I'm over being JUDGED for my handbag collection...😢

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @bstrong5016
    @bstrong5016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love watching your collection grow and evolve. That's why most of us are here! So thank you for sharing.

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for following me!!!! ^_^ 🌹

  • @kateef8441
    @kateef8441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love how reflective you are and appreciate you sharing that part of yourself with us.

  • @jmoff54
    @jmoff54 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Honestly I wouldn’t give judgemental comments any power or room in your head Jessie. Collect, buy, sell, use or don’t use; that’s a person’s individual choice. I have a small collection. Some I wear and some I wear occasionally. I love looking at them in my closet. I’ve sold some because they didn’t end up fitting my lifestyle. If I felt like selling one just to make money or to use the money to buy a different bag I would in a heartbeat. So really you do you!!! I can say that the bags on your shelves behind you are stunning!

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks J!!!! Indeed!! As time goes by I realise life is best when I go with my own gut! ^_^

    • @jmoff54
      @jmoff54 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jessiestyle Absolutely!! Judy

  • @ballet07
    @ballet07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    For myself, these videos are more than just about the bags. I enjoy your personalities, storytelling and sense of taste!!!😁

  • @SandRaisin
    @SandRaisin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    People judge us on everything, not just bags. Just ignore these people and live our lives our way xoxo

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      nicely said!!! xoxoox

  • @terrasaunders8627
    @terrasaunders8627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jess, you are one of a kind! Your particular passion for bags is WHY we watch. It’s so refreshing to show your raw and honest experiences of bag buying, obsessing, budgeting, joy, pain and judgement. We should consider ourselves lucky that you let us share in your life for fun and for FREE. We should be grateful that you spare us the 5 minutes of ‘disclaimers’ that attempt to sway us into thinking a certain way about you. Your grateful subscribers (7k!) love your content and your beautiful face and spirit. For everyone else, there’s an X in the top right corner.

    • @andreeagratiela1163
      @andreeagratiela1163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Such a lovely comment! ❤️

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤗Thanks so so much Terra!!! I am so lucky to have your support!!! It means a lot!!! I will keep doing my best ^_^

  • @jesusisfaithful7
    @jesusisfaithful7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    JESS YOU WORK HARD AND IT'S YOUR BUSINESS HOW YOU SPEND YOUR MONEY. MOST PEOPLE TALKING NEGATIVE CAN'T AFFORD TO BUY WHAT THEY WANT, SO THEY MAD AT THE PEOPLE WHO CAN. IGNORE THEM AND KEEP BUYING WHATEVER YOUR HEART DESIRES!!!!

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THANKS TRACEy!!! I will follow my heart!!! 😍

  • @dilevinvaldez1608
    @dilevinvaldez1608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I understand where you’re coming from. But it’s also a little tiring to see influencers getting Birkins and Kellys left and right. Like, we barely saw them a few years ago, now everybody has them, and not just one but several which is a little crazy considering how much they cost. It feels like people are trying to keep up with the latest thing and flex(unpopular opinion I know).

    • @TheCiamarie
      @TheCiamarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A bit fash fashion vibe. I catch myself obsessing even though my bank account doesn't allow.

    • @AnUrbanGypsy
      @AnUrbanGypsy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Whatever is in fashion at the time. Yes, previously it was Chanel and particularly the classic flap, now it’s Hermès, mainly B & K. Maybe there’ll be a reversal and next it will be Longchamp! I can join in with that one, haha.

    • @nsorx1765
      @nsorx1765 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AnUrbanGypsy 😊

    • @JoJoLux
      @JoJoLux 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      As someone that has more than one Kelly and birkin I can say that my personal motivation is not to keep up with the latest thing. When I got my first birkin I thought that it wasn’t just the only bag I wanted but all my shopping needs answered! However, for a handbag lover, it can be addictive. The different styles, sizes, leathers and colours! They are expensive but like Jessie, I work hard and that’s where I choose to spend my money.

