How to Make Wise Decisions

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  • How to make wise decisions:
    1: Is it pleasing to the Lord?
    2: Does it honor my neighbor?
    3: Have I considerer wise counsel?
    www.jackiehillperry.com

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  • @TJAP404
    @TJAP404 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +666

    Loved when you said, “Sometimes we have peace about a decision because the decisions are self-centered” 🙏🏾 hard truth

    • @tondaniraluswinga2590
      @tondaniraluswinga2590 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I agree. But from my experience, every good decision I have made has brought me peace in the end. Like If I make a bad decision. I am restless and can't even sleep

    • @ozyalexander4983
      @ozyalexander4983 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tondaniraluswinga2590yes, I agree with this explanation of it!

    • @zbest1eva
      @zbest1eva 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@tondaniraluswinga2590 honestly when I have made a wrong decision,I don't have peace about it. The peace doesn't come until the right decision is made,at least that's been my experience.

    • @msAaliayah1
      @msAaliayah1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah, that hit hard! 😰

    • @beekind6267
      @beekind6267 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      BIG FACTS!!!

  • @NayaHenry340
    @NayaHenry340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Something that my pastor said is “Will God be comfortable there?” Changed my like in 5 words!

  • @godsglory1921
    @godsglory1921 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +322

    This is so good! I might add that spending time in God's presence and developing a relationship with Him involves surrendering our life to Him. If you spend time in His presence you'll have the discernment to know whether it's your flesh or the spirit. God is always speaking in our lives. There is no situation that He'll not respond too if you lay it at the altar.

    • @tyroneseabrooks3710
      @tyroneseabrooks3710 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So good!!❤

    • @Paisley.Cierra
      @Paisley.Cierra 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen!

    • @rcsavedbygrace
      @rcsavedbygrace 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Spot on! We left a church recently and it was painful. I cried for days but we knew we needed to. They were unwilling to let the enneagram go just hide it a little better. No repentance.

    • @RCMama05
      @RCMama05 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank u for saying this. I needed this comment.

    • @beautyskindeep1
      @beautyskindeep1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      And you will have peace from God...as the Word says, He will give us peace not as the world gives....

  • @carlaa.springs1107
    @carlaa.springs1107 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +161

    OUCH, OUCH, OUCH! Just used the "peace" line yesterday. Prayed about this subject this morning! Wow...thank you!

    • @artforchrist5065
      @artforchrist5065 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      LOL & I just used it last night! God is good!! I’m thankful for this teaching.

  • @annkelly6349
    @annkelly6349 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    “Is it a selfish decision, or a selfless decision?” AMEN 🙏🏾

    • @missmaya5110
      @missmaya5110 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m a little conflicted or maybe I should say I don’t really understand if my thought to cut my friend off is selfish or selfless according to Jackie’s definition. I thought I was being selfish and ok with cutting her off because I can’t remember when I wasn’t drained and even yelled at during/after our telephone conversations … no matter how sweet I talked. As we get older (grandmother), foolishness becomes a welcomed distance. I just cannot. Told her in recent talks that I love her but I can’t go back there. Is this selfish or selfless?

  • @mariaalex-grady1752
    @mariaalex-grady1752 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "We shouldn't make all of our decisions in isolation." Seek wise counsel!!

  • @monicahavechristjesus5455
    @monicahavechristjesus5455 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    God had actual sent me wise counsel through a trusted coworker, but i rubbed it off and ended leaving my job for another one i thought would be better. I remember thinking i felt peace about my decision, but i know now i was operating out of fear.

  • @shamelessmaya
    @shamelessmaya 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    The amount of awesomeness in these 5:42 is mind boggling 🤯🙏🏾✨ Thank you God for giving us Jackie Hill Perry ✨

  • @genyalej8286
    @genyalej8286 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    In the middle of my suffering, God has proven to see me again. Thank you for speaking your mind 🙏🏽

    • @geminibeauti
      @geminibeauti 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Literally my story stumbling across this. Prayer answered IMMEDIATELY!

