No cap if you talk like you're a finished work you need a psychiatrist cuz you tripping balls, there's always something to improve on yourself, ALWAYS.
I think she has slapped a couple people with full force in the past but who knows I could be wrong that's just the kind of person she reminds me of that I've seen in my own life
I don’t understand why “some” women find having an attitude as something to be proud of. That’s childish behavior you should’ve grown out of. YOU’RE AN ADULT NOW.
Which is correct because most women aim to date/marry the top10% of men. And these top 10% don't intend to settle because 90% of women are throwing themselves at them. That's the reality especially when "some" women say "all men cheat" when in reality it's the top 10% that exercise options because they can. "THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU'RE AT THE TOP" Objective reality doesn't care about anyone's feelings.
@@Ultimascale4 the top 10% of men make $150k annually, that’s not that hard to find and as someone who lives in a large city, I find that most women don’t throw themselves at the IT directors of the world making 150k. Typically women start throwing themselves at the men in the 1% realm and THAT is the realm I believe she’s most interested in. She’s likely most interested in a high profile 1 percent-er
A (female)friend of mine once said: "appearance brings people together, character keeps people together" (or something like that, idk, my english sucks)
So true. My husband and I were both fit, young and hot when we met... 15 years later, we're less fit, more wrinkly and not as hot. 😂 But that isn't what a marriage is based on. We have 3 children and a different life than we once did. If your relationship is built solely on external, superficial things, it's not going to last.
She's exactly the type of girl that you would take on a date and have to sit there and listen to them talk about themselves and other things they find interesting because fundamentally they are too narcissistic to care about what interests you or what you desire in life. They talk AT you not WITH you.
She hasn't "officially" been in a relationship. Let's not pretend she's isn't the one turning down and ghosting dudes to find the next best thing. Often times people who wonder why they're single for so long are the ones sabotaging themselves
Not just that but she keeps saying I’m single but most likely she is messing around with multiple guys playing the line, “I’m not ready I have no time to be in a relationship, I’m an independent woman” then complaint about “being single” lol
Exactly my friend is so preety and she literally have so many options but she always complains why she is single… I’m like sis you’re ignoring them that’s whyyyy
My dad told me once as a teenager, "If you see an attractive woman and she is still single, there is a reason why." Didn't understand at the time but he was right. RIP Dad, I miss you.
Bitches nowadays say they're "single" while they got FWBs and hookups. This shit is never serious. They just haven't found the right sucker yet to "settle" with.
The very ones they disqualified are the very ones that were ideal for their lives. Then when they get older and alone and see someone they rejected living a great life with someone else then it hits them how foolish their choice was in the past. It’s gonna be a funny sight to see 🍿🍿🍿
It's better to be single knowing what you want than just dating any person for the sake of not being single. Maybe she has the wrong expectations? Maybe she needs to relax and just date casually? I seriously don't get people who think being single is a tragedy. It's nice to wake up knowing that someone is not cheating on you or using you. I think she is one of those women who only care about having kids.
I am an average looking woman and get more male interest than she seems to. Your personality has a lot to do with how attractive men find you. I have a pretty calm, approachable, fun loving personality which makes up for not standing out in a crowd. That girl has all the red flags for psycho and there ain't a single man attracted to that.
I think the look standard is the big problem. I bet at one point there was a guy that would have treated her like a queen completely loyal and go to any length for her....But he probably got friend zoned. I mean I can understand some physical attraction is a given but....Looks fade. If you build your relationship off pretty much just looks well...
No offence, but the more average and unassuming you are, the more likely guys are to approach you, because you don't seem to be that difficult of a target. Rejection is tough, so I think men try to go for girls they have more of a chance with. I'm sorry if it sounds condescending, it's not my intention and I'm not some rare beauty either, it's just what I've noticed. I think if you were a 10 with the same personality, men would approach you less and you'd get more attention from the creepy guys.
Yeah, attractive people are intimidating sometimes. I think its better to be slightly above average, cause you'll be more approachable. That's honestly great.
She fits perfectly in the “internet people” category the ones that are only in this world for other people to share their content quoting “this is so me 💁🏻♀️”
Yes she got prideful childish annoying attitude and so simply no man cares about her, when they dont care about her looks, if she got so annoying personality where she always belive she is right in everything and so I now belive she will be single rest of her life, that is great for society, so her annoying behaviour is not enforced forward, that stupid simps in first point long ago made so.
I ask a guy why no one wants to date me once, he said u don't put off the energy that your looking for a boyfriend. That hit me hard and made perfect sense. I got a boyfriend shortly after because I change how I approached men and how I allowed them to approach me.
This is exactly what I told my female friend when she asked me for advice. It takes a lot of courage to ask out a woman, and it makes it so much easier to approach a woman that looks agreeable and approachable. Body language, posture, wording, attitude. These are the things men look at before approaching a woman. A woman could look killer but if she is a negative nancy who slouches and complains all the time, a guy will get an idea that she is not looking for a partner regardless if that's the situation or not.
Hi. Can I ask how you were previously? I'm looking to reverse everything you did and make myself even more repulsive to people seeking relationships. Not that it's a lot of work.
@@thunderouswanderer7753 The secret is "Always be the hunted, never be the hunter". If no one is seeking to capture, tag and keep you - then you gotta look inside and change. You fat? Gotta lose weight. You whine too much? Learn to be grateful. You too quiet? Learn to speak up. The phrase "It's who I am" is a crutch for those who don't want to change to what they want to be. Nothing wrong with being comfortable with who you are, but now you gotta find someone else who is. People don't ask for much really - Be nice, Be loving and Be Genuine.
As a girl, I’ve learned 80% of the time your personality means more than your looks. And you may think well that’s obvious but with social media these days it’s easy for girls to think “well if I look like this and have a nice butt and boobs it will be easy”. For any girls struggling with dating reading this. As long as you take care of yourself and have a good personality and a good heart, you’ll find the one. Don’t trip like this girl. Just do you, youre beautiful ❤️
There are a lot of physically attractive women out there that can't seem to understand that their beauty doesn't make up for their bad personality and, frankly, lack of anything to offer beyond their appearance. This class of person believes that their appearance gives them a license to be a bad person, and that they do not need to bring anything else to the table. Like, there's that classic clip of the, honestly, average looking woman saying, "I _am_ the table."
facts.. physical attraction matters, especially at first, but if the personality isn't there, or if two people don't vibe, even.. that physical attraction actually deteriorates. these days if I see someone hot, but get to know them and they got a shitty personality, they become instantly ugly. the opposite is also true though: where you might meet an average girl, but if she's awesome and you vibe with her, she might start to look more attractive as time passes.
Attractive people are overrated period; it's a running theory in my head that people only want the pretty ones for their looks, not their personality, if they have one. It's nature evening the odds by giving people with okay looks better personalities
It’s not about the looks or anything material 😭 is about your heart, the way you carry yourself and most importantly how you care for others!! The world needs caring kind hearted and emotionally intelligent men and women. let’s be it!
It’s not the high standards for the men that are her problem. It’s the low standard on her side of the relationship that’s the problem. She doesn’t know the counterpart to the men’s high standards.
I recently met this girl who was decently pretty, like a 6,7 without makeup and a 9 with it on, but soon after talking i noticed she had 0 personality, 0 hobbies, and she was crazy af. She was super sweet but totally wants a dude to act like their married for years when they just met her.
@@camillap10101 it actually is that deep. Feminine woman don't constantly say bro or act like her. She's bought the feminism lie, she makes her own money own place and has male traits aggressive, unagreeable etc. Which men don't find attractive. Men don't care about how much money a woman makes. It's not that she can't find a man, I'll bet anything she gets hit on everywhere she goes. Basic rule of thumb for women attractive like this is satanic 666. 6 ft tall, 6 figures a year and 6 inch flesh rocket
She never "officially" had a boyfriend for 4 years. The key word "officially" meaning it's not on record. She got that person she calls when she needs that action. I'm sure she has no problem fulfilling those's late night appointments. The problem is, those d-appointments are not fulfilling cause you don't get to share your innermost feelings after. Once it's over, it's over cut and dry.
Lol, exactly. I'd rather be with a woman who has had a few long term, monogamous relationships in that time span, rather than a woman who was "single" that whole time. Single and celibate?? No way that's the case.
Or... She kept finding guys & they never stuck around. Doesnt have to mean she slept around ( not denying she could) but just no guy wanted to stick around once they got to know her
@@oz_jones this a reality for most men who weren't attractive in high school. It's clear as day if you're your types type. It was for me and for my friends at least.
I can imagine a stoner like thinking real hard for an hour and then go: "woaaah, dude, bro, bruh, you know what? I just think I'm not my type's type bro."
goddamn "you're not your type's type" is a hella efficient way to put it. I spent half an hour trying to explain this to someone once and all i needed was 5 words.
"Sometimes I critically hit my boyfriends for like 95% of their health bar and send them to the infirmary, but like I don't do it that often bro I swear". - This girl 2021
Its women mirroring their desires on men. A man having his own place and a job is something women look for in a man as one of many desirable traits. Neither of those two options is something men factor in when looking to be in a relationship - the adult woman could be unemployed and living with her parents and not working and men will find her desirable if she has feminine traits they find attractive
I put the fertility app I use into HIS PHONE, that way he has full control of knowing which days of the month that I can become pregnant. Fertility cycles change from woman to woman....now that what makes me unique and attractive.
@@MrsNicolas Sounds like you both have a good relationship. 👍Good to know you're not weaponizing that against him. The worst case scenario is that the woman somehow "baby traps" their man. It's extremely important to be open about menstrual cycles and pregnancy chances so you don't have a child unless you're ABSOLUTELY sure.
There's two reasons an attractive woman is moaning she's single. 1. She's an absolute nightmare to the point her being hot means it still isn't worth it. 2. She has such ridiculous standards like being 6ft 3 plus, earning this much and so on that the minuscule amount of guys who tick those boxes aren't interested.
She doesn't seem like someone who is a good companion, or is willing to change herself to please someone else. Most people will say you should never change yourself to please others, but if you're never willing to accommodate someone in your life, taketime to learn their interests, or do small things just to make them happy, the good looks won't keep someone committed to you.
@@cthulhusmom I don't think it's that she has to change to please someone else. That reason wouldn't equate to lasting change. She needs to change for something more powerful than just acquiring an intimate relationship; then the change will be solidified and in turn, attract a lasting relationship with the man she's looking for because he sees that the character she portrays accurately represents who she truly is when no one is watching (usually observable through visible habits).
