I feel a bit sorry for those types of people. Oftentimes, it’s not entirely their fault that they’re like that. Obviously, that doesn’t excuse it at all, but still.
It shouldn't have mattered who Anatasia was. Pouring wine on someone's dress and kicking them out of a party, harassing them is grounds for termination.
Stuff would fall apart without the Administrative Staff. You can call yourself CEO and act like a big shot all you want but without a lot of someones doing the Admin ya screwed! 😄
I worked for various state agencies for 22+ years and there's one indisputable fact that I have learned: clerical staff, from Admin Assistant down to clerk, has power. You always want to stay on their good side
One of the most important persons to be nice to is the receptionist. This person is usually the first contact point and knows more about how nice or unwelcome people are. If your not nice to them, shows what kind of person you are. From the mail clerk to the president of the company., the receptionist may know all!
The Admin to a CEO has more clout than senior executives. I worked for a Fortune 500 company in the U.S Everyone knew her name and she has seen CEOs come and go. Her position was critical in the smooth transition from CEO to CEO.
I know. I had to decorate every 3 weeks for orientation I had to file or alphabetized all the students class enrollment forms 2 sheets per student so they can scan into computer. I had to help various departments. Making copies, laminating and cutting paperwork. Cleaning break room, doing inventory and placing items in storage. I even had to assemble equipment and furniture and help set up a salon and classroom. Then worked in the student job center and look up on computer jobs and make copies of jobs for them.
Yeah, when Julia quipped how easy the job is, I thought: "OK, then you do it!" She'd be surrounded by all this work, & requests from her bosses, & having to clue how to do any of it!
Whenever they say "Now that i know you're ______ i wouldn't have done the thing" or "Well, knowing you're relationship with _____ I'd never have done this" it's proof they aren't sorry and not the kind of person to change their ways. If the person wasn't wealthy or powerful, they'd never have any remorse for it and would keep happily abusing their victims. Once they say that, there is absolutely no reason to accept their apology.
@@jaclynsanture6643 That’s also true. I’ve learned to forgive, and also walk away. There’s a breed of person out there who doesn’t appreciate forgiveness. Julia strikes me as the type.
@@CarmenFlores-id8dh Forgiveness is for the forgiver's benefit, not the forgiven's. Forgiveness is the forgiver releasing all negative holds that the forgiven put on them with their actions, the forgiven doesn't ever need to know you forgave them in the first place.
Julia sounds like a girl who was never told no or told off for her bad actions. She also sounds like someone who peeked in high school and still thinks she's the head cheerleader or something. It's always great to see someone like her get knocked down on their butt because when it happens it usually is a very hard knock lol.
yes she does i had this problem with this girl in high school, she and i were on the squad but she thought she was better then any of the girl which i was also one of them, her mom told her that
If you ever want to get a great laugh just attend a high school reunion. I went to 3 of mine but not the last one cause I moved and could not attend. But when I went to my first one some of the cheerleaders became chunky or fat. One guy came out of the closet that dated women before. Some moved away and became successful and some died due to illness. Some of them even apologized for how they acted and learned that how you treat people comes back to bite you. I did Facebook and met several alumni that some were popular and now they have kids and the kids are not some even have disabilities and they would complain how they changed their perspectives and treat people differently than before
Julia was a mean girl who never grew up. Most of her actions were that of a child, really throwing juice on a person to ruin their dress just because they are seen as beneath them is really childish.
Aw, I wished Julia would have had to pay for the dress and that the reader would have been able to say how much. That would have made this story so much better.
I don't get why someone thinks it's a good idea to bully their coworkers right in front of their boss. HR nightmare even if that wasn't their superior.
Julia is making a huge mistake. Never mistreat the admin employees. Without doing a single thing wrong, they can make the other employees' lives hell. However, if they're your friend, they can be of immeasurable help. I should know - I worked admin for years, and I found it very hard to do more than the absolute minimum for people who treated me like dirt.
That's why I made sure the AAs liked me when I was a lowly mailroom clerk decades ago. I did all kinds of things that were outside my official duties just to be helpful. I'm just a defacto Supervisor currently with admittedly very little official power. But after almost 10 years on the job, I've got a lot of clout that has the same effect when I decide to wield it to help or harm a co-worker. I've gotten people fired and hired on my recommendation. It's just self-destructively dumb and short-sighted to deliberately piss off someone with more seniority. Honestly, it's dumb to do it to anyone as you never know whose ear they might have.
If being so damn pushy and demanding is Julia's way of being friendly, then I'd hate to see what else she's capable of doing to those who she deems her enemies.
Holy shit, how do you not know you're going to an engagement party and then insult the fiancee in front of everyone? When the CEO is in attendance? While being a bad employee who's already in danger of being fired? Also, "I've always been friendly to you until now?" Goddamn, with 'friends' like that... How does she treat her enemies?
Julia: "but I've always been friendly to you until now" Me: "name me five instances since you've been here where you've actually been friendly to me then we'll talk"
They're used as buzzwords, however they're Generational denoters used to simplify for age groups when doing surveys, polls, History checks, background checks, etc. They have legitimate uses so they're still going to come up when not buzzwords.
