ATLANTA & NASHVILLE see you this weekend for the free event - www.selfhelpfreetour.com - Portland, Seattle, Chicago, NYC, Boston, Philly, D.C. up NEXT! The networking and live energy is amazing, but if you want the main lessons from that event NOW? www.higherpurposeprogram.com - this is a step-by-step course with my best content, also for free to get you going. Super recommended to watch it, designed to get you results FAST -Owen
i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.
I'm sure you hear this all the time but you said something so profound that it was a paradigm shift for me. Every one knows you should value your time but you clarified how to make others value your time = mind blown. Thank you for all the positive energy you send out. Obviously the universe is compensating you handsomely for your efforts. Please never retire.
Just goes back to the principles that can never be ignored. Show value and let them show interest in you before you show interest in them. It's not strictly linear like Mystery used to talk about it, but it sure as heck still never goes away no matter how good one gets at inner game and spirituality.
I’m dealing with this now and your video came at a perfect time for me Owen… as you mentioned, it’s so dang crazy you have to do all these things when you just want to help! … and spread good vibes! and they look at you as “creepy” I’ve been doing a ton of social experiments lately and one of them involved over-tipping at restaurants (undeserved) for my takeout menu orders mind you and I never got a single thanks or sign of appreciation. You gotta make people fight for your energy and validation… it’s such a game. I guess life in so many ways is a game and we gotta learn to play it
It seems as though they were playing the game before you realized the lack of appreciation for your kind gesture. They wanted to sit back and let you work hard for their approval. Maybe if you continued tipping larger bills with more frequency, they'd have showed you "some" acknowledgment. Many people are sucked into this pattern of pouring into others a lot of energy expecting they'd be appreciated.
one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page
@@Jacob.Boulus.Coaching Just go out. Out. Talk to people. People. Out. Go! Caution: people are weird and will try and convince you that you’re the weird one. Keep being real and they will relax. Watch. Practice. Be the Man. Chill. Also, take a class with Big Owen and do what he tells you….
@@Jacob.Boulus.Coaching of course it is, its putting evolutionary pressure on yourself. Much like going out and getting rejected. Who do you think would benefit more? A guy going to Toastmasters or going out and getting rejected, or some dude on the internet only learning theory, but maybe goes out once a month?
@@frankrincon5557 , You are right: not always. Is there something that works 100% of the time ? Probably not, the goal is to have an approach witth a higer likelihood to succed. It seems tough to find a better approch than being detached.
good to see owen talk about social skills again. Socializing and pickup should be dialogue, not standup comedy. I usually start conversations with a walk away body language to show I can walk off any moment( my time is valuable). and then tease them.. as they get interested, I see the change in their body language then I give them a bit more attention. then I ask them simple questions, give them chance to talk. what owen says about entertain and then people walk off is often a result of not having a dialogue or letting the other person speak. learning to not be always available is important. if someone say they gotta go( now focus is their time is valuable). I immediately shift back to me - I gotta go. thats frame control. whoever gets the otherside to focus on them wins the frame. if someone tells me their problem, I immediately tell them my side of the problem. ex: I dont wanna go to your place. me; but I dont go to ladies place
there was a time when i kept wondering why some people seemed to naturally draw others in while i was just…there. no matter what i tried, i couldn’t figure out how they did it. then someone mentioned the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and i decided to check it out. the way it explains how your aura affects everything around you? it blew me away. it’s like having a secret code to unlock your magnetic energy. this book is a game-changer.
I personally have an aversion to the "used car salesman" personality type. You know the kind that gives unwarranted compliments or tries too hard to befriend you. Maybe it's me, being from the northeast New York/Boston metro area where everybody is suspect. But when somebody approaches me out of nowhere and starts with that BS I just shut them down or walk away. Call me cynical, but I'm a pretty hard sell.
I know what you mean, and I couldn't agree more. But equally I suspect that you're the sort of person who can tell who is genuine and who is trying to sell
i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.
For someone thats trying to improve their expression how often do you recommend they do exercises? and are expression exercises still apart of your weekly practice?