I haven’t made a whole minute into the video yet. I paused because of “bro”. Poured a fresh cup of coffee, came back and started wheezing at Aba’s poses with her “bro” dub. Literal Preach old uncle wheezing LMAO Okay, carry on
There are many factors that determine weather or not you are single. Physical attractiveness (more important for women BUT there is more), skills/wealth/independence/status/strength (more important for men BUT there is more), personality, values (good ones), intelligence, confidence, social skills, humility, and finally not having unrealistic standards for your partner are the main ones I can think of. If you don't have the right amount of these things to please most people then that is why you have problems.
These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women for a while now. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind or just curious, this could be worth a read: 1. Long (fake) nails 2. Fake hair (~long and/or bright colored) 3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup) 4. Provocative clothing 5. Big earrings 6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content; thirst trap antics, etc.) 7. Questionable.. questions (e.g. "Babe, would you date me if I were a worm", "babe do you think I'm pretty"..) 8. Tattoos/body mods/piercings (especially in weird places) 9. Most/all of her friends are male. 10. Promiscuous or Using se>< as a proxy for feeling loved and adored (this can be especially true for people who struggle with attachment issues/daddy issues) 11. S.I.G.N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Never being wrong) 12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism (follows beauty standards, fashion trends, body ideals, bad friends or other trends without questioning or reflecting on their reason[s] for doing so) [often correlates with No. 2, 3 & 4] 13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e.g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches", claim to have "very high standards" or are "high maintenance" ) [often correlates with No. 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5] 14. Materialistic [often correlates with No. 12 & 13] 15. Their actions don't follow their words (cognitive dissonance) 16. No sense of boundaries 17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels. 18. Clingy, jealous or possessive (e.g. not being allowed to have any female friends) 19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things--it seems some people think toxicity makes relationships more 'fun or exciting' (or even straight up admit they enjoy toxicity in relationships) 20. Habit of lying (shouldn't be ignored [along with No. 7, 14 & 16] as it could escalate over time [often correlates with No. 10, 11, 13 & 15. Possibly with No. 6] ) 21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice (possibly due to trauma or abuse at a young age [Reference: Dr. Drew Pinsky - Loveline] ) 22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'---"Some women absolutely do this. In fact, some believe that men should be able to read their minds and then use the fact that men can't read their minds as an excuse to accuse the men of not loving them enough. Not very many women do this, however. If you are in a relationship with a woman who does this, and you don't like it, break it off. Be sure, however, that you are not contributing to her bad behavior by attempting to anticipate her needs and doing things for her to prove your love. In other words, don't attempt to appear as if you can read her mind." - Alison Bennett (Quora; Do women expect men to be mind-readers?) *Their mentality of dependence and expectations is so high they use emotions to smoke screen this shameful behaviour. [Shouldn't be ignored. Could correlate with No. 19] 23. Sh*t Tests---"used to determine your frame. Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.” (shouldn't be ignored; usually continues indefinitely, may escalate over time [Often correlates with No. 11, 16 & 19. Possibly with No. 7 & 17] ) 24. Ultimatums (could correlate with No. 13, 16 & 18) 25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer (Strongly correlates with No. 16, possibly with No. 11 & 18 [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] ) 26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure(s). (Often correlates with No. 4, 6, 8, 10, 16, 19, 20 [compulsive or pathological lying] & 21) 27. They're often passive aggressive (Could correlate with No. 22. Possibly with No. 7, 11, 19 & 25) CONTINUATION BELOW (32 comments down)
Notice how she didn't say "I haven't had sex in 4 years". It's "I haven't had a boyfriend in 4 years". Chad is still smashing, he just isn't committing.
When I was in Okinawa, I knew this dude who sold trinket stuff like jerseys and blankets and stuff Marines would buy to send back home as souvenirs. I saw him one time and I’m like, “Yo, what up, homie.” And he says, “no no no, no homie.” And I’m like, “sure we are, man, we homies, ain’t we?” And he was like, “no no, I no homie.” Then he explains, “you cannot say homie to okinawa people, it is very rude.” And I’m like, “…ok… why is it rude?” He says, “in okinawa language, homie is bad word.” I’m like, “oh shit, for real? What’s it mean?” He looks around and then leans in close and says, “Pussy!”
@@dunzhen Welp. Maybe the Japanese should recognize their own slaughtering of Filipinos, chinese, Koreans and others before talkin bout what a small group of boots did.🤷🏽♂️
2:50 to that I have to say, after 2 years of intense working of myself (of course it was many years, but at one point i focused on this issue specifically), i became my types type. I am sure everyone can. Self-awareness and not beeing too afraid of the work it takes to do it. It took a long time to even be ready to start changing.
Right immediately î was like something is off that people are not self-aware enough to notice other people noticing it's an energy breaux lol. What Erykah Badu said "when they see you comin n**gas take off runnin" bout releasing the baggage + the anger of the past to be open.
I find her entertaining honestly, but she is obviously just looking for a good-looking atm machine boyfriend, just like all women who make these types of videos...
Makes me appreciate my relationship even more. My boyfriend isn’t perfect but he is respectful to me, supportive, my best friend and I am attracted to him. I couldn’t ask for better.
"My boyfriend isn't perfect but..." No human being on earth is perfect, don't use this kind of language as an "introductory" sentence! But I'm glad you are both happy with each other.
Beauty fades as we age. Some are very lucky enough to keep that beauty and still look youthful, if they really take care of themselves. Yes, beauty is not enough to stick around for, and it's not everything.
@@oz_jones That's not a 9 my guy, that's a 7, an 8 at best. . . If you think that's a 9 go to a beach or go to the coastlines. 9s and 10s trying to get the rich dudes are always there.
We all know that if this was a dude, twitter and tiktok would've immediately gone viral with threads and responses about how "this is an incel/entitled male/e. rogers" comparisons, before veering off into threads about male toxicity and women sharing stories. But when it's a woman......."ehhhh she's just joking and venting", "I feel you girl lmaooo". I wish I could go back to when I was ignorant of this ish. Sigh.
Why you think I'm still a virgin? I'd rather follow the words of St. Paul and spend my life in serene contemplation, pleasing Jah, than follow my dick and wind up miserable, trying to please an insatiable, perpetually dissatisfied woman.
Simple: Smart men rent pretty but buy reliable If pretty is all you're producing for a relationship, it's a pretty weak sales pitch for long term investors. Especially when you're difficult to work with.
Absolutely what makes us stay in a relationship isn't sex and beauty nonono give us a hug when were stressed , sad . Having good times together and we mary in 1years or two
My guess is that her standards are high and the guys who meet them don't fw her like that. Make note that she said she hasn't had a BOYFRIEND in 4 years, not that she hasn't HOOKED UP with anyone in 4 years.
People aren't entitled to a partner. This is such incel attitude, thinking you are owed a significant other. On the other hand, people actually ARE entitled not to be interested in you.
I find people like this even worse than Incels. Incels are often not very attractive physically and have rough childhoods, then they fall into a trap of self pity and apathy. Women like this are voluntarily pricing themselves out the dating market their shitty choice in partners and not having any self awareness. They have endless options but self sabotage. Someone like her can never be taught the lessons she will need for proper introspection, she has to learn the hard way.
@@hatchibyebye She is EXACTLY the type of woman who disparages men. She may not have done it in this video, but since she clearly doesn't think SHE is the reason she is single, it is highly likely that she blames men and holds contempt towards them.
A wise man once said, “if you really believe there is a perfect woman out there, what makes you think she’d be interested in you?” I think this an important call to self reflection that applies to both genders. To find a good spouse, first you have to become a good spouse.
@SpacePurpBarney oh please most man think they are worth it cause they DO NICE THINGS FOR GIRLS... Like is it really nice if you do things mainly to get a date out of her or to get laid? Like all you gotta do is look at Instagram or Twitter to see comments full of dudes just sucking a womans ass... And they say most of us don't eat ass 😂 Do woman have to go through reflection as well of course but if you out here looking at pages full of comments from thirsty sad ass men it gets harder to do. Either they sad nice guys or insulting edgelords.
Imagine this, that woman in that exact body started the camera in a setting position and said "Man, I just don't know why I'm single. I'm trying real hard, I know how to cook and clean and all the things they say are desirable in a woman and yet im still setting here in my apartment single, it hurts bro" in a calm collected manner. Suitors lining up around the block. Nobody wants to be yelled at.
she doesnt want the guy who is already interested in her, she wants the guy who isnt and then have them change their mind and want to make her their girlfriend
Being in a relationship doesn't make you happy, what makes you happy is your state of mind. I've lost my father at the age of 12, had a divorce, lost many pets (one of them died in front of me), and lost countless of friends and dates over the years. I am seriously at the point I don't care anymore.
❤I'm so sorry. ...praying Nam Myoho Renge Kyo...I hope you can find the right person and fulfill your dreams. Dating is even harder now with social media and texting. The older generation had it so much easier. As young people we have to figure out the solution to this issue.
Ladies, who aspire to be married, read the definition of “insufferable” and do exactly the opposite of this definition. Universally, your odds increase as well as your quality of life.
@@Ollie-qz5qv men know what they want, so it's be wise to listen to what they have to say about what they want and don't want. Don't adapt? Then don't complain if you struggle getting a guy 🤷🏼♂️
@@siriuslestrange4475 thats where Latinas live. Anywhere else i feel like they arent Latina/Latino, they are called where they are from. Ie: Mexican, Colombian, Dominican etc… Ive always felt that word was offensive imo
I love the way the positive attributes she listed for herself were "I'm attractive, have my own place, my own money, I cook and clean" like nothing about your character? Your personality?
I hate that so many people think of settling down as a negative thing to do as if you just accept anyone no matter if y’all are compatible or not. You do that just to not be alone. And you must just accept any life even if it’s not anything you want and/or deserve. When you settle with someone it means you love, care about, like, and want to be with this person that wants a similar future as you and agrees on how to get there plus y’all have similar values and y’all are compatible emotionally, physically, and mentally.
@@gregkareem9824 *Literally then they contradict themselves later being like I want a man* Not really a contradiction. They want a certain type of man but that man doesn't want them because they have options.
many adults still live at thein parents and don't do thoses things. It's pretty common not to leave your parent's house as long as you're not married in many cultures
You can't complain about being single if you're rejecting 99% of men who approach you. I get depressed sometimes too that I don't have anybody, but then I remind myself that I have "high "standards". The world is what it is, either accept what's on offer or accept being alone.
