I Dont Believe In Celibacy! | Exposing The Lies | Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo

In a world where celibacy often takes the spotlight, it's time to challenge the status quo and dive deep into why sexual purity is the superior choice.
Join me for an enlightening discussion that breaks down misconceptions and explores the empowering benefits of prioritizing sexual purity over celibacy through scripture.
In this eye-opening video, we dismantle stereotypes and unpack the real essence of sexual purity, highlighting its potential to enhance relationships, self-esteem, and overall well-being. From fostering genuine connections to embracing one's desires with integrity, we'll explore how sexual purity offers a more holistic approach to intimacy and fulfillment in life and in God. #kingdommarriage #sexualpurity #christiancounselor #christiantherapist #marriagecoach #datingexpert #datingadvice
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[@god563616]

We can do all things through Christ who gives us strength 🙏 I have been abstaining from ex 10+ years with no type of foreplay and I firmly believe abstaining from ex outside of marriage, cleaning up your spirit man through the Word and renewing your mind is key to exual purity and only GOD himself can help a human do this discipline.

[@francisca27]

Very true 👍

[@mmesomaenekwenchi577]

Wow

[@user-vl5xg5pn3t]

Celibacy is Human standard dependent on personal will while sexual purity is God's standard and dependent on God.

[@ademikanludamilola]

Only if i got to see this few days ago😢.
I thank God I'm back on track.
My spirit, body and soul is for Jesus.

[@theodoreebikhumi8465]

Sexual purity and not celibacy is the goal.🥳

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

Sexual purity is important. We need to endorse this standard, and not listen to what culture tells us. This is so good. PK's messages dont miss

[@maggieblonde6902]

Celibacy is a trick word of the enemy....not scriptural at all.

[@marymwinga5082]

Well taught. Saved for future.

[@user-gj7lr5no7z]

Thank you for this understanding 🙏🏻❤️

[@ochuonyeke9087]

So much light. Thank you pastor K

[@lizzysmith7653]

So powerful and such clarity ❤

[@elizabethfrimponmaabaah9405]

I love love love this! And I'm proud of me! 🎉❤

[@ritakane2010]

Well done Sir, more grace 🙏

[@peacebalogun6701]

Thank you Jesus for using your son to remind of the more reasons i have to keep it up.
Pure to God's standard

[@lebzaladyl1107]

So wholesome, so deep , so eye opening... God , thank you for helping us to do this right

[@giftrizik9693]

"A fornicator is an adulterer in training" 😂😂😂😂 that got me 😂😂

[@stormship1647]

Pastor …salute …more of this please….He went in ..great stuff!!!

[@juliamae46]

He is speaking the truth.

[@thoughtsbyirene]

Very well spelt out sir, it's perfectly clear

[@rccgwinnersparish638]

There's nothing as good as listening to the truth of God's word. God bless you eternally Pastor K.

[@susandanielkareem]

So many great lessons! Thank you, PK

[@HisPrincess_]

Can’t wait for this one since it’s is controversial. Especially the difference between celibacy and abstinence

[@lyndahndiwa703]

Thank you for the clarifications on this particular topic. We are called to a life of total purity.

[@FionaBeck]

Thank you dr. Kingsley🍎 This teaching was very helpful🤩

[@nelliediemo]

wow, wow, wow! Knowledge is power! Glory to God! Thank you sir!

[@kashopatishikongo3110]

This has really been educational for me. Thank you.

[@patiencelog2766]

God bless you Pastor K for this amazing teaching with such great insight

[@angelamartekimarkwei8608]

Thanks. This is the best teaching I have heard on sexual purity.

[@isiomacharles-wx5vy]

This word is so timely. Thank you Pastor K

[@WealthPower07]

Thank you PK. This video blessed me in no small way. You really brought me to a new level of understanding.

[@user-ru2vy8cy8b]

This came at the right time. Thank you sir

[@ufuomaidebe8904]

God thought it important for me to hear this... I am thankful 🙏🏿

[@ifektivenigerian1532]

I was truly blessed by this sir!
Thanks so much 🙏🏽

[@grace-or3vm]

This teaching was so impactful 🙏🏾

[@HisPrincess_]

Whew so many things unpacked regarding this topic 😭. These are the type of teachings we need especially as the youth, shuuuu. Thank you Pastor K

[@janetchiwetelu3939]

This is a very helpful piece Sir. For any believe who wants to be free from societal pressure or sexual struggles, they need to listen to this to gain a very deep understanding on how to view sex. This would in turn dictate our predispositions to sexual acts.... May God help us to be steadfast even as the world is currently pushing into the church

[@mudiavincent]

Wow, when you hear the standard of Righteousness and it is broken down for you without and argument left untouched. More grace to us all

[@Jhumie_inspires]

Thank you P.K

[@shalomoke_]

It is possible, I am a living testimony.