I wish thise running the channel didn't have a need to continue with the divide of people based on things like when they grew/grow up. I'm a boomer. I've run into people like Julia all my life-and they're from all eras I've ever met. People my great-grandmother's age (born in 1884), my grandmother and grandfather (1915/1916) my mother's age (1940) my age (1958) my kids (1981/1985) and older cousins of my granddaughter (she's 9). [Man, am I feeling old!] The personality type doesn't start or stop simply because the times have changed. I did love the names of the three characters. Simply beautiful! Too bad her name was all Julia seemed to have going for her.
"I'll be a manager and you'll always be a paper pusher..." Wait...but don't MANAGERS push MORE paper? Like coachings, write-ups, training, team meeting notes, etc?
I always find it funny when the older generation says the new one is lazy.... because the this is a constant thing that happens with every generation. The truth is there are lazy ones in every generation and plenty of hard workers as well.
Actually, I'm a little more sadistic than Anastasia. I would've convinced Tim NOT to fire her, and would use every chance I got to remind her that she got to keep her job BECAUSE OF ME. Yeah...I'm that kind of bitch...
Anastasia: does nothing to stop bulling and abuse at her workplace, invites her bully to her engagement party, LEAVES HER OWN engagement party after her bully told her to do so, preferring to set her fiance anxious instead of just solving the problem with her bully at the spot... Well. She is a very strange woman and i hope that she will fix her mindset before having kids.
I actually doubt she invited anyone to the party herself. The invite was probably generic from the boss to the entire company. But I agree with the rest of what you said. I also agree that the chat logs should've been sent to HR all along.
Her "apologies" are so awful. EACH TIME she apologizes, the predicates it upon the fact that she didn't know that Anastasia was engaged to the CEO. She doesn't say, "I shouldn't have done that," or "It was wrong to do that," or "Nobody deserves that," or anything like that. It was always, "I wouldn't have done it, if I knew you had some POWER." Which means she learned nothing, and will continue to act the exact same way in the future, to other people she regards as powerless and below her. I love the part where she says, "You have to tell him I didn't mean anything I said!" Except, she DID mean everything she said, at the time that she said it. Regret doesn't change that.
Usually when someone brags that everyone is jealous of them, it's just an excuse for why people see them as toxic and their behavior usually justifies why they are seen as toxic.
I am a retired Administrative Assistant. I would love to see Julia do half the things that I did. I once had to list all the things I did in the office, as I was going on vacation. I was tired after I wrote it all out. My co-workers were the best and always treated me with respect and kindness.
I wasn't an admin. Asst. But my boss treated me like her personal assistant. when I was going to be retire I wrote out a list of my duties daily, weekly and monthly and gave the 3 single spaced pages to the girl, A fairly recent college graduate, who was going to replace me. She took one look at it, told the manager she couldn't do all of that, and requested and got a transfer to another office. The manager had to start doing her own monthly reports and supply orders, And when I left the rest of my duties were divided among 3 or 4 other people.
@@alexroot130 They mean Gen Z. Some folks have started calling them Zoomers because they think they are the new version of the Baby Boomers (specifically accusing them of being entitled). I honestly don't like calling them that because it feels like the same kind of senseless bullying we got from Boomers and Gen X and I don't want to be the kind of adult that puts younger gens down for shallow reasons that aren't even accurate when you look deeper.
Crazier than that. Millennial started turning 40 2 years ago. I'll be 40 this year and I am a millennial. I wish people would stop thinking millennials are kids. You're literally talking about our children when you say millennials. Lol
Clueless. What makes her think she should be forgiven? That’s young people nowadays. I get to do what I want and you have to deal with it and forgive me. Ummm…..hell no!!!
Honestly the bigger problem is people lumping "forgiveness" and "allowance" together, you can forgive someone without allowing them to continue their actions. You can forgive a murderer their murder and still recognize that they can't be allowed to roam free.
@@Heartrose7 yes. But she wanted her forgiveness and her help. Speak to your fiancé. Fix this. She made her bed and she got to lay in it. How you treat others comes back to you ten-fold.
Yup. I had one young pup or young adult want to joke around saying she wanted to NECK ME, as was described to me is where they hit you on the back of the neck then run away like nothing happened. I then told her I want to give her THE KISS OF THE DRAGON. OR KISS. SHE AT FIRST WAS LIKE YEAH . I AND ANOTHER COWORKER TOLD HER SHE WOULD NOT WANT ONE. HEEE HEE. I DONT PLAY. KISS OF DRAGON IS PLACING AN ACCUPUNCTURE NEEDLE TO THE BACK OF THE NECK.
@@Nancy-uc2tu To be clear I agree she needs to be punished, she can't be allowed to continue her actions freely. My annoyance is with none of these characters ever understanding the difference between forgiveness and allowance, as a result these OP characters are going forward in life with baggage they don't need and forgiveness would allow them to be free of. Forgive even your worse enemy, but never allow their actions to go unpunished.
One thing you should never say to someone is; “If I knew who you were, I wouldn’t have treated you that way”! How about you treat everyone with dignity and respect!