Yha girls don't know that like they said there are more girls then guys and when you realize every little bit of guy is taking she's done unless the world come to terms about letting 3 person in the marriage group.
"Why am I single?" Your aura and vibes scream high maintenance with a dash of ghetto and a side serving of drama and crazy. Which leads into thoughts of horrible divorce, drama over money, if kids are involved one sided parenting, arguments over her needs above others and the list could go on and on. If your asking this type of question, its time to look inward at the problems. Because the issues outside pale in comparison to the issues inside.
THANK YOU. This comment summarised exactly what I feel about her. In all that time she has focused on making videos and was fixated on being single, she could have found a hobby or activity to improve herself.
I actually kind of liked it the ghetto side it's good to be around somebody with some flavor and energy...the baby thing a little too much at least she got her own and worked for it not to bad for a ghetto talking person
"Is it that hard to find a good genuine person?" nope. Its not really that hard. They just normally get ignored cause they don't look attractive enough.
She basically said, “I take care of the basics of my life (work, cook, clean, etc.)” like that’s something special. Being not-a-slob isn’t something to be proud of. That’s basic adulthood.
Yes!!! Being responsible is seen as unique skill for some reason. It sadly says alot about society nowadays. I cleaned my entire apartment (minus roommates rooms) yesterday in under 30mins (minus dishes that was another 20 mins). It's not hard and doesn't take long if you do it regularly, did it watching the big bang theory. 2 birds one half hour
You are so wrong. So many women are incapable of basic things, and many men want women who can. You might find that not enough. I might not care either but its actually relevant. Yea standards are pretty low nowdays
Do not assume if a woman is physically attractive and single it is only because of her personality or high standard. Maybe due to the situation. For example, I’ve been studying and working in 5 different countries in the past 10 years. For someone who’s constantly moving around, it is difficult to establish a long-term stable relationship.
Well I mean in this case it's pretty obvious it has to do with her personality. She's acting entitled to the fact that she somehow deserves a boyfriend without doing any self reflection on why she's single. She obviously wants a boyfriend but she wonders why she doesn't have one yet when she can't see the fact that she is a massive egotistical red flag. Apparently in her eyes because she's attractive men should crawl all up her alleyway and she should be the center of attention.
You look very young. Also your pfp signals to me "modern American woman" which is not positive. I would say you are objectively attractive so the number of people interested in pursuing you is probably fairly high but most don't approach you because you are attractive. Also dating while moving frequently or semi frequently would make it harder as you say. Your point Is correct however that is the outlier/minority of women and aba and preach mostly speak in general.
@@LynetteTheMadScientist yes, I prioritize my career goals more than other aspects of my life at this moment, I sometimes had doubts because it is certainly not easy to be single and alone in a foreign country. But now I’ve had a very very nice boyfriend, after being single for almost 3 years 😂and I founded my own company this year doing what makes me happy. So… i guess sometimes it all worths it, just keep doing the right things and waiting for the right moment.
I cant believe she was able to make that vídeo, show her bumbum, probably watch it and think “yes that is a great way to present myself and get a bf” and she didnt cringe one little bit ? My face burned of embarasssment just from watching it 😳😳😳😳😳 She needs a friend to talk to her
When you have no self esteem that's what you do. Offer yourself to lots of men sexually. They have imprinted on her and she has taken on their traits. She can no longer pair bond and is for the streets. Women like this are cum rags. Notice she didn't say I havnt had sex in 4 years. She said she hasn't been in a relationship. She's still charming all the alphas cobras. They spit at her and leave
Bruh I'm 22 years old, still a virgin, and never been in a relationship. You won't see me getting on social media complaining about why I'm single. Modern women these days are bugging out, acting immature like a child.
Exactly! The way people automatically think coming on the internet and airing their problems is automatically a good thing. I keep saying to everyone please get the heck of the internet.🤦🏽♀️
Yeah it’s better to be an individual than to run with the herd. When it comes to stuff like that it’s like a zoo, your not supposed to jump in you watch from afar.
It’s honestly amazing how narcissistic women have become to not realize most of them are must flat out miserable people who offer nothing once their looks fade. People tolerate it to sleep with them but once that is gone who would want to interact with people who act liken this? It’s like voluntarily taking care of a bratty, incredibly antagonistic, child who can take half youe shit
"Why are beautiful women single?" likely because as good looking as they are on the outside they have some really ugly shit on the inside and most people don't want to put up with there shitty personalities, negative behavior or the fact they are super shallow, so they just dumped all their energy into there looks rather then focusing on being kind and being able to hold up a conversation by learning about other things then beauty tutorials ... just a thought.
Also because beauty is widespread, common and temporary so it’s not an asset like it use to be in a highly advanced world where people have access to so much, maybe 50 years ago when everybody lived in remote towns with limited transportation/communication options and you could be the only person with good genetics within a five mile radius 😏
Blame Instagram, Facebook, Tik Tok, and Onlyfans. Because that is what these ladies' job is. And they expect a man to value their looks ONLY. Who wanna be with a dimwitted bimbo? A 60+ year old, divorced douchebag. That's who. And even then, them men know what's going on & change these women like they do their underwear. On the daily.
@@Dynasty19 man 40% of women in the USA are now OBESE. Not overweight, I'm talking medically OBESE. that's almost HALF of all potential ladies out there. There days being thin/slender is almost an instant "hot" rating
Teamwork isn't only just a skill for the workplace. If anyone's in a relationship, they know very well that cooperating and working as a team is critical to make a team work. If someone wants to be the strong and independent one, guess what? It comes at the cost of teamwork.
This is BIG FACTS. I've been in a 7 year relationship since I was 19, teamwork and communication is KEY. Most dudes will tell you, you have to be alpha and lead and blah blah, do I believe there are duties you have to fulfill as a man? Sure but none of this I'm gonna treat you like crap to look alpha BS. Some women may also feel that they have duties similar to the man given the state of society as it is today and that's cool too. But if you want to be in a committed relationship with someone you have to be willing to co-operate and sometimes compromise. It's a lot of work but if you stick at it, you'll both have a great experience and it'll become easier.
I love when girls are like I got my own place, I make my own money. Like congrats! That's called being an adult. Like it has anything to do with what a man wants out of a women. LMFAO!
Yeah those things only matter if the woman is willing to share those resources. Men are just expected to have and share those things, but God forbid asking a woman to do the same when the roles are reversed lol Gender equality for thee but not for me 🙄
Its her free loader entitlement mentality thats why she state that she got a car a job and her own place because deep inside she just wanna stay home and do nothing
@@twinqt578 I believe the "And" comes in play when you are asking yourself why you're still single. She is asking that question and her saying 'officially' is destroying her own self worth. If you are used by men and after it you are looking for a man, chances are that a big percent will not take her as their wife, simmilar to how I would not be with a man with a high body count. It means he doesn't love himself, he wants to impress others and is mostly just going through life to have as much "experience" he can get, but isn't mentally stable. It just screams red flags to me. I don't want to marry nor date someone like that.
@@nisaac1216 honestly, it's really not different in my opinion. Men who are more sexual like that do not really work on themselves, the only thing they are looking for is the appareance and are more exposed to sexual diseases and desires, which results in them loosing their value as well. I personally do not want a man who lost his value and with loosing his value, he is loosing his soul. I do not want a father of my children teaching them that those things are okay, nor for our little girls and boys to grow up in an environment that makes them think men are more valuable because of their body count and women are not. Both are morally wrong and should be treated as such.
@@twinqt578 Yes, I saw what you did, BRO 😂 for me personally, it matters for both men and women. It's just because a lot of people go through a lot of things when they do line up the bodies. They become more open for other things, they still do get diseases, they get mentally damaged (cause it is damaging for a lot of people to just sleep around and not get that connection they desperately need) or they get damaged from their partners and the toxic behaviours which start to build up eventually etc. I just do not want someone like that. A man that's been around is not the man for me nor does he fit the family life I wish to have.
@@twinqt578 I mean, it all depends on a person and what you are willing to deal with. I don't think I can teach my kids on what things not to do if I have done them myself. It seems hypocritical, you know? Some would say that you get a better idea or an understanding of how people deal with certain things and what they can do to your body so you can better explain to your children on what not to do(example: drugs), but you don't really need to be an expert in them to know that they do you harm. I look at the body count the same way. I don't need to sleep with a lot of people to know that it isn't helpful and is in fact harmful to your body and soul, so it is a big turn off for me. Everyone is different though, but I do not accept that men can sleep with however many women they want and not be considered in a bad way.
Imagine a “GROWN WOMAN” putting on a dress just for a video, trying to convince herself she’s not the issue🤣 she’s not egotistical, she’s a D1 narcissist.
Bad English language skills. Sounds like this person never used a dictionary, too many curse words instead of real words. Sounds uneducated. Being pretty wearing nice clothes doesn’t mean you’re smart. Too much focus on the materialistic. “ Sometimes I have an attitude”, that’s part of the problem. Ghetto.
“I’m not my types type” is the most profound statement I’ve heard regarding these relationship woes. It needs to be on billboards around the world to wake people up.
As a half Puerto Rican and half African, I come from a family that has attitude at the right time and place and get smacked when not to, definitely not putting up with that attitude
Yeah, she is either not her type’s type, looking for the “1%”, or it’s the personality issue. Cause if she has the looks, has her life together, cooks, cleans, then it gotta be the personality.
@@HotShot-qy1gx you are right and I am with you there. And people like different things but I can tell you as a straight woman I am not attracted to a feminine man and that doesn’t show in the way he looks, it shows in the way he talks and carries himself. She is beautiful and has a great body and I would guess her attitude and her masculine aura is what keeps the guys away.
I think her overall energy comes off a little bit aggressive. So my guess is that is something that majority of people will not vibe with. The second she came out I instantly disliked her, so yeah her energy is not good! If she wants a boyfriend she has to find someone matching that aggro energy first which isn't that hard, but those dudes are usually fuckboi losers/wannabe gangsters so...
I've never understood the need to be with someone. Being social? Totally get that, but the need to be in a relationship is lost on me. Most people don't realise that if you concentrate on yourself, get out there, enjoy life and be a genuinely kind person, you're bound to meet someone. However most are operating on such a vapid level that they don't realise they're the ones putting out a "stay away" vibe. I say this as someone who is extremely introverted, shy, socially awkward and can't flirt or banter for shit, and I was able to meet someone I'm extremely happy with and I wasn't "looking". I was quite happy with where I was, but I guess when you're energy is good, you attract good people. I dunno, I also talk a lot of shit sometimes too :)
Lovely true message. I'd add: Be the kind of person you want to be with, and the opportunity to be with that person will arise. If you are an honest, virtuous, responsible person, those kinds of people will come to you. And one of those people may be the one for you---a relationship will naturally happen. It takes patience; things happen in their own time.
