Guarding Your Heart in Marriage
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ย. 2024
- The bible tells us to guard our hearts right? Well, how often have you thought about how to apply the principle to your marriage relationship? There’s temptations everywhere. From ex’s, to co-workers, to pornography, even bitterness and entitlement can harden your heart towards your spouse. Let’s chat about how to keep our hearts soft towards God and each other.
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I once changed my Barber because the way he would speak about cheating on his girlfriend and going out to clubs and everything else. I had to stop getting my hair cut by him because I didn’t like the mindset I would leave with when I was done. Finding a good Barber is hard finding a good influence is even harder
Solid words my brother if more men would take that approach then they would fall into less temptations.
I did this just cause of how he would talk about women in general. I was more so careful about who put their hand on my head.
Yes, it's important to be aware of people that put their hands on you, especially in areas of the laying on of hands during prayer.
I had to do the same for my son. Did not want him growing up around this type of mentality
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“There’s a difference between your wife wounding you, and your wife triggering wounds that you’ve never dealt with.” - Preston Perry
I ain’t even married yet, but that made me say “Amen” and “Ouch.”
Profound and anointed.
Thissssssss!
@chris but why you not married tho? Ha What’s good! I’m 12 years down and 4 kids deep ikr? but I’m saying …what if marriage is the place when everything that you been putting before that decision is granted..
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Amen.
“Don’t fall in love with someone who does not love Jesus!” Thank you Preston
This blessed me.
Amen
Amen sister in Christ
Amen.
I fell in love with and married someone who no one could have told me anything other than she “loved Jesus.” She did me worse than any other woman other than the woman before her that I could have sworn loved Jesus.
Amen
“He may not be romantic but he’s responsible” I liked that I never thought about that in that’s way
That's a whole word!!!
Right!!! Just yesterday I was telling my husband just how unromantic he is, yet I've heard from my family and friends just how fortunate I am to have a husband that is so responsible.
My goodness, Holy Spirit is calling me to order at this point because he's currently sleeping and I'm mad at him for something else 🥺
Let me go cuddle with my man 🫣😅😊🩷
Yeah, yet the flip side of that, WE are paying bills...
Disappointment without healing (thyself) and/or communication and/or therapy.
Why can’t he be both?
It's so weird how Jackie articulated PERFECTLY how I felt about adultery. I always felt like adultery was so juvenile especially on the basis of "my feelings are hurt". It's like a tantrum.
I think when you get married there should be an understanding that the marriage is between God and the TWO! No excuse..deal with those wounds and weakness!
Exactly its a little man or women that's getting in their feeling because they didn't get what they want.
I think in some cases that's certainly true. However in some cases that hurt is also tied to an unsafe feeling/ memory. Not condoning. Just saying sometimes it's a tantrum, but sometimes you are running for your life and as you're looking back over your shoulder you run into that trap the enemy say on the corner for you. Regardless of what it is my God can get you to an honorable place.
@FG but God sees our sin the same, our reasons just as petty. I think some self righteousness comes in when we think our reasons for sin are more reasonable than other people's reason for sin. We tend to use a different measuring stick for our own sins and reasons for sins than the measuring stick we use on the sins that others commit to our hurt.
@@lbee8247 oh I never said anything alluding to this sin being somehow worse than others I just simply said this is how I felt about it. Of course sin is sin and wrong is wrong but breaking a spiritual and legal vow you made to God and your spouse because they hurt your feelings is still childish to me. Again not saying it's a worse sin. All sin is the same
Bottom line: human relationships are ridiculously complicated.
Jesus come get us 😭
I feel you..Im laughing.
This is so true. In hindsight Christ died in order to mend our relationship with God the father.
The thought of how relationships are hard with our fellow beings, should point us to the cross.
So true!!!😄😄
Gold 🤣
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The part about women withdrawing emotionally was incredibly insightful
Yeah very interesting. Thanks for sharing Jackie
Yes! Very ❤
I’m married & do this whenever my husband wrongs me…..I know I really need to stop
YES!
And very true lol
MY GOD THIS CONVO😭 Jackie: the way we treat our spouses are reflections on how our relationship is with GOD...so deep and true! I'm a believer and my husband is not and sometimes the way he treats me is like 💨 another story. Moral of the story! 🚨TAKE HEED SAINTS DO NOT MARRY ANYONE WHO DOES NOT LOVE JESUS 🚨🙏🏾
Truth! Learnt that the hard way...