  • @KD-eq4xi
    @KD-eq4xi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Biblical frameworks that are more developed, more mature...Love this!

  • @brandi_w
    @brandi_w 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    "The wise counsel" is the message....for me. Thank you God for sending this word from Jackie to reassure me

  • @Grace2shar
    @Grace2shar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Jackie, I love how you drop wisdom and say, "Hopefully, that's helpful, bye!" 😂 But seriously, the fact that we might be okay with a decision because it is pleasing to ourselves, that's so true! We often choose the easiest, most painless, and self-centered decisions, and we feel justified in our selfishness. I also agree that not consulting others is a form of arrogance. We always think we know way more than we really do. We all need to humble ourselves and seek wise counsel from God and the godly men and women he has placed in our lives. I've been studying Solomon, who started out wise but ended up being destroyed because he did not consider what was pleasing to God. Choices are so important! Thank you for sharing!

  • @johndonda1379
    @johndonda1379 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Who has ears to hear? This lady has a lot of wisdom!

  • @amandahurd1348
    @amandahurd1348 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Thank you so much Jackie! I’ve always struggle to “feel peace” when making decisions & often have to do what seems to honor God best. I’ve felt like something was wrong with me because I didn’t have the “peace” other people had, but this illuminated the real issue. God was teaching me to not walk by emotions & to learn how to walk in wisdom. Thank you for that. ❤

  • @therealhiddenflower
    @therealhiddenflower 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This is NOT RANDOM my sister! It's an important word I needed to hear. I thank God for you...this is so true..."I have peace" is NOT a safe technique to make decisions.

  • @ChristinaTaylor-yp6gc
    @ChristinaTaylor-yp6gc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I have said this SOOO often. We won't always have peace when making hard decisions.

  • @jennerial
    @jennerial 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I agree that you should ADD - is this pleasing to God, does this honor my neighbor, and seeking wise counsel where available. However I disagree with ignoring your emotions. God gives you alarms for a reason. If you are saved and praying on a regular basis I think you can trust those alarms. You should also heed closed vs open doors. Sometimes Satan will open a door that looks amazing but you still need to ask God to close doors that aren't for you and still need to wait and pray. Also you should know that any mistake you make while trying to seek Gods will - He will correct it. If you honestly think you should go right and thats the way God is leading you, but it turns out He wanted you to left He will find away to turn you in the right direction in a way where you will know that its Him. And normally the way that you know it's Him is PEACE not fear, torment or sleepless nights or scriptures that make no sense. Satan can quote scripture and you it to lead you in the wring direction - like he tried to do to Jesus. Im not saying everything has to be comfy and perfect for you to know its God. NO, it can be uncomfortable, difficult, hard ect but your heart should feel soild and still deep on the inside. Ask for confirmation like Gideon did. Use ALL these tools and your confidence in the decision you are making should improve drastically. And lastly step out and find out. Go on that first date, go to that interview, tour the campus ect. Trust that in those moments God will reveal whats good or whats bad. At some point you have to take action, if theres an explosion turn around.

    • @Daineah
      @Daineah หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really interesting point here. I remember praying for resignation, I was asking God for a confirmation that it's the right thing to do. I wanted to resign because my work was consuming so much of my time that I have less and less time for God and the ministry. After 2 years of praying, I woke up with a peace in my heart and I took it as God's confirmation and that He's saying yes resign. Was it comfortable? No. I was resigning with no work awaiting for me, but within me there's peace. Am I pleasing myself? Not really because I was actually placing myself in a difficult position of losing an income. Cut the story short, I sent my resignation but my boss bargained and asked what do I want to do in life. Told him everything I want to do, and he said to me, 'Well how about we make a job in your own terms?' Fast forward, I'm still in the same job and growing.
      Let's not forget that peace is still a valid sign of God's confirmation but I agree that it must be accompanied with wisdom from the Lord to interpret correctly.

  • @Peaceandpoetry
    @Peaceandpoetry 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    This video came at just the right time, there's a decision I have to make by 7pm today and I just prayed about it. Praise God! So grateful for Pastor Perry's ministry.