"I am not my type's type". I really felt that. I attract the polar opposite of myself, which I don't like. I wished I could meet someone who shares the values and vision that I have. But that is not what I attract. I don't give these men my time neither so it is no a: picking wrong partner scenario. I just keep getting approached by wrong people.
Why do ladies keep saying “I make my own money, I have a car and a place!”….yes you’re a functioning adult…like everyone else.
lol reminds me on Kevin samuels when he told a girl that who thought she was hot shit cuz she has a job and place
💯
😅
isn't that funny.
it's like me saying.
I do my own shopping, do my own laundry and cooking.
Yes !!
Not knowing why you're single, is why you're single.
Girls be like: I'm single because I want to be 🤨😂💀💯 cap
Facts “I’m too pretty to be single” tells me all I need to know 🤡
No cap if you talk like you're a finished work you need a psychiatrist cuz you tripping balls, there's always something to improve on yourself, ALWAYS.
omg facts!
Dont worry..we're just "intimidated" by them 🙄
"Maybe I'm not my type's type."
That is some sage-like advice.
True but it feels like common sense
Not really most people just don’t hear it or believe it until they go through it.
definitely on that Sage level. Its a simple concept, but its super-easy to overlook.
I learned this when I was younger. Might be better to try to explore and like the type of people that like you.
@@fightingblindly Big Facts
"sometimes I get a little physical, but I'm not abusive." That had me rolling so hard. she claims to have self-awareness,
I think she has slapped a couple people with full force in the past but who knows I could be wrong that's just the kind of person she reminds me of that I've seen in my own life
I don’t understand why “some” women find having an attitude as something to be proud of. That’s childish behavior you should’ve grown out of. YOU’RE AN ADULT NOW.
Answer: western culture. STRONG INDEPENDENT MASCULINE WOMEN
Exactlyy! Issa freaking turn off lol
Some people wear their toxic behavior as a badge of honor. Who really wants to deal with that? Smh
@@yuukimasamura5143 1000% my wife is from south east Asia (well educated, good family) and feminine .. I’m not dating a “bad bitch “
I agree. To much masculine energy today
She looks like the type who thinks she’s too attractive for regular guys but the guys at a certain level don’t want to deal with her attitude.
Which is correct because most women aim to date/marry the top10% of men. And these top 10% don't intend to settle because 90% of women are throwing themselves at them. That's the reality especially when "some" women say "all men cheat" when in reality it's the top 10% that exercise options because they can.
"THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU'RE AT THE TOP"
Objective reality doesn't care about anyone's feelings.
@@Ultimascale4 the top 10% of men make $150k annually, that’s not that hard to find and as someone who lives in a large city, I find that most women don’t throw themselves at the IT directors of the world making 150k. Typically women start throwing themselves at the men in the 1% realm and THAT is the realm I believe she’s most interested in. She’s likely most interested in a high profile 1 percent-er
Or her bad Tela Novela acting.
@@gabyjoe1100 They aren't just talking about money, they are talking looks, personality, and fitness also.
True
A (female)friend of mine once said: "appearance brings people together, character keeps people together" (or something like that, idk, my english sucks)
Your English is very good 👍
@@davidpost3412 thanks, didn't know if it makes sense how I translated it
This is very true
@Fabi Fires
Nah it makes perfect sense, and by the way its a common famous quote, but still glad that your female friend believes in it.
Lol, your English is better than 99% native speakers.
She hasn’t had “an official boyfriend “ in four years . But she’s definitely been dating and hooking up in between that.
I heard that right away too!
@@eddy3same, it was the first thing I noticed. Guys know she is recreational use only.
Chola getting passed around by cholos.
How do you know that?
@@iki12737 no one except her “knows” that, but we can infer meaning.
"I'm not trying to sound egoistic"
Well let's start with that problem.
Right lol
it's spanish for egotistical.
🤣🤣😂
Well tbh, she does seem physically attractive by society's standards
@@MostlyCloudy "ególatra"
Lasting relationships require genuine humility sometimes. As a wife of 17 years I can say looks get you in but character KEEPS you there.
or maybe cuz you a blond/redhead hot French woman who whispers *omelette du fromage* in his ear when he sleeps
@@bironjames9948 🤣🤣🤣 that works too. Bacon is my go to but I might try the cheese omelette next time I need to score a few points with my hubby.
So true. My husband and I were both fit, young and hot when we met... 15 years later, we're less fit, more wrinkly and not as hot. 😂 But that isn't what a marriage is based on. We have 3 children and a different life than we once did. If your relationship is built solely on external, superficial things, it's not going to last.
@@FrauMase bacon et bifteck?
As a wife for 3 years (and 6 years as a girlfriend) I can confirm this
"Sometimes your type is why you're alone."
-Preach
"Sometimes you're alone is why you type"
-Preetch
My type is woman, preferable looking like a woman and acting like a woman before the whole woke stuff happened.
Also, must have a vagina
@@degenxayah made me laugh
Wise words
@@bluesinrhythm5922 lol all i did was swap 2 nouns but, for a shitpost, it's surprisingly accurate.
She's exactly the type of girl that you would take on a date and have to sit there and listen to them talk about themselves and other things they find interesting because fundamentally they are too narcissistic to care about what interests you or what you desire in life. They talk AT you not WITH you.
She hasn't "officially" been in a relationship. Let's not pretend she's isn't the one turning down and ghosting dudes to find the next best thing. Often times people who wonder why they're single for so long are the ones sabotaging themselves
Not just that but she keeps saying I’m single but most likely she is messing around with multiple guys playing the line, “I’m not ready I have no time to be in a relationship, I’m an independent woman” then complaint about “being single” lol
Yea, absolutely two-faced
Exactly my friend is so preety and she literally have so many options but she always complains why she is single… I’m like sis you’re ignoring them that’s whyyyy
My pops told I’m still single because I’m not trying not 1%
There's always better options...Also looking the way she does, she definitely gets guys attention. She just can't keep it.
My dad told me once as a teenager, "If you see an attractive woman and she is still single, there is a reason why." Didn't understand at the time but he was right. RIP Dad, I miss you.
what about ugly women who are not single lol
So just never date an attractive woman?
@@Redbullshit.50 no thats a generalization. Theres alot of different personalities regardless of how pretty they are
He was a WISE man. RIP SIR
Yes he was very wise. Rip to that man
It’s funny bc she herself admitted there are a lot of guys pursuing her she’s just not interested. So it’s exactly the not my types type thing.
She probably told those guys she just wants to be friends lol because they don't look like Chad
@@comsicartisan7700 she need pookie and ray ray to set her straight
Bitches nowadays say they're "single" while they got FWBs and hookups. This shit is never serious. They just haven't found the right sucker yet to "settle" with.
The very ones they disqualified are the very ones that were ideal for their lives. Then when they get older and alone and see someone they rejected living a great life with someone else then it hits them how foolish their choice was in the past. It’s gonna be a funny sight to see 🍿🍿🍿
It's better to be single knowing what you want than just dating any person for the sake of not being single. Maybe she has the wrong expectations? Maybe she needs to relax and just date casually? I seriously don't get people who think being single is a tragedy. It's nice to wake up knowing that someone is not cheating on you or using you. I think she is one of those women who only care about having kids.
I am an average looking woman and get more male interest than she seems to. Your personality has a lot to do with how attractive men find you. I have a pretty calm, approachable, fun loving personality which makes up for not standing out in a crowd. That girl has all the red flags for psycho and there ain't a single man attracted to that.
I think the look standard is the big problem. I bet at one point there was a guy that would have treated her like a queen completely loyal and go to any length for her....But he probably got friend zoned. I mean I can understand some physical attraction is a given but....Looks fade. If you build your relationship off pretty much just looks well...
There are definitely men attracted to that but that’s because they’re damaged
@@LynetteTheMadScientistbut there's a difference between attractive and worthy of commitment
No offence, but the more average and unassuming you are, the more likely guys are to approach you, because you don't seem to be that difficult of a target. Rejection is tough, so I think men try to go for girls they have more of a chance with.
I'm sorry if it sounds condescending, it's not my intention and I'm not some rare beauty either, it's just what I've noticed. I think if you were a 10 with the same personality, men would approach you less and you'd get more attention from the creepy guys.
Yeah, attractive people are intimidating sometimes. I think its better to be slightly above average, cause you'll be more approachable. That's honestly great.
She fits perfectly in the “internet people” category the ones that are only in this world for other people to share their content quoting “this is so me 💁🏻♀️”
She advertises herself online. Like a hooker if you ask me. Not my type. Internet ruins relationships.
Omg!! “Internet people” I never thought I’d use that term.
Sensei!!🤣
and they get thousands of likes for quoting “this is so me” 🗿 bruh
The emoji made it better 😂
Aba’s “why am I single bro?” while flexing and posing is fucking hilarious. I laugh so hard it brings tears to my eyes every time.
It needs to be on extra repeat!!!!😂🤣😂🤣😂
i still wait for the comedy roadmovie 🤪
If I saw a man do that, I's husbanding his ass on site😤🤣
And with her voice on it XD
0:38 lool
"Is it THAT hard to find a good, genuine person?"
Yes. Yes it is. And you're not gonna find anyone genuine with those standards, miss.
Yes she got prideful childish annoying attitude and so simply no man cares about her, when they dont care about her looks, if she got so annoying personality where she always belive she is right in everything and so I now belive she will be single rest of her life, that is great for society, so her annoying behaviour is not enforced forward, that stupid simps in first point long ago made so.
I would put up with her just long enough to get my nut and then never call her again honestly.
@@Alvin-xs7db buddy I'm sure a lot of guys have beat us to it and a lot of guys will be there after us. Kind of like a rental car you know
"not with that attitude"
@@robertstone9988 this seems like something shes familiar with lol
"I think I'm not my type's type" That one sentence just described my entire love life XDDD
I ask a guy why no one wants to date me once, he said u don't put off the energy that your looking for a boyfriend. That hit me hard and made perfect sense. I got a boyfriend shortly after because I change how I approached men and how I allowed them to approach me.
Dont be shy! Tell us shy few how you made the change!
This is exactly what I told my female friend when she asked me for advice.
