I’m 26 and on my last temp gig before I get my new job soon. My parents aren’t pressed on me not paying rent,they’re really cool but I myself just wanna be independent. Adult life is hard
Hi Infinitus. After watching this i can tell you are in a lot of pressure and are overwhelmed by everything you have to figure out. Just make sure you do one thing at a time and things will feel less overwhelming. Keep up your great work by trying to find a job. If you find one, try saving some money so its easier to rent elsewhere. But i understand if its hard due to you having to pay rent. Try to find support elsewhere. Some days are more difficult than others. Just remember that you are not alone, there are many people in similar situation as yourself. I hope you figure it out and it will get easier as time goes.
Afraid=angry That’s why they act like they do Extremely difficult for you, and it hurts when a close relative act that way. But remember God has a plan.Be patient(I know you Are ) Love from Unni in Norway♥️
I was a child of a narcissist parent, I came from a very difficult life with him, and was even homeless with him for a very long time in the past and never had a good home life growing up. I managed to escape him, and had to go great lengths to get away from him. I was lucky to have known the people that had helped me and allowed me to stay with them. I went to go be with my extended family that had found me on the internet. They flew me in first class to go be with them, and I genuinely felt that I would belong with them because they’re my family. At first there was this honeymoon period, they thought of me as a gift from grandma that passed away. But what seemed like a gift from the universe, only turned into something that had psychologically wounded me. I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they seemed to have been to live with, and how strict and conditional their love and regard was towards me. I felt like I couldn’t really be loved or accepted for just the way I am, or that I had to constantly fit in to their idea of how I should live my life and be like to them. I felt like I was some kind of flawed and inadequate kid. I would hear them say things like “but he wasn’t raised that way!” “oh it’s just gonna take time”, “I just think he just wasn’t raised properly” …and it felt like I had to constantly jump through hoops in order to be loved, and if I don’t, then it’s basically ‘bye peace out can’t live with your family’. To this day I feel this deep, inner wound of rejection and unworthiness that I carry each and every day. My aunt would ask this weird question “what are the advantages that you think you have of being here?” but in my mind I’m like ‘I didn’t come here just so I can gain some kind of material advantages, I came to have a life here with my family just like any other kid would with their families, not a quid pro quo’. But I just told her “I don’t know” , and she replied “then why did you come live with us honey?” and she didn’t even have any idea why I went to go be with them, even though she invited me and said “why not come stay here?” I had unfortunately received some invalidating comments from others that I’ve tried to speak to about my trauma, they’ve said things like “why should they love you” and “who are you and why should you be loved and cared for” and another person said “you don’t seem to realize that you’re wanting a warped and distorted image of your family” “you are not your brother you’re not their kid” and I’ve basically been labeled as having some kind of “sense of entitlement”. So for a kid or young person to have an innate desire and need to have a family home or to simply live with his or hers own family they would have a “sense of entitlement”? What kind of cold world do we live in? Isn’t every kid or young person deserving of what I believe to be the most basic, simplest thing that any young person could have, which is a family home, or to simply live with one’s own blood relational family, in a home? With parents, caregivers, siblings, etc? Shouldn’t it be like the norm and standard for every kid or young person? But for some reason, I’m being considered by some people as like bad, evil or reprehensible for trying to have that with my own family? I tend to think if my friends can live with their families, why can’t I live with mine? I once had a former friend who I thought would always be validating of my trauma, but he one time went against me and invalidated me and said; “Well they raised your brother! They raised him and not you so he’s their kid!” and he laughed at me. So whose kid am I? Where does that leave me then? and so after some years later I came to figure out, that perhaps the reason why I was treated the way I was treated by my family, was all because they raised my sibling and they never raised me. I can’t believe that, I went through that whole process, of getting away from my father, and finally got to be with my extended family and my brother that I never got to grow up with since we were born, and after going through such a nightmarish life with a narcissist father, only for it to, pretty much, backfire on me? all because ‘they raised him and not me’. So in order for a kid or young person to live with his or hers own family they have to be born and raised into it? And it’s unfair to me how my brother got to have what they called a “privileged life” while my life and upbringing got robbed by a toxic father. One person on the internet said to me “he was brought up by them and you weren’t so don’t go thinking you could have the same because the world doesn’t work that way.” 