Plus ultra: 0:25 You need to relax. 1:00 Make the first contact. 1:39 Dress to impress. 4:48 Be straightforward. 5:36 Make her drop her guard. 6:32 Girls you aren't attracted to. 7:37 Leave on a high note.
Jose’s advice got me feeling so confident over the years. It’s easy for me to get numbers now and go out with girls, that now I can’t decide which girl to go for 🤦🏻♂️
Man, you have changed my life... I have been following this channel since 2018... It's just so unbelievable how I have evolved so far... I am like a god in my community now... God bless you TMF....
I work as a salesperson, and overtime I've learned how to approach anyone, especially some attractive girls and there is nothing to be afraid of, I can maintain eye contact easily, walk around confidently and hold conversations even away from the job easily!
@@unknownplayer7190 yes, but i think what people struggle from is the approach and ice breaking. Once the conversation starts rolling all will be well. So to answer your question. After months of practice, you'll find it 80% easier to approach anyone and 60% easier to approach an attractive woman. Practice makes perfect
As a 33 year old single guy who is newly started dating again after 12 years and was INHERENTLY nervous, I have to say, the key I've discovered really is to be calm. You basically can't look forward to it at all and just treat it like another daily task. If you get excited or nervous Or try to think forward to it it's all you think about and you'll bomb.
Hey, Jose has I've been watching you for about 5 years and I love your content. I've been wondering if you could make ESNTL available in Europe? Keep up the good work man❤️
I really like the Dark purple shirt you had on Jose, I'm definitely going to buy that color the next time I'm buying a Shirt. It's a secret weapon in a wardrobe
This is Guy is good at what he does, and for a yank he's likable for a change without being OTT , definitely take note and listen he's a expert for sure
#1. You need to relax. #2. Make the first contact (approach the girl). #3. Dress to impress. #4. Be straightforward with intentions. #5. Make her drop her guard. #6. Start talking to girls you aren’t attracted to. (To get you desensitized to be able talk to attractive girls you do find attractive). #7. Leave on a high note.
I just love the IMMACULATE ENERGY at no.4 . . . . Sometime I feel like I'm the real Stan of Jose but the comments say otherwise....guys let's get interactive in the comment section...lets quote him word to word ...let's celebrate the living legend!
Because you can be 14 now and ur 14th birthday was yesterday and u started to watch his videos the day before ur birthday... So you've been watching his videos for a day😂😂😂
I work at a boating company on weekends. We have some beautiful women who walk through our docks since it’s downtown Chicago, both single and taken. I made it a habit to give at least 10 compliments to the people coming onboard or just walking around. Now, I can flirt with any women without seeming like I’m trying hard, and I get to really be selective of who I hang with on off days. Instead of being with the first girl that says yes, I have a whole pool of candidates that I can really think “who do I really want to get to know” instead of who I’m just tryna get at
Jose is a Demi god when it comes to marketing. Before he even went into the sponsor, I was keyed in on his chain. Like laser focused. He wore the right colored shirt to make the chain pop
I just received my rose gold black orders today... really good quality...a little smaller than what im used to with the necklaces ...but im glad to be adding a different variety to my collection
cold approaching girls and get rejected knocks down your confidence - but approach a girl that shows signs she is into you and if she really is she will let you know and some will make it obvious like ask your name even offer to buy you a drink happened to me - make sure you get in shape look good and dress clean cut and walk with confidence King
1. You need to relax and be comfortable around girls. Slow down your movements. Slow down your speech. Take deep breath. 2. You approach her and make the first contact. When you approach her first it gives you an upper hand. Beacuse in her mind she thinks you're a confident guy. Beacuse it's you who comes out of your comfort zone. It puts you in the power position for the rest of whole interaction. You probably die alone if you wait for her to approach you. Beacuse it needs courage to approach strangers and talk and women don't have that courage. 99% of time women want men to approach them. Biologically men are Hunters and women just sit there waiting for the right man to come. 3. Dress to impress. Because the first thing a girl noticed is how you look overall. Your body, face, features, your build, your dressing style, your grooming, your skin, your hairstyle, your hygiene, your shoes, your accessories, your countenance, your posture, your confidence, your gait, your body language, your movements, your approach, your voice, etc. 4. Be straightforward. Let her know your intentions in the first interaction. The first thing she know about you is your intentions. Communicate it effectively through your eye contact and body language. Don't be hesitant about it. Be a man of no hesitation. Be a man of confidence who knows what he wants and not afraid of going out and getting that and also convey it indirectly through words by complimenting her physically. Don't follow the friend first approach. You'll end up in her friend zone like other hundreds of idiots. She's human too. She's has sexual Desires too. 5. Touch her. Tease her. Banter her. Be playful with her. And watch her reaction and then proceed accordingly. Or simply say. You're pretty. I want to take you on a date. That type of straight forwardness, dominance and assertiveness is what most women are not accustomed to. 6. Let her drop her guard and inhibitions. Make her comfortable and safe by making her laugh. So that there's no barrier in front of her like her bag or books or crossed arms. 7. Practise your talking by talking to ugly girls in whom you've no interest. Hone your talking skills with them. And you realise its no big deal and you've it under your control. Remember girls are human too. So they aren't perfect. Each one have her own set of insecurities, flaws, nervousness. 8. Once you approach her. Talk to her. Then end on high note. Make any excuse and say her you've to go.