Thanks Owen for the content as always - never found other channels who offer such personally relatable info - I’m sure many others feel the same. And hope you’ll get well soon - I’ve also hurt my leg for half a year now and life has been hard. Best wishes to you from Japan 😇
I'm going to apply this to a friendship I have with a Filipina I've never met. She will ask me for help with something, so I send her some pesos. And yet, something else always comes up. It never ends. I give my resources to her, but all I am doing is paying to talk to someone.
6:02 I hit that sticking point in game a lot of times. Find myself arguing with the girl why she should just go out with me and its weird because shes interested but it's that road block of being too forward and direct
JESUS is the answer guys. All wisdom and knowledge comes from him. I use to watch RSD a lot in the past but true healing and love is only found in Christ. It’s amazing on this side! Come join the Kingdom of God. Repent and believe the gospel ✝️
people walk out when entertainment stops is because whoever stops talking has not reached hook point yet where you can see the other persons body language and demeanor changes- moving or leaning toward you
I can relate to laid-back Owen significantly more than to crazy-high-energy Owen. Maybe this is also a manifestation of the same thing he's talking about in this video.
Great video and I’ve benefited a lot from RSD’s content over the last few years. Initially I got hooked by the promise of dating success but through it learned so much about self improvement. Social skills and dating became just one aspect of that. But it does feel weird when we keep getting marketed free events… when they are not free…??? First thing I see when I go to the link is that it asks for credit card info and charges over $25. Seems a bit off… especially when you have preached about being skeptical. Honestly since it’s only $25 I’ll still probs go since the upside is limitless while the downside is fairly low outside of potentially losing a full 1-2 days. But still feels off and misleading when you keep saying free tour when it’s not a free tour. Will ask you in person I guess haha 😜
Vietnam Event is probably cheaper and easier to buy Tickets than US Events. I usually buy Events Tickets in Vietnam at 5-8$. US Events must cost 500$-1000$ to attend
My boy is still pushing out content....in a wheelchair. Owen could be at home crying,moaning about how life is unfair and how being in a wheelchair is a obstacle. Owen is teaching you guys to run your day and not let the day run you. If Owen posts footage of him tearing up the club in a wheelchair...RIP to the haters😂
How much I miss the old 2012 era Owen Cook and RSD!! I have changed and so have time. If anyone knows of similar Motivational/life advice guru's like the old RSD material please comment below!! Not the PUA stuff more like "The truth about success" "Rising from Anxiety/Depression" material. The nature background and Owen's ambitious energy were very influential
I hear what you are saying but isn’t all this a bit contrived and insincere ? I have always been a loner but I enjoy my own company and I don’t connect with many people but when I do it’s a deep real connection - too much is made in my opinion on being popular being liked - when I did a mbti test and found I was an INFJ it made everything clear . But I hear what this guy says and he’s a brilliant communicator but to all my fellow introverts just be you and don’t feel bad you just don’t think like everyone else does . Ok I may not be a TH-cam influencer making millions and good luck to you but there ARE people out there who are turned off by this
If you work advising anything to do with making money you're going to get this. Socialy, you have to acknowledge that society, a lot of people are batshit crazy, especially since the 2020 onwards there's insanity, the mass psychosis that continues. The politicalìzation of health care and social normality. Full stop, I get what you're saying but there's a lot of folks out there that ain't worth your bother.
Why on earth should a sub 5 in looks have money? Just give the money to a handsome chad for gods sake seen as though you didnt hit the genetic lotter.... BUT BUT BUT social conditioining! confidence! statu.... No owen.
ATLANTA & NASHVILLE see you this weekend for the free event - www.selfhelpfreetour.com - Portland, Seattle, Chicago, NYC, Boston, Philly, D.C. up NEXT! The networking and live energy is amazing, but if you want the main lessons from that event NOW? www.higherpurposeprogram.com - this is a step-by-step course with my best content, also for free to get you going. Super recommended to watch it, designed to get you results FAST -Owen
Bro you're way better than Tony Robbins. Keep hammering away and you can dominate the entire industry.
i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.
the delimma of a good person, trying to help people too much
fuck most people. they are all egotistical and selfish as fuck.
