Setting Boundaries with Toxic People | Sonia Choquette

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  • @sannajohanna5579
    @sannajohanna5579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    ”Never work harder for them than they are ready to work themselves!” 👍🏻

    • @ktbiwk
      @ktbiwk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙏💯🤗 I'd also like to add(+) You don't want to steal their lessons, by taking away their suffering i.e., by solving the problems for them. Don't try to give anyone an answer, just listen with encouragement.💞

  • @sannajohanna5579
    @sannajohanna5579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love my workmates that I have now. There is a rule made by us: ”On Fridays, complaining is forbidden.” I have the most wonderful workmates now. It was not always so… I was in a very dark place, but I did cord cutting meditations, tried to focus on better feelings (but not denying the reality) and took actions to change myself, not trying to teach them anything.
    Well, I succeeded. Things are not perfect but, compared to the past, I can say that everything is imperfectly well! 😁

  • @giftsofmusic1
    @giftsofmusic1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you. I have two "friends" that fit in this category. I always shake my head as they DUMP on me then say, "WOW, I feel so much better." Did not know how to get out of this cycle. The boundary is drawn.

  • @Simon0
    @Simon0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've had to learn it's not my job to save everyone I meet! It's time to take care of myself 😛

  • @enoujenou218
    @enoujenou218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After the death of someone who needed you ,regret is all what stays, especially if you were minding your own Business. Sometimes poeple need truely some help or "ampath's energy" and true ampaths can't get over the feeling of regret (of not helping when it was needed).

  • @connectingtothyself
    @connectingtothyself ปีที่แล้ว

    When you mention to turn from the karmic and cross my chess I said to myself I read that in a book and looked at your man's name and said "Oh Crap I have her book.
    I still have to finish but I'm still proud I made it to 100 its been years and years since I picked up a book. You are so special and tell your guides thank you

  • @KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching
    @KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching ปีที่แล้ว

    This does work. When I stopped fixing, rescuing and then minding my own business which was extremely challenging for me, my life got better and more peaceful.

  • @tobes911
    @tobes911 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so great. I love that part about people who are assaulting us with their toxic energy. I have that problem with a new next door neighbor. I had to have the management ask her to mind her own business and cut all contact with me as she was assaulting me with her toxic energy since she moved in about two weeks ago. Every time I would go out on my porch to water my plants etc she shot out the front door to smoke a cig and start assaulting me with her toxic energy. It was a joke. I literally couldn't handle it. I told her to stay off of my porch.
    I love the part that you said, "When you're ready, I know that you will work it out." After I said that and that I was going to mind my own business, he told me that he needed his space. LOL I was robbed and I haven't heard from him since. I do love that person, but he does need to work it out. *Thank you. I gotta save this one, and listen to it on a regular basis. Lots of Love and Light to you Sonia:)

  • @crystalcompass368
    @crystalcompass368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I Thank god your here everyday Sonia🥰💜🙏It Sooo works, not easy with family but so important to chose YOU! Hang in there everyone! Blessings! Bisou Sonia!😘

  • @victoriahamilton400
    @victoriahamilton400 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are absolutely amazing Sonia. Thank you for all the amazing books and this channel. You have really helped me get myself out of a dark place. I listen to you, Wayne Dyer and Louise Hay on Audible and no matter how many times I've listened to the same books over and over I absolutely always continue to learn new things and continue to grow. You have no idea what a blessing you are to so many of us. Well maybe you do since your a medium 😆

  • @Simon0
    @Simon0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sonia this video was brilliant! I felt like you were in my head. I'll be putting all this into practice. 👍👍

  • @loristromski1334
    @loristromski1334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Grateful for this 🙏 🙌 💓 I am a recovering healing at the pace that the universe is leading me to .

  • @omnificent15
    @omnificent15 ปีที่แล้ว

    💙✨✨
    Toxic people
    Talk sick people..

  • @SuzanneG-k9h
    @SuzanneG-k9h 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It felt like you knew what I was going through, and was speaking to me. I just can't believe how everything you said helped me so much. I have been watching all your videos, thank you for healer that you are. I love how beautifully you explain things.

  • @nativechique7589
    @nativechique7589 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I'm back. Two toxic guys I let in and I had to dig deep to end things. However I feel I became toxic reactions as well. I'm using your cutting cords with toxic relationships tools as well. The bubble of light so they can they in helps. And freezing their name in a cup of water helps.

