamjh I'm from France