Hook: Why parents hate their children

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  • Clip from the Disney movie "Hook" where the captain explains why parents hate their children. Funny stuff!
    I make no claim to any of this material...it is entirely Disney's. Enjoy!

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  • @CarroT0P
    @CarroT0P 10 ปีที่แล้ว +588

    "He took my toy, she hit my bear, I want to potty, I want a cookie, I want to stay up. I want I want I want me me me my my my now now now!" This movie brings me so much child nostalgia.

    • @TheDeathlessLordCerberus
      @TheDeathlessLordCerberus 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      *Enters Hooks room* "have a seat...what are you doing here"
      hook: Kidnapping pans kids...
      Hansen: and do these kids happen to be around 8 years old?
      Hook: Oh shit...it's not what it looks like...
      The sequel - "Fuck!"

    • @flo2265
      @flo2265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Isn’t it “mine mine mine?”

    • @that_goth_bitch3899
      @that_goth_bitch3899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He says a party not to potty and bell not bear. Lol

    • @shannenknudsen2608
      @shannenknudsen2608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      w m it was party*

    • @CarroT0P
      @CarroT0P 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shannenknudsen2608 You're wrong but I don't care.

  • @radicallytubular
    @radicallytubular 5 ปีที่แล้ว +482

    Whoever wrote this scene...is definitely a parent.

    • @alenicharles2330
      @alenicharles2330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aleni Rivera charles 💖

    • @bursegsardaukar
      @bursegsardaukar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This comment reminds me of the documentary in which George Lucas asked if somebody is a parent when they drew the not-yet-created General Grievous as an alien child.

    • @Digitalfairy
      @Digitalfairy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hashimhussain5566 Yep, or at the very least must be a reverse ageist.

    • @tnntlmmn277
      @tnntlmmn277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      a narcissistic one

    • @Yggdrasil1844
      @Yggdrasil1844 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@tnntlmmn277oh 🙃

  • @Aerba54
    @Aerba54 9 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    Like getting an "F" is the most of your worries while you're captured in an imaginary world by some brutal pirates
    LOL

    • @danielsultz1698
      @danielsultz1698 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Just shows you how much we indoctrinate our children. Teach them to conform to a system. Just how devastating was that "F"?

    • @johannaschmidt4744
      @johannaschmidt4744 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Daniel - Broseidon Incarnate 😂😂but she's cute and she's little ..and so

    • @tanamichl1082
      @tanamichl1082 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was so scared as a kid by that, it was like the single worst thing that could ever happen

    • @prettyboimut1
      @prettyboimut1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Daniel - Broseidon Incarnate lol she was so cute lol

    • @jdpragmatic8644
      @jdpragmatic8644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Daniel - Broseidon Incarnate/
      “Smee, flunk the maggot.”
      You gotta love how blandly flat Hoffman delivers that line😆

  • @gaoutlaw
    @gaoutlaw 8 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    "Smee, flunk the maggot."
    LOL

    • @krystalharwood2356
      @krystalharwood2356 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +IronDawg flunk for maggie

    • @ShadowAliea
      @ShadowAliea 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      "Abso-flunkin-lutely"

    • @shelbydahlem4795
      @shelbydahlem4795 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      AN F?! An F?! He gave me an F!

    • @lesliecunnis24
      @lesliecunnis24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WHAT ABOUT SMEE... SMEES ME!

    • @lesliecunnis24
      @lesliecunnis24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ShadowAliea it's "abso-floggin-lutley"

  • @EnemyAce88
    @EnemyAce88 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    "Lie? Me? Never! The truth is far too much fun."
    Criminally underrated and underused line.

    • @gavinlamp5426
      @gavinlamp5426 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know right? This movie is one of my favorite 😂

  • @jorisweyen7934
    @jorisweyen7934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    “The L word, captain!” The sheer look of terror on Hook’s face, wonderful.

  • @isaacgraff8288
    @isaacgraff8288 7 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    That awkward moment as a parent when you realize.... you are Hook.
    "They tell you stories to shut you up."

    • @WanderingRoe
      @WanderingRoe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Lol! It's why I don't wanna become a parent XD

    • @cyberpunkedgerunner2644
      @cyberpunkedgerunner2644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @bar rosner Indeed

    • @Auiskreno
      @Auiskreno 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Harry Hook he is smo of captain hook

    • @gitman3486
      @gitman3486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@WanderingRoe And so your preference dies with you and those who do want and love children get to go on through the generations into the future.
      You've fallen victim to psychological manipulation by people who want their line to continue at the expense of yours

    • @Redacted24-r2h
      @Redacted24-r2h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gitman3486 Do you have kids?

  • @chadking1938
    @chadking1938 8 ปีที่แล้ว +409

    Dustin Hoffman was awesome as Hook.

    • @CarroT0P
      @CarroT0P 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      First time I saw him act at age 7...now I watch Meet the Fockers and I see the progression... it's amazing.

    • @mysterio952
      @mysterio952 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hook was awesome as Dustin Hoffman

    • @roberttreacy8271
      @roberttreacy8271 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Chad King Definitely better than Christopher Walken.

    • @ChrisTigerHarris
      @ChrisTigerHarris 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chad king yes Dustin is my favorite as hook

    • @isaiahwilliams7150
      @isaiahwilliams7150 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Robert Treacy I enjoyed Christopher Walken as Hook, Jason Isaacs as Hook, Paul Schoffler as Hook, Cyril Ritchard as Hook, Corey Burton as Hook, and Hans Conreid as Hook.

  • @MrImastinker
    @MrImastinker 8 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    Hook is truly frightening not because he's a liar.
    But because he truly believes what he's telling Jack and Maggie. He's so cynical, so hateful, that he cannot possibly comprehend what it's like to love somebody.
    And that's one of the scariest things a person can be.