Praying for you and your marriage🙏🏾. God can do ANYTHING!!
Yup same … but I met him when I was in the world …
@@ae7091 Amen
@tamika Love
I am saved and my husband is not. On top of that my husband was raised as an only child and on top of that he doesn't feel remorse, is grandiose in all that he believes of himself, never sees anything wrong in himself, lacks empathy and everything he does is for show. We have been married for over 25 + years. God saved me in our first year of marriage. But I can say God has filled my heart with the love of Christ for him. And continues to. I am surrounded with healthy, godly relationships. We have raised amazing, now adult, children. I stayed on my knees praying and I still pray. I messed up a lot. I left a lot in the beginning, even after being saved. But I would never leave now. My joy is in Christ. And I have more than I deserve. My husband has been a blessing inspite of himself. I pray you can have the love of Christ. The forgiveness of Christ. My children don't have to be split between us on holidays. We show up together in all their needs and events. My husband was a good father. He had issues but he was present and God used his grandiose personality to bless the children. We stayed together and we are building a legacy. Divorce hurts the whole world and the whole world is better when we choose loving others more just like Jesus instead of being self focused like the world. It is hard but being conformed to the image of Christ is a painful process that leads to real joy.
"I can't guard myself and love you at the same time." And that whole part about how women withdraw!! 🔥🔥🔥
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Whew it was heavy.
A whole word
This was sooo true and sound
The fact that Preston called the devil a lame is hilarious. We already know the devil is a master manipulator but whenever you guys talk about him, it's always how we refer to a deadbeat dad or a trash friends or a narcissist. You put it in a relatable form and I love it.
That made me laugh too😂
I love his BOLDNESS.
I love y’all’s discussions because it’s like y’all are discovering revelations AS y’all are talking. Which makes it feel authentic, like y’all leaving room for the spirit to speak through you and not sticking to a planned discussion. Love y’all so much.
It’s true. We have a sense of the general ideas we may or may not discuss but we go into it really open to how it’ll all play out. - Jacke
This is the comment!!
I love that about them too. I also find Holy Spirit does that with me as well.
I’m not married but I feel blessed by this 🙌🏾🙌🏾 “Don’t fall in love with someone who isn’t in love with Jesus” amen 🙏🏾
That part about stirring our affections for God is SO real. Reading the book of Revelation and gaining a deeper understanding of how our Warrior King Jesus pursues us, literally made me want to love my wife better. I want to better resemble Christ to her because in doing that I am making her safe (protected), seen, cared for, pursued and loved.
As a young single woman, all I want to say is thank you. Your conversations are liberating and so insightful. Thank you for walking in purpose and the truth of Jesus Christ.
Amen
This a hit 🎯,This what I was trying to say but it came out in rage ,Lord help me to good to my Boaz
Why is adultry always assumed that "the mistress" does what the wife doesn't? I think that is too easy a cop out (sometimes). Sometimes the wife could be doing ALL she can to "fulfill" her her husband but WE (the husband) are so selfish we want more. I am speaking to pornography as well as adultry.
***Love what you guys are doing - keep it up please***
Yes! Most cheaters are just awful people who have no character.
I agree with you.
Well no wife is perfect so there will be someone who may be better than you in some areas. You may be patient, she may be more patient. Just one example . Still no excuse to cheat. God does not excuse cheating even on a bad spouse
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Right. Most wives arent lacking anything, like u said a lot of the men want more.
As someone who is about to be a newlywed, their videos have really challenged my perspective on marriage and my relationship with God.
Changed to what area? Making u rethink marriage?
You are blessed to have nuggets like this to lean on...TRUST ME!! Keep close to God and take all this in and guard your mind and protect your spouse-to-be and your marriage.
I love how you look at your husband. You have so much respect for him…for each other. I love it. Congratulations on being an example to other couples.
Good convo!! Married 22 years and counting! I approve this message!!👍🏿👏🏿🙏🏿
Getting married in less than a week, and I’ve struggled with lust issues in the past. But as I’m getting closer to my wedding I’m taking the fight head on full force because I refuse to let those issues follow me into God’s covenant. This video is very encouraging and Very! Very! Helpful🙏🏽y’all pray for me
Praying for you and your spouse! Praying that God will continue to strengthen you in your relationship! Congratulations!!!