  • @ThisIsLesli
    @ThisIsLesli 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessie, once again I’m struck by how thoughtful and intelligent your videos are. You articulate so much of what I and many other handbag collectors think about as we navigate the curation of our collections. Your channel is so refreshing and interesting because it’s not just about showing your latest acquisition - there is real thought-provoking commentary behind it. Baffled as to why you don’t have a six-digit follower count. ❤

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      aw gosh thanks so much Lesli!!! your comment definitely motivates me ^_^

  • @lovenluxe
    @lovenluxe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are right different people collect different things. I know people who collect cars. My husband and I collect properties. I personally love my luxury items and will continue to buy them. We share what we love because there is a community of people who share the same love for these things. Sharing is caring😉🙂🥰💞

  • @toki7111
    @toki7111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg people are just jealous because you have a great collection. I love how your collection is so versatile and different 🤎🤎

  • @Whitedove6
    @Whitedove6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have A Beautiful Collection 💖🛍️ As long as Your Happy That's All that Matters 💖

  • @karriek2207
    @karriek2207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent video. Additionally I enjoying seeing all the beautiful colors of the bags behind you.

  • @MeBeSabby
    @MeBeSabby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your channel Jessie! Your display is so beautiful and I was finally able to create one for myself recently for all of my bags. I’m definitely in love! If it’s something that brings you joy, you should do whatever makes you happy. You deserve it💞🤗

  • @camiscloset2369
    @camiscloset2369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I haven't been doing this very long, but I have noticed that unboxings(luxury) or at least my unboxings definitely get the most views. I have to come up with other interesting content because I cannot keep up with that, lol. I'm not doing this for money, it's just for fun and to share an interest that I have with others that have the same interest. My husband and sons run the other way if I even mention the word bag and my circle of friends do not spend money on bags. The collection never ends. There will always be a new bag in a new color. It's relaxing to watch videos. It's like watching an interesting TV show.

  • @Nita19SC04
    @Nita19SC04 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We are bag lovers. They will never understand 🤭 Your collection is totally different since the beginning of this channel. I remember a lot of LV monogram bags on the shelves and I love that as much I love the bags you have nowadays. We get old and our taste is always changing.

  • @JasonLuxLover
    @JasonLuxLover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you and your beautiful collection! I agree with you on bags! 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @DaylesAddiction
    @DaylesAddiction 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video Jessie
    I find this to be the case also with lot fitting a particular niche in terms of age or looks on YT too
    Something that is hard to face but I think ultimately makes you a better person.

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!!! we get judged for all sorts of things! It's not fair but I guess life sucks sometimes hahahahhaha

  • @AndreasVibes
    @AndreasVibes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As someone who collects fragrances I can safely say that there is no end goal … as I am a hoarder I really collect them instead of selling the ones I don’t necessarily wear. But … that’s how I do it 😂, mostly because I'm just too lazy to list fragrances somewhere. After all, it's just a hobby and passion like any other passion.
    As for handbags: I actually pulled the trigger on a pre-loved puzzle bag this morning after endless days and hours of research, pondering, comparing prizes, thinking about which size to get etc. The puzzle bag somehow made it onto my wishlist of luxury items about 3-4 years ago, but somehow I wasn’t willing to go through with it. I have to admit that I did something that might be frowned upon in the handbag community: I got a dupe (looks like a puzzle bag, but doesn’t have any branding) just to try it out and see whether the medium is big enough for my needs (it isn't as I'd like to be able to have my iPad in it that I need for work … so large it is). Then I saw your latest thumbnail with your puzzle nag in my feed and thought: just do it. I hope this is not the start of another collection 😂, although I have somehow always watched bag community videos thanks to Dacob, Romina and you.
    Oh, and I also once bought a very inexpensive used bag by Vivienne Westwood and don’t have any attention wearing it. It's a denim Yasmine bag that has a bookshelf with dystopian novels printed on it: the nerd and Vivienne Westwood fanboy just had to own it although I know that I don’t do top handle bags😳, but looking at it just brings me joy despite it being in an abysmal state (wrinkled, used and abused; but it definitely has got a story to tell).
    In short: just do you!

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      CONGRATS ON YOIR NEW PUZZLe! Its one of my favs!!! keep me updated on how you like it!!!