    • @MrOrcshaman
      @MrOrcshaman 8 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Well he spoke the truth, the only difference is that parents do love their kids, they just want time to themselves away from them sometimes

    • @MrImastinker
      @MrImastinker 7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      MrTaurenshaman Hook just can't tell the difference.
      Makes you wonder what HIS parents were like.

    • @deadcool3580
      @deadcool3580 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@MrImastinker his mom was a feared pirate. She raised him to be a pirate. But he didnt want to be one until he met peter pan. As a child james hook was bullied

    • @ajl577
      @ajl577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hooks character doesnt make you feel some type of way Mr Imastinker. What he's SAYING makes you feel some type of way. Big difference. It doesnt matter if he's lying or telling the truth, it doesnt even matter if he 'truly believes it' or not because it doesnt change the fact that it really could apply to anyone and more to the point that it could be true. He's just a messenger. 😱😳🤔🤣

    • @Rogerthatx10
      @Rogerthatx10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It was freakin’ hilarious though.

  • @OmegaJuggalo
    @OmegaJuggalo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    I have a weird theory about Hook. After all he has all sorts of information be could never have acquired, and despite being a villain he seems to do just as much to help Peter remember as anyone has. He always said he wanted a war, but all he does is goad Peter into being a better parent. In brainwashing Jack he almost gives Peter a glance into the future as to what will happen if he continuously ignores his children. It's as if Hook was never a villain at all, but an uncouth spiritual guide. Always thought it strange when he threatens "This is all a dream you know, when you wake up you'll just be Peter Banning, a selfish drunk who runs and hides from his wife and children"

    • @Skeez057
      @Skeez057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Insightful... makes sense

    • @youthchildofgod7381
      @youthchildofgod7381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Probably explains why Hook was so willing to stay in the same spot as the croc was coming down.

    • @ganjasmoke21
      @ganjasmoke21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Hook just aligned with the message of the movie is all..

    • @jamesboulger8705
      @jamesboulger8705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I definitely think Hook was just taunting him to get an upperhand.

    • @cyberpunkedgerunner2644
      @cyberpunkedgerunner2644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@jamesboulger8705 you mean... UpperHook? Haha

  • @johnmartin4119
    @johnmartin4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    “AN F!! HE GAVE ME AN F!!”
    I love that she loses it over the F but not the fact she’s being held hostage by a psychotic child murderer

    • @zacharysiple629
      @zacharysiple629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      More like she's loses it over HOOK giving her an F, like it really matters what Hook thinks- AFTER she calls him a liar. Ha ha!

    • @JesseJ588
      @JesseJ588 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Kids have a short attention span...

    • @afriendofbean
      @afriendofbean 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @johnmartin4119 I agree, it's surprising as to why she was so concerned about getting that "F" since she knows she's not really in school but only kidnapped by Hook and that "F" won't go on her permanent record

    • @afriendofbean
      @afriendofbean 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@zacharysiple629 That was actually Smee who gave her the "F" and not Hook.

    • @ZacharySiple
      @ZacharySiple 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@afriendofbean Well, Hook says "Smee, flunk the maggot" so Hook demanded the grade, and Smee wrote it down.
      Really, they both gave her the F.

  • @TheChaosDragoness
    @TheChaosDragoness 7 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    "They tell you stories to shut you up" Hook hit the nail on the head right there.

    • @charlieclark9552
      @charlieclark9552 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The Chaos Dragoness nah just put on spongebob

    • @DarthWill3
      @DarthWill3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "And conk you out."

    • @TheGreekPianist
      @TheGreekPianist ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He was wrong at one point, though. I always read to my siblings to make them sleep and bc I loved them 😊

    • @nz605
      @nz605 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheGreekPianist Wholesome. We need more people with your mindset.❤

    • @TheGreekPianist
      @TheGreekPianist ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nz605 Aw thank you. Same with you! 🥰😊

  • @ImmortalfireTheMod
    @ImmortalfireTheMod 10 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    "He took my toy! She hit my bear!" Hoffman is total genius as Hook.

    • @ValkyrieDaisy95
      @ValkyrieDaisy95 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree! XD Best Hook ever! He was SOOO suited to the role!

    • @NoobFLProducer
      @NoobFLProducer 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i want a potty, i want a cookie, i want to stay up, i want i want i want, me, me, me, me, mine, mine, mine, mine, now, now ,nooooooow, uhhhhhhhhhhh

    • @ValkyrieDaisy95
      @ValkyrieDaisy95 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol Comedy genius.

    • @NoobFLProducer
      @NoobFLProducer 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** Yes :)

    • @johannaschmidt4744
      @johannaschmidt4744 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Immortalfire yep you say it

  • @bloodwolf9017
    @bloodwolf9017 7 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Hook's outfit is the business. I always liked his red coat

    • @thebandit0256
      @thebandit0256 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It gives me Stuart vibes probably since James Hook is the missing son of King Charles II

    • @bloodwolf9017
      @bloodwolf9017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thebandit0256 Indeed. I wonder if he killed his father too

  • @80MWH
    @80MWH 8 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    When you think of it, the film reinforces that the effects of Neverland seem not to work so well on girls, like there's something about them that is unwilling to fully give themselves over to just up-and-forgetting things.
    Several iterations of Wendy in films have done this, and Maggie also falls into this category, in how she holds on strongly to the wish to go home to her parents.

    • @lordbrowning
      @lordbrowning 8 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      +80MWH kinda makes sense. Neverland is all about personal freedom, adventure, and avoiding responsibility. Girls tend to be more family and socially focused so the thought of absolute independence hold less appeal to them.

    • @kellynn739
      @kellynn739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That would explain why there are no "Lost Girls"

    • @supersaiandemon
      @supersaiandemon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      OH FINALLY! I always was puzzled as to how both Wendy and Maggie were so adamant about home. This makes total sense.