“If I had known this before, I never would’ve done what I did in the first place!” Like that makes it any better? I would’ve said “Well, have a good night. I hope your days of being a high school bully was worth it since you never grew out of that immature faze of yours”
I don't get how she doesn't realize that harassment, assault and property destruction are not how you act as an adult? I mean seriously, this is the entitlement that children are being raised with by having parent that never said no and made others give in to their crap all their lives.
I’m suing this channel for the headaches they give me. Listening to the antagonists acting and sounding so arrogant and smug makes me roll my eyes. And I’ve rolled them so many times that my head actually hurts. EXCEPT A LAWSUIT IN THE MAIL THIS WEEKEND 😂
I'm nothing like Julia Williams. I go to work a bit early, then my regular time to help get things in order and rarely ever call in sick. Julia gives hard working people a bad name. Know what I mean
Uh, no. Her behavior 10000% justified, and flat out required, firing her (since the fact that she was willing to harass and then eventually assault a coworker means that she is causing a hostile and unsafe working environment). Her also being responsible for paying for the damages she caused is a separate matter altogether. If your coworker set fire to your car, for instance, they would be fired *and* be required to pay you for the damage they caused.
Why doesn't anyone tell these entitled brats that it doesn't matter if the person you harass is the CEO's fiancee or the contracted cleaning staff, if your mindset is that you are high enough in the pecking order to be deliberately rude or hurtful on a regular basis, you don't deserve forgiveness just because you blubber "Sooorrrry!" It doesn't matter that you didn't know their actual position. Habitual bullies don't deserve forgiveness just because consequences of their actions prove inconvenient.
"Really, Julia? You REALLY never want to have an in-person, face-to-face one-on-one meeting with the boss EVER AGAIN? Well, good to know. I'll make a note of that." "What?! I didn't say that. I just said that you were old and worthless!" "Right, and I'm also the one who has COMPLETE CONTROL over the boss's schedule. You DID know that, right? Didn't he make a point of telling everyone who joined here that ALL MEETING REQUESTS for him must go through ME? He did say that. Maybe you weren't listening? Too busy chatting and being 'friendly' to actually pay attention and learn the work?" "What? NO! You HAVE to let me meet with him, whenever I ask for it. I am important, and you are not!" "Sure, sure. You keep telling yourself that, while you're waiting. Forever." "Ooooooh! Just you wait! I'm going tell the big boss ALL about THIS! You're going to be FIRED for stopping me from meeting with him!" Two minutes later... "I can't believe he demoted me for barging into his office without an appointment, and complaining about his administrative assistant not scheduling a meeting for me!" "Hehehehe." "But, WHY?" "He told me when I started - I am the gatekeeper for him, and I choose what gets his time and attention. He is very busy, and can't be bothered with unimportant things, after all. I've been filtering everything that went into his office for years, now. He trusts me, implicitly, and is grateful for my work of filtering out the sound and fury, signifying nothing." "But, I'm IMPORTANT!" "Everyone's important. However, some people have more leverage than you do. Leverage is the foundation of administrative work, don't you know. We don't just answer calls and file things. We solve the problems and put out the fires and get the stuff DONE. We delegate and arrange and pass down the orders, and make sure that communication goes through, when it matters, and don't let the Boys Who Cry Wolf get in the way. That's the job. Oh, and answering phones and filing, but honestly, those two tasks are SO low on the totem pole. You'd be surprised, if you had actually gone to school to get your certification to be a secretary, like I did. Yep, that was an eye-opener, for sure. Anyway, I have a full inbox, now, so shoo. I have work to do, and can't sit here gabbing with you all day. Don't YOU have work to do?" "I'll email him! Or text him!" "It all gets filtered through me. Contact about something that ACTUALLY MATTERS, and I'll send it right through. But your silly power trips will NOT. Goodbye, now." "You can't DO THAT!" I never actually HAD that conversation, but my boss made it clear, early on, that I absolutely COULD have that conversation. Filtering out the noise was one of the biggest parts of my job for him. Dang, I miss working for him. He was a fantastic boss, and I LOVED my job. Then, he retired, the company was taken over, and I was hit by a truck and became disabled. Fustercluck. Still, I have a wonderful decade of memories.
Sometimes “I’m sorry” just won’t cut it. And what makes Julia think Admin Assistants are unskilled workers? Sometimes offices can’t efficiently function without them!
Wow..... I'm a marketing assistant, I handle all of the marketing paperwork. Without us, they don't know all the data, price, where the products are and the after sales procedures. When we get sick the marketing will message us all day panic because their clients asked for updates 🤣🤣
Ugh, blaming a generation millennial vs. Boomer vs. Gen x vs. Zoomers. Its bull sh*t to pull that label card. There are crappy people in all generations.
It really doesn't matter who she poured the wine on guest or guest of honour she deserves everything she gets and no she wasn't naive she meant everything that she did
All jobs are important; each employee plays a role that if they weren't there, except in the case of overstaffing, may lead to voids in the organisational structure.
