Tim Minchin on his viral speech, quitting social media and being kind

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  • @Jojomac-ix7oi
    @Jojomac-ix7oi 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    I love it when this man speaks. My hearing-aids are turned up and I'm compelled to listen to every word. ❤😊

  • @stelladessoy
    @stelladessoy 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    Tim Minchin, you have been a personal hero of mine for so many years. Thank you for your intelligent insights and wisdom.

  • @rickparkinmoto
    @rickparkinmoto 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

    An extraordinary human being. Intelligent, ridiculously talented, solidly grounded and totally self-aware.

  • @jwvandegronden
    @jwvandegronden 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    What a gift to be able to watch this interview with this marvelous artist storyteller human being father. I am touched by his honesty, and his gentle soul... And he is absolutely right, 1000% and I know this is exactly opposite of what he was saying, but I'm so happy he did. Thank you Tim MInchin for sharing your thoughts, and being so humble increasing the value of your words tenfold. I shared this interview with my family to watch. Powerful stuff.

  • @nickbarton3191
    @nickbarton3191 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    Extraordinary chap, like him a lot.

  • @heartshapedisle
    @heartshapedisle 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    Is Tim saying Self Compassion is more important than Self Belief. YES. Way to go Tim.

  • @barkeraus
    @barkeraus 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    Can you arrange a very long discussion between Tim Minchin and Stephen Fry?
    They are my favourite free thinking humans on this planet and their ability to explain difficult topics and relate it back to the human condition is unparalleled. I would pay money to listen to them debate and discuss.

    • @nikiTricoteuse
      @nikiTricoteuse 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh my goodness. Imagine how wonderful that would be! Love them both.

    • @NeilTaylor1
      @NeilTaylor1 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      What would they debate? They'd just sit there agreeing with one another on pretty much any topic. Only thing I can think of they might disagree on is the monarchy, and I'm not sure Tim Minchin has very strong opinions on that.

    • @Neddoest
      @Neddoest วันที่ผ่านมา

      Also might disagree on Palestine.

    • @sewmad1400
      @sewmad1400 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Add Trevor Noah into that conversation and that would be one interesting dinner party.

  • @MichaelJohnField
    @MichaelJohnField 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I think the last time I listened to an interview with Tim, it might have been his previous interview with Krishnan Guru-Murthy. This was so wonderful to listen to, and a real antidote to some of the worst that is going on in the world at the moment. Thankyou for posting the interview.🙂

  • @jacquieklosch8840
    @jacquieklosch8840 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you for this lovely exchange! I hadn't heard either one of these gentlemen speak before. I am grateful I felt drawn to do so today. Kindest regards, Jacquie BC Canada

  • @Buoyed1
    @Buoyed1 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    The most important thinker of our age. In my humble opinion.

  • @LinMonash
    @LinMonash 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Gobsmacked to learn Tim is self taght on the piano {as well as everything else!}. Had assumed he had a classical concert pianist background! Even more impressed.
    As for working hard at things, to succeed, yes, but, Tim does have several natural advantages. Firstly, he has a creative and enquiring mind and is open to continuous learning.
    Second, he has a huge intellect and, more important than all of the rest; >
    Third, he has 'stickability'. The capacity to start, persevere and complete any task he sets his mind to - with total committment.
    Lot's of people have talent, of various kinds, but not the 'oomph' to carry it through. for various reasons.
    He is a great role model for going the unconventional route and being open to trying all kinds of new things. We never know what we are good at, or not, unless we try.
    Great to see him generously committing some time to being inspirational to others.

    • @prawncrisp5951
      @prawncrisp5951 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Such a compelling interview, and I really appreciate your comment.

  • @heartshapedisle
    @heartshapedisle 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    How have I never come across this channel before. Thank you TH-cam algorithm. Love Tim Minchin.

  • @LinMonash
    @LinMonash 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Tim's thoughts and conclusions about the damage that social media is doing to individuals and society,[ to how it is increasingly influencing; moulding & skewing the way we think and feel and judge - and therefore act - all driven my algorithms & profit ] are critically important for parents, educators and politicians to: digest, and to act upon.