    • @jasonpowers3094
      @jasonpowers3094 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Uh,I don’t think she is a pastor. Are you?

  • @uniquelydesignedtv5878
    @uniquelydesignedtv5878 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    JACKIE!!!!! The LORD answered my prayers through this message. Thank you.

  • @theoracle888
    @theoracle888 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    FACTS 💯
    I did that exact thing (saying I had peace about it) and nearly lost my life 😕

  • @bonnierodriguez2491
    @bonnierodriguez2491 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I see how in some cases, feeling peace about something could be the same as saying it just feels good. Maybe our perceived peace is just relief because we're avoiding something God wants to use to grow us.

  • @FireBride
    @FireBride 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Great points!! Taking time to listen for the Shepards direction. Waiting in His presence is key. ❤

  • @RealRachetteRubies
    @RealRachetteRubies 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Farrrrr from a Christian but I absolutely love this message as it resonates and it’s so practical to be put into action and applied to my everyday decision making process.

  • @chrissyh3270
    @chrissyh3270 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Too many have not been taught how to make wise decisions by seeking what God wants. Honestly our parent generation went by their emotions often and called it God.

  • @lindajames3594
    @lindajames3594 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes, Amen! I'm also convinced that we've made peace a feeling when the bible speaks of it as a state of being, a noun, and most importantly a fruit of the Spirit. I agree that our decisions should be made according to faith - for without faith, it is impossible to please God.

  • @cici2011
    @cici2011 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The “when I stole @ JC Penny’s I had peace” took me out! I’ve heard this story from Jackie before but I still think it’s hilarious! 🤣🤣
    Thank You God for transformation and honesty.🙏🏾
    Man!!! 🗣️SPEAK!!!

  • @VlogVibes
    @VlogVibes 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “Hopefully that was helpful…” ARE YOU KIDDING???! This is THE content the disciples need.
    The quality of our life-and discipleship-boils down almost exclusively to the DECISIONS we make.
    Spot on, sister 🎯

  • @lisasweeney6509
    @lisasweeney6509 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    These are great principles to apply. Scripture also says, seek peace and pursue it. In all decisions there must be a Godly Peace!

    • @isaiahhatcher
      @isaiahhatcher 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s talking directly about turning from evil and becoming a peace maker
      Psalms 34:14

  • @princess220143
    @princess220143 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jackie always comes through with that rock-solid word that dismantles our sand castles (whatever we thought was right and working).
    She digs up the lies/false beliefs, exposes the root, and then gives us that good soil (alignment with the word) so we can get to planting (sowing the word into our life through action/application) and living a life blessed by God for God!

  • @n2medrums
    @n2medrums 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You said hopefully is was helpful? HUNTY I woke up and saw this and it's EXCATLY what I needed to hear. When I say EXCATLY, I mean exactly THAT! HE most certainly did lay that on your heart for me. It's 6 am here in Berlin, Germany!!! GOD BLESS U! B.A.N.G.!!! B.A.N.G.!!! ❤❤❤

  • @brauliocosta543
    @brauliocosta543 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I have been living in a valley of many decisions to make and this afternoon before I meditated on God's Word I prayed asking Him for guidance and to order my steps because I don't know which decisions to make and this was literally the video that popped up when I opened TH-cam to play a worship song before I meditated on the Word of God. This video was an answer to my prayer, thank you and yes it helped so much! May God continue blessing your ministry and put His words upon thy lips.

  • @catmations5631
    @catmations5631 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Truth!! Thank you! It's amazing how subtle wrong theology can be. I accepted the ”have peace” theology as if it was biblical . Thank you for shining the light on this.

  • @jjmoise4553
    @jjmoise4553 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thank you for this word!

  • @Purpose3714
    @Purpose3714 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @aprilcoleman3660
    @aprilcoleman3660 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true. Thank you!

