delusion and self fulfilling prophecies // EP 29 - Pretty Lonesome
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 เม.ย. 2024
- In this episode of Pretty Lonesome, Madeline dives into the power of perspective and its influence on our lives. Sharing her own journey and insights, she explores how shifting mindsets can lead to positive changes. Madeline delves into the idea of self-fulfilling prophecies and their impact on our achievements and self-image. With a nod to self-respect, she reminds us to stay aware of how we treat ourselves daily. Wrapping up, Madeline ponders the idea of moving to Los Angeles, craving a warmer, more laid-back vibe.
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You’re speaking facts. We don’t have an identity, we have habits and traits that we develop over time due to circumstances, and we accept this as our identity. But nothing is set in stone.
Yes, but may I add to this. Our social identity is shaped/ conditioned by others, especially in our formative years, by significant others. That is how we create our own reality and see the world as we are, not as it is.
Yes! Identify can change by just changing what we do on a daily basis ❤
Face card going insane 😍😍
Literally
The way I’d follow every single advice you give is crazy😭😭😭
do not do that !
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Seeing your videos after a long week is like catching up with an old friend I love it
Watching this perspective as a religious person is honestly so interesting. I love to hear other people’s perspectives on things like this ❤️
Same 💯
Thank you
Fluent in Yapanese and I loved every second 😁❤️
You should check out San Clemente CA. It’s situation perfectly between San Diego and LA and it’s on the beach. Surprisingly, rent there is also cheaper than LA and the neighboring beach towns are fantastic (Carlsbad, Dana Point, Laguna Beach)
i was gonna suggest other places in CA for the weather, but i didn’t actually know any places, so im going to just put a like on your suggestion to bump it up 😂😂
Honestly, when u went to LA you were so happy and it’s soooo your vibe. So move girl, I’m here for it!
This!!
she also was so consistent too she seemed inspired
This was so insightful and validating. I grew up with an older sister who was praised for her intellect and I was always on the slower side. She bullied me into believing I was stupid and I still struggle with that to this day, even though I have a college degree and a great job that I excel at. Still learning how to self fulfill my prophecy but it’s in motion!
MADELINE im so happy u and brooke r friends now plssss make content together ILYYYY
This video was insanely helpful and eye-opening. My perspective on myself has genuinely changed, you don't understand how much hearing this helped me. Thank you Madeline
yes! i hate when people complain about how unhappy they are with the way they look/their clothes/hair/being too pale when they have the means to change it, just change it!
Madeleine as someone also newly diagnosed with adhd/add and going through college these videos are sooo helpful and validating ❤️
17:20 I also have adhd and everything u said here was so relatable 😭 same thing with me, absolutely hated talking and answering in school as a child and honestly all throughout my life, I think it’s the energy it takes for our brain to focus on the information that we physically can’t talk on top (also prob social anxiety as well) but the hyperactive brain making us feel deeply about topics can cause feelings of unworthiness for kids with adhd :/ good to recognise these things though to understand and improve, for years I had no idea and was constantly worsening myself
Madeline literally helped a lot of girls boost up their confidence and whoever is reading this ur very beautiful and everythiinnggg🎀✨
This has come at the PERFECT time for me I can’t even explain. 🙏🏽
I'M SCROLLING THROUGH TH-cam AND IT WAS SO UNEXPECTED AND NICE TO SEE THIS NEW VIDEO. Of course you're shooting, smart girl! you inspire me, because I also want to start a channel
I LOVEEE YOUUU💘
your path is very similar to mine, sometimes I think how crazy the similarities are between us
it's so cool to be heard, even through a screen
“Believe it and you will see it” + “if you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change” I live by these Wayne Dyer quotes they go both ways too so I kinda feel like if I’m u at least aiming for neutral my experience is already elevated + more stable + a blank slate for anything good on top of that to be that and not just swallowed tying to cancel out the bad.
learning russian because of villanelle is so real
Is that a movie character? Which movie plz 💕
@@sahar719 she’s from a show called killing eve
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Im currently anxious and I know all of this but in moments of extreme anxiety its hard to remember this THANK YOU
This resonated so strongly with me. I’ve always been a pessimist by default, but as I get older I understand that there is no value in that. So I’ve been actively trying to be more accepting when things don’t go as I initially expect. It’s the universe giving me a sign or an opportunity, rather than a hurdle or an attack on me. I’ve by no means mastered it, and pessimism is still my knee jerk reaction. But I’m learning to talk myself out of that and look at the other side. It’s not easy, but it’s getting easier every year. How you perceive your circumstances is fully up to you, and that’s so powerful!