😒, in contrast, someone had recognized the validity of how I feel and that person said “your story saddens me so much, how on earth could you not be allowed just the same if not more’ 😔. I remember I stayed with a friend of mine and his family because his mom couldn’t sleep at night knowing that I was sleeping in a car in a parking lot somewhere with my father. They treated me as equally as their two boys, I wanted that with my family and my brother. It’s incredibly sad and disheartening to me that, I go to my family expecting all the love and care in the world, only to seemingly be met with sort of the opposite, I just don’t understand that if they can love and care for one kid all of his life why can’t they do just the same for the other? I believe every kid and young person deserves a good home life with their families. But I guess I can’t have that with my own family all because they raised him and not me. I used to envy other kids that had normal family homes, I stayed with some of them, but couldn’t actually live with them or claim it as my home all because I just, ‘wasn’t their kid’. Since my aunt apparently didn’t have any idea why I went to go be with them maybe I should’ve told her that the one question I always asked myself was, how come other kids get to have a family home and live with family in a home and I don’t? They bought a condo and now my brother is living in it for free… I was told that there was only one baby on the table… We never chose our parents… and I never chose this life…
@@blank_earth damn dude, I read Your whole comment here and I am so sorry that You had to go through all of this and I'm sure are still. But it's absolutely disgusting to Me that the only person it seems you've felt true unconditional love and support from in this world has been your friends Mom and not someone blood related to You. And vice versa though my brother is my half brother and we have different fathers, my father raised us both but he always treated me much nicer and my brother he was much harder on than Me. It's so odd how things like this happen I mean I know everyone doesn't believe in evolution and whatnot but in evolution everything is technically related and so people arbitrarily support closer family members better than further all depending on. And if You are married to someone, any kids they had before you married them are YOUR KIDS NOW. Treat them equally or don't get married lol. It creates a really fake feeling family.
I get you, Man - and sorry you’re going thru this. Also happy that you share it with us. A lot to say - but I’ll try to be brief with a few points tonight. 1. I know easier said than done, but you have to try to find a place of your own - even with a bunch of roommates or even if it’s just renting a room in a house with strangers. Doesn’t have to be a perm thing - but you def need more freedom to be You and to be treated with respect - I know it’s your Mom, so no disrespect intended, but I don’t like hearing how you’re saying you’re being treated at all - and you’re paying rent! 😡 2. Don’t ever feel embarrassed about loving Gaming so much - it’s not my thing but I’m obsessed with movies and opera and spend more time than is probably healthy watching/listening, so we all need things that make us feel alive/give us purpose. 3. Don’t feel bad about living at home at 26. Everyone is different. I didn’t get my own place until I was 34. Granted my circumstances were different (only child & my parents didn’t care how long I stayed & and I went for my degrees full time - plus things got drawn out when my Mom became terminally ill and I took care of her for a couple of years .. and then I stayed with my Dad a couple years more so he wouldn’t be alone - but I wanted to do it out of love). But then I got a great apartment - so, things will work out for you eventually! Ugh - guess I’ve written a novel already LOL - Hang in there! 🤗
@@chadmarcel5963 I really appreciate You taking the time to write out this comment, I absolutely realize that I can't stay here forever and will be working on that as soon as I land a full time job, I agree with You on number 2 I believe everyone deserves the same amount of respect no matter what, because it's not like individual people set everything in the world in motion for thenselves just for a bad outcome. And on 3 I honestly wouldn't care if I was still living with them if things were better for Me, but how they treat Me after making some mistakes during the hardest times of my life really makes it hard for Me to be happy with them..
I empathize with you so much. Not trying to sound rude but your parents seem so mean and apathetic. They see you’re trying,they see you’re stressed but it seems they’re gaslighting you and belittling you…HIGHKEY abusing you. The thing they should do is try to see if you could get some help as you seem very depressed and unmotivated…this leads people to dark paths. Everyone wants to shit on a person’s present but never wanna ask what is leading the person to where they are now mentally.. I hate how society claims they hate how the system is..but they treat others accordingly to how the system sees people who aren’t millionaires. I hope you get through this man,ngl this video hit me hard…how could a parent treat their struggling child like this…overseas parents will do anything for their kids no matter how old they are.
@@keeferkifflom360 thanks Keefer, I appreciate Your empathy and understanding a bit of my perspective. It's interesting because my father treated me in similar ways but I have much more time to figure this out opposed to the 1 month my father gave me when he kicked me out years ago now but yeahh regardless the situation is far from ideal. It's so true what you said about everyone wants to hate on somebody if they aren't successful but don't care why they haven't been yet in the first place it's all on You as an adult to figure it out they don't care how just that You do or sleep on the streets. It's pretty gross..
