Cheating once is one time too many. Her looking for another man after finding out he cheated makes her a better person not a real woman because…she didn’t step out the relationship like he did.
I hate seeing women that don’t know there worth and stay after being CHEATED on I honestly cannot fathom. Honestly no if I think im getting cheated on imma get the facts and move accordingly 🤷🏽♀️
The w 2nd couple, she act like can improve in her communication, tone, and how she handles things! There is always a way to improve, adjuat, and redirect energy. To me, she requires him to do everything and meet her qhen she has to also r see reciprocate it as well! ❤wish them th best😊
I just really enjoy watching karamo he is the most down earth fair dude of all toward all his guests with that being said u r a real 1 and say what u mean👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯
The second case. The things she says doesn't aligned with how she acts. She says the right words but she takes the wrong actions. You can tell she doesn't really mean it when she says they are done, when it get with a actually mature and behaved lady she will show how she really feels
Cheating is a broken vowel. Divorce me please! I will always love my life more than having a husband. Don't put my Life in jeopardy with a life long STD or disease
She needs to work on herself he is not responsible for tempering your emotions. Your triggers are your triggers you know them work on healing. Let’s stop normalizing living in our fear and walking around TTG (trained to go)
She seems like I’m right always and you are not! She doesn’t consider his feelings. That whole statement “it’s gotta be enough” and “ I’m going to do my best” says it all.
Karomo should have told the second young lady to work on getting rid of your triggers. Especially when he saids calm down, women tend to feel if they don’t say everything on their mind when they get mad that they are weak, but there is strength in shutting up, silence can kill arguments until you can talk in a calm manner so that you can actually be heard. It’s like she wanted to be rewarded for having triggers no grow up, stop letting it take you their
It really is! NO ONE ever calmed down when told to calm down. The message is, "You're being hysterical and unreasonable and I'm not going to listen to you."
1st guy is trash. More than likely he confessed because someone was about to tell on him. He lied to another person as well. That person may have developed feelings for him. Men like him are dangerous. They're sociopaths. They operate on quick self gratification. Be careful wifey🙁
Have a gentle heart and mind. Sheesh! Before damaging someone heart think of their mental health from a broken love, before harming their trust in such a way.
Ernasia definitely gotta be from NYC because she only speaks how NYC women talk.. And we damn sure don’t like to be told to “calm down” when we aren’t even riled up.. Those are fighting words 😂 Marcus knows exactly what he’s doing when he says those things to be provoking or condescending.. Marcus seems like he’s not built for the average NYC woman and his emotional intelligence is definitely lacking.. And I can’t stand when men who don’t know how to express their own emotions project their insecurities on you and try to label you as being aggressive because you are expressing yourself while they prefer to stay in a shell.. He’s too soft for a NYC woman and I’m just happy they’re mature enough to work on themselves for the sake of their children.. And yes when you get us riled up during a disagreement and we need time to calm down, then just respect it.. She’s an extroverted type and he’s an introverted types.. They just need to find a common ground.. Ernisha sounds so much like me I wonder if she’s a Libra 😂 Or maybe it’s simply we’re both just your average NYC woman as well.. I wish them the best 🤎
NYC women are rude as hell. He isn't "soft" he just have feelings. Something y'all lack. That is why southern men do best with southern women because we don't run from feelings like y'all do. Y'all marriage rates are bad too.
I still can't come to an understanding. How can we women stay 1,2,3,4,6,8,9,10,12,17, etc, years without cheating on a man. But they can't be strong enough to refuse and fight temptation 😒.
Why does Karamo always seem to side with the women...or is it me just me? He paints women as victims and men as the bad guys. Have observed this on so many programs.
Going back to someone time and time again you will never ever trust them. Trust me I know all to well about this. There no going back. You will always distrust him or her because of it.
11:47 I remember when I used to tell my boyfriend don’t be looking at them big booty girls and he’d say “don’t nobody want me” as if to say if that’s the only reason he wasn’t looking
I don't think she's a bull dog. She's juat very direct, and she's a product of her environment, Brooklyn. Which he says attracted him to her at first. He knew what he was getting into and made 3 kids with her.
2nd couple- This was NOT the ideal "Opposites attract"... Whoa, chile! She is SKRRROOONNGG with her approach. You can tell. She's a lot. She definitely needs to mature.
I’m not tryna hear none a that shawty is in fact aggressive and masculine and want people to accept it that’s out he betta get them boys away before they get to acting like she
I genuinely cannot understand people who equal honesty with righteousness.. just because you’re honest about being a shitty person, doesn’t make you a good person.