4:49. Add end point. You're welcome! FYI! Jewelry isn't really require, it's all about being physically fit, being fun, and just being positive about life. Most of all! Remember! Looks matter! If you're fat and unattractive, not at your best, everything that Jose stated in this video is useless. It's the difference between being seen as a sexual potential versus a friendzone. Facts!
Each time you talk real positive about rosegold and black yet I ordered once from them and the bracelet broke within two months and after trying to get in contact for 2 months through every option they have they still didn't react.
I agree you should approach her if you like her, but I hate the culture surrounding it. I just get rubbed the wrong way that girls get to just wait for everyone to flock to them like they're treasure and we're all just options for them. It'd be nice if it was just equal and everyone just approached who they liked and make it casual rather than this whole power dynamic and chasing game. It's next to impossible to approach without looking desperate. I feel like if you approach you're giving them the upper hand by giving them the choice to choose or reject you. Like you're on their time
I’m married now but when I was single I never had to approach a woman, never, they all came running to me, Or their friend alerted me as to their interest, boy I miss those days, thank my parents for good genetics.
Yess it's true if you talk to some ugly for a long period of time , you can automatically and effortlessly talk to a pretty girl 👍👍, it's happened to me 👍👍😘😘 I don't know the science but it works 😅
Plus ultra:
0:25 You need to relax.
1:00 Make the first contact.
1:39 Dress to impress.
4:48 Be straightforward.
5:36 Make her drop her guard.
6:32 Girls you aren't attracted to.
7:37 Leave on a high note.
Cheers mate
@@santiagoserna9497 how about this advice ?
th-cam.com/video/-v7GNAI7twM/w-d-xo.html
🤜
Thanks mate
Thanks bro
Jose’s advice got me feeling so confident over the years. It’s easy for me to get numbers now and go out with girls, that now I can’t decide which girl to go for 🤦🏻♂️
Give one of em my number
It’s a gift but also a burden he’s blessed us with😔
date them all once you do that you’ll figure out who has the best chemistry with you go for that girl.
Thathappened
That's exactly my situation brother!! Jose's Really Amazing we already know
Man, you have changed my life... I have been following this channel since 2018... It's just so unbelievable how I have evolved so far... I am like a god in my community now... God bless you TMF....
Jose is our man 🔥❤️
As soon as he said " Talk to girl we aren't attracted to "
I was like damnn he's Right ❤️
I work as a salesperson, and overtime I've learned how to approach anyone, especially some attractive girls and there is nothing to be afraid of, I can maintain eye contact easily, walk around confidently and hold conversations even away from the job easily!
Nice one Jose.
Leaving on a high note is the best.
Talking to unattractive women builds up confidence.
But when you talk with an attractive girl after practicing for months, won't you still feel that stress ?
@@unknownplayer7190 yes, but i think what people struggle from is the approach and ice breaking. Once the conversation starts rolling all will be well. So to answer your question. After months of practice, you'll find it 80% easier to approach anyone and 60% easier to approach an attractive woman. Practice makes perfect
@@stephenajulu i understood man thanks. So practicing is the key word :)
but end up pulling all the ones you don't want they even follow you around ha ha
@@marksallai2289 hahahaahah that would be bad
Jose is like the father I needed, r.i.p dad 🙏
hope he gets the milk at least 🙏
Jose : And from rose, gold and black our sponsor....