I'm sure you hear this all the time but you said something so profound that it was a paradigm shift for me. Every one knows you should value your time but you clarified how to make others value your time = mind blown. Thank you for all the positive energy you send out. Obviously the universe is compensating you handsomely for your efforts. Please never retire.
💯%
This video is amazing. The solution is true as well: have a f-ing schedule and stick to it. Don't waste your time on randoms, whether girls or guys.
True words!
Just goes back to the principles that can never be ignored. Show value and let them show interest in you before you show interest in them. It's not strictly linear like Mystery used to talk about it, but it sure as heck still never goes away no matter how good one gets at inner game and spirituality.
Before someone doesn't show vallue you cant show interest
The new era of Owen is about to be 👑
Right?? I can feel it lol
>wut
this is pure gold!
I’m dealing with this now and your video came at a perfect time for me Owen… as you mentioned, it’s so dang crazy you have to do all these things when you just want to help! … and spread good vibes! and they look at you as “creepy”
I’ve been doing a ton of social experiments lately and one of them involved over-tipping at restaurants (undeserved) for my takeout menu orders mind you and I never got a single thanks or sign of appreciation.
You gotta make people fight for your energy and validation… it’s such a game.
I guess life in so many ways is a game and we gotta learn to play it
It seems as though they were playing the game before you realized the lack of appreciation for your kind gesture. They wanted to sit back and let you work hard for their approval. Maybe if you continued tipping larger bills with more frequency, they'd have showed you "some" acknowledgment. Many people are sucked into this pattern of pouring into others a lot of energy expecting they'd be appreciated.
It’s crazy how rudimentary of a concept this is, yet we still so easily fall into the temptation of it
one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page
Saw this video recommended and it reminded me of how much you have done for all of us. I am so glad that you are still sharing your knowledge.
Frame and mindset. Thanks
Struggling with this right now, im gonna really apply myself to the content here. thank you Owen.
14:11 This is so true. I met many people all over the world who had never been to many beautiful tourist places around because it's always there.
Doing toastmasters for the voice and thinking on my feet aspect.
Is it helping? Would you recommend going?
@@Jacob.Boulus.Coaching
Just go out. Out. Talk to people. People. Out. Go!
Caution: people are weird and will try and convince you that you’re the weird one.
Keep being real and they will relax. Watch. Practice. Be the Man. Chill.
Also, take a class with Big Owen and do what he tells you….
@@Jacob.Boulus.Coaching of course it is, its putting evolutionary pressure on yourself. Much like going out and getting rejected. Who do you think would benefit more? A guy going to Toastmasters or going out and getting rejected, or some dude on the internet only learning theory, but maybe goes out once a month?
Toastmasters is full of loser and bad political opinions. Glad you’re trying to- just go out. You’ll pick up their weird twitches and mannerisms
@@Denver_____ What happens during a Toastmasters session?
nice i prefer more this type of tips than the seminars since here there is much knowledge packed than the seminar stories and fluff
You are simply amazing Own. Thank you for this
Don't be needy and be detached and they will come to you
Not always
@@frankrincon5557 , You are right: not always. Is there something that works 100% of the time ? Probably not, the goal is to have an approach witth a higer likelihood to succed. It seems tough to find a better approch than being detached.
Wow, this is very helpful, thank you Owen!
good to see owen talk about social skills again.
Socializing and pickup should be dialogue, not standup comedy.
I usually start conversations with a walk away body language to show I can walk off any moment( my time is valuable). and then tease them.. as they get interested, I see the change in their body language then I give them a bit more attention. then I ask them simple questions, give them chance to talk.
what owen says about entertain and then people walk off is often a result of not having a dialogue or letting the other person speak.
learning to not be always available is important. if someone say they gotta go( now focus is their time is valuable). I immediately shift back to me - I gotta go. thats frame control. whoever gets the otherside to focus on them wins the frame.
if someone tells me their problem, I immediately tell them my side of the problem. ex: I dont wanna go to your place. me; but I dont go to ladies place
you are such a hypnotist!
