At my Age - Episode 9

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 พ.ย. 2018
  • At my Age is a show that aims to provide intervention for elderly people faced with a plight they can’t resolve because of age.
    Gogo Nora lives in a shabby condition and the wrong birth date on her ID is the main source of her problems. At 62, she already qualifies for the old age pension offered by government but according to her faulty ID, gogo is only 54. Will gogo survive 6 more years under the dire and demeaning conditions she lives in? Why is it taking so long for the department of Home Affairs department to correct the desperately needed birthdate on the ID for gogo to access her grant? Gogo Norah has already lost on 2 years of receiving any support reserved for people her age.
    Watch At my Age on SABC 2 every Tuesday at 11h00
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  • @sammabena3067
    @sammabena3067 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    my mom went through this situation, until i lost her... let's take care of our parents because they also took care of us when we were young.. may she RIP

  • @sqrd3536
    @sqrd3536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Old people also like their independence, they should be allowed this. It's her money she can spend how she likes. Gogo had a terrible upbringing, she was already broken inside. The daughter cannot judge, even she allowed her husband to rid of her mother. So she's not an angel herself. Gogo died because she had trauma and stress due to the drastic change that happened. To her she lost everything. Gogo Mabel did not have dementia that was a misdiagnosis. Nothing wrong with forgetfulness when you grow old that's normal. Gogo died earlier than expected. I believe she could have lived longer had she been supported at home, with home visits three times a day. The so called old people's home is a right joke. It doesn't look like a nursing home to me, that was a very bad placement. Nursing homes making money out of the vulnerable. Old age should be a blessing not to be a punishment for the elderly for the mistakes tgey made in life.

    • @nicholasledwaba7993
      @nicholasledwaba7993 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even their building sucks, a shack.She died bcos of missing his comfortable house

  • @lydiaphamotse6068
    @lydiaphamotse6068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I had grannies like granny Mable in my family who likes to stay alone and drink too much. Speaking lies they excel

    • @response7296
      @response7296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂😂I work with them. Lies 🤣🤣

    • @moyahabothoka8634
      @moyahabothoka8634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      O batla hansa mabel ,she doesn’t care about the mall and shopping

    • @delisileshabangu1380
      @delisileshabangu1380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lydia phamotse very true and some neighbors take advantage of them by encouraging them to do what they like drinking and robbing them most of their money and cause conflict between the family
      We must admit some of these old people they are difficult to deal with

    • @ayandamanku797
      @ayandamanku797 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      00

    • @hlologelonchabeleng686
      @hlologelonchabeleng686 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

  • @muhlangadanisa9614
    @muhlangadanisa9614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    MY HEART IS BROKEN. SHE ALL WANTED TO STAY AT HER HOUSE. SHOULD HAVE FOUND SOMEONE TO STAY WITH HER

    • @emmahmaepa7071
      @emmahmaepa7071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      think that was going to make things easier on her side

  • @PrudenceSegalo-hy8cw
    @PrudenceSegalo-hy8cw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    May her soul rest in Peace shem💔

  • @emmahmaepa7071
    @emmahmaepa7071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    wow I hope she didnt die with a broken heart hope she was happy

  • @suzanne-cs7sx
    @suzanne-cs7sx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This makes a lot of sense this gogo did not raise her, i understand because of circumstances but women it's important to raise ur own children

  • @legran25
    @legran25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Removing the elderly from their homes always results in death or their illnesses get worse. They could have found a room mate for her instead.

    • @resident2510
      @resident2510 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      that`s what i was thinking before i saw the end

  • @dlegodi3694
    @dlegodi3694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a sad story.My heart goes out to them.

  • @surprisezwane5750
    @surprisezwane5750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thembi naye she is a liar, u know these people ekasi who likes to be on the good side all the time...