I hope there’s an update of victory for you!! And if you could let us know how to pray if this area has still been a stumbling block
@@christianmari87 Hey so update! So since getting married, God has opened a new world for me and my wife to experience the beauty and ecstasy of marriage. It’s truly amazing ✝️💜In regard to my lust struggles, I was clean from lust issues about 4 months in, then I let my gaurd down a couple times and got hit with every temptation you could think of (it was quite the spiritual attack). I fell short once and from that point on, the gap got smaller and smaller. From months apart it turned into weeks..etc..
I willingly opened that door again and I definitely wish I hadn’t. But I always find myself getting back up and praise God I have a loving and supporting wife who keeps it real with me but also shows me grace as I navigate and learn through this journey.
So yes, still a prayer request i can definitely use more self-control with my eyes.
@@Journey2sanctification Thank you ! God has definitely strengthened me and my wife in our relationship. I’ve seen both of us grow in ways like never before and it’s a real beautiful thing🙏🏽
@@Babyboy_Matt praise God!!!! 🙌🏽 🏃🏽♀️
He is Good! This just made me so happy to hear! Pray for me and my husband, as we are almost 6 years in and the enemy is trying to entrap with lust as a coping mechanism for things experienced with family, church hurt, job loss, etc. We are physically separated but emotionally still together and want to come back, but there are things to work on for both sides. There is a calling to ministry and I want to see it come to fruition
Been married for 28 yrs this April but we are stuck in a bad place. A lot of what you talked about regarding triggers, hurt, develope a reverence with God, withdrawing from your spouse 🤦🏾, choosing friends (family) who don't add gas to the fire but water it out was soooooo spot on. Wow. I could identify with everything. Thank you for articulating these issues out loud in this platform. Now I pray. I know it starts with me.
Praying for you. The devil wants to see your marriage destroyed...pray as you learn, the Holy Spirit will help you to implement the changes on your own attitude and action that will change the atmosphere. Not easy.
Praying you and your spouse take this lesson & do the work together. Also pray yall get a support system of friends that can help guide & give strength where it's needed 🙏
"The heart is above all things deceitful and desperately wicked who can know it".(Jeremiah 17:9). We must all guard our hearts ❣️
Love the part about friends and their role in helping you guard your heart. I'm definitely guilty of joining the criticism of a friend's spouse when they complained. Lord forgive me. I will be more mindful to lead them in prayer rather than giving them debate pointers. 😂
This topic deserves more than 30 minutes. So good, Perrys.
Such a rich discussion on so many levels!... Definitely a reminder that marriage (like our walk with The Lord) is a process that requires DAILY dedication and work. Like Preston/Jackie mentioned, "the grass is never greener on the other side"... rather, the grass will be greener where you water it! 🙂 Also loved the point about surrounding yourself with solid people who can encourage and help hold you accountable... this is something we've really seen the importance of in our marriage (and personal lives)... it makes such a huge difference.
Thanks again for another great episode, fam! 🙌🏾
When she said a woman will remove her energy and place it into something else like her job. I’ve caught myself doing this and will put extra energy into my kids.
Same 🥴🥴🥴
I love the balance of how Preston called out men's behaviour and Jackie did equally with women. That was a healthy conversation.
She didn't
@@Gintoki_Madao she did multiple times.
Are y'all gonna write a book together? Asking for the people, this was so enriching. My pastor has always said my wife is the benefactor of my relationship, love and commitment to God.
No lie Preston and Jackie are some real ones! I'm so happy God showed me these 2 individuals they are so honest and transparent which is very needed nowadays!
Soon as Preston said guarding your heart means not putting yourself in a position to choose sin over righteousness i got out my notebook. The wisdom 💡
I love how you both show honor to each other as you disagree. There is a naturalness, but it's more. It's love in action. It's a decision beforehand in motion. Glory to God!
I think we talk a lot about infidelity in men but it happens in women as well. The unaddressed trauma that a woman has experienced from her father from molestation to neglect can present itself as promiscuity and/or porn addiction too in the hopes of receiving the love or intimacy she never felt she received. Society has made it cool to entertain uncommitted sex but it's really a bandage to receive intimacy without the possible pain of rejection. At the root of it all, I believe guarding our hearts is transforming the mind to see ourselves as Jesus sees us, worthy and valuable of Godly love.
Jackie is spot on about withdrawing emotionally. It is difficult to love your spouse because you are emotionally checked out. Spot on Jackie, I couldn't articulate better what you just explained.
