how I'm REALLY doing since moving out & living in NYC... | post-grad diaries ep.5
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- LET'S CHAT: moving out for the first time, how to adjust to living alone, how I'm liking living in NYC & more :)
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Timestamps:
00:00 - welcome to the video! grab a snack & get comfy :)
02:36 - how I'm REALLY doing after moving out for the first time
05:42 - my TOP TIPS for adjusting to moving out/living alone
05:53 - why you should invest in your space.
07:10 - how to overcome the first month slump
08:42 - familiarity is your friend
09:42 - surprise! I have a roommate?
11:06 - staying connected with your fam back home
12:12 - important mindset adjustments
14:50 - Q&A :)
15:00 - going from small town to big city
16:29 - how I'm making friends & putting myself out there
18:14 - FEEDBACK NEEDED
19:16 - what do I do for fun? (alone)
20:48 - bringing my car to the city?
22:08 - feeling like a guest at your parents' house
23:42 - dorm move-in vs. apartment move-in : VERY DIFFERENT
25:10 - what surprised me the most? ft. some philosophy
26:21 - 4 the real 1s ONLY
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I have to say this: You should really do a Podcast. It would be sooo good listening to you talk about everything because you’re helping a lot of people like me with this. I love you! 🥰❤️
I second this
Yaaaaas!
I Second this
DEFINITELY 🙂
Not me feeling nervous to re-move out again and instantly feeling better after watching this. I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed with how much work I have to do to re-make my space, but it's so worth the investment and I am 100% the same way: serene space=sanity. So proud of you & thank you for posting this at the perfect time. ❤️
Can’t wait to watch yours too!!
I would love to see a “week in my life: what I spend in the city” (or however it would be called), I visited New York a few weeks ago and I actually loved it lol despite how tired I hit of walking for hours 😆 but I always hear that it’s super expensive so idk but I definitely want to visit again
i love how your videos are always real and raw. it feels like i’m talking to a best friend
exactly like an older sister that actually talks to me
that's my goal 🥺❤
@@HannahElise your dropped this 👑
So proud of you🤎🤎🤎
I relate sooooo much with the “home doesn’t have to be just one place”. I live in the US with my dad but my mom, sister, and entire extended family is in Sweden❤️
The vibes in your videos are always great, but ever since you moved to NYC they've been ✨immaculate✨ thank you for brightening my day with every post 😌 I am graduating college on the 11th and I started watching you during my freshman year (your sophomore year, right when you started!) and you've been such a light in my life during all my struggles in college. It's been amazing to watch you grow and change and become happier over the last few years, I truly feel like I've been right there with you! Love you so much and thank you ❤️
thank you for sticking around, it means the world to me. love you more ❤😭
your post grad diaries/ moving out diaries have really helped my while moving out for uni, im so proud of myself for pulling living alone off! i still go home every weekend (as most students in itty-bitty Belgium do) but i feel more at ease in my little sanctuary. Thank you, Hannah
This is just the video I needed after finding out that I’ve secured my dream job starting next year in a new city. Thank you for these nyc vlogs! They are legit such a comfort for me and (I’m sure) so many others 🥰💕
OMG!!!!! CONGRATS!!!!!! that is so amazing, I know you will KILL IT
@@HannahElise omg you’re so sweet 🥺❤️ ily!
Convinced we are the same person. From moving out of your small hometown to being a homebody to making it a point to actually say yes to plans. Thank you for being so relatable!🤍
Hannah, we honestly almost had the exact same experience, I'm one year younger than you and moved away from home, hated it, hade my first of many panic attacks and now I'm at home again. This video really comforted me. I do believe that the day I officially move out it will be because I'm truly ready and have nothing left to gather in the place that I'm living in now. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
Yes! Please make a video about your costs, budgeting, and overall how you been financially after moving. I am thinking of moving soon and I’m so nervous about everything possibly going down hill and end up struggling financially to keep my place. It stresses me so much lol. I just turned 20 years old. I moved out at 19 years old and I am currently renting a room but I want to get my own place. I feel like I need a change but I am scared to make the next move. Thank you!! ily💗
HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS! 👏🏾❤️It doesn’t just have to be ONE place! Ugh I love this you make me want to be a better TH-camr! ❤️❤️ can’t wait till the next video!!
the sister we all need 🥺🤍
im so happy and so proud of you! you look so happy, you can literally see how NY has been good for you
thank you 🥺🥺🥺
I feel the exact same way about my space because it affects my daily life, how I live and how I do things. And yesss please definitely do a video over what you spend in NY and what life is like living there at this point in your life
the fact that you are watching the secret life of the American teenager with your mom over facetime and you started one tree hill gives me hope :)) I lowkey wanna rewatch those shows now lol
what helped me make my new place feel like home was activities: I started trying new recipes, threw little parties, invited my best friend and family, painted, watched Harry Potter, and a lot of rather everyday/accidental tings too, I came home late from the city, I locked myself out while the stove was on and panicked for a solid hour, I had a one night stand that I didn't want to be a one night stand and now I'm also thinking about getting a cat... all in all, I think it's about the space getting it's character and backstory over a couple weeks and months :)
oh yeah, almost forgot. this apartment was the first to see my throw up on alcohol. this made me love it mostly. it was "there for me" when I was at my worst...