Me : +110 secs
hahahahhahahaha
amen
You only need to skip 60 sec lol
@@onewayjay7272 pretty sure it's more than that
As a 33 year old single guy who is newly started dating again after 12 years and was INHERENTLY nervous, I have to say, the key I've discovered really is to be calm. You basically can't look forward to it at all and just treat it like another daily task. If you get excited or nervous Or try to think forward to it it's all you think about and you'll bomb.
When I get notifications of tmf my day gets better !!!
so does your life
jose i have got a lots of knowledge of fashion from your videos actually your videos are my fashion school and you are my teacher.
Need this , as I am the most attractive man on the world
Wai wha
Love that confidence man.
@@joshuasalazar4316 love your support man. One day you could be as attractive as me
@@siryerfdog532 beautiful
Just with that comment you make me fall in love, you are really attractive bro
Love how he says “if you wait for the girl to approach you then you’re gonna die alone” 😂😂
Sounds good to me
Arrange marriage is a thing
It hit me hard lol
Mans biggest struggle isn’t finding love, mans biggest struggle is knowing where to put his fucking arms
Don’t cross them.
Fax
@@haroldinho9930 or u’ll seem “intimidating” looll
@@rednaxx3 and not open.
@@haroldinho9930 lool this guy knows
Hey, Jose has I've been watching you for about 5 years and I love your content. I've been wondering if you could make ESNTL available in Europe? Keep up the good work man❤️
I really like the Dark purple shirt you had on Jose, I'm definitely going to buy that color the next time I'm buying a Shirt. It's a secret weapon in a wardrobe
What brand is that shirt?
@@gamerparadise4610 I don't know
This is Guy is good at what he does, and for a yank he's likable for a change without being OTT , definitely take note and listen he's a expert for sure
Jose’s advice over the years has literally helped me be a better man👏🏾👏🏾💜
#1. You need to relax.
#2. Make the first contact (approach the girl).
#3. Dress to impress.
#4. Be straightforward with intentions.
#5. Make her drop her guard.
#6. Start talking to girls you aren’t attracted to. (To get you desensitized to be able talk to attractive girls you do find attractive).
#7. Leave on a high note.
I just love the IMMACULATE ENERGY at no.4
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Sometime I feel like I'm the real Stan of Jose but the comments say otherwise....guys let's get interactive in the comment section...lets quote him word to word ...let's celebrate the living legend!
"You'll probably die alone if you wait for a girl to approach you "
Me on my death bed:"hello?"
There are more tips here th-cam.com/video/-v7GNAI7twM/w-d-xo.html
I also felt that😂😂
😂😂😂
I was looking for this comment ahahahah
I swear I was like "Wait girls approach guys?.. Oh nvm.."
Right 😂😭😭😭😂
Let's take the time to appreciate all the BROLL from the team! 😁
haha finally u didnt get a heart
Didn't know someone was keeping track 🤣
I watched Jose for so long ik when his ads are gonna start 😂
Man I've been watching your videos since I was 13 and now you made me build confidence to another level thank you 🌹🙏❤God bless you
Because you can be 14 now and ur 14th birthday was yesterday and u started to watch his videos the day before ur birthday... So you've been watching his videos for a day😂😂😂
@@krisk9517 no it's Asually been three years Now so yeah
Jose doesn't stop making fire content 🔝🔝
I work at a boating company on weekends. We have some beautiful women who walk through our docks since it’s downtown Chicago, both single and taken. I made it a habit to give at least 10 compliments to the people coming onboard or just walking around. Now, I can flirt with any women without seeming like I’m trying hard, and I get to really be selective of who I hang with on off days. Instead of being with the first girl that says yes, I have a whole pool of candidates that I can really think “who do I really want to get to know” instead of who I’m just tryna get at
Jose is a Demi god when it comes to marketing. Before he even went into the sponsor, I was keyed in on his chain. Like laser focused. He wore the right colored shirt to make the chain pop
6:33 and 8:00
Are the tips I want!