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I love the community that you guys keep with each other - the friendship that you hold within your marriage is evident in this video and it’s beautiful!
THIS!! 🤍 they give me u gotta feed my mind vibee loveee 😭 LOVEE IT SO MUCH!! An example of when God is in the middle…
@@miiotv Yes Lord!
God is providing His children with tools and resources to reference before and during marriage. God is such a good father and it’s truly an honor to know better, before evening doing. This content is priceless Perry’s.
I’m half way in and I’m ready to cry, thank you Father for correction and showing me ways to get myself better. Thank you Perry fam for this ministry because it helps ❤
"The way I treat my spouse is literally an outworking of what I believe about God". I'm not even married yet and I felt that one. My Gaaaa
You guys are fighting the good fight. You're young, intelligent, energetically willing to do what thus saith the Lord. You guys could be doing anything else but you've chosen to educate folks by using you've gifts and talents. Amen 🔥 🔥 🔥 keep fighting
Whew . There’s a difference between being deeply wounded by someone vs someone triggering wounds you’ve never dealt with.
This was sooo good! I was married for 13 years and divorced for 14 years. I’ve been having the urge to marry again, but have the fear of it being a repeat of the first. As I let God lead me into a healthy second marriage, He is showing me my “blind spots” so that I won’t repeat those things in the next marriage. Your video is so insightful and encouraging. Though no marriage is perfect, I love how you allow God to work through the imperfections that exist within each of you, to create perfect and pure love through Christ Jesus! Please keep the videos coming❤️
This is so so needed like on repeat type , also for me at my age my friends are limited and married friends are even fewer . You all for me right now are my example i’m submerging myself in my bible and also coming to this channel with ppl who resemble me and also who are living out the words of God in Christ in a true, honest, realistic and healthy way . Thank y’all
You guys are a beautiful wise, smart, intelligent, intellectuals and great loves of our Heavenly Father!! Thank you guys for your faithfulness and these wonderful conversations! ❤
seems like every episode is about something I talk to my husband or mom about weekly so I know the Holy Spirit is moving & renewing the minds of God’s people. y’all are the best at simplifying complex conversations, may God keep covering your family ♥️
I JUST preached on guarding your heart out of Proverbs 4:23 last Sunday. Wild. Timely. Loved this!
Amen Jazzi
Amen Jazzi
So did I!!!! 😀
@@erikataylor5286 GET IT!!! 😍
🙌🏾🙌🏾 y'all preached in this session. In our marriage, we're trying to unlearn some things, going back to our past and dealing with those things that really hurt us and ultimately made us into a person we don't want to be.
I agree with you that submitting is really hard cause sometimes I see it as you wanting to be in control, and I'll shut down. So dealing with that.
But also men/husband do at times take their wives submitting to them to mean, you have to do what I say at all times even if it's wrong. Forgetting that the woman is also human, an individual, she has her goals or things she wants to do for herself.
Unlearning the way we show love, as sometimes we can be insensitive, and don't regard each other's feelings and how we want to be loved.
If the man loves, submission will come naturally i believe
I ain't even married but I just love how yall interact and these deep conversations are just life!! Ty you so much for your dedication and obedience to the Lord it's much appreciated
Jackie and I act the same when watching movies then. I pause movies just to analyze a situation and it becomes a sermon 😆 I always see beyond every movie I watch, even cartoons. There's always a real-life lesson I take from them.
Lord, knows I needed this today. I'm a woman married in holy matrimony and got a comment from a married man that made me think and stay away from him. Lord, help us to honor You first above all and in all things for Christ' sake. Amen
Guys, great topic! With every episode I see your bond growing stronger. I so appreciate your admiration and adoration for each other on display, and you’re so at ease and comfortable with one another that you can crack on each other without reading deeper innuendo into it. That’s so seasoned! Two people who can laugh with and at each other is another HUGE way to guard your heart against infidelity.
This was highly encouraging. 💜Making the effort to see the good in your partner is also away to guard your heart.
Definitely I have learned to look at the good in my husband and not focus on bad and it works out well
@@judythomas6320 wow ,💯💯❤
Also women will put their energy to the kids more when they close off to protect themselves from rejection
As a women who will be married one day I truly needed this podcast!! 💗 Thank y’all for being a vessel used by God .
