Ohhh,I can feel your frustration if that’s what I can call it😔I’m currently going through some issues in my life,not with my kids,but with my husband..So Ms.Stephanie,my heart hurts right now too..We’re going to be ok,im trusting in God and his son to take the wheel and have it their way❤Sending hugs from Alabama🥰
Hey Stephanie I am a first time watcher of your video, I was amazed of your strength from your daughter's but need not worry because God 🙏 🙌 is going to put back what was lost in your relationship with your daughters in which Satan thought in his evil way devour, please stay strong & always smile be bless because God got you Amen.
I fell you gave it your best shot for your entire family to make a loving family and provide them with a beautiful home to shear love joy and peace. Love you and your and your family are in my prayers 🙋♀️atx
Ms. Stephanie, I love your content. I think you are an amazing person, an entrepreneur, a great mom, and a fantastic motivational leader. I enjoy your wisdom and decorative touch. I look forward to your content. ❤️
Wow. This is so real and raw. I feel for you. I’m glad you’re looking out for you for once!! I hope you and David find your forever home and it’s exactly what you want and deserve!!! You deserve the peace and joy you deserve! Much love Stephanie…thinking of you
Your peace and well-being are very important. If you need a smaller sized home, there's nothing wrong with that, we all learn throughout this life journey, and now you know what sized home is best suited for you both. I pray you and your children will be able to make amends, I'm also praying this doesn't affect your grandkids. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️
Stephanie, I really appreciate your honesty! I'm sorry for what you are going through with your children. they don't seem to know how good a mother they have and are taking you for granted. You are right, you have to protect your sanity, otherwise you have nothing. I have friends who have babied their adult children and have allowed them to take advantage of them and it just hurts everyone involved. It actually stunts the growth of the children, who are not really children anymore! Sometimes "tough love" is the answer. I hope you find the peace you seek!
You deserve happiness and peace in your life. You take care of Stephanie. Love your videos, and you looked so pretty in that red top you wore. Dinner looks delicious. Have a blessed week.
I had to write you Stephanie, I just wanted to tell you I relate to you totally. You are sooo fortunate to get to this place at your age while you are young enough. I am cheering you on all the way. I wanted so much to just give you a tight hug. You are not alone. There seems to be so many of us women that are on the same journey. I love your real talks!!! Peace and love to you! ❤️
I’ve been right where you are. I promise, it will get better and you will find your peace. It takes daily practice and mindfulness. It all starts with you! 🩷🙌🏼
I’m just catching up on your videos. I wish you peace and resolution that’s best for you. I don’t have children by choice and that’s blessed me to be able to help family at times. Sometimes I have to stop when it’s no longer helpful to them though. When they get entitled or aren’t making progress. We should assist but not be a permanent crutch. You keep your home beautiful and it’s inspiring. When I saw the daughter’s room, I knew that couldn’t be what you wanted inside the same house.
I can totally relate to just being overwhelmed in your own home. My situation is not the same as yours, but we are foster parents as well and had a very very tough placement a few months ago. Plus having 4 of my own all young, my house became very overwhelming and I shut down. I felt like I was doing it all alone. I literally quit cleaning and keeping up. With my foster teen, her mental health and trauma sadly has just changed her. We’ve known her for 7 years, she was actually our very first foster placement when we started fostering in 2016. She was adopted by her aunt, we still maintained visits with her and her brother so they grew up with us and part of our family. And to see her this way, it is heart breaking. She ended back in foster care because she was struggling at home. It’s tough. But long story short, we decided to move and are still deciding what we will do with our home. I love the area, I love the mortgage amount right now with the higher rates, but things need to be changed before we can move back in because I do not want to shut down again.
You are the most real and transparent You Tube person I see and that is why I love you so much. You are like a real best friend I love to hang out with. Don't ever change. Prayers for all you are and all you are going through.
I’m sorry what you’re going through. You are a strong person and will get through it for sure. Prayers. We sold our house and land in just a couple of months and moved into our new house in April. Good luck but I know that will work out well for you too. Sending love ❤
You are not all over the place stephanie you are being real with us and yourself honey we understand and we love you so much stephanie continue your journey we are with you all the way okay ❤❤❤
My heart ached and I shed some tears😢. Thank you for your transparency. You don’t know how much you were speaking to me and my heart. You are such an inspiration and felt every word that you were speaking. You made me feel like the decisions that I’ve made in the past, were ok. Letting go of ppl that don’t bring any peace into your life. It was sad, but much needed. Thank you, thank you , thank you. Please keep Inspiring and encouraging peace, love and happiness. ❤
I totally agree with everything you said about healing. In order for us to be a better person, we must definitely have to acknowledge our faults and failures. Noone is perfect, and we all make mistakes, but it is very important to learn from our mistakes so that we won't keep making the same ones over and over. God bless you and God bless your family.🙏❤
life is a journey for sure, you are a good person Stephanie and you will succeed in yours, we all deserve peace and joy and I wish that for you my friend!