Okay i have a few questions here. First, Why don't they never know about the Relation Statusses of their Bosses when they are working Years together ? People talk to eachother even if it's a big Company so she could have known that the Boss has a Girlfriend and count 2 and 2 together that it could be some Woman from Work. Then, why is everyone Recycling Storys i heard the exact Story Yesterday the differences were Names, no ruined Dress, it was a Family Barbecue Party with imployees invited and a Beer has been poured over the Fiancee. And why does everyone thinks that a little " Sorry " does it ? The Damage was already done so it serves her right. How does everyone knows exactly what happend after the Story and after cutting all ties with them ? 😅
This is office bullying and should be reported to the idiots boss, her boss and HR. No one likes these types people in the office, they are just tolerated.Great story.
None of these stories ever make clear that the actions of the bad guys are not acceptable regarding anyone of any social standing, they all hinge on not messing with the boss.
Anastacia is such an introvert that her engagement was not made aware to others in the workplace? Her fiancé is intending to permit her to maintain her administrative position? Wouldn't the presence of the CEO's wife in the office make for those working with her to feel intimidated by her marital role to their employer? As much as Anastacia enjoys her position which gives her satisfaction and her life meaning, she is over-qualified.
Julia’s struck in the mindset of “if I apologize, everything will be okay” that most of us outgrow at, like, 10.
if you give me half i'll be your best friend...lol
I feel a bit sorry for those types of people. Oftentimes, it’s not entirely their fault that they’re like that. Obviously, that doesn’t excuse it at all, but still.
It shouldn't have mattered who Anatasia was. Pouring wine on someone's dress and kicking them out of a party, harassing them is grounds for termination.
Yes it is
Clearly Julia doesn’t know what an administrative assistant is.
no she doesn't, the airhead
Nope. The Admin is the pulse of an organization.
Julia doesn’t know anything about the real world
Stuff would fall apart without the Administrative Staff. You can call yourself CEO and act like a big shot all you want but without a lot of someones doing the Admin ya screwed! 😄
Clearly
Don't you love how even AFTER she's fired, she STILL thinks she's incredibly vital to the company? :p
I worked for various state agencies for 22+ years and there's one indisputable fact that I have learned: clerical staff, from Admin Assistant down to clerk, has power. You always want to stay on their good side
Definitely. Don't screw with people who control your paperwork.
One of the most important persons to be nice to is the receptionist. This person is usually the first contact point and knows more about how nice or unwelcome people are. If your not nice to them, shows what kind of person you are. From the mail clerk to the president of the company., the receptionist may know all!
When I was in the military you never messed with the people who did your pay, your mail, or your food. Everyone else was fair game.
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Right! 🤣
The Admin to a CEO has more clout than senior executives. I worked for a Fortune 500 company in the U.S Everyone knew her name and she has seen CEOs come and go. Her position was critical in the smooth transition from CEO to CEO.
As a retired secretary/administrative assistant, I would love to see Julia do the work a secretary/administrative assistant does.
Amen to that
I know. I had to decorate every 3 weeks for orientation I had to file or alphabetized all the students class enrollment forms 2 sheets per student so they can scan into computer. I had to help various departments. Making copies, laminating and cutting paperwork. Cleaning break room, doing inventory and placing items in storage. I even had to assemble equipment and furniture and help set up a salon and classroom. Then worked in the student job center and look up on computer jobs and make copies of jobs for them.
Celtic lady that would require her to have a brain and know how to use it
Yeah, when Julia quipped how easy the job is, I thought: "OK, then you do it!" She'd be surrounded by all this work, & requests from her bosses, & having to clue how to do any of it!
My wife was an office administrator to a real estate company. She did everything except sell the houses.
I love when they think apologizing will make everything okay
alot of times it doesn't
If saying Sorry was enough there wouldn't be need for Jailhouses now would there? 😏😉
Totally clueless
Anastasia in 5 minutes of the story, could have ask Julia in a meeting with HR and a Manager to spell out what is acceptable and what is not.
Whenever they say "Now that i know you're ______ i wouldn't have done the thing" or "Well, knowing you're relationship with _____ I'd never have done this" it's proof they aren't sorry and not the kind of person to change their ways. If the person wasn't wealthy or powerful, they'd never have any remorse for it and would keep happily abusing their victims. Once they say that, there is absolutely no reason to accept their apology.
They’re never sorry for what they did, just that they got caught.
A bully with no repent nor remorse deserves no forgiveness! Seriously!
you can forgive them but you can't forget it
@@jaclynsanture6643 That’s also true. I’ve learned to forgive, and also walk away. There’s a breed of person out there who doesn’t appreciate forgiveness. Julia strikes me as the type.
@@CarmenFlores-id8dh Forgiveness is for the forgiver's benefit, not the forgiven's. Forgiveness is the forgiver releasing all negative holds that the forgiven put on them with their actions, the forgiven doesn't ever need to know you forgave them in the first place.
@@Heartrose7 I fully agree. That’s why I walk away.