  • @Bunter1815
    @Bunter1815 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Thank you TM, C4, KG-M. To TM my late son loved your work and would have enjoyed this interview.

  • @josephlammardo
    @josephlammardo 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    “Define yourself by what you love” 🙏TM

  • @devtank
    @devtank 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I've never heard of this person before this piece. However, he has managed to word that which has for my entire life, been unable to do.

    • @nikiTricoteuse
      @nikiTricoteuse 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      You're in for such a treat. He truly is multi faceted and extraordinarily talented. Matilda is great and if you like films, look for 'Upright' or if you want something shorter any of his gigs are amazing. 😊

    • @devtank
      @devtank 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@nikiTricoteuse Thank you much!

    • @nikiTricoteuse
      @nikiTricoteuse 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@devtank My pleasure. 😊

  • @royloveday4350
    @royloveday4350 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Love this man. I feel the same things. Sometimes i can do no more than bear witness. It's so hard.

  • @euchrideucrow1970
    @euchrideucrow1970 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    “Define yourself by what you love” - beautiful! Love Mr Minchin. ❤

  • @SarahO-bm7hp
    @SarahO-bm7hp 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Fantastic interview...so much good sense spoken ❤️

  • @pipsqueak2009
    @pipsqueak2009 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    What an interesting interview . I do prefer these more long form formats, where the guest is given the opportunity to unpack things without the pressure of time keeping

  • @DanielLaursen
    @DanielLaursen 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Thank you both for such a good interview.

  • @nikiTricoteuse
    @nikiTricoteuse 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you Tim, for a bit of a reality check and for speaking, as usual, an enormous amount of sense. 💞

  • @Cherrytune386
    @Cherrytune386 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Lovely human being ❤

  • @Tuber80
    @Tuber80 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Such a cool guy, love listening to him share his reflections on so many different topics.

  • @desleighdejonge
    @desleighdejonge 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Thank you for posting this insightful interview.

  • @AdamSuperAC
    @AdamSuperAC 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    a GOOd human being, inspiring top bloke. Great full to have seen and heard him. 👍😎👍

  • @littlelifeguides
    @littlelifeguides 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Oh, I've been waiting for this conversation. Thanks from Perth, Tim

  • @fangaroo
    @fangaroo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Wow Tim Minchin just entered my favourite people of all time list from that one interview

  • @lizzydorgan
    @lizzydorgan 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    perth / new zealand / aussie are way closer than what anyone realises!! 💜💚🖤❤️ such a great listen

  • @nine99-abcForUTube
    @nine99-abcForUTube 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The world is a far better place because of you, your influence extends well beyond those who you have met, entertained or worked with, it is the 2nd, 3rd & 4th degree of contact that have benefited from your direct contact with so many.

  • @heartensoul5582
    @heartensoul5582 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    ❤ I just love this man, I do and I am optimistic I keep seeing people who have something to say without being polarising. Young

  • @LeeOades
    @LeeOades 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I suppose TH-cam has recommended this to me because it knows I'd enjoy it. There's a sadness to think that there are so many people that would benefit greatly from Tim's words of gentle wisdom that will never be shown it by the algorithms.

  • @hakunkamminga3915
    @hakunkamminga3915 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What a beautiful person he is. Lead by example, he does.

  • @therainbowmachines
    @therainbowmachines 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Brilliant podcast! TY! Couldn’t agree more!!!!

  • @judithcooke6979
    @judithcooke6979 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks for this wonderful and thought-provoking interview.

  • @JediAvenger
    @JediAvenger วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Having watched Tim since his earliest gigs in the UK (250 seaters), his progression as a moral thinker for the world is a path I try to follow... And coming off the majority of social media is probably something I'll also do as a NY resolution.
    But not Bluesky, I'll stay there.

  • @glennewton7034
    @glennewton7034 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is the way forward because if you are nice to someone you disagree with it could eventually lead to dialogue which could lead to educating that person or better understanding why they have the views that they do.

