❤ i love nia , the way she speaks her mind out , what she is saying is right. Adding to that there should be a choice for women , its upto her whether dhe wants to work or not after delivery .
If a woman is not independant, the husband will sooner or later show the disrespect. Financial independence specially is utmost important for any gender.
@@sonalisingh4712 you are entitled to ur opinion, it is my experience in life that when a woman is financially independent, it changes the lives of ppl arnd her including husband.
They want to left job they want holiday , but they know that their independence vanished your life become hopeless ,and the independence to live your life on your money not gonna possible that's why they dont want to left job .
She told she is making kick-ass money.. which is not true for many other educated doctors engineers out there. We have different value system nowadays. 😢
It's not about if you want to work after delivering or just after getting married, it's about is the society, spouse included going to treat you the same even when you are a housewife. Many women don't know the difference until they actually see the difference. A housewife at some point will face this in her life. Kabi kabi bacche hi kahenge bartan dhone ke sivay Kiya kya hai aapne?
Feminine men cheering in the back of their heads because they want a lady in her masculine energy who can earn and is not a burden for the feminine man.
I think these kind of decisions depends on the couple and their mutual understanding I took a decision to stop working after my kid because I thought my career can resume after my kids are grown up but once my kids are grown without me I m going to loose that connection with my babies and I'm I took some years in making a home for my family
Yes but couple mein ladke ko chala uske ma baap bhai behen rahe hote hain. Baad mein sab yehi kehte hain arey ye ladke ladki ke beech ki baat hai. Aur kaan pehle bhare ja chuke hote hain
Many women want to be with their babies, breast feed ( which is the only best food for them) and take time to recover.... because that period is never going to come back......and many husbands are happy that in whatever capacity they can help the lady to rest and recuperate....
Because we women are conditioned for that. Sorry to burst your bubble but because of this conditioning many women leave workforce after baby and would compel to live on husband's money. Career should be your top priority before baby and in laws, because god forbid if you separate from your husband then you will be most vulnerable with no money and job security in hand. And then you will have to depend on the alimony for children's sake. I am sorry par pehle apna bhala socho crisis ke time pe inlaws ni ayenge madad karne.
@@kritigupta260 Well, we all can have different priorities....depends on our circumstances too..... Sorry for your situation and circumstances........ But no need to shame someone who adores to be a mom...and really feels blessed to be one..
I’m a woman and I don’t wanna work in my life but I’m independent Bcz I can feed my self by my hand care foot my hubby how I’m dependent? My hubby works for me outside and I’m more than happy with my house role. Not every woman want to work outside!!!! Change ur mind tooo don’t force woman to work
I’m a woman and I don’t wanna work in my life but I’m independent Bcz I can feed my self by my hand care for my hubby how I’m dependent? My hubby works for me outside and I’m more than happy with my house role. Not every woman want to work outside!!!! Change ur mind tooo don’t force woman to work
@@Ni-dg7rqcalm down, if her husband gives her money without any problem. He loves to fullfill her wife's demand then nothing wrong being dependent on husband. Its totally a personal choice of women whether she want to earn or not. If she is enjoying her life without working as she already has financial support then its completely fine. In this way she can work on home making and can give her full attention to her babies, husband and family.
@@shoorapriyanshi2106 if u compare a working woman and a house wife u will see the difference in personality. independent woman shines away from gossips with neighbors and negativity of in-laws. then even if her husband raise a single voice ,she has the power to leave him,It’s a fact..not criticising anybody ..
Rit,!!! Lets hear neha saying same at 70 or 80 age, when all alone n nobody to take care. Its all high n mighty when u r young n hands n legs moving ,when ur old n really going into coma age u ll regret every freedom decision made.
okiee.. now reallity check.. a woman who have not given birth yet when they talk about prgnancy and post pregnancy that women dont need support is so idiotic. yes u should be independent and educated buttt what better if ur partner is ready to take ur responsibility when u r at such a vulnerable pahse of ur life.. giving birth is not a joke.so ladies. if u need a break take a break coz life after kids aint easy and u will never get to rest and ur body changes so abruptly
The only problem is that men can't get pregnant and there is time when a woman can beget a child without any complications. Even successful actresses like Alia bhatt and Anushka Sharma, have realised it and they got pregnant in prime of their careers. Alia bhatt is still a successful actress even after becoming a mother. So, It is very important to know other aspects as well...
But reality is absolutely opposite Even if we don't stop working we compromise our work life a lot after baby I am a doctor, my husband is a doctor as well but ever since I got pregnant I left my practice for 2 years as no one was ready to take charge of my baby even for 3 hours... I re-started my practice once she turned 2 and now she's 4 years but every time she falls ill or anything happens in family I have to cancel my opd and stay at home to take care. My practice is completely on toss because of this but still I have to do that as I am the mother, the woman.