Julia sounds like a girl who was never told no or told off for her bad actions. She also sounds like someone who peeked in high school and still thinks she's the head cheerleader or something. It's always great to see someone like her get knocked down on their butt because when it happens it usually is a very hard knock lol.
yes she does i had this problem with this girl in high school, she and i were on the squad but she thought she was better then any of the girl which i was also one of them, her mom told her that
If you ever want to get a great laugh just attend a high school reunion. I went to 3 of mine but not the last one cause I moved and could not attend. But when I went to my first one some of the cheerleaders became chunky or fat. One guy came out of the closet that dated women before. Some moved away and became successful and some died due to illness. Some of them even apologized for how they acted and learned that how you treat people comes back to bite you. I did Facebook and met several alumni that some were popular and now they have kids and the kids are not some even have disabilities and they would complain how they changed their perspectives and treat people differently than before
Well, it's as the say, "the bigger it is, the harder it falls" and the big falls are often the best.
Julia was a mean girl who never grew up. Most of her actions were that of a child, really throwing juice on a person to ruin their dress just because they are seen as beneath them is really childish.
I just ignore people like that lol not even worth my time
Aw, I wished Julia would have had to pay for the dress and that the reader would have been able to say how much. That would have made this story so much better.
Evidently she doesn’t realize that the admin’s run the office, and the office don’t run without strong leadership and work of admins.
this is what happens when you act like a jerk towards people regardless of position
I don't get why people didn't bother to check and see if their boss is marrying someone despite their position.
I don't get why an adult would it's ok to pour wine on anyone no matter who they were
No common sense anymore
I don't get why someone thinks it's a good idea to bully their coworkers right in front of their boss. HR nightmare even if that wasn't their superior.
Julia is making a huge mistake. Never mistreat the admin employees. Without doing a single thing wrong, they can make the other employees' lives hell. However, if they're your friend, they can be of immeasurable help. I should know - I worked admin for years, and I found it very hard to do more than the absolute minimum for people who treated me like dirt.
That's why I made sure the AAs liked me when I was a lowly mailroom clerk decades ago. I did all kinds of things that were outside my official duties just to be helpful. I'm just a defacto Supervisor currently with admittedly very little official power. But after almost 10 years on the job, I've got a lot of clout that has the same effect when I decide to wield it to help or harm a co-worker. I've gotten people fired and hired on my recommendation. It's just self-destructively dumb and short-sighted to deliberately piss off someone with more seniority. Honestly, it's dumb to do it to anyone as you never know whose ear they might have.
If being so damn pushy and demanding is Julia's way of being friendly, then I'd hate to see what else she's capable of doing to those who she deems her enemies.
I love how karma strikes entitled people
so do i
Holy shit, how do you not know you're going to an engagement party and then insult the fiancee in front of everyone? When the CEO is in attendance? While being a bad employee who's already in danger of being fired?
Also, "I've always been friendly to you until now?" Goddamn, with 'friends' like that... How does she treat her enemies?
Julia: "but I've always been friendly to you until now"
Me: "name me five instances since you've been here where you've actually been friendly to me then we'll talk"
julia isn’t a millenial. she’s a gen z
but the fiancé is probably a millennial.
can we stop using this as a buzz word? i’m 35, i’m a millennial.
I'm going to be 40 this year and I'm a millennial. I am so sick of hearing that term used for young people. Millennials are adults.
Why not just stop using all those silly terms and just get on with our own lives?
They're used as buzzwords, however they're Generational denoters used to simplify for age groups when doing surveys, polls, History checks, background checks, etc. They have legitimate uses so they're still going to come up when not buzzwords.
@@nzsooz3884 right! Just treat people just for who they are, not what you think they are. Be kind and you'll have a better life.
@@Heartrose7 no they don't have legitimate uses lol not hard to say 1900s and not boomers
I wish thise running the channel didn't have a need to continue with the divide of people based on things like when they grew/grow up. I'm a boomer. I've run into people like Julia all my life-and they're from all eras I've ever met. People my great-grandmother's age (born in 1884), my grandmother and grandfather (1915/1916) my mother's age (1940) my age (1958) my kids (1981/1985) and older cousins of my granddaughter (she's 9).
[Man, am I feeling old!]
The personality type doesn't start or stop simply because the times have changed.
I did love the names of the three characters. Simply beautiful! Too bad her name was all Julia seemed to have going for her.
Don't blame this on "millennials", some people are just shallow bullies
As an old woman I have found there are idiots in every and all age groups.
It's crazy to me the people think millennials are young. Millennials are in our 30s and '40s. I'll be 40 this year and I am a millennial
@@BluDonHamp Right! Boomers really need to remember the youngest of us are in their mid-thirties.
@@BluDonHamp Right? I’m gonna be 35 this year. Not super excited for it 😬
@@CatLadyElegy I've reached the point I prefer celebrating other people's birthdays lol
"I'll be a manager and you'll always be a paper pusher..."
Wait...but don't MANAGERS push MORE paper? Like coachings, write-ups, training, team meeting notes, etc?
Not unless she's got a wee toady to do that for her queen bee syndrome
A manager like Julia would make her assistant write all those up for her. Or at least a secretary.
They push entirely too much paper and interact with far too many people. It is a kind of work that's hard to do well. Me, I'd rather nerd up.
first and i dont think i have ever seen someone so clueless. Like Julia is more clueless than someone who is oblivious to people's feelings
Reality is weird
She’s delusional for sure
TIMOTHY IS A WONDERFUL PARTNER FOR ANASTASIA +
IF/WHEN THEY HAVE A CHILD/CHILDREN IT SOUNDS LIKE HE
WOULD MAKE A WONDERFUL DAD.
