6 Qualities to Look for in a Husband | David Marvin

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  • @agnesr.4664
    @agnesr.4664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    1. Timothy 3
    1. Commitment.
    2. Humility.
    3. Reputation.
    4. Initiative.
    5. Self-Control.
    6. Trust in God.
    🙌

    • @Womenswell022
      @Womenswell022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I like to add kindness in words, action and attitude...

    • @yzma6142
      @yzma6142 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Womenswell022 yes!

    • @iliveonthemoonful
      @iliveonthemoonful ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!

    • @matildajones6175
      @matildajones6175 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for posting this list 😉

    • @cathys2307
      @cathys2307 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Womenswell022 If someone has humility, he's likely to be kind in words with action and good attitude :)

  • @jenniferbrown8568
    @jenniferbrown8568 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I just broke up with my bf after two years . I was so confused about him. I have really good discernment and knew he wasn’t the one for me. Because he is nothing that was described I often would read Timothy and compare him to the word and just knew he is not walking on the right path . This was confirmation. I made the right decision

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    This sermon has blessed me in my season of singleness. God is writing my love story. Thank you! God bless you ❤

  • @CabyBaby
    @CabyBaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Wow, both the wife and husband qualities videos have really changed my perception on what’s important when it comes to dating and marriage

  • @butdoyouknowjesus4121
    @butdoyouknowjesus4121 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I became a Christian in 2020 and watching the porch in quarantine was one of the things that helped me grow and was such an amazing resource that God guided me too because I was alone as a new baby Christian, thank you David Marvin for using your gifts and talents for Gods glory, you are an amazing man of God, I pray God would keep on guiding you wherever you go 🤍

  • @Payday831
    @Payday831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    As someone who has watched/listened to the porch for a long time, David will certainly be missed by more people than he thinks. God has given him incredible gifts of speaking. God bless you in your next journey.

  • @AshGeo
    @AshGeo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Been following the Porch for 4 years. David, you’ve been a blessing and an inspiration.

  • @beckywelch5865
    @beckywelch5865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Ive never been married ive served the Lord overseas, i adopted a lil girl, more important to follow Jesus, than to settle for a relationship... still prayibg believing God called me to be a mommy to a precious girl He can send her a daddy that can love her just like i do.

    • @seragifty5175
      @seragifty5175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen ..ask and it shall be given on you... Our God is a miracle worker his timing is the best .my sister it shall be well...amen🙏

    • @yzma6142
      @yzma6142 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s so beautiful God bless you, He has the perfect one for you 🙏

    • @KayaRaleigh13
      @KayaRaleigh13 ปีที่แล้ว

      Praying for you ❤

  • @heathero3835
    @heathero3835 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    If only I had seen this video in May of 2018..would have saved me years of heartbreak and emotional/verbal abuse.
    Thankful to see this now though.

  • @raewithgrace
    @raewithgrace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This was such an excellent teaching.
    Aw, I am sad to see that David leaving, but I am excited to see what more God is going to do through him and his family for the body of Christ. Aw, I hope to see still him teaching online somewhere! He is how I found the Porch and how I found my current church home that I was actually just baptized at this past Sunday. I appreciate what you guys are doing at/with The Porch ministries. David, you will be missed.

  • @beckywelch5865
    @beckywelch5865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Such a good message as well as the one towards the ladies! This is so needed, im 38 and single and seeing these kind of guys in my area is so hard to see, bc they are few..... i pray God gives strength and power moves in men in our world!

  • @leenawilkinsdinakaran5249
    @leenawilkinsdinakaran5249 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    An absolute joy listening to this, it’s just so hard waiting, 40, no guy yet in sight.. constantly reminded of how much of a failure I am coz I’m not married and not yet a mother… it was so nice to hear you say you are proud of me. So Thank you, your message gives me hope.

  • @joycebolden1929
    @joycebolden1929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’ve been following the ministry since JP was here and it’s been a HUGE blessing for me! I attend church on Sundays, and young adult midweek, but this ministry has become a staple in my week as well. Prayers for David and his family as they follow the Lord’s lead!