  • @marcusplato278
    @marcusplato278 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I was privileged to play Berowne in Tim’s Love’s Labours Lost back in 1993, directed by the wonderful Jenny Davis OAM at Midnite Theatre Company, CCGS. 🎼 Oh mistress mine where are you roaming? 🎶

  • @r8chlletters
    @r8chlletters 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

    I think Tim, we can all be kind to one another (a broad term but for me this feels like civility, decency and the golden rule) while also not condoning or allowing the seeds of hate to grow. In my country a rapist will be president. It doesn’t matter how kind I am, people I know who have been raped have to try and weather this unimaginable outcome in what should be a modern democratic republic. Kindness is good for many things, we also must have a strong and steady course that does not allow truly bad people from dominating us.

    • @ravens-crypt
      @ravens-crypt 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Agreed

    • @benstutley2904
      @benstutley2904 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Do you consider 'Friends Close, Enemies Closer' a worthwhile tactic in the U.S in the coming 4 years?

    • @PaulLongley-h4k
      @PaulLongley-h4k 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I think that being kind has nothing to do with tolerating one's behaviour, no matter how narcistic or sociopathic as it may be. No one has to tolerate, except or "like" that behaviour!! I do think that being kind is about trying to understand where even the "worst" person is coming from, hearing their story and perhaps be willing to put aside our biases and automatic emotional responses which are so fed by the media and internet. Having said that, if anyone ever hurt my kids all my biases, love , energy, investment and compassion would surely kick in and I know exactly what I would at least want to do to such a perpetrator! Whether I did or would be another story 🤣🤣

    • @dianedevery2662
      @dianedevery2662 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am so sorry this thug will be your president. It's unforgivable and hard to believe so many people are fooled.

  • @triskaye
    @triskaye 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Ground hog day is the best musical I’ve ever seen. Still listen to the last track. Don’t give up Tim!

    • @triskaye
      @triskaye 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      And the “something something quantum quantum” is a real fav too

  • @sarah2go
    @sarah2go 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I also don’t listen to the news, but I’d listen to Tim Minchin any time

  • @stuporman75
    @stuporman75 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    An amazing interview, thank you for producing it.

  • @bibianaogando
    @bibianaogando 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Impeccable!

  • @johnmeehan1124
    @johnmeehan1124 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Go Tim! Brilliant man!!!

  • @belkentens
    @belkentens 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Krishnan’s wearing trainers so I know this is gonna be a cool, laid back chilled sort of vibe

    • @TesterAnimal1
      @TesterAnimal1 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Definitely podcast wear, not Channel Four News wear.

  • @SandraT1107
    @SandraT1107 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    A peek under the bonnet shows us that social media makes money by baiting us to fall out. Best thing we can do is step away 🤷

  • @schiz0phren1c
    @schiz0phren1c ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    the only thing I'd be shouting at you is MORE!, Mr Minchin!, as a target of Ginger racism(lol) I love all your work, I would imagine there would be things we would disagree about, but an argument in its original form is always a life changing thing...keep up the fantastic work with your fantastic group of family and friends sir!

  • @stephenreed2093
    @stephenreed2093 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve heard of this guy, but never actually seen his work or heard him speak. By watching this, I have discovered that we think very similarly.

  • @maramé.r
    @maramé.r 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    As a ‘straight white’ older man I find myself drifting ever more to the left than I already was though increasingly irritated with the radical left (as much as the far right) which now seems to represent something almost alien to socialist perspectives and often insufficiently informed on geopolitics and history. I find myself agreeing with so much Tim Minchin is saying as he articulates well ideas I’ve long held. Promoting positive narratives is surely the only way we’ll achieve any harmony in human society and address environmental crises also

    • @TesterAnimal1
      @TesterAnimal1 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Same.
      Old git here who is bucking the trend by moving leftwards.
      All of which makes me despair because the world is descending into cannibalistic rightism.

    • @BoyeeSmudger
      @BoyeeSmudger 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's not left vs right. It's ultra powerful corporations and their oligarchs vs us plebs, the people.

  • @MarkCamilleri
    @MarkCamilleri 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Such an amazing human being

  • @jjjccc728
    @jjjccc728 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The "be kind" map offers a valuable starting point for navigating the complexities of ethical behavior. However, its effectiveness is contingent on recognizing the limitations and nuances of the territory. A more effective approach involves:

    Contextualizing Kindness: Considering the specific situation, power dynamics, and potential harm involved in each interaction.