That’s he’s a good man he’s a good man clearly he’s not I hate seeing woman go through this go through this love and value yourself a good man wOnt have you looking crazy ❤
I saw a picture of another female on my man's Facebook story but I decided to stay with him because he didn't talk to her if he would have had a conversation with her then it would have been over and we've been together for almost 2 years and I'm not going to leave him because of a picture how stupid would that be?
I sure wished my x husband would of confessed to me about his infidelity then so many people already knowing except me.....i think that hurt me the most and finding out how I did on my job and breaking down crying at work and people thinking someone had passed away... My heart crumbled in pieces that day 😢 it's been twenty years ago and I'm crying right now because it still hurts so much.. My phone call was about the affair and she was also pregnant.... We already had two small children together and were married for six years at the time..
Ew, this man is so self-righteous. The nerve of him, asking for her phone. I've noticed Karamo seems to give black men a special pass (in fairness this behaviour was particularly evident on one show where a young man was running about fathering many children outside marriage - "trauma" my butt). The show should have been about, you did THIS to her, and it is up to YOU to make amends. Notice that Karamo never got a straight answer from the fellow as to whether he would do whatever it took to rebuild trust. "I been doing that!" is not a sufficient answer. I'd have a plan outlined for the fellow to follow for the rest of his life and shut down any discussion of looking at her phone. How dare he. What a narcissist.
I'm in shock. he says something like "as black men, as we are, as who and what we are, already in danger in this country". I just don't know what to say. Of course we know the stories about police violence and violence in deprived neighborhoods, especially against people of African-American descent. But I find it really terrible that this is experienced so intensely that it is considered a kind of general norm! I come from the Netherlands, where we are proud of the integration of all different cultures together, and "back home with us" things also often don't go as they should, with ethnic profiling, discrimination based on skin color or name, (that there are certain names, for example in a tax return or an application letter, filtered out due to (presumed) background. But as intense as this is said here...again, really, I am in shock..I hadn't fully grasped the gravity of the black lives matter grouping. It was quickly turned it into "all lives matters", because that's how it feels to us. it's not in the color, every life is equally valuable. but I believe that the inequality in the USA is even worse. I just can't believe what he said!😢😢
Comments saying how Karamo ALWAYS favors the men and then others saying he ALWAYS favors the men. You really can't please all of the people all of the time. If you think he is biased move on.
Labels identify content😂😂😂 How you gonna hate labels then say in the same sentence yes black women are ALL that in the label used to describe you😂😂😂😂 Where is my passport 😂😂😂😂😂
Should I understand that it's okay for us as black women to speak to our spouses with a high pitch voice but they can't intern do the same to us. Is the man allowed to use the same tone?
I totally agree with the lady: It's completely unfair for an aggressive, angry, belligerent, and stubborn black woman to be labeled as aggressive, angry, belligerent, and stubborn. We should learn to keep giving them a pass and be kinder and gentler about those that have attitude issues because doing so always leads to them finally changing for the better right... Right 🤡 Also love how the host totally realized the only reason she called into the show was hoping he could psycho-hustle her husband into finally accepting her behavior because she's getting tired of him being a man of station and integrity when not giving in to her preference, being who he is, and approaching the situation in a much kinder and considerate manner then the rest of the planet that wouldn't put up with it. Good job also not telling her to grow up and accept her request is childishly illogical and selfish with the domineering drip plugged into her arm, this totally closed out in the green😉👌 That whole segment was completely unreal.
Oh please stop. Black women act no different than white women and other races of women. You just called a black woman's behavior out and focus on it. White women can be mean and aggressive and I know cause i've dealt with them. Asian women can be hostile and hispanic women. Just stop with the generalization
“ I love my wife I take my vows very seriously” men are so contradicting and stupid 😂😂
No, this man is.
@@keylacmckemp1309thank you
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U sound like a simp
HE is contradicting and stupid.
If he took his vows very seriously, he wouldn't have committed adultry. He's a joke!
Marriage is a joke. - 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce. 70 percent of divorce is filed by the wife.
The woman in the audience can’t do no better. They all single.
You DONT love someone, if you are capable to cheat with someone else
Lies
Love and loyalty aren't the same
If you cheat you are selfish plan and simple.
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@@cardomuldrow09 truth. It's the complete opposite of loving someone.
That proposal was so sweet. He was shaking putting the ring on her ❤
Dude was so nervous he went straight to the proposal. CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Are you willing to take the first step ? “Imma do my best”
Karamo’s laugh 😂😂😂
😂
he says he loves his wife but he CHEATED on her. theres no love there at all
Facts
Exactly
Preach 👍
No there’s love just no loyalty
@@kikijojo4197 that part
His hypocrisy, deflection, and gaslighting are annoying. Why are they even married 🙄
Ernaysia is fly as hell. Head to toe. Even her name is cool.