I always find it funny when the older generation says the new one is lazy.... because the this is a constant thing that happens with every generation. The truth is there are lazy ones in every generation and plenty of hard workers as well.
Moral of the story - when someone digs their own pit and they hit water, let that individual keep digging.
Actually, I'm a little more sadistic than Anastasia.
I would've convinced Tim NOT to fire her, and would use every chance I got to remind her that she got to keep her job BECAUSE OF ME.
Yeah...I'm that kind of bitch...
And the awaited promotion should have become a demotion.
Kill her with kindness lol
Oooooh I like the way you think. I guess I'm your kind of bitch. 😁
She'd be the one being your bitch.
Julia: "you can't just sit back and let me get fired"
Me: "yes yes I can an I'll have a bag of popcorn as I do it"
And the front row seat 😹
Anastasia: does nothing to stop bulling and abuse at her workplace, invites her bully to her engagement party, LEAVES HER OWN engagement party after her bully told her to do so, preferring to set her fiance anxious instead of just solving the problem with her bully at the spot... Well. She is a very strange woman and i hope that she will fix her mindset before having kids.
I never understood why bullies aren't reported to HR. The chat logs are proof.
I actually doubt she invited anyone to the party herself. The invite was probably generic from the boss to the entire company. But I agree with the rest of what you said. I also agree that the chat logs should've been sent to HR all along.
I have heard this story before but this version is so much better. 👍🏻👍🏻
Her "apologies" are so awful. EACH TIME she apologizes, the predicates it upon the fact that she didn't know that Anastasia was engaged to the CEO. She doesn't say, "I shouldn't have done that," or "It was wrong to do that," or "Nobody deserves that," or anything like that. It was always, "I wouldn't have done it, if I knew you had some POWER." Which means she learned nothing, and will continue to act the exact same way in the future, to other people she regards as powerless and below her.
I love the part where she says, "You have to tell him I didn't mean anything I said!" Except, she DID mean everything she said, at the time that she said it. Regret doesn't change that.
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From Louisiana 🐊
Evening Bridget hope you had a lovely day enjoy the rest of your evening xx Pam
Usually when someone brags that everyone is jealous of them, it's just an excuse for why people see them as toxic and their behavior usually justifies why they are seen as toxic.
"Now that I know who your fiancé is I truly feel sorry." Meaning otherwise she wouldn't care.
I am a retired Administrative Assistant. I would love to see Julia do half the things that I did. I once had to list all the things I did in the office, as I was going on vacation. I was tired after I wrote it all out. My co-workers were the best and always treated me with respect and kindness.
I wasn't an admin. Asst. But my boss treated me like her personal assistant. when I was going to be retire I wrote out a list of my duties daily, weekly and monthly and gave the 3 single spaced pages to the girl, A fairly recent college graduate, who was going to replace me. She took one look at it, told the manager she couldn't do all of that, and requested and got a transfer to another office.
The manager had to start doing her own monthly reports and supply orders,
And when I left the rest of my duties were divided among 3 or 4 other people.
Good evening from Ontario! Stay warm!
Good evening from Edinburgh Scotland have a great weekend xx Pam
Early morning for me here in the US. Michigan
Millennials don't claim her.
This is Zoomer behavior.
This is asshole behavior, which crosses all generations.
This is idiot behavior. Every generation has idiots.
Zoomer???
Shallow bullies are not delegated to one age group.
@@alexroot130 They mean Gen Z. Some folks have started calling them Zoomers because they think they are the new version of the Baby Boomers (specifically accusing them of being entitled). I honestly don't like calling them that because it feels like the same kind of senseless bullying we got from Boomers and Gen X and I don't want to be the kind of adult that puts younger gens down for shallow reasons that aren't even accurate when you look deeper.
“Kicking and screaming” toddlers do that with a temper tantrum. Not grown adults. Smh.
One small nitpick at 14:51 OP says "you Millenials." But, Millenials are in their late 20s or 30s. That would mean that Julia is clearly Gen Z.
Crazier than that. Millennial started turning 40 2 years ago. I'll be 40 this year and I am a millennial. I wish people would stop thinking millennials are kids. You're literally talking about our children when you say millennials. Lol
Clueless. What makes her think she should be forgiven? That’s young people nowadays. I get to do what I want and you have to deal with it and forgive me. Ummm…..hell no!!!
Honestly the bigger problem is people lumping "forgiveness" and "allowance" together, you can forgive someone without allowing them to continue their actions. You can forgive a murderer their murder and still recognize that they can't be allowed to roam free.
@@Heartrose7 yes. But she wanted her forgiveness and her help. Speak to your fiancé. Fix this. She made her bed and she got to lay in it. How you treat others comes back to you ten-fold.
Yup. I had one young pup or young adult want to joke around saying she wanted to NECK ME, as was described to me is where they hit you on the back of the neck then run away like nothing happened. I then told her I want to give her THE KISS OF THE DRAGON. OR KISS. SHE AT FIRST WAS LIKE YEAH . I AND ANOTHER COWORKER TOLD HER SHE WOULD NOT WANT ONE. HEEE HEE. I DONT PLAY. KISS OF DRAGON IS PLACING AN ACCUPUNCTURE NEEDLE TO THE BACK OF THE NECK.