Hey Sis! Catching up, Been in hospital since Thursday and got discharged Saturday. A wake up call to take care of self and not worry so much about things I cannot control. Love your realness and this was such relaxing content yet upfront.❤😊
Good day to you Sis. So glad you are transparent about your life & don't mind sharing it with us, because there is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you 🥰
Hello Mrs Stephanie, God got this! It is not uncommon what you are going through! With the way this world is going and this generation and the agenda it pushes. We definitely can understand. I have 4 children alll teenagers well one is 20. AND I tell ya it takes God's wisdom love, grace,mercy, forgiven ess and patience to get through! We get back up and brush our knees off and Keep going! Im in prayer for you and yours! God got this!!! We are overcomers by the Words of our testimonies!❤❤❤
Good morning Stephanie! I loved everything about this video. I hate what you’re going through right now but you will get through it! We are all on the pursuit of happiness and you are well on your way💕I can not wait to hear you speak about. ✌🏾🫶🏾🤎
@@RealLifewithRisha heyyy Risha!! It’s tough for sure but it’s almost over and then we can finally do what we need to do. It’s so weird that my children are like this but they are so therefore we have to move forward with getting the one that’s still here out. It’s so sad 😞 See you soon sis♥️
Stephanie you’re definitely not alone.IVE been through just what you’re currently going through. I don’t understand our daughters at all. We’ve just got too keep praying for them . My daughter has gotten somewhat better now that she’s married. I started too email you and talk too you there. But just kno that I love you and you continue too be strong. Much love 💕 🙏🏽
Stephanie, you are such a wise woman whom I admire totally. You are such an inspirational lady. You have my admiration for moving on to your next chapter of your life story. Prayers for you and David for a successful selling of your house. Your house is beautiful and no one maintains a home like you do. The future buyers of your house are very blessed and fortunate people. Love all of your videos and look forward to your next one. God bless and take care. Cookie in Mandeville Louisiana
Hi, I hope you have prayed about your decisions as you move forward in life and you won’t regret them later. You love your beautiful home and have put so much labor of love into it. Not knowing all you have been through but if you keep letting your children destroy your life trying to help them you will never find that peace and happiness you are searching for. Your girls mistreat you because that is all they know to do because others mistreat them. Their cycle of lifestyle won’t change until they accept Jesus in their lives. Speaking as a mother of 8 children when you have done all you can to help your children ; they won’t take adhere to what you are saying; shake the dust off your shoes and let them GO. You don’t deserve to be mistreated by anybody. I love you and I pray that all will be well with the new life you are seeking.
But your cleaning videos have helped me want to do better and make small changes. I use to have a cleaning person, but she got hurt and then never went back to work. I was comfortable with her, she didn’t judge me or my mess lol. When we moved out I paid someone to do a move out cleaning and I’m so glad I did.
Happy for the next chapter of your peaceful life and your joy. You deserve it. Glad you are able to see what's best for you and not be held back by material things. Focus and find you. Cleaning and this channel are you. You just need to find what else Is for you. Praying for your peace and happiness 🙏🏽❤️ Glad we can be here for you🤗
Bestie, girl, I feel you on so many levels right now. I know that God has a plan for you and sometimes we have to go through processes to get there. I’m certainly praying for you and I mean that Sis. I can’t wait to hear your testimony on the other side of this.🙌🏽🙏🏽#Thereshallbegloryafterthis🤎
🌸 Dear Stephanie 🌸 this was harder for me than your last video. because now you have to cope with the aftermath. both of your daughters have such a sense of entitlement! you might not remember this but i once said that one of your daughters and one of my daughters must know each other. That daughter of mine also has such an air of entitlement and bad behavior. Having her still living at home could be a sweet thing but not with her expecting my husband and I to provide everything for her. She works full time, doesn't help out financially and has the gall to say that we never have the food she likes. So I want you to know that with everything that's happening, I hope you know how much you're cared for xoxoxo
Stephanie, I commend your openness! I'm confident that the next phase of your life will align with your true purpose: to live a life filled with happiness. I eagerly anticipate witnessing your new journey. Remember, you deserve your own happiness. You're in my prayers. Your daughter needs to hear from someone else that she's mistaken. Until she stops blaming you and faces reality, she'll continue to face the same issues. I don't claim to see or know everything, but it's clear she's wrong to disrespect you and your home. I hope she realizes this soon, so her life isn't shortened by failing to honor you. It's shocking how they treated your home, especially knowing your standards for cleanliness. You're absolutely right about the importance of accountability! Happy New Journey Stephanie!