[@peacefulindulgence3014]

Too much wisdom ❤... Thank youuu sirrrrrr

[@sarahkyobutungi4689]

It’s like he was speaking directly to me🥺… thank you so much Pastor Kingsley 🙏

[@maryglorysalala6216]

Thank you, Pastor
Eye opening

[@joycejoe620]

Thank you pastor PK for this wonderful teaching. I pray God keep you to keep spreading his pure word of truth.😊

[@masilelacalsile9056]

The Caption" I don't believe in Celibacy" got my attention because I've been Celibate for some years... I think because of being sexually active before that's where the term" Celibacy" . A journey to Purity of Soul...body and Spirit because pre-marital Sex stains our Souls...body and Spirit. Purity of every formed is expected of us as Christians...cos one can be a Physical Virgin but impure in their souls...body and Spirit.

[@hopebirungi994]

Very very true

[@profitfromsocials5228]

They forgot that some were previously married and are now single.

[@ruthloveakuoko5006]

😊😊

[@milliecharisma]

I had to hear this

[@ImaivanSandra-sw7nz]

God bless you, sir.

[@OnyinyechiNwankwo-jj5tq]

Awesome !

[@raymondonyekachiudo3645]

Thank you Doc, this blessed me.

[@ernestinagawu904]

I have a better understanding of this topic... very helpful. God bless you Paster Kingsley

[@preciousmulenga2230]

Thank you Pastor K for this powerful insight 💯 thank for being frank and not beating around the bush and thank you for obeying the holy spirit and speaking the undiluted word👏👏👏👏

[@bihbabara5408]

Thank you so much Pastor K❤

[@erimsnissi6228]

Thank you so much daddy 🙏🏻❤️

[@gloriadarko3082]

Thank you Pas.King🙏

[@goldebubechi616]

Thank you Pastor Kingsley for this video on Celibacy. Honestly, what I thought celibacy is, is much similar to my thoughts but with a much better insight and also why sexual purity is not negotiable.
God bless you sir, God bless you ma, for blessing our generation 🙌👏🏼

[@ritakane2010]

Yes PK...

[@qqqwwwww8284]

Thank you pastor K

[@_IDWI_]

I have been helped. Thank God 🙌🏿 and thank you sir 🙏🏿

[@victorbakare6055]

Thank you for this sir.

[@marychukwutv]

Thank you sir this is quite insightful

[@obianujueya3862]

God bless you, Sir

[@temilolaakpeakinsulire5609]

Very very well said sir

[@sarahbaks]

Thank you so much Pastor K for this topic. Truly timely and accurate. It is very important for our spirit, soul, and body to be pure.

[@tapwriterscommunity]

This really blessed me. God bless you sir

[@chiomaogbu3181]

Thank you sir. You have answered the questions I was asking the Holyspirit when he told me what he want is purity. God bless you sir.

[@bolavictory8171]

Thank you very much Dear Pastor Sir 🤝🩵

[@lwanelemathebula461]

This is so good🔥🔥

[@michaeldavid8564]

Thank you Pastor

[@uniqueaugusta8910]

You are absolutely right sir

[@ruthifeoluwadavid3577]

Wow! I have a better understanding now. I called to abstain from all uncleanness.

[@chineduogbonnaya465]

Thank you so much pastor K. God bless you Sir❤

[@chukschinedu695]

Thank you PK
God bless you .. Haa!
We unlearn to relearn

[@emmanuelsamuel2283]

This is accurate.
Thank you pst

[@LynEze]

My takeout from this video:
The difference between celibacy and sexual purity:
1. Celibacy is usually an act of your will, while sexual purity is in honour and in obedience to God's standard.
2. When celibacy is dependent on your own will but sexual purity is when we believe in God to give us strength to remain pure.
3. Celibacy is a burden and a weight while sexual purity is worship before the lord. Rm 12. We are happy to present our body to the lord because we are living sacrifices.
4. Celibacy focuses on the unmarried, but sexual purity focuses on everybody.
5. Celibacy is talking about only sexual intercourse but sexual purity, the person is keeping their heart, mind, soul and body. We shouldn't have unholy thoughts. Kissing, sexual thoughts, masturbation, pornograpgy, kissing, any sexual activity outside the Holy matrimony of marriage.
6. Celibacy is usually time-bound but sexual purity is for life.
Sexual purity is from the word of God and prayer. The intend of the heart matters with sexual purity.
7. Celibacy usually goes with an indisciplined mind while sexual purity comes with a disciplined mind which covers our morals towards honesty, gluttony, stewardship, sanctification etc
Sexual purity is based on conviction
Celibacy is based on convenience
How to remain sexually pure:
1. Studying the word Hebrews 1:6
2. A life of prayer/personal devotion.
3. The association you keep
4. The things you are consuming. Movies, books, social media posts etc. Guard your heart with all diligence

