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The teacher with the contract needs to be reported. That surely couldn't have been the approved mark scheme
I can't believe their own MOTHER did that. Some people are crazy, your videos are amazing. Your voice is so calming
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Sounds like OP 2 needs marriage counseling and may need to get her into psychotherapy to get to the core of her trust issues.
What the wife needs is an intervention.
Agreed. I believe there is some underlying stress or issue that needs to be resolved before any further action take place, especially before any child comes into the equation
Second story, if your partner calls your potential child, "it", then it's time to run.
Fourth story, you're her husband. Your lives are connected, it's not controlling if it affects both of your lives and the marriage. A spouse's actions are not about what is best for themselves, but what is best for marriage.
I think the last story is one of the few times it would be acceptable for the OP to tell his wife, "It's either me or your 'friend'". The only reason I can imagine as to why she'd continue to be 'friends' with this person is because she's addicted to the abuse, and that's no good for anyone.
Fr, give her an ultimatum. I wouldn’t even wanna continue to be with her if she doesn't cut off this kind of toxic people.
17:20 no bro that is the op gf fault. YOU NEED TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THINGS YOU DONT DO. If you aren’t strong enough to speak up, you can’t expect someone to be a mind reader!!!!! She needs some accountability!
@@lelethemaddenlibrarian2217 ..? No one is saying it’s op fault here tho.. what are you talking about?
@@aimies I’m saying it’s the girls fault for not speaking up
@@lelethemaddenlibrarian2217 ah so your the "friend" from the story got it
I'm not surprised. I will never forget the day my aunt said 'have you played Angry Birds?' I was so caught of guard. She doesn't even watch movies but here she is asking about a game? A paid game? The world might as well have been ending.
If a teacher tried to make me sign a contract i would take it to the principal and the teacher may get fired
Her mistake to make isn’t without consequences. A drug addict who went clean and then goes right back to it deserves the judgement for throwing themselves back into it. It’s also toxic for you to be forced to deal with this and be told you have no say when you are married. Separation is a good option here.
Or, you know... being her LOVING HUSBAND and not feeding into the toxic friends lies by making them truths. If he separates from her over this, she will be driven fully back into that toxic friends arms. To use your own analogy - he MARRIED the addict, and in doing so, he took on some of that responsibility. And the only way to pull her away from this toxic friend is to remind her that there are people that love her. But this husband is being almost as toxic as the friend.
@@leecoffill8425 nah nah he tried to help her he did help her but it was her choice to go back on everything,its no ones job but her own to deal with it now,hes not reponsible for anything!
What he needs to do is put his foot down and get her help and if that doesn't work, then he has a right to separate from her at least in terms of living spaces.
The wife has been manipulated to a point where she genuinely believed it was her fault that the friendship ended, as said in the post, because she apparently didn't stand up to her abuser sooner. She needs help and she needs patience, but she also needs someone to firmly say enough is enough.
I've had to tell this to my dad and my grandparents about my mom, to be firm and to cut contact if she lashes out. It's hard, it sucks, but it sucks more to be stuck in a toxic friendship.
@@leecoffill8425 He needs to be more firm with her though. Separation might have to be brought up as an ultimatum. She does need support, and cutting ties with her will definitely do more harm than good, but he needs to be firm and get her away from this person. In my experience, the sooner you rip the band-aid off with these kinds of people the better it will be and the husband needs to take action sooner rather than later or his wife is no doubt going to choose the toxic friend.
I would never tell my wife who she can or can't talk to but if that friend starts fights and conflict between my wife and myself. Not to mention hiding the information from family and friends I'd just tell everyone. I'd try to get her help but at the end of the day, I'd she couldn't see it I'd probably end it. If she wanted to choose a toxic person like that instead of family friends and a loving partner then it's not worth it.