@@janicelvance Heyyy my sis♥️ thank you for being lovely as always with your beautiful and kind words of wisdom. It always brightens my day. I’m not sure what all has to happen for them to learn l, you would think they could actually take a look at themselves and know something is wrong and it just blows my mind that they can’t sis… absolutely blows my mind! Hugs sis🤗
I'm so happy to hear you are healing... I know this sounds weird, but after your video last week I had been thinking of you all week, because my heart just breaks for you with the turmoil with your daughters. Stay strong and continue to do what is best for you and your family. Also, your dinner looked delicious :)
Hey, sis, catching back up with you. I gotta go back to your last one last week. It was a busy one, so I'm playing catch up. I am praying for you no matter the situation. I'm praying for you, from one mother to another, from one sister to another. The burden we carry sometimes is so deep. I was just saying to my hubby that no matter if our children are grown or how much we try to just go on with our lives, we are still affected in some way by our children's choices . Well, I'm going to get my fix watching you clean because I'm relaxing today, sis. Wait what?? I can't even believe what I'm hearing sis! No ma'am that is your home your safe haven your peace anything that disturbs it must go. Chile I done had to put asses out my house before. I don't give a darn what you ain't going to do is disrespect me in my house. Chile you almost made me cuss and get on a plane 😂. Omg sis what your selling??? This is too much info for me right now you might need to console me! Wth sis. God is in control and has you sis always ❤. There are some folks that you have to free yourself of trust me I have done a whole lot of cleaning house. They rob you of peace and joy and without remorse or concern. I just told my husband that about me i may give you 50ft or 5000 ft of rope but when you reach that end its a wrap because i know the person i am and i take too much so i can walk away with pure heart knowing they deserved it and i deserved to walk away!
@@JustSimplyRose You know you are too funny 😂the one thing I’m always going to do is get a laugh when you comment and that’s always a great thing sis🫶🏽 thank you! I’m going to address your comment in my next upload. You said a lot and I’d like to talk about it because I think my verbal response would bring some clarity to everything. I love this comment and you spoke to everything that’s going on, so yeah♥️ Be blessed beautiful💕💕💕 and again… Thank you!
Stephanie I pray continual growth,love, joy, peace and strength to you. I pray you and your husband get the desires of your heart. I pray all both of you are going towards in your new journey will come to pass. God bless you both.
I need to give you a Hug 🫂. The moving forward- is a process- but you are ready for the ride. Make your moves your way! Blessings 🙌. I want you to display peace and harmony for your personal peace and sit in your decisions of steadfastness. Do you!
I always wondered why you and your husband bought such a large house for just the two of you. My husband and I are retiring in hopefully 4 years and we definitely do not want a large place. We want no more than 3 bedrooms but are willing to take 2 bedroom if it's a large 2 bedroom. We really only need 1 guestroom. The older you get I think most people realize you really want to keep it simple. I'm happy you're getting what makes you happy, in the end it's all that mattered. You've taken care of everyone else, it's time to take care of self.
I’m really sorry you are going through this, but did your realtor discuss mortgage rates? I imagine they are higher now than when you bought your home, and even if you sell your home and buy a smaller one, you may be out the same or more money because of interest rates. I know you want out of the house, but just thought I might mention this in case the realtor didn’t. Many blessings to you, I pray every works out better than before.
Please b careful don't put anything past your kid.i remember this lady had 2 daughters n she wanted them gone n one of them stabbed her she died.b safe💞
Stephanie this is a hard situation but just so you know. You have the right to tell your realtor when to bring possible byers. They always should call you before they come. The point is if you really want your daughter out you don't have to wait until you sell your house. We just lost our brother to alcohol and we loved him dearly byt he was never able to change. My poor mother never had peace because she didn't know how not to open her door for him. We are talking about a grown man. This went on for many many years. Its ok to help our children but when they are disrespectful and putting you in danger that's when you need to watch for you first. Its biblical we are not responsible for our disobedient children. By your daughter staying she already has the upper hand. Again disrespecting your wishes. If you are the only thing she has then she has some rethinking to do.