Ever considered joining the military? You can negotiate your contract to have a non deployable MOS(military occupational specialty)(or your job in the military) if you want to. I’m not just saying hey go and just sign up, but the military changed my life completely. It could do the same for you. It’s a great way to seriously take control of your future. It’s something to really look into and consider. The military put me through college as well. Also when you’re negotiating your contract, you can even tell the recruiters like I want to go to Japan or something and remain there. Don’t become homeless. Take control of your life and destiny. The streets are rough and so are shelters. Take control of your life. Don’t envision homelessness in your life. Envision greatness. Envision hope. Envision taking control. Best of luck to you.
🌹 Love from Canada. Stay strong, try to enroll in a college program like electrician tech or something, to enable you to be independent and leave home. All the best. You still have your life ahead of you🌹.
Living with other people your age as an adult is rough, I don't think we were supposed to live with other adults apart from a wife or husband. We all inevitably get baggage and different world views and need our own safe place to retire back to every day. I'm 44 and living with my old folks. I got out for a while and tried living with others my age and it was awkward. I was having to mask too much, I guess if we're honest we all do that more and more as we get older. I feel for you younger people, it was way easier to own our own place when I was in my 20s and 30s. You guys get tyhe unrelenting gaslight from the boomers too on top of it all, that you're lazy and it's your fault and things aren't any harder now than it was for them, with is utter b0ll0cks. Hopefully things are okay with your folks at least.
Thanks for Your comment, Your understanding means a lot to Me!! Things could be a lot worse with them and I guess I can just try to look at things that way until I can figure things out with them. I just don't know if they would ever let Me have full autonomy with my room again even if I'm working full time planning to move out etc. like I know I've made mistakes but holding grudges and people's mistakes against them doesn't help them do better!
From what you say your parents are abusive and don't care about you, I Know it's hard but you've got to go away. I'm sorry for your situation. You don't have any fault.
Thank You for Your understanding. It's hard for me to recognize and express these things as abuse because it's all that I have. But I'm not perfect either I just wish people could accept that about each other..
yes a full time job would help you a lot the time you spend gaming look for a job and then look for a place they have gave you 5 months you don't see it but they want the best for you .There is so much more to life than video games join the real world your getting older it is time .do your gaming as a hobby when your not working .your a grown man you can do it I so wish you the best
Well You have to understand how depressed I would be if I didn't engage in my hobbies while not at work but I also wouldn't have had to figure out how to stream on a Steam Deck which has taken a lot of energy and work. I just want to make sure Im working on something I'm proud of for myself outside of a job otherwise I will never be fulfilled. I know the gaming part of things isn't everyone cup of tea and so I am going to make sure I make more videos to balance it out. The gaming streams have been a great time so far and so I'll be continuing them as long as I am able. But Don't worry I know they want the best for me it's just they help how they think is best rather than how I believe would truly benefit Me instead and that creates some tension and I just feel like they don't respect me or treat me like a teenager or something which doesn't help me at all
@@Berp-j2f because who the hell wants to work a stupid job? Btw I’m getting off my 10 hour a day, 5 days a week warehouse job right now. It’s fucking 4:18am. This is no life. He’s starting to make some money on TH-cam. Let him fucking be!!!
i think sitting in a room all day playing video games is the worst thing u can do for mental health, maybe u can find a job soon and save enough money to buy a used van, that will allow u to live in it and do deliveries for income, i think ur parents just want u to be an independent man so they can have their freedom back 🤷♂
Idk then i would be in a van playing video games not sure if it would change everything lol but it would help me get out and have more to do than just that I agree. Idk how me needing a place to live for the time being takes any of their freedom away but okay. All they care about is their privacy my perspective does not matter now to them I mean I literally couldn't say anything to them now to make them treat me better other than "I'm working full time and moving out next month, goodbye!" And that just sucks
@@InfinitusYT aww come on give them a chance? but u r right alot of people of all ages live with family or friends or in vehicles or the street even if they have a job, having a job shows responsibility and the ability to contribute financially and i think that says alot
I’m 27 started paying rent last year bro… I feel your pain. Hope you’re doing well
I’m 26 and on my last temp gig before I get my new job soon.
My parents aren’t pressed on me not paying rent,they’re really cool but I myself just wanna be independent.
Adult life is hard
Hi Infinitus. After watching this i can tell you are in a lot of pressure and are overwhelmed by everything you have to figure out. Just make sure you do one thing at a time and things will feel less overwhelming. Keep up your great work by trying to find a job. If you find one, try saving some money so its easier to rent elsewhere. But i understand if its hard due to you having to pay rent. Try to find support elsewhere. Some days are more difficult than others. Just remember that you are not alone, there are many people in similar situation as yourself. I hope you figure it out and it will get easier as time goes.
thank you!!
sorry about it all....hope you can find your way in the world...love, Eileen.