And last story: OP needs to say something to his wife's family. If for nothing else but to cover his own rear end. Because I guarantee you, with the way today's society is, once his wife gets burned by her toxic friend and gets in some serious trouble, guess who the wife is gonna blame. Yep, she'll blame hubby for not warning her or not protecting her. We are in a society where women have absolutely zero accountability for their actions
Exactly !! As sad as it is, we all need a partner who says ‘do what you want but I don’t agree with it and won’t lie about it.. ‘OUT OF CARE not only clearing your ass…
It’s only true, women almost get no consequences/little and even then some will blame others. Life isn’t fair.
Woman can lie to get men imprisoned and have done it before
Story 2: WFH only became normalized during COVID - what was the plan going to be if you hadn't gotten the option to WFH from your company? She would have been home with the baby anyways if her job was 100% WFH and you had to be in the office all the time. It really sounds like she doesn't want to spend time with her future child and wants to have as many ways to offload work/ care time as possible. Additionally she sounds jealous that you're out of her sight and around other people. She needs counseling to deal with her feelings before bringing a new life into this world
To be fair. It's not HER responsibility it's both of theirs. HE should be doing JUST AS MUCH CHILD CARE AS HER. Him pretending that it's just her jealousy is his way of saying he doesn't want to be a father and that she should be doing half the money making and all the childcare and housework. That's more than 3 times the amount of work than he would do at an office. And I'm sure that if they both couldn't work from home then she'd either do daycare and both work outside the house or not have a kid period. It's her body her choice to have a kid or not. Men need to stop acting like children are women's responsibility.
@@lolarichter9415Let's play a game of reverse the genders. What would you say if wifey was put in this predicament with a similar ultimatum. My guess if you'd call hubby controlling and how dare he expect this working woman to help with the baby. Women need to understand that men aren't machines and assuming that every interactions we have with another woman is always a romantic one amd that working 8-12 hours is not fun and exhausting
@cybersegamer3794 uhhh working moms exist and still do half the housework? I am a working mom did more.than half the work. Men are just lazy ask ANY working mom. We do it all we just don't get praised before it's expected of us.
@lolarichter9415 Wow, you are a bitter person, aren't you? Thank you for telling me that working moms exist. It's not like having a single working mom my entire life never showed me that. Men aren't "lazy" considering we do the gross, dirty job women don't want to do. And you wanna know something funny, you're gross, sexist comments against men will only serve to further divide the sexes and considering birthrates in America are on a steady decline, we don't need that. And women are congratulated for a lot of things. You might not have because of you piss poor attitude but I have met and personally seen women get their work appreciated by many people so don't come at me with that shit. Men, on the other hand, go off to war and die for bitter hateful people like you, are shit upon by the society we built, make up 87% of suicides, 90% of workplace deaths and no one bats an eye when it happens. But then again, you don't care, do you? You're too blinded by your own misery and hatred for an entire gender to see any of that. I wash my hands of you as I refuse to allow your bitterness to ruin my happiness
Story 1: I hope OP changes their name.
Story 2: THERAPY!!!! Although a heart emoji? 🤨
Story 3: report that professor!
Story 4: the toxic person is like an emotional vampire! You gotta tell her family now! I hate to say it! Get her to therapy.
17:20 no bro that is the op gf fault. YOU NEED TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THINGS YOU DONT DO. If you aren’t strong enough to speak up, you can’t expect someone to be a mind reader!!!!! She needs some accountability!
@@lelethemaddenlibrarian2217 You don't need to be a mind reader to not be an asshole. She can't speak up because toxic friend has destroyed her self-confidence, it's how abuse keeps going.
@barkwire only 3 diff places 😂
@@dragonhanyuFurther recommendation, get her around people that will allow her to open up and not put her down for doing so. The only way to break the cycle is for her to see what a good friendship looks like so she can realize that what she is going through is not good for her.
Ok I feel that OP’s wife should stop talking to someone that gives her so much pain and suffering. But it’s really hard for her to get out of this relationship when they are always lying to her and being overly controlling. I don’t get why OP doesn’t tell her family or get a therapist involved even if he is doing it for his wife
OP should definitely get his wife in touch with a therapist because it sounds like she's got some kind of emotional codependency on the ex friend.