@@JanetteOcasio Janette you are absolutely correct in your entire statement. I have a video that will upload tomorrow morning regarding this situation and how we’ve decided to proceed. But yes, you are spot on🫶🏽 I told my husband the same thing, that she’s basically running the show and I just can’t have that. It has bothered me beyond belief. Thank you so much
@@Thestephanieway everything will work out. I'm sure. Keep praying , God does listen. My brother even though we loved him and still love him of course, he always made my mother feel like everything that happened to him was her fault and sometimes would say " what kind of mother are you?" Even though she was doing way more that she needed it to. She shed a lot of tears. It's hard very hard.. The worst thing we do it's letting them think we will always take them in no matter what. Another thing is Stephanie when someone lives with you for certain amount of time and get mail in your residence then you have to give them notice of eviction. Don't wait untill you have to go through that. Believe me we are mothers and I know it's not easy, but when they don't take ownership of their actions,like you said it becomes dangerous.
Honey my heart breaks for you, i am 78 yrs old and i have been where you are, still is somewhat, my husband died in 2021,we just couldn't live together, he had his apartment, i had my home, we did everything together that way. I have had my share of problems with my children, you can never do enough . I hope you an David is ok, if not , move on, you won't be the first to do so.watch your back where your daughter is concerned.
As you said we're all going through something, but you're also a child of the most high and that's first, 1. doesn't give us more than we can bear, meditate ,seek direction, today's issue are sufficient, tomorrow is not promised and most of all peace is actually a Gift of the spirit that exceeds all understanding. Hope I didn't over step boundaries. LY 64 been through so much but in there are lessons in all of it.Replay find them, get your peace then you'll be in better shape to .are decisions.😉 OLDLADY
So why on God's green earth would you let your daughter back in there YET AGAIN after you just threw her out of there?? That was really, really. reallllllly stupid!!!
You know what @straightnochaser lol! The old me would have been offended by this comment. But I can respect that you live up to your name love. I’m not mad at it because on some level you’re absolutely right… your delivery was a bit rude, but I get it. As a mom you just have a certain amount of grace for your children, but I now know that they don’t deserve it, so they won’t ever live here again♥️
The way you explained your thoughts on therapy is the exact way I feel. Love your videos, sis. ❤
Hey Yiskah🫶🏽
Do you boo. These youngsters are from a different planet. You dont miss your water til the well runs dry. Praying Gods best for u❤❤❤😊😊😊
@@pam.wilson1954 indeed!!!! I so agree 👍🏾
Ohhh,I can feel your frustration if that’s what I can call it😔I’m currently going through some issues in my life,not with my kids,but with my husband..So Ms.Stephanie,my heart hurts right now too..We’re going to be ok,im trusting in God and his son to take the wheel and have it their way❤Sending hugs from Alabama🥰
@@lashondramMac46 Lashondra we are definitely going to be okay sis! Receiving and sends hugs back love 🤗♥️
Hey Stephanie I am a first time watcher of your video, I was amazed of your strength from your daughter's but need not worry because God 🙏 🙌 is going to put back what was lost in your relationship with your daughters in which Satan thought in his evil way devour, please stay strong & always smile be bless because God got you Amen.
Thank you for being you and sharing your life and stories. I'm praying for you. Good luck with your new chapter 😊.
Thank you so much!🫶🏽
Sis Stephanie, we understand. You’re the Champ ♥️ you’re honest! Diva’ need love too🌹
I fell you gave it your best shot for your entire family to make a loving family and provide them with a beautiful home to shear love joy and peace. Love you and your and your family are in my prayers 🙋♀️atx
Ms. Stephanie, I love your content. I think you are an amazing person, an entrepreneur, a great mom, and a fantastic motivational leader. I enjoy your wisdom and decorative touch. I look forward to your content. ❤️
@@mzhemi4231 Awww! Thank you, this means a lot and made me smile ♥️♥️♥️
Wow. This is so real and raw. I feel for you. I’m glad you’re looking out for you for once!! I hope you and David find your forever home and it’s exactly what you want and deserve!!! You deserve the peace and joy you deserve! Much love Stephanie…thinking of you
Your peace and well-being are very important. If you need a smaller sized home, there's nothing wrong with that, we all learn throughout this life journey, and now you know what sized home is best suited for you both. I pray you and your children will be able to make amends, I'm also praying this doesn't affect your grandkids. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️
Stephanie, I really appreciate your honesty! I'm sorry for what you are going through with your children. they don't seem to know how good a mother they have and are taking you for granted. You are right, you have to protect your sanity, otherwise you have nothing. I have friends who have babied their adult children and have allowed them to take advantage of them and it just hurts everyone involved. It actually stunts the growth of the children, who are not really children anymore! Sometimes "tough love" is the answer. I hope you find the peace you seek!