I’m proud of you!
This was soooo good. I can’t tell you how much I needed this.❤
My favorite episode so far!!
Thanks for sharing.
Have an amazing wonderful girl. ❤❤
This is the only thing that calms me down during final exams, love you for your videos 🫶🏼
You're definitely beautiful Madeline, don't ever doubt that🥰 You're also adorable, sweet smart & funny and very loved ❣
Best episode you’ve done so far ❤
omg this came at the PERFECT time, I have therapy tomorrow and I'm going to show her this because it's EXACTLY how I feel !!! I'm just not in the confidence part yet 😭😭
i love you this video is like a gods gift ive been feeling so down lately and completely forgot i can just not feel like that
Congratulations
thank you so much for this madz i love you
LOVING the spiritual toneeeee magical girly
this is rlly helpful, i literally needed this rn
I'll never miss an episode
This is awesome. I've been deconstructing the internal beliefs and perceptions I have about myself, and other people, and the world for years now. Keep finding even deeper beliefs that cause suffering, and really curiously investigate them, why do I think this why, why do I believe this, who told me this etc... And it's a difficult journey, but it's so worth it. When you deconstruct these limiting beliefs, you get the opportunity to decide who you want to be. Right now I'm working through such a deep painful belief I've lived with my whole life. That I'm not good enough. It's such a fucker of a belief, it really messes with your experience of life in every way. But over this last year I've seen a huge shift in how I treat myself, how I show up in my relationships, and what I believe I'm worthy of. I'm starting to act like I am good enough. But really, the truth is, we are all far more than enough
I think you should just do whatever makes you happy !! Don’t worry about how other people perceive you, you know you want to move to Los Angeles. You could also move to just another place in Cali if ur scared or the Los Angeles title. Thank u for this podcast ❤
your skin looks AMAZING
Everything about this girl is super charming! What a gem! 💎
Great work as always, your content is refreshingly beautiful. ✨👌
MAKE MORE VIDEOS LIKE THIS PLEASEEE
So much love Madeline ❤ your fans from Saudi Arabia 🇸🇦
loveddd this episode def my fav
Thank you for providing entertainment while I'm revising!!!!!!! listening to you yap is somewhat educational I can't lie
why am i listening to madeline podcast like i have the same problem as her but im a 18yrs old straight white men 💀
You can do whatever you want
@@ehams9527 i hope
Because it doesn't matter your gender or the colour of your skin, at the end of the day, underneath it all, we are all human. And we have a lot more in common than people like to believe.
Because you are a lovely 18yrs straight white man 🫶🏽😘
thank u so much 4 this i rly needed to hear it today
17:00 that part gave me so much motivation i struggle with selective mutism and i hope i can be like that some day
me too!!! love to see that im not alone with sm
Your best pod yet
Haha, thanks for being candid and authentic. This episode will help the people it needs to
I love that mindset of having to be delusional to reach ur goals or move on in life, its actually what cench explained too at his chickenshop date
love that
I loved this episode so much! When you started talking about feeling the need to move and all the things you’re looking for, I immediately thought Florida!! We have such warm weather and it’s much calmer than LA! Also the rent is muchhh much better than LA. Anyways whatever you choose, I hope it all works out for you 💕
love your authenticity girl!
Girl ypur skin is GLOWINGGGGGGG
i needed to hear this rn
You said you hate the UK but i think it's a just matter of your perspective. Isn't it what your whole video is about? I think you should try to enjoy it, put aside your hatred and explore every corner of London, try every fucking restaurant there, travel around UK etc. We always think that grass is greener on the other side but it's not. We just don't know how (or want) to appreciate things.
That being said, love your podcasts girl ❤️
Cool stuff, it’s interesting how a mind can influence the rest of the body and things outside it. Have a good week!
😮 12:32 love all of this. Can hard relate. Love the vid. Liked
This was enlightening
This is powerful... the first part...
Random guy here, Girls do not wast your 20's learn to eat clean become a gourmet drink rarely lean in to who you are. Only connect with similar tribes, learn to filter for great men, skip the F-boys don't obsess about others or social media. Go out in the world, this girl gives gold!