  • @resident2510
    @resident2510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this remind me of my late mother, my sister sometimes would just eat in her backroom with her kids while my mom was starving and when she my mom had money she would buy groceries for the kids and she would cook for the kids while their mother was resting in her room. my mom passed away January till today rent my sister`s haven`t pay rent and when i tell them they think i want to coach them

  • @petlebs6894
    @petlebs6894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The system wronged gogo xem, she did wanna leave her home which she loved, she needed care n love at her age,now she had to go and live with strangers at her age n adapt to new environment with her illnesses,this is painful, even though she did not HV a good relationship with her daughter at least she should HV tried to look for a helper to take care of her mother. U mother is your mother doesn't matter the situation is.

  • @mm-ju6go
    @mm-ju6go 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sis Sonto u did ure best dont have any guilt with you

  • @josephinematambanadzo3397
    @josephinematambanadzo3397 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    May Gogo’s soul rest in eternal peace 🙏

  • @nokuthulanormist3226
    @nokuthulanormist3226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    may her soul rest in perfect piece

  • @dinahmapula617
    @dinahmapula617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This breaks my heart 😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @nthabelengmimi3962
    @nthabelengmimi3962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is a very good show.

  • @nonkosinathimosenga9928
    @nonkosinathimosenga9928 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Old age nayo iyahlupha shame,sometimes they don't tell the truth they feel abused most of the time,if you have lived with Old people you would understand, all they need is attention and patience.

  • @user-ec4sg6up5d
    @user-ec4sg6up5d 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    May her soul rest in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @mphodiane1204
    @mphodiane1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Being taken out of her house may have contributed to her death. Old people prefer to stay at their homes. Well, I don't blame anyone.

  • @response7296
    @response7296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Shame, sad news, am sorry about her death. May her soul rest in peace

  • @nelisiwemndaweni5382
    @nelisiwemndaweni5382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May her soul rest in peace

  • @yvonemathebula3300
    @yvonemathebula3300 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Rest in peace Gogo

  • @mabelmbatha
    @mabelmbatha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eish...May her soul rest in peace ✌️

  • @letschatwithkeam3820
    @letschatwithkeam3820 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Do people know the pain of not having a Mother? hehhhhh #sigh
    Half of my body became cold and numb for a few seconds when I heard that she died. May she find peace.

    • @sydneynaninyambi1127
      @sydneynaninyambi1127 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's really sad that she's no more may her soul continue to rest in peace. But I'd to emphasize on the issue of people not understanding the importance of parents and grandparents regardless of how troublesome they might be.

    • @Kutloanos
      @Kutloanos 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      she died after 2 months probably because of food poisoning or hygiene issues. Old age is for white people who get sponsored

  • @eugeniamanana9424
    @eugeniamanana9424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Old age home is an informal settlement , oh no, that's not good. She had a lovely home with neighbors at her own home. Whomever agreed to label this place a "old age home" never see heaven on earth

  • @delianmudhosi7166
    @delianmudhosi7166 ปีที่แล้ว

    My world just shattered 😭😢

  • @milisalisa6583
    @milisalisa6583 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😢😢😢So painful yho

  • @cordymat6020
    @cordymat6020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oooh shame may her soul rest in peace

  • @koketsoboshego8337
    @koketsoboshego8337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    rest in peace gogo.

  • @thobsiethobs6078
    @thobsiethobs6078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dementia is such a horrible condition. She needs help all the time 😟

  • @user-xw7sz2yd4d
    @user-xw7sz2yd4d ปีที่แล้ว

    😢😢😢😢😢😢this is sad

  • @sunshine.T6158
    @sunshine.T6158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Iknw what killed her ts stress of living umuzi wakhe

  • @legran25
    @legran25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good show but Gogo Mabel doesn’t have such advanced Dimentia!