After marriage u want sit home take care child whole life its ur choice ...dont force if somebody want to work there are differences i 😅people forgoing it .
Aur inke liye indipendence means shown thair body and earn kick ass money Agr Etna hi indipendence hai to bina body show ke earn kro I think daily wages me kaam krne vali majdoor women are real definition of how khud ke mehnat me earn krna and indipendence hona
I don't think she means that she means any women in any profession earns that freedom of life and independence and if you can't trust her for any reason then leave her alone or marry her with respect to her work be it any field modelling marketing medical field or whatever
I agree with her, that said , there are some woman ( including me) who don't want to work after a baby because I want to invest all my time and effort in raising my baby. I can't trust others to give him the kind of upbringing and values that I want him to have.
The problem is if a woman is not earning she is disrespected and if she is blackmailed or bargained in relationships...most of themen are hugely jealous wge wife is either more educated, more talented, intelligent or earning ..almost 80% of women suffer marital lives like hell...
Hmmm ! Why would you want to work after having a baby ! Best to stay home until the baby is 3-4. That’s a privilege ! Not everyone gets that (women in the west suffer) India has great culture ( don’t go babbling nonsense)
I think everybody has become so serious nowadays even children also 😅, at 90s we were not so much goal oriented now 5th class students want to clear neet snd so on😂
Don't worry men are also looking for such types of women today lifestyle is very expenses so both can run house that a different story when you get someone filthy rich so you can do your work as your passion
There many families with understanding in laws and husbands, who support their wives whole heartedly and also help in all the house hold chores..... The only problem is those couples are contended and busy in their lives....so their shorts are not available on you tube...... When you want others to accept you for yourself, accept others for their ideas , even when we maynot agree with their choice ...live peacefully.....not presuming that whole worlds men are insecure of your wokeism.
If you are having a baby, the entire process is very intensive. Do you wana go to work one day after delivering a baby ? Try it 😂😂 ...comma mein chali jaogi!
फाइनेंसियल इंडिपेंडेंस अलग बात है और पागलपन अलग बात... फाइनेंसियल इंडिपेंडेंस का ये मतलब नहीं की औरत मर्द बन जाए या मर्द औरत... और कई ऐसी फाइनेंसियल इंडिपेंडेंट महिलाएं हैं जो आज भी अपने पति के खर्चे पर जी रही हैं... उनके कमाए पैसे सिर्फ उनका बैंक बैलेंस बढ़ाने के लिए होते हैं...
Individuality sabko pasand hai.....but when you are giving birth to a child you have some responsibility on him.....if individuality is important for you then you should not marry.....aapko shadi hi nehi karni chaiye thi....
The point is they get paid in crores for not wearing clothes and roaming naked in public unlike normal public who earns very less amount , who do slavery of 9-5 for such less salary , hence the motivation dies to work for such less money. All the actors and actresses earn in crores so their motivation is never gonna die 😂
If we read how Godess Parvati mata married God Shiva we get answers for many questions Unfortunately we r following islamised Hinduism We forget Real Hinduism where women had body automomy individual Independence. God shiva is best example. Read Arthanareeswarism.
Wth do you mean by the term islamised Hinduism? So now you are goona justify the bad mindset of the people to the religion of another one? So you think that religions/ any religious principles do teach mistreating the other partner (irrespective of their gender) just stop balming everything on the religion and blame the main cause the mindset, environment, teaching.
Ajib baat h na apne bollywood ko dekh lete h suru mein saari heroin working hoti h lekin shadi wahan krti hai jahan pese hote h aur fr wo gayab ho jati hai Confused
After giving birth first 1 year is really hard on women body hence she be at home and take rest and men provides dont speak bullshit unless you experience the same
@@C_Stories dont generalize there are evil men & evil women & kind men & kind women But speaking about journey of women post Partum without even experiencing it is bullshit After delivering a Human a body needs till to recover for atleast 2 years considering emotionally also
Don't get married then. It's not only the women, men too suffer . Nobody speaks about the male sufferers sadly. Why are pre-nup agreements not made valid in this hypocritic society?!!
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True saying
Don't judge by her dress
.. what she saying is true feelings of every women esp in India
Ha Kyuki wo pehan ti kaha hai kapde
😂😂😂😂 ek vashaya se kya umid hai😂😂
@@manishpal7689- kitna lete ho tum ?
Right
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Absolute Truth. And it hurts those who are not ready to change!