Story 1: the police officer was the hero in this story if the charges go through
Story 2: I would suggest couple therapy for OP and their wife
Story 3: the teacher seems like a crazy b that hasn't been replace
Story 4: again couple therapy and OP wife needs to find better friends and needs mental health therapy
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My heart breaks for OP's wife, she desperately needs therapy.
The "friend" is abusive and isolating her, I get where OP is coming from but when OP called her pathetic my heart just broke.
The "friend" is clearly manipulating OP's wife to not trust her husband, and I remember a similar story but it ended with the friend pushing the wife to suicide and it feels like this is heading the same way.
I hope OP can get his wife into therapy she really needs it.
Yep, I remember that story too, only it was worse in that story, because the abusive friend had the wife’s side of the family wrapped around her finger.
The good thing in Story 4 is that the wife’s side of the family probably wouldn’t buy this manipulation for a second. The OP NEEDS to talk to the family about what’s happening.
Not gonna lie. The first story hits close to home.
I remember growing up my dad worked all day and my mom was a neglectful "housewife". She didn't take care of us or the house, and left that up to me. She'd make messes while I was at school then force me to clean them up, saying it was all my mess to deal with. She'd steal my money, make me take care of and watch my brothers even when I had homework to do or schoolwork to catch up on, she was emotionally abusive daily, physically abusive when I fought back-
It really makes my blood boil when people push responsibilities like that onto literal children and teenagers.
It's your job to take care of your mother, not a teenager's.
Story #2: there's more to that story than what's being said.
YES!! And her ultimatum is understandable - she wants the father to be involved and it's not like it's impossible with his field of work - he admitted so himself.
@@yourmother6234 the problem is the “you must do this to appease me” ultimatum bit.
@@yourmother6234 it's understandable but it's unreasonable.
It feels very controlling for her to lay this out on OP and just expect him to be okay with it especially if it affects his work history on his resume. Plus if she can get away with making OP quit his job over small issues then it'll only get worse down the line, it always get worse.
I feel like people are just falling back on the expectations that the woman should be doing the child care simply because the op called it jealousy. Pretending she didn't have SEVERAL valid points just because he wants to call it jealousy is such bull. She'd be expected to work full time, do full time childcare and all the housework. And he's just gonna be like I had to got o work and now I'm tired. They always do
@hankcyclone9442 her body her choice on what circumstances she gets pregnant and has a child under. Stop pretending that her say in her own life isn't allowed
I just came across your channel and i love it
OP of story #4: Tell her family, if your wife inevitably commits suicide that would be on you when you could have done something about it. Hire a hit after the "friend" if you have to.
If your wife refuses any help, then tough as she has to learn to break away from the so called friend if she wants a healthy life. She needs help!
story 2
just now realize another factor that comes in is that what if he was gonna get a promotion tommorow or in the next one or two years that would be like 20% income increase
Story 1: If i were the OP, i would skip town, soon, and disown the family, especially the mom and grandma. The family are beyond nuts. I'd be filing a restraining order against them, charges for the harassment, slander, false reports and fraud to social security. The OP also seems to be lucky that there was a newer police officer involved, since it seems some of them were bias towards the grandma. I'll bet she pulls the 'helpless old person' card a lot.
Story 2: The wife here seems very insecure, manipulative and rather weird. If i were the OP, i would actually be very hesitant to have a child with the wife here. Sounds like things could get very ugly if things don't go according to the "5-year plan" that the wife wants.
Story 3: You really wonder how some people become teachers/professors. If i were the OP, i would've just bought the books and then dropped the course. I dont know if this course was mandatory for something, but all of this seems stupid overall. I dont really see how that contract was relevant to anything really, just sounds like the professor sounds like a controlling douche. Can always show that contract to the admin and see what they say about it.
Story 4: How can you even call that person a "friend"? That person was by no means a friend to the OPs wife. The wife should never have responded to that person and just simply re-blocked them. The wife has been nothing but gaslit and manipulated by that person. I can understand why the OP is getting frustrated here. I'm really surprised that the OP or the wife's family/friends havent confronted the "friend" about all of this.
