When the narcissist regrets leaving you

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  • @robertwhitehead9831
    @robertwhitehead9831 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Joe I'm not being melodramatic but you are saving lives. You deserve millions of followers on this Channel.

    • @joebhouse
      @joebhouse  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kind words, thank you :)

  • @kozubart
    @kozubart ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I don't care for revenge. I don't care to give them their due karma. Just the way these insecure, immature, childish, entitled, prideful people live their lives IS their karma

    • @tjfSIM
      @tjfSIM ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly, well said. Theirs is a miserable existence, until they take accountability and own their actions, and how they've treated people. And they could do this if they really wanted to. Seeking revenge always hurts the avenger much more than the target - it's a toxic mindset and after dealing with a narcissist all I want to do is get to a place of peace, where I'm not thinking about them anymore.

  • @AndrewFosterSheff69
    @AndrewFosterSheff69 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "When the narcissist regrets leaving you" remain NO CONTACT and "grey rock" if contact must be made. They have vampired ENOUGH of your life force already, give them NO MORE.

  • @TIMP-g2k
    @TIMP-g2k ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Too bad, so sad. Time the tables turned. There were actually NO good times in reality.

  • @Gwendeline
    @Gwendeline 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My feelings are less n less each day I feel depressed in morning only now instead of all day in bed n less crying thank god I’m only on week 9 but it changes daily of sorting n sifting through my roller deck of memories

  • @monarene44
    @monarene44 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When the n-ex discarded me, I felt about it like that Toyota commercial in the late 80s: “If you can find a better car buy it.”

  • @Twany1954
    @Twany1954 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When I blocked him for 6 months he said to me when he saw me I can’t find anyone like you and I found that so odd. They are just such creeps. Nobody that is normal thinks like they do. Normal people have a hard time wrapping their heads around it. It took me 2.5 years to wrap my head around who he really actually was, just not a covert narcissist, rather a narcissistic sociopath. It was beyond upsetting.

  • @PatriciaPeck-j3u
    @PatriciaPeck-j3u หลายเดือนก่อน

    Joe, I know I’ve written this many times, I so appreciate your videos. They have helped me so very much!
    Why put yourself in a position to be hurt time and time again. This is the first time I’ve ever had such a thing happen, the discard.
    I blocked him on Facebook and on cell.
    If someone shows you, you really mean nothing to them walk away and never look back.
    Thank you again Joe!🌹

  • @cheezinhoweree
    @cheezinhoweree ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Their issue is with their mommy or daddy not you

    • @elinaselene
      @elinaselene ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes the symbiotic bond with mother usually - apparently I look like his mother and I was brutally strung along until I woke up to it. Its a dangerous place to be being so similar to their mother but I have taught him a lesson by finally discarding him.

    • @Twany1954
      @Twany1954 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I never met his real mother and he hadn’t seen her since 7 I believe. He never talked about her and now I know why. & I think he’s dad played a part in all of this as well and still does. Sad.

  • @robertwhitehead9831
    @robertwhitehead9831 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Joe I discovered your Channel and became a subscriber immediately. I was engaged and with a Narcissist/Borderline for 5 years. I left her and moved out when I found out she was involved with a coworker. Everything you have said in your videos has played out in my life in real time. You have helped me tremendously. Please continue to generate this content and make videos. Please also make more videos on BPD. Thank you for what you do.

  • @ianarn
    @ianarn ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They don’t have remorse to anything they did to you. Only pathological shame for themselves which is very different from regret.

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Recently discarded by my husband of 12 years. He's shacked up with the secretary from his work. He started devaluing me a couple months prior,I felt and witnessed his very dark side. I just found your channel, I'm grateful because I need healing

  • @sirg-had8821
    @sirg-had8821 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A noble sentiment.
    A narc only feels emotions when it benefits them. My narc ex hasn't given me a passing thought and I'm working on returning the favor.
    I have to force myself to even remember her name so there's a little victory lap.

  • @ms58879
    @ms58879 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent Joe🎉👌

  • @wintergoddess8210
    @wintergoddess8210 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing advice thank you i will never let him back in .

  • @FirehorseG
    @FirehorseG ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'd imagine they'd only ever regret losing you is for the fuel. If they find new fuel/victim who he can woo why would they need you?

    • @ezdeezytube
      @ezdeezytube ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same reason they needed the new fuel/victim when they had you.

    • @AndrewFosterSheff69
      @AndrewFosterSheff69 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Cos they can't maintain the mask. It will ALWAYS slip. So they have to keep moving. Their lives are their karma, they always end up bitter, resentful and alone.
      They only thing they regret is the supply, they are incapable of love, so don't ANY of you start wishful thinking - do you REALLY want them back? REALLY????