❤ i love nia , the way she speaks her mind out , what she is saying is right. Adding to that there should be a choice for women , its upto her whether dhe wants to work or not after delivery .
If a woman is not independant, the husband will sooner or later show the disrespect.
Financial independence specially is utmost important for any gender.
Then find a men who don't love you by your bank balance.
Because for me even if my wife won't be earning still I will respect her.
@@Abhishek-wy8zz good on ya mate.
@@Abhishek-wy8zzhighly doubt that. Men who say this actually want women to stay at home and them to be providers so that they can serve them.
The disrespect from men comes anyway irrespective of the financial independence.
@@sonalisingh4712 you are entitled to ur opinion, it is my experience in life that when a woman is financially independent, it changes the lives of ppl arnd her including husband.
As a girl I completely agree 💯
Always love to listen Nia...❤❤❤
Definitely yar aapne dil ki baat bol di bilkul ❤❤❤❤ thankuuuuu for spreding this......
Not every woman wants to work after delivering baby so the thing is she should have choice no one should bother her to do the job or to left the job
Most want to
But they don’t able to
Because of no support from anywhere
They want to left job they want holiday , but they know that their independence vanished your life become hopeless ,and the independence to live your life on your money not gonna possible that's why they dont want to left job .
She told she is making kick-ass money.. which is not true for many other educated doctors engineers out there. We have different value system nowadays. 😢
That's her point. Your choice should be respected.
It's not about if you want to work after delivering or just after getting married, it's about is the society, spouse included going to treat you the same even when you are a housewife. Many women don't know the difference until they actually see the difference. A housewife at some point will face this in her life. Kabi kabi bacche hi kahenge bartan dhone ke sivay Kiya kya hai aapne?
It's true. She is right.
Her confidence 🔥
You are looking her on camera but off camera how she is staying only she knows. Ego, proud increases alot due to money and dominate husbands.
@@swadheenata6550 keep your stupid gyan with you . Don't make pollution pls
Absolutely correct thats the current status of society
True. I love nia ❤
Sad that these days doctors and engineers cant say tht they are making kickass money
Job ..is necessasity not choice ofcourse change have to come in girls mind
True
Feminine men cheering in the back of their heads because they want a lady in her masculine energy who can earn and is not a burden for the feminine man.
Absolutely true
I think these kind of decisions depends on the couple and their mutual understanding I took a decision to stop working after my kid because I thought my career can resume after my kids are grown up but once my kids are grown without me I m going to loose that connection with my babies and I'm I took some years in making a home for my family
Yes but couple mein ladke ko chala uske ma baap bhai behen rahe hote hain. Baad mein sab yehi kehte hain arey ye ladke ladki ke beech ki baat hai. Aur kaan pehle bhare ja chuke hote hain
@@richasharma5342aur ladki us ladke ko uske parivar se alag karne ke chakkar me hoti hai
Many women want to be with their babies, breast feed ( which is the only best food for them) and take time to recover.... because that period is never going to come back......and many husbands are happy that in whatever capacity they can help the lady to rest and recuperate....
I agree
Best feeling as a woman is to have and care for that precious baby..not a singke day at work compares to that
@@alviaaslam5114 👌👌👌
Because we women are conditioned for that. Sorry to burst your bubble but because of this conditioning many women leave workforce after baby and would compel to live on husband's money. Career should be your top priority before baby and in laws, because god forbid if you separate from your husband then you will be most vulnerable with no money and job security in hand. And then you will have to depend on the alimony for children's sake. I am sorry par pehle apna bhala socho crisis ke time pe inlaws ni ayenge madad karne.
@@kritigupta260 Well, we all can have different priorities....depends on our circumstances too..... Sorry for your situation and circumstances........ But no need to shame someone who adores to be a mom...and really feels blessed to be one..
Yes I wholeheartedly agree with her 👍👍👍
❤absolutely right
I’m a woman and I don’t wanna work in my life but I’m independent Bcz I can feed my self by my hand care foot my hubby how I’m dependent? My hubby works for me outside and I’m more than happy with my house role. Not every woman want to work outside!!!! Change ur mind tooo don’t force woman to work
I’m a woman and I don’t wanna work in my life but I’m independent Bcz I can feed my self by my hand care for my hubby how I’m dependent? My hubby works for me outside and I’m more than happy with my house role. Not every woman want to work outside!!!! Change ur mind tooo don’t force woman to work
Sister u r not independent ....u r dependent on him .....u will realize this sooner or later when u will have to ask money for every single thing
@@Ni-dg7rqsee I am working. But male also depends for work. If he says something u also refuse.