    Balancing Kindness with Other Ethical Values: Recognizing that kindness is not the only moral principle and may need to be balanced with values like justice, accountability, and self-respect.

    Prioritizing Self-Care and Boundaries: Acknowledging that engaging with challenging viewpoints can be emotionally taxing and requires setting boundaries to protect one's well-being.
    By acknowledging these complexities, individuals can utilize the "be kind" map as a foundation for ethical behavior while navigating the territory with greater awareness and sensitivity.

    • @kyoglesage
      @kyoglesage วันที่ผ่านมา

      I try, often, to be kind.
      There is one ideology, rampant ATM, that *demands* I be kind.
      I will not.
      I know too much.
      I'm far too kind to be kind to that mob.

    • @DeWo-m6q
      @DeWo-m6q วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thus proving that kindness takes effort because you have to engage your brain, wilfully.

  • @daverich3352
    @daverich3352 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    We'll look back on this era of social media as if it was some huge inadvertent social experiment. Yet we all seem to buy into it.

  • @Khwerz
    @Khwerz 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It's unneeded pressure, goals, your goal should be to be kind and to be happy, and with that you can focus on your job as well. but all you got to be is focused.

  • @MsDamosmum
    @MsDamosmum 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow Tim, that is fantastic, I like you even more now 🥰

  • @johnfarley4201
    @johnfarley4201 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Of course always be kind. Always good to talk and listen to others views.

  • @rainmanjr2007
    @rainmanjr2007 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dalai Lama says, "Being kind is sometimes hard. Be kind, anyway." If we succeed at that only half the time then our spirit is lifted half the time.

  • @OhDearOhDear69
    @OhDearOhDear69 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He is absolutely right! I gave up social media early in during the covid lockdown in 2020, best choice I ever made.

  • @mollypenwhistle2274
    @mollypenwhistle2274 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thought provoking Thanks

  • @roguetrufflepig
    @roguetrufflepig วันที่ผ่านมา

    I question myself all the time. It's important in understanding yourself. We don't always have to be right and sometimes we get it completely wrong. And that's fine. It's human.

  • @RedOnItEE
    @RedOnItEE 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    good podcast. ignore the bots

  • @blaaaaahhhh15
    @blaaaaahhhh15 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He’s so right about SM.

  • @whatbringsmepeace
    @whatbringsmepeace 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I really rebel against the idea that we all have to be informed and have opinions. Why? We can't possibly know everything that's happening on the planet so how do we choose what to be informed about? I gave up on television and social media decades ago. I am entertained and occasionally informed by what _I_ choose on TH-cam, but otherwise I just get on with my life. My parents and grandparents had perfectly happy lives with little or no input from the so called "news" (which is often untrue). I'm happily and peacefully existing without it too. If someone asks what I think about a topic, I just say "I have no opinion about that" and they leave me alone. Mostly 😊. I think if you're lucky enough to be born into a peaceful happy life, why fill it with angst. That does nothing to help the people genuinely suffering.

  • @AussieTVMusic
    @AussieTVMusic 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I reckon people would have the same opinions and beliefs if they were on social media or not. People just attract the very things that go on in their minds whether it's online or out in the world. Having said that less time online is better for you.

  • @daniellowe75
    @daniellowe75 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tim Minchin fascinates me.

  • @janwallace5005
    @janwallace5005 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love this man 😁

  • @aaronmcdade3075
    @aaronmcdade3075 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for your thought provoking views. I will try and fail but still try.

  • @mooxim
    @mooxim 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    God I missed Tim. He's got such a brain and he's so fucking eloquent wit it.

  • @camerondeans9056
    @camerondeans9056 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I don't think we're bad at long-term thinking at all. It just requires co-ordination and personal trade-offs, and no one wants to be first to sacrifice

  • @milliej868
    @milliej868 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Brilliant .. ❤

  • @adentroelviento
    @adentroelviento 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tim always in my team

  • @oakfieldfarm4131
    @oakfieldfarm4131 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How lovely ☺️

  • @luminair11
    @luminair11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ABC RN radio in Australia has hourly 5 minute news broadcasts which is more than enough for me, otherwise it's just too distressing for me......and I don't feel guilty about that folks!