  • @andreavb9277
    @andreavb9277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So true, consistently fill your life with the truly nurturing things that you love, even in baby steps

  • @nativechique7589
    @nativechique7589 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's been a couple weeks and I'm getting back into my own body and thinking of him less and less. I had a day where I blocked his social media which of course I looked at his and what I saw brought up pain n things I recall he did that hurt me. So this vid is needed. Thank u so much I love it vids

  • @nativechique7589
    @nativechique7589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could really use this right now. Looking forward to this vid

  • @pamelaotoole7588
    @pamelaotoole7588 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this great advice and many many angel blessings sent to you 🙏

  • @lynwilson4773
    @lynwilson4773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Sonia!👍🙏💜🦁

  • @drbrandykaye
    @drbrandykaye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fabulous Sonia! Be neutral and mind your own business! ❤️‍🩹💪

  • @danaceleste-777
    @danaceleste-777 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you woman

  • @beckynelson9131
    @beckynelson9131 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU SO MUCH!💖💗❤💐😊🙏

  • @LoriSings65
    @LoriSings65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @tobes911
    @tobes911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you SC. I love this video. 👍💜🌞🙏✌️

  • @Mtnnaturegal
    @Mtnnaturegal ปีที่แล้ว

    Such practical advice! 🙏❤️

  • @BobbyLandiaPDX
    @BobbyLandiaPDX ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful! Thank you!

  • @Explorerlaur
    @Explorerlaur 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was so helpful thank you 🙏

  • @EFMMike
    @EFMMike ปีที่แล้ว

    Lots of love thank you

  • @PaddlesUpMedia
    @PaddlesUpMedia ปีที่แล้ว

    This was EXCELLENT, Sonia! Thank you for all you LOVE and VIDS! :D

  • @DebNielsen1958
    @DebNielsen1958 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤thank you!!!

  • @NancyBeaulieu
    @NancyBeaulieu ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your tips

  • @annsmallpiece6533
    @annsmallpiece6533 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant!!

  • @user-mf3yg2oy9t
    @user-mf3yg2oy9t 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fab advice ❤

  • @cloverpetalsIV
    @cloverpetalsIV 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Sonia , I need this. ❤️

  • @reneeugrin7037
    @reneeugrin7037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So many thanks!

  • @msevolution2317
    @msevolution2317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u - I think I’ll watch this every morning for a month I have severe White Knight Syndrome 😅

  • @heathermacrae4594
    @heathermacrae4594 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing this.🙏

  • @dominiqueogilvie3365
    @dominiqueogilvie3365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bien dit Sonia. Merci. ❤️

  • @adilakshmi777
    @adilakshmi777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you do much

  • @chloemaxwell2628
    @chloemaxwell2628 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice, thank you! Hopefully I'll remember it the next time I'm in that situation.

  • @Everybodyisimportant
    @Everybodyisimportant 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Sonia! I really appreciate you for sharing this! 🙏🏾🤍

  • @MsChristijo
    @MsChristijo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this wonderful guidance! Truly helpful, Sonia! 🙏🏻

  • @tendersoulsretreat5863
    @tendersoulsretreat5863 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing video. A lesson I wish I would have learned earlier in life. But I learned it and can say that this is so true and works so well!

  • @nativechique7589
    @nativechique7589 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mind your own business!!! Love it!!!!!

  • @FruehlingSpring
    @FruehlingSpring 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🦋

  • @rachellefudge8176
    @rachellefudge8176 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video and message. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @creativecook100
    @creativecook100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic advice for empaths. Working on it!🙏❤

  • @jaykay415
    @jaykay415 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful, thank you.

  • @rupaj9094
    @rupaj9094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But what if you have kids with them - it’s so hard

  • @cinderella-kj2zu
    @cinderella-kj2zu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m surrounded by an evil neighbour. What do I do? Cannot move now..

  • @justinesimone5343
    @justinesimone5343 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My only daughter is unkind. When she sent me a nasty text in response to a gift I sent, I cut it off. Now haven't heard from her for many months. It hurts. How to feel good about blocking my family? Thank you.

    • @shebakali6
      @shebakali6 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have family like this. I pay to see a psychologist, out of pocket. It is expensive but worth it.

  • @evadebruijn
    @evadebruijn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏❣️✌️

  • @anushkakempken7302
    @anushkakempken7302 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ♥️