  • @kendrasiddiqui9991
    @kendrasiddiqui9991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    39:00 thisss is why we listen to David right here!!!

  • @SanctifiedLady
    @SanctifiedLady 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you! The guy that walked into my life wanting marriage doesn’t check any of the boxes…at all. I’m repentant of sin and allowing myself to submit to this individual. ❤️‍🩹✝️bin Jesus name amen 🙏🏽

  • @zacht.9585
    @zacht.9585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    David, I've listened to many of the Porch sermons from here in Canada over the years, and I wholeheartedly agree that you have an amazing gifting of teaching. I've been greatly touched by many of your sermons, including this one. May God bless you and your wife in your next steps!

  • @nickyakajohannavandeventer7090
    @nickyakajohannavandeventer7090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for your strong, stern but gracious teachings, my son and I follow your sermons for the last 2 years. May you be blessed in your new journey may God give you a peaceful transition wherever you are going to next - all the way from S. A.

  • @estherngethe3188
    @estherngethe3188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh D. Marv
    You are a good teacher of the word. Thank you for the years that you've consistently poured into young adults like me all over the world. May this word that you have so faithfully taught be a lamp to your feet and a light to your path. We love you.

  • @rachaelschick996
    @rachaelschick996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So grateful for you David and your leadership at the porch! Excited for what is next for you and your family ❤

  • @davidsurmon7515
    @davidsurmon7515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks David for all the amazing messages you have brought across over the many year. I have learned so much from you, being led by God. Thank you for bringing across the word in a direct way not altering the word. Once again Thanks

  • @melissacarrillo6826
    @melissacarrillo6826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you, David, for your ministry! You’ve been such a blessing to my life!!!! God bless you and your family moving forward!

  • @euge.sosa.b
    @euge.sosa.b 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My husband is so lukewarm in his faith but, you know what, he was lukewarm when we were dating, too. Take this advice, ladies! Don't date for potential

  • @cathys2307
    @cathys2307 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Proud of y'all my sisters! Don't lower your standards.

  • @jkkroch
    @jkkroch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you David for always reminding us to have scriptural values, not superficial ones. I am from the Land Down Under but you're part of why I stepped out to move to S/E Asia. I pray that so many more would follow you as you follow Christ Lord, bless them, for you are the author of time and we want to enjoy your glory for all eternity!

  • @bsdfghjk631
    @bsdfghjk631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    We love you David

  • @quintonrichardson8245
    @quintonrichardson8245 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish I would’ve gotten this teaching 11 years ago.

  • @Living4Christ7
    @Living4Christ7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you David, keep shinning for Him!

  • @Edcosme1029
    @Edcosme1029 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So grateful for you Pastor David

  • @melindajackson3602
    @melindajackson3602 ปีที่แล้ว

    I understand. Dating is very frustrating. I am at the point your at. I pray…wait. I date still…but?!? Challenge!! Praying the dating process is over soon. Gods timing!! Not ours.
    A lot of patience waiting for Gods will and timing. Stand in faith!!
    Thank you Jesus for my Godly, honest, respectful, trustworthy, and kind…husband.
    Amen

  • @AgapeLoveGrace
    @AgapeLoveGrace 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    18:33 The arrogant, cocky jerk “bypasses” the safeguards in a woman’s mind and heart that would otherwise make him unattractive to her. He’s handsome, says all the right things at the right time and of course, makes her laugh. Because the safeguards were subversively bypassed, this fast tracks things to get him what he really wants. She gets involved with him in a relationship and for awhile things go well but then she starts to see who he really is and either makes it work or does the smart thing and leaves him. Her leaving can either take years or maybe a few weeks but it’s up to her.

  • @misstramaine1981
    @misstramaine1981 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you, Brother David and your wife on this new journey God has bestowed upon your family. Thank you for your godly service. 🙏🏾✝️

  • @joyh.729
    @joyh.729 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If Jesus provides an out for marriage (infidelity) in Matthew 5, then we can’t say that cheating is not a legitimate reason for divorce. Bc at that point the cheater is the one who broke the marriage covenant.