    • @mckenzie.latham91
      @mckenzie.latham91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I have always seen that feature as a reinforcement of motherly love
      for example in the 1953 animated film, wendy wants to go to neverland becasue her father wants her to grow up and and plans to remove her from the nursery
      and yet even in Neverland, wendy is designated the lost boys mother and she is the responsible one
      it’s only when michael and john forget their actual mother, the mother who loves them
      that Wnedy decides it’s time for them to go home
      and i think its because of motherly love or the motherly care that girls can withstand the effects of neverland.

    • @slipstreamxr3763
      @slipstreamxr3763 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@lordbrowning Also girls tend to be taught responsibility at a younger age then boys are. Even as little girls we often tend to roleplay as mothers/caretakers so we grow up learning that while it's good to have fun and be children one day this will end and we'll have to learn to be the primary role model for our own children. Boys by contrast aren't really taught the same level of responsibility, or possess it instinctively until they start hitting their late teens when they are expected to "man up" so to speak. So that's probably why part of the reason girls are more able to resist Neverland's magic then boys. We know we absolutely have to grow up, we just don't have to lose that childlike wonder about the world when we get older. After all if girls completely lost that childlike spark while maturing it would make it harder for us to understand our own children half as well. So in a way girls get the best of both worlds where we can be both mature and still appreciate the joy of youth in a way boys don't. Plus all women know that men never truly "grow up' so to speak, that's why they rely on us for so much even as adults.

  • @Senate300
    @Senate300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Anyone else love how Maggie wouldn't stand for Hook talking shit about her parents? But Jack swallows it because their dad has let him down so many times which gave Hook his opening.

    • @bursegsardaukar
      @bursegsardaukar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Not to mention Jack might be slightly jealous of Maggie since his parents especially his dad took time for her but he didn’t come to his baseball game.

    • @Senate300
      @Senate300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bursegsardaukar Ain't it the truth? Because of this inspite of their kidnapping Hook for a short time was the father figure to Jack that Peter wasn't.

    • @Digitalfairy
      @Digitalfairy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea, that's what I like about her.

    • @foxteen8721
      @foxteen8721 ปีที่แล้ว

      His mother comes to his games in fairness. His father wasn’t making the effort.

  • @TylerCharlesFisher
    @TylerCharlesFisher 6 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Do you realise just how much weight an "F" from Mr. Smee carries? Her chances of getting into Harvard just got slimmer.

    • @fartwet1355
      @fartwet1355 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Tyler Fisher he gave me an F and I’ve spent the last ten years cleaning poop out of urinals at a bowling alley. The league guys think it’s funny to “sport crap” as they say.

    • @kellynn739
      @kellynn739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nope, she had to settle for Trinity College instead. 😉

    • @CharlestonChica
      @CharlestonChica 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She had to go to Brown.

    • @afriendofbean
      @afriendofbean 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tyler Fisher I agree, now Maggie must feel that she will never graduate from pirate school with her being on a pirate ship, haha.

  • @ImmortalfireTheMod
    @ImmortalfireTheMod 12 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    "He took my toy! She hit my bear! I want a potty, I want a cookie, I want to stay up!"
    Dustin rules as Hook!

    • @Drirton
      @Drirton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      "He took my toy! She hit my bell! I want to potty! I want a cookie! I want to stay up! I want- I want- I want- Me- Me- Me- Me- Mine- Mine- Mine- Mine- Now- Now- Now... HEAUGH!"

    • @lesliecunnis24
      @lesliecunnis24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How does Spielberg think this is his worst movie! Shows what a hack he is when he can't see how good this movie is

    • @brittweasley7184
      @brittweasley7184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That part is funny!

  • @Eph_Wilson
    @Eph_Wilson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    My dad used to love this scene when I was a kid, and as an adult I realize it’s because Hook’s communicating to kids what a hassle they can be and gives them some empathy, but it turns straight into evil when he says her parents didn’t want her and liked life without her better. Sure, maybe there’s a few parents who do, but a lot of parents don’t. The fact that he can go from truth to a lie so smoothly is what makes him so scary 💀💀💀

    • @kjj26k
      @kjj26k ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He may not have even been lying, he could have truly believed those things. Which is scarier imo.

  • @queenmismatched
    @queenmismatched 12 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    "An F?! He gave me an F?!?!"
    Hermione would've just given in right then and there!!

    • @peterpan6027
      @peterpan6027 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ha Ha Ha Funny :)

    • @brittweasley7184
      @brittweasley7184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maggie is Hermione

    • @TheLatiosnlatias02
      @TheLatiosnlatias02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brittweasley7184
      way more likeable than Hermione

    • @afriendofbean
      @afriendofbean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @queenmismatched I found that funny how Maggie was concerned that she got an "F" since she knows that she's not really in school and it's not like that "F" would go on her permanent record.

    • @thebandit0256
      @thebandit0256 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hook vs Hermione
      Hermione wins

  • @thedonald6508
    @thedonald6508 8 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    That awkward moment when you realize Hook is 100% right. This part probably pissed off alot of parents

    • @inferno9714
      @inferno9714 8 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Parents: Damn it! They're on to us!

    • @catpeach326
      @catpeach326 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LMFAO!

    • @austinthomas8464
      @austinthomas8464 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hell yeah

    • @jlex1049
      @jlex1049 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's so true though.

    • @publius7023
      @publius7023 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The Donald Don't let Barron see this

  • @TheAaronmcmahon11
    @TheAaronmcmahon11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Using partial truth with a smile can trick anyone into anything. Hook would be amazing in a commission based retail position.

    • @PeterPan54167
      @PeterPan54167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well he is a pirate . Piracy took a lot more than a cutlass and cannons . You had to be able to talk and sell merchants stuff , fool and bribe people .

    • @jimbobago
      @jimbobago ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or politics.