  • @Michelle-db6xf
    @Michelle-db6xf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Girl, preach! This was so rich and on point. All your points were excellent. I believe you represented the mind of Christ in this post. Thank you for the reminders of good decision making; governed by the Word, in community and not in isolation. Awesome!

  • @jenniehawkins9998
    @jenniehawkins9998 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this word.

  • @mandyrawlinson7687
    @mandyrawlinson7687 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So glad you shared!!! Thank you!

  • @PorshaWithAAye
    @PorshaWithAAye 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this gem.

  • @coletted.felton3364
    @coletted.felton3364 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen Amen Amen!
    Thank You!

  • @YolandaMichelle
    @YolandaMichelle หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this! So timely!

  • @RobbieBrown777
    @RobbieBrown777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was soooo for me! Thank you❤

  • @annesamuelefrancois6803
    @annesamuelefrancois6803 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That message came at the right time. I needed that in the season I am.

  • @nvyharrisonII
    @nvyharrisonII หลายเดือนก่อน

    Needed this, for real.

  • @maggie8482
    @maggie8482 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for speaking on this. This helps me a lot.

  • @GodsGraceSaved_Me
    @GodsGraceSaved_Me 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I very much needed this' thank you! GOD BLESS!!

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you God for giving me strength to keep trust in you. . I know it’s important to trust God no matter what we are going through. Blind faith and the Love of Jesus. My husband passed years ago I miss him dearly. As a single mother things are hard on me. Both of my sons are autistic. I’m constantly struggling to provide for them and now that I’m home schooling them my hours to work are limited. I’m overwhelmed. Father God hear my prayers. My faith in you is strong! Even as I constantly struggle to pay my rent. And I constantly struggle to provide groceries for my children. Jesus I call on you for strength. I will keep faith. Walking with faith is the only thing I can do. Thank you God. Father you have provided this far and for that I’m so grateful. Faith over fear.

    • @olufunmilolamafimisebi6502
      @olufunmilolamafimisebi6502 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello @ChildofGod98765 , this was the scripture verse that came to mind for you after reading your comment.
      Matthew 9:22 KJV
      But Jesus turned him about, and when he saw her, He said, Daughter, be of good comfort; thy FAITH hath made thee WHOLE. And the woman was made whole from that hour.
      Please note: To be whole means…
      To restore (someone) to a sound, healthy, or otherwise favorable condition.
      I pray the LORD makes you and children whole as it is written in His Word in Jesus name. Amen.
      Be encouraged and keep the faith. 🙏🏽

  • @beccaotu9840
    @beccaotu9840 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this Jackie 🙏

  • @user-qm6gr2uz1f
    @user-qm6gr2uz1f 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People needed to hear this. Thank you Jackie

  • @tineitei5392
    @tineitei5392 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, Amen.

  • @user-xz3og8bl1q
    @user-xz3og8bl1q หลายเดือนก่อน

    Needed this ….thank u.

  • @fostoriajohnson3795
    @fostoriajohnson3795 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I’m so glad I came across this message. Thank you for allowing God to use you. 🙏🏽

  • @pdotson251
    @pdotson251 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was definitely necessary to post. Thank you

  • @gorham13
    @gorham13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Listen! Perfectly said!

  • @terecaharrison1642
    @terecaharrison1642 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This needed to be said and heard.

  • @iamhephzibahO
    @iamhephzibahO 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    timely advice. more grace and wisdom ❤

  • @uber_stuber
    @uber_stuber 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i definitely needed this. praise God for giving you these words 🙌

  • @nevertoolatekish4021
    @nevertoolatekish4021 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this message...I really needed to hear this.

  • @michelepatrice6815
    @michelepatrice6815 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely an on time word!!

  • @blessedchilufya9067
    @blessedchilufya9067 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yohhhh I needed this so much🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @imanielohiykem3751
    @imanielohiykem3751 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @trishp5652
    @trishp5652 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for THIS!! Your post just shifted the way I was viewing a few situations. We appreciate you❤

  • @texasb79
    @texasb79 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was FIRE! Thank you for sharing! ❤

  • @Savvy_allthingsChrist
    @Savvy_allthingsChrist 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is good, live to hear it

  • @quinnturner8384
    @quinnturner8384 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree. Very beautifully said!