I love the background💯💯💯
Filming at rainbow row! Great place in Charleston! Your awesome Owen, thank you for the videos, awesome to see you here in the south!
00:50, 5:00, 9:10, 13:20, 15:50, 19:30
Great video exactly what I needed to hear
Great, great Video Owen! Thank you. Just finished Blueprint Reloaded for the first time - amazing product. Greetings from Germany.
This was a great one 📈
there was a time when i kept wondering why some people seemed to naturally draw others in while i was just…there. no matter what i tried, i couldn’t figure out how they did it. then someone mentioned the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and i decided to check it out. the way it explains how your aura affects everything around you? it blew me away. it’s like having a secret code to unlock your magnetic energy. this book is a game-changer.
Love it!
I personally have an aversion to the "used car salesman" personality type. You know the kind that gives unwarranted compliments or tries too hard to befriend you. Maybe it's me, being from the northeast New York/Boston metro area where everybody is suspect. But when somebody approaches me out of nowhere and starts with that BS I just shut them down or walk away. Call me cynical, but I'm a pretty hard sell.
I know what you mean, and I couldn't agree more. But equally I suspect that you're the sort of person who can tell who is genuine and who is trying to sell
i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.
Thank you for this amazing video Owen! You have helped me so much throughout the years, your content is always on point.
The lesson I'm learning right now. Wish I learned it the easy way lol
For someone thats trying to improve their expression how often do you recommend they do exercises? and are expression exercises still apart of your weekly practice?
Yess, thank you💚
Thank you, very insightful
Thanks Owen for the content as always - never found other channels who offer such personally relatable info - I’m sure many others feel the same.
And hope you’ll get well soon - I’ve also hurt my leg for half a year now and life has been hard.
Best wishes to you from Japan 😇
I'm going to apply this to a friendship I have with a Filipina I've never met. She will ask me for help with something, so I send her some pesos. And yet, something else always comes up. It never ends.
I give my resources to her, but all I am doing is paying to talk to someone.
Very dumb, its probably a guy in india
This is gold ❤
New upload boys let’s go!
6:02 I hit that sticking point in game a lot of times. Find myself arguing with the girl why she should just go out with me and its weird because shes interested but it's that road block of being too forward and direct
Nice watch!
good stuff Owen, as always
Love this one!
How do create energy within yourself to give?
Thx Owen! 🤙(feel like we are a step beyond collapse of society rn...)
I want be an English teacher where should I start?
❤
Start posting YT videos teaching English!
Start with being Calibrated! Then frame 😉
JESUS is the answer guys. All wisdom and knowledge comes from him. I use to watch RSD a lot in the past but true healing and love is only found in Christ. It’s amazing on this side! Come join the Kingdom of God. Repent and believe the gospel ✝️
people walk out when entertainment stops is because whoever stops talking has not reached hook point yet where you can see the other persons body language and demeanor changes- moving or leaning toward you
amazing ❤
I can relate to laid-back Owen significantly more than to crazy-high-energy Owen. Maybe this is also a manifestation of the same thing he's talking about in this video.
Love this
Great video and I’ve benefited a lot from RSD’s content over the last few years. Initially I got hooked by the promise of dating success but through it learned so much about self improvement. Social skills and dating became just one aspect of that. But it does feel weird when we keep getting marketed free events… when they are not free…??? First thing I see when I go to the link is that it asks for credit card info and charges over $25. Seems a bit off… especially when you have preached about being skeptical. Honestly since it’s only $25 I’ll still probs go since the upside is limitless while the downside is fairly low outside of potentially losing a full 1-2 days. But still feels off and misleading when you keep saying free tour when it’s not a free tour. Will ask you in person I guess haha 😜
Vietnam Event is probably cheaper and easier to buy Tickets than US Events. I usually buy Events Tickets in Vietnam at 5-8$. US Events must cost 500$-1000$ to attend
What was that song in the beginning?