  • @Whereyahidin
    @Whereyahidin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Lie??? Me??? HAAAAHAAHHAAAAHAAAAA!!!! NEVER!!! HHHHHAAAAAAA!!!! LMFAO That laugh kills me!!!!!

    • @DragoX7
      @DragoX7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The truth is far too much fun

  • @-Vitalis-
    @-Vitalis- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My parents once told me they wanted to have a son because both of them already enjoyed their time together, made some savings and "felt" the need to enrich their existance by forming a family and raising a new being.
    Of course, that was the only significative and endearing talk I had with them before they started working 24/7 and the only time I was able to see them... was when they were sleeping after a very long exhausting day. I used to read aloud my own books during bedtime.
    AND NOW I'M DOING EXACTLY THE FREAKING SAME WITH MY KIDS!
    ...
    Adulthood is complex.

  • @SuperCaders
    @SuperCaders 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hook may just be manipulating the two into joining him as part of his plan, but what if this little "why parents hate their children" lesson is like a window into Hook's personal backstory. Think about it; what if Hook lived in a loveless childhood home with negligent parents who abused him, paid little attention to him and probably even tried to dispose of him on more than one occasion just so they won't have to deal with him anymore? It would've made more sense for his character. A man who has no concept of love since he was never given any when he was a child himself because his parents HATED him.

  • @rudyhouse4670
    @rudyhouse4670 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    First movie I've ever seen where a brother and his sister don't fight/argue with each other

  • @waynemacfarland1546
    @waynemacfarland1546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hermione Granger's reaction to getting an F would've been the same as Maggie's.

    • @jasondyrkacz8270
      @jasondyrkacz8270 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hermione Granger would've grabbed one of Hook's hooks and committed suicide right there.

  • @thehedgehogsdilemma9478
    @thehedgehogsdilemma9478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    The sad thing about James Hook is that what he says perfect makes sense to him, he is not a liar, in his mind at least, he genuinely believes that he is telling them the truth and considering what a messed up childhood he had resulting in his cynical attitude towards the relationship between child and parent which is a reflection of his own dark relationship he had with his own mother when he was a little boy and the way she attempted to indoctrinate him to carry on the family tradition and be a pirate captain just like her, something he originally did not want to be, which makes his attempt to indoctrinate Peter’s kids come full circle in what, in a sad twist of irony, is what originally happened to him. Maybe that’s why he was so hell-bent on brainwashing Peter’s children, as a misguided attempt to vent his frustration from his own insecurities about the unresolved childhood trauma he endured from his mom when he was their age.

    • @mckenzie.latham91
      @mckenzie.latham91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      it’s also kind of sad since the last thing Hook does before he’s devoured by the crock clock is call for his mother.

    • @internetkurator9256
      @internetkurator9256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What are you talking about?? Hook was in Eton, probably a Stuart's bastard. We never learn of his chikdhood except it for sure was strict and rather cheerless.

  • @calebjackson7385
    @calebjackson7385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    That inhale of breath got me weak😂

  • @kararainamcmahon847
    @kararainamcmahon847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Loves you? Isn't that the uhh the uhh..."
    "The L word captain"

  • @jedhawkins1769
    @jedhawkins1769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Maggie protests against Hook with disobedience by attempting to tear off the hook and bravely uses her freedom of speech. She's so much like her great-grandmother Wendy when she refused to forget her parents.

  • @TheNN
    @TheNN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "Why parents hate their children"
    This same dynamic also applies to how most politicians think about their constituents too.

    • @jasondyrkacz8270
      @jasondyrkacz8270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Most politicians do hate their constituents.

  • @JD-rp3ob
    @JD-rp3ob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This scene hits so differently as a parent 😂

  • @johannaschmidt4744
    @johannaschmidt4744 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    He mades his voice much much deeper...but it sounds good I can't imagine another actor for this roll

  • @ravenousheathen4154
    @ravenousheathen4154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Growing up, every kid wanted to be Peter Pan; now that we're all adults with kids, we come to realize that Hook was the better option. I love this scene.

    • @patrickmartinez1998
      @patrickmartinez1998 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup

    • @Digitalfairy
      @Digitalfairy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nope, I just don't see the appeal in being a crooked, jaded that hunts after an immortal kid that stay young forever when you off doing your own thing FAR AWAY!

    • @morbidsearch
      @morbidsearch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why does the internet side with every villain even if they were actually in the wrong?

    • @kjj26k
      @kjj26k ปีที่แล้ว

      @@morbidsearch
      Morons think being contrarian makes them look smart.

    • @nz605
      @nz605 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@morbidsearchEh. It’s the popular contrary opinion faze when you’re growing up. They like to believe their viewpoint is special with a hint of edge lol They don’t realize how much of a hell it is being Captain Hook.
      Being as carefree and being heroic on the side as Pan still appeals to me as an adult.

  • @EvetsZerimar23
    @EvetsZerimar23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dustin Hoffman did a fantastic job as hook. Even as a kid I repeated his lines just bc they made me laugh.
    “Lie? Me? Hahaha... never. “

  • @ken131
    @ken131 12 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    As an adult, I like this sequence ever more. Because he's right.

  • @MrOrcshaman
    @MrOrcshaman 8 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    When I was a kid, I thought what hook was saying was just the mean words of a wicked pirate. Now some 25 years on, I realize, he was right the whole time. All parents want to do is pacify their kids, just to have some quiet moments to themselves.Now I know why my dad went to the local pub every night.

    • @makita3680
      @makita3680 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How did him going to the pub pacify you?

    • @thefilmexpert9655
      @thefilmexpert9655 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why didn't he just get rid of you if he didn't want you?

    • @mariananda5733
      @mariananda5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      a REAL parent would never think that their children are a trouble or an obstacle, a real parent really enjoys life with their children and educates them with all the value that a human being deserves. If you have bad parents it is because the way of raising children has changed, and now adults are more useless and childish. Kids grow up with rotten childhoods in modernity

    • @poweroffriendship2.0
      @poweroffriendship2.0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, no wonder why special snowflakes always there to destroy these days.