I love the conversation about guarding our hearts. For me because I love God I guard the heart of God. Because I guard Gods heart I equally guard the heart of my spouse. I constantly consider if certain actions would break the heart of my spouse. If certain actions would break my spouse I would turn the other way….and I never ever want to damage the heart of my spouse. So In essence breaking the heart of my spouse is breaking the heart of God. I’ve been married 43 years and we dated 8 years prior to that.
“Thank you for bein a friend!” - Golden Girls theme song 😂 That being said, I love you for quoting C.S. Lewis! I am so glad I found your channel. I’m Catholic, and I support your ministry. I think God led me to your channel to help me personally on my own journey to be closer to Christ, but also possibly to help me reach a loved one for whom I’ve prayed because she is struggling with her faith. God bless you and keep up the good work!
I am snapping my finger the whole time feeling this conversation 100%! Amen! May God keep us holy and blameless until the coming of Jesus Christ!
I definitely will pause a show to share a quick sermon! And Preston hit on something, I noticed whenever the enemy is attacking our marriage really hard, I seem to get so much more attention from men wanting to soothe the things I'm currently upset about in that season. I'm grateful for the holy spirit for the discernment to see when the enemy is trying to deceive me!
Everything about this is wholesome!!! Keep doing what you're doing Perry's much love!!!!
Thank you guys. I just recently watched the Jakes, "Winning at home" and I must say that married couples need more transparency like this. We need godly wisdom in this age. For those of us that had previous trauma like molestation, growing up with addicted parents, poverty etc. it can be hard to discern the proper way to handle a spouse in communication. This helped tremendously. I subscribed in hopes that you guys do this often.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 Jackie hit it out the park with the fragility and analysis on weakness!!!
#Facts
Guarding your heart = Self control - a fruit of the Holy Spirit
“Thank you for being a friend
Traveled down the road and back again
Your heart is true you’re a pal and a confidant. “ - Golden Girls
“You’ve got a friend in me” - Toy Story…
I’m probably a lil late… both good songs…. Great insight, thank you for sharing this wisdom.
Wow this really ministered to me as a single woman praying for a godly marriage. Love the depth/ intellect and space to counter thoughts and the basis be relationship with God
So, so good!! - There’s a Difference between your spouse wounding you and your spouse triggering wounds you never dealt with before! It’s such a blessing to hear two people articulate and gifted with words have these insightful Christ-centered conversations.
First time I'm watching you guys. Never seen such an exchange of energy and/ or words between two people before... I will definitely try to find That Kind of Communication from now on. Meaning I'll start working on me getting on that level.
I am really thankful for this episode, I experienced emotional infidelity before my spouse and I got married. This was iniated by me and the process was so bitter sweet. I am really happy that this transpired before we proceeded to tie the knot because it brought alot to our attention that we both never really discussed about our own insecuritiesand past traumas. All the points spoken about in this episode was heaven sent and facts straight from the mouth piece of God. Thank you so much Jackie and Preston!!!! This is so good.
WHEW have I been praying on my closing off husband by focusing on other things when I feel rejected y’all be PREACHING to my spirit. I love getting a perspective from the men’s view of things also. I’m hooked on this channel rn 🙌🏽
My husband and I watched this and it blessed our marriage. Soooo much wisdom in this podcast. ♥️💫🙌🏾
This was really good and gave me a lot of insight about how to guard my heart in my marriage. I specifically like the topic on friendships. I remember having a friend who talked about her boyfriend cheating so much that I would start to feel suspicious of my husband and he didn't even do anything. I would ask questions trying to "find out" what he could possibly be doing and he would of course get irritated with me. Now there was no peace in my home as a result of somebody else planting seeds of doubt in my mind. Thank you for sharing! Very helpful.
This is amazing. I vote a full series on biblical marriage.
“There’s always something good, that covetousness will keep you from seeing.” Preach!
The way you two can sit down and communicate on a spiritual and psychological level is… something.. I covet every time I watch/listen to you guys.
You don't have to use the word covet.. it's still sin.
Just say you hope God blesses you with that type of relationship one day without coveting or desiring what they have.
Such a great conversation!
God bless the Perrys and continue to use them for your glory!!❤🙌🏿💯
Honestly
If you don’t love God, then you can’t love me properly, because God IS Love. He is not lov”ing”, He IS Love. That’s major!! That’s what I gleaned from y’all. Thank you!