It's okay, I know things will get better eventually I just have to forge my own path.
Afraid=angry
That’s why they act like they do
Extremely difficult for you, and it hurts when a close relative act that way.
But remember God has a plan.Be patient(I know you Are )
Love from Unni in Norway♥️
I was a child of a narcissist parent, I came from a very difficult life with him, and was even homeless with him for a very long time in the past and never had a good home life growing up. I managed to escape him, and had to go great lengths to get away from him. I was lucky to have known the people that had helped me and allowed me to stay with them. I went to go be with my extended family that had found me on the internet. They flew me in first class to go be with them, and I genuinely felt that I would belong with them because they’re my family. At first there was this honeymoon period, they thought of me as a gift from grandma that passed away. But what seemed like a gift from the universe, only turned into something that had psychologically wounded me. I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they seemed to have been to live with, and how strict and conditional their love and regard was towards me. I felt like I couldn’t really be loved or accepted for just the way I am, or that I had to constantly fit in to their idea of how I should live my life and be like to them. I felt like I was some kind of flawed and inadequate kid. I would hear them say things like “but he wasn’t raised that way!” “oh it’s just gonna take time”, “I just think he just wasn’t raised properly” …and it felt like I had to constantly jump through hoops in order to be loved, and if I don’t, then it’s basically ‘bye peace out can’t live with your family’. To this day I feel this deep, inner wound of rejection and unworthiness that I carry each and every day. My aunt would ask this weird question “what are the advantages that you think you have of being here?” but in my mind I’m like ‘I didn’t come here just so I can gain some kind of material advantages, I came to have a life here with my family just like any other kid would with their families, not a quid pro quo’.
But I just told her “I don’t know” , and she replied “then why did you come live with us honey?” and she didn’t even have any idea why I went to go be with them, even though she invited me and said “why not come stay here?”
I had unfortunately received some invalidating comments from others that I’ve tried to speak to about my trauma, they’ve said things like “why should they love you” and “who are you and why should you be loved and cared for” and another person said “you don’t seem to realize that you’re wanting a warped and distorted image of your family” “you are not your brother you’re not their kid” and I’ve basically been labeled as having some kind of “sense of entitlement”.
So for a kid or young person to have an innate desire and need to have a family home or to simply live with his or hers own family they would have a “sense of entitlement”? What kind of cold world do we live in?
Isn’t every kid or young person deserving of what I believe to be the most basic, simplest thing that any young person could have, which is a family home, or to simply live with one’s own blood relational family, in a home? With parents, caregivers, siblings, etc? Shouldn’t it be like the norm and standard for every kid or young person? But for some reason, I’m being considered by some people as like bad, evil or reprehensible for trying to have that with my own family? I tend to think if my friends can live with their families, why can’t I live with mine? I once had a former friend who I thought would always be validating of my trauma, but he one time went against me and invalidated me and said; “Well they raised your brother! They raised him and not you so he’s their kid!” and he laughed at me. So whose kid am I? Where does that leave me then?
and so after some years later I came to figure out, that perhaps the reason why I was treated the way I was treated by my family, was all because they raised my sibling and they never raised me. I can’t believe that, I went through that whole process, of getting away from my father, and finally got to be with my extended family and my brother that I never got to grow up with since we were born, and after going through such a nightmarish life with a narcissist father, only for it to, pretty much, backfire on me? all because ‘they raised him and not me’. So in order for a kid or young person to live with his or hers own family they have to be born and raised into it? And it’s unfair to me how my brother got to have what they called a “privileged life” while my life and upbringing got robbed by a toxic father.
One person on the internet said to me “he was brought up by them and you weren’t so don’t go thinking you could have the same because the world doesn’t work that way.” 😒, in contrast, someone had recognized the validity of how I feel and that person said “your story saddens me so much, how on earth could you not be allowed just the same if not more’ 😔.
I remember I stayed with a friend of mine and his family because his mom couldn’t sleep at night knowing that I was sleeping in a car in a parking lot somewhere with my father. They treated me as equally as their two boys, I wanted that with my family and my brother.
It’s incredibly sad and disheartening to me that, I go to my family expecting all the love and care in the world, only to seemingly be met with sort of the opposite, I just don’t understand that if they can love and care for one kid all of his life why can’t they do just the same for the other? I believe every kid and young person deserves a good home life with their families.
