Screw that therapist. They did what OP feared and tried to turn it on him trying to make it his fault the marriage is failing after the affair. Personally I would have walked out of the therapy session.
Yeah after two years, you're not just rolling with it, you're in a fully fledged affair, be a big woman, and admit your own faults. As a woman myself, I am sickened by these women who fear accountability more than the plague
@@Ez.Modeletsgo most states are like that. Like a cool off period but depends on the state. Illinois, Maryland, and Pennsylvania as well as Louisiana with extra stipulations. Have 2 years
Why go to therapy with her? To see her make strides? She was insecure? She will always be insecure and the marriage is dead and she killed it for 2 yrs. Just stop talking to her if it's not about the kids. If she talks about reconciliation, walk out.
She's only sorry she was caught. I mean she got served while she was WITH her boss!!!! Stay strong. You let her off the hook this time, it gives her an out every other time in the future. Kick her out of the house!
Again. Woman cheats, men at fault. It is never a woman's fault when she cheats, and I never understand why the man's own family turns against him and makes him the bad guy because he wants a divorce after their long affair.
That's not remorse it's regret at being caught and that's not love she "feels" after being caught its fear of ending up alone and facing consequences of her disgusting actions.
Guys, 33:37 is "the power of walking away" when you treated them good and they didn't reciprocate and you leave, makes them chase after you, not alway but most of the time
Plenty of times the red flags were there before but we choose to ignore them because of other things. Am glad he went through with the divorce. Man go back and after some time it goes right back to square one with the disrespect because they know when if they do it again all they have to do is shed some tears and apologize and make some promises and they will get taken back.
If i were to reconcile with a cheatee my condition would be that she has to wear a bodycam, a several gps trackers, access to her phone, social media, electronics etc. Through passwords and tracking apps, and she has to do everything i tell her like an obediant slave for the rest of her life, one slip up and she is done, trust is the strongest pillar once you break it there is no going back unless you build another one with omniscient methods
Y'all need to remember that a relationship is a 2 way street. You are not responsible for anyone's happiness, the best you can do is make them enjoy the time they spend with you
Every time she caught with the another person. Maybe they having sometimes chronic decease. no there any perfect relationship exists like 100%. not even close. Thats impossible. But its a time pass feeling so much deep pain. but at last they have comprimise with and at last for there children and indeed for them. They have to speak properly. About there desires. someone acting like a kid and someone acting like a adult like oldie heart. its so compllicted. if we talk about karma how complex it is. without any intesion god made me to do it. rather than devil made me to do it. But devil may cry. So beilves in gods good words. Who follows satan words they goes into deep of his place. That no one want to go. Follow heaven. make a beileve that is here that both. Its makes us easy to understand that we are not god. We are humanbeing we makes mistakes. not intensionly. But someone making it intensionly then that brain not by heart. Something so fisshy. But i beilves no one plans plans are made on time by others or by incidents or by destiny. Its good to happy. At last we understood . Who is with us n who leaves us at thhe time of when we trap in the situations. Follow them. they are god like peoples. unfollows others who are saying always neg. they gives us anxiey. I really dont like these guyes. I hates them. i like positive one. that will be good for our society. and indirectly for the place where we lives that earth.
Screw that therapist. They did what OP feared and tried to turn it on him trying to make it his fault the marriage is failing after the affair. Personally I would have walked out of the therapy session.
I would have hypothetically asked, “what if a significant other was in physically abusive relationship, would she have said the same thing?”
what is the fastest animal in the world? a woman running from accountability
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Yeah after two years, you're not just rolling with it, you're in a fully fledged affair, be a big woman, and admit your own faults. As a woman myself, I am sickened by these women who fear accountability more than the plague
2 YEARS!!!! Why is she allowed to continue living with you??? You need to separate in order to begin to heal.
Some states don’t allow couples to divorce right away
@@Ez.Modeletsgo most states are like that. Like a cool off period but depends on the state. Illinois, Maryland, and Pennsylvania as well as Louisiana with extra stipulations. Have 2 years
Why go to therapy with her? To see her make strides? She was insecure? She will always be insecure and the marriage is dead and she killed it for 2 yrs. Just stop talking to her if it's not about the kids. If she talks about reconciliation, walk out.
Yep.. 2 yrs is way too long.
Because this was made up
She's only sorry she was caught. I mean she got served while she was WITH her boss!!!! Stay strong. You let her off the hook this time, it gives her an out every other time in the future. Kick her out of the house!
Again. Woman cheats, men at fault. It is never a woman's fault when she cheats, and I never understand why the man's own family turns against him and makes him the bad guy because he wants a divorce after their long affair.
Never simp. Do not put women on a pedestal. Have self respect and develop a spine. Stop playing the victim and move on.
That's not remorse it's regret at being caught and that's not love she "feels" after being caught its fear of ending up alone and facing consequences of her disgusting actions.
The sheer number of people gaslighting this man 😮😮😮
She only wants her marriage back because she got caught....
How can a mistake last two years?
Guys, 33:37 is "the power of walking away" when you treated them good and they didn't reciprocate and you leave, makes them chase after you, not alway but most of the time
Booooooo have the revenge affair
Plenty of times the red flags were there before but we choose to ignore them because of other things. Am glad he went through with the divorce. Man go back and after some time it goes right back to square one with the disrespect because they know when if they do it again all they have to do is shed some tears and apologize and make some promises and they will get taken back.
The AUDACITY 😂
Ah, the chubby spouse cheating with manager with model wife story. Nice to see it has had plenty of updates since.
If i were to reconcile with a cheatee my condition would be that she has to wear a bodycam, a several gps trackers, access to her phone, social media, electronics etc. Through passwords and tracking apps, and she has to do everything i tell her like an obediant slave for the rest of her life, one slip up and she is done, trust is the strongest pillar once you break it there is no going back unless you build another one with omniscient methods
Nah too much work for a cheater
Y'all need to remember that a relationship is a 2 way street. You are not responsible for anyone's happiness, the best you can do is make them enjoy the time they spend with you
Are you married??
@@LCD04No I'm not married, and your point is ?
Every time she caught with the another person. Maybe they having sometimes chronic decease. no there any perfect relationship exists like 100%. not even close. Thats impossible. But its a time pass feeling so much deep pain. but at last they have comprimise with and at last for there children and indeed for them. They have to speak properly. About there desires. someone acting like a kid and someone acting like a adult like oldie heart. its so compllicted. if we talk about karma how complex it is. without any intesion god made me to do it. rather than devil made me to do it. But devil may cry. So beilves in gods good words. Who follows satan words they goes into deep of his place. That no one want to go. Follow heaven. make a beileve that is here that both. Its makes us easy to understand that we are not god. We are humanbeing we makes mistakes. not intensionly. But someone making it intensionly then that brain not by heart. Something so fisshy. But i beilves no one plans plans are made on time by others or by incidents or by destiny. Its good to happy. At last we understood . Who is with us n who leaves us at thhe time of when we trap in the situations. Follow them. they are god like peoples. unfollows others who are saying always neg. they gives us anxiey. I really dont like these guyes. I hates them. i like positive one. that will be good for our society. and indirectly for the place where we lives that earth.
Oh no! Does he stay? 😢
This story is more than 2 years old. You're very late to the party.
yap yap yap, the story should had ended in 10-15 minute, so many stupid yap, get cheated for 2 years still yap yap, what a rubbish story