Facts 👍
She’s got a gift from the Lord Too! She’s gonna be just fine! Don’t touch Mine Anointed!
I said that too..her personality is beautiful.
He couldn't LOVE Her ENOUGH. All the Whining about what SHE did after his RAGGEDY BEHIND CHEATED' Who Cares!🙄
Karamo, you are just a pure soul. I love you
I really wish Karamo would have been around when I was younger
When trying to prove to a cheater that you're not a cheater lol I think tf not
Cheating once is one time too many. Her looking for another man after finding out he cheated makes her a better person not a real woman because…she didn’t step out the relationship like he did.
That was a beautiful engagement ❤❤❤
Damn, uncle's video tribute brought a tear to my eye.
Best Part 🙏❤️💯
Sammee!! So sweet!
Awwwww. I want the last couple to work on themselves and get back together 🙏🙏💞
Right
Same
Awwww! Uncle tore me up!!!❤❤
Karamo asked that first guy a question and he deflected right to her and whats wrong angel... Sir what issues do YOU HABE THAT MADE U CHEAT.
I believe the second couple still ❤ each , and they still want to be together ❤😂
I just wanna say the second guest looks just like Remy ma i couldn’t stop staring at her lol
sounds just like her too
I hate seeing women that don’t know there worth and stay after being CHEATED on I honestly cannot fathom. Honestly no if I think im getting cheated on imma get the facts and move accordingly 🤷🏽♀️
With her un willing to change and communicate better , her kids are going to grow up the same way ANGRY. Not good for kids or yourself. GL
The w
2nd couple, she act like can improve in her communication, tone, and how she handles things! There is always a way to improve, adjuat, and redirect energy. To me, she requires him to do everything and meet her qhen she has to also r see reciprocate it as well! ❤wish them th best😊
Congratulations to the newlyweds ❤❤❤❤
Why is the world so sexually out of control if you love someone you consider them in everyway things are so messed up we confuse obsession with love
This whole show was amazing ❤
Omg i thought the lady in the green/orange shirt was remy ma for a sec 😂😂
I just really enjoy watching karamo he is the most down earth fair dude of all toward all his guests with that being said u r a real 1 and say what u mean👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯
This show always got me in tears. The end 😢 love you KARAMO ❤
The second case. The things she says doesn't aligned with how she acts. She says the right words but she takes the wrong actions. You can tell she doesn't really mean it when she says they are done, when it get with a actually mature and behaved lady she will show how she really feels
They both did good....I think it will work
Cheating is a broken vowel. Divorce me please! I will always love my life more than having a husband. Don't put my Life in jeopardy with a life long STD or disease
I’m not getting mad at no job reference from an ex I have people I don’t even speak to on my list
2nd lady sound like remy ma
😂 EXACTLY
ALL Brooklyn women sound the same! Lol! Harlem people, too.
His cheek was jumping!
2:19 If you love your wife and you take your vows seriously you would have NEVER Is cheated !! He is ridiculous!
She needs to work on herself he is not responsible for tempering your emotions. Your triggers are your triggers you know them work on healing. Let’s stop normalizing living in our fear and walking around TTG (trained to go)
Yes!!!!!
EXACTLY! THANK YOU. She has to mature.
Need to take responsibility on how you feel talking bout “calm down “ triggers you 😂😂😂😂😂
She seems like I’m right always and you are not! She doesn’t consider his feelings. That whole statement “it’s gotta be enough” and “ I’m going to do my best” says it all.
I love Karamo, love his show, 🥰
A grown woman…any adult should be able to calm down. Control your damn self
I feel like the second people need therapy on their own. Nobody should be walking on eggshells.
Karomo should have told the second young lady to work on getting rid of your triggers. Especially when he saids calm down, women tend to feel if they don’t say everything on their mind when they get mad that they are weak, but there is strength in shutting up, silence can kill arguments until you can talk in a calm manner so that you can actually be heard. It’s like she wanted to be rewarded for having triggers no grow up, stop letting it take you their
Such an aggressively toned couple!😵💫🥴😩🤣😂
Man telling someone to calm down is not bad
It really is! NO ONE ever calmed down when told to calm down. The message is, "You're being hysterical and unreasonable and I'm not going to listen to you."
And whats wrong w that message?@Acadia26
1st of all ...sis needs to CALM DOWN! 😑 😂
Thank Karamo...
"You don't rewards for being honest...."