    • @jenniferwalsh1731
      @jenniferwalsh1731 ปีที่แล้ว

      To have a heart ready to forgive anything and everything, is a heart after God's own heart. God meant it to be broken by nothing. Period. That's the heart to have going into a marriage. If both are seeking God that deeply, chances are, nothing like infidelity will ever happen. And I said chances are, not that it won't.

    • @user-pd9ju5dk5s
      @user-pd9ju5dk5s ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jenniferwalsh1731 Yeah in an ideal world

  • @mlb39
    @mlb39 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The lady’s acronym is
    PRETTY
    and the guys….
    CHRIST…
    Oof guys -
    Is that really the message?
    The intended messages are important…
    But oof
    Lovely message, David. Best wishes to you and your journey!!!
    Bless your family!

  • @yro82
    @yro82 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree with most with the exception that I need to belong to a church because the leaders will vouch for me later. God is everywhere. I have lived alone (with God) for almost 25 years. Not everyone who goes to church is Godly behind closed doors. I was raised Catholic and went to a Baptist Sunday school from time to time. For a decade, I’d go off/on with a co-worker to their Lutheran church. I later became Christian because I wanted a more one on one relationship with God. Having been exposed to several kinds of Christianity, I’ve seen that each sect has rules they want believers to follow.
    I just focus on improving the quality of my fruits as well as practicing discernment when evaluating the fruits of a potential partner. I talk with God often. I ask for his advice and praise the blessing of waking up each morning. Marriage and children are blessings and everyone is blessed differently.

    • @euge.sosa.b
      @euge.sosa.b 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can't just disagree with something that's Biblical, though. You don't need to belong to a Church, but you are called to belong to the church. You need a community of believers in your life because the church is the body of Christ; if you're not in the church then you're not functioning as His body. A hand is useless on its own. If you don't agree, you should go read the book of the Acts; community is vital for a believer because God exists in community, so we can not know him in isolation. ESPECIALLY, if you want to be a Spiritual head of your household. The church is the hands and feet of Christ, who is depending on us to act FOR Him in the world. "It is not good for man to be alone"
      I'm confident you can find a non-denominational Church or a community of believers in your area who gather to share meals and prayer, or to study the scripture

  • @roseannmartinez8403
    @roseannmartinez8403 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed this !

  • @G-ora
    @G-ora 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wauw this video was an eye opening thank you may God bless you and your family 🙏

  • @kendrasiddiqui9991
    @kendrasiddiqui9991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOVE. THIS. SERIES!!!!

  • @claudiacochran9770
    @claudiacochran9770 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very Good message, thank you ❤

  • @ath7041
    @ath7041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Does adultery not create biblical grounds for divorce?
    Matthew 19:9
    And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, *except for sexual immorality*, and marries another, commits adultery.”

    • @SpencerTuom
      @SpencerTuom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mark 10:9 is a great answer to your question.

    • @jessahgase6919
      @jessahgase6919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know this a commandment from Jesus Christ. But what about domestic violence or emotional abuse? I think this something important to address

    • @ath7041
      @ath7041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SpencerTuom if that completely negated the two acknowledgements in Matthew of sexual immorality/ adultery being grounds for biblically justified divorce, the verses in Matthew wouldn't have been specially been worded that way in the first place.

    • @SpencerTuom
      @SpencerTuom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I think it's difficult to discern the best answer for every situation, but when it comes to the old testament law and Jesus' commands overall Jesus calls us to a tighter moral standards not looser. So when looking at a situation there should be a discernment of this call. Not saying that there isn't a place for divorce in some situations but it should be an exception not the rule, even in adultery, and such situations. Not because it's easy but because Jesus has been faithful to us in this very way, as we the church sin and walk away from Him, he never walks away from us His church and bride.

    • @kendrasiddiqui9991
      @kendrasiddiqui9991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jessahgase6919 I 100% agree. I believe that every single situation is just different, and that God has individual plans for every couple who goes through things like that...I can't even begin to imagine what some people have endured..

