13:50 Ironically, given how manipulative they can be, Narcissists are often pretty easy to manipulate, because so long as you can stoke their ego they'll ignore every red flag imaginable.
Yeah, it's hard but they can be manipulated as long as you can understand where to stroke their ego. But obviously honest, simple and open people find it hard.
@@adya7958 That's why it's not uncommon for Narcissists to end up in co-dependent relationships with other Narcissists, again ironically, given how much they need to be the centre of attention.
@Eden_Laika Yeah, their partner is always either a doormat with low self esteem (someone with a broken childhood and abusive past) OR another full blown narcissist. There is no in between. Like never.
My heart seriously hurts for OP, when OP goes no contact with/disappear on her mother, she'll move to another town, farther away, find solace with/marry a new guy (OP broke up with her 1st boyfriend) who controls and abuses her, mentally, emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point of putting her in the hospital, traps her, and threatens to un-alive her, if she tries to break up with him, then, flee to another state with the help of cops and DV social workers (because she's scared that her husband and mother will take her baby away from her), and stay at a women's shelter, 4th, she'll stay with a third beau who scams her, and throws her out with another kid on the way,
I have my great-grandma's "marriage" ring (they were never legally married, cause cost and travle to get to the capitol was near impossible in the country they were in) and that 100% would also be my hikl to die on too.
That's exactly what I was thinking...he literally told her she should have put the cat down and yet, she STILL left it in the same house as him and her irresponsible mother? Some people just want disasters to happen.
13:50 Ironically, given how manipulative they can be, Narcissists are often pretty easy to manipulate, because so long as you can stoke their ego they'll ignore every red flag imaginable.
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Yeah, it's hard but they can be manipulated as long as you can understand where to stroke their ego. But obviously honest, simple and open people find it hard.
@@adya7958 That's why it's not uncommon for Narcissists to end up in co-dependent relationships with other Narcissists, again ironically, given how much they need to be the centre of attention.
@Eden_Laika Yeah, their partner is always either a doormat with low self esteem (someone with a broken childhood and abusive past) OR another full blown narcissist. There is no in between. Like never.
My heart seriously hurts for OP, when OP goes no contact with/disappear on her mother, she'll move to another town, farther away, find solace with/marry a new guy (OP broke up with her 1st boyfriend) who controls and abuses her, mentally, emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point of putting her in the hospital, traps her, and threatens to un-alive her, if she tries to break up with him, then, flee to another state with the help of cops and DV social workers (because she's scared that her husband and mother will take her baby away from her), and stay at a women's shelter, 4th, she'll stay with a third beau who scams her, and throws her out with another kid on the way,
S1 Thank god op got out. I don't trust him. If he was innapropriate towards her I can see that mother going "you're stealing my maaan😭😡"
I have my great-grandma's "marriage" ring (they were never legally married, cause cost and travle to get to the capitol was near impossible in the country they were in) and that 100% would also be my hikl to die on too.
Dude straight out of jail
Left the cat with a person with an animal cruelty charge?
That's exactly what I was thinking...he literally told her she should have put the cat down and yet, she STILL left it in the same house as him and her irresponsible mother? Some people just want disasters to happen.
'what family'.. there is no family. hope the kitty will be ok but I doubt it.
Same, the bf is gonna have it killed and mom will blame op
So checked account and the catscare "technically" the mom's
Story 1: Wow, this situation is so relatable it's scary. I dealt with a nearly identical situation.
Op in post 2 is a sucker
S2 lol 😂😂😂
So mom is one of those women
Is he 50 or 46 wtf?
Story 2 is hilarious that’s what you get
Narcissist calling mom a Narcissist. Imagine going theu life always being right.. always being the victim... no matter what.
Ladies... just so ya know... from me to you .. hypocrisy is a bad look. And narcissism is worse.. if you have both like this lady.... Good luck.
However
... to the good ladies... the really great ones... yall make life worth living.
Bro, are you the boyfriend? 😂