But I guess I can’t have that with my own family all because they raised him and not me.
I used to envy other kids that had normal family homes, I stayed with some of them, but couldn’t actually live with them or claim it as my home all because I just, ‘wasn’t their kid’. Since my aunt apparently didn’t have any idea why I went to go be with them maybe I should’ve told her that the one question I always asked myself was, how come other kids get to have a family home and live with family in a home and I don’t?
They bought a condo and now my brother is living in it for free…
I was told that there was only one baby on the table…
We never chose our parents…
and I never chose this life…
@@blank_earth damn dude, I read Your whole comment here and I am so sorry that You had to go through all of this and I'm sure are still. But it's absolutely disgusting to Me that the only person it seems you've felt true unconditional love and support from in this world has been your friends Mom and not someone blood related to You. And vice versa though my brother is my half brother and we have different fathers, my father raised us both but he always treated me much nicer and my brother he was much harder on than Me. It's so odd how things like this happen I mean I know everyone doesn't believe in evolution and whatnot but in evolution everything is technically related and so people arbitrarily support closer family members better than further all depending on. And if You are married to someone, any kids they had before you married them are YOUR KIDS NOW. Treat them equally or don't get married lol. It creates a really fake feeling family.
I get you, Man - and sorry you’re going thru this. Also happy that you share it with us.
A lot to say - but I’ll try to be brief with a few points tonight.
1. I know easier said than done, but you have to try to find a place of your own - even with a bunch of roommates or even if it’s just renting a room in a house with strangers. Doesn’t have to be a perm thing - but you def need more freedom to be You and to be treated with respect - I know it’s your Mom, so no disrespect intended, but I don’t like hearing how you’re saying you’re being treated at all - and you’re paying rent! 😡
2. Don’t ever feel embarrassed about loving Gaming so much - it’s not my thing but I’m obsessed with movies and opera and spend more time than is probably healthy watching/listening, so we all need things that make us feel alive/give us purpose.
3. Don’t feel bad about living at home at 26. Everyone is different. I didn’t get my own place until I was 34. Granted my circumstances were different (only child & my parents didn’t care how long I stayed & and I went for my degrees full time - plus things got drawn out when my Mom became terminally ill and I took care of her for a couple of years .. and then I stayed with my Dad a couple years more so he wouldn’t be alone - but I wanted to do it out of love). But then I got a great apartment - so, things will work out for you eventually!
Ugh - guess I’ve written a novel already LOL - Hang in there! 🤗
@@chadmarcel5963 I really appreciate You taking the time to write out this comment, I absolutely realize that I can't stay here forever and will be working on that as soon as I land a full time job, I agree with You on number 2 I believe everyone deserves the same amount of respect no matter what, because it's not like individual people set everything in the world in motion for thenselves just for a bad outcome. And on 3 I honestly wouldn't care if I was still living with them if things were better for Me, but how they treat Me after making some mistakes during the hardest times of my life really makes it hard for Me to be happy with them..
@@InfinitusYT❤
I empathize with you so much.
Not trying to sound rude but your parents seem so mean and apathetic.
They see you’re trying,they see you’re stressed but it seems they’re gaslighting you and belittling you…HIGHKEY abusing you.
The thing they should do is try to see if you could get some help as you seem very depressed and unmotivated…this leads people to dark paths.
Everyone wants to shit on a person’s present but never wanna ask what is leading the person to where they are now mentally..
I hate how society claims they hate how the system is..but they treat others accordingly to how the system sees people who aren’t millionaires.
I hope you get through this man,ngl this video hit me hard…how could a parent treat their struggling child like this…overseas parents will do anything for their kids no matter how old they are.
@@keeferkifflom360 thanks Keefer, I appreciate Your empathy and understanding a bit of my perspective. It's interesting because my father treated me in similar ways but I have much more time to figure this out opposed to the 1 month my father gave me when he kicked me out years ago now but yeahh regardless the situation is far from ideal. It's so true what you said about everyone wants to hate on somebody if they aren't successful but don't care why they haven't been yet in the first place it's all on You as an adult to figure it out they don't care how just that You do or sleep on the streets. It's pretty gross..