I MISSED the videos Owen. The great scenery, the vibe, EVERYTHING. The lessons just stick when there's a pretty background, don't they?
I cant watch any other self help channel because of you😂 all of them are too generic and too superficial and doesnt related to real life.
Ruined us and spoilt us content wise.
@@Jacob.Boulus.Coaching exactly. 💯💯
bro I feel the same, the other ones just seem like clowns in comparison
@@Hankgets 😂
My boy is still pushing out content....in a wheelchair. Owen could be at home crying,moaning about how life is unfair and how being in a wheelchair is a obstacle. Owen is teaching you guys to run your day and not let the day run you. If Owen posts footage of him tearing up the club in a wheelchair...RIP to the haters😂
Basically you need to neg,qualify ,or use a false time constraint
@YeYe-Boy 10 years ago?
@@martinsvensson6884 never changes
Hard qualifiers sounds pretty technical. What does it mean exactly?
back to basics
5:17 groundness verification moment😂
yeah, I would be like: horsey!, I am out of here!
When are you coming to Southwest Florida? Beautiful beaches.
I couldn't help but notice that the person you are dating you keep calling by they/them pronouns starting at 11:33.
Tax Write Offs Owen :D
Tyler is milking tf out of that wheelchair. Truly one of a kind.
😆🤣 big fax 📠
My favorite part is Owen looked into his eyes and he could tell the guy was thinking he was getting fucking scammed hahahaha!
Matthew ch 6 verse 9-13
What’s the music at 7:30? Love the trance….
1000/10 video
Perfect timing im currently stuck herexd
Lol @ Owen vloggin in public in a wheelchair. Dude is unstoppable.
nice
How much I miss the old 2012 era Owen Cook and RSD!! I have changed and so have time. If anyone knows of similar Motivational/life advice guru's like the old RSD material please comment below!! Not the PUA stuff more like "The truth about success" "Rising from Anxiety/Depression" material. The nature background and Owen's ambitious energy were very influential
@@buildcreatemake4088 check out the Free Tour channel it's been poppin -Owen
Owen what is your opinion on “The Real Christ” by Bernadette Roberts and “The Infinite Way” by Joel Goldsmith
Why Tyler is in a wheelchair?
He is healthy again he had an accident.
Bye!
🔥
Broccoli + macarony + cream + chicken breasts in an oven + yellow cheese on top... MMMMmmmm you'll love broccoli
Not giving time to troll/offensive people
A3
I hear what you are saying but isn’t all this a bit contrived and insincere ? I have always been a loner but I enjoy my own company and I don’t connect with many people but when I do it’s a deep real connection - too much is made in my opinion on being popular being liked - when I did a mbti test and found I was an INFJ it made everything clear . But I hear what this guy says and he’s a brilliant communicator but to all my fellow introverts just be you and don’t feel bad you just don’t think like everyone else does . Ok I may not be a TH-cam influencer making millions and good luck to you but there ARE people out there who are turned off by this
Is Tyler in a wheelchair permanently ?
Comment for algorithm
Owen get out of the road lol
⚡️
If you work advising anything to do with making money you're going to get this. Socialy, you have to acknowledge that society, a lot of people are batshit crazy, especially since the 2020 onwards there's insanity, the mass psychosis that continues. The politicalìzation of health care and social normality. Full stop, I get what you're saying but there's a lot of folks out there that ain't worth your bother.
why are you in a wheel chair?
Skiing accident
@@CJ2K thanks for answering.
noticemesenpai
Why on earth should a sub 5 in looks have money? Just give the money to a handsome chad for gods sake seen as though you didnt hit the genetic lotter.... BUT BUT BUT social conditioining! confidence! statu.... No owen.
Owen, contact me. I will expand your teachings in Canada. We’re high in NPC’s here. Let’s link.
Why you sitting a wheel chair?
Skiing Accident
bro you gotta remember people cant just drop what theyre doing to go and see you.
extremely good value shared. sales and women this help a lot.