Story 2 - I'd just respond to her terms or ultimatums with "that fine then there just won't be any baby" and just leave it at that don't say anything else.
That's an option but I think couples therapy might work better
Story 4: I would divorce her and when her family ask wtf was going on or why, explain how hard it hits you this situation and how apparently isn't worth it. (Just me tho, you don't have to do as I say, I'm not trying to boss you around).
I think divorcing would be a little extreme... but i think that the husband and/or her family really needs to confront that "friend" and soon. That could be the only way the "friend" backs off here.
@@QuickManEXE well yeah that's true. But hear me out, although divorce may be a bit extreme. I see no other way being "non-extreme". If he goes and tells her family and such, he would be making a choice that she would see as a betrayal and if we analyse how the OP worded her words she probably would divorce him. There's another possible path I see but that's way more extreme and it's by secretly organizing a meeting between him, the family, her and her friend. Then expose her of secretly ruining her life. Which would go waaayyy worse if it doesn't immediately go to a divorce.
isn't divorcing her a bit too much for op and it's not like he found his wife cheating on another man.
@@viviennemorgan7217 hey it's what I would do if my s/o throws her life away like that
@@urm0m69 well first you need to send her to a mental hospital instead of divorcing her or talk things out and ask her why she's throwing her life away, either it's her toxic family or toxic friendship with her toxic friend.
The first story is really messed up
Last story: OP has lost almost all respect for his wife, might want to give her an ultimatum
With friends like that, who needs enemies? But some of us care too much about some people, no matter how toxic. If shes known this friend since childhood, she probably doesn't want to let that go. And some people can't🤷♀️
Story #3 just shows how a teacher like this one just doesn't want to take ownership and responsibility of a student's grade to reflect their teaching methods and put it all on the student. That's an awful teacher in my opinion. Students deserve the grade they earn by the amount of effort to learning the material.
i watched your channel from where you had only 30k subscribers keep going
pretty sure i heard this last story on another podcast site recently and if its the same one the wife did end up committing suicide due to the friend but to top it all off the friend was given permission by the wifes family to talk at the funeral because they had been friends for so long
last story: I've had this happen with a friend before. when me and my ex broke up I lost all of our joint friends. Years later, one of the friends (K) calls me for a favor. We get to talking and turns out she is no longer on speaking terms with my ex. We become friends again. We start a chat group with all our new friends. Suddenly another friend tells me (K) invited them to a chat with all the same people except me and it had one extra person (my ex)
I confronted (K) and she tried to tell me my ex had changed. I said if she really had, then there was no reason to create a whole separate chat without me. (K) started ignoring/avoiding me.
After a fight with my ex tho, (K) got blocked so she came back to our old chat. We got used to hanging out again for a while but then she disappeared again. I confronted (K) and she tells me that my ex is saying terrible things about me and (K) believes her. I reminded (K) that my ex is biased and (K) herself has been on the receiving end of her lies and abuse. (K) agreed to take what my ex said with a grain of salt.
A year ago (K) moved away so we no longer hang out. She stopped responding in the group chat and so did everyone else. Again someone from the chat told me that (K) invited them to a different chat with my ex. Turns out (K) and my ex live in the same town and hang out constantly now.
(K) chose to move near someone who lied to her and abused her and then actively believed the lies the liar was saying about me and furthermore stole all of our joint friends by spreading those lies to them. I can't tell if (K) is dumb or vindictive.
Also the story about the wife and the work from home thing. What if the next job he goes to has two or three really pretty co-workers? Is she going to make him quit that job too? This entire situation is a HER issue, and she needs to get over it ASAP
Why should she be the only one to be full-time caregiver home maker and worker? He should be just as involved as she is. That's a perfectly reasonable assumption. Men don't get a pass on doing equal work.
Story#2. That guy needs to walk.....no RUN!!!! away from that extremely insecure woman. She's insecure and sounds like she's drinking the feminist kool aid. She's gonna be a disaster to deal with. And she's probably gonna be the one who cheats
The pretty coworker one, set rules with your partner… to feel more secure.