And I know, only Jose could state these coz.. he spits facts!
Thanks Jose! ❤️
A more in depth video on those tips th-cam.com/video/-v7GNAI7twM/w-d-xo.html
"And you do this by talking to ugly girls"😭💔 I'm done brooooo 🤣 he has no filter
He speaks facts 💯
He is spitting real facts though
Yeah yeah Jose is back 💪🏻🔥
I just received my rose gold black orders today... really good quality...a little smaller than what im used to with the necklaces ...but im glad to be adding a different variety to my collection
why are all ur tips always soo much on point
Finally I'll receive a like from Jose, btw dude you have helped me in ways you can't imagine, thanks for being here
Bro the bracelet looks sick🔥 and dude how you got so big forearms exercise for forearms and wrist?
cold approaching girls and get rejected knocks down your confidence - but approach a girl that shows signs she is into you and if she really is she will let you know and some will make it obvious like ask your name even offer to buy you a drink happened to me - make sure you get in shape look good and dress clean cut and walk with confidence King
Jose you're the real Superman
First here love your vids 💯
PERFECT TIMING
the last point is really smart and helpful . love you fam
Perfect timing jose
Thanks Jose I’m A 15 Year Old Man And I Appreciate The Tips From The Video
Thanks for being that big brother for all of us Jose. 🙏🏼
Exactly 🙏
If zose was my school teacher....i will never take a leave ❤️
Part number 7 just did the trick, thanks man your awesome 👍✌️
Jose you’re a legend bro just know that
I can't afford a rosegoldandblack yet,but now I know I need to get a necklace and bracelet jewellery to level up!!
😃😊
you can get cheap great looking jewellery from any shop or amazon - but you can still pull a woman with no jewellery and a cheap watch
It's crazy how i followed everything Jose have advised and now i have this girl obsessed over me
So here jose is basically talking about himself, that how he act around girls.
Isn't he talking about this guy ?
th-cam.com/video/-v7GNAI7twM/w-d-xo.html
6:32 Unattractive is better than ugly.... Nobody is ugly on the basis of their looks..... Love from India ❤✨
This guy is really helping ppl
6 ! Good idea ! You made my day. Thanks !
1. You need to relax and be comfortable around girls. Slow down your movements. Slow down your speech. Take deep breath.
2. You approach her and make the first contact. When you approach her first it gives you an upper hand. Beacuse in her mind she thinks you're a confident guy. Beacuse it's you who comes out of your comfort zone. It puts you in the power position for the rest of whole interaction. You probably die alone if you wait for her to approach you. Beacuse it needs courage to approach strangers and talk and women don't have that courage. 99% of time women want men to approach them. Biologically men are Hunters and women just sit there waiting for the right man to come.
3. Dress to impress. Because the first thing a girl noticed is how you look overall. Your body, face, features, your build, your dressing style, your grooming, your skin, your hairstyle, your hygiene, your shoes, your accessories, your countenance, your posture, your confidence, your gait, your body language, your movements, your approach, your voice, etc.
4. Be straightforward. Let her know your intentions in the first interaction. The first thing she know about you is your intentions. Communicate it effectively through your eye contact and body language. Don't be hesitant about it. Be a man of no hesitation. Be a man of confidence who knows what he wants and not afraid of going out and getting that and also convey it indirectly through words by complimenting her physically. Don't follow the friend first approach. You'll end up in her friend zone like other hundreds of idiots. She's human too. She's has sexual Desires too.
5. Touch her. Tease her. Banter her. Be playful with her. And watch her reaction and then proceed accordingly. Or simply say. You're pretty. I want to take you on a date. That type of straight forwardness, dominance and assertiveness is what most women are not accustomed to.
6. Let her drop her guard and inhibitions. Make her comfortable and safe by making her laugh. So that there's no barrier in front of her like her bag or books or crossed arms.
7. Practise your talking by talking to ugly girls in whom you've no interest. Hone your talking skills with them. And you realise its no big deal and you've it under your control. Remember girls are human too. So they aren't perfect. Each one have her own set of insecurities, flaws, nervousness.
8. Once you approach her. Talk to her. Then end on high note. Make any excuse and say her you've to go.
Eyyy we back to Rose Gold and Black sponsor
Finally he is back!!!
