34 years old and I still deal with anxious attachment and getting too hypervigilant in dating... the most annoying part is having to step back (aka take it slow) but then worrying if you're withdrawing too much and not being authentic, lol.
i totally get that. there’s never a right answer since everyone we connect w will operate a little differently. but i think as long as we’re not losing ourselves and our responsibility for somebody else, we’re doing a good job. at least that’s what im trying to use as my benchmark now 😅
34 years old and I still deal with anxious attachment and getting too hypervigilant in dating... the most annoying part is having to step back (aka take it slow) but then worrying if you're withdrawing too much and not being authentic, lol.
i totally get that. there’s never a right answer since everyone we connect w will operate a little differently. but i think as long as we’re not losing ourselves and our responsibility for somebody else, we’re doing a good job. at least that’s what im trying to use as my benchmark now 😅
Thank youu such an insightful video and i love your take on this! 💞
To all anxious attachers out there, WE GOT THIS AND EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY!!!
yes we do 🤍🤍🤍🤍
I really needed this thank you❤️
my pleasure 🤍🤍
I needed this ❤
u and me both!!
I want my anxious attached girl back, what can I do 😭
depends, what did u do😭
Thank you 🙏🏾
ofc🤍
Thank you
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