Toxic friend one okay so what the husband should do is simple. Explain she gets to choose her actions but he SHOULD NEVER LIE. If she wants to talk to her Gucci you the husband don’t lie because your should also choose your actions and not be dictated by others bam.
The last story. First off. Dude needs to go to therapy. After some time going. Suggest that she comes with OP to therapy as well.
The teacher is just being lazy 😂
The last story he should tell her family it for her own good
Story 2: op needs to ditch the witch
have teachers do that lot
Hell yeah.
Not even 2 mins in and the fabrication starts. "He then read off a number to me, and asked who that may be" That is not information officers are privy to...Think people. The person who called 911 or the police, talked to a dispatcher back at the department. How the hell would the cop on scene have the number that called 911. Most they'll tell you is "we received a report of a so an so in the area and were required to respond" They wont ever tell ya who called 'em. ALSO. the "I had my phone on hand and showed them, that I hadn't called anyone today." That literally doesn't prove anything because for the past who knows 🤷♂️ decades maybe. Emergency calls to 911 Do Not show up in "recent contacts". I mean don't try it yourself but look I up.
9:55 we were all thinking it. heheheheh
for 1 sec i readed "psicho mantis"
There family is so mean and there mum is so crazy and he
has to drop out of school
Where's Gordon Ramsay whem you need him in the last story?
I already know where this is going she's thinks that someone is stealing you out from under her and I doubt if that will happen you're not interested in any other relationships
Jesus christ the wife in the 2nd story is toxic as all hell
Dude, u should not have to leave that job. I agree with Reddit. The Wife has personal
issues and maybe She is NOT grown up enough. She is not likely to accept this,
I don't see too much if any happiness in this situation.
STORY 2 it's WORK FROM HOME. How do it raise a kid and work at the same time? I WFH and it's definitely cool that I can ran away and deal with the kids BUT my kids are 23,14 and 8, I wouldn't be able to work with any of them as a baby.
So police showed up and not the fire department ?
6:41 ( soviet theme intensefies)
Love the videos
This story shows exactly how bad women become as they get older. This entitlement and way of thinking is way more common than you think.
17:20 no bro that is the op gf fault. YOU NEED TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THINGS YOU DONT DO. If you aren’t strong enough to speak up, you can’t expect someone to be a mind reader!!!!! She needs some accountability!
Good morning lovelies :)
you mean good night. IM IN INDIA
@@Nightmare-ls2oo good night hun!
i think that your wife is way overprotective of you and wants you to work remotely once the baby is born.
those may or may not be my thoughts.
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The last story: you're both door Matts your wife is acting like a possessed person and the friend is the demon in question this is one of those few instances where no ultimatum is needed cuz she has already made her choice she can't live without or stay away from toxicity she's even deflecting the friends actions and words onto you so she doesn't have to blame the friend for her actions get out now get out fast
The husband is literally calling a girl pretty while he is married
Last story. This is the one situation where an alternator is applicable. There’s no way that you can sit there and love somebody and watch them do this to themselves. I would kill her. I can’t watch you do this to yourself again and I can’t believe you were asking me to lie to your family about what you’re doing to yourself what she was doing is not only hurting her self, but hurting him as well if she doesn’t understand this conversation, it may be time to walk away or at least discuss walking away.
Grandma my nephew is a Proacuder why don't you ask him for me money/care
The second story I hope he just finds another wife she's putting stipulations on having a baby she's very controlling you need to leave her
I need to see a video about it instead of telling will be more interesting
Story #2: find a new wife
Op file for divorce for your wife is jealous
Pack up and run not walk
Wait why'd the police show up for a fire?