@@Ni-dg7rqcalm down, if her husband gives her money without any problem. He loves to fullfill her wife's demand then nothing wrong being dependent on husband. Its totally a personal choice of women whether she want to earn or not. If she is enjoying her life without working as she already has financial support then its completely fine. In this way she can work on home making and can give her full attention to her babies, husband and family.
@@shoorapriyanshi2106 if u compare a working woman and a house wife u will see the difference in personality. independent woman shines away from gossips with neighbors and negativity of in-laws. then even if her husband raise a single voice ,she has the power to leave him,It’s a fact..not criticising anybody ..
👍 absolutely true 💯👍
By looking at her i feel aaj k time pe saare kapde phenna bhi bht mushkil hai kya kare gareebi he itni hai 💀
Modest bhi toh dikhna haina ☠️ 😂wrna bollywood mei kaam kaisey milega. Or or fir bolege kapdo se judge na kro
Haan tum upar se nange ghumo
😂😂😂😂
Shayd tumne suna nahi she is earning good money....or maybe tumhe bad apni tarah se Sab dekhna hai
Aaj ke date me bhi women are judged by their clothes it’s unfortunate
Rit,!!! Lets hear neha saying same at 70 or 80 age, when all alone n nobody to take care. Its all high n mighty when u r young n hands n legs moving ,when ur old n really going into coma age u ll regret every freedom decision made.
Absolutely right as a doctor I am telling ladies come who r alone no family members
❤❤so true
She's correct
She is right🔥
Love your words
EXACTLY ❤
So true❤
okiee.. now reallity check.. a woman who have not given birth yet when they talk about prgnancy and post pregnancy that women dont need support is so idiotic. yes u should be independent and educated buttt what better if ur partner is ready to take ur responsibility when u r at such a vulnerable pahse of ur life.. giving birth is not a joke.so ladies. if u need a break take a break coz life after kids aint easy and u will never get to rest and ur body changes so abruptly
Ageee
Very true.
Nobody has the right to dictate anybody life ...whether it's man or women
She's right
The only problem is that men can't get pregnant and there is time when a woman can beget a child without any complications. Even successful actresses like Alia bhatt and Anushka Sharma, have realised it and they got pregnant in prime of their careers. Alia bhatt is still a successful actress even after becoming a mother. So, It is very important to know other aspects as well...
Completely agree
Exactly !!
But reality is absolutely opposite
Even if we don't stop working we compromise our work life a lot after baby
I am a doctor, my husband is a doctor as well but ever since I got pregnant
I left my practice for 2 years as no one was ready to take charge of my baby even for 3 hours...
I re-started my practice once she turned 2 and now she's 4 years but every time she falls ill or anything happens in family I have to cancel my opd and stay at home to take care.
My practice is completely on toss because of this but still I have to do that as I am the mother, the woman.
After marriage u want sit home take care child whole life its ur choice ...dont force if somebody want to work there are differences i 😅people forgoing it .
Aur inke liye indipendence means shown thair body and earn kick ass money
Agr Etna hi indipendence hai to bina body show ke earn kro
I think daily wages me kaam krne vali majdoor women are real definition of how khud ke mehnat me earn krna and indipendence hona
I don't think she means that she means any women in any profession earns that freedom of life and independence and if you can't trust her for any reason then leave her alone or marry her with respect to her work be it any field modelling marketing medical field or whatever
I agree with her, that said , there are some woman ( including me) who don't want to work after a baby because I want to invest all my time and effort in raising my baby. I can't trust others to give him the kind of upbringing and values that I want him to have.
The problem is if a woman is not earning she is disrespected and if she is blackmailed or bargained in relationships...most of themen are hugely jealous wge wife is either more educated, more talented, intelligent or earning ..almost 80% of women suffer marital lives like hell...
🔥🔥
💯 right
Ye facts bolti hai❤
Better u marry with unemployed person he will ever stop u to work. He will manage home and children
❤❤❤ hatts off mam
Thats the difference between men and women , if she is earning , its her money , but if he earns , its their money 😏
Very true
Hmmm ! Why would you want to work after having a baby ! Best to stay home until the baby is 3-4. That’s a privilege ! Not everyone gets that (women in the west suffer) India has great culture ( don’t go babbling nonsense)
I think everybody has become so serious nowadays even children also 😅, at 90s we were not so much goal oriented now 5th class students want to clear neet snd so on😂
Seriously, ghosh! Where society going 😢
💯
Right yar, but after marriage sari understanding ghas charne chali jati
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
In present time , rather than making the life hell, no marriage is the best option
Ye janwer konsa h
Clothes and thoughts are in different world😊
frustration speaks
Don't worry men are also looking for such types of women today lifestyle is very expenses so both can run house that a different story when you get someone filthy rich so you can do your work as your passion
She is working😅
Iska lecture pasand nhi aata....pata nhi scroll krte waqt kyun aaye😂
There many families with understanding in laws and husbands, who support their wives whole heartedly and also help in all the house hold chores.....