  • @traceymlungwana3829
    @traceymlungwana3829 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hayi hayi hayi akana kwa dementia u gogo mfuneleni umntu ahlale naye hayi le nimenzela yona

  • @traceymlungwana3829
    @traceymlungwana3829 หลายเดือนก่อน

    whyyyy ningamniki i cardi lakhe nimyeke ajabule ugogo

  • @manelimbongwa42
    @manelimbongwa42 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ugogo ngathi wayeshisa ikhotha nje ngenkathi zakhe

  • @ntombikayisendamane7845
    @ntombikayisendamane7845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wanna go home and take care of all those old people I will give them love and I will take care of them is so bad to see old people being treated like this and I will very strict to them, I know they will call me names I don't care. is not their money I,m after I just wanna help them

  • @user-cb4ug2oz6k
    @user-cb4ug2oz6k 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please leave gogo at her house nizombulala ngenhliziyo ufuna icard lakhe azihlalele ayi one.

  • @normantuli8770
    @normantuli8770 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😢😢😢😢

  • @user-pn7wf2hv6d
    @user-pn7wf2hv6d ปีที่แล้ว

    This Gogo just want to drink alcohol in peace

  • @khaniey_hlongwane1414
    @khaniey_hlongwane1414 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    sis Thembi no Gogo hai i dont trust them

    • @delisileshabangu1380
      @delisileshabangu1380 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Khaniey _Hlongwane me too, something fishy about them they spent gogo’s money on alcohol

  • @thembenimqwathe3862
    @thembenimqwathe3862 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    komkhwenyana ayi kkkkkkkkkk

  • @OnlyRandi
    @OnlyRandi ปีที่แล้ว

    Why did gogo pass on at the old age home 😔😔

  • @hlengiwepriscillabommyhlabolwa
    @hlengiwepriscillabommyhlabolwa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Siyabonga for helping gogo Mabel. May her soul rest in peace. So touchy stories.😭💔😭

  • @Barbsie_M
    @Barbsie_M 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When a person is not used to eating proper food for months and suddenly their diet changes to be better they don't tend to live long.. May her soul rest in Peace🙏

  • @luyandazakwe151
    @luyandazakwe151 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's very sad her own child to do this to her own mother

    • @mm-ju6go
      @mm-ju6go 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sonto tried her best gogo aiboo

    • @mapulemosidi7345
      @mapulemosidi7345 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What wrong did she do??

  • @addmorendebelendebele398
    @addmorendebelendebele398 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Addmore s Hie

  • @asemahlezandilebuthelezi2653
    @asemahlezandilebuthelezi2653 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ibuhlungu lento yaz

  • @kedibonemmotla7967
    @kedibonemmotla7967 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Banamanga no gogo wam unje,mangifuna uzothi since ngidle izolo,so I was confused because mother love my grandmother so much so now they vedeolize her when eat

  • @thandekaboikgantsho4350
    @thandekaboikgantsho4350 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    can i say something about sisThembi lol

    • @delisileshabangu1380
      @delisileshabangu1380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thandeka Boikgantsho she enjoyed causing conflicts between Gigi and her daughter , you can tell that sis’Thembi is a troublemaker

  • @viviantswayi4767
    @viviantswayi4767 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sonto tried,but guys it's frustrating to have a parent who is an alcoholic,,and then when u live your life u wrong,so ur life must be stuck,while Gogo is having a good time

  • @mpoimakhetha9345
    @mpoimakhetha9345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    shame gogo is stubborn!!! but this show is progressive

  • @MthobisiVelo-zx9vv
    @MthobisiVelo-zx9vv 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jjop

  • @evolution405
    @evolution405 ปีที่แล้ว

    2 months seems to be avarage life span after relocation to these old age home 🤔🧓

    • @sarahtsotetsi2764
      @sarahtsotetsi2764 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Iqiniso lithi wonke umuntu ophatha kabi abantu naye futhi bazomphatha kabi naye 🤞

  • @elizabethmvundlamvundla5547
    @elizabethmvundlamvundla5547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rest in peace Gogo