  • @ej5082
    @ej5082 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Couldn’t agree with you more! I love handbags and it de-stresses me. Loved Lisa Frank! 😁

  • @JasonLuxLover
    @JasonLuxLover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We love you Jess💕💕💕💕

  • @corikay
    @corikay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We grow, evolve, change our minds…enjoy and pass on the bags to others…and I am happy in the process!!! I’m not a TH-camr, and I loose money on each bag I sell…but I learn something each time, about what I love, what I don’t and it helps to refine my decisions going forward! 🥰💖🤗

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes!! we are always learning!!!

  • @JasonLuxLover
    @JasonLuxLover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do think some people buy some bags just to make their selves look good and keep their collections relevant for TH-cam especially! And you can see once everyone got the 22 bag and made a complaint on it the whole TH-cam community started complaining about it there’s not a lot of content you can make you need to be creative! I love Romina and her shopping and travel vlogs I love your discussion’s you have and love Dacobs point of view your all creative in different ways 💕💕💕💕 always be yourself and be a leader not a follower 💕💕💕

  • @rhondafrazier8205
    @rhondafrazier8205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jesse I don’t think you need to explain to anyone why you collect bags. You do you! I think you are very smart and beautiful. You enjoy your Hermes bags and don’t owe anyone any conversation as to why you buy them. The people that make negative comments are not worth addressing. I love your channel and content. I enjoy thinking about my next luxury purchase! I can afford it, so why not! ❤️

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i love thinking about my next purchase too!!! even if i dont buy it it nice to think hehheh thanks Rhonda!!!

  • @mariac6759
    @mariac6759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Those comments say more about them (and their lives) than on you so just keep doing the things you love and we will continue watching. Congrats on the growth of your channel!

  • @Shaz-Daz
    @Shaz-Daz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The important thing is to actually be content with what you have. I find that you're never really content with what you have Jess. You're just always looking for the next best thing.

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks for watching!

    • @Shaz-Daz
      @Shaz-Daz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Jessiestyle it's OK that you're in denial. You'll wake up one day 👍

  • @JasonLuxLover
    @JasonLuxLover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You got me wanting to start my Hermès collection with a clutch I want one soo bad now!!! 💚💚💚💚

  • @thatspeedy20girl20
    @thatspeedy20girl20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautifully said my friend ❤️ I have enjoyed watching you for so long and just can’t believe my eyes now looking at your wall 🙆🏻‍♀️ Your journey has been non stop FUN, exploration and learnings. You achieved it so organically being your beautiful authentic self with passion for the hobby, soooo I can’t help but laugh at these comments 🤷🏻‍♀️I only feel positivity and see you shining sister. You keep you blinding them. Hold up let me put these shades on ☀️☀️😎🤣LOL👏🏼👏🏼🥂😘

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HAHAHHAH omg!!! I hope they are fancy shades!! Lets put on our LOuis Vuitton Shades!!!

  • @carolynm.8868
    @carolynm.8868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jess, I admire you for staying nice and sweet while being judged. Your fans like you just the way you are…passionate about your collection.

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😊thanks so much Carolyn!!!

  • @TheCiamarie
    @TheCiamarie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep doing you..I really appreciate your talk on how luxury is getting kinda fash fashion energy in the past. Appreciate your view

  • @luxwithyuri
    @luxwithyuri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Who cares what people think, if it makes you happy that’s all that matters. That’s what life’s about enjoying the things we love 💕

  • @rozsakyshki1930
    @rozsakyshki1930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The fact you played that sweet happy 80s elevator music at the end is hilarious! Found you through Dacob

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      HAHHAhahah love Dacob!!! Thanks so so much Rozsa!!! appreciate your support!!!

  • @Buttercookiesssss
    @Buttercookiesssss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Some ppl are just plain rude. Don't let them get into your head, Jessie! You spend your money there's no need to explain why and how you spend xoxo

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks TT agree!!

    • @Buttercookiesssss
      @Buttercookiesssss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sending you lots of love
      😘😘😘 Have a good weekend!

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      have a great weekend too!!