    • @poweroffriendship2.0
      @poweroffriendship2.0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So that's why parents demand most entertainment industry to make a children's show that is safe for kids so kids will just calm down.
      No wonder why Care Bears exist.

  • @collinator68
    @collinator68 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They say captain hook and his men were the first lost boys, but they grew up and became pirates having never known their parents love for them.

  • @derekmccluskey4931
    @derekmccluskey4931 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Maggie was such strong character. Hook trying to manipulate her. Maggie looks him in the eye and tells him he's a bad man. Then tries to rip off his hook telling him off how she hates him. So strong. Then as she's dragged out of the room she demands her brother hear shouting never land makes you forget, run home. The lore is never land does make you forget the real world. Jack completely forgets who his father is his father, and his former life because he was manipulated. But not Maggie. She never forgot. She sang her mom's song. When her dad appeared to save her at the end she immediately recognized him. Such a strong female character at such a young age. And props to the kid that plays her. I think Maggie is over looked and under rated. But she has few scenes and her co stars are big names. Love this movie. There's to many great Scenes. And the freaking soundtrack. Top 5 favorite movies

  • @SkyforgedFr
    @SkyforgedFr 9 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    As a parent, I think that what he says is half-true, half-wrong ;)
    Special mention for the "I want, I want, I want, me, me, me, my, my, my, now, now, now !" part !

  • @themovieguru1094
    @themovieguru1094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm still shocked that this film has gotten a lot of hate from film critics because they said that the tone and screenplay was too sweet and happy and Spielberg himself said that he was disappointed with how the film turned out, even though this film became a huge cult classic over the years.

    • @vincenthorn4767
      @vincenthorn4767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm bummed that Steven Spielberg was disappointed with this movie as for the critics movies back then didn't please them then and now years later that's more of a reality it just goes to show even if you put all the heart blood sweat and tears critics will never appreciate films but the absolutely funny thing these critics are not only hypocrites but no matter how many times they complain about certain film franchises there still going strong like godzilla, transformers, star wars ,etc just to name a few it's funny they put all there engery money and big mouths into putting a movie down and what's even funnier they fail because the franchise is still continuing and makes alot of money Soo ummm one question what's the point of having movie critics because the sad truth is there not happy until they make people miserable over a movie that they didn't like all because it didn't meet the critics expectations that means critics don't appreciate what is given but whos opinion is more important on wether a movie is good the audience who have a opened mind to give the film a chance or critics who upon seeing the slightest thing that they don't like disregard it as garbage well in my opinion it's the audience because like I said before they have a open mind and are willing to give the film a chance so bottom line is the critics can bitch and complain until they run out of breath because I see these critics running out of breath more quickly than any of these franchises going away anytime soon well at least we know who will go first oh well

  • @S1RWats
    @S1RWats 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    So very true ... all up until the moment where he says, "before you were born, they were happier." That's the only lie in the whole thing.

    • @lordbrowning
      @lordbrowning 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      +S1RWats Indeed and Peter at the beginning of the movies probably would have agreed with Hook. Then with the help of Tink and the lost boys he rediscovers the joys of being a child and realises that despite all the responsibilites that come with children, they also bring joy to your life. That why his joy at being a father is what allows him to fly again.

    • @danielsultz1698
      @danielsultz1698 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Actually, I don't believe that Hook is lying here either. Take a look at Peter Banning, and at Peter Pan. Peter ignored his family entirely, they were at best, a convenience. As Peter lived, he was entirely self-indulged. If you go back to the original stories of Peter Pan, Peter loved the thrill of the fight so much, that he would jump sides, and start attacking his own lost boys. Entirely self-indulged. Now some parents transition quite nicely, realizing that their world now is their kids' world. Some parents fail to make that transition. I really don't see Pan/Banning making that transition. So then his self-indulgent world becomes cluttered by his kids. So the way Hook described it would be in fact how Pan/Banning saw it, the kids were a burden to him. Before they were born, he was happier.... he was free.

    • @simonacannizzo1074
      @simonacannizzo1074 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah following Hook's logic that would make no sense: I mean isn't it kinda great that she is born then? Peter Pan is her dad....

    • @dg8676
      @dg8676 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Give it a few years and get back to me.

    • @lesliecunnis24
      @lesliecunnis24 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just admit you don't your kids folks... Its ok...

  • @LIQUIDSNAKEz28
    @LIQUIDSNAKEz28 8 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This was such an AMAZING fucking movie! I was 6 when I first saw this. I'm 25 now, and this hasn't aged a bit. Dustin Hoffman and Robin Williams were PERFECT for their roles. This is hands down the BEST Disney movie ever made.

    • @andrewcolinwilson1
      @andrewcolinwilson1 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dustin Hoffman's lead role in Teri Garr's 1982 family comedy, Tootsie must have given Robin Williams the idea to do his 1993 family comedy, Mrs. Doubtfire.

    • @LIQUIDSNAKEz28
      @LIQUIDSNAKEz28 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Andrew Wilson Damn that's right, they BOTH played cross-dresser roles LOL XD

    • @catpeach326
      @catpeach326 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This wasn't made by Disney. It was made TriStar Pictures. And yes, this movie is fucking awesome.

    • @andrewcolinwilson1
      @andrewcolinwilson1 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      And Tootsie's talented comedic genius, Teri Garr is now diagnosed with multiple sclerosis.

    • @lesliecunnis24
      @lesliecunnis24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spielberg says its his worst movie. Spielberg doesn't know shit!

  • @jdpragmatic8644
    @jdpragmatic8644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    “Smee, flunk the maggot”😆

  • @janetaldrich7747
    @janetaldrich7747 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I would have loved to see Alan Rickman in this part ...