  • @sherrireid4246
    @sherrireid4246 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome Message🙏🙌

  • @GodLovesWarriors
    @GodLovesWarriors ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, God so much for this blessed series. It can also be related to Godly women.

  • @anitabaumgarner9614
    @anitabaumgarner9614 ปีที่แล้ว

    Prayers for my daughter....she’s married to a narcissist...he has as good as abandoned them in Montana...he’s secretive in all he does...he’s changed his job....he doesn’t tell her about his new job...he’s very secretive...prayers needed...they have three children together ( set of two year old twins and a five year old...my daughter has one daughter going into this marriage (this daughter’s dad is past away..)
    He has three children by a previous marriage...two are out of the situation out on their own and he has a twelve year old who has tried to hurt the five year old...she’s both suicidal and wanted to hurt/kill

  • @pamelabutler1403
    @pamelabutler1403 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SO GOOD!!!!!! 🔥 🔥

  • @michelleward1173
    @michelleward1173 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've never been married am really wanting to know for sure if it's what God wants or if because people don't want me to be.

  • @Hyorikatsu
    @Hyorikatsu ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Covenants can be broken. Infidelity is one of those ways. If my wife breaks the covenant I have grounds for divorce. Same for her. If I sleep with another woman and move across the country leaving her. She should divorce……

    • @jenniferwalsh1731
      @jenniferwalsh1731 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can't control others and their actions. Preparing you heart for anything, to forgive, will cultivate a heart after God that is deep. I want that kind of heart. Why go ahead and state failures. Let's just prepare our own hearts to be pure and let all negativity go! Thank you Jesus, praise God!

    • @randysamba6799
      @randysamba6799 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So what’s the point in “till death do us part” in the vows, cause that’s a lie, there are conditions in which you would leave.

  • @lindseyreames6575
    @lindseyreames6575 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Does a man have to possess ALL of these qualities already to be worthy to date/pursue? If we see them working to check some of these boxes should we be patient and continue getting to know them?

    • @xjoemallardx
      @xjoemallardx 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes. Nobody will ever be perfect except Jesus.

  • @mscottster444
    @mscottster444 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this! But so divorce is never an option? Really if they cheat on you? That’s not what the Bible says lol

  • @psalm2332
    @psalm2332 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is the porch done? I havent seen any new videos for a while now

  • @DJH97
    @DJH97 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ummm. I’m sorry. Newsflash. My ex said he was all about marriage and the “covenant“ and showed up at our wedding stoned. Ended up walking out on me 30 years later. People lie. Claim they are a Christian etc. people deceive.

    • @rhystravis236
      @rhystravis236 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes people deceive but God doesn’t, keep praising him.

    • @jenniferwalsh1731
      @jenniferwalsh1731 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Of course people deceive. We are all sinners. That's why a close personal relationship with God, who knows all, is so important. He will guide and give discernment and help you avoid situations like that. He is faithful. We are the ones who are not faithful.

    • @DJH97
      @DJH97 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jenniferwalsh1731 When someone claims they are a Christian I give them the benefit of the doubt. I’ve had a personal relationship with Christ for 50 years. Sometimes being trusting is not wise whether you have a relationship or not. It’s not Christ being deceiving.

    • @chiemeziemakpagu8021
      @chiemeziemakpagu8021 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe this is why he mentioned the need for examining their reputation. What do those close or around him say about him? He might tell lies about his beliefs and commitment, but people around should bear witness to it. I dont think we should just marry a stranger or an isolated person.

    • @DJH97
      @DJH97 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jenniferwalsh1731. I prayed the whole length of our dating / engagement life that I was doing the right thing. God provided everything we needed to become married as he lived in another area of the state. He provided him a job etc.

  • @kendrasiddiqui9991
    @kendrasiddiqui9991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    36:00👏👏🙌🙌amen

  • @MiracleCyprain-mq1hg
    @MiracleCyprain-mq1hg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ❤

  • @kp5870
    @kp5870 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God encourages us to attend church, in Hebrews, but it is not a commandment.