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Mother IS a woman's identity forever after they've had a baby. Because they're always going to be a Mother. Even if for some reason or another they suck at the job, the definition of mother is you gave birth and had the child. I think the wife in the story is pretty, I'm trying to think of a word, delusional? Maybe. I mean why doesn't she get a job where she has to go into an office while also working at home several days a week. She's trying to dictate her husband's job and how other people that he has no control over act. If the company didn't see a problem about her sending a heart emoji about a comment he made about work, then she has no business making negative comments about it. Especially because apparently the husband is head over heels in love with his wife. And yes he may be able to find a different job in another company but you're not looking at the payment from your paycheck not coming in on time because you started a new job and you're not looking at you being the new low man on the totem pole because you were the new guy. And yeah the next job he gets might be with a great company but he might have a really crappy team that doesn't value him like the friends and reliable co-workers he's been with for a while.
The wife is totally and 100% selfish in her ultimatum. If he goes into the office for two or three days out of the 5-day work week, he's still going to be there for the baby on the days he works from home. Also, some people might call me misogynistic for saying this. But the mother should have more responsibility than the father when it comes to raising the child. Yes the father's rules still important, there's diaper duty getting up with the baby rocking them if they're sick or crying. But unless they start doing bottle or formula feeding, it's all going to be stuck on Mom to do that. So she has the greater majority of the responsibility
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How did you write it like that
You’re such a man.
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Idk what he is he \she says I'm a mom next video he \she says that I'm blind and next he \she says I have asthma what r you
The person wanting the baby should just find another woman to have it with that is more accepting of his job and what he wants to do. Oh who am I kidding finding such a woman doesn't exist except in fantasy it's no wonder I'm not interested in dating as a straight man because decent woman don't exist
Also if they do exist then I've clearly never heard of one all throughout the history of planet earth
Remember men if you are straight don't date if you are gay then you are clearly interested in the superior gender
Also if a woman thinks I'm wrong please tell me about it and give me an example of a decent woman or at least try to give an example because at least you trying to change my opinion on woman will be entertaining for me seeing you struggle to find a decent decent woman in existence why would this entertaining for me because your attempts would be futile and hilarious
I'm sorry but your wife is being ridiculous. She is projecting her own insecurities onto you and you certainly do not need to fold to her demands. What does she think you are going to do, cheat. She knows you are loyal. She is just being paranoid. To be honest seeing a counsellor or therapist and working through your issues might be a good idea. There is no way I am leaving a job that pays well and is okay with the way things are just to please someone else because believe me if you do fold she is then just going to keep doing this about other things as well. You do not need to fold to your wife's demands just because of her insecurities. There is also no legitimate reason she is acting like this because you have not been unfaithful at all or been caught flirting with another co-worker.
OK story 1.
If there trying to use any means to control you even to go and use the cops press charges.
This is absolutely unacceptable. Even if op was the last living member of the family somehow to take care of grandma it's not your job to take care of others.
If you wish to volunteer that's different but you should put a restraining order on them
Story 2.
The teacher should be reported.
What happens if you put a as your grade and you did just good enough for a b and she failed you for missing that score.
She clearly doesn't know what she's doing and should not be working in schools teaching
Last story your gf crazy move on bro
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Story 4: again, simp narrator. Dude ... there is no middle ground. The wife either is addicted to the abuse who is trashy from her part and the reason why she didn't want the friends and family to know about it. Or is plain cheating on the guy with said friend. Now, here is the thing ... OP SHOULD tell the family and friends because this here even if can't control what she does ... still somethings really bad who is affecting her mental health and her health in general as well. She and the friend are the controlling ones instead from what i see as well not OP. Again is fair to said OP can't control what she does or not or who she talk per say, but in this case should be allowed the ultimatum for wake her up, and on top a restrain order against this "friend", like her or not.
The last story: I get all you explained about the toxic friend but the original problem was him treating his wife terribly himself. No matter what someone's relationship is with someone else, it doesn't give you a right to treat them badly.
I think the husband meant he doesn't treat the wife badly but rather the toxic friend is creating conflict between them, which is making the wife react badly to small things
at least that's what I understood
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That’s how I say it
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Are you a girl or a boy cause in one of your stories your pronoun where she but you sound like a he?
He is just the narrator, the stories he's reading are off reditt and have been written by other people.
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