Three boys my goodness- yet blessed because my sonson is my 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
1st guy is trash. More than likely he confessed because someone was about to tell on him.
He lied to another person as well. That person may have developed feelings for him. Men like him are dangerous. They're sociopaths. They operate on quick self gratification. Be careful wifey🙁
You cannot tell me that ain't fine a** Jazmin Sullivan!
AWWWWW!!!
You telling you cheated is not being honest. Being honest is not cheating
Have a gentle heart and mind. Sheesh! Before damaging someone heart think of their mental health from a broken love, before harming their trust in such a way.
If you LOVE you Don't cheat pal !
Ernasia definitely gotta be from NYC because she only speaks how NYC women talk.. And we damn sure don’t like to be told to “calm down” when we aren’t even riled up.. Those are fighting words 😂 Marcus knows exactly what he’s doing when he says those things to be provoking or condescending.. Marcus seems like he’s not built for the average NYC woman and his emotional intelligence is definitely lacking.. And I can’t stand when men who don’t know how to express their own emotions project their insecurities on you and try to label you as being aggressive because you are expressing yourself while they prefer to stay in a shell.. He’s too soft for a NYC woman and I’m just happy they’re mature enough to work on themselves for the sake of their children.. And yes when you get us riled up during a disagreement and we need time to calm down, then just respect it.. She’s an extroverted type and he’s an introverted types.. They just need to find a common ground.. Ernisha sounds so much like me I wonder if she’s a Libra 😂 Or maybe it’s simply we’re both just your average NYC woman as well.. I wish them the best 🤎
I think she’s a Taurus. She’s aggressive tho.
NYC women are rude as hell. He isn't "soft" he just have feelings. Something y'all lack. That is why southern men do best with southern women because we don't run from feelings like y'all do. Y'all marriage rates are bad too.
Sounds like nyc women don’t know how to express their emotions.
Okay but is she not giving Jazmine Sullivan bob era
I've been with co parent it took me two years but my sons father knows were not together let's just raise our boy
Is that Donte' from the reality show Split Ends?
I still can't come to an understanding. How can we women stay 1,2,3,4,6,8,9,10,12,17, etc, years without cheating on a man. But they can't be strong enough to refuse and fight temptation 😒.
Typical bad attitude how someone saying calm down is a trigger .. he’s saying calm down for a reason u acting crazy and disrespectful
And he loved it, which is why they got together and had 3 sons.
What ever lack of communication ,is the problem .talk and talk and then talk .they both on b.s.
She remind me of Remy ma
Agreed
First couple 15:33 they were so cute making the same face lol
Why does Karamo always seem to side with the women...or is it me just me? He paints women as victims and men as the bad guys. Have observed this on so many programs.
14:35 Angel and Ollie's Unlock the Phone results
You take your vows seriously but then you choose to cheat.....😳😳😳
Going back to someone time and time again you will never ever trust them. Trust me I know all to well about this. There no going back. You will always distrust him or her because of it.
11:47 I remember when I used to tell my boyfriend don’t be looking at them big booty girls and he’d say “don’t nobody want me” as if to say if that’s the only reason he wasn’t looking
What man wants to be around a bulldog 24/7?
I don't think she's a bull dog. She's juat very direct, and she's a product of her environment, Brooklyn. Which he says attracted him to her at first. He knew what he was getting into and made 3 kids with her.
Marcus is whack. He still wants to be with her and is ultimately being passive aggressive because of it. He needs to grow up.
That laid back is like 😴, she needs feedback.
Jerry springdr
Jerry springer
2nd couple- This was NOT the ideal "Opposites attract"... Whoa, chile!
She is SKRRROOONNGG with her approach. You can tell. She's a lot. She definitely needs to mature.
I’m not tryna hear none a that shawty is in fact aggressive and masculine and want people to accept it that’s out he betta get them boys away before they get to acting like she
I'mma cheat if you cheat. That's not a real woman boo. IJS
Second case sis you don't own him and she is too much
Today on "The Most Senseless Talk Show"
I genuinely cannot understand people who equal honesty with righteousness.. just because you’re honest about being a shitty person, doesn’t make you a good person.
Is that Remy ma ? 😅😅😅😅
Who really wanna sign up for marriage. Them days is over.
That’s he’s a good man he’s a good man clearly he’s not
I hate seeing woman go through this go through this love and value yourself a good man wOnt have you looking crazy ❤
Damn Karamo is no relationship expert. He ALWAYS favors one side.
Which side is that 🤔
If there is a black man in the relationship, he will favour him almost 100% of the time... Or at least make excuses for him.