It takes a lot of courage to ask out a woman, and it makes it so much easier to approach a woman that looks agreeable and approachable. Body language, posture, wording, attitude. These are the things men look at before approaching a woman. A woman could look killer but if she is a negative nancy who slouches and complains all the time, a guy will get an idea that she is not looking for a partner regardless if that's the situation or not.
Nail on the head. This is it exactly, its an internal decision to be open and not put up a wall.
Hi. Can I ask how you were previously? I'm looking to reverse everything you did and make myself even more repulsive to people seeking relationships. Not that it's a lot of work.
@@thunderouswanderer7753 The secret is "Always be the hunted, never be the hunter". If no one is seeking to capture, tag and keep you - then you gotta look inside and change. You fat? Gotta lose weight. You whine too much? Learn to be grateful. You too quiet? Learn to speak up. The phrase "It's who I am" is a crutch for those who don't want to change to what they want to be. Nothing wrong with being comfortable with who you are, but now you gotta find someone else who is. People don't ask for much really - Be nice, Be loving and Be Genuine.
Gotta bring more than just "beauty" to the table
You know what they say…
“I am the table”
@Flow :0 obviously u say no
You’re a wise man 🙏🏽
@Flow :0 what?
As a girl, I’ve learned 80% of the time your personality means more than your looks. And you may think well that’s obvious but with social media these days it’s easy for girls to think “well if I look like this and have a nice butt and boobs it will be easy”.
For any girls struggling with dating reading this. As long as you take care of yourself and have a good personality and a good heart, you’ll find the one. Don’t trip like this girl. Just do you, youre beautiful ❤️
There are a lot of physically attractive women out there that can't seem to understand that their beauty doesn't make up for their bad personality and, frankly, lack of anything to offer beyond their appearance. This class of person believes that their appearance gives them a license to be a bad person, and that they do not need to bring anything else to the table. Like, there's that classic clip of the, honestly, average looking woman saying, "I _am_ the table."
License to be a bad person?? Lol. You don't even know them to label them as that "class of person"🤦🏽♂️
@@trujiebeats7190 read the original comment again 🤦🏾♂️
@@Saulgoodmane so that wasn't specifically for them. Got it.
She only inspired your paragraph on those particular type of women 🙄
facts.. physical attraction matters, especially at first, but if the personality isn't there, or if two people don't vibe, even.. that physical attraction actually deteriorates. these days if I see someone hot, but get to know them and they got a shitty personality, they become instantly ugly.
the opposite is also true though: where you might meet an average girl, but if she's awesome and you vibe with her, she might start to look more attractive as time passes.
Attractive people are overrated period; it's a running theory in my head that people only want the pretty ones for their looks, not their personality, if they have one. It's nature evening the odds by giving people with okay looks better personalities
It’s not about the looks or anything material 😭 is about your heart, the way you carry yourself and most importantly how you care for others!! The world needs caring kind hearted and emotionally intelligent men and women. let’s be it!
She’s the type of woman that has ridiculously high standards and wonders why nobody will never commit their time to her.
It’s not the high standards for the men that are her problem. It’s the low standard on her side of the relationship that’s the problem. She doesn’t know the counterpart to the men’s high standards.
@@ekkotey wut?
I recently met this girl who was decently pretty, like a 6,7 without makeup and a 9 with it on, but soon after talking i noticed she had 0 personality, 0 hobbies, and she was crazy af. She was super sweet but totally wants a dude to act like their married for years when they just met her.
thats not it.. she is a man wrapped up in a female body.
100% repulsive to hetero men.
@moko being Bruce wayne essentially.
Her saying "Bro" over and over is a clear sign that she friendzoned a ton of people and she has a lot of "guy friends".
Good observation lol
It's also a sign of being too masculine minded as well, only dudes be saying bro
@@justjayy85 not that deep
It just seems more like a general lack of emotional maturity, but that's me
@@camillap10101 it actually is that deep. Feminine woman don't constantly say bro or act like her. She's bought the feminism lie, she makes her own money own place and has male traits aggressive, unagreeable etc. Which men don't find attractive. Men don't care about how much money a woman makes. It's not that she can't find a man, I'll bet anything she gets hit on everywhere she goes. Basic rule of thumb for women attractive like this is satanic 666. 6 ft tall, 6 figures a year and 6 inch flesh rocket
The fact she filmed what she filmed is a deal breaker. And most of everything she said.
In one word, her attitude.
Sad part is theres probably so many "men" who were there in her vids comment section to inflate her ego even more...
Facts.
people film their freakouts a lot lmao
@@MaddesG1 like imflating a balloon with air and then blow it up. It's just funny to see.
She ain't single. She married TO THE STREETS.
hahaha so true
She never "officially" had a boyfriend for 4 years. The key word "officially" meaning it's not on record. She got that person she calls when she needs that action. I'm sure she has no problem fulfilling those's late night appointments. The problem is, those d-appointments are not fulfilling cause you don't get to share your innermost feelings after. Once it's over, it's over cut and dry.
Women can be single for decades and still get their bed numbers into 500.
Lol, exactly. I'd rather be with a woman who has had a few long term, monogamous relationships in that time span, rather than a woman who was "single" that whole time. Single and celibate?? No way that's the case.
The bitch got a body count like Jason Voorhees
translation- bitch ran thru aint nobody want pre owned 😭😭😭
Or... She kept finding guys & they never stuck around. Doesnt have to mean she slept around ( not denying she could) but just no guy wanted to stick around once they got to know her
Haven't had a "boyfriend officially", she still slayin' bodies.....no cap.
Exactly what I was thinking 💯
Man you caught that too? She really tried it.
@@luckyMrrpProduction yea she thought she was slick lol
Ye there's no way she's an in*el xD
Keep it 💯 Kings!
"I think Im not my type's type"
Claudia is a real one for the honesty, self-reflection, and self-awareness 99% of women lack today. Shouts out to her.
Most people in general
@@oz_jones this a reality for most men who weren't attractive in high school. It's clear as day if you're your types type. It was for me and for my friends at least.
I can imagine a stoner like thinking real hard for an hour and then go: "woaaah, dude, bro, bruh, you know what? I just think I'm not my type's type bro."
goddamn "you're not your type's type" is a hella efficient way to put it. I spent half an hour trying to explain this to someone once and all i needed was 5 words.
But the thing is, will they do something about. Either A, better themselves or B, try something different.
That Bro dub over was dope bro
"Sometimes I critically hit my boyfriends for like 95% of their health bar and send them to the infirmary, but like I don't do it that often bro I swear". - This girl 2021
I mean, they shouldn't try the boss fight right after the tutorial 😜
Exactly! Like WTF?! 🤦♂️
So it's not just me, she 100% has that energy..
😂😂😂 this killed me
She would be in Sens fortress if they made a bro remake
"I have my own place, I make my own money". We have heard that too often! That's called being an adult! It doesn't make her more attractive!
Its women mirroring their desires on men.
A man having his own place and a job is something women look for in a man as one of many desirable traits.
Neither of those two options is something men factor in when looking to be in a relationship - the adult woman could be unemployed and living with her parents and not working and men will find her desirable if she has feminine traits they find attractive
I make my own money translation OF
I put the fertility app I use into HIS PHONE, that way he has full control of knowing which days of the month that I can become pregnant. Fertility cycles change from woman to woman....now that what makes me unique and attractive.
@@WrathofFenrir99 to be slightly fair though, lots of guys find being able to cook makes a girl more attractive compared to not.
@@MrsNicolas Sounds like you both have a good relationship. 👍Good to know you're not weaponizing that against him. The worst case scenario is that the woman somehow "baby traps" their man. It's extremely important to be open about menstrual cycles and pregnancy chances so you don't have a child unless you're ABSOLUTELY sure.
It's been my first hand experience that girls who overuse the terms "bitch" and/or "bro" are not girlfriend material. Anyways, ima go cry.
Hahahahh so true!
Hahahahaha ima go cry hahahahahga
Solid first sentence, weak second sentence.
@@the80386 It’s called callback humor. 👍🏻
Why? This pathetic bitch has you pressed?
" I think I'm not my type's type"
Words of wisdom right there.
How many people are struggling with this like myself because of not realizing this?
There's two reasons an attractive woman is moaning she's single.
1. She's an absolute nightmare to the point her being hot means it still isn't worth it.
2. She has such ridiculous standards like being 6ft 3 plus, earning this much and so on that the minuscule amount of guys who tick those boxes aren't interested.
She doesn't seem like someone who is a good companion, or is willing to change herself to please someone else. Most people will say you should never change yourself to please others, but if you're never willing to accommodate someone in your life, taketime to learn their interests, or do small things just to make them happy, the good looks won't keep someone committed to you.
@@cthulhusmom I don't think it's that she has to change to please someone else. That reason wouldn't equate to lasting change. She needs to change for something more powerful than just acquiring an intimate relationship; then the change will be solidified and in turn, attract a lasting relationship with the man she's looking for because he sees that the character she portrays accurately represents who she truly is when no one is watching (usually observable through visible habits).
Yep simple math, her hotness factor is not high enough to deal with her craziness factor.
@@michaelfrock2473 Never dip in crazy sauce men!
@@michaelfrock2473 she has crossed the Louise Mendoza diagonal on the wrong side of the hot crazy scale.
Some women: "Stop approaching women, we do not want to talk to you."
Those same women: "WHY AM I SINGLE."
Amen!
Nah we don’t want creeps to approach us, there’s a difference.
@@user-ki8nn5rx6r bullshit
@@user-ki8nn5rx6r but your definition of a creep is based on if you find them attractive or not....
@@Hexis17 nope, it depends in how they act
I haven’t made a whole minute into the video yet. I paused because of “bro”. Poured a fresh cup of coffee, came back and started wheezing at Aba’s poses with her “bro” dub. Literal Preach old uncle wheezing LMAO
Okay, carry on
it's the way she says bro and tastes herself all the time loool
@@dark3rthanshadows That part nearly made me choke on my coffee!
Was funny af. Tru tru
😂 💪🏾
Get outta my kitchen Bro...I did the same thing.
There are many factors that determine weather or not you are single. Physical attractiveness (more important for women BUT there is more), skills/wealth/independence/status/strength (more important for men BUT there is more), personality, values (good ones), intelligence, confidence, social skills, humility, and finally not having unrealistic standards for your partner are the main ones I can think of. If you don't have the right amount of these things to please most people then that is why you have problems.
Boy bye
People who actually know this girl, know why she is single. There are a lot of mysteries in this life, but this ain't one of them.
These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women for a while now. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind or just curious, this could be worth a read:
1. Long (fake) nails
2. Fake hair (~long and/or bright colored)
3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup)
4. Provocative clothing
5. Big earrings
6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content; thirst trap antics, etc.)