When you talked about having Charlie with you, oh my god did I relate so much to. I’ve lived in my apartment for a year, hated every second of it because I just felt so alone. Then I got a pup and my life has changed for the better. I feel so much better because I’m not alone anymore
this is so crazy...I went to college 1200 miles away from home for 2 years and then came home and now (back at home as a commuter student) am about to graduate in May and feeling the exact same anxiety about moving away again, doubting if i'll be able to do it and getting in my head. I can't believe I stumbled upon this video watching a bunch of NYC related content because I have a potential opportunity there after grad. This has truly helped me so much in realizing that I might not have been ready those years ago, but that you can grow as a person to a point where these big decisions aren't so scary anymore. Thank you for being so open about the anxieties of leaving your comfort zone and wanting more for yourself, love this SO SO much!!
so crazy hearing that someone really LOVE their family and want to call their relatives... mind-blowing
it's so comforting to hear you talk hannah! i've recently graduated as well and i have been feeling kinda lost about what to do/ what i want / what i want to be... it has been really hard to keep it together and honestly your videos have been helping me getting trough this phase! i wait for it the whole week because you inspire me to never give up on whatever my dreams are! because even though i am not entirely sure who i am yet, or where i wanna be, i know that i have to be patient and work hard! thank u so much for just being you and sharing a little bit of you with us as well
16:34 I so understand that feeling of being an awkward person in terms of reaching out to people first lol but your answer to that question really helped because as a freshman in college, I usually just stay in my dorms with Netflix like my social anxiety tells me too, but I know need to socialize to keep me actually sane
[out of context but..... LOVE YOU HANNAHHHH!]
Hannah, bleed your radiator. That whistle is simply trapped air as it's probably been turned off until now. You can buy a 'radiator bleed key" (it's called 😁), in the Dollar tree or DIY store. Look up how to do it on youtube. It's an easy job. 👍
knowing that hannah will post a new video on sunday is what gets me through the week
Love this so much and I am so obsessed with your content! All your vlogs are so immaculate! I am so obsessed with your content and editing style! Thank you for being such an inspiration for me! Ilysm!
Thanks for this video Hannah! I just moved to another country and hearing you say that this can be my home as much as my last one was really comforting ❤️
I just know the vibes are going to be immaculate!💕🤩 Love these sit-down type of vids since it reminds me of much-needed rant sessions😭
I just wanna say that your videos are so important to me. I relate to you so much. It makes feel normal and validated. You create such amazing content and you seem like a great person! It’s so wonderful to watch your videos every week. Thank you so much for everything 🥰
Okay, the part you said about your space affecting your mental health hit home! 100% agree. Love your videos Hannah! 🧡
I moved to my own apartment to go to school and totally agree on how expensive it is but also so satisfying when it finally feels like a second home! ✨💛
So happy and proud of you!! 🥰 Your videos literally helped me when I was struggling with the choice of transferring to a college back home because I was miserable. Now you’re inspiring my post grad life. 🥳🥳🥳
im so proud of you! i completely relate to those feelings of anxiety but you've come such a long way and have inspired me in my seasonal depression to stay busy and acknowledge those feelings. im so excited for what is to come next :)
I’m loving these long videos. They are so cozy. Great work, Hannah! I’m ready for more Christmas content 🎄
On the road to 1 million subs queen 🥺🙏🏻😭 so proud of my fav youtuber!!!
The content that I need to feel better in that Sunday, it's raining in my town, but You make my day so comfy and smiling. Yeah Hannah, thanks " I'm a real one"😍😍
Finally catching up on your latest videos after all the craziness that is the end of the semester
You're such a inspiration to me 🥰 thanks for share your experiences with us.