Fine and sexy don’t fit in the same sentence when it comes to him. I’m sorry😂
I saw a picture of another female on my man's Facebook story but I decided to stay with him because he didn't talk to her if he would have had a conversation with her then it would have been over and we've been together for almost 2 years and I'm not going to leave him because of a picture how stupid would that be?
So you’re not curious at all why he had another woman on his story? You sound desperate and delulu
I sure wished my x husband would of confessed to me about his infidelity then so many people already knowing except me.....i think that hurt me the most and finding out how I did on my job and breaking down crying at work and people thinking someone had passed away... My heart crumbled in pieces that day 😢 it's been twenty years ago and I'm crying right now because it still hurts so much..
My phone call was about the affair and she was also pregnant.... We already had two small children together and were married for six years at the time..
Tell the rest of it. Did you stay or not. Please stop crying over this. It's been twenty years. Trust me he's not crying over it.
He confessed out of guilt he didn’t say anything for two months 🤔🤔in hoping she wasn’t doing the same…
She was a model *oh sure* and he wants acknowledgment for his truth telling and lying..... They're both full of themselves.
First case she doesn't own him and what she going to do fight every females
Ew, this man is so self-righteous. The nerve of him, asking for her phone. I've noticed Karamo seems to give black men a special pass (in fairness this behaviour was particularly evident on one show where a young man was running about fathering many children outside marriage - "trauma" my butt). The show should have been about, you did THIS to her, and it is up to YOU to make amends. Notice that Karamo never got a straight answer from the fellow as to whether he would do whatever it took to rebuild trust. "I been doing that!" is not a sufficient answer. I'd have a plan outlined for the fellow to follow for the rest of his life and shut down any discussion of looking at her phone. How dare he. What a narcissist.
She could have declined. She knew why she was coming to the show.
@@keylacmckemp1309 she should have declined the entire relationship with this man-child as well...
I'm in shock. he says something like "as black men, as we are, as who and what we are, already in danger in this country". I just don't know what to say. Of course we know the stories about police violence and violence in deprived neighborhoods, especially against people of African-American descent. But I find it really terrible that this is experienced so intensely that it is considered a kind of general norm! I come from the Netherlands, where we are proud of the integration of all different cultures together, and "back home with us" things also often don't go as they should, with ethnic profiling, discrimination based on skin color or name, (that there are certain names, for example in a tax return or an application letter, filtered out due to (presumed) background. But as intense as this is said here...again, really, I am in shock..I hadn't fully grasped the gravity of the black lives matter grouping. It was quickly turned it into "all lives matters", because that's how it feels to us. it's not in the color, every life is equally valuable. but I believe that the inequality in the USA is even worse. I just can't believe what he said!😢😢
Stop treating each other like kids to begin with.
Comments saying how Karamo ALWAYS favors the men and then others saying he ALWAYS favors the men. You really can't please all of the people all of the time. If you think he is biased move on.
Labels identify content😂😂😂
How you gonna hate labels then say in the same sentence yes black women are ALL that in the label used to describe you😂😂😂😂
Where is my passport 😂😂😂😂😂
That’s Remy Ma sister 😂
I was looking for this comment 😂
Second woman needs counseling
Should I understand that it's okay for us as black women to speak to our spouses with a high pitch voice but they can't intern do the same to us. Is the man allowed to use the same tone?
💯💯💯💯💯
I totally agree with the lady: It's completely unfair for an aggressive, angry, belligerent, and stubborn black woman to be labeled as aggressive, angry, belligerent, and stubborn. We should learn to keep giving them a pass and be kinder and gentler about those that have attitude issues because doing so always leads to them finally changing for the better right...
Right 🤡
Also love how the host totally realized the only reason she called into the show was hoping he could psycho-hustle her husband into finally accepting her behavior because she's getting tired of him being a man of station and integrity when not giving in to her preference, being who he is, and approaching the situation in a much kinder and considerate manner then the rest of the planet that wouldn't put up with it. Good job also not telling her to grow up and accept her request is childishly illogical and selfish with the domineering drip plugged into her arm, this totally closed out in the green😉👌
That whole segment was completely unreal.
Oh please stop. Black women act no different than white women and other races of women. You just called a black woman's behavior out and focus on it. White women can be mean and aggressive and I know cause i've dealt with them. Asian women can be hostile and hispanic women. Just stop with the generalization
No excuse for a woman to cheat, they get stuck with the baby and everything, dumb move n their part
She sounds like Shirley Ceasar
All this preaching
He takes his vows seriously, but he cheated. Huh...
This sucks. They are a cute couple, but they shouldn’t be together