You deserve happiness and peace in your life. You take care of Stephanie. Love your videos, and you looked so pretty in that red top you wore. Dinner looks delicious. Have a blessed week.
You are resilient Stephanie!! Thinking of you and God will guide you where you need to be!
@@karengilday6513 thank you Karen🤗
Yes,know you are loved 🙋♀️🙏
I had to write you Stephanie, I just wanted to tell you I relate to you totally. You are sooo fortunate to get to this place at your age while you are young enough. I am cheering you on all the way. I wanted so much to just give you a tight hug. You are not alone. There seems to be so many of us women that are on the same journey. I love your real talks!!! Peace and love to you! ❤️
@@rhondahill5261 heyyyy Rhonda!! Thank you… we’re in this together💕 I really appreciate you a lot!
I’ve been right where you are. I promise, it will get better and you will find your peace. It takes daily practice and mindfulness. It all starts with you! 🩷🙌🏼
I’m just catching up on your videos. I wish you peace and resolution that’s best for you. I don’t have children by choice and that’s blessed me to be able to help family at times. Sometimes I have to stop when it’s no longer helpful to them though. When they get entitled or aren’t making progress. We should assist but not be a permanent crutch. You keep your home beautiful and it’s inspiring. When I saw the daughter’s room, I knew that couldn’t be what you wanted inside the same house.
I can totally relate to just being overwhelmed in your own home. My situation is not the same as yours, but we are foster parents as well and had a very very tough placement a few months ago. Plus having 4 of my own all young, my house became very overwhelming and I shut down. I felt like I was doing it all alone. I literally quit cleaning and keeping up. With my foster teen, her mental health and trauma sadly has just changed her. We’ve known her for 7 years, she was actually our very first foster placement when we started fostering in 2016. She was adopted by her aunt, we still maintained visits with her and her brother so they grew up with us and part of our family. And to see her this way, it is heart breaking. She ended back in foster care because she was struggling at home. It’s tough. But long story short, we decided to move and are still deciding what we will do with our home. I love the area, I love the mortgage amount right now with the higher rates, but things need to be changed before we can move back in because I do not want to shut down again.
You are the most real and transparent You Tube person I see and that is why I love you so much. You are like a real best friend I love to hang out with. Don't ever change. Prayers for all you are and all you are going through.
@@WVNurse Hey Pam💕💕💕 thank you so much… I love you too!!
I’m sorry what you’re going through. You are a strong person and will get through it for sure. Prayers. We sold our house and land in just a couple of months and moved into our new house in April. Good luck but I know that will work out well for you too. Sending love ❤
@@karenacox8932 thank you Karena💕 a couple of months? That’s so encouraging! Thank you for sharing that.
Joy and Peace. Amen
You are not all over the place stephanie you are being real with us and yourself honey we understand and we love you so much stephanie continue your journey we are with you all the way okay ❤❤❤
My heart ached and I shed some tears😢. Thank you for your transparency. You don’t know how much you were speaking to me and my heart. You are such an inspiration and felt every word that you were speaking. You made me feel like the decisions that I’ve made in the past, were ok. Letting go of ppl that don’t bring any peace into your life. It was sad, but much needed.
Thank you, thank you , thank you. Please keep
Inspiring and encouraging peace, love and happiness. ❤
I totally agree with everything you said about healing. In order for us to be a better person, we must definitely have to acknowledge our faults and failures. Noone is perfect, and we all make mistakes, but it is very important to learn from our mistakes so that we won't keep making the same ones over and over. God bless you and God bless your family.🙏❤
@@Katsplace. Hey Kat🫶🏽 thank you so much!!
I’m excited for you and this next chapter in your life! And I appreciate you keeping it real with us 🥰
@@jackiewilson2917 heyyy my Jackie♥️ thank you so much, I’m excited as well.
life is a journey for sure, you are a good person Stephanie and you will succeed in yours, we all deserve peace and joy and I wish that for you my friend!
@@cherylcook2712 thank you Cheryl🫶🏽
Hey Sis! Catching up, Been in hospital since Thursday and got discharged Saturday. A wake up call to take care of self and not worry so much about things I cannot control. Love your realness and this was such relaxing content yet upfront.❤😊
Thank you Trina🫶🏽
Good day to you Sis. So glad you are transparent about your life & don't mind sharing it with us, because there is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you 🥰
@@KhadijahFarrakhan-ek6ob tell me about it sis!!! I have to release it lol! Thank you so much my sis ♥️
Girlfran, home is immaculate!