  • @shelleyiannella4240
    @shelleyiannella4240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jesse you don't need to explain what you spend your money on that is your business😊 I love your bags x

  • @amadamartinez4685
    @amadamartinez4685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Enjoy your bags if they make u happy that’s all it matters ⭐️

  • @karenalowe2210
    @karenalowe2210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats on getting to 7k, Jess - very well deserved xx

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much Karena 🤩🥰😍😇💖💖💖💖

  • @lorrainepalmier1777
    @lorrainepalmier1777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been following your 😍 channel 😍 for a while and as a collector of bags myself over many years, I would like to know what made you switch from buying LV and Chanel bags to now mostly Hermes? By the way I can relate to this video as I don't use my 🛍 😂 😂

  • @AR-jw6kn
    @AR-jw6kn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ignore negativity, people are always going to judge. Keep doing what makes you happy. Love your videos.

  • @anjaprachtstueckwerk7546
    @anjaprachtstueckwerk7546 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please don´t let negative people spoil your passion and happiness! You don´t need to apologize for loving your bag collection! It´s yours! It´s gorgeous!

  • @holliehoward5484
    @holliehoward5484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I enjoy your channel so much !🖤 hopefully the nasty comments don’t affect you to much ! I love ❤️ seeing your collection grow and change

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks so much Hollie!!!

  • @andreeagratiela1163
    @andreeagratiela1163 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessie, I love your hair in this video! You look gorgeous! Now, when it comes to the video topic, you do you and enjoy your passion to the maximum! 😎

  • @lovemichelle3657
    @lovemichelle3657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Jess
    I enjoy watching your videos. I think people don’t mean to judge you, I think they simply wonder why you can afford to buy so many expensive handbags one after another in such a short timeframe. You mentioned in your former videos that you work really hard, but I think majority of people take their jobs seriously. I think it will be great if you can do a sit-down chat type finance videos. Your fellow youtubers like Classics with a quirk, Dayle from Dayle’s addiction or Conner from Conner’s closet did these types of videos and I thought it was really real.

  • @devincristopher3
    @devincristopher3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    congratulations on 7k🌈🤗🎀🎃🎀

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @KariTSays
    @KariTSays 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You should never feel like you have to explain anything to anybody.. this is the reason I’m trying not to put all my bags and my whole designer collection on my TH-cam channel. I don’t wanna have to explain myself to anyone to deal with the hate or jealousy or whatever it might be from other people. I post just a glimmer.

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hmmmm!! awwww yes i know!!! well if you do make a youtube let me know!!! Ill subscribe!!!

  • @nursejoylvoesbags8253
    @nursejoylvoesbags8253 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessie you’re just fine. You owe no one an explanation. People really need to mind their own business-on the real. Love your content girlie. Keep doing you & making cool yt content 👜💜🤗🥰

  • @bitsnbags
    @bitsnbags 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love my collection, it's taken me a long time to acquire, and have worked hard for it.
    Unfortunately ppl will judge always 😕 but we love what we love. I can see the collector in me too xx

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hehe indeed!!! We work too hard for bags hahahhaha! Miss hanging out!!

  • @Bhlisse
    @Bhlisse 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting topic !!!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts dear Jessie ! I do relate to what you explained... 😉👍😉

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      have a lovely weekend!!!!!

  • @pinkbutterflygirl
    @pinkbutterflygirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👋🏽 OMG. I love LIsa Frank🦄 I totally agree with you. I’m a collector of many things that I enjoy from makeup to Starbucks cups and a lot more 😂 I think we should just be able to love what we love and not be criticized for it. Everything is not for Everybody and that’s okay. TFS

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      awww starbucks cups!!!! They have tempted me !! I have one starbucks bear hahahahha

    • @pinkbutterflygirl
      @pinkbutterflygirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jessiestyle Yes, they are! I have the Christmas ornaments too! Haha 😂