This episode is everything you are such an intelligent bae
omg girl I am in love with your content
your so real and inspiring fr
and WERE SO SIMILAR LIKE OML
i love it 🔥🔥🫶🏻🫶🏻🙌🏻
THIS IS THE EARLIEST EVER BEEN WHAT THE HECK
Same and I'm still in school😂
this is honestly the secret to life
i feel you so much girl !! It's been 4 years that i moved to London, and the weather here is just depressing me. I am thinking of another plce where to go but i feel stuck because of my job.... I think you should try and move to LA, what can go wrong? You have nothing that is keeping you here in terms of house contract or job.. so you are pretty much free to explore. Even if it doesn't turn right, the worst that can happen is that you ome back to London in one year. You will find London exactly as it is now, don't worry, you will not miss out haha Also, I think that is even more intresting in your 20s to live in 4\5 different places. it brings out sides of you that you will never find out by staying in your old same comfort town. I am 26 now and have lived in 4 different places since i moved out of my parents house for uni when i was 18 and i can look back ans see all the different stages of my mind and life prosprective based on the place where i was and the people i met there... i actually mimss that so much :( !!! I think that since i am an "audlt" and i have a real job it is so much more difficult for me to take the decison to just leave. But I want to move, pls if you have any suggestion in how to not feel stuck and be brave to leave your job and start a new life sowhere else I am here to hear.
We are so similar it’s scary lol same name, look alike, and I also had to drop out of high school because of constant panic attacks and the embarrassment of just existing lol
hope you get to keep that kind of flow in you and keep yourself healthy madz
this was so good and such a healthy episode, might be my fav from u so far
There's no breathing app on the market that could make me as calm as listening to this podcast does. I literally save a new one for when I need to calm down
you are so funny even without trying omg, you gave me such a good time 😂❤
if you move to LA you will become an LA girl. 100% no doubt
thnx for this video it's amazing and best way to appear
in the heart and significant talk .
THIS IS THE EARLIEST I'VE EVER BEEN!
Omg she is so pretty😮
I’m at work you just saved my life
u help me sm you dont understand i thank you sm I relate sm
Crazy how our emotions is the charge and energy of what we’ll attract into our lives
It's incredible how our perspective can shape our reality and outlook on life. Believing in ourselves and maintaining a positive mindset truly opens doors to blessings we might not have noticed otherwise.
I also loved Villanelle! Nice video thank youuuu
also thank you for not making the title ugly it looks good like this
The way you said so gross and your laugh was so cute 😂❣️
you are right mady
Low key God heard your prayers and knew she wasn’t it and better was coming for you ❤
Great insights:) cya out there sometime
the villanelle obsession was so real
15 seconds in but the how to be hot and confident video was my first one i saw of yours and it changed my life honestly and i’ve avidly watched everything of yours ever since. so this is full circle for me 🥲💜
travel!! obviously only determines on how expensive it would be but if u think ur financially stable for it travelling around Europe and other places like the US would be so fun to watch icl and would help u with your issue about wanting to move and where :)
Mix the flat tire scenario with reading your daily horoscope... And it will definitely make sense..what mads is talking about is fates huge hands guiding us
LMAOO I feel like we all went through the phase of villanelle obsession I love jodie comer
I’m soo early I love it ❤
3:00 you are talking about an islamic phenomenon called taqwa, interesting to hear this from a non-muslim.
I just went to LA too! And I thought I would love it but I didn’t 😭 made me appreciate London lols
i love when u yap its fun
Madz, ur amazing
When I say we’re the same person I MEAN IT I swear I’m in university I’m studying English and just started linguistics and I just finished season two of killing eve and ofc I’m obsessed w villanelle not mentioning the shyness and adhd behaviors that I have since I was a kid and so many things I notice while watching ur episodes ,a lot of coincidences and I genuinely don’t know why?
I would defend bugs with my life not even kidding
one collective braincell huh 🐝 will return once i'm less intimidated by the subject matter
I really love your video.... :))
omg I love Killing Eve and there's so much to love about Villanelle
This was so interesting 🤔👀👌
I love the way you just talk non stop girl 😭😂 like breathe a little it’s fine 😘😅
Yes Maddy , Heard Excuse: “ No Don’t” Bb. : The Today Programme, Poole Harbour Polluted : “ Let’s Go Chi”