7. Questionable.. questions (e.g. "Babe, would you date me if I were a worm", "babe do you think I'm pretty"..)
8. Tattoos/body mods/piercings (especially in weird places)
9. Most/all of her friends are male.
10. Promiscuous or Using se>< as a proxy for feeling loved and adored (this can be especially true for people who struggle with attachment issues/daddy issues)
11. S.I.G.N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Never being wrong)
12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism (follows beauty standards, fashion trends, body ideals, bad friends or other trends without questioning or reflecting on their reason[s] for doing so) [often correlates with No. 2, 3 & 4]
13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e.g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches", claim to have "very high standards" or are "high maintenance" ) [often correlates with No. 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5]
14. Materialistic [often correlates with No. 12 & 13]
15. Their actions don't follow their words (cognitive dissonance)
16. No sense of boundaries
17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels.
18. Clingy, jealous or possessive (e.g. not being allowed to have any female friends)
19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things--it seems some people think toxicity makes relationships more 'fun or exciting' (or even straight up admit they enjoy toxicity in relationships)
20. Habit of lying (shouldn't be ignored [along with No. 7, 14 & 16] as it could escalate over time [often correlates with No. 10, 11, 13 & 15. Possibly with No. 6] )
21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice (possibly due to trauma or abuse at a young age [Reference: Dr. Drew Pinsky - Loveline] )
22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'---"Some women absolutely do this. In fact, some believe that men should be able to read their minds and then use the fact that men can't read their minds as an excuse to accuse the men of not loving them enough.
Not very many women do this, however. If you are in a relationship with a woman who does this, and you don't like it, break it off. Be sure, however, that you are not contributing to her bad behavior by attempting to anticipate her needs and doing things for her to prove your love. In other words, don't attempt to appear as if you can read her mind." - Alison Bennett (Quora; Do women expect men to be mind-readers?)
*Their mentality of dependence and expectations is so high they use emotions to smoke screen this shameful behaviour. [Shouldn't be ignored. Could correlate with No. 19]
23. Sh*t Tests---"used to determine your frame. Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.” (shouldn't be ignored; usually continues indefinitely, may escalate over time [Often correlates with No. 11, 16 & 19. Possibly with No. 7 & 17] )
24. Ultimatums (could correlate with No. 13, 16 & 18)
25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer (Strongly correlates with No. 16, possibly with No. 11 & 18 [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] )
26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure(s). (Often correlates with No. 4, 6, 8, 10, 16, 19, 20 [compulsive or pathological lying] & 21)
27. They're often passive aggressive (Could correlate with No. 22. Possibly with No. 7, 11, 19 & 25)
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@@Dickson_ bro
@@Dickson_ this is common sense mate.
Normal girls know this
And yet men still seem to aim for a combination of these attributes in reality. It’s mad
@@Dickson_ like your list, would you be so kind to write the male version too???
🙂 pretty please
Notice how she didn't say "I haven't had sex in 4 years". It's "I haven't had a boyfriend in 4 years". Chad is still smashing, he just isn't committing.
Exactly
Eeeeueyup
You know she's capping!
Fax
You know she's getting the train ran on her
When I was in Okinawa, I knew this dude who sold trinket stuff like jerseys and blankets and stuff Marines would buy to send back home as souvenirs. I saw him one time and I’m like, “Yo, what up, homie.” And he says, “no no no, no homie.” And I’m like, “sure we are, man, we homies, ain’t we?” And he was like, “no no, I no homie.” Then he explains, “you cannot say homie to okinawa people, it is very rude.” And I’m like, “…ok… why is it rude?” He says, “in okinawa language, homie is bad word.” I’m like, “oh shit, for real? What’s it mean?”
He looks around and then leans in close and says, “Pussy!”
That's funny, Homie!
Black marines being stationed in oki need to know this.
Oooooooooooo lmao
American military needs to gtfo of Okinawa. Keep r*ping and kidnapping locals
@@dunzhen Welp. Maybe the Japanese should recognize their own slaughtering of Filipinos, chinese, Koreans and others before talkin bout what a small group of boots did.🤷🏽♂️
2:50 to that I have to say, after 2 years of intense working of myself (of course it was many years, but at one point i focused on this issue specifically), i became my types type. I am sure everyone can. Self-awareness and not beeing too afraid of the work it takes to do it. It took a long time to even be ready to start changing.
The true character of a person always comes out eventually.
Right immediately î was like something is off that people are not self-aware enough to notice other people noticing it's an energy breaux lol. What Erykah Badu said "when they see you comin n**gas take off runnin" bout releasing the baggage + the anger of the past to be open.
I am single and i have it all, I still prefer to be alone then with unwanted company.
I find her entertaining honestly, but she is obviously just looking for a good-looking atm machine boyfriend, just like all women who make these types of videos...
Makes me appreciate my relationship even more. My boyfriend isn’t perfect but he is respectful to me, supportive, my best friend and I am attracted to him. I couldn’t ask for better.
I dare you to call him Bro!!!!
Me tooooo❤️🥺
"My boyfriend isn't perfect but..."
No human being on earth is perfect, don't use this kind of language as an "introductory" sentence!
But I'm glad you are both happy with each other.
Are couples allowed to call eachother there best friend? That must feel like the best feeling in the world. I
@@Kniffel101 no need to sound smart, you know what they meant.
Beauty isn't enough for everyone to stick around. The person I love is automatically the most beautiful person to exist anyway. There has to be more.
This comment 👌 💕🥰
Beauty fades as we age. Some are very lucky enough to keep that beauty and still look youthful, if they really take care of themselves. Yes, beauty is not enough to stick around for, and it's not everything.
Aaaaaaaaaamen, brother.
There are millions of beautiful women but attitude and personality separates women who are worth dating from women who are a booty call
yep
there's a large population of single people that both think they're too good for each other.
She says "I got a little bit of an attitude, but I'm not crazy"
Reminds me of "I wasn't punching you, I was hitting you"
On point comparison.
You Heard!
hahaha, bro.
"It's Fine, I'm Fine, I'm like Fine as hell! He hee hee haa haa HAAAA, I'm NoT CraZy You'Re CraZY!!!!!"
I thought the same thing when I heard her say that.
Just by hearing her talk we see her why she's single.
She looks like a 9 but her personality brings it to a 3
@@oz_jones
That's not a 9 my guy, that's a 7, an 8 at best. . . If you think that's a 9 go to a beach or go to the coastlines. 9s and 10s trying to get the rich dudes are always there.
yea, she's annoying, arrogant, and narcissistic
@@ohdahngboi_2237 BRO!
Ikr, take a look "ok a bit try hardy but still pretty. 'bro bro bro why am I single'....oh"
We all know that if this was a dude, twitter and tiktok would've immediately gone viral with threads and responses about how "this is an incel/entitled male/e. rogers" comparisons, before veering off into threads about male toxicity and women sharing stories. But when it's a woman......."ehhhh she's just joking and venting", "I feel you girl lmaooo". I wish I could go back to when I was ignorant of this ish. Sigh.
Welcome to the age of madness!!!! It's in South Africa too now, it's not just an American thing anymore
There is a whole bunch of subreddits like legbeards, nice girls...
@@mojalefamalahlela3291 what south African women are feminist too ???
@@angryblackman857 It’s taking over, bro. Feminism is the true epidemic.
Why you think I'm still a virgin? I'd rather follow the words of St. Paul and spend my life in serene contemplation, pleasing Jah, than follow my dick and wind up miserable, trying to please an insatiable, perpetually dissatisfied woman.
Every man knew from the first 5 seconds why bro is single
Simple:
Smart men rent pretty but buy reliable
If pretty is all you're producing for a relationship, it's a pretty weak sales pitch for long term investors. Especially when you're difficult to work with.
Epic…. Bro
BROO
nothing buts facts and logic
Absolutely what makes us stay in a relationship isn't sex and beauty nonono give us a hug when were stressed , sad . Having good times together and we mary in 1years or two
Agreed. A depreciating asset (beauty) is always a bad long term investment.
My guess is that her standards are high and the guys who meet them don't fw her like that. Make note that she said she hasn't had a BOYFRIEND in 4 years, not that she hasn't HOOKED UP with anyone in 4 years.
She getting pump and dumped.
@@KaiserReb Every night and twice per day.
People aren't entitled to a partner. This is such incel attitude, thinking you are owed a significant other. On the other hand, people actually ARE entitled not to be interested in you.
I find people like this even worse than Incels. Incels are often not very attractive physically and have rough childhoods, then they fall into a trap of self pity and apathy. Women like this are voluntarily pricing themselves out the dating market their shitty choice in partners and not having any self awareness. They have endless options but self sabotage.
Someone like her can never be taught the lessons she will need for proper introspection, she has to learn the hard way.
@@theperfectbeing honestly I agree a lot of incels have trama like getting bullied at an early age
this is so true. well put
I don’t understand this weird desire to associate her with incels. She did her entire rant without disparaging men once.
@@hatchibyebye She is EXACTLY the type of woman who disparages men. She may not have done it in this video, but since she clearly doesn't think SHE is the reason she is single, it is highly likely that she blames men and holds contempt towards them.
the reason is me,me,me, case closed.
"I got a good personality."
She reminds me of Skippy.
lol lol Nooo lol
😆🤣😂 Imagine if she recorded her dates.
A wise man once said, “if you really believe there is a perfect woman out there, what makes you think she’d be interested in you?”
I think this an important call to self reflection that applies to both genders. To find a good spouse, first you have to become a good spouse.
Wish more people thought like that instead of going online and complaining about single 🤦🏽♀️
Uchdorf?
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Very wise saying cuz it’s true
@SpacePurpBarney oh please most man think they are worth it cause they DO NICE THINGS FOR GIRLS... Like is it really nice if you do things mainly to get a date out of her or to get laid? Like all you gotta do is look at Instagram or Twitter to see comments full of dudes just sucking a womans ass... And they say most of us don't eat ass 😂
Do woman have to go through reflection as well of course but if you out here looking at pages full of comments from thirsty sad ass men it gets harder to do. Either they sad nice guys or insulting edgelords.
She is single because she is discounting the possibility that SHE is the reason why she is single. A little introspection would do her a LOT of good.
That's a good point
"re mavro" had my greek ass laughing for approximately 10 minutes
Imagine this, that woman in that exact body started the camera in a setting position and said "Man, I just don't know why I'm single. I'm trying real hard, I know how to cook and clean and all the things they say are desirable in a woman and yet im still setting here in my apartment single, it hurts bro" in a calm collected manner. Suitors lining up around the block. Nobody wants to be yelled at.