Ever considered joining the military? You can negotiate your contract to have a non deployable MOS(military occupational specialty)(or your job in the military) if you want to. I’m not just saying hey go and just sign up, but the military changed my life completely. It could do the same for you. It’s a great way to seriously take control of your future. It’s something to really look into and consider. The military put me through college as well. Also when you’re negotiating your contract, you can even tell the recruiters like I want to go to Japan or something and remain there. Don’t become homeless. Take control of your life and destiny. The streets are rough and so are shelters. Take control of your life. Don’t envision homelessness in your life. Envision greatness. Envision hope. Envision taking control. Best of luck to you.
🌹 Love from Canada. Stay strong, try to enroll in a college program like electrician tech or something, to enable you to be independent and leave home. All the best. You still have your life ahead of you🌹.
Thanks for the love and tips!!
Living with other people your age as an adult is rough, I don't think we were supposed to live with other adults apart from a wife or husband. We all inevitably get baggage and different world views and need our own safe place to retire back to every day. I'm 44 and living with my old folks. I got out for a while and tried living with others my age and it was awkward. I was having to mask too much, I guess if we're honest we all do that more and more as we get older.
I feel for you younger people, it was way easier to own our own place when I was in my 20s and 30s. You guys get tyhe unrelenting gaslight from the boomers too on top of it all, that you're lazy and it's your fault and things aren't any harder now than it was for them, with is utter b0ll0cks. Hopefully things are okay with your folks at least.
Thanks for Your comment, Your understanding means a lot to Me!! Things could be a lot worse with them and I guess I can just try to look at things that way until I can figure things out with them. I just don't know if they would ever let Me have full autonomy with my room again even if I'm working full time planning to move out etc. like I know I've made mistakes but holding grudges and people's mistakes against them doesn't help them do better!
From what you say your parents are abusive and don't care about you, I Know it's hard but you've got to go away. I'm sorry for your situation. You don't have any fault.
Thank You for Your understanding. It's hard for me to recognize and express these things as abuse because it's all that I have. But I'm not perfect either I just wish people could accept that about each other..
yes a full time job would help you a lot the time you spend gaming look for a job and then look for a place they have gave you 5 months you don't see it but they want the best for you .There is so much more to life than video games join the real world your getting older it is time .do your gaming as a hobby when your not working .your a grown man you can do it I so wish you the best
Well You have to understand how depressed I would be if I didn't engage in my hobbies while not at work but I also wouldn't have had to figure out how to stream on a Steam Deck which has taken a lot of energy and work. I just want to make sure Im working on something I'm proud of for myself outside of a job otherwise I will never be fulfilled. I know the gaming part of things isn't everyone cup of tea and so I am going to make sure I make more videos to balance it out. The gaming streams have been a great time so far and so I'll be continuing them as long as I am able. But Don't worry I know they want the best for me it's just they help how they think is best rather than how I believe would truly benefit Me instead and that creates some tension and I just feel like they don't respect me or treat me like a teenager or something which doesn't help me at all
Do the Disney college program they house you it’s worth it in the long run research it
I'll look into it, thanks for the tip!
@ you don’t need college to just a place you been to like community they like work experience and smiles and provide housing
Dude even WWOOFing is a good idea right now. Get your hands dirty, get out in the sun and fresh air, meet some new people and hear their life stories
What is WWOOFing?
You gotta try to get a job man.
I will be starting to apply again soon, don't worry! I have had 2-3 recently but none stuck for various reasons.
@@InfinitusYT why soon? why not tomorrow?
@@Berp-j2f because who the hell wants to work a stupid job? Btw I’m getting off my 10 hour a day, 5 days a week warehouse job right now. It’s fucking 4:18am. This is no life. He’s starting to make some money on TH-cam. Let him fucking be!!!
i think sitting in a room all day playing video games is the worst thing u can do for mental health, maybe u can find a job soon and save enough money to buy a used van, that will allow u to live in it and do deliveries for income, i think ur parents just want u to be an independent man so they can have their freedom back 🤷♂
Idk then i would be in a van playing video games not sure if it would change everything lol but it would help me get out and have more to do than just that I agree. Idk how me needing a place to live for the time being takes any of their freedom away but okay. All they care about is their privacy my perspective does not matter now to them I mean I literally couldn't say anything to them now to make them treat me better other than "I'm working full time and moving out next month, goodbye!" And that just sucks
@@InfinitusYT also consider getting a gf, that may help ur need for intimacy
@@thisguy5982 Sorry but a gf is the last thing I need rn 🤣
@@InfinitusYT aww come on give them a chance? but u r right alot of people of all ages live with family or friends or in vehicles or the street even if they have a job, having a job shows responsibility and the ability to contribute financially and i think that says alot
i am so tired of this whole existenc....
Same man..