I talk to girls i’m not attracted to at all at work lol . It’s all true what he saying . Especially the leave on a high note one. 👏
4:49. Add end point. You're welcome! FYI! Jewelry isn't really require, it's all about being physically fit, being fun, and just being positive about life. Most of all! Remember! Looks matter! If you're fat and unattractive, not at your best, everything that Jose stated in this video is useless. It's the difference between being seen as a sexual potential versus a friendzone. Facts!
No one is ugly ,everyone have different opinions
Got my Rose, Gold and Black necklace 3 days ago. Looks awesome
Thanks for this Jose
still waiting on my rose gold and black order from march…
I just started a new job with a bunch of girls and this video came so in clutch man , Jose you the man💯💯
Jose: one of the best ways to do this is with jewelry
Me: ahhhh new rose gold and black
Lit content like always
I've been waiting for this video for over a decade!
Man I wish I found this channel 3 months ago.I would have a chance with my crush but its all over now:(
Move on. There are plenty of girls who will fit you.
Notification gang ‼️💯
But the notification comes 12 hours late 😪
We need a video with tittle: how to be JOE❤️❤️❤️
Jose thanks for the advice frfr GOD Bless You homie GOD First always and keep praying to GOD
“You get awkward” hey man you didn’t have to call me out like that 🥲
Who else searches for the time stamp comments but watch the videos to support Jose
Lmaoooo, I love how he just says, start talking to “ugly girls” 😂😂😂😂
But it's facts though when you're not attracted to them you don't place high expectations on yourself to get them to like you
🤩🤩 thanks jose
Your dad bought you a chain at age 5😲😲thats soo cool
Thank you brother
I'm getting a Necklace tomorrow guys
Wish me well 😎
0:58 “jus say it” voice crackkkk lmao just joking with y’all plz don’t take it personal 😂
That’s funny af
See.....don't be fake before Girls or Women, always be yourself, there's always a Right person for you in this Earth
"Be yourself." So people are just dickheads and need to change.
You the best bro💯💯
Each time you talk real positive about rosegold and black yet I ordered once from them and the bracelet broke within two months and after trying to get in contact for 2 months through every option they have they still didn't react.
I agree you should approach her if you like her, but I hate the culture surrounding it. I just get rubbed the wrong way that girls get to just wait for everyone to flock to them like they're treasure and we're all just options for them. It'd be nice if it was just equal and everyone just approached who they liked and make it casual rather than this whole power dynamic and chasing game. It's next to impossible to approach without looking desperate. I feel like if you approach you're giving them the upper hand by giving them the choice to choose or reject you. Like you're on their time
Drop that hair routine Jose, ASAP🙏🙏🙏
Here for my techniques, we are rolling on well
One of the best videos💥
Hi Jose - I LUV the way you are dressing nowadays in videos
Loose T-shirt 😎
This Man is fucking HERO
You said dress right but I can’t find my favorite shirt 😞. I have to buy another this weekend
Very correct 💯 tips i can vouch for these
TBH jose has saved my life my brother
I’m married now but when I was single I never had to approach a woman, never, they all came running to me, Or their friend alerted me as to their interest, boy I miss those days, thank my parents for good genetics.
Keep going man
We still far about being huge but keep going
Love you brother , Iam your big fan❤️
Is that was a voice crack?? 🤣🤣🤣
BTW really good video 💪🏽💪🏽
Where?
I like your T-shirt Mann👌😊❤️❤️
Its weird when i have a gf conversation with other girls go smoother
When I have a gf which I do now. I get girls throwing it at me....mostly opposite when I'm single😂🤔✔
@@sly11benal7 yeh i also have that i have a gf and now even more girls wants me but when iam single not a single one 😂
Yess it's true if you talk to some ugly for a long period of time , you can automatically and effortlessly talk to a pretty girl 👍👍, it's happened to me 👍👍😘😘 I don't know the science but it works 😅
My man ❤🙏🏽
First comment 😂😂thank you bro
Jose: lets hop into it
*Number 1 just relax*
Me: *aight imma head out*
Love ❤️ from India 🇮🇳
Instead of mentioning them ugly, I think saying ' not so good looking ' is a better phrase to use