    • @thesardonicrenegade
      @thesardonicrenegade 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Honestly, Alan Rickman would have made a great captain hook

    • @lilymoss-yerg9666
      @lilymoss-yerg9666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      OMG YOU ARE SO RIGHT!!!!! He would be so good at it!

    • @TheLatiosnlatias02
      @TheLatiosnlatias02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Turn to page 394!

  • @BlinkinFirefly
    @BlinkinFirefly 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Brilliant acting Dustin!!!!!!! ^ ^

    • @casmo87
      @casmo87 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what about the little girl- she was excellent, too

    • @fartwet1355
      @fartwet1355 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      His hook is almost sad. Like he’s ready to retire but damn it I’ve still got this Peter Pan bull to deal with then I can move somewhere with decent WiFi

    • @isaiahwilliams7150
      @isaiahwilliams7150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@piercestewart2045 No I actually hated this whole movie. What a piece of boring trash.
      I prefer all of the other versions of Peter Pan.
      Peter Pan Disney =Amazing
      Peter Pan Broadway with Cathy Rigby and Mary Martin=Brilliant
      Peter Pan 2003=Wonderful
      Peter Pan Live =Exciting
      Pan 2015=Just as exciting as Peter Pan Live
      Hook=boring trash

    • @rickbeniers667
      @rickbeniers667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@isaiahwilliams7150 k...

  • @A.French
    @A.French 8 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Whats funny is that dustin hoffman has 6 children in real life! :)

    • @2Scribble
      @2Scribble 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Who would know better?

    • @puterboy2
      @puterboy2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He probably get this from experience.

    • @AnitaGrace
      @AnitaGrace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And I believe Steven Spielberg also has 6 or 7. Double the experience points!

    • @butt5ful
      @butt5ful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      His son Max Hoffman actually played the younger Peter Pan from the flashbacks in this film.

  • @WolfieMcMuffin
    @WolfieMcMuffin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I agree 100% with Hook! Why bother to lie when the truth is much more interesting?

  • @shaunbritton939
    @shaunbritton939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    U see child your parents used to stay up all night just to watch the sunrise before u were born they were happy omg this is gold

  • @renegadeace1735
    @renegadeace1735 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "The truth is far too much fun" oooh I love how mischievous that line is.

  • @Drowfan
    @Drowfan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When I was around 8 years old and saw this scene, I told my mother: "Mom, I think he's right." She became embarassed and said: "Well, sort of." :D

  • @titoo9301
    @titoo9301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    All these years of watching Hook, I never stopped to realize that Captain Hook was threatening Jack when he tells him "Jack, you are home" while putting his hook up to Jack's face

    • @afriendofbean
      @afriendofbean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Tito O He was kind of making Jack feel like he is home by legally adopting him and granting any wish Jack wished for since much later in the movie when Jack was playing baseball, Hook said to him "this is for all the games you daddy missed, Hook would never miss your games son." For these reasons, Jack started to think of Hook as a father when his real father Peter said "Jack give me your hand and we'll go home" with Jack saying "I am home" while coming close to Hook. However, Jack got a change of heart feeling happy that Peter was his dad after hearing Rufio tell Peter that he wishes that Peter was his dad.

    • @auraguard0212
      @auraguard0212 ปีที่แล้ว

      >

  • @Perich29
    @Perich29 9 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Hook for president of U,S 2016

    • @simonster-9094
      @simonster-9094 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      with smee as vice president

    • @lesliel4392
      @lesliel4392 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you got what you wanted

  • @Nightshift10000
    @Nightshift10000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The cute, little urchin in the front row 😂🤣 Classic

  • @casmo87
    @casmo87 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    damn man. never really thought that much about how evil this makes hook out to be. taking kids to neverland brainwashing them into hating and then forgetting their parents and just leaving them to live the rest of their days as kids. i watched this a lot as a kid and all i ever really took in from this was 'i want, i want, i want, mee, me, me,me, mine,mine, mine, now, now, now 'gaaaaaaaaaaaaaah.'

    • @mariacillan9668
      @mariacillan9668 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But he's right. How is truth evil?

    • @casmo87
      @casmo87 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariacillan9668 Because he's using a certain truth, to brainwash kids into a depressing existence of mistrust and loss of hope. It's obvious. He uses 'the truth', at least his version of it, for evil purposes

  • @flyorraofficial
    @flyorraofficial 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Only a human being who hates their kids would bring them here to this insane world. If they loved you, you would never have been born.

  • @silverdaleks1
    @silverdaleks1 10 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "I want a potty." XD

    • @timobrien8809
      @timobrien8809 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think it's supposed to be "I want a party." It's just the way he pronounces it.

    • @silverdaleks1
      @silverdaleks1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@timobrien8809 according to Netflix subtitles it was potty.

  • @GuardianofAges2023
    @GuardianofAges2023 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Why parents -hate-" *nails on a chalkboard sound.* "Their children?" *shudders*

  • @TigerLilyPan
    @TigerLilyPan 11 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm from Germany and LOVE Dustin's voice!!!

  • @bg4928
    @bg4928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    His laugh set me up for adulthood. I mimic that laugh to this day including the intake of breath he does after haha

  • @alicia.mckenny
    @alicia.mckenny 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    As a child, I thought Hook was just being mean and was trying to make Maggie cry. As the parent of a two-year-old, I'm like, "Shit, did Hook have kids?!" Shit's too real.

    • @mariananda5733
      @mariananda5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      it is sad to see that parents only see their children as obstacles, you are only parents looking for excuses to get away from their children, that's why they end up alone and sad, because of the lack of GOOD parental attention
      Fuck you all

    • @trudystilt2360
      @trudystilt2360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mariananda5733 Do you have kids?