Hello Mrs Stephanie, God got this! It is not uncommon what you are going through! With the way this world is going and this generation and the agenda it pushes. We definitely can understand. I have 4 children alll teenagers well one is 20. AND I tell ya it takes God's wisdom love, grace,mercy, forgiven ess and patience to get through! We get back up and brush our knees off and Keep going! Im in prayer for you and yours! God got this!!! We are overcomers by the Words of our testimonies!❤❤❤
Good morning Stephanie! I loved everything about this video. I hate what you’re going through right now but you will get through it! We are all on the pursuit of happiness and you are well on your way💕I can not wait to hear you speak about. ✌🏾🫶🏾🤎
@@RealLifewithRisha heyyy Risha!! It’s tough for sure but it’s almost over and then we can finally do what we need to do. It’s so weird that my children are like this but they are so therefore we have to move forward with getting the one that’s still here out. It’s so sad 😞
See you soon sis♥️
Stephanie you’re definitely not alone.IVE been through just what you’re currently going through. I don’t understand our daughters at all. We’ve just got too keep praying for them . My daughter has gotten somewhat better now that she’s married. I started too email you and talk too you there. But just kno that I love you and you continue too be strong. Much love 💕 🙏🏽
Stephanie, you are such a wise woman whom I admire totally. You are such an inspirational lady. You have my admiration for moving on to your next chapter of your life story. Prayers for you and David for a successful selling of your house. Your house is beautiful and no one maintains a home like you do. The future buyers of your house are very blessed and fortunate people. Love all of your videos and look forward to your next one. God bless and take care.
Cookie in Mandeville Louisiana
@@lindalawrence5975 heyyy my sweet cookie 🍪
Thank you so much!!!!
Hi, I hope you have prayed about your decisions as you move forward in life and you won’t regret them later. You love your beautiful home and have put so much labor of love into it. Not knowing all you have been through but if you keep letting your children destroy your life trying to help them you will never find that peace and happiness you are searching for. Your girls mistreat you because that is all they know to do because others mistreat them. Their cycle of lifestyle won’t change until they accept Jesus in their lives. Speaking as a mother of 8 children when you have done all you can to help your children ; they won’t take adhere to what you are saying; shake the dust off your shoes and let them GO. You don’t deserve to be mistreated by anybody.
I love you and I pray that all will be well with the new life you are seeking.
Praying for your family 🙏🏽.
But your cleaning videos have helped me want to do better and make small changes. I use to have a cleaning person, but she got hurt and then never went back to work. I was comfortable with her, she didn’t judge me or my mess lol. When we moved out I paid someone to do a move out cleaning and I’m so glad I did.
Happy for the next chapter of your peaceful life and your joy. You deserve it. Glad you are able to see what's best for you and not be held back by material things. Focus and find you. Cleaning and this channel are you. You just need to find what else Is for you. Praying for your peace and happiness 🙏🏽❤️ Glad we can be here for you🤗
Super excited about the future though and the new place and decorating and cleaning! Hopefully it’s a breath of fresh air and a fresh start
@@autumn4737 I’m excited too Autumn!
Stephanie your a beautiful humble Woman of God. Overflow of blessing coming your way.
Bestie, girl, I feel you on so many levels right now. I know that God has a plan for you and sometimes we have to go through processes to get there. I’m certainly praying for you and I mean that Sis. I can’t wait to hear your testimony on the other side of this.🙌🏽🙏🏽#Thereshallbegloryafterthis🤎
🌸 Dear Stephanie 🌸 this was harder for me than your last video. because now you have to cope with the aftermath. both of your daughters have such a sense of entitlement! you might not remember this but i once said that one of your daughters and one of my daughters must know each other. That daughter of mine also has such an air of entitlement and bad behavior. Having her still living at home could be a sweet thing but not with her expecting my husband and I to provide everything for her. She works full time, doesn't help out financially and has the gall to say that we never have the food she likes. So I want you to know that with everything that's happening, I hope you know how much you're cared for xoxoxo
Thinking of you and your family hope n prayers 🙋♀️atx❤️
Stephanie, I commend your openness! I'm confident that the next phase of your life will align with your true purpose: to live a life filled with happiness. I eagerly anticipate witnessing your new journey. Remember, you deserve your own happiness. You're in my prayers. Your daughter needs to hear from someone else that she's mistaken. Until she stops blaming you and faces reality, she'll continue to face the same issues. I don't claim to see or know everything, but it's clear she's wrong to disrespect you and your home. I hope she realizes this soon, so her life isn't shortened by failing to honor you. It's shocking how they treated your home, especially knowing your standards for cleanliness. You're absolutely right about the importance of accountability! Happy New Journey Stephanie!