I applaud you for this. A friend once said 'you're called or judged by how you project yourself to be'
Without "bro". hearing a woman saying bro is a deal killer.
I mean if she was like that there would be no need for the video
@@teabaggins3517 how about "man"? lmao
@@danielboulnois1986 You are correct
2000s : You should be attracted to my personality not my looks.
2020s: Look at me, aren't I hot? Why am I single?
Aye I didn't know JSG was here.
Social media have us hyper focus on image.
she doesnt want the guy who is already interested in her, she wants the guy who isnt and then have them change their mind and want to make her their girlfriend
Aww you guy rid of the mustache pic :(
You forget all the women in the 2000s are in their 30s+. All the 2020s women were barely in kindergarten in 2000.
BECAUSE.......When guys see your tirade, they realize what it will be like to live with you and see this "show" everyday of their lives.
whaaat, you dont like "keeping up with the drama"😅
Being in a relationship doesn't make you happy, what makes you happy is your state of mind.
I've lost my father at the age of 12, had a divorce, lost many pets (one of them died in front of me), and lost countless of friends and dates over the years. I am seriously at the point I don't care anymore.
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I can feel you ❤
❤I'm so sorry. ...praying Nam Myoho Renge Kyo...I hope you can find the right person and fulfill your dreams. Dating is even harder now with social media and texting. The older generation had it so much easier. As young people we have to figure out the solution to this issue.
Ladies, who aspire to be married, read the definition of “insufferable” and do exactly the opposite of this definition. Universally, your odds increase as well as your quality of life.
No they should think what doing the exact opposite means and then go further
Listen to random men on TH-cam instead.
@@Ollie-qz5qv why not?
@@Ollie-qz5qv Don't knock it till you try it
@@Ollie-qz5qv men know what they want, so it's be wise to listen to what they have to say about what they want and don't want. Don't adapt? Then don't complain if you struggle getting a guy 🤷🏼♂️
Sadly, as a fellow latino, I see this kind of latina a lot. This women is literally the blueprint 💀
You are not lying fam. Chapinas are ferocious. 😬 In all categories.
Especially there is some people shaming you or questioning why are you single with people who enjoy it.
Latinas that live in USA*
Barrio Basura . . .
@@siriuslestrange4475 thats where Latinas live. Anywhere else i feel like they arent Latina/Latino, they are called where they are from. Ie: Mexican, Colombian, Dominican etc… Ive always felt that word was offensive imo
I love the way the positive attributes she listed for herself were "I'm attractive, have my own place, my own money, I cook and clean" like nothing about your character? Your personality?
Didn't you listen she says she has an attitude, says all you need to know hahaha
@@jenkhemhuffersanonymous3990 but she's not crazy
literally her positive attributes are: im pretty and not homeless. like congratulations bitch...
@@lyssmarieex whew was stressing that ngl
Well it goes both ways. People seem to not think of having good character as important.
I hate that so many people think of settling down as a negative thing to do as if you just accept anyone no matter if y’all are compatible or not. You do that just to not be alone. And you must just accept any life even if it’s not anything you want and/or deserve.
When you settle with someone it means you love, care about, like, and want to be with this person that wants a similar future as you and agrees on how to get there plus y’all have similar values and y’all are compatible emotionally, physically, and mentally.
She doesn't need to settle down based on her looks.. She needs to be less neurotic and less of a skank
“Why am I single?!”
“Hi, how are you?”
“Ew. Not my type bye”
Literally then they contradict themselves later being like I want a man 👨🤨😂🤦
Legit
@@gregkareem9824 *Literally then they contradict themselves later being like I want a man*
Not really a contradiction. They want a certain type of man but that man doesn't want them because they have options.
@@StoicBehavioR simp why u so mad bro? Nigga gets no buns bro 😭💀 go touch sum grass my boy
@@StoicBehavioR sound like a goofy
"I have a job, I have my own place, I cook, I clean..".. Okay so you're an adult. Congratulations. We all have to do that.
many adults still live at thein parents and don't do thoses things. It's pretty common not to leave your parent's house as long as you're not married in many cultures
@@Omar-mh8yn Not sure where you from, but over here, if we staying with our parents, they ensure we pull our weight around the house
@@advaitthavare facts! U have to pay bills
On a dating profile a guy said he couldn't cook and he's close to 30 yrs old. I noped the fuck off.
@@Umeshukitsune im 29 and I can only cook rice snf breakfast
You can't complain about being single if you're rejecting 99% of men who approach you.
I get depressed sometimes too that I don't have anybody, but then I remind myself that I have "high "standards".
The world is what it is, either accept what's on offer or accept being alone.
Yha girls don't know that like they said there are more girls then guys and when you realize every little bit of guy is taking she's done unless the world come to terms about letting 3 person in the marriage group.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 you can take your advice, and try out polygamy...
@@mysticstrikeforce5957
Had a stroke trying to read that.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 yeah a 3 in one nah I know what you mean but lmao.
@@comancheclub3449 xD
Poor HYNAAA there are probably no Edgars in her town
"Why am I single?"
Your aura and vibes scream high maintenance with a dash of ghetto and a side serving of drama and crazy.
Which leads into thoughts of horrible divorce, drama over money, if kids are involved one sided parenting, arguments over her needs above others and the list could go on and on.
If your asking this type of question, its time to look inward at the problems. Because the issues outside pale in comparison to the issues inside.
100% in agreement
Exact. If you ever saw the Crazy / Hot matrix she's on the Crazy Side for sure. The type of GF that will key your car if she gets angry.
Winner!
THANK YOU. This comment summarised exactly what I feel about her. In all that time she has focused on making videos and was fixated on being single, she could have found a hobby or activity to improve herself.
I actually kind of liked it the ghetto side it's good to be around somebody with some flavor and energy...the baby thing a little too much at least she got her own and worked for it not to bad for a ghetto talking person
"Is it that hard to find a good genuine person?"
nope. Its not really that hard. They just normally get ignored cause they don't look attractive enough.
Or they got snatched up in their early 20s while she was to busy doing her.
Is it that easy tho ?
Copium
Oooop.
@@smith97320 this 😅
She basically said, “I take care of the basics of my life (work, cook, clean, etc.)” like that’s something special. Being not-a-slob isn’t something to be proud of. That’s basic adulthood.
Well I guess it's wanted for a house wife but I get what you're saying. Plus lots of people today can't do those things.
Yes!!! Being responsible is seen as unique skill for some reason. It sadly says alot about society nowadays. I cleaned my entire apartment (minus roommates rooms) yesterday in under 30mins (minus dishes that was another 20 mins). It's not hard and doesn't take long if you do it regularly, did it watching the big bang theory. 2 birds one half hour
You are so wrong. So many women are incapable of basic things, and many men want women who can. You might find that not enough. I might not care either but its actually relevant. Yea standards are pretty low nowdays
@Rachael Rae the long short of it is, she's probably a little too picky (assuming this is an act). Nice pic Miss Rachel Rae.
many young women today burn water when they try to boil it,
Do not assume if a woman is physically attractive and single it is only because of her personality or high standard. Maybe due to the situation. For example, I’ve been studying and working in 5 different countries in the past 10 years. For someone who’s constantly moving around, it is difficult to establish a long-term stable relationship.
Well I mean in this case it's pretty obvious it has to do with her personality. She's acting entitled to the fact that she somehow deserves a boyfriend without doing any self reflection on why she's single. She obviously wants a boyfriend but she wonders why she doesn't have one yet when she can't see the fact that she is a massive egotistical red flag. Apparently in her eyes because she's attractive men should crawl all up her alleyway and she should be the center of attention.
That could also be an issue though because it means that she’s prioritizing other things over building a future with someone
Sometimes you're just not their person, too. Everyone is looking for THEIR person, and good looks are just a veneer.
You look very young. Also your pfp signals to me "modern American woman" which is not positive. I would say you are objectively attractive so the number of people interested in pursuing you is probably fairly high but most don't approach you because you are attractive. Also dating while moving frequently or semi frequently would make it harder as you say.
Your point Is correct however that is the outlier/minority of women and aba and preach mostly speak in general.
@@LynetteTheMadScientist yes, I prioritize my career goals more than other aspects of my life at this moment, I sometimes had doubts because it is certainly not easy to be single and alone in a foreign country. But now I’ve had a very very nice boyfriend, after being single for almost 3 years 😂and I founded my own company this year doing what makes me happy. So… i guess sometimes it all worths it, just keep doing the right things and waiting for the right moment.
"Sometimes i get little physical but am Not abusive" - I CANT 😂😂😂😂
I want to be able to say that to a chick. "I get a lil physical but not abusive."
How do you think that would sound? lol
@@jesterarts734 lol, just dont 😂🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@@jesterarts734 you will be in jail before even ending the sentence.
they like to use those long nails to abuse
I cant believe she was able to make that vídeo, show her bumbum, probably watch it and think “yes that is a great way to present myself and get a bf” and she didnt cringe one little bit ? My face burned of embarasssment just from watching it 😳😳😳😳😳 She needs a friend to talk to her
🇧🇷 in here and talking some facts! 😀👏
When you have no self esteem that's what you do. Offer yourself to lots of men sexually. They have imprinted on her and she has taken on their traits. She can no longer pair bond and is for the streets. Women like this are cum rags. Notice she didn't say I havnt had sex in 4 years. She said she hasn't been in a relationship. She's still charming all the alphas cobras. They spit at her and leave
Nigerian?
Bruh I'm 22 years old, still a virgin, and never been in a relationship. You won't see me getting on social media complaining about why I'm single. Modern women these days are bugging out, acting immature like a child.
Lucky bastard. I wish I still had my V card.
End of the day you’ll snipe one keep doing you g.
BEYYYYYYTAAAA! jk
Exactly! The way people automatically think coming on the internet and airing their problems is automatically a good thing. I keep saying to everyone please get the heck of the internet.🤦🏽♀️
Yeah it’s better to be an individual than to run with the herd. When it comes to stuff like that it’s like a zoo, your not supposed to jump in you watch from afar.
It’s honestly amazing how narcissistic women have become to not realize most of them are must flat out miserable people who offer nothing once their looks fade.
People tolerate it to sleep with them but once that is gone who would want to interact with people who act liken this?
