Please do more videos, I am in the process of separation and it would be a dream to have you take on my case but I am sure your fees are more than I can afford. I have no doubt your skills, expertise and experience are worth that and much more but these videos are the only thing accessible for some. Please keep up the amazing work you do!
Thank you for this calm sensible advice. Often children are used as pawns in a battle between their parents. Your sensible advice to keep the main focus on what is best for the children was clearly and effectively delivered. This video has reframed our situation to focus on the child, and how to best parent him. The adult part is an adult problem, but custody is no longer the focus in our case. How to best raise our child is.
That is so nice to hear, thank you for taking the time to leave this comment, it really means a lot to me and motivates me to do more of these videos :)
Ive been separated for over 6 yrs. I had shared custody until I started setting boundaries over cohersive control. I had social services help me when the mother was hitting my son. Hes 9 now. Ive been denied access for 5 weeks now. I went to.mediation and the mother was invited and she refused. She is out for blood and complete control. As far as she's concerned our son is hers and hers alone. I can see parental alienation happening right now and she refusing to co parent or communicate. I have no choice but to go to court. I could easily prove her abusive ways but it woukd only hurt my son. I just want to see him and have the mother leave me to be the great father that I am. Ive always been her punching bag or cash point. Its been relentless. Every holiday and every opertunity to abuse has been taken. Her last move was to throw all the pieces and the board onto the fire. That includes herself and my son just to punish me. At first I thought bitterness..then menopause.. then one of the many personalty disorders now I fear a form of alzheimers..her mother and her mother before that were diagnosed at age 50.. my ex is now 47.. the childish behaviour, the aggression and the irrational responses are all to familiar. We watched it eat her mother alive. How can I go to court without dropping bombs. I dont want war but I can see it coming my way... I already feel like Pearl Harbour. The police have told me the would arrest her for her last outburst and im torn as to let them or not. I feel like me and my son are like lambs to the slaughter against her accusations if I don't. She doesn't react or respond rationally ever. I feel sorry for her but I feel worse for my son. We are both in the flames and the court thing can't come quick enough. Either way his mother is out of control and she's willing to open pandoras box. This is tuff...real tuff.
The very reason for separating is getting money for a wife. She leaves early morning and comes back late home just to show this is my home hence I can sleep here. She is exercising her rights on all physical properties and money investments but not doing anything towards kids care or making any efforts to win their heart . She has zero interest for kids in leaving from marriage . And more than anything kids absolutely don’t want I live with their mother. Right now and from last 20 years they are raising under grandma care and dad care primarily . How csn custody be decided 50/50 if the other one hardly has any interest for kids . And more over kids do not have any bonding towards mother . Please guide , my family member is going through divorce in British Columbia currently and he is very concerned about kids
An abusive husband can never be a great father, what example is he laying out for his kids?? That his male child can beat the shit out of his wife or that his daughter should settle for an abusive partner. A bad person is a bad parent, no two ways about it.
My husband is narcissist I want divorce 😭 i been asking for divorce he said I can start filling I can't stand him at hom we have 3y old and 8 months old please guide me should I leave the kids home move out or should I find children custody,?
For the 26 often lies can be fixed and if you dont know you are the reason be cause of hate for yourself to succeed from an issue called bumming what in the world have you done with your cap son now stop it bc you never expected an irrelevent action did i?!!!!?
Please do more videos, I am in the process of separation and it would be a dream to have you take on my case but I am sure your fees are more than I can afford. I have no doubt your skills, expertise and experience are worth that and much more but these videos are the only thing accessible for some. Please keep up the amazing work you do!
Such a great video! I really wish my baby mother would watch this and come to her senses
Thank you for this calm sensible advice. Often children are used as pawns in a battle between their parents. Your sensible advice to keep the main focus on what is best for the children was clearly and effectively delivered. This video has reframed our situation to focus on the child, and how to best parent him. The adult part is an adult problem, but custody is no longer the focus in our case. How to best raise our child is.
That is so nice to hear, thank you for taking the time to leave this comment, it really means a lot to me and motivates me to do more of these videos :)
This is excellent. Thank you
Ive been separated for over 6 yrs. I had shared custody until I started setting boundaries over cohersive control. I had social services help me when the mother was hitting my son. Hes 9 now. Ive been denied access for 5 weeks now. I went to.mediation and the mother was invited and she refused. She is out for blood and complete control. As far as she's concerned our son is hers and hers alone. I can see parental alienation happening right now and she refusing to co parent or communicate. I have no choice but to go to court. I could easily prove her abusive ways but it woukd only hurt my son. I just want to see him and have the mother leave me to be the great father that I am. Ive always been her punching bag or cash point. Its been relentless. Every holiday and every opertunity to abuse has been taken. Her last move was to throw all the pieces and the board onto the fire. That includes herself and my son just to punish me. At first I thought bitterness..then menopause.. then one of the many personalty disorders now I fear a form of alzheimers..her mother and her mother before that were diagnosed at age 50.. my ex is now 47.. the childish behaviour, the aggression and the irrational responses are all to familiar. We watched it eat her mother alive. How can I go to court without dropping bombs. I dont want war but I can see it coming my way... I already feel like Pearl Harbour. The police have told me the would arrest her for her last outburst and im torn as to let them or not. I feel like me and my son are like lambs to the slaughter against her accusations if I don't. She doesn't react or respond rationally ever. I feel sorry for her but I feel worse for my son. We are both in the flames and the court thing can't come quick enough. Either way his mother is out of control and she's willing to open pandoras box. This is tuff...real tuff.
sounds brutal.... how is it now? what happened? everything ok now, 3 years later?
The very reason for separating is getting money for a wife. She leaves early morning and comes back late home just to show this is my home hence I can sleep here. She is exercising her rights on all physical properties and money investments but not doing anything towards kids care or making any efforts to win their heart . She has zero interest for kids in leaving from marriage . And more than anything kids absolutely don’t want I live with their mother. Right now and from last 20 years they are raising under grandma care and dad care primarily . How csn custody be decided 50/50 if the other one hardly has any interest for kids . And more over kids do not have any bonding towards mother . Please guide , my family member is going through divorce in British Columbia currently and he is very concerned about kids
An abusive husband can never be a great father, what example is he laying out for his kids?? That his male child can beat the shit out of his wife or that his daughter should settle for an abusive partner. A bad person is a bad parent, no two ways about it.
My husband is narcissist I want divorce 😭 i been asking for divorce he said I can start filling I can't stand him at hom we have 3y old and 8 months old please guide me should I leave the kids home move out or should I find children custody,?
Can one parent receive sole custody of a child if both parents agree on it in the separation agreement?
Absolutely.
For the 26 often lies can be fixed and if you dont know you are the reason be cause of hate for yourself to succeed from an issue called bumming what in the world have you done with your cap son now stop it bc you never expected an irrelevent action did i?!!!!?