  • @mermikk
    @mermikk 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I personally am not a fan of collecting nor hoarding handbags. I only have 1 luxury handbag which is a dark beige YSL sac de jour. Although I do plan to buy a black bag. I prefer something I can beat up in the long run and use everyday as I have no intentions on selling them whatsoever. So 2 luxury handbags is enough for me as long as it matches my style and most of my clothes are neutral anyway. But I don't really bother people who do love collecting bags especially people I DO NOT KNOW (if it was a family member then yeah maybe haha). May it be for their own vanity, for art, or as a part of their fashion career. If they like it, let them be. We can go on and on complaining about how "wasteful" it is, but honestly, people will spend on whatever they wanna spend. Who are we to dictate what they do with their own money? If you're the minimalistic type, good for you. If you're the extravagant one, you get a pat on the shoulder too. Let us mind our own business and let people indulge on their hobbies/lifestyle that doesn't harm others. Learn the subtle art of not giving a fck. Most people who complain about these things are the ones who can't even afford. I know for myself I cannot afford Hermes. But I do admire it on other people who has them.

  • @Kate_Mnl
    @Kate_Mnl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting topic and I enjoyed listening to your views. It is a given when viewers judge TH-camrs but what I can't take is when TH-camrs judge other TH-camrs. Jealousy is so obvious.

  • @pbrd4695
    @pbrd4695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    No judgement here, I collect bags as well. I LOVE handbags!
    Don’t let the negative nillies affect you. Enjoy watching ur videos😊

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hehe thanks!!! yes those negative nillies won't get to me hehe

  • @Nita19SC04
    @Nita19SC04 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We get just for everything... Ignore them and be happy with what makes you happy ❤️

  • @mgltheexplorer
    @mgltheexplorer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your life your money your rules❤️ Nevermind those judgemental pips! Jealousy kills them🤣

  • @Natalia_Kowal
    @Natalia_Kowal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessie this was an amazing video! You made a few really valuable points 🙌🏻 and CONGRATULATIONS on 7k! 🎊 I remember being here when you were 1.8?? Enjoying your honesty and transparency 😊

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      OOoooOOOO!!! Yes Im so happy my channel has grown!!! Have a lovely weekend!

    • @Natalia_Kowal
      @Natalia_Kowal 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jessiestyle thank you and you too Jess! 💓

  • @jessigreer
    @jessigreer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t have time to say everything I want to but you’re a doll-keep doing what you’re doing, your authenticity shines through. I loved the Evangelista/Moss video, it was inspiring in an interesting way, kind of telling me to seize the day 😘

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes!!!! I watched them a few times!! such icons!!!

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      and thankyou!!!

  • @rebeccashhhh
    @rebeccashhhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Buy and sell to your hearts content! You’re ability to let go of a handbag is just one of the reasons I enjoy watching you, it’s kinda reassuring to me who has a hard time letting go of a handbag that I once loved but now finds it just sitting there. I enjoy watching your channel for your personality and your opinions; and like seeing what you’re letting go and adding. You have interesting and evolving taste and aren’t after the next hot thing all the time.

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks so much Rebecca!!! Im glad we can share our love of bags together!!

  • @lovenluxe
    @lovenluxe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful clutch💗

  • @Justme-x4h
    @Justme-x4h 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s your money, you decide what you do with it. Same people that judge will go splurge on something else. It’s funny because you see men collecting watches and nobody care but women collecting handbags, suddenly it’s a shame. We can tell it’s a passion for you ( I do have the same passion) , keep doing what you love.

  • @jessicalovesluxedesignerfa3806
    @jessicalovesluxedesignerfa3806 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "The thrill of the chase"

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahah yes!! Bags are my drugs hahahhahah!

  • @5Heliotrope
    @5Heliotrope 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jess, I will tell you something that took me YEARS to understand myself... When someone judges you, they obviously have a problem. But when YOU get offended or hurt by the judgment, you make their problem YOUR problem... It's a decision you make. See it as just that.

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      very wise words!!!