  • @Helenfromeugowra
    @Helenfromeugowra 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Ditto Tim. I have reverted to pre-internet life.

  • @CoiaItaly
    @CoiaItaly 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So so true

  • @paulgibbons2320
    @paulgibbons2320 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's no coincidence that the kindest people are the poorest.

  • @Jay-Hebs
    @Jay-Hebs 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love you Tim

  • @adamthorntonillustration9281
    @adamthorntonillustration9281 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    First proper chuckle from this one was at 2:24 Just finished discussing how Tim's un-pigeonholeable - screen caption 'Comedian and musician' 😆

  • @katestephens4258
    @katestephens4258 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤ Tim ❤

  • @buddyhek
    @buddyhek 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    To most older folks this is all too obvious, but its good to hear younger people realise that the “modern” way is not really so wonderful…..just saying, as someone whose had his three score and ten.

  • @kasturiswami784
    @kasturiswami784 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Agree with him. Tyere is a daying in tamil which says,two hands are needed to clap. If one person is abusive and the abused does not react,that act ends there. An eye for an eye makes everyone blind. We have so much hatred and violence in this world. Is it that difficult not to be violent and full of hatred?

  • @maggieadams8600
    @maggieadams8600 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    How can it be a kindness to not see genocidfe, or to recognise the injustce? That's where I struggle with this philosophy.

    • @jimatsydney
      @jimatsydney 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      I think you may have missed his point, what I thought he was saying is if you ‘see’ the genocide and that seeing makes you a less kind and compassionate person to the people around you, what benefit has it been. Two wrongs don’t make a right. If it lead you to loving and protecting others, donating to causes which promote compassion and justice which in turn works against the racist attitudes which causes genocide, you have turned that ‘seeing’ into good. That’s what Tim is getting at. Many of the word/video bites (on social media) do not lead to critical thinking about complex issues which in turn to positive actions. They are designed to inflame indignations and partisan biases, leading to destructive actions against others and yourself.

  • @ivanb52
    @ivanb52 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not on the "other" social media, but pleased the algorithm threw this one at me.
    Maybe I am not such a bad person ....

    • @krazed0451
      @krazed0451 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Nice to be reminded occasionally, isn't it? ;-)

  • @mailill
    @mailill 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, I have had the same thoughts about the bad consequences of our species starting with farming (militarized societies and huge wars are among them), and I've never heard anyone else saying that - or if I have, they have only spoken about bad health consequences of starting to eat a lot of grains and starch. Yet, if we hadn't started farming, I guess we would probably not even have books. Farming made modern civilization possible, good and bad.

  • @carlosgravil3325
    @carlosgravil3325 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    unusually nice guy.

  • @StarshipToMars
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  • @DJWHITE_
    @DJWHITE_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    24:46 Required watching.

  • @marionjoy9475
    @marionjoy9475 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @DisobedientSpaceWhale
    @DisobedientSpaceWhale 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    His 'Song for Phil Daoust' wasn't particularly nice or kind.....

    • @stevieweevyC
      @stevieweevyC 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Phil deserves it. He took Tim away from me for years! Phil ruined Tim. TIM came back

  • @janwallace5005
    @janwallace5005 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Pro Humanity is a good start and realising that we all want the same things, we all want to be loved, be fed and a roof over our head. We have allowed politics and religion to divide us, some have mislaid their humanity so it's up to the rest of us to help them find it.

  • @roxee57
    @roxee57 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A wise man.

  • @Zipniltheoriginal
    @Zipniltheoriginal 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks Tim. Keep being you.

  • @stevieweevyC
    @stevieweevyC 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Funny cos even his flop movie was why i watched it and Tim didn't fail me. Its why i still write!