Love from Brazil 💕
once again, I’m late 😂 but loving these kind of sit down videos where you have a chat to us and answering our questions! “I’m a real one!“
I loved this video! I plan on moving out on my own to a new city next year and I honestly love and look forward to watching your vlogs as a way to "prepare". The whole "you didn't move to Mars" part really struck out to me and comforted me in a way! I love your post grad diaries I hope you keep doing them :)
Your videos are the reason I look forward for Sundays 😭❤️❤️❤️
yes I would totally LOVE a what I spend in a week in my life! I think learning how to budget/healthy spend will make such a difference to people like myself who are thinking about the moving process❤
Highlight of my week to watch your videos every sunday 😍😍 just keep going 🎉🎉❤❤
hannah is like the older sister i’ve never had. thank you so much for making these kinds of videos and for always being real with us 🤍
Real one gang, also love the long videos sm!! 🥰 thank you for always brightening my day🥺💗
I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE 🤍🤍 adore your sit down vids , and it being about NY (my fav place) is SUCH a plus!
i missed doing sit down vids!!
so glad you’re feeling so good about your move and can I just say that you are absolutely GLOWING
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’ve really loved following your journey after graduation because I’m also graduating in about a week and have been nervous about moving out and next steps. I love that “home can be more than one place” that has really helped me shift my mindset
Hannah thank you so much for sharing your experience. I’m so used to my comfort zone I’m terrified to leap out of it but this was really comforting.
I really needed this video! I am finishing my first semester at college and it has been a growing period for me. I have also experienced that keeping myself busy has helped. Giving myself things to look forward to has also helped me- whether that is ordering a new book, getting lunch with a close friend, or going hiking.
the facetime thing is so sweet omg i'm going to start doing that with my mom!! also, the what you spend in a week vid would be super super helpful!!!!
I’m a freshman in high school and watching this video…
And it is Awesome!!! Love your videos!!
I always watch your videos when I'm lacking a positive mindset. Your channel/advise has quite literally changed my life. I am obsessed with how transparent you are with your mental health and your life in general on your channel. Thank you for being you 🤍
Thank you so much for this video. I'm not moving out, but I am living at college away from home and it's been really hard. I think some of your tips can definitely apply in my own situation, so thank you Hannah 😊💕💕
As a freshman in college without my car, I definitely relate to missing some epic car jam seshs!
i graduate college in one week AH but so nice to have someone talk about post grad!! helping me so much already :)
this video is so inspiring and full of precious tips! in january I will leave from italy to canada as an exchange student, and all the things you said about the opportunities, challenges and personal growth really gave me positive vibes :) thank you hannah
Sundays are always better with another Hannah vlog.❤️ makes going back to work tomorrow much easier lol
Happy 700 000🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳
We all love u endless 😘😘😘
You deserve a lot moreee😌😌😌❤️
You have no idea how comforting this video was. I'm not moving out anytime soon but I will be in the future and I just had so many questions - all of which you answered!!! Also, I get super nervous in big groups too so thank you for sharing that and just making my day a whole lot brighter 😘😘
8:27
This tip really helped me a lottt.
I always try to supress any negative feelings, which was really unhelpful and at some point those feelings explode in a very very bad way.
The Hannah is glowing vibes are what makes us keep watching
Thank you for sharing. I really felt like I could relate to so many things especially about psyching yourself out before something happened and then it turns out not to be so bad after all. Also really felt that about being awkward because I feel that way too but knowing that you have to try before giving up or overthinking everything. I really loved this video Hannah! 😊🤍
Thank you for being so relatable and open all the time!
I felt so comfortable watching this video, ily Hannah
This was a really good Ted Talk. I just moved and got my first 9 to 5 and one thing I have learned is to make sure you are keeping track of your finances. Love your videos.
I discovered your channel through Ava and I'm so happy!! Your content kinda has a similar vibe and now I have your channel to binge allll day today
That sort of video about costa would be perfect! Just love to see everything that you put out from your own experiences.. it helps me a lot on figuring out what to do next in my life. ❤️ lots of love from Brazil!
Wish this video existed when I moved out 🤍 so much great insight and couldn’t agree with it all more. This is gonna be helpful to so many people!!
HANNAh, your videos are always so organized, well panned and thought out. For this, I thank you! :)
xx
It's the mom stance while lighting the candle for me 😂 ily Hannah
I moved from my mom´s house and I understand every single word that you said. It´s terrifying but it also makes you grow. Thank you for being so honest.
Sex and the City is such a comfort show!!