  • @davidanderson8704
    @davidanderson8704 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't let the Trolls get you down
    I really enjoy your vids, and so do at least 7000 people too 👍

  • @scooter028
    @scooter028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If a TH-camr is buying and selling bags solely for content:
    1-no one is forced to watch any video or creator on TH-cam
    2-for someone like me who isn't interested in spending that kind of money but still loves handbags, thank you! 😆I get that "inside look" at bags that I'd never buy but love to know about and see...for free!
    I'll never understand people who complain about what TH-camrs do. It's a "free" voluntary platform. 🤷‍♀️

    • @scooter028
      @scooter028 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't mean to imply that's what you do! Just wanted to clarify. 🥰

  • @Dandan-km1vq
    @Dandan-km1vq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jess my darling… ignore ignore ignore… it’s your hard earned money and you may spend it as you wish…. None of our business…. Whomever don’t like it, they should click off …. No one is forcing them to watch your videos …. U don’t need to explain or justify…. Do what you want 🌷

  • @kristak1102
    @kristak1102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You make great points Jess! Excellent video. 😉

  • @colelynn8089
    @colelynn8089 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I first started buying bags my goal was to have one from each design house. Now I’m changing it up and would like a smaller collection of blue bags I love. Blue is my fav color and I can always match it with everything. My only reservation is what if my daughter does not like blue lol. Also yeah I don’t really wear my bags. Great video you really touch all bases of collectors!! I feel seen 💙

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      OOO I love that!!! blue is such a calming colour! thanks for sharing ^_^

  • @nsorx1765
    @nsorx1765 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessie! Congrats on 7k 👏🏻 🎉
    Your eye make up is so beautiful! What are you wearing? Or can you do a video?
    I agree, it must be frustrating when people “assume” you are like all the other “influencers” who flex with their new LV or get a B or a K. Where as I feel I relate to you. I work a “normal” job- I’m not rich. But I also work hard, have always loved collecting things (barbies as a girl 😮) and now it’s handbags! I do try to wear most of them but also love to display and just drool over them- which there is nothing wrong with! Great video highlighting this ❤

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ooo thanks!!! mY eyeshadow is Too Faced mini eyeshadow called Thats my Jam! It smells like berries ahhahahha!

    • @nsorx1765
      @nsorx1765 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jessiestyle thanks for sharing that with me!

  • @maybeido03
    @maybeido03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think you earned the money, you decide what you want to spend it on. We all collect things. I buy antique gold jewelries. Do I need them? No. Do I want them in my possession? Yes. Some people spend hundreds of dollars in restaurants, foods, wines. I think no one should be judged. Even if you don't use your bags, so what? YOU decide for what you want to do with your belongings. People are just jealous of you that's all. I know it's hard, but try not to be influenced by people's agendas. On a side note. I do feel uncomfortable to use my luxury bags. I'm uncomfortable going out with branded bags. I feel like I would be targeted. I'm curious, do you ever feel that way when you take your bags out? Maybe it'd because I don't live in a big city. I rarely see anyone going out with a branded bag. I just want to enjoy my bag but at the same time I worry how people perceive me and if that would post potential danger to me. 😬

  • @mizzmolly7649
    @mizzmolly7649 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is that a sweater or a dress you're wearing? Love that print!

  • @archeewaters
    @archeewaters 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're right. how can i wear more than 7 bags a week. i can't, bu that doesn't stop me from buying a bag. c'mon! how often do we use any of our things? should everbody be a minimalist?

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i cant be minimalist hahahhahaha!!!!

  • @sarahcopson8187
    @sarahcopson8187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it Jess! Have a great weekend. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @clairebagsandlife
    @clairebagsandlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. 👌
    My perspective is "to each their own".
    I really enjoy watching the majority of luxury TH-camrs because everyone is different. Everyone buys bags etc for their own reasons and I love seeing people's choices. BUT, there are some TH-camrs who I feel take themselves far too seriously and, for me, it comes across as if they are preaching about what is a "fun" or "luxury" brand and as if other people's choices are inferior in some way.
    For me, we are all individual with individual finances, wants, needs, priorities etc and I think that sometimes TH-cam videos can almost alienate people who may have different views. I myself have been buying "luxury" bags for over two decades. I buy to use not to collect, so I sell mine regularly and rarely ever hold more than 4 at any one time. That's just my choice.

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thats so cool claire!!!! having four bags would make life simpler! it would be easier to move around more!

    • @clairebagsandlife
      @clairebagsandlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣 Certainly easier to move around.