  • @ChrisTigerHarris
    @ChrisTigerHarris 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    hook's child rant at 0:50 lol

  • @elizakavon4923
    @elizakavon4923 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Favorite part 1:15 “That’s not true, Jack. You’re a liar!” I swear this was stuck in my head days after hearing it

  • @boba-pool3145
    @boba-pool3145 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1:42 this man was roasting before roasting was a BIG thing

  • @zaxbitterzen2178
    @zaxbitterzen2178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What's oddly endearing is that after this Hook puts all his energy into making Jack his son. Peter was so neglectful and so distant for so long he didn't even have to convince Jack much to join him. Often makes me wonder what would have happened had Jack stayed with Hook in Neverland.

  • @vahidshahadi9817
    @vahidshahadi9817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hook is an underrated movie. I ❤ this entire movie. Always found it to be a Classic. Not just saying that because of Robin Williams' tragic passing. Complete Respect to all involved making this film happen. The dialogue, acting & soundtrack all Brilliant 🙌❤😀

  • @siegfried7020
    @siegfried7020 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Do you know why Maggie tried to take his hook ? I think it's because she knew that without his hook, Captain Hook is nothing.

    • @Digitalfairy
      @Digitalfairy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well she's more observant.

  • @rogerfancher2672
    @rogerfancher2672 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I wonder how many kids would fear a made up bad grade more than what really matters, just to get an "A"

    • @danielsultz1698
      @danielsultz1698 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We indoctrinate our kids so much to conform to the system. That the grades matter so much. It honestly makes sense that the F offends her so much.

  • @Digitalfairy
    @Digitalfairy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I used to think his plan was lame... I watch this now and just think sarcastically back "Uhm... because they're toxic? Pissed that they can't live their dreams through us? Because they can't handle the fact that we'll fit into a secular, logical cookie cutter mold?"
    But let's face it, only the strong (those capable teaching true values, empathy and discipline) ought to have kids.

  • @maxkennedy7430
    @maxkennedy7430 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    And this is why I’m never gonna be a parent! XD

    • @mariananda5733
      @mariananda5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pathetic

    • @maxkennedy7430
      @maxkennedy7430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Merry G. Is it pathetic if I’m being honest? I don’t see you raise little brats?

    • @mariananda5733
      @mariananda5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@maxkennedy7430 It is pathetic because you allow yourselves to be influenced by the media so as not to have children.
      I don't have children but I wish with all my heart to have them, since I am probably infertile

    • @Joy6168
      @Joy6168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Merry G., have you tested to see if you’re infertile? Even if you are, there are other ways to have children, like adoption.

  • @Pogomix
    @Pogomix 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Amazing. Absolutely fucking amazing.

  • @djdeadbeat4380
    @djdeadbeat4380 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1:02 he says this bit without an ounce of self-awareness

  • @danielleanderson172
    @danielleanderson172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's why villians are smart not stupid

  • @gavinlamp5426
    @gavinlamp5426 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This movie is completely underrated. Dustin Hoffman's performance was so good, he's the first person I think of whenever someone mentions Captain Hook.

  • @cultescapee8740
    @cultescapee8740 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "How did you know about that?"
    Anyone else ever wonder how Hook knew about Peter not attending Jack's baseball game? Did he spy on them somehow?

    • @bloodyrose1985
      @bloodyrose1985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes. It’s implied in the beginning that he had a spy when Jack noticed his baseball was missing. Then Maggie said it was a mean, scary man at the window who stole it by claiming he was a window washer.

    • @BethGoth15
      @BethGoth15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bloodyrose1985 Not only that, Dustin was also the voice of the Pan Am plane captain. Which could indicate that it was Hook all along in disguise. I always had the theory that Hook and Smee searched for Peter for years in all parts of the world in alternating disguises, kidnapping other Peters' children (thinking he'd caught the real one) but then eventually found him in Banning.

  • @abjaaksm
    @abjaaksm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so insidious too because hook is in the position of power so the kids don’t have a lot of options whether to believe him or not

  • @sunzi42
    @sunzi42 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hook is talking about my parents!

  • @cameramark77
    @cameramark77 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    1:26 I'm dying on the floor laughing!!!!

  • @harrietriding858
    @harrietriding858 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    lol i wish hook was my school teacher at school, even though he is evil

  • @rhaenyralikesyoutube6289
    @rhaenyralikesyoutube6289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Exactly how does Hook telling the blunt truth make him evil?

    • @bursegsardaukar
      @bursegsardaukar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The truth hurts so in a way, he’s hurting the children by telling the truth.

    • @joecrow5484
      @joecrow5484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bursegsardaukar its always better to be honest than to fib, no matter how devastating the truth is imo

    • @Digitalfairy
      @Digitalfairy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joecrow5484 Until people continue bitching that "Telling them that is abusive" "You' make them less inclined" BS.

  • @That0neDeadGuy
    @That0neDeadGuy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Smee, flunk the maggot.”
    “Abso-flunkin’-lutely!”
    BRILLIANT.

  • @darkisato
    @darkisato 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    when your little u think hook is bad and evil...
    as a adult you nod and think he's kinda right there.

  • @wrestlingbear1188
    @wrestlingbear1188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He was giving them good advice.

  • @ajl577
    @ajl577 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This character and what he says here really makes some people lose their minds and get CRAZY defensive! I dont ascribe anything personal to it, I just think the dynamic is hilarious. But on a more psychological note, I think children AND parents can be selfish. But children are expected to be selfish, they cant help it. Parents are expected to be selfLESS. But FEELING selfish doesn't make you a bad parent it's what you DO with those feelings that's important. Also nothing wrong with wanting or not wanting kids. People who have them are not better or more selfless than those that dont. Ever had a kid that said 'I didnt ASK to be born!'? Ever said it yourself? It makes parents angry because it's true as much as what Hook says in the moment. But it's also true that the decision to have children is by origin a selfish one, (selfish isn't necessarily a negative word) it does call for you to make sacrifices and selfless decisions but you're not a saint because you do it, after all you chose that path/responsibility. It's just on you to decide if you can do that without excuse/fail because once a kid arrives, if you decide at any point that you cant uphold that end of the deal, you cant undo it. That's why I feel that you can never underthink that decision and I can at least respect those who are super honest about their feelings whether it's both or one or the other. Its not a competition nor a personal indictment since only you have the right answer for YOU.