@@janicelvance Heyyy my sis♥️ thank you for being lovely as always with your beautiful and kind words of wisdom. It always brightens my day.
I’m not sure what all has to happen for them to learn l, you would think they could actually take a look at themselves and know something is wrong and it just blows my mind that they can’t sis… absolutely blows my mind!
Hugs sis🤗
I'm so happy to hear you are healing... I know this sounds weird, but after your video last week I had been thinking of you all week, because my heart just breaks for you with the turmoil with your daughters. Stay strong and continue to do what is best for you and your family. Also, your dinner looked delicious :)
@@itsjustjoelle6640 hey Joelle love💕💕💕 thank you so much!!
🌹soon as you said your hubby agreed , the storm became more bearable🌹💕.
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Hey, sis, catching back up with you. I gotta go back to your last one last week. It was a busy one, so I'm playing catch up. I am praying for you no matter the situation. I'm praying for you, from one mother to another, from one sister to another. The burden we carry sometimes is so deep. I was just saying to my hubby that no matter if our children are grown or how much we try to just go on with our lives, we are still affected in some way by our children's choices . Well, I'm going to get my fix watching you clean because I'm relaxing today, sis. Wait what?? I can't even believe what I'm hearing sis! No ma'am that is your home your safe haven your peace anything that disturbs it must go. Chile I done had to put asses out my house before. I don't give a darn what you ain't going to do is disrespect me in my house. Chile you almost made me cuss and get on a plane 😂. Omg sis what your selling??? This is too much info for me right now you might need to console me! Wth sis. God is in control and has you sis always ❤. There are some folks that you have to free yourself of trust me I have done a whole lot of cleaning house. They rob you of peace and joy and without remorse or concern. I just told my husband that about me i may give you 50ft or 5000 ft of rope but when you reach that end its a wrap because i know the person i am and i take too much so i can walk away with pure heart knowing they deserved it and i deserved to walk away!
@@JustSimplyRose You know you are too funny 😂the one thing I’m always going to do is get a laugh when you comment and that’s always a great thing sis🫶🏽 thank you!
I’m going to address your comment in my next upload. You said a lot and I’d like to talk about it because I think my verbal response would bring some clarity to everything. I love this comment and you spoke to everything that’s going on, so yeah♥️
Be blessed beautiful💕💕💕 and again… Thank you!
Always love my beautiful sister ❤❤. You deserve that peace ,you go get it back!@@Thestephanieway
I expect the very best for you, Stephanie. 💯✨️
I'm hear for it sis! Hope you're having a nice relaxing Sunday evening! ❤️🙏🏽🥰
Hey Stephanie. Hope your having a great day. God bless you.
Thank you for the motivation!! ☀️🪴
You definitely you need to let go and forgive before menopause. And peace can be with you on each new day.
@@robynchote3208 heyyyy🤗 I don’t quite understand your comment. Do you care to explain?
You do deserve to have peace and joy don't let Noone still your joy God love you continue to love yourself.
Hey Stephanie, Happy Sunday and have a blessed and wonderful week🫶
Your shirt 😂 Wishing you the best Stephanie!
Stephanie I pray continual growth,love, joy, peace and strength to you. I pray you and your husband get the desires of your heart. I pray all both of you are going towards in your new journey will come to pass. God bless you both.
@@Dauphne indeed sis! I know we’ll be just fine. I greatly appreciate the support!
New subscriber here - just discovered your channel. I appreciate your honesty about your life issues.
@@belindadonellan6376 Hey Belinda, WELCOME 🤗 to the channel. Thank you so much!!!
I believe that your beautiful house will sale quickly.
@@Dauphne that would be awesome Dauphne, thank you 💕
Your home look so cozy especially the Loft area
@@BenitiaKimball330 it’s very cozy indeed😊
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You have to save your sanity. Because no one else will! Point blank!!
@@CarolynBSmith-wj6ql Yessss!
Hugs from your sister from Texas ❤❤❤❤ and I'm cleaning with you I told you I've been through the same thing let's pray for each other 🙏💖💙💙💙
Yes! Thank you!♥️♥️♥️
I need to give you a Hug 🫂. The moving forward- is a process- but you are ready for the ride. Make your moves your way! Blessings 🙌. I want you to display peace and harmony for your personal peace and sit in your decisions of steadfastness. Do you!