I'm not married, not quite sure if I'll ever be married, but if circumstances change, this video/podcast will be so beneficial. Beautiful conversation!
Thank you 🙏🏿 Im on my journey to be a better man, husband, and dad with God. This is me and my marriage word for word. I cant stop watching. Thank you both for this message. Its needed. Im taking these steps and this message popped up and I showed my wife. We was up at 5 in the morning talking about this video.
This is GOLD! I’m a newly wed and this has blessed me. Sharing this with my hubby. ❤️ Thanks for your continued obedience bro/sis.
I can’t guard myself and love you at the same time, THANK YOU!😭😭
ONE OF MY FAVORITE EPISODES !! SO MANY NUGGETS TO DIGEST AND KEEP!
This is the first video I've ever watched of yours, and it made me cry but also opened my eyes to many things I wasn't prepared to hear or even acknowledge. Thank you for posting this, honestly, thank you and God bless.
I think the weakness of stepping outside the marriage can go both ways, it can be a boo boo on women as well for the same reasons that was given for men. I love hearing you two talk.
I’ve been eating up your episodes for the last 2 days. So many gems filled with Gods will and spirit. Love you guys, please don’t ever stop! 🙏🏼 thank you lord for the Perry’s, bless them and continue to make way for their fruits to bless us!
This is so key in a union with God at the center, guarding your heart and setting boundaries can set the line straight and keep others from crossing it. If y'all can, it be great to have a discussion upon the topic of setting boundaries in a marriage
I cheated cause of hurt, BUT I can say that I didn’t know any better BECAUSE I didn’t love myself. Loving yourself and loving somebody else is different when you don’t love yourself. I thank God for my husband and his obedience to God First.
I really enjoy your podcasts. As I listened to this one and Jackie said, "obedience is hard", I heard in my spirit : "the commandments of God are not burdensome" . So I went looking and this is the scripture I found in I John 3:5 For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome.♥️
God's commands are not burdensome but obedience can be hard because our flesh rebels.
“I can’t guard myself and love you at the same time” -Jackie 🤯
I really love this episode. I've been married for 10 years and we're still learning
Idk I'm just now finding you guys but thank God for you two. I'm not even all the way through the video yet and my heart strings and just tugging right along. I'm so excited to look over the rest of your content and in strong in marriage beside you guys. .. 2.5years down and eternity to go. It's a blended marriage. We tried really hard to seek His face the whole dating time and will continue to see His face over our marriage. So again, thank you.
Guarding your heart means guarding literally all of your "gates" - because our gates control how our heart (mind) processes things. We have to guard our eyes, ears, etc and learn how to discern what's HIS truth and what isn't.
Yes! Social media has a huge impact on people lives. Yes this message was great. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Great conversation! Thank you for giving me, as an unmarried person, insight into what marriage could look like by sharing your thoughts and experiences both individually and as a couple.❤️ Please keep these conversations coming!
God has to be the standard! ~Preston
I love how real Jackie and Preston are!
Great messages here. They are talking about what we call post associative trauma. This is huge in the Black community.
I appreciate this HONEST assessment of the humanity of men and women with the guardrails of salivation. It’s so refreshing!
This was goodt!!! And timely!!!
SN: Golden Girls = “Thank you for being a friend….”
One of the best conversations I heard…really blessed my heart and brought conviction..God bless you ❤
I needed this! I did not do this nor understand the negative consequences. In the beginning of my 10year relationship and would recommend this to everyone in a relationship, deception is so sneaky. Kill pride every chance you get and allow your love and respect to flourish for your selfnand those in the relationship
that last piece about having friends who honor their spouses .. my God, the wisdom! great conversation, all of it was good.
This is seriously so good! I have truly gained so much from this, I relate to you Jackie in the things you was mentioning. Thank you Preston for a man’s point of view! Thank you both so much I enjoyed every minute of this! 🙏🏾🔥
When she said a man willing to cheat on his wife and go against God and his entire family just because he was rejected by his wife is so true and so good that is 100% little boy behavior
Omg this episode was🔥. As i single person, i learnt a lot.
I always look forward to the next episode because i know they is something new i will learn. Keep doing the work of the Lordt Mr and Mrs Perry, 🤩.
I love how the Spirit of the Lord guided that whole conversation down to every part that was mentioned!! This is so good!
This was such a real and mature conversation on guarding your heart in marriage ❤ God bless ya and your union !