@@annkupke4263 lol
@@Nancy-uc2tu To be clear I agree she needs to be punished, she can't be allowed to continue her actions freely. My annoyance is with none of these characters ever understanding the difference between forgiveness and allowance, as a result these OP characters are going forward in life with baggage they don't need and forgiveness would allow them to be free of. Forgive even your worse enemy, but never allow their actions to go unpunished.
Julia needs a Mommy to clean up after her, and to smack her behind when she disrespects a co worker.
Forget the freakin' story. I want to know about that video! All of that food looks DELICIOUS and I want to know WHERE I CAN GET IT.
Thank you for making me hungry. LOL The food looks so good. By the way the story was really enjoyable.
Are there really people like Julia out there?
Yes
yes there are sadly
Sadly quadruple so.
Definitely yes. I worked with two women like this - not the wine throwing, but the rest of it.
Good evening everyone hope you all had a lovely day xx Pam in Edinburgh Scotland
Love how these people can dish it and not take the karma
I just love these bog standard "karma bites" stories.
In good company's you stay in you lanes and help the company grow and get rewarded, because some one other then you started the company before you
One thing you should never say to someone is; “If I knew who you were, I wouldn’t have treated you that way”! How about you treat everyone with dignity and respect!
“If I had known this before, I never would’ve done what I did in the first place!”
Like that makes it any better? I would’ve said “Well, have a good night. I hope your days of being a high school bully was worth it since you never grew out of that immature faze of yours”
I don't get how she doesn't realize that harassment, assault and property destruction are not how you act as an adult? I mean seriously, this is the entitlement that children are being raised with by having parent that never said no and made others give in to their crap all their lives.
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I’m suing this channel for the headaches they give me. Listening to the antagonists acting and sounding so arrogant and smug makes me roll my eyes. And I’ve rolled them so many times that my head actually hurts. EXCEPT A LAWSUIT IN THE MAIL THIS WEEKEND 😂
"I have no need to keep up any sort of appearance for the sake of others."
Cue 🎤drop!
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“You millennials” so Julia is in her 30’s/forties?
Actually Julia just sounds like she has a warped sense of reality and almost like she came out of high school the way she talks /sounds super young 😅
LOL, the background at 15:16 Nothing on that grill is cooking and the charcoal isn't even lit.
All the food in the video. Waaaaaaaaaaaa
Open mouth get fired! Done and done! Lol ppl need to think before they act.
You know what they say Julia will reap what she sows
My name is Anastasia and my skin crawled from head to toes as soon as Julia said it 😭
I'm nothing like Julia Williams. I go to work a bit early, then my regular time to help get things in order and rarely ever call in sick. Julia gives hard working people a bad name. Know what I mean
Braggart.
Good evening everyone from Alabama
Good evening Linda hope you had a good day xx Pam
Sweet Home Alabama.
Maybe her motivation to come to work is her pay check and not to have fun?
Is anyone else getting super hungry looking at the background??
Ok the background was giving really interesting meal ideas for me tonight… lol, but then the people just didn’t stop eating. Like holycow
Words are wind. An apology is meaningless.
I just love the fact that the lady demanded the money from Julia, but to make sure she couldn't, got he fired.
Rich people are sadistic axxholes.
Uh, no. Her behavior 10000% justified, and flat out required, firing her (since the fact that she was willing to harass and then eventually assault a coworker means that she is causing a hostile and unsafe working environment). Her also being responsible for paying for the damages she caused is a separate matter altogether.
If your coworker set fire to your car, for instance, they would be fired *and* be required to pay you for the damage they caused.
As a millennial, I’m offended. Julia sounds more like a gen Z or younger
I get it! This must be here on AirTexts 'cause the antagonist, Julia, is an airhead, is that it? LOL
Clearly, Julia hasn't really moved on from high school. That's s bit sad.
Administrative assistants where I work make about $1,000 more per month than newer employees. They make about $57,000/year.
Why doesn't anyone tell these entitled brats that it doesn't matter if the person you harass is the CEO's fiancee or the contracted cleaning staff, if your mindset is that you are high enough in the pecking order to be deliberately rude or hurtful on a regular basis, you don't deserve forgiveness just because you blubber "Sooorrrry!" It doesn't matter that you didn't know their actual position. Habitual bullies don't deserve forgiveness just because consequences of their actions prove inconvenient.
Let's not insult or blame a generation. Every generation has horrible people like this unfortunately.
"Really, Julia? You REALLY never want to have an in-person, face-to-face one-on-one meeting with the boss EVER AGAIN? Well, good to know. I'll make a note of that."
"What?! I didn't say that. I just said that you were old and worthless!"
"Right, and I'm also the one who has COMPLETE CONTROL over the boss's schedule. You DID know that, right? Didn't he make a point of telling everyone who joined here that ALL MEETING REQUESTS for him must go through ME? He did say that. Maybe you weren't listening? Too busy chatting and being 'friendly' to actually pay attention and learn the work?"
"What? NO! You HAVE to let me meet with him, whenever I ask for it. I am important, and you are not!"