It’s like voluntarily taking care of a bratty, incredibly antagonistic, child who can take half youe shit
"Why are beautiful women single?" likely because as good looking as they are on the outside they have some really ugly shit on the inside and most people don't want to put up with there shitty personalities, negative behavior or the fact they are super shallow, so they just dumped all their energy into there looks rather then focusing on being kind and being able to hold up a conversation by learning about other things then beauty tutorials ... just a thought.
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Also because beauty is widespread, common and temporary so it’s not an asset like it use to be in a highly advanced world where people have access to so much, maybe 50 years ago when everybody lived in remote towns with limited transportation/communication options and you could be the only person with good genetics within a five mile radius 😏
She thinks she hot.... wake up with her in the morning with out her makeup on! That's the real test! If she has fillers that shit does not look good.
Blame Instagram, Facebook, Tik Tok, and Onlyfans. Because that is what these ladies' job is. And they expect a man to value their looks ONLY.
Who wanna be with a dimwitted bimbo? A 60+ year old, divorced douchebag. That's who. And even then, them men know what's going on & change these women like they do their underwear. On the daily.
@@Dynasty19 man 40% of women in the USA are now OBESE. Not overweight, I'm talking medically OBESE. that's almost HALF of all potential ladies out there. There days being thin/slender is almost an instant "hot" rating
Teamwork isn't only just a skill for the workplace. If anyone's in a relationship, they know very well that cooperating and working as a team is critical to make a team work. If someone wants to be the strong and independent one, guess what? It comes at the cost of teamwork.
When she says single, she means she has at least 2 f. buddies but no boyfriend.
@@karagumruk7330 nah she getting run through 2 ain’t enough
This is BIG FACTS. I've been in a 7 year relationship since I was 19, teamwork and communication is KEY. Most dudes will tell you, you have to be alpha and lead and blah blah, do I believe there are duties you have to fulfill as a man? Sure but none of this I'm gonna treat you like crap to look alpha BS. Some women may also feel that they have duties similar to the man given the state of society as it is today and that's cool too. But if you want to be in a committed relationship with someone you have to be willing to co-operate and sometimes compromise. It's a lot of work but if you stick at it, you'll both have a great experience and it'll become easier.
Nah. Man should be the strong one so the woman doesn’t have to be.
If somebody havw annoying childish personality to tell how they are strong independent women. Guess what nobody wants to work with this woman as team.
She is the type of woman that when she hits 35, she will be calling up Kevin Samuels.
@S Singh Just wait a few more days her birthday is coming up! 😏🎈
No, those are the women who never had this much self confidence.
@@IYeleven Self Confidence? Is that what you call it? ...So much "Self Confidence" that you end up alone!
STAWWWPPP 💀
lol exactly
at the second she opened her mouth i totally understand why`s she single!
My 4 year old was cracking up dying when Aba was saying bro and showing his muscle poses. Thank you lol
I'm 34 & was cracking up too
@@NotAnotherKuromi me at 29 too 😂😂😂😂🤣😭
Imma steal that gag when I talk to someone that says bro too much.
Using it the next time my 25 year old niece who says "bro" a lot to me.
Lol ima be using it on my kids.. "why you doing that bro? (Flex) why bro?! (Flex) BRO?!"
That “bro” voiceover with Aba posing had me rooooollllllling!!!!
Me too 🤣🤣🤣
Same 🤣 I had to rewind it lol
I love when girls are like I got my own place, I make my own money. Like congrats! That's called being an adult. Like it has anything to do with what a man wants out of a women. LMFAO!
Yeah those things only matter if the woman is willing to share those resources. Men are just expected to have and share those things, but God forbid asking a woman to do the same when the roles are reversed lol
Gender equality for thee but not for me 🙄
@@RED_Theory038 well then they're dating down ROFL
😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏
Its her free loader entitlement mentality thats why she state that she got a car a job and her own place because deep inside she just wanna stay home and do nothing
The first thing that came to mind when looking at her was the movie “The Crying Game”.
She hasn't had any "Official" boyfriends in 4 years.
Translation: She's had dozens of fun-time buddies in the last 4 years.
@@twinqt578 I believe the "And" comes in play when you are asking yourself why you're still single. She is asking that question and her saying 'officially' is destroying her own self worth. If you are used by men and after it you are looking for a man, chances are that a big percent will not take her as their wife, simmilar to how I would not be with a man with a high body count. It means he doesn't love himself, he wants to impress others and is mostly just going through life to have as much "experience" he can get, but isn't mentally stable. It just screams red flags to me. I don't want to marry nor date someone like that.
@@user-mk3nu3hd4o I know it's your choice, but Its different when a man has a high body count.
@@nisaac1216 honestly, it's really not different in my opinion. Men who are more sexual like that do not really work on themselves, the only thing they are looking for is the appareance and are more exposed to sexual diseases and desires, which results in them loosing their value as well. I personally do not want a man who lost his value and with loosing his value, he is loosing his soul. I do not want a father of my children teaching them that those things are okay, nor for our little girls and boys to grow up in an environment that makes them think men are more valuable because of their body count and women are not. Both are morally wrong and should be treated as such.
@@twinqt578 Yes, I saw what you did, BRO 😂 for me personally, it matters for both men and women. It's just because a lot of people go through a lot of things when they do line up the bodies. They become more open for other things, they still do get diseases, they get mentally damaged (cause it is damaging for a lot of people to just sleep around and not get that connection they desperately need) or they get damaged from their partners and the toxic behaviours which start to build up eventually etc. I just do not want someone like that. A man that's been around is not the man for me nor does he fit the family life I wish to have.
@@twinqt578 I mean, it all depends on a person and what you are willing to deal with. I don't think I can teach my kids on what things not to do if I have done them myself. It seems hypocritical, you know? Some would say that you get a better idea or an understanding of how people deal with certain things and what they can do to your body so you can better explain to your children on what not to do(example: drugs), but you don't really need to be an expert in them to know that they do you harm. I look at the body count the same way. I don't need to sleep with a lot of people to know that it isn't helpful and is in fact harmful to your body and soul, so it is a big turn off for me. Everyone is different though, but I do not accept that men can sleep with however many women they want and not be considered in a bad way.
Imagine a “GROWN WOMAN” putting on a dress just for a video, trying to convince herself she’s not the issue🤣 she’s not egotistical, she’s a D1 narcissist.
I think you mean "egoistic".
@@alexandertiberius1098 yeah when she said "egoistic" I laughed and said, "That's why you're single, you're a dumbass. 🤣🤣🤣"
Bad English language skills. Sounds like this person never used a dictionary, too many curse words instead of real words. Sounds uneducated. Being pretty wearing nice clothes doesn’t mean you’re smart. Too much focus on the materialistic. “ Sometimes I have an attitude”, that’s part of the problem. Ghetto.
@@alexandertiberius1098 Egotistical is definitely right.
@@sammyrizzo1199 I know, she says egoistic.
Beautiful women with ugly personalities. We care about the future and looks are temporary
She's not even that attractive.
@@wades9327 my man that’s cap. Are you saying if she wanted to hit, you wouldn’t????
Make her wash her face and see if she is cute then.
@PJ Rivera 😂😂😂
@@sourceeee when all of her beauty can get tarnished by a wet wipe and a box of bagels, nah. She’s gotta be intelligent and have a personality.
I’m late af. Bro starting hitting Hulk Hogan poses 💀💀💀💀
Those poses and using her voice over yours was pretty solid lol.
“I’m not my types type” is the most profound statement I’ve heard regarding these relationship woes. It needs to be on billboards around the world to wake people up.
My girl is mexican and half the family is colombian, definitely not a hispanic thing but no man finna put up with that ego 😂
As a half Puerto Rican and half African, I come from a family that has attitude at the right time and place and get smacked when not to, definitely not putting up with that attitude
Facts
@@emmanuelkeister1643 Big facts
Her saying bro is the equivalent of the like like like girls you know
Yeah, she is either not her type’s type, looking for the “1%”, or it’s the personality issue. Cause if she has the looks, has her life together, cooks, cleans, then it gotta be the personality.
The whole bro thing is major turn off I think. Too masculine
@@babe8917 people pick up on the things peoe around them say, so you can guess the kind of people she's around a lot.
@@HotShot-qy1gx you are right and I am with you there. And people like different things but I can tell you as a straight woman I am not attracted to a feminine man and that doesn’t show in the way he looks, it shows in the way he talks and carries himself. She is beautiful and has a great body and I would guess her attitude and her masculine aura is what keeps the guys away.
I think her overall energy comes off a little bit aggressive. So my guess is that is something that majority of people will not vibe with. The second she came out I instantly disliked her, so yeah her energy is not good! If she wants a boyfriend she has to find someone matching that aggro energy first which isn't that hard, but those dudes are usually fuckboi losers/wannabe gangsters so...
@@zebnemma don't forget untitled. It's disgusting
"I'm not trying to sound egoistic!" Lady, you're doing a sh*t job of it! 🤣
😭😭😭😭 caught that too
She’s dumb as f*ck too because the word is “egotistical” not “egoistic”
@@alskarmode Egoistic is actually a work , as is egotistical.
@@wonderlandian8465 lol you messed up your grammar trying to correct someone else's
You can tell she’s joking though are guys purposely stupid or?
I've never understood the need to be with someone. Being social? Totally get that, but the need to be in a relationship is lost on me. Most people don't realise that if you concentrate on yourself, get out there, enjoy life and be a genuinely kind person, you're bound to meet someone. However most are operating on such a vapid level that they don't realise they're the ones putting out a "stay away" vibe.
I say this as someone who is extremely introverted, shy, socially awkward and can't flirt or banter for shit, and I was able to meet someone I'm extremely happy with and I wasn't "looking". I was quite happy with where I was, but I guess when you're energy is good, you attract good people. I dunno, I also talk a lot of shit sometimes too :)
Lovely true message. I'd add: Be the kind of person you want to be with, and the opportunity to be with that person will arise. If you are an honest, virtuous, responsible person, those kinds of people will come to you. And one of those people may be the one for you---a relationship will naturally happen. It takes patience; things happen in their own time.
Some people don't know how to be single.
If anyone reads this person's message, ignore them. They're probably a girl who doesn't understand males at all.
@@tubblestop414 What makes you say that? Curious to know
I totally agree! One of my quasi-best friends is exactly like that; she's always needing to be in a relationship to feel whole.
"I am not my type's type". I really felt that. I attract the polar opposite of myself, which I don't like. I wished I could meet someone who shares the values and vision that I have. But that is not what I attract. I don't give these men my time neither so it is no a: picking wrong partner scenario.
I just keep getting approached by wrong people.