  • @SandraT1107
    @SandraT1107 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Young Tim is finally maturing 😊

    • @Harrasment
      @Harrasment 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We could also be maturing (finally) enough to understand him more....I kind of feel he was always there, waiting for us to catch up. 🙃

    • @SandraT1107
      @SandraT1107 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Speak for yourself 😀

    • @Harrasment
      @Harrasment วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@SandraT1107 I guess that's a valid reply, and I thank you for it....I will try to put my thoughts a different way.
      I know (with respect to my own feelings) that there was a time when I lapped up Tim's hate speech for bigots like Tony Abbott and George Pell..he put into words what I felt about the effect those people and others like them had on people who deserved a better life than they were experiencing as a consequence of situations over which they had no Earthly control.
      What I have since come to realise is that holding that hate in one's heart is a recipe for burning up the cells-that-matter in one's body, to the point that one's own abilities to care for those people and things that DO matter around us can be markedly impaired, let alone this situation acting as a catalyst for also breeding more of those consuming thoughts on a day-by-day basis....this, I found, has a tendency to overshadow a whole lot of good stuff that is still out there in the World.
      In the same breath, I also realise that the way the World seems to be currently evolving is avidly promoting the recognition of 'hate' as the first response to a lot of things that (A) really matter..and.. (B) at the same time saps our energies to deal with and support those things that could help us live a better life, not only for ourselves, but also for the people and things that we love and cherish for the 'good stuff' they give openly to us and others by just 'being there'.
      As a consequence I have also openly backed away from the Hate Hype that persists on ALL types of media.
      There have been in the past a number of times when I have gone out of my way to see Tim perform live...the person I was at the time allowed me to appreciate what he was doing at then ...the person that I am now, appreciates what he is saying and thinking because I know that I too have changed in the way that I view the World, and the way that it allows me to love and appreciate it for what it is, not what I think I can do with and to it.
      I hope that better clarifies what I was attempting to say in the first place...sometimes my 76-year-old thoughts don't come out quite the way I intended in the first place...no disrespect was meant to you or anyone else.

    • @SandraT1107
      @SandraT1107 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for your thoughtful reply. No offence taken. Back in 2004 I learned a hard lesson. I couldn't change a person causing me very serious distress, but I could change the way that I dealt with the situation, including praying for my tormentor (but not only that). Over time my tormentor improved for the better. I had to learn to let go of my hurt. It was a hard lesson but changed me for the better. Hence my "speak for yourself" - meant light heated x

    • @sewmad1400
      @sewmad1400 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you both of you for this beautiful example of an open and kind exchange that doesn’t resort to defensiveness and doubling down. You are both examples of a growth mindset that acknowledges that we all grow, mature, and change over our lifetime and that, as long as we acknowledge when we have hurt others and endeavored to change our behaviour as a result, then none of us should be judged by what we said/did/thought when we were younger but, rather, than on the person I am now.

  • @lizzydorgan
    @lizzydorgan 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💖💖💖💖

  • @matthewevans107
    @matthewevans107 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    What’s up with stand-up comedians who get paid to get up on stage and decide in and out groups via public mocking going on TV complaining about people using a social media platform to decide in and out groups via public mocking?

  • @josephlammardo
    @josephlammardo 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    TM 🙏👍

  • @stevieweevyC
    @stevieweevyC 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tim. YOUR MINE! Love you

    • @daniellamcgee4251
      @daniellamcgee4251 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      *you're will probably impress him more. 😊

    • @stevieweevyC
      @stevieweevyC 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @daniellamcgee4251 thank u for liking me!

    • @daniellamcgee4251
      @daniellamcgee4251 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@stevieweevyC You're welcome. 😁

    • @daniellamcgee4251
      @daniellamcgee4251 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@stevieweevyC You're welcome. ✨️ 😊

  • @iainmackenzieUK
    @iainmackenzieUK 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    e are not always able to access our capacity to be kind
    so at least we might try not to be unkind. This, in itself, would make a big difference.
    Love thy neighbour? Its a high bar. At least: commit to doing no harm.

  • @daniellamcgee4251
    @daniellamcgee4251 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    *solipsistic is the word intended, I think, rather than narcissistic. 24:44

  • @timdownunder
    @timdownunder 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    18.00 -> Metacognitive overdrive An “Aha” moment.