    • @mariananda5733
      @mariananda5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Modern society teaches parents to be irresponsible, and to those who have no children, it teaches them not to love them or never want them. We live in times where adults behave like children and children live in loneliness and depression. no modern parent really knows how to raise their kids, parents today are all useless idiots

  • @ecardullo10
    @ecardullo10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Staying up to watch the sunrise." Is that what they call it now?

  • @adamsmith8307
    @adamsmith8307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It looks like he really is enjoying the role of Captain Hook.

  • @jameshook8871
    @jameshook8871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wasn't wrong was I?

  • @amadeaalmarada130
    @amadeaalmarada130 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Me watching this as a kid: he’s evil, parents don’t feel like that at all!!
    Me watching as a parent: weeeellllll

    • @mariananda5733
      @mariananda5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats really sad

    • @Rambouillet100
      @Rambouillet100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@mariananda5733 , it's not sad, it's the truth. Nobody without children can ever understand the magnitude of raising them. We have children because they are magical, wonderful, loving, and enriching little human beings. We have children because we want to bring magic into the world. The world would be a dark place without children for sure. However, we ALL make that decision without a clear understanding of what the responsibility actually entails. Until you have children, you cannot understand the sacrifice that it takes to raise them. All the little things that are so hard, but that are not immediately apparent. When you have children, you're entire identity becomes wrapped up in your children. Quiet moments alone with your partner become rare. Time to focus on your personal growth is extremely limited. You whole primary focus shifts to maintaining and teaching your children, and this is not something that you expect when you decide to have children. It doesn't matter how much experience you have with children, you cannot know the sacrifice until you have them! And it's hard. Children don't always come hardwired to be sweet and magical. I just had to put my two small kids in their beds because they won't stop hitting each other. They are still learning how to process their feelings, and so they often resort to venting those feelings through instinctive ways, which are obviously not acceptable. And for the next 15 years, it is my responsibility to keep those instincts in check for my children, and it gets tiring. There's no day off. Now, that being said, we all have a choice to make as parents. Despite the ring of truth to what Hook says here, there can be no denying the magic that a child carries within their little souls. As parents, we have to decide to nurture that spark of magic, protect it, and love it and vessel that carries it. We have to understand that the light within children is WORTH the sacrifice, no matter how great. That's what separates a good parent from a bad parent. There is no sin in recognizing the difficulty of parenthood. There is no sin in longing after our younger, easier, more carefree days before children. There is no sin in recognizing that we fall short of perfection. The sin occurs when we deliberately cease to make our efforts to cultivate the light, the magic, in the souls of children. Or worse, when we deliberately extinguish that light. There are bad parents out there, horrific people who refuse to care for their charges, or willfully abuse them. There's is no abyss that is too dark for those people. Hook is not lying here, and I'm not a bad parent for saying so. I'm a realist. The lie here is implied, which is that the magic that we bring into the world with children is not worth the sacrifice it takes. The sacrifice is absolutely worth it! In the movie, Peter sees his children as obstacles until he remembers the magic they hold in their hearts (the same magic we all hold that is dampened by age and cynicism). Peter WAS happier without children! We all were! Children are hard to handle on a constant basis. However, our lives are much richer and more joyful with children in them. Our lives are full of more love when children are around. The WORLDis richer and more joyful with children it it! This is why, despite facing that moment that all parents come to when they realize that their decision to have children resulting in a sacrifice that is more than they want to give, good parents stick it out and try their best, and provide their children with love and nurture. Because they recognize that all children are indeed worth sacrificing for.

    • @mariananda5733
      @mariananda5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Rambouillet100 Okay, I'm not going to read the bible you wrote. having children is important, people who hate them are trash. The end.

    • @Rambouillet100
      @Rambouillet100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mariananda5733 You are absolutely right.

    • @trudystilt2360
      @trudystilt2360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Rambouillet100 Very well said.

  • @fido9745
    @fido9745 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The girl’s, Maggie’s, performance has lived in my head rent free for 27 years.

  • @ShatnerLover
    @ShatnerLover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of my earliest crushes was on Dustin Hoffman’s Captain Hook.

  • @rchloe-bv3sl
    @rchloe-bv3sl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I was a 4 year old kid watching this on VHS I wanted Jack to forget his family and remain under Hook's tutelage.

  • @bursegsardaukar
    @bursegsardaukar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maggie: You’re a liar!
    The Architect: Denial is the most predictable of human responses.

  • @mikeyisniceha
    @mikeyisniceha ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I heard no lies from captain hook

  • @jinx1987
    @jinx1987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *Turns accusingly at my parents*

  • @CrimsonHelldrake
    @CrimsonHelldrake 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hoffman sure managed to Dust off the acting script for the role he was In!

  • @davidtroutman4483
    @davidtroutman4483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To be honest Captain Hook is speaking the truth sometimes parents tell us stories to shut us up and conk us out to stupefy us to sleep

  • @marvinthemaniac7698
    @marvinthemaniac7698 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    0:54
    I used to rewind that part so much as a kid! Made me laugh every time. 😂😅😅😅

  • @ronaldg4221
    @ronaldg4221 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this scene. I recite it to my children when they act up. A lot of what he says is true, sort of. He is spot on about kids being that way but not about parents hating their children.

  • @Francois176
    @Francois176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God damn Dustin Hoffman nailed that role. His voice is masterful