[@fearfullymadegem1265]

Thanks for writing this out 🙏❤

[@itzlaetitia5161]

Many thanks for watching and writing.

[@hannahagbor3329]

Thank you for doing this summary🎉🎉🎉

[@nancychi6300]

Christianity and so many explanations. Which one is sexual purity being different from celibacy again.

[@aliciapena-tipene8649]

Thank you Pastor 🙌

[@patiencesika-ameyeye4468]

Remain blessed Man of God. I pray over my heard this kind of grace that will enable me to understand, apply and explain the scriptures aw you do in Jesus' name.

[@mawuenabenedictaaborchie8421]

I’m so blessed❤

[@reabetsweleshaba8525]

Shuuu this is a very hard pill for me to swallow

[@kamimaduka7339]

Thank you PK. This is so insightful and helps in dismantling the lies of the enemy blinding us to this sin.

[@asombapromise9671]

Thank you sir

[@francisca27]

Thank you sir, i really learn alot from this video

[@ogbonnauchechukwu-ut9eg]

Thanks for the lessons pastor..
❤️‍🩹

[@maryglorysalala6216]

I have come just to remind myself

[@sonofdodong]

Thank you papa

[@damseldamsel4200]

Thank you sir🙏

[@LifewithBharbie]

Can’t wait🥳🥳🥳

[@sundayojogbane2200]

For?

[@immanueleze2211]

Beautiful

[@giftpalemo]

"Every part of it is IT" 😂🎉

[@ebereeke2967]

Profound

[@pharmclare]

Sexual purity is definitely different from celibacy. Welldone

[@reign9211]

This is sound teaching and it talked to me directly!! Initially there wasn't any form of kissing in my relationship, but later down the line, we got involved. I won't lie, it damped my spirit a bit. I did browse to see if it was explicitly mentioned in the bible not to do it. It wasn't but now I know better, and I pray for grace to abstain from it.
But @pastorKingsley during your time dating, how did you cope with this?
Were there temptations? How long was the dating process? Not even a light peck? I need your advice and strength here. How do one convince their partner to also abstain? Mind you, I and my partner are both lovers of God.
I love your teachings, I am a big fan,but anytime I hear this version of your teaching I do have these above questions.
I hope you see this and respond 🙏😅

[@kayodeglory1934]

I hope he sees this and responds too🙏🏾

[@vivianudeh4513]

Hi, from my own opinion I think setting boundaries works, for example if you feel like it’s when you and your partner are alone that’s when you’re tempted to kiss then ensure you guys are never alone.
Also I think another thing that would work is not courting for too long… This would really work. I mean the reason why you are courting your partner if it’s a “Kingdom Relationship” is for marriage and you have probably taken the relationship to God.
I am personally not
into big weddings, so if the case is that you don’t have enough funds for the wedding, you can do something really intimate with family and close friends (once you get an approval from God) you can also hold a wedding afterwards if you want to or you desire to.
Also prayer, pray with your partner about your desires. Both of you should take it to God whenever there is that desire or even before it comes and you will find the Holyspirit convicting you.
Lastly, get someone who you both respect (Christian leader) that can hold you accountable. I believe this would also help as they will be able to give you both Godly counsel and help you through the process.
I hope this helps.

[@HisPrincess_]

May you please make a video of personal alters etc ?🙏🏽

[@obianujueya3862]

True woeds

[@positivesoul.9490]

I took it personally 😅... Sooooo personally!

[@drevamphousebysunrise5871]

Thank you so much P Kay. Just thank you

[@kayodeglory1934]

Sexual purity is not time bound, it is a lifestyle and it transcends being single.

[@ritakane2010]

1 Corinthians 6 vs 13

[@MSongs27]

Can we have a linn with all the sister chanels please. I'd love to check them out.😊
Thank you

[@temitopeogunremi6781]

I thought it was meant to start at 6pm

[@SHart-ks9jf]

Wow! 😮

[@LilianDapian]

Amen

[@maggieblonde6902]

Volume please