@@THORPE1601 virtual hugs sis🤗🤗🤗 thank you so much♥️
HELLO Stephanie I LOVE your home you be Bless and you do you
@@rotundahunter2965 thank you Rotunda🫶🏽
I always wondered why you and your husband bought such a large house for just the two of you. My husband and I are retiring in hopefully 4 years and we definitely do not want a large place. We want no more than 3 bedrooms but are willing to take 2 bedroom if it's a large 2 bedroom. We really only need 1 guestroom. The older you get I think most people realize you really want to keep it simple. I'm happy you're getting what makes you happy, in the end it's all that mattered. You've taken care of everyone else, it's time to take care of self.
Happy Sunday Sis
I’m really sorry you are going through this, but did your realtor discuss mortgage rates? I imagine they are higher now than when you bought your home, and even if you sell your home and buy a smaller one, you may be out the same or more money because of interest rates. I know you want out of the house, but just thought I might mention this in case the realtor didn’t. Many blessings to you, I pray every works out better than before.
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❤God Bless ❤ you my sister ❤
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Please b careful don't put anything past your kid.i remember this lady had 2 daughters n she wanted them gone n one of them stabbed her she died.b safe💞
Stephanie this is a hard situation but just so you know. You have the right to tell your realtor when to bring possible byers. They always should call you before they come. The point is if you really want your daughter out you don't have to wait until you sell your house. We just lost our brother to alcohol and we loved him dearly byt he was never able to change. My poor mother never had peace because she didn't know how not to open her door for him. We are talking about a grown man. This went on for many many years. Its ok to help our children but when they are disrespectful and putting you in danger that's when you need to watch for you first. Its biblical we are not responsible for our disobedient children. By your daughter staying she already has the upper hand. Again disrespecting your wishes. If you are the only thing she has then she has some rethinking to do.
@@JanetteOcasio Janette you are absolutely correct in your entire statement. I have a video that will upload tomorrow morning regarding this situation and how we’ve decided to proceed. But yes, you are spot on🫶🏽 I told my husband the same thing, that she’s basically running the show and I just can’t have that. It has bothered me beyond belief.
Thank you so much
@@Thestephanieway everything will work out. I'm sure. Keep praying , God does listen. My brother even though we loved him and still love him of course, he always made my mother feel like everything that happened to him was her fault and sometimes would say " what kind of mother are you?" Even though she was doing way more that she needed it to. She shed a lot of tears. It's hard very hard.. The worst thing we do it's letting them think we will always take them in no matter what. Another thing is Stephanie when someone lives with you for certain amount of time and get mail in your residence then you have to give them notice of eviction. Don't wait untill you have to go through that. Believe me we are mothers and I know it's not easy, but when they don't take ownership of their actions,like you said it becomes dangerous.
Looks delicious
Honey my heart breaks for you, i am 78 yrs old and i have been where you are, still is somewhat, my husband died in 2021,we just couldn't live together, he had his apartment, i had my home, we did everything together that way. I have had my share of problems with my children, you can never do enough . I hope you an David is ok, if not , move on, you won't be the first to do so.watch your back where your daughter is concerned.
@@barbaramathis5844 Right Barbara… you said it right “You can never do enough”
As you said we're all going through something, but you're also a child of the most high and that's first, 1. doesn't give us more than we can bear, meditate ,seek direction, today's issue are sufficient, tomorrow is not promised and most of all peace is actually a Gift of the spirit that exceeds all understanding. Hope I didn't over step boundaries. LY 64 been through so much but in there are lessons in all of it.Replay find them, get your peace then you'll be in better shape to .are decisions.😉 OLDLADY
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Hi Steph Hope you are ok? Much love
@@myfablife2742 Always🤗 it’s just life stuff… but I’m always okay. Thank you🫶🏽
Sounds like you weren't talking about your girls. Remember all decisions have consequences.
@@bacingram I don’t understand your comment. I talked about my girls through almost the entire video and what actions?
I’m just confused by this🤷🏽♀️
Not being funny but you need your husband home with you.
@@MarthaHerkley I didn’t think that you were being funny at all… I totally agree!
So why on God's green earth would you let your daughter back in there YET AGAIN after you just threw her out of there?? That was really, really. reallllllly stupid!!!
Go away if you can’t say something nice.
Don’t judge others unless you’ve never put a foot wrong in life. Stephanie’s decision toward HER children is always the correct one at the time.
You know what @straightnochaser lol! The old me would have been offended by this comment. But I can respect that you live up to your name love. I’m not mad at it because on some level you’re absolutely right… your delivery was a bit rude, but I get it. As a mom you just have a certain amount of grace for your children, but I now know that they don’t deserve it, so they won’t ever live here again♥️
If you choose to sell it’s ok because when you move your subscribers are moving with you. 😃🫶🏾
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@@BenitiaKimball330 That’s so true my sis… you absolutely are!
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