The only problem is those couples are contended and busy in their lives....so their shorts are not available on you tube...... When you want others to accept you for yourself, accept others for their ideas , even when we maynot agree with their choice ...live peacefully.....not presuming that whole worlds men are insecure of your wokeism.
I just wish her mother was like her, she would not have been existed ever!
Kyu? Office Jane se infertile ho jate h kya? Bachcha nhi hota kaam karne par?
Womp womp🤡
true
True
But it is very difficult to work after delivery.
Men should take responsibility.
Very clever
Ok all good. Agreed. But who's giving her kick ass money
You can laugh at her .and she can laugh at your bank balance
@@Userxyz75 what if I have more than her.. And i am just not showing. 😂
So true
Males will feel offended and man will support her words
I wish their mother was not the same thinking this people would have been lawaris
If you are having a baby, the entire process is very intensive. Do you wana go to work one day after delivering a baby ? Try it 😂😂 ...comma mein chali jaogi!
As a girl..I completely agree with u nia❤
फाइनेंसियल इंडिपेंडेंस अलग बात है और पागलपन अलग बात... फाइनेंसियल इंडिपेंडेंस का ये मतलब नहीं की औरत मर्द बन जाए या मर्द औरत... और कई ऐसी फाइनेंसियल इंडिपेंडेंट महिलाएं हैं जो आज भी अपने पति के खर्चे पर जी रही हैं... उनके कमाए पैसे सिर्फ उनका बैंक बैलेंस बढ़ाने के लिए होते हैं...
Mohor ta ekebare cutiepatootie 😍
Arre yeh to meri white dupatte ko jhola bana k pahen k aa gayi! 😂
What is the use of all that kick axx money while you literally look homeless 😂
Individuality sabko pasand hai.....but when you are giving birth to a child you have some responsibility on him.....if individuality is important for you then you should not marry.....aapko shadi hi nehi karni chaiye thi....
I agree
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No one have made any box.....women are expert of showing that they are the victim....its not the scene
The point is they get paid in crores for not wearing clothes and roaming naked in public unlike normal public who earns very less amount , who do slavery of 9-5 for such less salary , hence the motivation dies to work for such less money. All the actors and actresses earn in crores so their motivation is never gonna die 😂
If same thing is said by men will it sound same ?
What she does????
If we read how Godess Parvati mata married God Shiva we get answers for many questions
Unfortunately we r following islamised Hinduism
We forget Real Hinduism where women had body automomy individual Independence.
God shiva is best example.
Read Arthanareeswarism.
Wth do you mean by the term islamised Hinduism? So now you are goona justify the bad mindset of the people to the religion of another one? So you think that religions/ any religious principles do teach mistreating the other partner (irrespective of their gender) just stop balming everything on the religion and blame the main cause the mindset, environment, teaching.
If you want to roam topless you do just like other Hindu girls but please for God fake don't blame us in everything
@@saemashaikh2262yeah the invasion and it’s bad impact
I think most guys think u will be a carbon copy of his mother which is b.s.
Husband’s money/salary is our money.. Her money is her money. Try beating that logic
Agar mere pati aysa hota to coma mey pehele use bej deti 😂😂
What work do you do Nia??? Have not seen a single good work by you
Do every man do good work??
If he’s simply working
Is he bad?
Sooner or later she also tired as working women
❤❤❤❤👍👍👍
Ajib baat h na apne bollywood ko dekh lete h suru mein saari heroin working hoti h lekin shadi wahan krti hai jahan pese hote h aur fr wo gayab ho jati hai
Confused
Please don't marry and don't put yourself to test and judgement...either go Traditional Indian way or your way, not in between
😢😢😢😢
She is complicated
Ye to day by day kapde chote hote jati hai
After giving birth first 1 year is really hard on women body hence she be at home and take rest and men provides dont speak bullshit unless you experience the same
They are providers by words
But they torture us the most
@@C_Stories dont generalize there are evil men & evil women & kind men & kind women
But speaking about journey of women post Partum without even experiencing it is bullshit
After delivering a Human a body needs till to recover for atleast 2 years considering emotionally also
Don't get married then. It's not only the women, men too suffer . Nobody speaks about the male sufferers sadly. Why are pre-nup agreements not made valid in this hypocritic society?!!
Why don't they marry unemployed men then..
Kuch mat bolo...😂😂....shhhh....