  • @brunnenvergifter
    @brunnenvergifter 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i also commented recently about that topic (on your hermes clutch video) that it sometimes seems that you buy bags without thinking much about it and that those are mostly the bags that you sell shorty after but i also said that im guilt of doing it myself… sometimes we have bad days or anything going on and a new bag purchase can lighten it up (maybe thats wrong for many people but its our life and our money). i just said to myself „dave, you need to think a bit more about the bags you buy and if they are truly useful for you“ cause i bought so many pieces wich i ended up wearing once, twice or never and that also annoys me than 😅
    i guess handbag collectors like us are a bit insane in general and i personally dont understand why so many people here are that mean and judgemental cause they came here to watch you unboxing and talking about bags so why complaining than when you unbox a bag? its so weird 🙈🙈

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its not easy Dave!!! We all go through phases!!! Lets try and use what we already have! I just love shopping XD!

    • @brunnenvergifter
      @brunnenvergifter 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jessiestyle hehe same goes for me-shopping is a passion 🥰😅

  • @carlacameron4055
    @carlacameron4055 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No matter what you do, people will comment either positively or negatively. You can’t please everyone so just please yourself. You receive so many supportive comments so don’t let the few bad ones weigh on you too much. If you were receiving a ton of negative comments then you could take a pause and look at yourself but you are not so don’t worry about those few sour pusses.

  • @natashinkabinka8612
    @natashinkabinka8612 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A lot of people collect all sorts of things. There is nothing wrong with your collection. Enjoy your bags ✨

  • @dragamboazulinqiacupuntura122
    @dragamboazulinqiacupuntura122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yay Jess! Let's play nice :) love this topic!!!

  • @pure_indulgence8144
    @pure_indulgence8144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A - your lipstick is beautiful! Details please. B - I don’t think that particular commentor meant to be catty but I do think other people do have negative, unwarranted opinions. You cannot please everyone and honestly anyone who watches your channel should enjoy your collecting and selling. You’re so knowledgeable about the various brands and I’ve learned so much! I love your collections over the years! C. Trolls be gone! Positive vibes only ✌🏽

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its actually just somthing i found in my draw!!! its kat Von D but old!! hahahhah yes we gotta say no to trolls! hehehe thanks Pure Indulgence!

    • @pure_indulgence8144
      @pure_indulgence8144 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jessiestyle I love KVD lipstick 💄 - never get rid of it!

  • @sandranorman5469
    @sandranorman5469 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    HOW YOU SPEND YOUR MONEY IS UP TO YOU!!

  • @flowergirlbee2000
    @flowergirlbee2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    very wise words 💓 love your lipstick 💋💋💋

  • @nikkithompson1980
    @nikkithompson1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I collect my LV and Chanel coz I am a hoader lol 😃 I not ashamed of it. I use most of them but some are just collectable piece. 🤗 Jessie, u just do u. Some people just jealous and said thing that hurt other. Read positive comment and make your day positive. Those negative comment just shut them off.

    • @hc5648
      @hc5648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At least you admit it! I think the judgement often comes because of the lack of honesty.

    • @nikkithompson1980
      @nikkithompson1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hc5648 Jessie video is there for entertainment purposes. I not here to watch her video to get her honest truth. That is her business that she want to do what ever she want to do in her life.

    • @hc5648
      @hc5648 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was referring to why many YT/IG personas get judged.

  • @nathaliegauthier504
    @nathaliegauthier504 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like your channel, i discovered you thanks to Dacob ! And I don’t have the money to buy a Hermès bag but I like to see them 😍 and the passion you have and especially your personality!! so keep going!!!🥰🇨🇦

  • @MN-rx5ni
    @MN-rx5ni 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mum doesn't understand luxury and I basically have to hide what I buy.
    She buys stuff because it's on sale and then tries to make it work. As you can probably guess it doesn't, she has three wardrobes full of "no wonder it's on sale" clothes. I buy nice (and pricy!) things because I like them.
    She was trying to give me financial advice while she was in a daisy chain of credit cards. I spend the money I have, I don't have a credit card.
    In terms of nasty comments, I see that most of the judgement comes from projecting and jealousy. Stay mad, haters!

  • @YosheaLux
    @YosheaLux 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t see anything wrong with buying things. People have different hobbies. Some live cars , boats, guns motorcycles etc..