  • @wheelernathan34
    @wheelernathan34 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Joe
    I just discovered your channel and I am a new subscriber!! I just wanted to say Joe you do a phenomenal job!!! Your channel is wonderful!! The topics on your channel you do is extremely well put together! Your content is precise, detailed, and easy to process and you are a great narrator speaker!! I've watched many channels on narcissism but yours definitely stand out!!
    Thank for your wonderful work!! Please do more on narcissism regretting leaving old supply because I'm certain survivors want to know what they lost!!!
    Thanks again!! I'm going to support you and your channel always !!! Also your scenery background is awesome!!!

    • @joebhouse
      @joebhouse  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate your comments

  • @dawnhandelman308
    @dawnhandelman308 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 🕊❤️🙏

  • @Twany1954
    @Twany1954 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best way to put it is they fake it until they make it. Let that sink in-🤯

  • @CottonWoodBlues
    @CottonWoodBlues ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If my narc ever wants to reconcile I will tell him yes, but there is a price..I will start with $20000+ and I will put a lean on all your assets..for starters..I'm serious. If he wants me to believe he wants me back because he "loves" me..then prove it.

    • @samanthajames2032
      @samanthajames2032 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree make them put their money where their mouth is

    • @Peacewalker1993
      @Peacewalker1993 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣 well played

    • @CoachCreesh
      @CoachCreesh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If the demon I was with hit the lottery for $100 BILLION DOLLARS and I saw him on television accepting the check; he'd remain blocked on everything. NO CONTACT would remain in place for LIFE🤷🏾‍♀️ The only thing I'd hope is that his billions would stop him from stalking me🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

    • @JH-td4mn
      @JH-td4mn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would ask my ex to prove his love by paying my trauma therapy bills and then leaving me alone for the rest of his life!

    • @goboudou
      @goboudou 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mine payed- offered coffee 4 times in 4 years of "relstion". I bet he would not pay 20000euros to get me back😢😂

  • @MrBeard-ig5zc
    @MrBeard-ig5zc 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s a sadistic traumatized 2 year old. Not a person.
    It’s a failed attempt at forming a human being. An empty evil shell. No self.
    Take the lesson and run.

  • @homerovillanueva6644
    @homerovillanueva6644 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thxs for the Video

  • @susand7202
    @susand7202 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ❤Joe, I told him to get therapy, and we know where that leads😉, 🤯

  • @k.j.littlejohn4362
    @k.j.littlejohn4362 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Would love to see a video of pointing out to someone they are a narcissist..if you havent already created one

  • @TIMP-g2k
    @TIMP-g2k ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🎯💯

  • @hussainjawad6990
    @hussainjawad6990 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot my name is Zara Williams trans-women can you talk about psychopathic and karma on him also how he’s going to react if the police and court involved regards rape and domestic violence please?

  • @simionenaclably9280
    @simionenaclably9280 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    cristianity is the definition of narcissism

    • @simionenaclably9280
      @simionenaclably9280 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thats why their god needs validation to be worshiped and glorified. haha

    • @simionenaclably9280
      @simionenaclably9280 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      and thats why they put down and criticize all the hundreds of groups of people all over the earth, from all walks of life

    • @simionenaclably9280
      @simionenaclably9280 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thats why they threaten others with hell the most. because bible thumpers have the most hells and darkness inside them. truth is always paradoxical

    • @simionenaclably9280
      @simionenaclably9280 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      and thats why like my husband says: it takes a bible thumper between 30 to sixty ayahausca ceremonies to ascend and access the infinite heavens that are everywhere. all other groups it takes far less. example it takes a hindu or buddhist just 3 to 5 ceremonies to ascend. even an atheist requires less than half the ceremonies it requires you. cuz you are the darkest within you with the darkest beliefs

    • @simionenaclably9280
      @simionenaclably9280 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      and thats why you've been placed in the victim role of needing to be "saved". just like a narc

  • @lioubovgrant1935
    @lioubovgrant1935 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Magic of Joe is here !!! ☕☕🪄🪄🪄 It is sure lovely to have my morning coffee end watching your magical video ! Thank you for a nice surprise Joe !!! 🤗❤

    • @Soulfulnutritionandwellness
      @Soulfulnutritionandwellness ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Definitely sitting on my balcony enjoying the birds singing, the view, Joe’s voice, message, and pics as the video plays.
      🤎☕️💫

    • @lioubovgrant1935
      @lioubovgrant1935 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Soulfulnutritionandwellness Yes with a beautiful images and calm voice his videos just like therapy 🌹

    • @elinaselene
      @elinaselene ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lioubovgrant1935 I listen to Joe everyday and even more now he is posting regularly. He is therapy and keeps me strong💜💫

    • @joebhouse
      @joebhouse  ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @elinaselene
      @elinaselene ปีที่แล้ว

      @@joebhouse 💜