"Sure, sure. You keep telling yourself that, while you're waiting. Forever."
"Ooooooh! Just you wait! I'm going tell the big boss ALL about THIS! You're going to be FIRED for stopping me from meeting with him!"
Two minutes later...
"I can't believe he demoted me for barging into his office without an appointment, and complaining about his administrative assistant not scheduling a meeting for me!"
"Hehehehe."
"But, WHY?"
"He told me when I started - I am the gatekeeper for him, and I choose what gets his time and attention. He is very busy, and can't be bothered with unimportant things, after all. I've been filtering everything that went into his office for years, now. He trusts me, implicitly, and is grateful for my work of filtering out the sound and fury, signifying nothing."
"But, I'm IMPORTANT!"
"Everyone's important. However, some people have more leverage than you do. Leverage is the foundation of administrative work, don't you know. We don't just answer calls and file things. We solve the problems and put out the fires and get the stuff DONE. We delegate and arrange and pass down the orders, and make sure that communication goes through, when it matters, and don't let the Boys Who Cry Wolf get in the way. That's the job. Oh, and answering phones and filing, but honestly, those two tasks are SO low on the totem pole. You'd be surprised, if you had actually gone to school to get your certification to be a secretary, like I did. Yep, that was an eye-opener, for sure. Anyway, I have a full inbox, now, so shoo. I have work to do, and can't sit here gabbing with you all day. Don't YOU have work to do?"
"I'll email him! Or text him!"
"It all gets filtered through me. Contact about something that ACTUALLY MATTERS, and I'll send it right through. But your silly power trips will NOT. Goodbye, now."
"You can't DO THAT!"
I never actually HAD that conversation, but my boss made it clear, early on, that I absolutely COULD have that conversation. Filtering out the noise was one of the biggest parts of my job for him.
Dang, I miss working for him. He was a fantastic boss, and I LOVED my job. Then, he retired, the company was taken over, and I was hit by a truck and became disabled. Fustercluck. Still, I have a wonderful decade of memories.
Be careful of mice employees, they could be your boss's girlfriend, daughter sister niece etc!!!!! Be nice to everyone you work with you never know!
It is better to be kind to any co-worker, even if they don’t turn out to be connected to anyone in the company.
My ex told me about a quiet, mousy data entry clerk who built a database that basically saved the hospital's accounting deparment.
Nice
Sometimes “I’m sorry” just won’t cut it. And what makes Julia think Admin Assistants are unskilled workers? Sometimes offices can’t efficiently function without them!
Props to the Wayans lad reprising his White Chicks voice to play Julia 🤣
Wow..... I'm a marketing assistant, I handle all of the marketing paperwork. Without us, they don't know all the data, price, where the products are and the after sales procedures.
When we get sick the marketing will message us all day panic because their clients asked for updates 🤣🤣
Ugh, blaming a generation millennial vs. Boomer vs. Gen x vs. Zoomers. Its bull sh*t to pull that label card. There are crappy people in all generations.
Karma.....1 MILLION........Julia......0.....and she lost her job to top it all off! LMAO
It really doesn't matter who she poured the wine on guest or guest of honour she deserves everything she gets and no she wasn't naive she meant everything that she did
Oh, you wanna ask me to clean up your desk? I'll clean it OUT.
Admin assistants are very important!
All jobs are important; each employee plays a role that if they weren't there, except in the case of overstaffing, may lead to voids in the organisational structure.
Okay i have a few questions here.
First, Why don't they never know about the Relation Statusses of their Bosses when they are working Years together ? People talk to eachother even if it's a big Company so she could have known that the Boss has a Girlfriend and count 2 and 2 together that it could be some Woman from Work.
Then, why is everyone Recycling Storys i heard the exact Story Yesterday the differences were Names, no ruined Dress, it was a Family Barbecue Party with imployees invited and a Beer has been poured over the Fiancee.
And why does everyone thinks that a little " Sorry " does it ? The Damage was already done so it serves her right.
How does everyone knows exactly what happend after the Story and after cutting all ties with them ? 😅
Can you guys please please please come up with better scenarios other than "pouring drinks on someone"? This thing is getting played out.
Julia climbed to the top of the stupid tree, fell, and hit every branch on the way down.
This is office bullying and should be reported to the idiots boss, her boss and HR. No one likes these types people in the office, they are just tolerated.Great story.
None of these stories ever make clear that the actions of the bad guys are not acceptable regarding anyone of any social standing, they all hinge on not messing with the boss.
You want me to organize your desk? Ooops. I cleared your desk, into the trash, nice and neat. Good luck!
Delusional...
nice imitation of a Harlequin Romance and about as real
Anastacia is such an introvert that her engagement was not made aware to others in the workplace? Her fiancé is intending to permit her to maintain her administrative position? Wouldn't the presence of the CEO's wife in the office make for those working with her to feel intimidated by her marital role to their employer? As much as Anastacia enjoys her position which gives her satisfaction and her life meaning, she is over-qualified.
Hope everyone has a great weekend 😀
the twit knew exactly what said and she did mean it. apologies are empty lies to get out of trouble
So, were they able to get the stain out of the dress?