These blogs of yours are so comforting! I just started college this fall and I honestly hate it here so much and I know that after Winter Break i might just throw up about having to come back here… I used to dream about coming to college and getting my own apartment but now that it’s happening I absolutely hate it and I have no clue what to do…
Well, I'm not in a situation like this rn but I can understand how bad moving out or leaving your comfort place can be felt. Since you started your post-grad series I realised that someday I will move out and make a new chapter in my life and this videos are takes all the negative thoughts comes with that! It's good to know that I can watch this whenever that day is about to come💗💗
Got here super late cuz I've been worrying my ass off about graduating - the results came out couple days ago and it's official! ur girl's graduated!!! then came the worry and anxiety about leaving that part of my life behind. ur video really provided me with much needed advice & perspective. thank u so much for the content that ur making hannah
Thanks for opening up about moving out. All this advice is really useful, especially for people who are or will be moving out (me in a couple of months, for example). I'll take all these into account to make it a beautiful experience. Love u
Ahhhh U always manage to brighten my day ☀️ video looks amazing Can’t wait to watch !!
i know this video is somewhat old but i really enjoyed this video. i am moving all the way from texas to chicago alone at 22 years old in just ten days and this video was really helpful and comforting to see. thank you for making this!
Hey, I just transitioned myself, And wow taking CARE of your space! Best thing ever. Has been keeping me sane.
bestie coming through with a 30 minute video AND a pleasing sweatshirt. go off, queen. also yes to a "what i spend in a week in nyc" type of videos!!!!!
never been this early but I'm already VIBING with the aesthetic of this video ❤️
also, you're doing incredible, such a wonderful example and ICON!
i moved out for uni for 6 years and while by the end, it was alright, i had some of the most miserable years of my life. the whole concept of college/uni life being the best isn't the truth for everyone so i too was a little worried to move again for work. but having my own place and not having the stress of school and exams and the pressure of doing what everyone else is doing and havign your life figured out right away truly changes everything! thank you so much for this hannah, it warmed my heart and i am sure it will help and reassure so many others! 💛
I love these types of videos! I can just do my thing and listen and learn!
Hi Hannah! You put it in words so well. My boyfriend and I also graduated in May, and the anxiety of "what's next?" Was DAUNTING. It turned out that the next steps for us were to move across the country to begin our careers and lives. It has been so cool to follow you along on our oddly similar experience. ♥️ In life, no one knows what's going on really so be happy, have fun, treat people with kindness. ♥️ Your videos are great
Happily taking a study break to watch this new video! Thanks Hannah, love your content!!!
you are quite welcome :)
Man Sunday’s are my favorite day ❤️
I would love a morning&evening routine video and also a budgeting video because it has been my number one stressor since moving out. Groceries are my number one nemesis. Beautiful video though it helped so much.
Thank you for posting this video. It really helped me feel more at ease about the big changes that are coming. 🥰
Hannah just wanted to say before watching the rest of the video: you look STUNNING. You're such a beautiful woman.
I'm a real one and can't believe you answer my question! Thank u so much, love ya girl
You’re such an inspiration seriously. You give the best advice and your videos help with things that I’m going through..
this makes me so happy & this is why I do this!
this video was so inspirational and interesting to me!! not planning to move out anytime soon, but i have learnt so many tips from u! will want to see what u spend in a day in new york! it’s my dream place to travel to n have fun in! ily thanks for the video ❤️
Hi Hannah. I gotta say that your talking videos are awesome. I’m not where near moving out because I am 14. However you talk so well and it’s awesome listen to you. I think you should do a podcast. I’m a real one
OMG U're WATCHING OTH! It was the first tv-show that i actually watched fully like on internet and not on tv after school and I LOVE IT SO MUCH!!! As an Vampier diary and Outlander which i highly recommend. love u
was going through a roughy just now, but this video lit up my spirit instantly. I adore you and you're video's, thank you sm💞
that makes me so happy 🥺
I moved into my own apartment this summer, and it's been a huge adjustment but a really really growing one. Definitely the right decision for me! I recommend living alone for a little while to literally anyone. Perfect time to learn about yourself
I am probably your oldest subscriber, and by that, I don't mean one of your first, I just mean old ;) I found your channel just the other day and there's just something about it. I chuckle every time you take a slurp of your coffee drinks. I loved your black Friday shopping haul (BTW: I more than remember the VS fold over yoga pants- some of my favs). And I just have to say to all the old duffers out there who don't think you can learn from people 1/2 your age "Duffer, you are wrong". "Home does not have to be just one place"- Brilliant!!! So true, and meaningful no matter your age. Thanks Hannah! Great content! Keep slurping. p.s. IARO
OMG the feeling you describes about moving this time is exactly the same for me which is hard Bc I started college here and it’s like I don’t even know if I belong here or if I can get through it. But I still feel like I’m in the right spot in my timeline.
I move out for college in September, I live 2 hours away from my mom and I never felt more happy than now. I also felt guilty about it, about being at peace only when I’m away but your video made me feel so much better tysm