  • @evasccl7846
    @evasccl7846 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That all made so much sense!! Thank you for making this video ❤

  • @MissBLacey
    @MissBLacey 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is sooooo on point!! So good! Peace has been my metron…thank you!

  • @JosieLaBord
    @JosieLaBord 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing.🙏🏾

  • @kalypso406
    @kalypso406 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yesss, please do these videos. You'll help so many! 🙏🏽

  • @paulc6048
    @paulc6048 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen sister. Well said and SOLID!

  • @Bildade
    @Bildade 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely needed this reminder, thank you!

  • @graceeverlasting6414
    @graceeverlasting6414 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that your so genuine. Girl I had peace too doing my mess. 😂

  • @ArtSeeFriend
    @ArtSeeFriend 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree with everything said 💯!

  • @missalwaysfortunate
    @missalwaysfortunate 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is Gold I was thinking along these lines this morning.

  • @stephaniebell8223
    @stephaniebell8223 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow I've never thought or looked at it from this perspective. Thank you!

  • @ThebeautyJeneral
    @ThebeautyJeneral 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow thank you I was just praying for clarity

  • @vee2841
    @vee2841 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Right on time. Praise God.

  • @taras2180
    @taras2180 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jackie…. Thank you for speaking on this.

  • @nanyaonwuamaeze4862
    @nanyaonwuamaeze4862 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this matter. It was helpful to me.

  • @ANGELAUGUSTINO
    @ANGELAUGUSTINO หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true and good! Bless you ma’am

  • @EdwardPrah
    @EdwardPrah 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love Jackie's breakdowns on topics like this. I have to bookmark this. God bless you!

  • @L4A1D1Y
    @L4A1D1Y 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl!! I NEEDED THIS! 💯

  • @marcelabriones8720
    @marcelabriones8720 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s an on time word for me, thank you Jackie for being obedient

  • @olajumokeakosile1386
    @olajumokeakosile1386 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ma'am for this🙏🙏

  • @heymel
    @heymel 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So so good Pastor Jackie. Needed that, thank you!

  • @pennykirk3852
    @pennykirk3852 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you ! Praise the Lord for your obedience!

  • @kathy4god
    @kathy4god 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So Good!!!! Thank you Jackie

  • @Victoria-jo3wr
    @Victoria-jo3wr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I saw this video pop up in my TH-cam recommended list a couple of days ago and I have been ACTIVELY avoiding it. Probably because I wasn't ready to listen, but gratefully, I am today. I hear you that you didn't want to turn this post into a mini workshop, but so many of us are glad that you did :) Thank you Jackie

  • @latoyebradford3335
    @latoyebradford3335 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was helpful ❤ thanks and straight to the point,love it

  • @kieronamorton9272
    @kieronamorton9272 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jackie!!!! Whew thank you

  • @krissyfagan6774
    @krissyfagan6774 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Literally needed this right this moment. Thank You Lord! 🙌

  • @jessicagreen3277
    @jessicagreen3277 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is good. Thank you for sharing this nugget Jackie! 😊

  • @mannalawson432
    @mannalawson432 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes, ma'am. We LOVE a good workshop. Thanks again for the wisdom!

  • @Natasha-iv2qq
    @Natasha-iv2qq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thsnk u Jackie for sharing...so love ur spirit

  • @ZoeDismukes
    @ZoeDismukes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing!! This was so on point for me 🙌

  • @dancingram79
    @dancingram79 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely! I'm with you! I love this!

  • @jones00096
    @jones00096 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That’s Good Word! Thank you cause this word is for me.

  • @msdaisyduketv
    @msdaisyduketv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. This is GOOOOOOOODT!

  • @ladygeneva1070
    @ladygeneva1070 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very helpful my sister. Never analyzing peace that way. Thank You.

  • @mo3jamz
    @mo3jamz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed to hear this... Thank you ♥️🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