  • @catherineholloway16
    @catherineholloway16 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful video

  • @jeanmoore3804
    @jeanmoore3804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    People need to sit down and be quiet. It's absolutely none of their business the reason why anyone buys pieces to collect . Watch the video for what it is , or piss off. great video as always Jess and don't listen to these Muppets who have nothing better to do than ridicule lovely ladies like yourself . PS I run my Hermes pieces into the ground , don't know why I prefer them to be a bit battered. 😘

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hehe!!! yes hermes bags defs look COOLER when worn in

  • @Lutifah
    @Lutifah 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ha! Judge the crap out of me… I really don’t care. I live in my happy bubble with 50 Luxe handbags. But seriously… I’ve never cared what anyone thinks about me.. and I’m a very happy person… there’s a correlation there…

  • @DaniOchannel
    @DaniOchannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always consider resale value when I buy bags. How many luxury bags have I sold, Zero! I think we are all quirky in own way.
    A rare Pokemon card can go for several millions. I have not yet seen a handbag sell for that much. Please find someone else to judge, right?

  • @rozsakyshki1930
    @rozsakyshki1930 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are fantastic!

  • @simoneb3837
    @simoneb3837 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Leather doesn’t last forever no matter the brand. But but what you can afford. Some people splurge on beer, alcohol, illegal drugs and s?x. Your splurging on something nice that has value in this life. It’s not hurting anyone.

  • @minwade5436
    @minwade5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessie we’re all individuals follow your heart, you do you & be happy. Have a fab weekend 😘💐

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you too Min!!! xoxooxoxoxox

  • @L-K-Jellyfish
    @L-K-Jellyfish 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They are likely quite envious of the amount of money that goes into your collection because they don't have anything like the same sort of disposable income that you have, and they may know they never will. Envy is a horrible feeling and it makes sense to in a way to avoid it being provoked. Most people do tend to assume that designer items, especially with big logos, are all about showing off status and wealth. What I learnt from watching videos by you and Dacob these last couple of weeks is that you both love the items themselves: the design, the materials, the history of the brand etc. Most people do not even get to touch such expensive leather goods so they just don't understand what you could possibly be getting out of it beyond showing off. So if they think that's all these items are for, well then, they conclude that you're buying these bags to make them feel bad at the same time as impressing other rich people. In other words, they think you're being competitive.

  • @haiji1996
    @haiji1996 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You don't appear to be buying bags for TH-cam video content. I think you appear to be genuinely passionate about each handbag you buy. I can understand why you sold all your Louis Vuitton monogram canvas bags, because I grew out of them too. People change and people evolve in various ways, and there's nothing wrong with that.
    I agree with you that we should generally be nice and polite to each other, but don't think everyone has to agree with each other, I think it's OK to express different opinions as long as it's not obviously rude.
    But I guess I should refrain from writing things like gosh your new handbag looks so ugly and hideous, even if I honestly thought so 😅

    • @Jessiestyle
      @Jessiestyle  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      hmmm same!!!! at the moment im not as in to monogram as i once was!

  • @LilyShops
    @LilyShops 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally agree with everything you said! It doesn't really matter why people buy what they buy--just let them enjoy themselves 🥰

  • @aqidahchemat5487
    @aqidahchemat5487 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi jesse. Morning 🎶. I liked your comment. Its so me 😍

  • @bangtansonyeodanforever7901
    @bangtansonyeodanforever7901 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Barbie Doll ?? 👀👀👀

  • @marywalquist210
    @marywalquist210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😘

  • @Luftballon1970
    @Luftballon1970 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is because handbags are a "women" thing. Women get judged for everything they love. They always have been. It is that easy. Nobody judges a man for collecting and selling watches like women are judged who love handbags.

  • @jason9766
    @jason9766 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jess why don't you just ghost all these wretched people's comments, and just keep them as subbies. I'm not sure how it works, but just an Idea..

  • @martylovellmusic.
    @martylovellmusic. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    do you warch Hautelemode on YT? Youd love him

  • @bangtansonyeodanforever7901
    @bangtansonyeodanforever7901 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Barbie Doll ?? 👀👀👀