  • @brittneythompson7218
    @brittneythompson7218 ปีที่แล้ว

    32 years old and I have never met a single man who checks these boxes. They’re all married 😢

  • @latifahdzame2947
    @latifahdzame2947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Powerful

  • @nl2599
    @nl2599 ปีที่แล้ว

    at time 15:29 i dont agree with this statement, god clearly says that divorce is a sin except in the cases of adultery, the woman has lied about her ability to bear children, abuse, or abandonment.

    • @jenniferwalsh1731
      @jenniferwalsh1731 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His point is do you want to commit yourself fully or not? God committed Himself to us fully, even despite our unfaithfulness to Him. That's the kind of heart I want when marrying. Thank you God for showing us what true love and commitment truly are.

  • @eileencita
    @eileencita ปีที่แล้ว

    The tears... 🥲

  • @talisikid1618
    @talisikid1618 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not all personality types chase after women. Sometimes it’s reversed.

  • @x3itsrissa
    @x3itsrissa ปีที่แล้ว

    anymore live videos?

  • @naomi2760
    @naomi2760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amen

  • @angiebufkin6035
    @angiebufkin6035 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything was great in this sermon. However I don’t agree on the commitment of marriage part. God does not want nor expect you to stay in an abusive marriage. Many many women are staying under this “rule”. If she runs to the hills with her cousin that is grounds for divorce.

  • @Mexrose7
    @Mexrose7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sorry! Not all men r sincere in there answers, they say what the lady wants to hear,u can have an awesome reputation but as a husband u get to see the real man!

    • @jenniferwalsh1731
      @jenniferwalsh1731 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God can help you see that before marrying someone. God sees the heart.

  • @hamilton9651
    @hamilton9651 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What women really want in a husband:
    He's abusive. He's controlling. He's jealous. He's not a real Christian so he cheats. He's hateful. Anything else you want to know.

    • @kennyplay5982
      @kennyplay5982 ปีที่แล้ว

      haha

    • @jenniferwalsh1731
      @jenniferwalsh1731 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The women that want that, aren't ready for a Godly relationship. It takes maturing from God to want the right things.

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👌🏼🔥

  • @rhifunke6664
    @rhifunke6664 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve never been so ridiculed and made to feel out of place than by believers in God.
    I was raised in the church and spent most of my adult life studying the Bible.
    Do the creators of this channel actually read the comments other “Christians” leave ?
    Christians today just spread fear and it’s going to spread like wildfire. It’s so sad but true. It’s becoming a club.

    • @kennyplay5982
      @kennyplay5982 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why were you ridiculed and felt out of place?

    • @HannahJoy333
      @HannahJoy333 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rhi, those Christians are not actually followers of Christ. Ignore anyone making you feel like that and know that they are mistaken. Keep your focus on God’s love and ignore anyone distorting God’s love.

    • @jenniferwalsh1731
      @jenniferwalsh1731 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are people like that everywhere, in every place, believers and nonbelievers. Seek out the church with authentic loving Christians with fruit and let God give you a solid family. If you seek Him, He will do it. He cares for His children.

    • @randysamba6799
      @randysamba6799 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Be encouraged, Trust in God’s word and the words of Jesus , not in the words of these professing Christian’s who are spreading negativity and not encouraging and loving people. Christians should be the most mature and loving people if we truly follow Jesus. Even Jesus was doubted when he did miracle after miracle and sinned not. They saw him bring people back to life and still Tryed to slander his reputation and find fault in him, church people that is( Pharisees, Sadducee’s, John’s followers)

    • @randysamba6799
      @randysamba6799 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My worth isn’t based on what believers say to me or think of me, I don’t care what any of these Christian’s say to me, or if they come against me. My worth is based on How God sees me. God loves me and that’s enough. Everything we going through Jesus went thru as well as Paul, And even the prophets in the Old Testament

  • @butterfliesandsilkflorals3716
    @butterfliesandsilkflorals3716 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praying for Israel 🙏🇮🇱🇺🇸✝️